Yeah, but who wants to have a sharp mind all the time? I want to be able to relax, have fun, and be cute. The problem is that a lot of people have negative vibes and insecurities they project on the rest of us the good people that make it difficult.
I know a black cat and she's so mysterious, sometimes she is so affectionate and sometimes she has no interest in you, she has strong boundaries, and sometimes you see her relaxing and other times she's nowhere to be found, off on her own adventure. Another thing i love about cats in general is how careful they are with their bodies/movements/where they place their feet, it's very elegant and you can see how much they respect for and care about themselves.
I’ve done that to those who wronged me. Believe me, they really hate it when you show you're not interested. I block them or ignore them when they say hi, and I don’t even look at them when we’re in the same room. Just make it clear how boring they are when they try harder to compete with you. Don’t compete back, show that you don’t care. They’ll end up blocking you and will no longer show up in front of you.
I'm currently doing this, at work. I'm Ignoring a crazy co-worker. It's making the person that wronged me, go crazy, 🤪 because I act like they are a 👻 ghost. I don't see them, hear them, nor do I react to them. It's so fun watching them try to, out do me, when I, literally, act like they no longer exist. 😁😆😆
I feel like there’s a difference between black cat energy and black cat/golden retriever dynamic. Someone can have golden retriever energy, super bright, bubbly, but still be the ‘black cat’ in the relationship because they keep their self worth and don’t chase, and the other person chases.
Why not both, right? 😉 It’s called knowing your shadow side. I’m an ISFP personality and we’re a perfect balance of both … as my shadow side is and ENTJ
funny, i got a black sphynx last year and she is so different to my other cats. She is so independent but everybody in my family wants her attention. I love her so much because she is so hard to please yet she is not asking for anything.Thats exactly why i love her, because i dont have to constantly worry about her like with my other cats, she gives me that peace to just enjoy her presence without needing anything from me (apart from food). Its so fascinating..
I love how you balance your advice. It's about setting healthy boundaries and valuing yourself, not being nasty to those around you. Your advice and insights are real, positive, and healthy.
Omg I’m literally yelling “yessssssssss” over and over to everything you’re saying. You’re literally speaking to my soul. A lot of women need to hear this video! Thank you 🙏❤️🔥
We don’t have to harden our hearts. That’s what society teaches, and it’s a wounded masculine mindset. Just acknowledging our true nature, the boundlessness of our awareness we are naturally less attached. We must realise our vastness in my opinion, not cut down our empathy, that is the weak way of doing things
I've just stepped into my black cat energy era, and I’ve become aware that only now I attract people with the same mindset as mine. I always knew in theory what I had to do, but I realized back then that I didn’t feel like I deserved it. Only now can I say that I deserve it, and I will work for myself to have everything I give to others. Thank you, Mae. Your videos have really helped me, and I wish everyone here the strength to keep pushing until they truly find themselves. 🦋
As a kid I had a black babycat...and my neighbour drove over her by accident as she sad. But as I remember she didn't really seem sorry for it. I was so sad.
Your nose really fits your face!!❤❤ I was scared if it could break your face's harmony but not at all, they did a great job, and you've picked the right option❤❤
Hi Mae, i wanted to thank you for all the advice you give us. I was the best i have ever been three years ago, but because of a few unfortunate events i lost my passion, my energetic and adventurous personality, and closed myself off completely. I want to get back on track, thank you Mae
I HAVE WATCHED ALMOST ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS. I recommend you to my friends frequently, you help us sosososo much. I am a teenager and your videos have helped me a lot through this process of growing up. Love you ❤❤❤
I just wanna say, this video was so accurate and so perfect. The solution that you gave to people pleasing and just preserving ourselves in general, that was literally perfect. Please stay this way, honest and sharing real life issues with practical solution. Its so refreshing to see someone talk realistically, instead of the usual "become cold and let them fuck themselves". Thank you Mae, this video was really helpful
This is my second video for me and I heard your story in the first one and it resonates because you’re not another man telling us about LOA or how to manifest. You’re first a person of color and a woman. Thank you for sharing with us ❤
Thank you. This was a helpful video/interpretation because you gave us ideas for meditation, reframing and visualization. A lot of other videos just talk the philosophy of it but I appreciate the homework! Def working the mountain meditation tonight.
Ik loving your explaination of this energy. Ive been working on embodying this energy so i can detatch from things and people this is clicking. Also your cats are so cute 🥰
Mae, thank you for sharing your incredible intelligence! I appreciate every one of your videos. I think I’ve taken it to a point where I hold myself so highly now, I have surrounded myself a mimic. Can you please make a video on people who constantly copy you, yet at the same time will disrespect and put you down in front of others. I had to cut that cord, I had to watch it burn! 🔥 I have reached my higher self and continue to drive for that but now I’ve found myself with a shadow- someone I thought was a very close friend to me actually just used me and continues to copy my appearance, hobbies, interests ect. It’s gotten to a point where I’ve considered a restraining order! ❤ Mae, I can’t wait to see your next video!
My pucca she the queen of the house and she knows it she 15 years old but has a strong personality my baby! and all the males cats in the house respect her and don’t mess with her.
Masculinity is, in essence, imposing ones will. The core essence of feminity is making things better: creating community, fostering growth, and increasing feel-good qualities.
"The trick isn't to harden your heart, but to sharpen your mind"
Which is so difficult 😭 I know I can get there in a few weeks but still .
Yeah, but who wants to have a sharp mind all the time? I want to be able to relax, have fun, and be cute. The problem is that a lot of people have negative vibes and insecurities they project on the rest of us the good people that make it difficult.
16:43 when she said "its not about what people think of you, its what you think of them" easiest way to get self-respect.
I know a black cat and she's so mysterious, sometimes she is so affectionate and sometimes she has no interest in you, she has strong boundaries, and sometimes you see her relaxing and other times she's nowhere to be found, off on her own adventure. Another thing i love about cats in general is how careful they are with their bodies/movements/where they place their feet, it's very elegant and you can see how much they respect for and care about themselves.
Black cats are the BEST animal on earth.
"They are limited" sounds so much more as an insult than "they're evil"...I love this.
I'm gonna use that ♡
I’ve done that to those who wronged me. Believe me, they really hate it when you show you're not interested. I block them or ignore them when they say hi, and I don’t even look at them when we’re in the same room. Just make it clear how boring they are when they try harder to compete with you. Don’t compete back, show that you don’t care. They’ll end up blocking you and will no longer show up in front of you.
I do this too
I'm currently doing this, at work. I'm Ignoring a crazy co-worker. It's making the person that wronged me, go crazy, 🤪 because I act like they are a 👻 ghost. I don't see them, hear them, nor do I react to them. It's so fun watching them try to, out do me, when I, literally, act like they no longer exist. 😁😆😆
Same here
I just ignore
I feel like there’s a difference between black cat energy and black cat/golden retriever dynamic. Someone can have golden retriever energy, super bright, bubbly, but still be the ‘black cat’ in the relationship because they keep their self worth and don’t chase, and the other person chases.
Why not both, right? 😉
It’s called knowing your shadow side.
I’m an ISFP personality and we’re a perfect balance of both … as my shadow side is and ENTJ
funny, i got a black sphynx last year and she is so different to my other cats. She is so independent but everybody in my family wants her attention. I love her so much because she is so hard to please yet she is not asking for anything.Thats exactly why i love her, because i dont have to constantly worry about her like with my other cats, she gives me that peace to just enjoy her presence without needing anything from me (apart from food). Its so fascinating..
I love how you balance your advice. It's about setting healthy boundaries and valuing yourself, not being nasty to those around you. Your advice and insights are real, positive, and healthy.
I used to have that energy, but after years of hardship I changed, I lessened myself..
I'm turning back into myself and it feels so good ❤️
I adore the way Mae smiles when talking about her cats!!
Real it's so cute. Very fur mommy momentss
Omg I’m literally yelling “yessssssssss” over and over to everything you’re saying. You’re literally speaking to my soul. A lot of women need to hear this video! Thank you 🙏❤️🔥
i be watching her videos even though I'm a boy lol
@@EeanSenter lol you can still get good info. The level up is for everyone!
We don’t have to harden our hearts. That’s what society teaches, and it’s a wounded masculine mindset. Just acknowledging our true nature, the boundlessness of our awareness we are naturally less attached. We must realise our vastness in my opinion, not cut down our empathy, that is the weak way of doing things
❤
WAKE UP OUR GIRL POSTED 🗣️🗣️🗣️‼️
IM UP! IM UP!
I’m wide wake 👁️👄👁️
IM AWAKE !!
No really lol 🤍
She reminds me a lot of my black cat named Mia :)
Now that I stick up for myself people call me rude or ungrateful . No one gives a sht about my mental health and everyone feels entitled to my time😒
Congratulations! You took your power back from the people who was benefiting from it.
Disaproving a behaviour that is not convenient for them...oldest manipulation tactic ever.Stay centered.❤❤
They arent worth you mentioning them either
THE TIMING IS CRAZYYY
I've just stepped into my black cat energy era, and I’ve become aware that only now I attract people with the same mindset as mine. I always knew in theory what I had to do, but I realized back then that I didn’t feel like I deserved it. Only now can I say that I deserve it, and I will work for myself to have everything I give to others.
Thank you, Mae. Your videos have really helped me, and I wish everyone here the strength to keep pushing until they truly find themselves. 🦋
I have four black cats outside! 🤣
I need somebody to come get three of em! Looks like a black panther party! 😃
24:03 Cue the fluffy gray and white kitty walking into frame reminding all of us that we are not doormats. ❤
Girl I’m literally obsessed with ur videos, they help me so much
As a kid I had a black babycat...and my neighbour drove over her by accident as she sad. But as I remember she didn't really seem sorry for it. I was so sad.
Oh no I’m so sorry you didn’t deserve that
Your nose really fits your face!!❤❤ I was scared if it could break your face's harmony but not at all, they did a great job, and you've picked the right option❤❤
what surgery is it called that she got?
Rhinoplasty @@Lxstrqy
Hi Mae, i wanted to thank you for all the advice you give us. I was the best i have ever been three years ago, but because of a few unfortunate events i lost my passion, my energetic and adventurous personality, and closed myself off completely. I want to get back on track, thank you Mae
Thanks!
Me looking for more black cat energy video and here you are. Perfect timing!
I HAVE WATCHED ALMOST ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS. I recommend you to my friends frequently, you help us sosososo much. I am a teenager and your videos have helped me a lot through this process of growing up. Love you ❤❤❤
I just wanna say, this video was so accurate and so perfect. The solution that you gave to people pleasing and just preserving ourselves in general, that was literally perfect. Please stay this way, honest and sharing real life issues with practical solution. Its so refreshing to see someone talk realistically, instead of the usual "become cold and let them fuck themselves". Thank you Mae, this video was really helpful
Omg. Thank You for sharing all this. Thank You for existing ❤
Her voice her aura is just awe🔥☻
You completely deserve respect you are beautiful and resilient. Your kind words and love 💗 shine ✨. Your smile is so pretty
not your other cat being jealous!!! 🐈🐈⬛🤣🤣
This is my second video for me and I heard your story in the first one and it resonates because you’re not another man telling us about LOA or how to manifest. You’re first a person of color and a woman. Thank you for sharing with us ❤
I love the way you explain things
omg girl ur videos are too valuable to be on youtube
Yayyyy nighttime shower video to listen to!!!
These days I realize that I have this energy before this video ..i have a cat face , I like a cat black idol , my personality 😮.....,.
how it plays out in your life?
I js wanna say.. Girl some of ur vids (if not all) are so helpful to me & I love this channel! Keep up your amazing work
Thank you. This was a helpful video/interpretation because you gave us ideas for meditation, reframing and visualization. A lot of other videos just talk the philosophy of it but I appreciate the homework! Def working the mountain meditation tonight.
I've deadass taken notes 😂 adding this to my winter arc
My goal is to attract more women like you as friends ❤
Thanks for this
Thank you for your inspiration. I commit to transforming from a golden retriever to a black cat.
She posteedd, WAKE UP!!🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️‼️
Finally someone who actually has a black cat ❤❤❤❤
I stand right in front of the door till he opens it . 😂 I LOVE this man ❤❤❤
FREAKING PURR 🗣️🗣️🐱🐈🐈⬛
You’re beautiful inside and out. Great advices ❤Thank you!
Thank you for this video. I’m at a time in my life that I really needed to hear this. You helped me realize so much. Thank you 💖
Ik loving your explaination of this energy. Ive been working on embodying this energy so i can detatch from things and people this is clicking.
Also your cats are so cute 🥰
Your insight is refreshing! Happy 2025 ❄️☃️🕯️
Thanks for sending me messages the universe is trying to tell me 😭 she's screaming at me to let go but it's not the easiest for me
U are so beautiful inside and out especially making videos like this to help people 💕 💖
The most alluring type of energy.
I think I've already fan of this channel, I have to watch Mae Channel every day.
Thank you soo much I needed to hear it...
This video is amazing I love your content, you’re so helpful
THANK YOU MAE we all say in unison !
Very accurate , my black cat is Queen 👑🐈⬛
Mae, thank you for sharing your incredible intelligence! I appreciate every one of your videos. I think I’ve taken it to a point where I hold myself so highly now, I have surrounded myself a mimic. Can you please make a video on people who constantly copy you, yet at the same time will disrespect and put you down in front of others. I had to cut that cord, I had to watch it burn! 🔥 I have reached my higher self and continue to drive for that but now I’ve found myself with a shadow- someone I thought was a very close friend to me actually just used me and continues to copy my appearance, hobbies, interests ect. It’s gotten to a point where I’ve considered a restraining order! ❤ Mae, I can’t wait to see your next video!
Finally if someone asks me "what's you type?" I can answer. Keep doing what you do. お疲れ様🙏
I like these title. Let's see what this is about
This was a great video! Thank you so much 🐈⬛🖤🪄✨
You are dropping so many gems thank you needed this fr
Love you 🥰 light and love to all!
Love love your tagline..
Yeyy! Big sis posted 😊
Let people earn you! boom!
These videos are FIRE!❤
Thank You Mae!🎉
Clicked for the cat, stayed for the host 🩵
This is VIP area honey, yaaaaaaazzzzz ❤l💅🏽👑🥇
My pucca she the queen of the house and she knows it she 15 years old but has a strong personality my baby!
and all the males cats in the house respect her and don’t mess with her.
Mae you are beautiful. And I'm not talking about how you look.
I was told I have black cat energy and now I feel good about it knowing what it means
You are dropping some big gems Queen
I can't stop looking at you🥰
You were Tier 1.. Then I saw a black cat with you. Tier 1+. ❤
I love this and am all about this energy ❤
I'm so glad i found your content, really speaks to me. Im too nice for this world :/
Im LOVING your app 🏆🙌
points are always on 🙌
Let people earn u
Life should chase u not the other way around
I love you so much thank you for this beautiful enlightenment.
Girly I also have a Pisces moon and I loved this 🖤
Shes a professional yapperrrr🎀
Put red velvet ropes about you, then say "This is VIP area, honey!" my favorite advice in the whole video!
😂😂 when they fall down that mountain I wish them well ! 👋🏽 gooodbyeee that was so funny to me 😂
15:50 omg this is so true 😮
Oh god I sooo need this right now🥹
OUR LEADER HAS FEED US
That's me my whole life🖤 btw I love you Mae, we have the same hairstyle🖤
mae you ar being so consistent lately we definitely see it and love it 😍🤍🙏
Broooo no wonder ! I’m a Pisces sun.. very spiritual !
You look Amazing 🎉🎉🎉
needed thisss❤
It’s been 3 days he got over me in 3 days
Wow great video!
I had a black cat with golden retriever energy 😂 Point is, I became a black cat for him to keep him safe. I miss my sweet little derpy bean ♥️
Masculinity is, in essence, imposing ones will. The core essence of feminity is making things better: creating community, fostering growth, and increasing feel-good qualities.
Wow I needed this. 🐈⬛️
Dude, no wonder I like you. We are perfect opposites. I am Pisces sun,, Cancer moon.. 😋💌
Love this