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My friend who I cut off harboured hatred in her heart for me. I could feel the bitterness in every critical comment and tense reply. Eventually after confronting her with genuine, vulnerable feelings of sadness and getting the full gaslighting experience, I realized how foolish I was to think I could change someone’s heart. If someone doesn’t like you for their own reasons, it’s not your job to try to convince them otherwise.
There are many who pretend to be CHRISTIANS. They're wolves in sheep clothing. We must pray for discernment & learn how to discern the spirit of ppl. We need to study the word of GOD Our Heavenly Father & know him for ourselves!!!
😢❤❤❤How I wish I could like this a 100 times. I am currently going through a divorce because of the emotional abuse and toxic relationship I used to be in. The fake Christianity is real and they will try to make you feel bad about wanting better for yourself, when you try to leave people like this.
I have been dealing with the unrelenting toxicity from my mother for decades. I dealt with it because she's my mother and she used it against me at every turn.
It is OK to say no..to say goodbye.❤❤ That to me is a sign they have welcomed evil and gotten comfortable. It is as Ms. Mack says not a job 4 u but it is a job for Jesus ❤
Have been removing myself a while from this cycle of family dynamics and toxicity. Not eas at times, but I am powering through it, though. Spirit is growing daily thanks to your CMM lectures. Feels like my personal therapist.
It took me up until 5 months ago to release my wicked relatives, I would continue to subject myself to their toxicity and I knew they didn’t not like me and I have forgiven, accepted , and now I’m healing on, Praise God!
I’m going to listen to this over and over again today! I’m asking for prayers from the wonderful prayer warriors today. Thank you Ms. Cassandra for being a true servant of God.
I had friend for over 10 years who i loved and i told her everything about my personal stuff as she came across as godly. But when a man broke my heart and my mum died she just ghosted me and then accused me iver phone of doing evil and Gid told her i made yp whole story about the man breakung my heart. She and i did have face to face meeting but after that day i was different to her. I noticed she talk down to me and play in my weakness and tell me how she hated women wearing eyeshadow as i sat there wearing mine and she told me i didn't dress modest , so when i turned up fir her church event in very casual clothes she was dressed up like a queen . She played me . I looked at her and smiled and thought its my heart they see not my clothes. Anyway she continues to belittle me and u confront her and i just told her im stepping back from the friendship ,she demanded i firgive her but would not take accountability of her actions . It wasn't about unforgiveness but i just woke up to her fakeness
Yup twisting the words of God and leaving out the other side that says leave them and I will bless you greatly….. that’s why you have to know scripture for yourself and never let people dictate your faith in the Bible or tell you about what you read yourself!
Something is always wrong in these people’s life everyday and they are inconsiderate.. Always using the sympathy card for everything..throwing temper tantrums and lack empathy.. they only see where they are coming from.. pretend to understand you for a short amount of time when you or something you have is of convenience for them..No thanks I don’t care who it is, these types of people will not keep gaslighting me and stomping on my peace
After one of relatives spoke down on me, and ofc lied and said I did the same, they told me and I quote “my back feels better after saying that”. Very sick person who doesn’t care if they destroy their life. They genuinely believe the devil and his lies that God is on their side. Honestly I don’t react to them because they’re not worth my energy nor are they in my life; they’re like a strange with a familiar face. They also love to jump at the chance to guilt me into letting them back in. They’re suffering as we speak; God didn’t let them get away with that. Thank you for this message.
You know what’s harder when it’s your own parent especially a mother everyone in that circle will try to make you go back no matter what let a father do one thing he’s banned
God Almighty❣️ Lord have mercy. Blessings from The Most High Divinity. Thank you for clarifying that. Honestly , I feel like I am repeatedly being choked and kicked in the head and gut punched every time some fool says forgive your abuser, the one that raped you, violated your child, stole a lot from you, intentionally caused you harm, lied on you etc. I pray to The Most High Ones for that oppression and gang stalking and defamation to end. But then again, it's usually abusive like minded minded drunk or stoned or envious fools that assist the abuser. Thank you Lady❤❤❤
What do you do when such an individual is your own father...and your own mother BLAMES and point the finger at you for not tolerating the abuse anymore, when you got away, because you could not take the abuse anymore? Gaslighting, in other words...It is exactly what happened to me. Toxic father delighting in torturing me, being unrepentant, non-stop abuse and when I couldn't take it anymore, left...my mother BLAMED me for getting away. Shamed me and said ''Look at you, you left exactly as you are, you resisted everything we tried against you.'' Full-blown toxic. And it is family, not a work environment or a boyfriend. :/
Take your PEACE and leave!!! Check on your Father and Mother...and assist them (honor them) with things that are needful if they are lacking anything or in their time of need...And give according to that which you have (from your time to money to any form of assistance) without making yourself become a prisoner of lack bcuz you have gone beyond your means. I've been in turmoil from being the victim of abuse and gaslighting from those who are supposed to be my family. Just a lil advice. ALWAYS SEEK THE MOST HIGH for wisdom and guidance!!! STAND STRONG!!!🙏🏽💜✊🏽
Thank you for telling us about the walls of our home. A friend criticized me because I had a picture of the nativity and some bibles in my bedroom and that made me finally address how she judged me in different areas of my life.
This was a well-spoken 21:07 message! I received this message in the name of Jesus! I needed this today! The unrepentant spirit is real with a lot of people. I don't want to be in that position.
Thank you Cassandra for this very important topic. You are a wonderful combination of funny and truth at the same time. I'm so grateful you share your wisdom with us. Sincerely, Rose Marie
This is why I’m leaving nursing. The verbal and emotional abuse I endured being treated like dirt on the ground I’m leaving and I don’t care what people think. The pain on my body. I can’t do it anymore. They find job in abusing others. One year in nursing as an aide and I’m through the low pay not worth it they feel like it’s okay to degrade others.the sane reason why I go no contact with my mother
How do you deal with someone who claims a diagnosed bipolar, but I think they have Borderline disorder. What I. Struggling dealing with is person. I’m their boss and I want to really tell them that I don’t give fuck about their feelings? But I don’t wanna hurt their feels at the same time.
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These topics are off the charts! Praise God. When people cause hurt or damage to others, they rarely apologize or repent.
I have gotten better over time,with letting TOXIC PEOPLE go,You must set boundaries and stick with. them..Great lesson. 🙏❤️
"I AM NOT GOING TO BE A WILLING PARTICIPANT IN MY OWN DEMISE AT YOUR HANDS."
Very true & I agree, Ms. Cassandra.
Thanks for the reminder.
My friend who I cut off harboured hatred in her heart for me. I could feel the bitterness in every critical comment and tense reply. Eventually after confronting her with genuine, vulnerable feelings of sadness and getting the full gaslighting experience, I realized how foolish I was to think I could change someone’s heart. If someone doesn’t like you for their own reasons, it’s not your job to try to convince them otherwise.
Let god deal with them.
Exactly. Well said.
So true, I just wonder why she wasted your time knowing that she was being cruel.
Love that last sentence!!
Amein
There are many who pretend to be CHRISTIANS. They're wolves in sheep clothing. We must pray for discernment & learn how to discern the spirit of ppl. We need to study the word of GOD Our Heavenly Father & know him for ourselves!!!
True, so very true. Discernment is key.
Example: my hairdresser.
😢❤❤❤How I wish I could like this a 100 times. I am currently going through a divorce because of the emotional abuse and toxic relationship I used to be in. The fake Christianity is real and they will try to make you feel bad about wanting better for yourself, when you try to leave people like this.
I have been dealing with the unrelenting toxicity from my mother for decades. I dealt with it because she's my mother and she used it against me at every turn.
So sorry, it’s a special kind of pain from a family member, let alone a parent. I know the struggle ❤
So sad but I understand since I can walk in your shoe.
It is OK to say no..to say goodbye.❤❤ That to me is a sign they have welcomed evil and gotten comfortable. It is as Ms. Mack says not a job 4 u but it is a job for Jesus
❤
I stay away from them. No guilt trip willwirk when i KNOW if I'm around them I would end up in jail.
I can relate, they are so toxic, you don't recognize yourself anymore.
Have been removing myself a while from this
cycle of family dynamics and toxicity. Not eas at times, but I am powering through it, though. Spirit is growing daily thanks to your CMM lectures. Feels like my personal therapist.
Pray and stay away!🙏
I'm 56 years young and I have never heard of IF THEY REPENT. Thank u 4 EXPOSING THE LIES that we were fed.❤😊
God prefers repentance he doesn’t want to lose his children that’s never what he wants for anyone ever. Imagine losing your child. It hurts him
But us we are told to leave to keep our own peace we’re not God
People from toxic place are family there don't have no remorse for anyone keep away from my family 💯 their keep doing the same evil all the time
It took me up until 5 months ago to release my wicked relatives, I would continue to subject myself to their toxicity and I knew they didn’t not like me and I have forgiven, accepted , and now I’m healing on, Praise God!
💯💯💪💪🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. "If" and only "If they repent, forgive them. Amen. 😇
It won't happen.
I’m going to listen to this over and over again today! I’m asking for prayers from the wonderful prayer warriors today. Thank you Ms. Cassandra for being a true servant of God.
Me too
I had friend for over 10 years who i loved and i told her everything about my personal stuff as she came across as godly. But when a man broke my heart and my mum died she just ghosted me and then accused me iver phone of doing evil and Gid told her i made yp whole story about the man breakung my heart. She and i did have face to face meeting but after that day i was different to her. I noticed she talk down to me and play in my weakness and tell me how she hated women wearing eyeshadow as i sat there wearing mine and she told me i didn't dress modest , so when i turned up fir her church event in very casual clothes she was dressed up like a queen . She played me . I looked at her and smiled and thought its my heart they see not my clothes. Anyway she continues to belittle me and u confront her and i just told her im stepping back from the friendship ,she demanded i firgive her but would not take accountability of her actions . It wasn't about unforgiveness but i just woke up to her fakeness
Yup twisting the words of God and leaving out the other side that says leave them and I will bless you greatly….. that’s why you have to know scripture for yourself and never let people dictate your faith in the Bible or tell you about what you read yourself!
Something is always wrong in these people’s life everyday and they are inconsiderate.. Always using the sympathy card for everything..throwing temper tantrums and lack empathy.. they only see where they are coming from.. pretend to understand you for a short amount of time when you or something you have is of convenience for them..No thanks I don’t care who it is, these types of people will not keep gaslighting me and stomping on my peace
After one of relatives spoke down on me, and ofc lied and said I did the same, they told me and I quote “my back feels better after saying that”. Very sick person who doesn’t care if they destroy their life. They genuinely believe the devil and his lies that God is on their side. Honestly I don’t react to them because they’re not worth my energy nor are they in my life; they’re like a strange with a familiar face. They also love to jump at the chance to guilt me into letting them back in. They’re suffering as we speak; God didn’t let them get away with that. Thank you for this message.
Amein keep praying 🙏
You know what’s harder when it’s your own parent especially a mother everyone in that circle will try to make you go back no matter what let a father do one thing he’s banned
You and your ministry has truly been a blessing to me. Thank you!!!!❤
To all of us.
Yes definitely true, thank you Cassandra 💖 God's great blessing be upon us all 🙏🎉
Thank you!! This message hit home today. 🎯
Kwiin of having NO resentment
EXACTLY! 🥰🤷🏽♀️🔥 BYE FELICA! ✂️ 5:28 #STALKER #BULLY 21:35
Ive been following your channel since i was 15 years old and im now almost 27. Aint nothing about your content changed. Soo down to earth
God Almighty❣️ Lord have mercy. Blessings from The Most High Divinity. Thank you for clarifying that. Honestly , I feel like I am repeatedly being choked and kicked in the head and gut punched every time some fool says forgive your abuser, the one that raped you, violated your child, stole a lot from you, intentionally caused you harm, lied on you etc. I pray to The Most High Ones for that oppression and gang stalking and defamation to end. But then again, it's usually abusive like minded minded drunk or stoned or envious fools that assist the abuser. Thank you Lady❤❤❤
Kwiin of NOT gossiping
Kwiin of freedom
I inconvenience myself several years ago, for a piece of mind.. I will not allow anyone to dimension my spirits..
Levicticus 19.17
What do you do when such an individual is your own father...and your own mother BLAMES and point the finger at you for not tolerating the abuse anymore, when you got away, because you could not take the abuse anymore? Gaslighting, in other words...It is exactly what happened to me. Toxic father delighting in torturing me, being unrepentant, non-stop abuse and when I couldn't take it anymore, left...my mother BLAMED me for getting away. Shamed me and said ''Look at you, you left exactly as you are, you resisted everything we tried against you.'' Full-blown toxic. And it is family, not a work environment or a boyfriend. :/
Take your PEACE and leave!!! Check on your Father and Mother...and assist them (honor them) with things that are needful if they are lacking anything or in their time of need...And give according to that which you have (from your time to money to any form of assistance) without making yourself become a prisoner of lack bcuz you have gone beyond your means. I've been in turmoil from being the victim of abuse and gaslighting from those who are supposed to be my family. Just a lil advice. ALWAYS SEEK THE MOST HIGH for wisdom and guidance!!! STAND STRONG!!!🙏🏽💜✊🏽
You leave them to their own devices.
Thank you for telling us about the walls of our home. A friend criticized me because I had a picture of the nativity and some bibles in my bedroom and that made me finally address how she judged me in different areas of my life.
Kwiin of having no strokes
Kwiin of not attending the emergency room
Kwiin of Health
Kwiin of refusing arsenic.
This was a well-spoken 21:07 message! I received this message in the name of Jesus! I needed this today! The unrepentant spirit is real with a lot of people. I don't want to be in that position.
Much needed word 🙏
Thank youuuu sooo much❤❤❤
I am adopting that opening song as my theme song. You see me walking down the road looking good and feeling great THIS song is playing in my head!!
These videos are always right on time.
Always on time.
I needed to hear this today!!!
Me too!
Me too
I'm sick of youtube deleting my comments. Thank you for sharing this video! It's appreciated!
Kwiin of No Stress
❤❤❤ that’s right ❤❤❤just shared on my channel ❤❤❤tuning in from NYC
Amen. Amen. Amen. Get the garbage out!
Thank you❤
Thank you Cassandra for this very important topic. You are a wonderful combination of funny and truth at the same time. I'm so grateful you share your wisdom with us. Sincerely, Rose Marie
Thanks forever!❤
I did and they still stalk...🤷🏾♂️...aint me at this point
Thank you!
This is why I’m leaving nursing. The verbal and emotional abuse I endured being treated like dirt on the ground I’m leaving and I don’t care what people think. The pain on my body. I can’t do it anymore. They find job in abusing others. One year in nursing as an aide and I’m through the low pay not worth it they feel like it’s okay to degrade others.the sane reason why I go no contact with my mother
How do you deal with someone who claims a diagnosed bipolar, but I think they have Borderline disorder. What I. Struggling dealing with is person. I’m their boss and I want to really tell them that I don’t give fuck about their feelings? But I don’t wanna hurt their feels at the same time.
Timely topic as I’m dealing with my toxic brothers. Thank you Cassandra for bringing the word to help us deal with life’s problems.
This message makes may heart free! Thank you
I'm sick of UA-cam deleting my comments. Thank you so much for sharing this video I appreciate it so much!
Ms. Mack, I am still Very Much your friend due to this video.
Love this ❤️ thank you
Im sure not
Like fff off shit got weird and now it’s different forever… period
My own daughter. And unfortunately, she has my grandchildren who have been cut off from me
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You're wise.
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