t's okay to masturbate -- sex lessons to unlearn | Uma Subramanian | Uma Subramanian | TEDxMACE
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2018
- A fanciful braid of will power and humanity, she is initiative and courage. Uma Subramanian is a founder & co-director at Aarambh India (India's first online portal against child sexual abuse and exploitation).
Here, Uma suggests why it is vital to nurture an ecosystem that talks about sex and sexuality without violence, shame, morality or criminalization. Author. Social entrepreneur. Mother. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
It feels really proud to see someone taking about those things publicly in this country, Great Work Mam
Have nothing really to say, may you become a billionaire...
Ma'am
Very grateful to you for your candid exposition.
@@literature_plus q and I am so proud'
Thank you mam
Change the playback speed to 1.5x. Thank me later!
Thanks bro. Ur the real help
😂😂😂
im not thanking you for that. cmon
THANKS MAN🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks 🤣
This country needs more brains like her .... outstanding...bravo ...not just for the knowledge but also for the courage and articulation skills ...just wow ...keep it up
Its nice to shame those who do not realise that this body will rot, decay and go back to the earth as molecules and atoms of all the elements!!
@VV 100%
Yes, great job
@@johnathanlamey8777 it's not nice to shame anyone
The way she explained is real example for how we can educate our future generations!
Many thanks 🙏🏼
Not really, logically but not true
Logically but not true??!!!!
@@umasubramanian9608 Great Work
Lund khada hone k Baad Kya karu bhai
"if these parts are private is rest of the body public?" great lines mam.
She is just explaining her perspective.. Human being cannot be like animal which will expose full body public.. Private part is private, which should be covered..if some parts of body are not private why beach girls covering only that parts by wearing bikini & bra. / men by bermuda / shorts
@@caonlyca4971 😅good job.
@@caonlyca4971 thats inner wear u idiots people like you mediocre maggots still exists
@@caonlyca4971 all of these things are developed by our society as per situation. Like in winter season, you can't use umbrella.
@@caonlyca4971 lllllllpppppppppppp
When a person talks like that, you immediately feel like you can share the most un-sharable personal things with them. Society gives people a very judgemental mindset thus few individuals are shy or afraid to speak their minds problems.
celibacy is compulsory
It's ok to do musturbation
It's feels good ☺️
It's ok to stay weak , it's ok to be a b*** , it's hard to be discipline , it's hard to gain knowledge, it's hard to do business , it's ok to stay in comfort zone , it's ok to be a Lil b*** ☺️
Choice is yours ! You can't choose both
Discipline and distractions can't co-exist ✨
Even teachers refuse to teach us science chapter " Reproductive in Animals ".
Is it?!!
*reproduction
even in Pakistan
Boys r already aware of it haha
@@mirmohammad753 that's the best joke ever
The irony is even in today’s age this video has garnered only 8.5 lakh views
Why UA-cam is recommending after 2 years such a amazing video. Why??
And why I can't share this video with my friends. Just because they judge me based on Video title?? I don't care. I'll share this video to the people that I care.
why i cant share this video? if do
then everybody judges me by only seeing the title
its not ur fault dont worry its a grey area in most of our mindsets so most will feel like that and judge you
U at least watched this video. Thts enough and good thing.dont wry
well you can start by teaching your kids when they come off age !
i plan on doing it but i am still a kid myself so what do i know!
Exactly!! The same thought goes around my mind for sharing all such stuff.
Just do what you feel is right dude
Is it me or there are some others who watch videos @ 2x speed
Me to bro
Obviously we can...but beauty lies in just listening the way the speed she is delivering
Watch this in 1.5 speed and save your time
Haha thanks
Thanks man
😁😁😁
Thanks
Einstein
Uma mam, it's really an important topic,situation that stops the india to move forward into developed country... Such motivational speakers like u and ur team should take more &more into public.... Thanks mam & hope may I be a part of ur target...🎯
She has just hit the the Achilles heel of the conservative Indian society. She is absolutely brave and bold and knows how to pierce through the facade of shame and honor. We need more voices like hers in our oriental societies.
Completely agree
What an exceptional talk by Uma Subramanian. Spoke with utmost confidence. Really wish young people watch the TED talk.
The fact that I'll have to remove this video from my watch history says a lot about how open we are about these things.
Great topic and great oratory skills madam. The way you take us all through the topic is par excellence. Thanks a million
It's perfectly correct but no one ready to talk about this.. really appreciated talk ❤️
Very underrated video for sure. The way you communicated is really commendable👍
Just amazing.. Beyond what i expected from title...
Uma Ji,
Hats off to you for explaining so many simple things (that nobody even dare to discuss publicly) in a very simple manner. Good educational video 👍👏👌
Mam, The way you explained this topic is superb. I ll try best that this video will be seen by more and more adults in India . Thanks a lot for rasing this important topic.
It's really nice work and this education need to the our country...thank you ma'am..u are great and your explanation was very nice
beautiful video!! Uma subramanian. appreciate your efforts for efforts for creating awareness. through TEDx talks platform.
Its turth that we need to change mindset as well and the adult's thinking goals. We all tineed know study about these subject matter.
Lovely knpwledge-based talk. Time for the world to wake up and modernise the total human experience. Taboos maximise darkness.
Superb talk but to be able to deal with this subject, one needs a very matured teacher and an equally emotionally balanced 'taught'. Thank you for being bold ! Really appreciative !
Just the need of the hour. Great speech very thought provoking !!
Thank you 🙏🏼
@@umasubramanian9608 I guess the speech ll remain timeless during my lifetime🙂
When will Ted talk🤔
he already did in HIMYM
@@ayushmeshram7661 talks alot actually xd
They actually never stops talking
India and the whole world need this education in a mirror image.. there should not be shaming, no right age to talk and orthodox related things. I agree and I will also put my thoughts in front of the world. 👏👏👏💐👍
how ?
@@prashanthrao1196 means what you wanna say plz write down clearly 👍
@@vaishnavisanap4823 proceed
Truth is the new igniter which includes wick (length depends on me), spark or flame, etc.
Brahmcharya hi shakti hai🔥🔥🙏
The content of the talk is so well thought off....and the speaker is amazingly witty..
One of the best ted talks I have seen till date! Thanks for this!
the world needs person like she.
Her*
It's the needmost of the day, this is you elderly people responsibility, well spoken, thanks so much.
I came here for the wrong reasons but stayed for the right ones.
Wow, just wow.
Hi to everyone ..,
Here everyone is supporting their words in what they are believing
But I say everyone is true in what they believe.
I ll say onething if u not masterbate and u think that it is fine then it is good for you ...
As your thoughts saying that u r strong and confident when u r not doing
2. Some people can't take challenge to not Masterbate they are ok to do masterbate it's good pleasure and knowing about body it's ok ...
So don't try to get proofs for anything
Do what u make feel good and it's just attitude to make believe in what u doing
If ur attitude saying masterbate is good then go for it otherwise u r attitude saying it is good for you then you don't do it
So try to analyse things don't work on what others say
Corrupt mind
Thank you so much mam wholeheartedly!!!
Dont listen to this weakness, Embrace nofap
It's really touching the HEART...
Got goosebumps...
Very well structured. Some very deep issues explained very simplistically.
Very well put forth the topic and very well explained 👍
Mam really your this video is so usefull,hope school and teachers also teach us same knowledge, thanks mam🙏🙏🙏 you had cover this content in few words and so stunningly
After watching to this Talk.. I felt happy nd proud that we as a Nation is moving forward with the finest initiatives taken by Women like you Mam. I Salute U..✌️🙏👍
Such a clever talk. Spread and keep ur work going ahead
Exactly☺
Bro,she literally touched on everything!!! 👏👏👏
"touched on"
Everything?
@@rangatm 😅
After a long time found something worth watching . Hats off mam !!!
Actually you are the generation changer
Give a new vision mam 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
That's what you call a professional speech
damm this has to be heard by every single person in the country :))
Mind blowing speech ever saw,lets conceal truth.✌
Wonderful speech... It got a huge appreciation...👍🏻💯
Omg...hw did I miss this...
Such a nyc one 👏👏👏
I feel definit about this, and not all can define it as you did ma'am, great work, unfortunately I guess this s the reason why 5.7 million students migrate to abroad
Thank you - but we will bring about a change if we start these conversations in our homes and communities! Let’s not give up
@@umasubramanian9608 Is this your only channel?
It is easier to loose it than hold it. Feel holiness surrounding your whole biological essentials till that leads you great
You too.
This is all what we needed
Wow!! Very interesting and empowering!! Such valid and intelligence points brought across!! Nothing but love for this speaker!! ❤❤❤❤
Salute to her thoughts 🔥🙏
The matter-of-fact tone is the best thing about this video.
let's START with ourselves. We will try to teach our generation that "What is What", "Consequences", "Pros and Cons" etc.
This is powerful.... It deserves another tittle as it covered so much more important issues... Well done...
OK TO FORNICATE ? ?
WOW , GOOD LUCK WITH THAT ONE ......
tittle?
That's a wonderful talk, Ms.Uma! Continue your great work and spread your words deep into our societies especially among the schools and college students having invited there parents. People like you should be invited to all the institutions for delivering this kind of daring but needy talks and not Jaggi for his add campaign talks!
Very good awareness video
Good lesson to all
Splendid speech by Subramaniam maam🙌🏻
This reminded me of my ragging when a senior told me to close my eyes and recite everything happening on my suhagrat.:)
Just tell people what they want to hear, that sounds great.
We need people like the speaker who muster the courage to speak about a topic that is considered taboo in our country...Take away from this video "ITS OK'..... Kudos Uma Subramanian....
Very powerful and perfectly true.
Very far sighted,!
Dashing,! Daring in presenting facts, well suited psychological & physiological advice to get rid of certain vices, thanks for uploading such video clips ,
It's really high time. I loved this.. 👌✋❤️
Wonderful.. very well expressed Uma. We need more people like you and more talks like this.
Thank you for the talk.
So well presented!!
On very important topic ...
more than that I like the way you communicate n your vocabulary!!
Appreciate it
Thanks for ur voice
Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩💙
Truly enlightening 🔥
Watch without miss,
You'll definitely change at some point.
News channels gotta stream this vid.
Wonderful talk ...... fantastic ......
perfect talk. She has touched upon fundamental issue. Kudos.
Thanks mam you have opened my eyes its really need a lots of courage to talk about such a topic to which to one even talks about excellent great work mam thanks again for sharing such a precious knowledge
Why do people marry? Why not just make a deal to have kids. The thing is we need boundaries, line, limit, to maintain our society.
Gerat work ma'am
We need such educational speech in our school also. How it can be possible??
We need more individuals like her.
So I think knowing facts( some chemical reactions understand what it can do to human body moods and thoughts as after all human body is a place of amazing chemistry and bonding) and understanding each other s problems too helps us a lot and most importantly everyone s problems..thank you for giving this opportunity
Yes..hwz u
thank you for sharing.... great work madam
Well said🔥
Awesome
India has a lot of work to do, as do many other countries. This silence is never good for anything, even in Europe where I live.
😢😢😢😢true Indian ppl need to educate ppl on this big time everything we talk is a taboo 🥺🥺🥺🥺😰😰😰😰
Mam , magnificent and excellent speech
An absolute Gift! Thank you Uma
Great lesson ma'am
I need more women like these
I hope I'll get!
very decent way to introduce this taboo subject.. kudos to you madam..
Amezing.......no one can talk about this topic publicly but u hit the counter....👍 Love the way u h explained realy amezing sis
*EDUCATION IN EVERY MATTER IS REQUIRED LIKE THIS SALUTE YOU MADAM*
What a wonderful speaker
Yes
Thanku mam for giving us this education
Terrific topic to speak on..especially at a time when India has more moral policing than Saudi Arabia..👍🏻
Homosexuals don’t receive Death Sentence , women can go in public without compulsory male partner and women are allowed to drive .
So yeah , Saudi Arabia might be a bit too much to compare with
@@mrdude9671 Women are allowed to move around in public without a male partner and women are allowed to drive too in Saudi Arabia.. Read up more , update yourself.
You literally have no clue hwo happy i was to watch this video. I have been wanting someone to address issues like these since i was 12 because till date our past generations slam us down when we wanna know things and talk about this.
I never seen someone like her, country needs people like her,her brave, maturity and the way of expressing
Applause ma'am. Now that's some role models for the nation 😀😍
This is great work highlights
Important issue
nobody want to talk about it💯💯🙏