"Stop Marrying For Love, Your Relationships Should Be Transactional" - Wisdom For Women From a Man.

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  • @LIGHTEDHEALTH
    @LIGHTEDHEALTH 8 годин тому +27

    Never lose your financial independence 👌 😊

  • @BridgetChikafa
    @BridgetChikafa 10 годин тому +9

    Hey my winnie just the intro that man is right 😂😂😂😂like he is on point thank you for bringing him he is a blessing to our elegant family

  • @PrudencePraiseEsinna
    @PrudencePraiseEsinna 2 години тому +6

    Who else saw the resemblance of him to Peter Obi ???

  • @MwiyaZulu
    @MwiyaZulu 9 годин тому +6

    Not yet done watching, but am loving it ❤❤ thanks for putting more light on love....

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 годин тому +2

      @@MwiyaZulu it’s my absolute pleasure Dear! I am so glad you find this video valuable.❤️❤️❤️

  • @christianausoro4593
    @christianausoro4593 5 годин тому +4

    If you're listening to this more than 3times please gather here.
    Winnie God bless you for bringing this Sir P T I here today, have really learn alotttttttttt

  • @ogebestogebest6021
    @ogebestogebest6021 Годину тому +1

    Thank you Sir, i always tell my younger friends to marry a Man that loves you not the Man you love.

    • @florenceeyabi6168
      @florenceeyabi6168 Годину тому

      You cannot please society . Most advice is based on people's experiences . If a man hears that he is being married for money and not love. They will still complain.
      There are very good relationship with people who love each other. They too will come up and say " marry your friend" .

  • @uzodinmarejoice942
    @uzodinmarejoice942 9 годин тому +5

    This was a fun session 😂😂 thank you so much Winnie

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 годин тому +2

      @@uzodinmarejoice942 it’s my absolute pleasure Dear! I am so glad you enjoyed watching!❤️

  • @anitababygrace
    @anitababygrace 3 години тому +2

    Sweetheart, thank you so much. I blessed the day I bumped into your page. I love you ❤

  • @UjayAhamefula
    @UjayAhamefula 9 годин тому +17

    Hi Winnie...can you please do a video on life advice for teenage females?

    • @Thisisbisola
      @Thisisbisola 9 хвилин тому

      Hi, could you kindly share your email address if you have one?

  • @junicnamome4639
    @junicnamome4639 8 годин тому +22

    Some one to like my comment 😂if love was real why did someone die when they broke his or her heart😂😂 thanks for hosting

  • @abimbolaelizabethomisakin9970
    @abimbolaelizabethomisakin9970 7 годин тому +2

    This episode is so valuable… I’ve learnt a whole lot from it . Thank you Winnie, thank you PTI

  • @HopeEdet-g9n
    @HopeEdet-g9n 2 години тому +1

    Thank you so much PTI l look forward to seeing more of your videos with Winnie ❤❤❤❤ Our humble coach

  • @divinelovenene7100
    @divinelovenene7100 11 хвилин тому

    Thank you so much, Sir, for unleashing your bowel of wisdom.

  • @Ghanevaedge
    @Ghanevaedge Годину тому

    Thanks Winnie for this valuable insight with PTI.
    You've encouraged me to keep thinking that way that marriage isnt about love but the value. I thought that i am being weird cos the environment I am in now is not the same way as my thoughts. God bless you for this impact on each and everyone's life, Amen.

  • @DeëliciousFds
    @DeëliciousFds 10 годин тому +2

    Thank you dear Winnie for always bringing important people with wisdom and important words in our lives ❤🎉
    Love you ❤

  • @chefritakitchen5298
    @chefritakitchen5298 7 годин тому +2

    Thank you so much sir, my eyes are wildly open now, I'm really blessed to hear wisdom from you ❤.

  • @realonebusinessschool
    @realonebusinessschool 8 годин тому +4

    😂😂😂😂😂 Winnie, this your episode is a banger 😂😂
    Your outfit is on point 👌
    Keep winning 🎉

  • @Symplyblessing
    @Symplyblessing 8 годин тому +1

    Yes, we want him back.
    Thank you so much PTI.

  • @Thisisbisola
    @Thisisbisola 13 хвилин тому

    Your content keeps getting better! 👏 Well-done Winnie! I’m here for the ride ❤

  • @AgathaOkolie123
    @AgathaOkolie123 8 годин тому +1

    Wow thank u Winnie ❤ this episode is 🔥 every woman should watch this. Thanks PTI this teaching is very important to me 🎉

  • @euchariaikegbule9467
    @euchariaikegbule9467 14 хвилин тому

    This mindset blowing talk
    Thank you Winnie

  • @angelamartekimarkwei8608
    @angelamartekimarkwei8608 10 годин тому +3

    Hi, PTI. You are welcome. Thanks for sharing valuable truths.

  • @estyonyi8153
    @estyonyi8153 9 годин тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤
    I can't wait to digest this meal 😋😋😋
    Thank you Winnie for always dishing out valuable contents.
    Happy Sunday to you and every beautiful and elegant personality here ❤❤❤

  • @SafiyaAbdul-s1h
    @SafiyaAbdul-s1h 4 години тому +1

    Hii Winnie
    Thank you sooo much for bringing PTI to share these valuable information with us. It was really insightful

  • @tsiambomshella9259
    @tsiambomshella9259 8 годин тому +1

    Knowledge is power.
    Thank you Winnie ❤Much love from 🇬🇧

  • @favourajuobi27
    @favourajuobi27 5 годин тому

    Thank you mama... and thank you for hosting Papa PTI. Thank you for sharing and rooting for us.

  • @ayodunni
    @ayodunni 9 годин тому +2

    I have been waiting for this video 🎉😊

  • @tobidurojaiye9014
    @tobidurojaiye9014 8 годин тому +1

    Thank you Winnie. This is really insightful. God bless PTI for the wisdom you’ve shared with us.

  • @Vickywhisper.
    @Vickywhisper. 5 годин тому

    I love this episode with Mr PTI ❤ I’m super exited with you Big sis for bringing this show to live.
    Every lesson understood 😊

  • @realonebusinessschool
    @realonebusinessschool 7 годин тому +10

    Thank you PTI for gracing this episode, in addition Sir. Financially independent women should understand that it might be difficult for them to find a man of their status that will genuinely want them for marriage because no man can withstand a woman he wouldn't have some little control over her affairs.
    Financially independent women can not be controlled and thats why they work so hard to become financially independent.
    So here's the solution - such woman might need to marry a loving, caring, and responsible man with lower income and might be willing to take up some domestic responsibilities.
    Thats one of the few ways she can get married and remain in marriage - to marry a man she can have some little control over and keep her family affairs private since it will be difficult for people to relate.
    The most important thing is for her to build a home where she can remain happy with her family.
    Sir, I will also like to include that love is real and it does exist but love means different things to different people.
    "My suggestion in the writeup is only for ladies over 30 and not applicable to ladies under 30."

    • @PhilCoolMath
      @PhilCoolMath 5 годин тому +1

      You nailed it ❤

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  5 годин тому +27

      I don’t quite agree with this comment Sir. A financially independent woman needs a man who is FULLY SECURE in himself and understands the value and importance of a woman having her financial independence.
      A financially independent woman has no business settling for anything beneath what she fully deserves.
      I have sisters and friends that are fully financially independent and are happily married to high value and secure men that are thriving financially in their lives as well.
      I personally am dating a man who is highly financially secure and encourages me to keep going after my own wealth.
      And why on earth would anyone want to have control over another human’s life? That’s not how God designed for us to function.
      A man that feels the need to control a woman no matter how little the control, still has A LOT of work to do on himself. He is obviously still insecure.
      So no Dear… I don’t quite agree with your comment.

    • @Vickywhisper.
      @Vickywhisper. 5 годин тому +2

      @@winniesschoolofelegance Big sis ❤ This why I keep rooting for you, never to be caught slacking off.
      Once you’re intelligent enough and bold is also part of being high value woman.

    • @Vickywhisper.
      @Vickywhisper. 5 годин тому

      I personally don’t agree with you too sir, like she already said it all .

    • @realonebusinessschool
      @realonebusinessschool 5 годин тому +2

      @@winniesschoolofelegance Yes, I totally agree with you.
      But just about 8% of the ladies are that lucky.
      Most dream men of every successful woman are usually focused and disciplined so such men usually marry once they attain some certain financial height and remain committed to their partner.
      They don't stay long on the shelf.
      To be honest, it's difficult to find a single wealthy man who will fit in for most of the qualities a woman wants in her partner.
      I also agree with the fact that we get in life whatever we have the courage to demand from the universe.
      Just that my own philosophy about life is to define what true happiness means to you and build your life around it, regardless of what people say or think.
      I believe we're all entitled to our happiness without owing anyone any form of explanation or apology.
      Thanks Winnie for this platform, it's really impactful, educative, and entertaining as well.

  • @nattemboirene5122
    @nattemboirene5122 6 годин тому

    Thank you Mr.PTI this is very enlightening.
    Most men we hear from re the toxic ones.
    Now this is from a true definition of wht a companionship should be not selfish at all

  • @PamllaA
    @PamllaA 5 годин тому

    Thank you Winnie..
    Thank you PTI (Your mindset is exceptional)
    The intro was captivating, it made me curious.
    I agree that women should have those conversations !!
    And I also advocate that men should have those relevant conversations on how to treat a women..

  • @coletteokoro9311
    @coletteokoro9311 8 годин тому

    Wow!!! This is soooo loaded! Thank you for organizing this Winnie.❤

  • @Reine.precious
    @Reine.precious 8 годин тому

    Wooosh! This was much needed, very valuable and eye opening. I was journaling while watching.

  • @anastasiaudembah8647
    @anastasiaudembah8647 8 годин тому +1

    Every point is on point especially no.8. Thanks you both

  • @blessing_amawhe
    @blessing_amawhe 10 годин тому

    Hello Winnie,
    Thank you for providing premium contents on this channel.

  • @NdeVictory
    @NdeVictory 3 години тому

    I want him to pour me more wisdom 😭😭😭😭
    Thanks PTI for the excess knowledge and thanks Winnie for bringing him

  • @susanugochukwu8792
    @susanugochukwu8792 6 годин тому

    Thank you PTI, there are so many things to learn from life, value indeed

  • @AmazingGloryhospitalityindustr
    @AmazingGloryhospitalityindustr 9 годин тому

    Happy Sunday family, thanks so much Big sist winnie for always adding value to us 🙏💖💖🥰

  • @MorninStarTV
    @MorninStarTV 3 години тому

    God bless you, Ms winnie... Mr. PTI, thank you Sir..have shared it on our family platform ASAP

  • @nazfav2757
    @nazfav2757 6 годин тому +1

    Thank you so much Sir,such an insightful episode.

  • @_motivate_me
    @_motivate_me 2 години тому +1

    PTI IS A WELL OF ACCENT WISDOM ❤

  • @Adurathedoctor
    @Adurathedoctor 5 годин тому

    This is a must watch, thank you winnie for this

  • @eltinamarfo
    @eltinamarfo 7 годин тому +1

    This is wisdom! ❤🎉
    God bless you uncle, God bless you mentor❤🎉

  • @matlidaarhin5930
    @matlidaarhin5930 6 годин тому

    Hello Winnie I found this video valuable and I wish everyone would watched and share. Too useful I wished I knew this before marriage. Anyway will share it.

  • @ogbuoonyebuchi7460
    @ogbuoonyebuchi7460 10 годин тому

    Haven’t watched it but I trust my big sister Winnie 😊too always come up with top notch people.

  • @uzodinmarejoice942
    @uzodinmarejoice942 9 годин тому

    PTI this was mind blowing like wow!! Thank you so much and Winnie thank you for this amazing session

  • @gloriasiriboe3613
    @gloriasiriboe3613 2 години тому

    Thank you sir for sharing this wisdom with us…God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @obindeborah1305
    @obindeborah1305 5 годин тому +1

    Hi Winnie
    I really appreciate you for being an inspiration and for always bringing value.
    Some of the things he said really made senseee
    But some other parts of the teaching was somehow bizarre( love is transactional).
    Anyways thanks 😊for always trying to share value with us

  • @adaku.nwokoro
    @adaku.nwokoro 7 годин тому +1

    Thanks Winnie Dear.
    This Episode is highly informative.

  • @maryannijeoma704
    @maryannijeoma704 8 годин тому +1

    Nice one. Very interesting and educating. Thanks winnie❤

  • @AA-tx3ed
    @AA-tx3ed 7 годин тому

    I absolutely enjoyed watching this. Thank you Winnie. Please when are you bringing Sir PTI back?. He is an epitome of wisdom personified. More of his guest appearances pls.

  • @thechristianperspective
    @thechristianperspective 5 годин тому

    Hi Winnie, i am watching from uganda....i have bias on people that are of age an unmaried giving marriage advise. Having been a victim in a church that had all pastors of age and unmarried, i saw many mistakes they made that kept all of us single until each of us had to run for their lives. When we left, its like the covering also left...we started dating and many are now getting married. I was dating one of those pastors and waited for him 6years but he wasnt taking any step....iam getting to the 3rd floor and he is 44now and still single....however i have found a God fearing man and pastor who iam planning a wedding with. Ama gonna tryna listen but i pray to the Holy Spirit that i am objective. Thank you for the video

  • @maryAmoduu
    @maryAmoduu 9 годин тому +1

    Right on time
    Great point 👍🏼👍🏼

    • @maryAmoduu
      @maryAmoduu 9 годин тому

      Thanks for bringing him Ms Winnie 🥰

  • @kellymeg5561
    @kellymeg5561 7 годин тому

    Thank you so much PTI and Winny❤

  • @ThevoiceofAnna
    @ThevoiceofAnna 10 годин тому

    I'm here on timeeeeeee❤

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
    @limfenyuykinyuy4861 2 години тому

    Insightful.
    Thankyou for sharing

  • @Godsglory24
    @Godsglory24 8 годин тому +2

    PTI Thank you! You want to have financial independence and achieve some goals before marrying but society’s expectations cripples we women especially those of us in our 30s.

    • @Godsglory24
      @Godsglory24 8 годин тому

      « Time is going o, you have to look for a man and settle down » « have kids » Lord help us!

    • @realonebusinessschool
      @realonebusinessschool 7 годин тому

      Naturally a woman's responsibility is to prepare herself towards becoming a good woman for her man because her entire responsibilities are expected to be taken care of by her man but it's not like that anymore, things have changed.
      Meanwhile, finding a good man will make a lot of difference.

  • @AmakaEdoga-zr4wm
    @AmakaEdoga-zr4wm 9 годин тому

    Thank you so much Winnie,have learnt a lot from you.

  • @eluanasam
    @eluanasam 9 годин тому +2

    Thank you so much sir PTI ❤
    This video is insightful.
    My mum always remind me never to marry a man I love but a man I can respect. This video confirms it!
    And yesss…. There’s a strong stereotype that was laid at childhood. I truly hope every young lady finds this video.
    Thank you so much ma
    Muah 😘

  • @NdeVictory
    @NdeVictory 4 години тому

    You are also very valuable to us Winnie

  • @iemberwaribo7465
    @iemberwaribo7465 8 годин тому +1

    Thank you PTI

  • @kerenebuara2788
    @kerenebuara2788 9 годин тому

    The intro be screaming wisdom!😂

  • @ginikaoffiah5946
    @ginikaoffiah5946 8 годин тому +1

    Thank you sir for these words of wisdom

  • @odutayobukola651
    @odutayobukola651 4 години тому

    This is touching ❤

  • @Carol0110
    @Carol0110 10 годин тому

    I am here for the tea😂😂❤

  • @laurynososeh5305
    @laurynososeh5305 7 годин тому

    Thank you so much, Sir PTI❤️

  • @sandraamaka135
    @sandraamaka135 58 хвилин тому

    Thank you so much sir PTI

  • @sophianwosu797
    @sophianwosu797 9 годин тому

    This is so enlightening 😊

  • @RachealSalilika
    @RachealSalilika 8 годин тому

    Thank you PTI🔥

  • @connexchiwindi882
    @connexchiwindi882 6 годин тому

    Thank you for this teaching

  • @nakanwagimatilda6110
    @nakanwagimatilda6110 10 годин тому +1

    Hello elegant Winnie ❤

  • @mercyemmanuel6942
    @mercyemmanuel6942 9 годин тому

    Aunty winner, you are the best ❤❤❤❤

  • @MimieChimeodo
    @MimieChimeodo 8 годин тому +2

    My God I just got what I was looking for

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 годин тому +1

      @@MimieChimeodo oh thank God! I am so glad you found this video valuable.❤️❤️

  • @micky-bb2pz
    @micky-bb2pz 9 годин тому

    Here i am learning☺️

  • @Mankaabeckylovechemuta-hs8xk
    @Mankaabeckylovechemuta-hs8xk 3 години тому

    This is lovely

  • @oshodimistura3321
    @oshodimistura3321 9 годин тому +1

    THANK YOU 😊

  • @SisterDebbie324
    @SisterDebbie324 2 години тому

    Thank you P.T.I❤

  • @promisecallistus7016
    @promisecallistus7016 6 годин тому

    So Educating 🎉

  • @joyouscharity
    @joyouscharity 8 годин тому

    Thank you PTI.

  • @OMWING.
    @OMWING. 9 годин тому +2

    The table has been scattered

  • @ChinazorMarycynthia
    @ChinazorMarycynthia 8 годин тому

    Thank you PTI ☺️☺️☺️

  • @christianausoro4593
    @christianausoro4593 9 годин тому +2

    So demure and classy 😅😅

  • @nimscuisine1
    @nimscuisine1 10 годин тому

    I’m early today.

  • @ImmaculateKivecu
    @ImmaculateKivecu 10 годин тому

    Right on time

  • @kareemkehinde4082
    @kareemkehinde4082 5 годин тому

    Make I no marry person who I love! Thank you for the advice. Make I marry person wey I no like thanks again for the advice.

    • @Goodnessfoodie
      @Goodnessfoodie 3 години тому

      😅😅😅😂 confusion everywhere 😅😅😅

    • @okeabimbola4398
      @okeabimbola4398 58 хвилин тому

      Asin en
      It is well

    • @Thisisbisola
      @Thisisbisola 21 хвилина тому

      @@Goodnessfoodieit’s obvious he was speaking about not being driven by your emotions which is the “Eros(erotic)” kind of love.

    • @Thisisbisola
      @Thisisbisola 20 хвилин тому

      it’s obvious he was speaking about not being driven by your emotions which is the “Eros(erotic)” kind of love.

  • @DrRAJAkinola
    @DrRAJAkinola 9 годин тому +7

    Winnie! God bless PTI... You see these things are also scriptural clarity o but many twisted it... I promised myself that my kids boy & girl will know how to wash car, change tyre, cook, wash....as human survival....but in marriage now know the reason God gave you the physical strength as a man, so you can take over from your woman even though she can do it.... I grew up watching boys and I still don't know what's special about the male that's not special about the female.... Just know your strength... Be a strong feminine lady.. not just one stereotyped feminine lady.... i love this❤❤❤❤... Thank you always

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 годин тому

      @@DrRAJAkinola God bless PTI indeed! And thank you for all you shared too with your comment.❤️❤️❤️

  • @oluyemimary621
    @oluyemimary621 3 години тому

    Thank you sir and ma

  • @dorcasyawus-gu5do
    @dorcasyawus-gu5do 9 годин тому

    Hi Winnie....
    Thank you

  • @johnnyunyime3730
    @johnnyunyime3730 9 годин тому

    Nice teaching

  • @irenechivina756
    @irenechivina756 4 години тому

    Thank u PTI

  • @cynthiaokeke9444
    @cynthiaokeke9444 9 годин тому

    I'm early 😊.

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
    @limfenyuykinyuy4861 2 години тому

    Only confident men will want their women as you have described with these points.
    But insecure men will not want their wives to be more intelligent and financially independent

  • @christianausoro4593
    @christianausoro4593 9 годин тому +2

    God bless you P T I

  • @mizquincyquincy7584
    @mizquincyquincy7584 5 годин тому

    Thank you sir 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Theonlychychy
    @Theonlychychy 10 годин тому +1

    🎉first. Yayy😂

  • @Mabidemi
    @Mabidemi 3 години тому

    Kindly do a part 2 with PTI.

  • @barbarazhuwawo
    @barbarazhuwawo 10 годин тому

    Go girl😊

  • @NnajiJoyc
    @NnajiJoyc 10 годин тому

    Here we go

  • @Veradoo001
    @Veradoo001 8 годин тому +1

    Women are not created to Love but to submit
    Even the Bible says "Men love your wives and wives submit to your husbands.