PTW #97 - Dr. Orion Taraban - Understanding Value in Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 30 гру 2024

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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
    @EntrepreneursInCars  8 місяців тому +52

    In January 2024, Dr. Orion Taraban, from the Psych Hacks UA-cam channel, spoke at my 1% Forum event in Toronto, and gave this 1 hour talk which simplified the sexual marketplace, in terms of sailing, to help you understand value in relationships.
    If you want to watch the other talks from the event, get on my email list and they will be sent to you for free: entrepreneursincars.com/red-flags/

    • @abiodunokunrinboye4338
      @abiodunokunrinboye4338 8 місяців тому +5

      Just to mention around 5 or 6 seconds into the video you say January 2025 instead of 2024. Just wanted to bring that to your attention.

    • @spaceork6973
      @spaceork6973 7 місяців тому +1

      He’s in the future

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      All the Red Pill scene is just pathetic. Ok, for example, I despise dogs a lot. A lot. And I mean it. BUT. Do I write all over the internet how disgusting the dogs are? No. Bc it just pointless. I just avoid dogs and thats it.

    • @carloskleiber8500
      @carloskleiber8500 5 місяців тому

      Rubbish

  • @ackbuilder8262
    @ackbuilder8262 8 місяців тому +298

    Men are in love, women are in business. Men value love, women love value. Great show.

    • @jinnantonix4570
      @jinnantonix4570 8 місяців тому +14

      The most interesting part of this presentation is at the very end, where Orion reveals that the male passenger has only one thing to trade, and that is exclusivity. That is why female captains (and there are many today) eject their male passengers, because every male passenger can offer exclusivity, so it is worthless. In a competitive sexual marketplace they have nothing of real value to trade. Hence 50% divorce rate, initiated by 80% of women.

    • @Bag664
      @Bag664 8 місяців тому

      💯 👏

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +2

      Whine on. Its just totally pointless.

    • @Savvynomad225
      @Savvynomad225 7 місяців тому +6

      @@jinnantonix4570female captains are one of two things, unattractive or ineffective

    • @jinnantonix4570
      @jinnantonix4570 7 місяців тому +4

      @@Savvynomad225 female captains may be both attractive and effective, but then they will almost always sabotage themselves due to hypergamy. They will stop wanting to be a captain, and want to be a passenger, but only with a more attractive and more competent captain, who is rare and unlikely to want to offer her exclusivity.

  • @llittlegreyhound
    @llittlegreyhound 8 місяців тому +179

    I've said it again and I'll keep saying it loud, Dr Orion is a ray of light for people who have lost themselves in the modern BS that society feeds men.

    • @mrard1
      @mrard1 7 місяців тому +2

      Agreed!

    • @Savvynomad225
      @Savvynomad225 7 місяців тому

      Modern society feeds everyone BS because it sells and gets clicks. The men are fed doom and gloom about women and women are fed the same about men

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      All the Red Pill scene is just pathetic. Ok, for example, I despise dogs a lot. A lot. And I mean it. BUT. Do I write all over the internet how disgusting the dogs are? No. Bc it just pointless. I just avoid dogs and thats it.

    • @Savvynomad225
      @Savvynomad225 7 місяців тому +4

      @@marguskiis7711 apples and oranges. Do you have to work with dogs, do they vote? Can they make it so you get in trouble with the law if you say hi to one?

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому

      @@Savvynomad225 Dogs can easily kill you literally btw. I my country there has been several fatal attacks within last 5 years.

  • @davidavalos4256
    @davidavalos4256 7 місяців тому +21

    Orion is one of the few voices coming from the “manosphere” that provide a rational approach to navigating the dating world and life in general.

  • @jameskamotho7513
    @jameskamotho7513 7 місяців тому +35

    The ship captain analogy is the best thing Orion developed imho. Everyone understands it...

    • @bad.chickie66
      @bad.chickie66 5 місяців тому

      Stop using ‘imo’ or ‘imho’ it’s already obviously implied when you comment.

  • @aygwm
    @aygwm 8 місяців тому +59

    Orion is one of the greatest thinkers of our generation

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      Too much Red Pill crap.

    • @matthewbowers6178
      @matthewbowers6178 7 місяців тому +5

      Thats an egregious overstatement but i do like him!

    • @shinymew2887
      @shinymew2887 7 місяців тому +2

      @@matthewbowers6178who’s winning right now?

    • @brandondoss1151
      @brandondoss1151 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@marguskiis7711
      I think he is more balanced than red pill.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 6 місяців тому

      ​@@brandondoss1151 Orion is just a quasy Red Pill, he just is cashing in from the RP losers. As an ukrainian jew by decent, he is clever like hell. Actually he is very wise when he is genuine.

  • @comicallaugh
    @comicallaugh 8 місяців тому +74

    Orion, great to see you and Rich come together. I am a fan of both your and Rich's channels!

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      Orion just is about to cash in from the Red Pill jerks. But I believe, Ralph really hates the women a lot.

  • @DoctaJonesDoctaJones
    @DoctaJonesDoctaJones 7 місяців тому +33

    Orion is brilliant! Thanks Rich for introducing and showcasing him to the community.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      He is sometimes, but usually he is a Red Pill sellout.

    • @goldenremnant2610
      @goldenremnant2610 7 місяців тому

      @@marguskiis7711
      Example?

  • @just_alexk
    @just_alexk 7 місяців тому +10

    This talk has opened my eyes to so much. My life will definitely change for the better. I can’t believe how stupid I was (have been) for not selling myself out there…for not showing others what I can do……for not showing my value.
    Thank you sir!!! Wow!!

  • @SKBottom
    @SKBottom 8 місяців тому +53

    I'm really glad these two have connected. I've always considered them fellow travelers.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому

      The bearded guy genuinly despises women in general. Pure and sheer hate. Orion is just cashing in from Red Pill morons.

    • @alexrusso7517
      @alexrusso7517 7 місяців тому

      Are you a… fellow traveler ?

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      All the Red Pill scene is just pathetic. Ok, for example, I despise dogs a lot. A lot. And I mean it. BUT. Do I write all over the internet how disgusting the dogs are? No. Bc it just pointless. I just avoid dogs and thats it.

  • @mightymatt8548
    @mightymatt8548 8 місяців тому +40

    Relationships between men and woman used to mainly be about "how are we going surviving". Now they're about "how are going to have fun surviving".

  • @IfSemper
    @IfSemper 5 місяців тому +3

    Enjoyed seeing Orion's presentation. Thanks for sharing.

  • @starguy2718
    @starguy2718 8 місяців тому +64

    From a talk in January 2025...
    Rich, do you own a time machine?
    😄😄😄

  • @lordofthestrings_heritage
    @lordofthestrings_heritage 7 місяців тому +25

    This is top notch quality. Orion Taraban is brilliant.

  • @bigbob4621
    @bigbob4621 8 місяців тому +39

    Thank you. Now I finally understand where I f'd up. Too bad it took 50+ years and 2 divorces. However there is peace in understanding.

    • @BlakeMorarGroup
      @BlakeMorarGroup 7 місяців тому +8

      The good news is….you aren’t dead! Still plenty of life to live, now go live it wisely.

    • @dordtrecht5
      @dordtrecht5 7 місяців тому +2

      I, too, have multiple failed relationships and marriages. I’ve grown weary. I know I f’d up.

  • @robertpanes8179
    @robertpanes8179 4 місяці тому

    What a fascinating rendition of modern relationships from the king of analogies, all of which work superbly.

  • @Sergeezie
    @Sergeezie 7 місяців тому +4

    Psyhack storytelling and overall presentation in this was excellent

  • @benoplavunilkunathil1408
    @benoplavunilkunathil1408 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for putting out this gem. Keep up the great work!

  • @rogerblakely7453
    @rogerblakely7453 7 місяців тому +24

    "In the vast majority of marriages men are not the ones in power." We need to get this into our heads.

    • @josephhorswell4839
      @josephhorswell4839 7 місяців тому +2

      We need to change the power imbalance, put men 1st, & put women in their place.

  • @mw66683
    @mw66683 8 місяців тому +7

    Excellent use of analogies to deliver relationship clarity.

  • @superfleapilot7484
    @superfleapilot7484 8 місяців тому +6

    This was EXCELLENT Rich. I was already sorry I missed your conference, now it’s clear just how much I missed! You snooze you loose brothers.

  • @nisenor5059
    @nisenor5059 8 місяців тому +8

    Great collaboration, Rich. I appreciate both you and the doc for doing what you do. Cheers brother 👍

  • @billthebutcher6873
    @billthebutcher6873 8 місяців тому +13

    Yes, its called "A CONFLICT OF INTEREST" the saying has been around for over 100 years

  • @henrynankivell
    @henrynankivell 4 місяці тому

    Possibly the best breakdown and analogy I've heard for the current marketplace

  • @Codikas
    @Codikas 8 місяців тому +3

    This is my favourite of all of your shows rich, huge value in every one of these episodes. Thanks.

  • @MrSears_1.618
    @MrSears_1.618 7 місяців тому +4

    As a former Navy man, I approve of this message.

  • @stevec3526
    @stevec3526 7 місяців тому +4

    This so deep I will have to listen a few times.

  • @WhatShallEyeDo4U
    @WhatShallEyeDo4U 8 місяців тому +34

    I follow both channels. So much overlap when talking about relationships and the differences between men and women. This is going to be good!

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      Orion just is about to cash in from the Red Pill jerks. But I believe, Ralph really hates the women a lot.

    • @shinymew2887
      @shinymew2887 7 місяців тому +1

      @@marguskiis7711you’re so mad that you’re physically sick. I love it.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@shinymew2887 i am ok and happy.

  • @Carlos_Arizmendi
    @Carlos_Arizmendi 8 місяців тому +3

    Great show Rich. Dr Taraban is top G

  • @jeanluc.nguyen
    @jeanluc.nguyen 7 місяців тому +7

    The best and realest talk I've heard so far about male/female dynamics

  • @dawnfmEnthusiast
    @dawnfmEnthusiast 7 місяців тому +2

    Orion is a such a gentleman. Appreciate the beginning few moments.

  • @HedgeFundCIO
    @HedgeFundCIO 8 місяців тому +16

    Orion is a straight up honorable man. You can hear the integrity.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      Orion just is about to cash in from the Red Pill jerks. But I believe, Ralph really hates the women a lot.

    • @jameskamotho7513
      @jameskamotho7513 7 місяців тому +4

      ​@@marguskiis7711Don't you have work to other than commenting on all posts?

  • @damienbates
    @damienbates 4 місяці тому +1

    I think the key is to have a diverse set of skills and experience that will make you more valuable to a woman. Even women with successful careers will value a man on par money wise if he can add more value in most other areas of her life. They often want to give up the lead if she has a good leader in her man.

  • @whocarescrapsa
    @whocarescrapsa 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, Richard for bringing Orion on. This was very useful.

  • @paolocosmo6310
    @paolocosmo6310 7 місяців тому +1

    I could listen to this guy for hours-very insightful!

  • @spidey677
    @spidey677 2 місяці тому

    My mom has told me a million times “Marriage is a business agreement.”. My parents were together for over 40 years until death did them part.
    I believe her, both parties have to be in the business in wanting to make the marriage work no matter what.

  • @yurytarasinsky627
    @yurytarasinsky627 3 місяці тому

    Very interesting, awesome, thank You!

  • @vadzimpiuneu5954
    @vadzimpiuneu5954 7 місяців тому +1

    So good! Thank you for sharing!

  • @thechriswrobelexperience1809
    @thechriswrobelexperience1809 8 місяців тому +5

    Really appreciate the great video rich!

  • @demven04
    @demven04 7 місяців тому +7

    Just mind-blowing! Literally and figuratively, Orion Taraban is the king of metaphors

  • @ItalNico
    @ItalNico 8 місяців тому +2

    Hard hitting truths here. Thank you for sharing.

  • @mikedavid5071
    @mikedavid5071 2 місяці тому

    Alpha talk. Thank you. 🙏🏻

  • @WinstonCodesOn
    @WinstonCodesOn 8 місяців тому +8

    Being a captain is a stressful job. What does the captain receive as compensation for upkeeping that fascade 24/7?

  • @stevefleetwood7840
    @stevefleetwood7840 6 місяців тому

    Great work here Rich!

  • @billy5077
    @billy5077 8 місяців тому +21

    This guy put out amazing content

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому +1

      Too much Red Pill crap.

    • @cameron339
      @cameron339 7 місяців тому

      Versus?​@@marguskiis7711

  • @loseerich493
    @loseerich493 7 місяців тому

    Phenomenal session. Thanks Rich for posting this up.

  • @Voltaire7
    @Voltaire7 8 місяців тому

    This is amazing, the two guys, and the only two guys, I listen to about relationships are both on this video. Well done gents. 👍

  • @watuzi
    @watuzi 7 місяців тому +1

    Great lecture, I learned a ton about SMV. If only I had a ship. All aboard ladies 😊

  • @boxerfit-fitnesspersonaltr6151
    @boxerfit-fitnesspersonaltr6151 8 місяців тому

    This is great, my two favourite channels collaborating!

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama8950 8 місяців тому +2

    I always enjoy listening to Dr Orion. All I can say, is, I am sure glad I was a passenger, and not a captain. Obviously it’s the easiest role. 😂

  • @mdhazeldine
    @mdhazeldine 8 місяців тому +1

    The best content you've put out in months. I would actually be interested to hear you two debate some controversial topics. Especially if you hold different views. I'm sure you don't agree on everything.

  • @LPBensch
    @LPBensch 7 місяців тому +1

    This was the most comprehensive Orion talk yet. Extraordinary.

  • @wl6020
    @wl6020 8 місяців тому +4

    It helps alot if a captain docks with a super yacht.

  • @zabumbaman1828
    @zabumbaman1828 7 місяців тому +1

    Orion for the win!

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro 7 місяців тому

    Glad to see Dr. O in your show or speaking engagement Rich 👍

  • @TheSunBlaster
    @TheSunBlaster 7 місяців тому

    Brilliant lecture, thank you.

  • @waysofzen
    @waysofzen 7 місяців тому +1

    Excellent lecture... excuse me, I have to go build this ship!!

  • @arizona71189
    @arizona71189 8 місяців тому +2

    Orion is a sweet genius.

  • @atama01
    @atama01 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow…thanks Rich, worth your weight in gold

  • @patrickgillin6879
    @patrickgillin6879 8 місяців тому +11

    Finally!
    Content from the future 😮

  • @oooooooooooo2332
    @oooooooooooo2332 8 місяців тому +3

    Increible talk! If this does not open your eyes... you just were born blind.

  • @TornadoOfSouls777
    @TornadoOfSouls777 7 місяців тому +2

    Man, I wish I would have heard this 30 years ago...

  • @leebailey1220
    @leebailey1220 7 місяців тому +1

    This is the best talk I've heard in all my years on the internet. Wow.

  • @benakin9172
    @benakin9172 7 місяців тому

    Amazing video and talk

  • @mrbabyears
    @mrbabyears 8 місяців тому +1

    Another excellent vid.

  • @JC-gw3yo
    @JC-gw3yo 7 днів тому

    Words of gold here men.. And this will save men millions. Do these experts a favor and least buy their books

  • @yazhouzu6789
    @yazhouzu6789 7 місяців тому

    This is a very good talk

  • @NANGSGARAGE
    @NANGSGARAGE 7 місяців тому

    Very good video 👍

  • @chippychick6261
    @chippychick6261 4 місяці тому

    My Bob is actually Eastern European and is a true renaissance plumber man.

  • @RicksCafeAmericana
    @RicksCafeAmericana 8 місяців тому

    Great content. Thank you. Why did The Great Gatsby keep popping in my mind during this talk. Jay Gatsby is an eternal thought in our evolutionary psychosis.
    Interestingly, my current relationship is somewhat antithetical to Orion’s SMV framework. But that is not to disagree with him. I just found a hack or to state it more aptly, an alternative universe.

  • @Zero_Zero_Zero_Zero
    @Zero_Zero_Zero_Zero 8 місяців тому +16

    Feels like someone should tell Dr O that weirdos test drive cars for fun all the time, they even have a name for them in the car business. And,, shit tests literally exist to see if you are low self-esteem enough to tolerate shit tests.

  • @TheTrinirocker
    @TheTrinirocker 8 місяців тому

    I love this , can't wait

  • @matthewnorris203
    @matthewnorris203 8 місяців тому

    More things like this, please!

  • @ShriHemangBhaiBhatt
    @ShriHemangBhaiBhatt 7 місяців тому +1

    Awesome ❤

  • @anonemus5174
    @anonemus5174 7 місяців тому

    Fight against the lies and pressure. Take the Red pill.

  • @whocarescrapsa
    @whocarescrapsa 8 місяців тому +10

    There are so many phony therapists out there. I just watched a podcast where a wife lied to her husband about her sexual history and waits until their child is born before she wants to free herself from the guilt. So predictable and common. Dr John Delony managed to find a way to make it the husbands fault. I could not believe the advice being given to women. What a clown. Dr Orion Taraban is fair to both sexes and has great analogies in explaining concepts. We need more women listening to him vs that clown.

    • @marcoemiliovalle7708
      @marcoemiliovalle7708 7 місяців тому +3

      Delony is as blue pilled as they come. OT is the Real Deal, and extraordinarily insightful.

  • @mediversehealing1576
    @mediversehealing1576 7 місяців тому

    Very good!!

  • @Lou2Fresh
    @Lou2Fresh 8 місяців тому +1

    This is gold

  • @migueldds10
    @migueldds10 8 місяців тому +2

    Can you talk about how to Vet a woman? Traits that we should look for if we want a LTR?

    • @whocarescrapsa
      @whocarescrapsa 8 місяців тому +6

      That takes a min of 3 years even if you are experienced. You need to test the hell out of them. They are very good at putting on an act. They can do this for years but eventually get tired of acting. Only then you find the true person or monster. High stress situations...travel together and pretend you messed up the reservations and see how she acts. If she stays calm because she trusts that you will sort it out - you have a keeper. Very often you will see a dragon come out. When they ask you to be vulnerable...90% of the time they want ammo to use against you in the next fight. Make up fake insecurities and see if they are used against you. Very rare if they are not. Stay away from ones that need constant external validation. The moment you don't give it to them (a fight) - they are under another man who will. Good luck. I remember the days I wanted a LTR.

    • @matthewbowers6178
      @matthewbowers6178 7 місяців тому

      ​@@whocarescrapsaTbis has been my exact experience and very well said

    • @bwalsberg
      @bwalsberg 7 місяців тому

      Go live with her parents (if they are even together) for 2 weeks. How her mother and father interact is exactly how she will behave.

  • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
    @marriagecausesdivorce7540 7 місяців тому +3

    2 major themes: (1) Not every man is going to be successful with women. Some men are just genetically low value passengers or beta's. (2) Because women have college degrees and high paying jobs their standards have increased. Most men are unable to satisfy a woman's hypergamy. Hence declining marriage/birth rates.

  • @BC-kv8mg
    @BC-kv8mg 7 місяців тому +3

    It's very unusual for someone to sustain a metaphor for a whole hour!...

  • @thebatman8895
    @thebatman8895 7 місяців тому +2

    When a woman becomes a Captain, she will want an Admiral.

    • @megancyloneight9822
      @megancyloneight9822 5 місяців тому

      Well said.

    • @misterb5926
      @misterb5926 3 місяці тому

      But the Admiral doesn't want a female captain...Why would he when he has a great selection of female passengers that are easier to adapt to his program. 😮

    • @misterb5926
      @misterb5926 3 місяці тому

      But rhe Admiral doesn't want a female captain...Why would he when he has a great selection of female passengers that are easier to adapt to his program. 😮

  • @dumisanisibanda7772
    @dumisanisibanda7772 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Rich

  • @gameslinger589
    @gameslinger589 7 місяців тому

    Good talk

  • @karthikgunjal4537
    @karthikgunjal4537 5 місяців тому

    The point that going through tough things alone as a necessity for having a partner is bullshit!! You have to build connections like friendships and mentorships , which can support you during tough times. Expecting a partner to be your full time, only support is absolute madness. You cannot expect one person to be a whole village!

  • @jmonval5628
    @jmonval5628 8 місяців тому +1

    Richard, I respect all your work, cai I ask you.. what do you do in order to look younger? I mean, your skin is well care, so maybe you can advice or give tips about your daily routine, what you eat, train, vitamins..
    Saludos from Mexico..

  • @Joe-grado
    @Joe-grado 8 місяців тому

    This is so greate!

  • @TantraJames
    @TantraJames 7 місяців тому +3

    I would think female captains want male captains, not male passengers.

  • @uncled078
    @uncled078 7 місяців тому

    Extreme value

  • @ted2136
    @ted2136 5 місяців тому

    21:23 build a boat. Larn to sail become a captain

    • @ted2136
      @ted2136 5 місяців тому

      Plot a course

    • @ted2136
      @ted2136 5 місяців тому

      21:58 passengers

  • @rocstarang5747
    @rocstarang5747 7 місяців тому

    "Why?" Cracks me up everytime 😂

  • @fisayoadegoke2887
    @fisayoadegoke2887 7 місяців тому +1

    Every man should watch this

  • @JesusGarcia-en3pj
    @JesusGarcia-en3pj 8 місяців тому

    Greetings from the year 2024. What’s the future like?

  • @sgtstadanko880
    @sgtstadanko880 7 місяців тому

    "test the captain" Someone is going to be inspecting the life preserver equipment from over board on the stern side as well XD!!!

  • @arturosalazar4890
    @arturosalazar4890 8 місяців тому +3

    2025 this one is from the future

  • @mikemaksymec1334
    @mikemaksymec1334 6 місяців тому +1

    No wonder mgtwo is a growing movement. 90 pct of the women are single moms or boss babes.. game over.. also he doesn't talk about all the boss babes trying to steal the title of captain of the ship from you, cause society and feminism is encouraging this.

  • @migueldds10
    @migueldds10 8 місяців тому

    Are the videos of this event for sale? Would like to buy them. Thanks for the share Rich :)

  • @bwalsberg
    @bwalsberg 7 місяців тому

    A scenario that was not discussed is when the woman thinks she is the Captain also (2 Captains). Thanks to girl power and feminism the flight attendant sometime believes she can fly the plane or thinks that she can plot a better course. So, she boards your ship (that you have spent 10 years to build) and at any moment can take half of your ship and your crew (the kids).
    I realize that many of the listeners are just building their ships and looking for a passenger. This is an exciting phase and your judgement will be clouded. Choose wisely.

  • @kellyjordan6440
    @kellyjordan6440 5 місяців тому

    You just said "this is a talk from my conference in January 2025" Are you now making content from the future Marty Mc Fly?

  • @nickgood8166
    @nickgood8166 8 місяців тому +4

    Talk from 2025?