Any networking tips you've been using? Or better yet: embarrassing/horror networking stories? 😅 TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Intro 01:07 Key Takeaway from Video 01:25 Add Value from Behind a Computer Screen 02:23 Connecting with Ali Abdaal (Example 1) 03:18 Be Selective about who you Network With 04:05 Find Decision Makers (Example 2) 05:09 Set Achievable Goals 06:07 Quote from Simon Sinek
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Thanks a lot for the video ! This tips are really helpful. However, most key decision makers, people who are really high up in the organization, are not very active on Linkedin. Then how would you establish a connection with them ? Is there a way to get their attention via email, especially when they are used to having lots of people contacting them ? Most people tend to ignore emails when they are busy.
Thank you, Jeff, for sharing all these great tips! To answer your question: Since I’m shy and introverted (two beautiful combinations :)), my strategy in being visible in social networking is to be early. If it’s a physical event, I go early. If it’s a virtual meeting, I connect early. I’m not someone who can make herself visible in the crowd, and I shrink when I see too many people and a noisy room. The more I see space and few people who can pay attention to each other; they can see who just came, they can approach me and welcome me first; that makes me feel relaxed, comfortable, and stay engaged. That works well for me, and I hope that could be helpful to someone else :)
that's actually a GREAT tip Yasmine! Because if you're early you can "control" the environment a bit more. Fewer people are there and you're able to really focus on a topic or two at a time. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Yes, totally agree with your point! I personaly experience that my confidence comes from a self awareness, a self awareness comes from observing yourself. Focused on having the right people in your circle that could help you together reach the best potential yet still you in any ways. 🤓
Can't agree more! Self awareness is literally the start to knowing how best to navigate networking given our introverted personalities. And yes, our close circle of friends often serve as a launching pad onto exciting opportunities (be it in business or in life!)
It's really touching, Jeff! I'm a 100% introvert and it takes tones of energy from me to send a cold email for a coffee chat. I totally agree with you that we may not be good at socializing with 100 peoples in a industry event , but we are good at being thoughful and listening! No shame on introvert!
As an introvert, I've always avoided interaction, not to mention networking for business and potential work. I'm so glad I stumbled on your channel Jeff! I'm laser-focused on the goal this year 👋🏻📚
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Can't agree more! As an introvert, I found that socializing/networking with a goal is more comfortable than simply 'hang out' with people. I guess being more target-oriented also alleviates that stress.
Huge thanks to you, Jeff! I'm an introvert and all this networking is very stressful for me. And now I see that it's not a drawback, it's an opportunity to be creative in socializing and choose people wisely.
Stay introverted! I found this video not only practical, but warming for introverts. Networking is really a nightmare for me. I always had to re-energize myself alone after big events, but get values from networking as well. I really loved the last quote from Simon Sinek. Big thanks to Jeff for making this video!
Hi Novar! Thanks so much, and I'm glad you found additional value from the video :). I totally know that feeling - the day after a big event the need to just eat/read/watch videos alone and build that energy back. And yet we know inside that connecting with others is beneficial to our growth! Simon Sinek is amazing, been watching him for a few years now!
Yes, and as a natural extrovert, there have been numerous days recently when I've felt drained from interacting with so many people. This advice is applicable to everyone. Thanks, Jeff, for your guidance and support!
I (Elisa) totally agree with you, as I am a natural born introvert. The point is, here in Italy, people are pretty open and extrovert and pretend you to be the same. They read your introvertness like weakness or "you are not really interested in this or that" and do not really consider the effort we make to create connection. That is why I chose to work remotly: I do need time before an actual meeting in person, to feel "afe" and confident enough not to run away or get caught by a panic attack. Thank you so much for sharing this video Jeff :)
That's awesome to hear Elisa 😁! I hear you on the working remotely part. Don't get me wrong I love to hang out with my colleagues...just not all the time!
As an introvert, I have been looking for this kind of guidance for so long. Thank You Jeff (and youtube) for finally showing up on the recomended video, I hope I can cosistently apply the method that you have shared. Please accept my likes and subscription as a token of my appreciation 😊🙏🏻
Love your pro-tips! I've always being haunted by the negative idea of being an introvert and felt so regretful missing many great networking opportunities by avoiding socializing. You made me realize introverts can have their own ways to network and make impacts. And here I also want to share one more Really simple tip for all introverts - take the FIRST bold step, and you will realize networkting is not that intimidating. Thanks again Jeff!
That's amazing to hear Tommaso 😁, thank you for the comment! I hope this video has given you some inspiration on how to approach situations that you previously found tiring or difficult!
Jeff, I've been binge-watching your videos for the last 90 minutes, I wanna go to bed but I can't stop watching! I'm actually confused about my place on the introvert-extrovert spectrum after watching this video. I dread socializing, whether it's with new people, colleagues, and this may sound ridiculous but I would even try to push a phone call to my best friends or a visit to my relatives as much as possible and come up with the most creative excuses for not doing so. It drives my wife crazy because she survives on human interaction and she keeps nagging me to call people and meet up. So far, extreme introvert right? The funny thing is that once I'm in the social situation whether it's a phone call, a small gathering of friends, a company event, or networking event, I become a ravenous social animal! I would crack jokes, tell stories, be highly engaging and get this: I would actually leave having genuinely enjoyed myself! :D Sorry for the rant and I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to make all these videos and to provide such varied, useful and entertaining content. Have a great one!
Hi Mogendi! That's not weird at all. Although I have no scientific information to back this up: I believe it's because people like us (I'm similar to you in a way and that's why others would confuse us for being huge extroverts, since they only see that side of us), end up making the best of the situation we genuinely enjoy ourselves if it's a social event we find fun and exciting! We're pretty special, in a good way ;). And you're very welcome! I hope you like future content as well :)
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Thanks for the tips! The whole introvert problem seems to stem from the energy drain of having to find common ground with people, while talking about "the weather". It is much easier to discuss what one is passionate about, so that end quote makes a lot of sense!
Yes, All facts are valuable as you mentioned. I have something to add, I got to know this with my personal experience, before going to socialize in the real physical environment, try to start a UA-cam Channel to share your impression, viewpoint about what you are passionate about. It will help you to meet new people virtually and know each other. Good Luck Guys 🔥❤
Always high quality content! Thanks Jeff. I’m going through a recruiting cycle myself and this is very helpful for those of us who networking doesn’t come naturally to.
Jeff this is excellent! It is so important to remind introverted folks that they have passion and dedication that can be leveraged towards their professional goals. I teach an arts entrepreneurship course to college students and will definitely be sharing your message with them. Wishing you well!
Hi Jeff, love the pro-tip to avoid social interaction before any offline events! I usually do it other ways around. Clearing my calendar after every event so I can recharge.
Thanks a lot, Jeff! These are some great tips for an introvert like me who just started networking but feels intimidated. I often feels exhausted after attending huge events, or feels like I’m “acting” when talking to professionals.
Hi Tianyi! We definitely shouldn't feel like "acting" since that's a clear sign that we're not being ourselves :). Trust me, I've been there. It was very hard for me to carry a "fake" smile for 2-3 hours at a time. Hope you feel more confident after watching this video though? :)
Thanks as always, Jeff! I was really looking forward to (and needed) this video! And in answer to your question, I usually try to network with someone new at least once every one or two weeks to avoid draining too much energy. I would always prepare some questions beforehand based on what I found on their LinkedIn profile (just to give myself peace of mind) and, before the day of the call or in-person meeting, I’d make sure I have the day off and to myself so that my social battery is fully charged by the time I talk to them :3 As an introvert, I’d say the following-up part after the initial meeting is probably the easiest because it’s behind a screen like you had mentioned 😊 It gives us time to carefully write out a response and find a thoughtful way to add value which definitely plays to our strengths as an introvert!
Wow sounds like you have a strong plan going on there! How's it working out for you so far? And do you feel the "drain" and "recharge" times are in balance? Yes, just like what we're doing right now HAHA. An introvert's dream :)
@@JeffSu Thanks! And I think the pacing is working out pretty well 😊 Although, sometimes the convo can get a little awkward due to me being really cruddy at keeping it going 😆 Just gotta keep practicing and learning! Hmm, I’d say for every hour of socializing, I will need at least one or two hours of solitude to get over the “hangover” and to just mentally dissect the whole thing 😆 What does the drain to recharge ratio look like for you, Jeff? And would you happen to have any tips for preserving your energy and avoid burnout when at work or a networking event? (Potential video idea maybe? :P)
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Been watching your videos about job hunting for a while, and I stumbled upon this videos of yours. I was really shocked to know that you're an introvert! I feel validated of my feelings and inspired to know that someone with an awesome, smart, and charismatic person like is an introvert! I guess there's still hope for me.😅 Anyway, thanks again and stay awesome! God bless you for giving value to us.😊
I'm a bit introverted, yes. And I don't understand social interactions and they feel awkward to me. Your videos are really helpful. I already learned from my last informational interview that I may be mis-selling my experience (unintentionally whilst aiming for brevity). They said my application was "interesting", though. Which I was glad to hear. I really should have asked what was interesting. (I did spend a lot of time on the application)
Jeff, I am so glad I clicked on your video (well your channel in general). You've a lot of great videos that is helping me w/ learn how to better myself in my job search process. This video especially helped me as an introvert. Thank you!
Hey Jeff! New subscriber here, thank you for all of the valuable content. You have no idea how helpful it’s been in increasing my confidence during my job hunt.
Thank you for this guide, Jeff! This was very helpful and motivating for an introvert like myself. I absolutely resonated with what you said about always preparing what to say beforehand!
Hi Karmen! Thanks so much for this comment! I'm glad quite a few viewers were able to relate to my experiences. Hope you enjoy some of the other videos as well :)
Hey Jeff, it’s another day binging your content while working on career advancement✌️I love that you have practical tips how we can do “small” things but consistently to build up the connections, it eases the nerve! Can you consider posting a video for introverts who are in client-facing roles?😂 I am always super anxious and feel awkward when I need to do small talks with clients. I can deliver stuff well, but it would be great to establish a better client relationship in a more personal way
Hi Phoebe! That's a great idea! Will definitely consider that moving forward. Right off the top of my mind though I don't think there are (or should be) introverted tactics for personal vs. business. That seems to suggest we have to act a certain way in different situations, while in all honesty we should embrace our introverted nature and leverage it in all scenarios :)
Thank you so much for the tips Jeff! This opens up my mind a lot. I find it quite hard to network with people that I think would be helpful for my career and feel a bit frustrated since I dont know how to reach out to them (since I get awkward starting out a convo w/ stranger). But am glad to find this video of yours :)
thanks Jeff for another inspring video;D totally agree with the quote you mentioned at last, it's passion and dedication that builds up christma! I find some people being too extroverted/ witty at social events and somehow couldn'd feel their genuineness during conversation.
Yes! It's not great if we have to be "fake" during these interactions since that may not be the most accurate representation of who we truly are (don't get me wrong though, there are genuine extroverts out there and I'm jealous haha) but I do hope you feel more confident/comfortable after watching this video :)
Hi Alshaimaa! Thanks so much for the kind words, it really means a lot! Keeps me motivated to continue cranking out practical content :). Hope you enjoy future videos as well! 😄
Hi Jeff, I have just been made redundant and decided to You Tube 'Tips for updating CV' and you came up! Thank you so much for giving me the confidence which I needed, you have made me feel excited about the next steps in my Career. I am looking forward to listening to more of your videos. I can see this video is a year old nearly now however more videos on confidence would be brilliant, Thank you, Hannah
The question is: how to be an introvert and still work with people. You work with people, right? How you survive at the end of the day? For me, it's very hard to communicate with many people during the day, then with my partner and have some energy for my friends. Usually, I'm so drained that I'm dreaming about running to the forest 😅
As someone who scored 96% introvert on the Myer Briggs, this is a super helpful video Jeff! Great to see how you apply the 'Yes, And' in a real-life scenario. Do you have any suggestions on finding LinkedIn authors/posts that would be most relevant?
Hi Kai Weng! Yes I do - If you go to my "Advanced LinkedIn Tips" video you can see a trick to narrow down your search to ONLY people you care about working in the companies you're interested in. It's super cool. By the way I think I'm like ~90% introvert on the Myer Briggs haha.
Thanks for the great video. Yes, I can totally agree, and I always find networking difficult myself. It helps me a lot when I can deal with topics that drive me in such situations. I don't like too much interaction with strangers but when I have the camera in hand and I'm in my element it feels like I'm someone else who can then do all the things I might not otherwise be able to do. Difficult to explain but I hope you understand what ic
Hi, Jeff! Your advices definitely open up my thoughts about networking. As an introvert, thinking about talking with other people makes me anxious and insecure, but this (and other videos of yours) makes me feel like I can actually achieve/do something. I want to ask, would you recommend commenting/liking several previous posts at once to build a rapport with the other person? Would that be too spammy? Or do you recommend interacting with new posts instead?
Thanks for sharing my friend! It's a good question, my two cents is only engage when you feel like there's some sort of value (even support) from your side 😁
Hey Jeff, super informative and awesome video! Can you make a video on how to efficiently hunt for referrals during networking calls? As a fellow introvert and active job seeker, I find it difficult to decide if I should reach out for a referral during a call (depending on the vibe, role, personality of the other person, etc.), often overthinking whether doing so might harm the relationship I have built. Thanks!
Great video for an introvert like me Jeff! I have a question about your video production: How do you create your onscreen titles? They are awesome. Thanks
Very nice video, thank you. While not an introvert, per se, i behave like one because in my experience most everyone has proven themselves incredible. For example, the folks at the last company i work for who are the most active on LinkedIn, practicing what you mention here, post thoughts, content and sentiment that diametrically oppose their real life work habits. During the day, they avoid responsibility, waste team's time and belittle other's efforts. Then on LinkedIn, piggyback on positive sentiments from others about valuing employees, leading by examples and other popular simple management practices. No way I have the energy to seek out, follow and capitalize on such hypocrisy with yet more facade. And for the hiring managers and recruiters, well, i've worked in and along folks in this space as well. Everyone from the intern (who are shockingly often saddled with vetting applicants), Recruiters (i.e.salesperson), Hiring Managers (with no authority often subject to resource limitations and scrutiny from THEIR manager who is many times dysfuntional and incompetently preocupied with competing on trivial matters), HR VPs (who are caught in the middle despite holding a title of VP) and Csuite (typically Type A narcissists with gold-fish attention spans, ALSO competing with EVERYONE over trivial matters) so really hard to see the value in searching for such characters even though they are easily accessible. I'd really like to believe this is just my opinion from 1 or 2 bad company's examples but this is from multiple companies, micro (less than 10) and large (1000+), throughout the US over the last 20+years in a multitude of industries. Anyone with diverse exposure and background for more than 10 years experience nothing like this? Holla atcha boi!
Wow thanks for sharing Dave, I see what you mean for sure and there are always "bad apples" out there. I guess for me, I try to do my best to stay true to my values (not being fake) even if I notice people around me putting forth a façade :)
Any networking tips you've been using? Or better yet: embarrassing/horror networking stories? 😅
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Intro
01:07 Key Takeaway from Video
01:25 Add Value from Behind a Computer Screen
02:23 Connecting with Ali Abdaal (Example 1)
03:18 Be Selective about who you Network With
04:05 Find Decision Makers (Example 2)
05:09 Set Achievable Goals
06:07 Quote from Simon Sinek
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
@@ConsciousMomprener Awesome!!
Thanks a lot for the video ! This tips are really helpful. However, most key decision makers, people who are really high up in the organization, are not very active on Linkedin. Then how would you establish a connection with them ? Is there a way to get their attention via email, especially when they are used to having lots of people contacting them ? Most people tend to ignore emails when they are busy.
@@fleur257 Start at the bottom and move your way up :)
@@JeffSu Thank you !!! You're video gives me hope !
Thank you, Jeff, for sharing all these great tips! To answer your question: Since I’m shy and introverted (two beautiful combinations :)), my strategy in being visible in social networking is to be early. If it’s a physical event, I go early. If it’s a virtual meeting, I connect early. I’m not someone who can make herself visible in the crowd, and I shrink when I see too many people and a noisy room. The more I see space and few people who can pay attention to each other; they can see who just came, they can approach me and welcome me first; that makes me feel relaxed, comfortable, and stay engaged. That works well for me, and I hope that could be helpful to someone else :)
that's actually a GREAT tip Yasmine! Because if you're early you can "control" the environment a bit more. Fewer people are there and you're able to really focus on a topic or two at a time. Thanks for sharing!
I am both an introvert and very shy as well. Great ideas, thank you!
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Yes, totally agree with your point! I personaly experience that my confidence comes from a self awareness, a self awareness comes from observing yourself. Focused on having the right people in your circle that could help you together reach the best potential yet still you in any ways. 🤓
Can't agree more! Self awareness is literally the start to knowing how best to navigate networking given our introverted personalities. And yes, our close circle of friends often serve as a launching pad onto exciting opportunities (be it in business or in life!)
It's really touching, Jeff! I'm a 100% introvert and it takes tones of energy from me to send a cold email for a coffee chat. I totally agree with you that we may not be good at socializing with 100 peoples in a industry event , but we are good at being thoughful and listening!
No shame on introvert!
Exactly!!
As an introvert, I've always avoided interaction, not to mention networking for business and potential work. I'm so glad I stumbled on your channel Jeff! I'm laser-focused on the goal this year 👋🏻📚
I feel you Matt, felt the exact same way back in college. I'm positive you're going to do amazing with any goal you set this year 🙌
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Can't agree more! As an introvert, I found that socializing/networking with a goal is more comfortable than simply 'hang out' with people. I guess being more target-oriented also alleviates that stress.
Completely agree my friend! 😁
Huge thanks to you, Jeff! I'm an introvert and all this networking is very stressful for me. And now I see that it's not a drawback, it's an opportunity to be creative in socializing and choose people wisely.
For sure 😁
Stay introverted! I found this video not only practical, but warming for introverts. Networking is really a nightmare for me. I always had to re-energize myself alone after big events, but get values from networking as well. I really loved the last quote from Simon Sinek. Big thanks to Jeff for making this video!
Hi Novar! Thanks so much, and I'm glad you found additional value from the video :). I totally know that feeling - the day after a big event the need to just eat/read/watch videos alone and build that energy back. And yet we know inside that connecting with others is beneficial to our growth! Simon Sinek is amazing, been watching him for a few years now!
Yes, and as a natural extrovert, there have been numerous days recently when I've felt drained from interacting with so many people. This advice is applicable to everyone. Thanks, Jeff, for your guidance and support!
No problem!
I (Elisa) totally agree with you, as I am a natural born introvert. The point is, here in Italy, people are pretty open and extrovert and pretend you to be the same. They read your introvertness like weakness or "you are not really interested in this or that" and do not really consider the effort we make to create connection. That is why I chose to work remotly: I do need time before an actual meeting in person, to feel "afe" and confident enough not to run away or get caught by a panic attack. Thank you so much for sharing this video Jeff :)
That's awesome to hear Elisa 😁! I hear you on the working remotely part. Don't get me wrong I love to hang out with my colleagues...just not all the time!
@@JeffSu You hit the point :)
As an introvert, I have been looking for this kind of guidance for so long. Thank You Jeff (and youtube) for finally showing up on the recomended video, I hope I can cosistently apply the method that you have shared. Please accept my likes and subscription as a token of my appreciation 😊🙏🏻
You're very welcome my friend! Glad you came across this video as well 😁
Love your pro-tips! I've always being haunted by the negative idea of being an introvert and felt so regretful missing many great networking opportunities by avoiding socializing. You made me realize introverts can have their own ways to network and make impacts. And here I also want to share one more Really simple tip for all introverts - take the FIRST bold step, and you will realize networkting is not that intimidating. Thanks again Jeff!
That's a great point my friend!! Thank you for sharing 😁
Thank you, this is illuminating! I reached 41 thinking of being disadvantaged and envying extrovert people! Now i've got my point.
That's amazing to hear Tommaso 😁, thank you for the comment! I hope this video has given you some inspiration on how to approach situations that you previously found tiring or difficult!
Jeff, I've been binge-watching your videos for the last 90 minutes, I wanna go to bed but I can't stop watching!
I'm actually confused about my place on the introvert-extrovert spectrum after watching this video. I dread socializing, whether it's with new people, colleagues, and this may sound ridiculous but I would even try to push a phone call to my best friends or a visit to my relatives as much as possible and come up with the most creative excuses for not doing so. It drives my wife crazy because she survives on human interaction and she keeps nagging me to call people and meet up. So far, extreme introvert right? The funny thing is that once I'm in the social situation whether it's a phone call, a small gathering of friends, a company event, or networking event, I become a ravenous social animal! I would crack jokes, tell stories, be highly engaging and get this: I would actually leave having genuinely enjoyed myself!
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Sorry for the rant and I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to make all these videos and to provide such varied, useful and entertaining content. Have a great one!
Hi Mogendi! That's not weird at all. Although I have no scientific information to back this up: I believe it's because people like us (I'm similar to you in a way and that's why others would confuse us for being huge extroverts, since they only see that side of us), end up making the best of the situation we genuinely enjoy ourselves if it's a social event we find fun and exciting! We're pretty special, in a good way ;). And you're very welcome! I hope you like future content as well :)
I’m like this too.
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Thanks Jeff - You're the first person to give some concrete actionable tips.
As mentioned, anytime Zee! 😁
Thanks for the tips! The whole introvert problem seems to stem from the energy drain of having to find common ground with people, while talking about "the weather". It is much easier to discuss what one is passionate about, so that end quote makes a lot of sense!
Exactly right???
Yes, All facts are valuable as you mentioned. I have something to add, I got to know this with my personal experience, before going to socialize in the real physical environment, try to start a UA-cam Channel to share your impression, viewpoint about what you are passionate about. It will help you to meet new people virtually and know each other.
Good Luck Guys 🔥❤
That's a great idea!!
This video is so underrated 🥺✨ Thank you so much Jeff!
I think so too! Thank you my friend 😁
Always high quality content! Thanks Jeff. I’m going through a recruiting cycle myself and this is very helpful for those of us who networking doesn’t come naturally to.
Thanks D! Glad to hear this video was informative 😁Best of luck with recruitment!
As an introvert as well, I'm quite grateful to you for all that you have done for us to land a dream job 🙏🙇💝
👋 Hi fellow introvert! Haha. You’re extremely welcome 😊😊. Hope you have found value in the this channel’s content!
Jeff this is excellent! It is so important to remind introverted folks that they have passion and dedication that can be leveraged towards their professional goals. I teach an arts entrepreneurship course to college students and will definitely be sharing your message with them. Wishing you well!
Couldn't agree more McKenzie! Thanks for letting me know 😁
Hi Jeff, love the pro-tip to avoid social interaction before any offline events! I usually do it other ways around. Clearing my calendar after every event so I can recharge.
Before and after both work 😁
Thanks a lot, Jeff! These are some great tips for an introvert like me who just started networking but feels intimidated. I often feels exhausted after attending huge events, or feels like I’m “acting” when talking to professionals.
Hi Tianyi! We definitely shouldn't feel like "acting" since that's a clear sign that we're not being ourselves :). Trust me, I've been there. It was very hard for me to carry a "fake" smile for 2-3 hours at a time. Hope you feel more confident after watching this video though? :)
Yes, I wish this guy hits 1M subscribers by the end of this year.
Wait...just 1M? Just kidding 😉, thank you Ramesh!
Thanks as always, Jeff! I was really looking forward to (and needed) this video!
And in answer to your question, I usually try to network with someone new at least once every one or two weeks to avoid draining too much energy. I would always prepare some questions beforehand based on what I found on their LinkedIn profile (just to give myself peace of mind) and, before the day of the call or in-person meeting, I’d make sure I have the day off and to myself so that my social battery is fully charged by the time I talk to them :3
As an introvert, I’d say the following-up part after the initial meeting is probably the easiest because it’s behind a screen like you had mentioned 😊 It gives us time to carefully write out a response and find a thoughtful way to add value which definitely plays to our strengths as an introvert!
Wow sounds like you have a strong plan going on there! How's it working out for you so far? And do you feel the "drain" and "recharge" times are in balance?
Yes, just like what we're doing right now HAHA. An introvert's dream :)
@@JeffSu Thanks! And I think the pacing is working out pretty well 😊 Although, sometimes the convo can get a little awkward due to me being really cruddy at keeping it going 😆 Just gotta keep practicing and learning!
Hmm, I’d say for every hour of socializing, I will need at least one or two hours of solitude to get over the “hangover” and to just mentally dissect the whole thing 😆 What does the drain to recharge ratio look like for you, Jeff? And would you happen to have any tips for preserving your energy and avoid burnout when at work or a networking event? (Potential video idea maybe? :P)
That's awesome you got to connect with Ali! He was a large inspiration behind my channel as well :)
Right?? Glad UA-cam pushed his videos to me earlier this year haha
Thank you, Jeff! It was comforting to hear your custom advice for us introverts. I will definitely try implementing those in my career! 💙
You're very welcome, let me know how it goes 😁
Thanks for sharing this. I am an extroverted-introvert. I found my way to mastering networking, which I just shared on my channel with the hope anyone sees and field better.
Been watching your videos about job hunting for a while, and I stumbled upon this videos of yours. I was really shocked to know that you're an introvert! I feel validated of my feelings and inspired to know that someone with an awesome, smart, and charismatic person like is an introvert! I guess there's still hope for me.😅 Anyway, thanks again and stay awesome! God bless you for giving value to us.😊
Yea a lot of people don't believe me at first, but yea I'm a huge introvert haha
Three years later and I find this gem. I thank you! Any advice on in-person networking for introverts?
Practice small talk before going 😁
Love this sharing. Thank you Jeff. Everyone has a story to tell and share.
Thank you so much HueyLee 😁
I'm a bit introverted, yes. And I don't understand social interactions and they feel awkward to me.
Your videos are really helpful. I already learned from my last informational interview that I may be mis-selling my experience (unintentionally whilst aiming for brevity).
They said my application was "interesting", though. Which I was glad to hear. I really should have asked what was interesting. (I did spend a lot of time on the application)
Very glad to hear it Nate, I hope you find the other videos useful as well :)
Jeff, I am so glad I clicked on your video (well your channel in general). You've a lot of great videos that is helping me w/ learn how to better myself in my job search process. This video especially helped me as an introvert. Thank you!
Glad to hear it J&J!
Hey Jeff! New subscriber here, thank you for all of the valuable content. You have no idea how helpful it’s been in increasing my confidence during my job hunt.
Glad to hear it and thank you for letting me know!!
Thank you for this guide, Jeff! This was very helpful and motivating for an introvert like myself. I absolutely resonated with what you said about always preparing what to say beforehand!
Hi Karmen! Thanks so much for this comment! I'm glad quite a few viewers were able to relate to my experiences. Hope you enjoy some of the other videos as well :)
Hey Jeff, it’s another day binging your content while working on career advancement✌️I love that you have practical tips how we can do “small” things but consistently to build up the connections, it eases the nerve!
Can you consider posting a video for introverts who are in client-facing roles?😂 I am always super anxious and feel awkward when I need to do small talks with clients. I can deliver stuff well, but it would be great to establish a better client relationship in a more personal way
Hi Phoebe! That's a great idea! Will definitely consider that moving forward. Right off the top of my mind though I don't think there are (or should be) introverted tactics for personal vs. business. That seems to suggest we have to act a certain way in different situations, while in all honesty we should embrace our introverted nature and leverage it in all scenarios :)
Thank you so much for the tips Jeff! This opens up my mind a lot. I find it quite hard to network with people that I think would be helpful for my career and feel a bit frustrated since I dont know how to reach out to them (since I get awkward starting out a convo w/ stranger). But am glad to find this video of yours :)
No problem! Glad you found this helpful!
Thank you Jeff, I was nudged to started watching your videos and glad that I did!! Look forward to more.
Awesome, glad you enjoyed it! Looking forward to seeing you more often around here 😁
Currently I am using some of your pro tips to network on LinkedIn. I am not comfortable with in person networking at all, even "pre Covid".
Awesome, let me know how that goes Matt! :)
Trust me, in person networking was a DRAG for me even back in college.
Very interesting idea on leaving thoughtful comments on LinkedIn. Thanks :)
Thanks Daniel! The key is consistency 😁
thanks Jeff for another inspring video;D totally agree with the quote you mentioned at last, it's passion and dedication that builds up christma! I find some people being too extroverted/ witty at social events and somehow couldn'd feel their genuineness during conversation.
Yes! It's not great if we have to be "fake" during these interactions since that may not be the most accurate representation of who we truly are (don't get me wrong though, there are genuine extroverts out there and I'm jealous haha) but I do hope you feel more confident/comfortable after watching this video :)
Hi Jeff, I have to say you are different! Excellent contents, very practical and just to the point. Chapeau! Keep up the great job
Hi Alshaimaa! Thanks so much for the kind words, it really means a lot! Keeps me motivated to continue cranking out practical content :). Hope you enjoy future videos as well! 😄
Hi Jeff, I have just been made redundant and decided to You Tube 'Tips for updating CV' and you came up! Thank you so much for giving me the confidence which I needed, you have made me feel excited about the next steps in my Career. I am looking forward to listening to more of your videos. I can see this video is a year old nearly now however more videos on confidence would be brilliant, Thank you, Hannah
Sorry to hear about your situation Hannah but I'm glad my videos gave you confidence! You got this!!! 😁😁
@@JeffSu Thank you so much!
The question is: how to be an introvert and still work with people. You work with people, right? How you survive at the end of the day? For me, it's very hard to communicate with many people during the day, then with my partner and have some energy for my friends. Usually, I'm so drained that I'm dreaming about running to the forest 😅
I block out "alone time" on my calendar
As someone who scored 96% introvert on the Myer Briggs, this is a super helpful video Jeff! Great to see how you apply the 'Yes, And' in a real-life scenario. Do you have any suggestions on finding LinkedIn authors/posts that would be most relevant?
Hi Kai Weng! Yes I do - If you go to my "Advanced LinkedIn Tips" video you can see a trick to narrow down your search to ONLY people you care about working in the companies you're interested in. It's super cool. By the way I think I'm like ~90% introvert on the Myer Briggs haha.
Excellent video
Thanks for the great video. Yes, I can totally agree, and I always find networking difficult myself. It helps me a lot when I can deal with topics that drive me in such situations. I don't like too much interaction with strangers but when I have the camera in hand and I'm in my element it feels like I'm someone else who can then do all the things I might not otherwise be able to do. Difficult to explain but I hope you understand what ic
I know exactly what you mean my friend 😁
Now I see how mark Zuckerberg, an introvert made Facebook to Connect people. And thank you for the video Jeff!
Yes he's definitely a good example. Thanks Faizan!
Superb content, Jeff! You speak so well. I wish I could speak as good as you.
Practice makes perfect 😉, and thank you my friend!
Really appreciate this! Will attempt to put some of these into practice 🙂
Let me know how it goes 😁
Thank U so much Jeff for sharing this video, U're the best ❤❤
You're welcome! Glad you found it useful!
This is great. Thank you
You're very welcome 😁
Hi, Jeff! Your advices definitely open up my thoughts about networking. As an introvert, thinking about talking with other people makes me anxious and insecure, but this (and other videos of yours) makes me feel like I can actually achieve/do something. I want to ask, would you recommend commenting/liking several previous posts at once to build a rapport with the other person? Would that be too spammy? Or do you recommend interacting with new posts instead?
Thanks for sharing my friend! It's a good question, my two cents is only engage when you feel like there's some sort of value (even support) from your side 😁
I m from bangladesh, really good content and much quality voice, knowledgeable information. One day Your channel reach out of 1million subscriber.
Thank you Chowdhury from Bangladesh :), I hope so too!
Hey Jeff, super informative and awesome video! Can you make a video on how to efficiently hunt for referrals during networking calls? As a fellow introvert and active job seeker, I find it difficult to decide if I should reach out for a referral during a call (depending on the vibe, role, personality of the other person, etc.), often overthinking whether doing so might harm the relationship I have built. Thanks!
Have you checked out my other networking videos?
This video is amazing
Thanks Aldwin! I think so too 😉
Great video for an introvert like me Jeff! I have a question about your video production: How do you create your onscreen titles? They are awesome. Thanks
Using final cut pro!
Yes, totally agree and does it really work?😅
It has for me 😁
Yes, and I'm depositing my $5 in your virtual bank account :D
Hahaha thank you for the deposit! 🤑
你还没有红，简直没有道理
我也觉得 😏
Very nice video, thank you. While not an introvert, per se, i behave like one because in my experience most everyone has proven themselves incredible. For example, the folks at the last company i work for who are the most active on LinkedIn, practicing what you mention here, post thoughts, content and sentiment that diametrically oppose their real life work habits. During the day, they avoid responsibility, waste team's time and belittle other's efforts. Then on LinkedIn, piggyback on positive sentiments from others about valuing employees, leading by examples and other popular simple management practices. No way I have the energy to seek out, follow and capitalize on such hypocrisy with yet more facade. And for the hiring managers and recruiters, well, i've worked in and along folks in this space as well. Everyone from the intern (who are shockingly often saddled with vetting applicants), Recruiters (i.e.salesperson), Hiring Managers (with no authority often subject to resource limitations and scrutiny from THEIR manager who is many times dysfuntional and incompetently preocupied with competing on trivial matters), HR VPs (who are caught in the middle despite holding a title of VP) and Csuite (typically Type A narcissists with gold-fish attention spans, ALSO competing with EVERYONE over trivial matters) so really hard to see the value in searching for such characters even though they are easily accessible. I'd really like to believe this is just my opinion from 1 or 2 bad company's examples but this is from multiple companies, micro (less than 10) and large (1000+), throughout the US over the last 20+years in a multitude of industries. Anyone with diverse exposure and background for more than 10 years experience nothing like this? Holla atcha boi!
Wow thanks for sharing Dave, I see what you mean for sure and there are always "bad apples" out there. I guess for me, I try to do my best to stay true to my values (not being fake) even if I notice people around me putting forth a façade :)