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Why do people want to make you jealous of them & in secret competition with you when you genuinely want to see them win and do good? It’s such a weird feeling
I can spot it as soon as I see it I stay far way from that person. I’m getting older don’t got time for drama 🎭 and toxicity I don’t mess with that spirit at all. A lot of people carry that spirit.
What I don’t understand is why do people continue to be that way well into middle age and even worse, into their golden years. When people get older they should do better, you would think.
Some ask lots of questions as if getting to know you. If you feel unheard or vulnerable, you will think they are showing genuine interest in you, but they're simply collecting info on you. Watch how they change in front of others versus when it's just the two of you. They may expose your weaknesses in front of others to embarrass you. Or they laugh AT you instead of WITH you when the opportunity strikes.
I just cut off a guy friend like this. This is my second time. He has a whole family but texts me all damn day and harbors a lot of envy. He competes with me. Weird dude.
Wow! I just cut off a so called friend like this!! I realized she was a hater/frenemy!! I don’t understand “why” and at my age, I don’t give a….!!! When I get a negative vibe and my intuition tells me something, I have learned to listen to it!!!The older I get, the smaller my circle is becoming!!!
I realized I had frenemies when common friends, co-workers and relatives started to treat me differently. ❤ Those people were the blaring sirens 🚨 to alert me that there was a snake in my garden. The snakes and their minions were cut off. If it was a co-worker, I kept it professional. I only spoke to them when I had to or wore headphones to protect my peace. Just to be clear, the minions received the same treatment. They are no better than the liar...people believe a lie because they are afraid it's true or they want it to be true. Their struggle with facts is a "them" problem, not a "me" problem.
I was too naive before. I've experience being betrayed a lot of times. I see them clearly now. The patterns of their behavior matched them. They are friendly enemy. I hope I could get away to them now. They are still around me. I hope I meet the right people who would love me genuinely without hidden bad agenda later in this lifetime. Please, Lord.
This was a coworker. She would ask questions about my life, one being about how small I was, (red flag). The more she found out about my life, like me eating healthy, the more she hated me and the worse her behavior got. She would mumble under her breath after I responded to her questions. Sometimes she would blurt things out while I was talking, and she would use the few personal things she knew about me to insult me, then she would say she was joking. All of this happened at work, but nobody else was around. I could see evil in her eyes when she would say wild stuff and wait for my reaction. From this experience God showed me how envy manifests and who to avoid. My mistake was hanging out with her outside of work and waiting so long to cut her off. I kept thinking once she saw that my life wasn't perfect, she would chill out, but all she could see was that my life was better than hers. When I finally cut her off, I told her exactly why I was distancing myself and asked her to explain her behavior toward me. I still work with this person and I keep it Verizon professional😏
The mumbling under her breath is the thing that got me. I have had people do me the same way. The blurting out really mean that she had nothing good for you in her heart & She tried to hide it but it was blurted out verbally.
@vfree4579 Exactly. When a person is envious they have trouble concealing what's in their heart and even if they don't blurt or mumble, you might catch them mean mugging you when they think you're not looking
Girl...she sounds a bit off...you don't owe people explanations...especially showing this level malice. And doing it at work? Wow...glad it all worked out though. Stay safe :)
Girl! I have a co-worker who is constantly up in my business and always worrying about what I'm doing , what I am talking about, What scent lotion I am wearing and what kind of coffee I am drinking, It's creepy and weird. I keep my distance. She is very Insecure, Jealous and Envious!
@@DeeJ0000 Dee I have learned to not to deal with envious people because they are dangerous, of which can lead to murderous intentions. Now I take their EVNY very seriously. It's a matter of life-or-death. Love your comment stay Safe. 🙌
Thank you for this reminder. I can be a bit standoffish, rather than friendly just because of this video. However, when I do warm up to said friend, they always betray me. Im tired of bullies, haters and betrayers.
I'm facing that situation with a new next-door neighbor.I'm the only African American neighbor in the entire house! We live in a townhouse.We i first notice that she was trying to get too close to me for all the wrong reasons I put up my boundaries straight away! Now she is throwing tantrums like a spoiled brat!
Out of sincere concern for a woman who showed up at a public place in dirty orange raggedy open shoes & crusty unkept feet, I took the time to purchase several pairs of new shoes for her. When I gave them to her, she tried them on...they were a perfect fit. Although inexpensive, the new shoes looked so much better on her feet & she liked them very much. But unfortunately, 3 weeks later without a word about the shoes, she called & told me the shoes didn't fit. Although I witnessed her trying them on. I felt that she was lying & was up to something. I am VERY protective of myself & I will not tolerate people taking advantage of me. I believe she was trying to complicate my life & make me use up extra time, money, & energy to just please her. I think she's a chronic USER who takes advantage of folks even when people attempt to innocently help her. This story is much larger than what I'm saying at the moment. Because this woman has an illness, I've purchased other things (I felt she needed) for her too. But I refuse to allow her to use me for her "monkey- runner" to get her cigarettes, alcohol, & possibly drugs... I informed her that just because she finds me a genuinely good person with good intentions & a big caring heart, I laid her out & let her know that she is not going to f**k over me! So now, because I stood up to myself, she's labeled me a evil monster & is going around telling folks I tried to take advantage of HER!!! People, beware of who you attempt to help! People who seem to be in need doesn't always want or appreciate your help. Instead, they WANT YOUR SOUL!!! THEY WANT TO DRAIN YOU OF YOUR TIME, ENERGY, MONEY, AND USE YOU UNTIL NO RETURN!
I know exactly what you mean about the users. I had one always calling for rides bck and forth here and there but never offer gas money and I'm constantly having to fill my tank. I slowly distanced myself. One day she called and I told her I don't mind taking you to the store but you gotta contribute on gas. She said ok in a nasty tone and haven't ask for a ride since and stop calling too. Fine with me good ridden. 😆
@@sheliabell4471I had a coworker do this to me. She felt entitled to my car like I’m supposed to keep giving her free rides never offered me gas money. So I started avoiding her and stopped giving her rides. I was hospitalized unfortunately and when I came back to work she purposely started an argument with me and tried to fight me physically. She was just a hater never spoke to her again after that
My dad. Slanders me to friends AND employers. Couldn't figure out why he would want me to be unemployable. Untill I realized how utterly evil his thought process is. He hates me that much, because I saw the real him when I was 6 yrs old and caught a beating for catching him beating up mom. ( Because she complained about his cheating). And I have been a thorn in his side ever since
Someone(an acquaintance) being possessive always sets off bells and whistles for me. That usually highlights the fact that someone is trying to attach themselves to me/insert themselves into my life. Another thing I noticed specifically with a close relative is the backhanded compliments and them not being able to be happy for me. I also noticed that she seeks out friendship with my enemies and avoids people I have peaceful(loving) relationships with. I avoid my enemies, but she tries to give them access to me.
My family betrayed me and I went through trauma and hurt and pain. My family got jealous and all of them turned against me to make me look bad. I could not understand why they were treating me like I was no one. I know know now they lied and betrayed me because of what was coming to me that God had for me as a blessing. They are jealous of me know I no they did not care about me. Iam going on with my life without them because they did not support me and treated me right and was jealous enough to destroy my life in to God stepped in and took care of them. I forgive but I can’t ever trust them again or be in there presents. They are envious I don’t trust them being nice because deep down they don’t like me. Prayers for these people that betrayed or hurt me. I love Good and his true believers that will support me and really mean it. I can’t trust them no more.
When a new co-worker who just started working. She came on too strong with the staff. She would always try to get information out of me about other co-workers. So I told her some things avout a certain person but I told the person what I said before. She told the person things I never said and add on to it. When she found out she was set up. She started working on other workers in the company.
I’m currently dealing with a friendly assassinator. I have always been careful of her because my spirit was like mmmm. And also, because I’m observant. Well, she started to sabotage my work and make it appear like it was our other colleague. There’s only three of us in the section where we work and it’s restricted with key access only. Once I connected the dots. I separated myself from her completely and I can feel the hatred from her in her stares.
How i found out? i invited a friend and her daughter to work my second vendor table. I told her she could bring her business cards, but she was not suppose to sell items at my table, that i had signed a contract. I went over everything about my table with her and her daughter. Neither of them promote my items, and she only sold her own items and gave out her own cards out at my table. A couple times people asked why the business name was different and only then did they act like they didnt know where my business cards were. Also, they moved my box two times to the floor, while she used the space i had my box at. Never helped me setup or asked if i needed any help to getting items to my car. The daughter had a 16 years old son with her. I found myself working both tables at times. I invited them at the last minutes because another friend had the flu. They both want me to tell where i will be in the future. I learned my lesson. I could tell neither her or the daughter liked me.
Yes. The friendly enemy is the worst. Have been keeping distance for some time, but completely cutting contact has been very difficult. There is definitely a personality disorder in one of them. Their monitoring of my life is borderline stalking.
My husband's family. They flatter you with praise but turn around and talk crap about you, while they tattle on themselves about their actions. And they buy you gifts and offer to do things for you, followed by a "But you need to do this for me." No thank you. After 5 years of being treated like crap by this family, I cut ties. My MIL can have her baby back while I take my own kids, thank you very much.
I have experienced this in my life. And,she drew me in only with the intent to hurt me. She became so full of jealousy. She started to try and take away from all my hard work i was doing with God's help to lift up myself. She started a storm that pretty much destroyed my life. Everyone she gets into relationship with...she betrays sooner or later. Dear God.......
So true went thru this with a group of people in 2018 . Mean adult cliques are seriously toxic and produce nothing but low vibration garbage. As we know the spirit doesn't lie I always had a weird feeling in my stomach around these certain people. Love bombed on social media constantly before the cracks started and always looking to rush the friendship process. Believers always beware!
had a recent bizarre experience that involved envy of my artistic ability. thought they were a friendly couple but you never know i guess. like you said nothing off the table with envy.. just strange
The fake friend doesn't like it...they can't leverage demanding things from you if you do not comply taking their "gifts".....I have experienced this a few times...it's very odd.
cassandra, your messages are always so timely. im dealing with this exact situation with a friendly enemy as i type this comment, my discernment has been going off like crazy although this particular individual has been presenting themselves as very christian and God fearing. still, something isn’t adding up in my gut and i feel it! i noticed with every video you make, there are many of us who are living that very thing in the moment. and that’s because you’re talking about the REAL issues. God has made it VERY clear to us that we would be attacked and persecuted in our lifetime. i love that you address all of the ways that the enemy may attack us.. through jealous “friends”, coworkers, toxic partners, etc and you validate those experiences with scripture but motivate us to overcome and stand firm in who we are and Who is protecting us. no weapons will prosper but they certainly will be formed 😂
THIS is on point,,These types of friendly enemies can be deadly ,,We have to be careful and use our discernment ,these types are always around me ,I just blocked and DELETED ONE..I am extremely cautiosus NOW,,I have your book Prayers to Pray When You Don't know what to Say;;I lost 2 children / my youngest in February 2022 ,And my youngest son was killed January 2023 ,A lot of the times I am grieving the lost of my children just trying to cope and Look to another day ,THESE 🙏🙏HELP ME TO STILL PRAY,and it helps a lot..Thanks..Minster Mack..🙏❤️
I just shared ❤❤❤was talking & posting about that just last night!!! Yes I am still a victim of character assassination to this day but I keep smiling and being grateful minding my business and loving my life 😂😂😂🎉❤
I’m still learning this lesson. One was an old acquaintance from high school. I allowed far too much bad behavior and made too many excuses for her. This friendship ended really badly. I have another that was a coworker and we were friends. She was very competitive with me and always making digs into something, anything about me. I’ve really distanced myself from her, but she is really trying to push her way back in. I haven’t gone no contact because there are too many ties to deal with. It took me a lot of self examination to realize what was happening. In both of these. But I recognize there are plenty more in my past. I think this video was done exactly for me. Thank you Ms Cassandra!
THIS HERE....... Today, before and after this video, I give up taking it personally anymore. For real.😌 I had to edit here.. saw it today and ignored the devils. They fled for now. "Happy Hater." 😅 I agree, that spirit of envy.....Cain & Abe.
Great topic🙏🏼🧡. Someone who was generous with cuttings from her garden for me, said let's have coffee, red flag in my tummy. It was horrible. Very confused feeling and at one point she just looked at me and said, you do look sad. My eyes are kind of sad because of past abuse I agree, but this was so out of whack of who I am. I said I'm starting full time work, no time for coffee anymore. No interest, nothing. Never heard from her again, yippeeeěe. People angry when you don't answer calls, even when you say your not a phone person, not my problem. Next please. 🙏🏼 👋
The high school one was the worst. The competition against me with her mother was an ambush. They were incredibly toxic. It took a long time to get away. I never confronted them. So they still contact me and I'm 53. It's a sick obsession to bring me down.
My Supervisor & Her Daughter, And A Few of my Male Coworkers. .I know That Everyone not Going to Like You. But When A Person Focus, Time and Energy attention toward You is Creepy...We Humans Do To Much Sometimes, I Wonder Aren't They Tired.😮😂😂😂
Regarding accepting gifts. . . First, I make sure that, especially in the beginning, there is sufficient reciprocity in the relationship so that if things do not go well I am not indebted to that person in any way shape or form.. Secondly, If a gift has a string attached, do not accept it. I remember refusing a gift, a check. I had not requested any type of assistance yet the person would not take my repeated 'No thank you,' and slipped in my bag anyway. This was an attempt to force me to accept what I had clearly said I did not need or want. Later they kept texting to see if I had cashed it. I wrote a nice thank you card and enclosed the check and handed it back the next time I saw them. The person was quite angry. So it was obvious that the motive was not to help me but rather an attempt to control and to make me feel indebted to them. Additionally, the person had been abusive. So accepting such a gift would have made it more difficult for me to hold the person accountable and/or expose the abusive behavior.
Look at Acts 13:9 when Paul called out the false prophet as a child of the devil and an enemy to everything that is right. I wish we could do that, just make it plain.
AMEN, SIS. :) AND GOOD MORNING, HAVE A BLESS NEW WEEK & TO GOD BE THE GLORY. YES, WATCH OUT FOR THE JUDAS TYPE OF FRIENDSHIPS. "FRIENDENEMIES WILL BE YOUR ENEMIES" USE DISCERNMENT EVERYONE & GUARD YOUR HEART AT ALL TIMES. SWL
Cassandra Mark, I 'm one of those women that refuse to trust all smiling faces! Especially if one of those smiling faces happens to be a female neighbor or, neighbors.🌹🌹🌹
This is my mother, too many instances of emotional abuse, just know that it is because of God that I can keep healing ❤️🩹 in peace and not in pieces🙏🏾
They don't like to chat to you much in group scenarios like mother and toddler group but like to turn up at your flat whenever it suits their agendas theme they theive out of your flat
Cassandra, I just did a Short last night promoting your Haters journal. God is TRULY ON TIME!!!! THIS VIDEO CONFIRMS EVERYTHING WE EXPERIENCED!!!💯 YOUR BOOK IS FIIIIRRRREE!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🤩🤩🤩
I've been through something similar to this and this needs to be taught to preteens -college students - young adults up to 30. This is very important to know especially as a woman who doesn't have much visible support! AMEN!
James 3: 16 and l John 4: 1-3🙏🏿 Woman of God, I would encourage anyone to listen to the words before someone says... I was just joking. That's one of my keys to placing people in categories of Man or Woman of God, a genuine person, an acquaintance or an associate or a worker of iniquity
Hello all I hope you’re having a great day and God continue s to carry you! Love the video Cassandra I hope God keeps blessing you for all your days💕💕💕
I have Prayers for Your Mental Health which I LOVE bc I just lost my 35 year old cousin to cancer and there are other stressors at work and with my pets wherein this book has given me the support I need. Just started my Soul Fast workbook and loving that too bc it helps me explore the deeper emotions that I tend to suppress to survive this evil world .. Im focusing more on what is helpful and not harmful in my day to day life and friendships
Thank goodness you recapitulate that scripture cus that's helped me to really heed it, take no notice of them who criticise, are trying to be pushy. One the biggest betrayals of my life was my own sister & family members, I noticed their allegiance was against me when with certain other people. I still didn't twig on the enormity of the betrayal ahead, but now after escaping with my life & my child's safety, I exit with the early flags. May God bless your book launch 🙏🏻 ❤✨️ keep shining, God said the world would hate us, so we know we're doing something right if we got enemies 🔥🕊
I have 2 of your books and I have joined your station and I have your journaling book..One of your books I am half finished.,the other one I've started .The journal I'm trying to get in your class for journaling.
maybe im that friendly enemy myself. someone hurt me and disappointed me, and i still try to be kind & talk to him but in the end my behavior is confusing because im hurt. i wish he saw me as a person he knew, not a person his homies perceived, so that he could see his homies was being mean, rude, islamophobic, trolls & dlckhead to me, unprovoked.
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Why do people want to make you jealous of them & in secret competition with you when you genuinely want to see them win and do good? It’s such a weird feeling
THIS. 🎯🎯🎯
Agree
Good question
Spot them by energy, back handed compliments, jealousy, envy, confused behavior, etc
Facts! Amazing how haterism is so universal
YES…so darn true!!!!!
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I had to learn the hard way. This is why I keep to myself
Me too. I'm tired of watching my back.
Tell me more
A very friendly neighbor who I used to always talk to and get invited to family outings has gone cold on me after I bought a used sports car lol.
nows the time you can do anything you want embaress the f out of him lol
Wow .
I stay to myself hang out by myself mostly havent heard from so called friends, family members in years
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I can spot it as soon as I see it I stay far way from that person. I’m getting older don’t got time for drama 🎭 and toxicity I don’t mess with that spirit at all. A lot of people carry that spirit.
What I don’t understand is why do people continue to be that way well into middle age and even worse, into their golden years. When people get older they should do better, you would think.
I have said this as well!!
Mentally arrested
These haters need deliverance from the demon acting out inside of them...King Jesus is their only hope...Detach from them ASAP ❤❤❤
Some ask lots of questions as if getting to know you. If you feel unheard or vulnerable, you will think they are showing genuine interest in you, but they're simply collecting info on you. Watch how they change in front of others versus when it's just the two of you. They may expose your weaknesses in front of others to embarrass you. Or they laugh AT you instead of WITH you when the opportunity strikes.
I just cut off a guy friend like this. This is my second time. He has a whole family but texts me all damn day and harbors a lot of envy. He competes with me. Weird dude.
Same here, except the guy was my oldest friend. I used to consider him my best friend.
@@Myaa1980 sorry about that.
Literally same
These people are sick and mentally ill but refuse , to leave people alone
Similar to someone I know, texts me 8,9 AM "What are you doing today?"
Daily !
Wow! I just cut off a so called friend like this!! I realized she was a hater/frenemy!! I don’t understand “why” and at my age, I don’t give a….!!! When I get a negative vibe and my intuition tells me something, I have learned to listen to it!!!The older I get, the smaller my circle is becoming!!!
I realized I had frenemies when common friends, co-workers and relatives started to treat me differently. ❤ Those people were the blaring sirens 🚨 to alert me that there was a snake in my garden.
The snakes and their minions were cut off. If it was a co-worker, I kept it professional. I only spoke to them when I had to or wore headphones to protect my peace. Just to be clear, the minions received the same treatment. They are no better than the liar...people believe a lie because they are afraid it's true or they want it to be true. Their struggle with facts is a "them" problem, not a "me" problem.
Preach!!!!!
I was too naive before. I've experience being betrayed a lot of times. I see them clearly now. The patterns of their behavior matched them. They are friendly enemy. I hope I could get away to them now. They are still around me. I hope I meet the right people who would love me genuinely without hidden bad agenda later in this lifetime. Please, Lord.
This was a coworker. She would ask questions about my life, one being about how small I was, (red flag). The more she found out about my life, like me eating healthy, the more she hated me and the worse her behavior got. She would mumble under her breath after I responded to her questions. Sometimes she would blurt things out while I was talking, and she would use the few personal things she knew about me to insult me, then she would say she was joking. All of this happened at work, but nobody else was around. I could see evil in her eyes when she would say wild stuff and wait for my reaction. From this experience God showed me how envy manifests and who to avoid. My mistake was hanging out with her outside of work and waiting so long to cut her off. I kept thinking once she saw that my life wasn't perfect, she would chill out, but all she could see was that my life was better than hers. When I finally cut her off, I told her exactly why I was distancing myself and asked her to explain her behavior toward me. I still work with this person and I keep it Verizon professional😏
The mumbling under her breath is the thing that got me. I have had people do me the same way. The blurting out really mean that she had nothing good for you in her heart &
She tried to hide it but it was blurted out verbally.
@vfree4579 Exactly. When a person is envious they have trouble concealing what's in their heart and even if they don't blurt or mumble, you might catch them mean mugging you when they think you're not looking
Girl...she sounds a bit off...you don't owe people explanations...especially showing this level malice. And doing it at work? Wow...glad it all worked out though. Stay safe :)
Girl! I have a co-worker who is constantly up in my business and always worrying about what I'm doing , what I am talking about, What scent lotion I am wearing and what kind of coffee I am drinking, It's creepy and weird. I keep my distance. She is very Insecure, Jealous and Envious!
@@DeeJ0000 Dee I have learned to not to deal with envious people because they are dangerous, of which can lead to murderous intentions. Now I take their EVNY very seriously. It's a matter of life-or-death. Love your comment stay Safe. 🙌
Kept winning; hitting my goals and eventually they fell off.
Thank you for this reminder. I can be a bit standoffish, rather than friendly just because of this video. However, when I do warm up to said friend, they always betray me. Im tired of bullies, haters and betrayers.
I'm facing that situation with a new next-door neighbor.I'm the only African American neighbor in the entire house! We live in a townhouse.We i first notice that she was trying to get too close to me for all the wrong reasons I put up my boundaries straight away! Now she is throwing tantrums like a spoiled brat!
Out of sincere concern for a woman who showed up at a public place in dirty orange raggedy open shoes & crusty unkept feet, I took the time to purchase several pairs of new shoes for her. When I gave them to her, she tried them on...they were a perfect fit. Although inexpensive, the new shoes looked so much better on her feet & she liked them very much.
But unfortunately, 3 weeks later without a word about the shoes, she called & told me the shoes didn't fit. Although I witnessed her trying them on. I felt that she was lying & was up to something. I am VERY protective of myself & I will not tolerate people taking advantage of me. I believe she was trying to complicate my life & make me use up extra time, money, & energy to just please her. I think she's a chronic USER who takes advantage of folks even when people attempt to innocently help her.
This story is much larger than what I'm saying at the moment. Because this woman has an illness, I've purchased other things (I felt she needed) for her too. But I refuse to allow her to use me for her "monkey- runner" to get her cigarettes, alcohol, & possibly drugs...
I informed her that just because she finds me a genuinely good person with good intentions & a big caring heart, I laid her out & let her know that she is not going to f**k over me!
So now, because I stood up to myself, she's labeled me a evil monster & is going around telling folks I tried to take advantage of HER!!!
People, beware of who you attempt to help! People who seem to be in need doesn't always want or appreciate your help. Instead, they WANT YOUR SOUL!!! THEY WANT TO DRAIN YOU OF YOUR TIME, ENERGY, MONEY, AND USE YOU UNTIL NO RETURN!
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I know exactly what you mean about the users. I had one always calling for rides bck and forth here and there but never offer gas money and I'm constantly having to fill my tank. I slowly distanced myself. One day she called and I told her I don't mind taking you to the store but you gotta contribute on gas. She said ok in a nasty tone and haven't ask for a ride since and stop calling too. Fine with me good ridden. 😆
@@sheliabell4471 Amen!!! Good Riddens!!!. LOL!
@@sheliabell4471I had a coworker do this to me. She felt entitled to my car like I’m supposed to keep giving her free rides never offered me gas money. So I started avoiding her and stopped giving her rides. I was hospitalized unfortunately and when I came back to work she purposely started an argument with me and tried to fight me physically. She was just a hater never spoke to her again after that
"I've never met a happy hater" should be the next mug or tshirt- I'd buy it! 😂 Thanks for another great video!
I'm going to get my shirt made... I like this!!
Also this happens to family as well
Famenemy.
Good one..Famenemy💯
My dad. Slanders me to friends AND employers. Couldn't figure out why he would want me to be unemployable. Untill I realized how utterly evil his thought process is. He hates me that much, because I saw the real him when I was 6 yrs old and caught a beating for catching him beating up mom. ( Because she complained about his cheating). And I have been a thorn in his side ever since
Someone(an acquaintance) being possessive always sets off bells and whistles for me. That usually highlights the fact that someone is trying to attach themselves to me/insert themselves into my life. Another thing I noticed specifically with a close relative is the backhanded compliments and them not being able to be happy for me. I also noticed that she seeks out friendship with my enemies and avoids people I have peaceful(loving) relationships with. I avoid my enemies, but she tries to give them access to me.
My family betrayed me and I went through trauma and hurt and pain. My family got jealous and all of them turned against me to make me look bad. I could not understand why they were treating me like I was no one. I know know now they lied and betrayed me because of what was coming to me that God had for me as a blessing. They are jealous of me know I no they did not care about me. Iam going on with my life without them because they did not support me and treated me right and was jealous enough to destroy my life in to God stepped in and took care of them. I forgive but I can’t ever trust them again or be in there presents. They are envious I don’t trust them being nice because deep down they don’t like me. Prayers for these people that betrayed or hurt me. I love Good and his true believers that will support me and really mean it. I can’t trust them no more.
Same , hang in there it’s hard!
When a new co-worker who just started working. She came on too strong with the staff. She would always try to get information out of me about other co-workers. So I told her some things avout a certain person but I told the person what I said before. She told the person things I never said and add on to it. When she found out she was set up. She started working on other workers in the company.
I’m currently dealing with a friendly assassinator. I have always been careful of her because my spirit was like mmmm. And also, because I’m observant. Well, she started to sabotage my work and make it appear like it was our other colleague. There’s only three of us in the section where we work and it’s restricted with key access only. Once I connected the dots. I separated myself from her completely and I can feel the hatred from her in her stares.
How i found out? i invited a friend and her daughter to work my second vendor table. I told her she could bring her business cards, but she was not suppose to sell items at my table, that i had signed a contract. I went over everything about my table with her and her daughter. Neither of them promote my items, and she only sold her own items and gave out her own cards out at my table. A couple times people asked why the business name was different and only then did they act like they didnt know where my business cards were. Also, they moved my box two times to the floor, while she used the space i had my box at. Never helped me setup or asked if i needed any help to getting items to my car. The daughter had a 16 years old son with her. I found myself working both tables at times. I invited them at the last minutes because another friend had the flu. They both want me to tell where i will be in the future. I learned my lesson. I could tell neither her or the daughter liked me.
Wow, that was a major🚩and a lesson! People are a trip
That mother is setting her daughter up for a dreadful life...really sad at the end of the day
Stupidity 😮
Yes. The friendly enemy is the worst. Have been keeping distance for some time, but completely cutting contact has been very difficult. There is definitely a personality disorder in one of them. Their monitoring of my life is borderline stalking.
My husband's family. They flatter you with praise but turn around and talk crap about you, while they tattle on themselves about their actions. And they buy you gifts and offer to do things for you, followed by a "But you need to do this for me." No thank you. After 5 years of being treated like crap by this family, I cut ties. My MIL can have her baby back while I take my own kids, thank you very much.
Such great advice. Pay attention to what people do instead of what they say, it says a lot.
Yes!
Friend once told me "I'm on your side"...
He actually was, for years, but then turned on me.
I have experienced this in my life. And,she drew me in only with the intent to hurt me. She became so full of jealousy. She started to try and take away from all my hard work i was doing with God's help to lift up myself. She started a storm that pretty much destroyed my life. Everyone she gets into relationship with...she betrays sooner or later. Dear God.......
So true went thru this with a group of people in 2018 . Mean adult cliques are seriously toxic and produce nothing but low vibration garbage. As we know the spirit doesn't lie I always had a weird feeling in my stomach around these certain people. Love bombed on social media constantly before the cracks started and always looking to rush the friendship process. Believers always beware!
had a recent bizarre experience that involved envy of my artistic ability. thought they were a friendly couple but you never know i guess. like you said nothing off the table with envy.. just strange
31:43 I love that you use “we know them by their fruit” repeatedly and consistently. It’s so wise! Keep using it to teach.
The fake friend doesn't like it...they can't leverage demanding things from you if you do not comply taking their "gifts".....I have experienced this a few times...it's very odd.
cassandra, your messages are always so timely. im dealing with this exact situation with a friendly enemy as i type this comment, my discernment has been going off like crazy although this particular individual has been presenting themselves as very christian and God fearing. still, something isn’t adding up in my gut and i feel it!
i noticed with every video you make, there are many of us who are living that very thing in the moment. and that’s because you’re talking about the REAL issues. God has made it VERY clear to us that we would be attacked and persecuted in our lifetime. i love that you address all of the ways that the enemy may attack us.. through jealous “friends”, coworkers, toxic partners, etc and you validate those experiences with scripture but motivate us to overcome and stand firm in who we are and Who is protecting us. no weapons will prosper but they certainly will be formed 😂
I have no friends because of this and I am happy !!! It took me a long time to understand
THIS is on point,,These types of friendly enemies can be deadly ,,We have to be careful and use our discernment ,these types are always around me ,I just blocked and DELETED ONE..I am extremely cautiosus NOW,,I have your book Prayers to Pray When You Don't know what to Say;;I lost 2 children / my youngest in February 2022 ,And my youngest son was killed January 2023 ,A lot of the times I am grieving the lost of my children just trying to cope and Look to another day ,THESE 🙏🙏HELP ME TO STILL PRAY,and it helps a lot..Thanks..Minster Mack..🙏❤️
Praying that God comfort you in the grief
I just shared ❤❤❤was talking & posting about that just last night!!! Yes I am still a victim of character assassination to this day but I keep smiling and being grateful minding my business and loving my life 😂😂😂🎉❤
I’m still learning this lesson. One was an old acquaintance from high school. I allowed far too much bad behavior and made too many excuses for her. This friendship ended really badly. I have another that was a coworker and we were friends. She was very competitive with me and always making digs into something, anything about me. I’ve really distanced myself from her, but she is really trying to push her way back in. I haven’t gone no contact because there are too many ties to deal with. It took me a lot of self examination to realize what was happening. In both of these. But I recognize there are plenty more in my past. I think this video was done exactly for me. Thank you Ms Cassandra!
Wow. Cassandra tells no lies EVER! How is one person always so right? Thanks for the vid!
THIS HERE....... Today, before and after this video, I give up taking it personally anymore. For real.😌
I had to edit here.. saw it today and ignored the devils. They fled for now.
"Happy Hater." 😅
I agree, that spirit of envy.....Cain & Abe.
Great topic🙏🏼🧡. Someone who was generous with cuttings from her garden for me, said let's have coffee, red flag in my tummy. It was horrible. Very confused feeling and at one point she just looked at me and said, you do look sad. My eyes are kind of sad because of past abuse I agree, but this was so out of whack of who I am. I said I'm starting full time work, no time for coffee anymore. No interest, nothing. Never heard from her again, yippeeeěe. People angry when you don't answer calls, even when you say your not a phone person, not my problem. Next please. 🙏🏼 👋
The high school one was the worst. The competition against me with her mother was an ambush. They were incredibly toxic. It took a long time to get away. I never confronted them. So they still contact me and I'm 53. It's a sick obsession to bring me down.
That sounds like a bad dream, I'm sorry that's happening.
My Supervisor & Her Daughter, And A Few of my Male Coworkers. .I know That Everyone not Going to Like You. But When A Person Focus, Time and Energy attention toward You is Creepy...We Humans Do To Much Sometimes, I Wonder Aren't They Tired.😮😂😂😂
Regarding accepting gifts. . . First, I make sure that, especially in the beginning, there is sufficient reciprocity in the relationship so that if things do not go well I am not indebted to that person in any way shape or form..
Secondly, If a gift has a string attached, do not accept it. I remember refusing a gift, a check. I had not requested any type of assistance yet the person would not take my repeated 'No thank you,' and slipped in my bag anyway.
This was an attempt to force me to accept what I had clearly said I did not need or want. Later they kept texting to see if I had cashed it. I wrote a nice thank you card and enclosed the check and handed it back the next time I saw them. The person was quite angry.
So it was obvious that the motive was not to help me but rather an attempt to control and to make me feel indebted to them. Additionally, the person had been abusive. So accepting such a gift would have made it more difficult for me to hold the person accountable and/or expose the abusive behavior.
This sound like a lifetime movie I’ve seen this in lifetime movies all the time. 😅
Look at Acts 13:9 when Paul called out the false prophet as a child of the devil and an enemy to everything that is right. I wish we could do that, just make it plain.
AMEN, SIS. :) AND GOOD MORNING, HAVE A BLESS NEW WEEK & TO GOD BE THE GLORY. YES, WATCH OUT FOR THE JUDAS TYPE OF FRIENDSHIPS. "FRIENDENEMIES WILL BE YOUR ENEMIES" USE DISCERNMENT EVERYONE & GUARD YOUR HEART AT ALL TIMES. SWL
Sounds like a lifetime movie !! Appreciate the wisdom of the Lord. B blessed!❤
Cassandra Mark, I 'm one of those women that refuse to trust all smiling faces! Especially if one of those smiling faces happens to be a female neighbor or, neighbors.🌹🌹🌹
This is my mother, too many instances of emotional abuse, just know that it is because of God that I can keep healing ❤️🩹 in peace and not in pieces🙏🏾
I miss your content. I been in a low place . I'm searching again for hope ❤
They don't like to chat to you much in group scenarios like mother and toddler group but like to turn up at your flat whenever it suits their agendas theme they theive out of your flat
Fake friend I think is another word or term used to describe a person like that
Selena was an amazing human and I love her music, she had such a beautiful spirit.🎶🕊🥀
My 1st cousin Jessica all the way!! I stay away from her.
So grateful to have found your channel and all your videos such a woman of God thank you for all you do!
Sounds like the people in my life thanks for the video on this topic !
Cassandra, I just did a Short last night promoting your Haters journal. God is TRULY ON TIME!!!! THIS VIDEO CONFIRMS EVERYTHING WE EXPERIENCED!!!💯 YOUR BOOK IS FIIIIRRRREE!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🤩🤩🤩
Going thru this right now!!! Wow❤❤
I've been through something similar to this and this needs to be taught to preteens -college students - young adults up to 30.
This is very important to know especially as a woman who doesn't have much visible support!
AMEN!
I start my day everyday with one of your videos…
And all this is scripture based along with real examples ❤
James 3: 16 and l John 4: 1-3🙏🏿
Woman of God, I would encourage anyone to listen to the words before someone says... I was just joking. That's one of my keys to placing people in categories of Man or Woman of God, a genuine person, an acquaintance or an associate or a worker of iniquity
Hello all I hope you’re having a great day and God continue s to carry you! Love the video Cassandra I hope God keeps blessing you for all your days💕💕💕
I have Prayers for Your Mental Health which I LOVE bc I just lost my 35 year old cousin to cancer and there are other stressors at work and with my pets wherein this book has given me the support I need. Just started my Soul Fast workbook and loving that too bc it helps me explore the deeper emotions that I tend to suppress to survive this evil world .. Im focusing more on what is helpful and not harmful in my day to day life and friendships
Prayers & condolences to you on the loss of your cousin
Thank goodness you recapitulate that scripture cus that's helped me to really heed it, take no notice of them who criticise, are trying to be pushy. One the biggest betrayals of my life was my own sister & family members, I noticed their allegiance was against me when with certain other people. I still didn't twig on the enormity of the betrayal ahead, but now after escaping with my life & my child's safety, I exit with the early flags. May God bless your book launch 🙏🏻 ❤✨️ keep shining, God said the world would hate us, so we know we're doing something right if we got enemies 🔥🕊
💯💯💯 Cassandra you are a beautiful godly woman with a beautiful voice! I love your intro song.
Amen 🙏🏽🕊️✝️
Right ✅️ 😢
Ima get this journal 😊
I have 2 of your books and I have joined your station and I have your journaling book..One of your books I am half finished.,the other one I've started .The journal I'm trying to get in your class for journaling.
Excellent!
You’re pretty much describing narcissists: lovebombinh, future faking, etc
Good morning first
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maybe im that friendly enemy myself. someone hurt me and disappointed me, and i still try to be kind & talk to him but in the end my behavior is confusing because im hurt. i wish he saw me as a person he knew, not a person his homies perceived, so that he could see his homies was being mean, rude, islamophobic, trolls & dlckhead to me, unprovoked.
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A lot of people envy citizenship also. I was recently a victim of this 🫤