4 dating mistakes in your 20s...while getting ready for a first date | dating for years & potential

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  • Опубліковано 30 жов 2024

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  • @lydiadaniel6298
    @lydiadaniel6298 5 днів тому +65

    Don’t stay for crumbs. One minute he is nice and the next minute he says mean things. That mean side is his real side. Believe it!

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +66

    And another thing, be confrontational when it comes to uncertainty.
    Ask him when you are not sure.

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  5 днів тому +16

      This. Don’t think you’re doing too much

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +34

    If you are yet to talk to him about his weakness and just fantasizing about when he changes, you’re dating his potential!

  • @Nice_Stephen
    @Nice_Stephen 5 днів тому +27

    Another mistake is Letting on too much information about your past hurts,traumas or family issues too early especially when you’re not sure or marriage is not in the foreseeable future cos boy! He’s gonna judge you like the Chief Judge of the Federation! If you have trauma, seek a therapist! He’s not a therapist nor a relationship coach so shut your pretty mouth🤭. Meanwhile your makeup looks so good Kamsi❤

  • @adelineoparah
    @adelineoparah 5 днів тому +17

    Kamsi even whispers of marriage is not a guarantee. Some men use it to hold you down.

  • @kamsinnamani
    @kamsinnamani  5 днів тому +18

    Hi my loves! Y’all loved the part 1 so much and requested for a part 2 so hope you enjoy!

    • @IyalooTwapewaN
      @IyalooTwapewaN 2 дні тому +1

      yes it was enjoyable, and very much insightful.

  • @MaryAgimm
    @MaryAgimm 5 днів тому +14

    14 years together is actually so crazy 😭😭

  • @yassinefall7540
    @yassinefall7540 5 днів тому +11

    You’re literally my internet big sis! Best in advice fr🙂‍↕️💕

  • @MissLulu7857
    @MissLulu7857 5 днів тому +9

    I can't date someone for that long oh my God 😞 6 to 8 months it's ok for us to know each other .👌🎉

  • @me_sheila
    @me_sheila 3 дні тому +3

    So spot on kamsi… all of it!
    I would love to also add : Don’t date because he wants you! You have to want it with him too… men have reasons and perfectly thought out ones at that when they ask you out… and if you do it for them not cos you also want it… it’s not a good thing and you might end up regretting it!
    Thanks for putting this girls up as always

  • @Fisayokareem
    @Fisayokareem День тому

    After learning from part one , my perspective towards relationships changed dramatically, and yeah it’s true talk is cheap, i stopped giving chances for stupid conversations ❤, thanks for making part 2 Kami ❤

  • @chiamakaenansofor
    @chiamakaenansofor 5 днів тому +5

    The point about potential is a great one. There should be evidence for where he is going 🎉

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +9

    Omo, I’m fine too.
    Your looks will not help in tough times of a relationship, so it’s beyond that!

  • @chisommaduoma
    @chisommaduoma 4 дні тому +1

    The way I needed this at this exact timeeeee😭

  • @FavourAyeEroesiri
    @FavourAyeEroesiri 2 дні тому +3

    The longest relationship ever was in my teens, and it was two years long. Since my 20s, 5 months, 6 months! I see the reg flags, I'm out.
    I see no reason for dating above 1 year aimlessly. By the 1 year mark you should be hearing wedding talks. I'm hearing people doing 5 years, 7 years. Howwww???

  • @storiesfromthemundane
    @storiesfromthemundane 4 дні тому +2

    Kamsi is really drumming it into our heads 😭😭, we'll repent ma

  • @Princess44_p
    @Princess44_p 5 днів тому +6

    The moment you have to even bring up that topic after a couple of years of dating means you shouldn’t even be with that person. Men know what they want… let’s be very careful because the way I keep seeing women in their late 20s and early 30s being so desperate is crazy…

  • @charityedet9210
    @charityedet9210 2 дні тому

    Your makeup ate!
    I like this chat, it is good Kam..

  • @josesfrankndubishi
    @josesfrankndubishi 2 дні тому +1

    Kamsi and factssss 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @sikeosezua6705
    @sikeosezua6705 5 днів тому +2

    I am already married but 100% agree with everything you said!! So on point!!

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  5 днів тому

      @@sikeosezua6705 aww thanks for the feedback 🥰

    • @sikeosezua6705
      @sikeosezua6705 5 днів тому +3

      @@kamsinnamani Thanks so much! I also want to say i am in my 40's and wish i knew what i know now but you knowing such important facts about dating in your 20's is really commendable. I enjoy your videos and learn a lot from you!! Keep doing what you do girl 🥰

  • @musesounds2444
    @musesounds2444 4 дні тому +2

    Part 3 pleeeaaaassseeeeee!!!!

  • @KeshaDesir3z
    @KeshaDesir3z 5 днів тому +2

    Men, friends can waist ur time. Honestly, someone can pretend. You just have to do what's best for ur life. Kids are a blessing regardless if things don't work out. Alot of the times we follow friends and partners and end up waisting time. Remember, life goes on.

  • @GinajonesFashion
    @GinajonesFashion 11 годин тому

    Part 3 please

  • @destinyjohn5128
    @destinyjohn5128 4 дні тому

    I personally loved when she talked about dating to long
    Much love Kamsi 😘

  • @Asmyyyyy
    @Asmyyyyy 5 днів тому +1

    I concur. Four years is great timing

  • @Life_with_Jan
    @Life_with_Jan 3 дні тому

    This is valuable content ❤ A part 3 please.

  • @Fisayokareem
    @Fisayokareem 5 днів тому +1

    Yayyy🎉 finally grab my popcorn 🍿 ❤

  • @josesfrankndubishi
    @josesfrankndubishi День тому

    I want a part threeeeeee please

  • @theresagarcia9255
    @theresagarcia9255 5 днів тому

    Standing novation for Kamsi and the sit down videos ❤. So educative. Shouting at us but in a subtle way 🤭❤️

  • @IniMc
    @IniMc 4 дні тому

    Kam is dragging my ears😂😂😂. Thanks babe!❤

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +4

    Except both of you have talked about it, (and there is something particular) once it is over 5/6 years. Like Omo!
    Infact don’t just accept to date anyone! Be intentional, date someone younger yourself getting married to.

  • @jehianeta9412
    @jehianeta9412 4 дні тому

    Your videos are always educative….. I love them ❤

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +3

    I’m going to watch part 1

  • @RukkyRich
    @RukkyRich 5 днів тому +5

    see dimple! ❤

    • @s0fire_
      @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +2

      @@RukkyRich I was looking at that too. It’s so cute and different, I don’t know how to explain that it looks so supple in her skin.

  • @ezinneonyemara9479
    @ezinneonyemara9479 4 дні тому

    Always on point ❤

  • @ArohFrancisca
    @ArohFrancisca 4 дні тому +1

    When dating a man dat normal telling u dat he doesn't have heart of forgiveness or even to forgotten, know regretting, revenge, know respect, malicious, hot tempered nd lack of understanding does dat person love u or care for u even to marry u can u still be with dat can of person with dis can of life style or thinking maybe he might change i need ur advice

  • @bibianokonkwo5782
    @bibianokonkwo5782 4 дні тому +1

    That number 2 struck me. I’m here contemplating if I should move to a new far away state after graduation or stay in a nearer state for this man. I’ve always wanted to move to this far away state till I met this man in my final year. I know that the nearby state won’t help my future! The far away state will help me 100x better. Am I crazy??

    • @kamoleballo8761
      @kamoleballo8761 4 дні тому +2

      Go to the far away state and better your future.

    • @Life_with_Jan
      @Life_with_Jan 3 дні тому

      If you have to, please move.

    • @FavourAyeEroesiri
      @FavourAyeEroesiri 2 дні тому

      You need help packing your things? Because girl, you better embark on that journey naow!!!

    • @africankenyan6089
      @africankenyan6089 День тому

      YES YOU ARE CRAZY!!! Please move to that state, please pack your bags and go. Don't put your dreams on hold because of someone!!! Trust me, if it was a man, he would have moved to the other town without confrontation his woman. So dear sis please go, if he is the one for you he will match up and follow you to the new state

  • @Maureen_Hyacinth
    @Maureen_Hyacinth 5 днів тому +2

    Believing in potentials is risky 😭😭

  • @Jennifer_ozumah
    @Jennifer_ozumah 4 дні тому

    Yes kamsi ,l have seen kids ask their parent ...how do you even meet daddy ?
    Or mom?

  • @yassinefall7540
    @yassinefall7540 5 днів тому

    Part 3 pleaseeeee

  • @rimayakubu
    @rimayakubu 5 днів тому +1

    Omo kamsi if I tell you my own mistake, you might knock me through your screen 😭🤣. Buh I'm so glad I moved on and I'm even happier cus I'm 25 and I was able to change on time .

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +4

    Your makeup🥰.

  • @josesfrankndubishi
    @josesfrankndubishi День тому

    “Your kids can’t pick their father, but you can pick your husband” this stuck with me! I’m still a 20 year old baby 😅 but this is really insightful. Thankyou Kamsi 🤎

  • @oziuzoma1817
    @oziuzoma1817 4 дні тому +2

    Its crazy how some women are giving men 5, 10, 15 years of their youth and also laying in bed with these men. I don't believe in sex before marriage its one of the reasons men do not take marriage seriously imo. Even if you decide to have sex as a woman have time limits in your head, don't allow things to drag that long I can even make excuses for some people who say oh its because they started as students but its too risky.

  • @mandyonunze
    @mandyonunze 5 днів тому

    I'm right on time 😊

  • @chukwudiutodimelu5524
    @chukwudiutodimelu5524 День тому

    Not me making pancakes and shouting “preach girl…..”

  • @lungelohadebe5859
    @lungelohadebe5859 13 годин тому

    I'm 32 and going to be doing my Law degree next year....I'll finish at 36. I'll be a 36 year old lawyer🎉...Oh and I left a weird relationship (bread crumbing)

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  11 годин тому

      Yaay! Love it for youu🥹🫶🏽

  • @Omotayo.Adeyemi
    @Omotayo.Adeyemi 5 днів тому

    Content creator🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🤎🤎🤎

  • @Rebeccasimplydoes
    @Rebeccasimplydoes 5 днів тому +8

    14 years in a dating relationship? Did such a female fall off the sky? No relatives to knock some sense into her?

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  5 днів тому +3

      🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly! Where were her besties

    • @s0fire_
      @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +2

      @@Rebeccasimplydoes 😂

  • @Hawaa-l1s
    @Hawaa-l1s 4 дні тому

    I need advice y’all so I’m dating this guy for about 5 years now honestly my tired is I cant I want to settle down cause I’m tired of being in a relationship for 5 years
    But the problem is he’s still in school 😢that’s what is holding us back I don’t even know what to do should I wait till his done

    • @ritaconia
      @ritaconia 3 дні тому

      Are you both in school ?? Or just him is still an under graduate??

  • @gyhiosimmian_
    @gyhiosimmian_ 5 днів тому +1

    This video helped so much❤
    Thank you Kamsi

  • @Maureen_Hyacinth
    @Maureen_Hyacinth 5 днів тому +5

    First here 🤭I need a crown 😂

  • @ogbajiuju
    @ogbajiuju 4 дні тому

    Thank youuuuuu❤

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +11

    14 years to figure out she’s your wife? lol!

    • @s0fire_
      @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +4

      A joke?

    • @MissLulu7857
      @MissLulu7857 5 днів тому +3

      For me 6 to 8 months it's ok to know each other 😊

    • @Jennifer_ozumah
      @Jennifer_ozumah 4 дні тому +2

      ​@MissLulu7857 6 month is okay
      14 years na course

    • @MissLulu7857
      @MissLulu7857 4 дні тому

      @@Jennifer_ozumah 😀👌

  • @MaryOzah
    @MaryOzah 5 днів тому +1

    First person to comment ❤❤...what???!!!!!

  • @Jennifer_ozumah
    @Jennifer_ozumah 4 дні тому +2

    A guy who was interested in me and l asked him a simple question "if you travel for my masters in the future outside the country will he be interested?" And he said NO
    SOMEONE WHO SAY HE WILL BE THERE ....
    i just dust my slippers 😅

  • @Asmyyyyy
    @Asmyyyyy 5 днів тому +1

    They are not making arguments, they are deflecting and making excuses

  • @Morgan00111
    @Morgan00111 5 днів тому +1

    please can you put part one link in the description?

  • @life_of_zizi
    @life_of_zizi 4 дні тому

    Hi Kamsi, so I want to ask a question. I’m 21 and sometimes I might be talking to someone and this one is like 23 but like he’s always buttressing on the fact that he also wants to be spoilt by his woman and just things that obviously a sensible woman should know. Should I just focus on myself and my goals ?

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  4 дні тому +2

      YES🤍

    • @bibianokonkwo5782
      @bibianokonkwo5782 4 дні тому +3

      Yessssssssssssssssss!!!!!! They way they’ll switch up on you after everything you’ve done eeh!!! You’ll be asking yourself if he loved you in the first place!!!!

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 5 днів тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @lookingforjoan
    @lookingforjoan 5 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @Jennifer_ozumah
    @Jennifer_ozumah 4 дні тому

    Part 3 please