21 Studios needs your support to keep helping millions of men. Learn how at 21studios.com/donate Subscribe to 21 University today for early, ad-free, censorship-free access to all our videos! 21university.com/catalog FREE one month trial for all new members, and search for us on the app store! ======= 01:00 - 09:05 - Brian share to the audience how he was before, his experiences, how he started his journey and eventually came up with the Fearless Man. 09:17 - 13:41 - Brian share what he learned from David Nagel called “The curse of the middle class”. He also talked about how men in lose their sense of purpose and passion because they don’t want to step into tension. 13:56 - 16:26 - Brian shared stories of successful people and how they became who they are now by stepping into tension. 16:27 - 18:04 - He discussed about the state pumping - when men are stepping into tension but they’re not growing. He also talked about developing a relationship to nervous system in relation to tension. 18:14 - 20:22 - Brian mentioned about Ted talk by Kelly McGonigal. The ted talk video is about a study of people in their different level of stress and as they become good with it, they start becoming more attractive to the world. 20:48 - 23:53 - Brian talks about the ability to feel emotions and relate called vulnerability. 23:57 - 25:51 - Brian talks about the law of polarity. He also mentioned about how he really wants his client to become successful and encouraged them to get the free information on his UA-cam channel for this reason. 25:58 - 28:35 - Brian give an illustration about tension and communication. 29:10 - 40:41 - Model work with students 40:48 - 44:39 - Model work with Brian to demonstrate the polarity difference. 44:57 - 46:21 - Brian discussed the importance of stepping into tension and being masculine enough to get a whole different energy that will causes different effect not just to women but to the people around you. 46:30 - 50:44 - Brian emphasize vulnerability and share his personal experience about this. 50:46 - 54:50 - Brian discussed the two things that are essential to have an amazing sex. 54:43 - End - QnA
Thanks a lot, Juan Ovalle. As men, we have to build ourselves to the point that if a woman rejects us; it will be her loss not to give us that opportunity. We need to be happy with ourselves and our lives that if she says no. it is not a f****g big deal.
I wish I could find where I read this, but there is a 19th-century anecdotal character - a Prussian grenadier, something along those lines. He is talking with another soldier about how to get girls to [ahem]. Grenadier: "It's easy! I just go up to them and ask, 'Do you want to [ahem]?'" Other soldier - utterly shocked, finally manages to reply: "But ... don't they slap you??" Grenadier: "Oh, yes, lots of times, they slap! But sometimes they [ahem]!"
I tried this on my wife and she got angry at me and called me a "creep." I'm sitting here all alone playing Nintendo switch because she took off on a date with her boyfriend Jamal.
oh... idk maybe divorce her? why do you need wife who dates Jamal? maybe get some other women pregnant so your wife will get less resources :-) fuck it. fearless. lets get them all pregnant.
Just had to come back and write this, I watched this yesterday and starting today I did everything by feeling it through my core instead of my head, walking, talking, working out, etc. Biggest coincidence or not, and I shit you not, but coming back from the gym today I got my first compliment from a female I have no relation with for the first time since I started working out 10 years ago.
The tip at the end is really a game-changer. Small gains over time really add up. As a simple example, when I was able to drive, I was scared to go into the drive thru and order food. There was tension in what was I going to say, would I stutter, etc. after enough exposure to that, it’s not a huge issue. That’s growth.
Fascinating presentation. When he talked about the importance of exposing yourself to tension I remembered a saying of a German psychologist Hans Selie who said: Stress is death, stress is life. Without tension (stress) there is no growth.
Eddie Moon which is why you engage in a conversation, and you have to be masculine and have seductive skills. Only being attractive isn’t gonna get you anywhere. That’s not how it works. She doesn’t choose you if you come across as insecure and you don’t have your shit together, then you just go on to the next person. Some people may date outside their preference because of how you come across. It’s easier if you meet their preference though
@@primordialking5444 "attractive :....smh, who said anything about being attractive. I've been in the game along time, so I know about this area. If you are not her "type" or "style" you could have all the seductive skills in the world and be on point with yur alpha male shitt,...... but she has to give you an opportunity to spitt your game when you pull up. You can't force nobody to like you. Do you really think that every good-looking Alpha with game and that has some paper also never gets rejected?..Of course they do... Because she shot him down for whatever the reason maybe. .....Check it out. How much shy guys you know who has no mouth piece, and is a little corny, still get play from women, fine as women at that? I know a few ... its because the woman likes what she likes. The truth is always simple. So , being on point is fine , having your shitt together is great, having your weapons ready for engagement at any minute helps, but it still boils down to that woman choosing you (sizing yu up, seeing if she is going to fuck yu in 7 seconds) . So no engaging of conversation is taking place unless she allows it to take place. If that sex appeal meter don't ring off, because you out of shape or don't no how to dress or smell etc. You will never know why. Because women have control of that part of the game . The only thing you can do is be on your best presentation behavior when you step to her and hope you are her style/type so you can get an opportunity lay your game down, oops I mean engage in conversation. I would respect the conversation and type your name in here, but I can't address another man as king who can't even post his picture. Peace & much Blessings to you.
@@eddiemoon5317 Yes, you are 100% right. The problem is that over 90% of men have a giant ego when it comes to interacting women and will never accept that. They will never accept the fact that they are "picking" women, and women are "choosing" men. All of these pick up artist are making money by spreding this bs that you can get ANY girl. Life would be beautiful if that was true. If something seems too good to be true, then it is.
She's paid to act. That's why this is a joke. Cold approach PUA is dead. Women have access to all the online shopping apps they need for unlimited access. Lift or get a Doll.
@@kajuta240 cold approach works sometimes still although it's not the magic wand. With dating apps it's a pain in the ass because you have to take modeling pictures and the whole deal if you wanna get a lot of matches
He makes a great point. If you want a real interaction, work on belly breathing. And honestly, just honor your feelings, a potential girlfriend will respect those feelings, if she does not she is not ready to understand how you feel.
This is hands down the best video on UA-cam regarding women. He's not saying change who you are, but feel who you are. Deep! I believe most men do this with women they're not that attracted to, including me. Hence that's why we attract the women we don't want.
I'm 30 of age and this took me years to figure out something so simple to attract women, as I'm be learning to become better, I figured it out,, it's the opposite attract, (example) doing something kind and nice for them is actually drives girls away, (good guy vibe) but instead be a badass and show your the man and don't give a f,,,k about rejection and go with the flow,,, yeah yeah, you say I'm disrespecting women some say,,, but here the paradox that what actually women attracted by,, weird isn't it,, by being assertive and in control women pick up that manly vibe,, I should have known sooner is my regret but whatever, Incels through are afraid of risk,,, plus if you give off that manly vibe, looks will be an afterthought,,, that's why women say they prefer confidence over looks, you just got to know how that works to believe that, good luck men
Such a really nice presentation i agree mostly that it helps 1-to be a man and be willing to lose her 2-to stand your ground when the girl start getting emotional 3-to smile abit and relax she's not gonna bite you :)
pure gold this video is GOLD BETTER THAN ANY alpha male or puas books.. these are the explanations at the deepest level like spiritual level not like the surface of strategy... the emotions, the body language, the stare, your masculine body ( not like a bodybuilder but a decent fitness its a huge +) its the cake. the words are the cherry on the top.
If you're a no brainer then sure. But if you say something like "Relax. I have no intention to scare you . If I push your limits too hard just say "I dont like it" and i'll stop" You're not only make the girl more comfortable but basically now she can't accuse you in anything. Keep your word tho
THis video was in my recommendations. Brian is onto something. The energetic work is crucial. Learning how to flow through your masculine. I used to feel that way, but every time I spoke I went backwards just like the two volunteers. It's because I didn't feel that expressing that energy was normal due to social conditioning. But by working on it something clicked eventually after a couple years.
59:24 Seriously now. If you’re analytical, that means that you pay attention to details, so you won’t forget her birthday or your anniversary. In the bedroom… undress her slowly. Pay attention to each piece of clothing you take off her- the texture, the texture of her skin. All the small details that reveal her beauty. Draw a map of her on her skin with your kisses. Explore. Listen. Smell. Feel. Reconstruct her inside you until your brain can’t take it anymore. Inch by inch, kiss by kiss. This is how you open a map to reveal itself the hidden treasure. You’re welcome.
A superb, hi-value presentation.What made the presentation, besides his calm, so relaxed, not rushed/no sales patter, is his excellent practice en vivo session with the female assistant and two audience members. So powerful. So much respect toward women as well. This guy, from how he presented himself, is great at seduction, but also would appear to be great at building a longterm relationship. This is gestalt psychology, also eastern spirituality shared. He seems to have high levels of integrity as a dating coach-I looked at his website. Wow, if his other presentations are like this I'd be very impressed.
36:53 Connect to the heart and stomach 44:41 it's the energy behind the words, it's how you say it 49:10 Great example on how to communicate 51:30 How to communicate for better sex Be the mountain, Be the riverbank
This is actually some really good shit. Learning to enjoy tension and learning to love the thrill can be extremely useful, even for things you would never consider to have anything to do with masculinity. When I was a freshman in highschool I had to do a presentation with 3 other classmates(less tension than being by myself). I was scared shitless. I was fidgeting, I was rocking side to side, my voice would have weird inconsistencies, and what I said didn't make sense. 2 years later, having watched this video and read up on growing my masculinity and actually doing it in those 2 years, I give a legendary presentation all by myself in a class that I almost never talked in. Everybody loved it and died of laughter and felt various emotions as I took them through a weird but genuine presentation that nobody expected. And now, I love the thrill of presenting. I crave getting up in front of a group of people and not know what the hell I'm gonna say and making it up by looking right at everybody, reading the room, and building from there, all while maintaining calm and cool body language and facial expressions, and enjoying the tension that I'm creating. tldr; masculinity ftw
I just watched the clip at 44:25 and it brought tears to my eyes. I have seen Tony Robbins do work like this with couples, and I feel that your work is superior to his in this realm. Keep doing what you’re doing. The world needs this!
Profound advice that actually works! For those of you who only focused on this girls body missed out on the core message - that is, being comfortable with tension in any situation. Gold!
Basically anything that makes you nervous, scared, uncomfortable, it’s all the same. Step into it and get used to what that feels like and you grow with repeated exposures. I learned this around 25/26. That’s how change happens.
What he says in this video is 100% real, but its just not something you can learn by watching a video or attending a speak. One needs to actually learn it by experience. It is the only way. Maybe someone could write a whole 3,000 page book about trees, but you'll never know a tree until you sense and experience one (I used the words sense and experience on purpose, and I don't think I should explain that). Anyway, good random youtube link click
@Diego87 Just be yourself, as long as you are a man and act like a man. It doesn't matter if you wear some worn out Timberland boots or designer sneakers. And it's not a matter of women being "timberland shoes men kind of woman" or "designer shoes men kind of woman". I think it's way deeper than that
That was real deep he really explains the principles so good that I really realised and understood also why some other men are successfull with woman which I perceived as less masculine.
Phenomenal line. Wish he came up with it himself but there's a nofap video that came out maybe 5 months before this speech and says that line almost exactly
It all boil down to your confidence & your positive energy! Sometimes being nervous or unsure gives women a weird vibe of uncertainty your femininity,you have to seem sure & empowered almost like excited to make her interested! But the best trick that I've learned is getting her eye contact & being flirtatious,smiling with her getting her to blush is the ultimate! Women love attention & to be acknowledged especially when they are dressed to impress! If approaching a women initially bothers you or you get uncomfortable the flirting eye contact smiling technique really breaks the ice from afar & normally invites you in! If she's smiling or blushing while gazing in your direction that gives "yea I'm interested" make a move but if she just gives an half witted smile or doesn't blush or smile back then she may not be interested,you'll know when she holds a gaze or she nervously keeps looking at you smiling! The easiest way to know for sure is to give her the 'call me sign' from a distance and if she looks interested or does it back & or smiles blushes then your in like Flynn ( by the way who the hell is Flynn) but that to me is the easiest way to know for sure my fellow love-a-nots! But just be ready to close the deal when making your introduction by being calm not nerdy or too cocky there's a difference between confidence & cockiness believe me! Good luck & be BRAVE! YOU ARE MAN!!!!! ✌🏽
It’s so true. Girls love a guy who has that ‘energy’. You have to find it and live it. Live in the moment and be spontaneous! It’s hard but it takes practice and a fake it til you make it attitude. I’m only just starting to realise this stuff
Every young people out there who ever reads it remember one thing is for sure in life, if he or/she ... doesn't accept you with your flaws then there is no love connection between two soul's but If someone loves you because of who you are then there is love, what color you are , how many money you have are u poor or a rich guy it doesn't matter this is it , we all are born alone But with ages we need someone who understands us better so we can share that bond but how many of us sacrifice there life to give someone a smile before they die, we all will be in... grave all sleeping forever alone.
Wow......scientifically, socially, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally........this video is spot on and strikes all the right cords! Life lessons here are gold. Indeed the universe is perfectly balanced through the polarities within the transfer of energy.
The older, richer kids made me have social anxiety, so I never really get into tension even if I tried, every time I have tried I always get depressed or anxious.
Its not for u. And what did u exactly learn. Did this teach u to be submissive to ur man because ur not going to be picking up guys. Guys will approach u and pick u up
Have you ever heard of a concept of being gay? you twat I swear y’all guys iq is in the double digits .. you sound like a complete moron no amount of game will help you as women will smell your pathetic ness a mile away loser
The problem with the PUA's videos is that they say vague statements like "be confident" and "be masculine" and they don't explain how to implement those feelings authentically so you carry on making the same mistakes and not understand what the hell is going on. Brian really nails it here and this shit should be shown to every young man in their teens.
The part around 40:00 is good for emotional men to listen to. Some men think they're too emotional, but it works at the great advantage in relationships, when you're able to connect with your partner much easier than men who push their emotions away.
anyone can say hi to her cuz she waiting to listen to you but it's hard to find a women like her who gives you proper attention and respect your feelings
Please note at 33:07 the gentleman is defending himself by saying that he had a genuine smile. Protecting your ego is a super beta move. He should have just chilled the f out and go with the flow and just don't care.
Min 32:00 it's a bit of a con, actually, insofar as before the successful "Hi" the two are primed for successful chemistry by having them lock eyes for like a minute, starring into each other's eyes while the trainer drops cues out attractiveness, body proximity etc. Many studies show that simple, 1 min long eye-locking is enough for most people to develop quite an animal response to another human being unless that being is significantly repugnant.
Thank you Brian for this very helpful information. I do not feel so ostracized any more. My failures make sense now. Really powerful information. I never knew any of this and have never heard any teaching like this before. Wish I had this knowledge 45 years ago. Oh well. Just seems so natural.
The approach while coming from your head part instead of your heart and stomach made a lot of sense! I guess that's what meditation is all about especially getting out of your mind. Looking back in hindsight I always come from an analytical space and i can understand why most of the women got a weird vibe from me now. Even though i had the fake smile and thought in my mind (See what i mean haha) I looked approachable, because it was not coming from a grounded space and i was acting more feminine is essence it turned them off. Although everything previous to the interaction i was in my masculine which is probably why they put themselves in my orbit to begin with. I also remember when i entered situations, not even intentionally to interact with women but there happened to be some there where i was speaking from my heart and feeling the tension but not letting it effect my true expression there was an almost instant attraction from them. Before seeing this video i couldn't put my finger on it and even label what i was doing right and wrong but yeah...watching this video has giving me new understanding. So Cool!
Yea, if I could some 15-25 why life sucked, I was desperately avoiding tension altogether. Lol and of course lesrning to embrace it 26-29 is a wild ride now. Even just small bits at a time are good too!
Women like some tension. Controlled tension used "creatively". They feel the vibes off the man (the energy). Most men's energy is flat, boring and suppressed (afraid). And suppressed is bad as it turns into men who can exploded in a fit of aggression.
At 20 minutes. He talks about your perception of stress/tention. And about having the proper mindset.. for example when there's 2 seconds left in the basketball 🏀 ball game and your down two points.. everyone is scared 😨 to take the last shot..and that's exactly why Michael Jordan..Is the GOAT..he thrived under the tension... those situations made him feel ALIVE
It's the art of not caring. Stoicism. Women over think and care too much about a lot of things like their future like settling down, having security and having kids. So they look for someone who doesn't care and has no worries and this gives them comfort that they'll be okay with someone who has less worries or not caring too much
Have a mate exact same height, race and look as me. Gets a lot more attraction from girls just cos he gives off a masculine vibe. What this guy is talking about Ive seen in real life
John Karandonas Of course, but it's easier for someone good looking to never fully develop his game or vibe. I have attracted many girls only because of my appearance, but as soon as I (or even they) approach, my "niceness" and emotional blockages turns them off instantly. I have experienced hundreds of times that moment when a girl was initially attracted to me only to end up flirting, making up and even having sex with one of my lesser attractive friends who where initially ignored by the woman. Now I understand that is just because of their more masculine energy.
Please don't listen to anyone in this 21 cult. It's awful the way they talk about women. This guy here is one of the milder ones. Go to their channel and listen more they HATE women. I was scared for his volunteer.
Alan Macías probably you’re just weird as fuck and she doesn’t like you, I’ve met more than one good looking guy like that, they’re tall and good looking but still virgins because they’re weird
A tip for men who want to compliment women, Compliment them on a decision THEY made not their looks, like their clothing, earrings, shoes, hair style..etc.. because the woman will feel more grateful for the compliment due to you complimenting the choices she made. Women have tons of decisions to make everyday and Men are the prize they search for, taking hours to get ready to go out to a place to attract men. When you compliment them on a decision they made to attract you that validates them in a sense but leaves them chasing you for validation on how they look. Most guys want to say.. "excuse me, you have beautiful eyes"...You have any idea how many times she's heard that? Just think about it, good video.
43:34 I like her explanation Of how it feels from the feminine perspective. And your awareness of the masculine’s poor reaction. It expresses a state within him of lowness (for lack of a better word). Why is he reacting that way? Lack of confidence? Tension fatigue in life? Hell maybe he has no fight left in him. I think what we have been asking for is women to recognize our states but such is not the case. So we have to tell ourselves to heal restore recharge and move forward while understanding she may not assist in that process. Not cause she can’t. She’s just too busy hitting us and hoping we stay in show how strong we are opposed to assisting in why we are not. Either way -at the end of the day- it’s up to us
Man I could’ve used this in my early 20s. Had to figure this out myself. Discussing with the homies. I don’t need this stuff anymore but it’s still good shit
The first few minutes all I could pay attention to was how tiny his hands looked.....then I actually started to listen to what he was saying and got hooked. This is a great presentation! Thanks 🙏
1. It's all about the ENERGY and not much about the looks. 2. Step into the tensions, conquer your fears, that's how you will raise your energy which will ultimately help to pull the women.
This is the best presentation I have ever seen on dating motivational coaching. Fantastic. I think a lot of men are so deeply insecure that they have to use arrogance and aggression as their modus operandi. I see it all the time on Facebook. Most men on Facebook actually use a fake photo and present themselves as someone else all together with amazing skills and titles. Ha. How far has the world dwindled? That is why we need people like Brian desperately to heal things. And the lady who bullied Brian in the Yoga place first of all needs to be ousted. Who wants to put up with bullies? I'm tall, too but would never bully a short man. Only assholes do that. I like mellow and humble men very much.
I've interacted with hundreds of women over the last two decades who use fake pics and get find out in ten mins flat. I think women do it a lot more than men! There are patterns: women lie about weight, men lie about height. Women lie about the number of sexual partners they've had, and men lie about the job they really do. It's comedy. I can spot a fake a mile off. What's your Facebook name? I want to look you up. Call it curiousity.
Trust me u wouldn't be able to bully a short man lol. What r u going to do. Men r stronger physically regardless of what height they are. I'm not that tall 5'7 roughly and I wouldn't even look at a tall woman theres nothing she can do to me
Idk about these other people in the comments. Looks like they’re just here to crack a joke, but this honestly changed things for me. I already have small successes with just a few tips. This is life changing for real.
If a woman is not showing high interest in me i dont even think about talking or aproaching her....i dont wanna waste time in some girl who is not attracted to me...no choosing signal no aproach thats my rule
I'm not scared to leave the house. I just don't want to. I have worked hard to achieve what I have...... I want to enjoy my surroundings and be with my dogs.
Thank you Brian for your tremendous insight into human nature and our emotional relationships with ourselves which most of us tend to forget. I can't help but realize that your ideas are inspired or even drawn from Taoism. This resonates with me incredibly. I have only recently began reading the Tao Te Ching and at a very slow pace so as to truly understand and feel what the text is trying to describe. Since it is very ambiguous, I always love it when I find people incorporating Taoism in everyday life, it helps me understand a great deal more, and for that I thank you.
I felt like this was mostly BS except the 'connection' play(which was good) until you started talking about the man being the frame and being solid. You just hit me in the head with some things I'm doing wrong in my marriage. thanks. I thot I had this part together but really just missing some things that I should be doing. thanks thanks thanks!!!
It's been a long time since this demo, but what I may have decided was that he needed that defense mechanism in that moment to move forward with the exercise and connecting with her. Sometimes, if you take away TOO much of someone's defenses at once, it hinders their progress. On another note, hands in your pockets don't matter when you bring the right energy and confidence. I see my partner, Dave, do it all the time. He is one of the most magnetic and "naturally" from-birth confident men I've known. Women will constantly bump into him and surround him when we're out. It's not the body language by itself - it's the whole feeling of the guy. Sometimes having your arms crossed can even put you in more in touch with your body and feelings, and/or make you feel safe enough to connect a little better or be more vulnerable and authentic. These body language rules and techniques by themselves aren't the end all, be all.
I know right. That was the first thing I noticed about the first guy's interaction. Hands in pockets says you're closed off or not really sure of yourself.
@@TheFearlessMan Sounds right. The purpose of this was not fixing how the man shakes hands nor where he chooses to keep the idle hand. It is about not losing the powerful warm attraction. The feeling of attraction will modulate the voice and the movements if a man can stay in touch with it. Fixing the details is something one could consider being an feminine approach.
awesome video ... instantly felt what he was saying and even trying it out for myself ... key thing is to relax into your body and it naturally shuts off your thinking mind.
You just expressed one of those things I didn't think anyone else even thought of. I suddenly became an anxious person sometime during/after puberty. Im always in my mind. Things that should occur naturally aren't. Gotta break those bad habits.
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01:00 - 09:05 - Brian share to the audience how he was before, his experiences, how he started his journey and eventually came up with the Fearless Man.
09:17 - 13:41 - Brian share what he learned from David Nagel called “The curse of the middle class”. He also talked about how men in lose their sense of purpose and passion because they don’t want to step into tension.
13:56 - 16:26 - Brian shared stories of successful people and how they became who they are now by stepping into tension.
16:27 - 18:04 - He discussed about the state pumping - when men are stepping into tension but they’re not growing. He also talked about developing a relationship to nervous system in relation to tension.
18:14 - 20:22 - Brian mentioned about Ted talk by Kelly McGonigal. The ted talk video is about a study of people in their different level of stress and as they become good with it, they start becoming more attractive to the world.
20:48 - 23:53 - Brian talks about the ability to feel emotions and relate called vulnerability.
23:57 - 25:51 - Brian talks about the law of polarity. He also mentioned about how he really wants his client to become successful and encouraged them to get the free information on his UA-cam channel for this reason.
25:58 - 28:35 - Brian give an illustration about tension and communication.
29:10 - 40:41 - Model work with students
40:48 - 44:39 - Model work with Brian to demonstrate the polarity difference.
44:57 - 46:21 - Brian discussed the importance of stepping into tension and being masculine enough to get a whole different energy that will causes different effect not just to women but to the people around you.
46:30 - 50:44 - Brian emphasize vulnerability and share his personal experience about this.
50:46 - 54:50 - Brian discussed the two things that are essential to have an amazing sex.
54:43 - End - QnA
German women are turned on by intelligence and deep conversations...fo real.🤔
Cool and and cosy
That is a fine piece of ass
Love ur program
The early years is better for experience
"If you learn to be uncomfortable you will have a easy life. If you are chasing an easy life, you will be very uncomfortable."
Gem
So true!
!save
Something I have lived by some my internship with NASA
Wow what a coincidence. I was just scrolling through the comments and exactly when I read this quote I hear him say the same thing.
Just have the balls. And get denied countless of times until you don't care anymore and you become an Alpha. It works.
Thanks a lot, Juan Ovalle. As men, we have to build ourselves to the point that if a woman rejects us; it will be her loss not to give us that opportunity. We need to be happy with ourselves and our lives that if she says no. it is not a f****g big deal.
@@simonyoel Exactly
I wish I could find where I read this, but there is a 19th-century anecdotal character - a Prussian grenadier, something along those lines. He is talking with another soldier about how to get girls to [ahem].
Grenadier: "It's easy! I just go up to them and ask, 'Do you want to [ahem]?'"
Other soldier - utterly shocked, finally manages to reply: "But ... don't they slap you??"
Grenadier: "Oh, yes, lots of times, they slap! But sometimes they [ahem]!"
2nd that , this is comment has more value than whole video . LOL
Real talk
I think this is actually very profound and true. Pushing through tension is basically a recipe to cure generalised anxiety disorder.
Me:
UA-cam Algorithm: You need to get laid. Here's an instructional.
lol
yep... but i don't want to cheat on my girlfriend... thank youtube :-)
True
Should we thank UA-cam now?
🤣
I tried this on my wife and she got angry at me and called me a "creep." I'm sitting here all alone playing Nintendo switch because she took off on a date with her boyfriend Jamal.
Woooow dude Be a man and dump that shitt u have to Be joking
Nintendo Switch you say?🧐
Jamal is only on Sundays, this is Shaneekwah's turn
oh... idk maybe divorce her? why do you need wife who dates Jamal? maybe get some other women pregnant so your wife will get less resources :-) fuck it. fearless. lets get them all pregnant.
How can you turds not tell this was for a laugh? lmao
Social media has led to people teaching other men on how to say hi to a woman...
today , the men need this. say hello to feminized world.
victim mindset
@@seeyaingarage2864 he did say other men rather than myself. Idk if it's social media but there is a problem with men, ... don't u think?
Wrong, men have been reading books on how to talk to women since before you were even born.
@@seeyaingarage2864 facts🥱 i’m able to flirt w women at grocery stores , the gym it’s all about taking care of yourself. NO FAP GENTLEMAN
A 1 hour seminar on how to say "HI" to a woman. The next 1 hour will be on a hand shake. This is good stuff.
mrBDeye women want a man or woman with money point blank period #facts
mrBDeye lmao 🤣
great observation
Pretty intense stuff 😅
Lesson for next month is how to say, "nice day isn't it?"
Finally someone who talks more about energies and polarities between men and women. Thank you sir.
Just had to come back and write this, I watched this yesterday and starting today I did everything by feeling it through my core instead of my head, walking, talking, working out, etc. Biggest coincidence or not, and I shit you not, but coming back from the gym today I got my first compliment from a female I have no relation with for the first time since I started working out 10 years ago.
Good for you brother that will be the first of many. Keep it up you will get better/stronger everyday.
Many simps are mad here in comment section. Whatever this guy saying is true in every aspects of life.
Care to explain what he did then? Lol
Authentic masculinity. Being genuine. It can take you a long way
Exactly
Literally every aspect
The tip at the end is really a game-changer. Small gains over time really add up. As a simple example, when I was able to drive, I was scared to go into the drive thru and order food. There was tension in what was I going to say, would I stutter, etc. after enough exposure to that, it’s not a huge issue. That’s growth.
All we can do is be better than we were yesterday
Fascinating presentation. When he talked about the importance of exposing yourself to tension I remembered a saying of a German psychologist Hans Selie who said: Stress is death, stress is life. Without tension (stress) there is no growth.
How is your stress going on now?
Distress is the destructive variety, and *eustress* is the constructive variety.
Distress vs eustress
If this presentation lasted 8 hours, I'd still have watched it to the end. It's that good.
It's insane.
None of these techniques will work if she , didn't "Choose" yu. If she ain't attracted to yu, yu saying Hi, 50 different ways is not doin shitt.
Eddie Moon which is why you engage in a conversation, and you have to be masculine and have seductive skills. Only being attractive isn’t gonna get you anywhere. That’s not how it works. She doesn’t choose you if you come across as insecure and you don’t have your shit together, then you just go on to the next person. Some people may date outside their preference because of how you come across. It’s easier if you meet their preference though
Primordial King being unattractive isn't gonna get you anywhere either. Both of these things are important.
Ed you 100 % correct, if she ain’t feeling you , it ain’t going to going to happen
@@primordialking5444 "attractive :....smh, who said anything about being attractive. I've been in the game along time, so I know about this area. If you are not her "type" or "style" you could have all the seductive skills in the world and be on point with yur alpha male shitt,...... but she has to give you an opportunity to spitt your game when you pull up. You can't force nobody to like you. Do you really think that every good-looking Alpha with game and that has some paper also never gets rejected?..Of course they do... Because she shot him down for whatever the reason maybe.
.....Check it out. How much shy guys you know who has no mouth piece, and is a little corny, still get play from women, fine as women at that? I know a few ... its because the woman likes what she likes. The truth is always simple. So , being on point is fine , having your shitt together is great, having your weapons ready for engagement at any minute helps, but it still boils down to that woman choosing you (sizing yu up, seeing if she is going to fuck yu in 7 seconds) . So no engaging of conversation is taking place unless she allows it to take place. If that sex appeal meter don't ring off, because you out of shape or don't no how to dress or smell etc. You will never know why. Because women have control of that part of the game . The only thing you can do is be on your best presentation behavior when you step to her and hope you are her style/type so you can get an opportunity lay your game down, oops I mean engage in conversation. I would respect the conversation and type your name in here, but I can't address another man as king who can't even post his picture. Peace & much Blessings to you.
@@eddiemoon5317 Yes, you are 100% right. The problem is that over 90% of men have a giant ego when it comes to interacting women and will never accept that. They will never accept the fact that they are "picking" women, and women are "choosing" men. All of these pick up artist are making money by spreding this bs that you can get ANY girl. Life would be beautiful if that was true. If something seems too good to be true, then it is.
How could anybody hate this video? Thank you Brian.
She's paid to act. That's why this is a joke. Cold approach PUA is dead. Women have access to all the online shopping apps they need for unlimited access. Lift or get a Doll.
@@kajuta240 cold approach works sometimes still although it's not the magic wand. With dating apps it's a pain in the ass because you have to take modeling pictures and the whole deal if you wanna get a lot of matches
I'm in the weird part of UA-cam.
no you're not...
😂😂
@@poocumber7806 where u from bro
Bro the cringe I swear
💀 stg how did I get here
The universe will send you to the tools to progress if you ask for it.
Thanks for this video
seconded my friend.
Thirded. Even a year later!
Very coincidence
Only someone that when down hill and came up again in life will understand this guy. This is really deep stuff his talking about .. pure gold
This video is total BS....How many American women look like this ?
@@irreversablecontentment4651
Where you from
He makes a great point. If you want a real interaction, work on belly breathing. And honestly, just honor your feelings, a potential girlfriend will respect those feelings, if she does not she is not ready to understand how you feel.
This is hands down the best video on UA-cam regarding women. He's not saying change who you are, but feel who you are. Deep! I believe most men do this with women they're not that attracted to, including me. Hence that's why we attract the women we don't want.
I'm 30 of age and this took me years to figure out something so simple to attract women, as I'm be learning to become better, I figured it out,, it's the opposite attract, (example) doing something kind and nice for them is actually drives girls away, (good guy vibe) but instead be a badass and show your the man and don't give a f,,,k about rejection and go with the flow,,, yeah yeah, you say I'm disrespecting women some say,,, but here the paradox that what actually women attracted by,, weird isn't it,, by being assertive and in control women pick up that manly vibe,, I should have known sooner is my regret but whatever, Incels through are afraid of risk,,, plus if you give off that manly vibe, looks will be an afterthought,,, that's why women say they prefer confidence over looks, you just got to know how that works to believe that, good luck men
I personally haven’t had my mind blown multiple times in an hour straight. This guy just change my reality for the better, THANK YOU
Excellent ! The femine always tests the masculine to find and grasp the emotional masculinine energy !
Such a really nice presentation i agree mostly that it helps
1-to be a man and be willing to lose her
2-to stand your ground when the girl start getting emotional
3-to smile abit and relax she's not gonna bite you :)
pure gold this video is GOLD BETTER THAN ANY alpha male or puas books.. these are the explanations at the deepest level like spiritual level not like the surface of strategy...
the emotions, the body language, the stare, your masculine body ( not like a bodybuilder but a decent fitness its a huge +) its the cake.
the words are the cherry on the top.
Breaking news 100% of men who attended this seminar got charged with sexual harassment within a month after this.
If you're a no brainer then sure. But if you say something like "Relax. I have no intention to scare you . If I push your limits too hard just say "I dont like it" and i'll stop" You're not only make the girl more comfortable but basically now she can't accuse you in anything. Keep your word tho
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤯🤯🤯🤯
@@Glomly you will get arrested for rape if you say that 😆
@@Quickscript Why is that? By her jealous ex?
But obviously it's not the first phrase you should say to a woman lololo
@@Quickscript >Chad
>getting arrested
TOPKEK
I just tried this last night ... and now I'm afraid I'm going to need to get a job to pay for child support.
Work Account Already have the pregnancy 🤰 test?
:) Hilarious!
Do a test dude see if Its yours for real
U fukkin idiot lol
🤡🤡🤡
THis video was in my recommendations. Brian is onto something. The energetic work is crucial. Learning how to flow through your masculine. I used to feel that way, but every time I spoke I went backwards just like the two volunteers. It's because I didn't feel that expressing that energy was normal due to social conditioning. But by working on it something clicked eventually after a couple years.
59:24 Seriously now.
If you’re analytical, that means that you pay attention to details, so you won’t forget her birthday or your anniversary. In the bedroom… undress her slowly. Pay attention to each piece of clothing you take off her- the texture, the texture of her skin. All the small details that reveal her beauty. Draw a map of her on her skin with your kisses. Explore. Listen. Smell. Feel. Reconstruct her inside you until your brain can’t take it anymore. Inch by inch, kiss by kiss. This is how you open a map to reveal itself the hidden treasure.
You’re welcome.
"50 Shades of Hi" to me this is.
lmaooooo
😂😂
A superb, hi-value presentation.What made the presentation, besides his calm, so relaxed, not rushed/no sales patter, is his excellent practice en vivo session with the female assistant and two audience members. So powerful. So much respect toward women as well. This guy, from how he presented himself, is great at seduction, but also would appear to be great at building a longterm relationship. This is gestalt psychology, also eastern spirituality shared. He seems to have high levels of integrity as a dating coach-I looked at his website. Wow, if his other presentations are like this I'd be very impressed.
Self-love is more important than giving it away to some random woman Jesus Christ loves you
Jesus is fake. Self love is important tho
😂
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Descendant of Egypt u called Jesus fake but your UA-cam name is descendent of Egypt GTFOH
Jesus isn’t fake he’s a real man a prophet but no god lmao 😂
36:53 Connect to the heart and stomach
44:41 it's the energy behind the words, it's how you say it
49:10 Great example on how to communicate
51:30 How to communicate for better sex
Be the mountain, Be the riverbank
This is actually some really good shit. Learning to enjoy tension and learning to love the thrill can be extremely useful, even for things you would never consider to have anything to do with masculinity.
When I was a freshman in highschool I had to do a presentation with 3 other classmates(less tension than being by myself). I was scared shitless. I was fidgeting, I was rocking side to side, my voice would have weird inconsistencies, and what I said didn't make sense.
2 years later, having watched this video and read up on growing my masculinity and actually doing it in those 2 years, I give a legendary presentation all by myself in a class that I almost never talked in. Everybody loved it and died of laughter and felt various emotions as I took them through a weird but genuine presentation that nobody expected.
And now, I love the thrill of presenting. I crave getting up in front of a group of people and not know what the hell I'm gonna say and making it up by looking right at everybody, reading the room, and building from there, all while maintaining calm and cool body language and facial expressions, and enjoying the tension that I'm creating.
tldr; masculinity ftw
I just watched the clip at 44:25 and it brought tears to my eyes. I have seen Tony Robbins do work like this with couples, and I feel that your work is superior to his in this realm. Keep doing what you’re doing. The world needs this!
Profound advice that actually works! For those of you who only focused on this girls body missed out on the core message - that is, being comfortable with tension in any situation. Gold!
Basically anything that makes you nervous, scared, uncomfortable, it’s all the same. Step into it and get used to what that feels like and you grow with repeated exposures. I learned this around 25/26. That’s how change happens.
What he says in this video is 100% real, but its just not something you can learn by watching a video or attending a speak. One needs to actually learn it by experience. It is the only way. Maybe someone could write a whole 3,000 page book about trees, but you'll never know a tree until you sense and experience one (I used the words sense and experience on purpose, and I don't think I should explain that). Anyway, good random youtube link click
@Diego87 Just be yourself, as long as you are a man and act like a man. It doesn't matter if you wear some worn out Timberland boots or designer sneakers. And it's not a matter of women being "timberland shoes men kind of woman" or "designer shoes men kind of woman". I think it's way deeper than that
@@diggadirt393 lol
it doesnt work if youre not good looking, but they wont tell you that.
So true
clicked for the girl. Stayed to know how to get one.
Yikes
That was real deep he really explains the principles so good that I really realised and understood also why some other men are successfull with woman which I perceived as less masculine.
“I am not afraid of the tension. I’m a man. I can handle it.”
Thanx
Phenomenal line. Wish he came up with it himself but there's a nofap video that came out maybe 5 months before this speech and says that line almost exactly
Alejandro Cedano textbook hater lol
Haywood Jablomi jk
Well good for you
Been waiting for the full length of this video to come out for a while. This guy Brian brings a whole new sense to feeling emotions and body language.
Glad it resonates!
kpolydore re
It all boil down to your confidence & your positive energy! Sometimes being nervous or unsure gives women a weird vibe of uncertainty your femininity,you have to seem sure & empowered almost like excited to make her interested! But the best trick that I've learned is getting her eye contact & being flirtatious,smiling with her getting her to blush is the ultimate! Women love attention & to be acknowledged especially when they are dressed to impress! If approaching a women initially bothers you or you get uncomfortable the flirting eye contact smiling technique really breaks the ice from afar & normally invites you in! If she's smiling or blushing while gazing in your direction that gives "yea I'm interested" make a move but if she just gives an half witted smile or doesn't blush or smile back then she may not be interested,you'll know when she holds a gaze or she nervously keeps looking at you smiling! The easiest way to know for sure is to give her the 'call me sign' from a distance and if she looks interested or does it back & or smiles blushes then your in like Flynn ( by the way who the hell is Flynn) but that to me is the easiest way to know for sure my fellow love-a-nots! But just be ready to close the deal when making your introduction by being calm not nerdy or too cocky there's a difference between confidence & cockiness believe me! Good luck & be BRAVE! YOU ARE MAN!!!!! ✌🏽
It’s so true. Girls love a guy who has that ‘energy’. You have to find it and live it. Live in the moment and be spontaneous! It’s hard but it takes practice and a fake it til you make it attitude. I’m only just starting to realise this stuff
Every young people out there who ever reads it remember one thing is for sure in life, if he or/she ... doesn't accept you with your flaws then there is no love connection between two soul's but If someone loves you because of who you are then there is love, what color you are , how many money you have are u poor or a rich guy it doesn't matter this is it , we all are born alone But with ages we need someone who understands us better so we can share that bond but how many of us sacrifice there life to give someone a smile before they die, we all will be in... grave all sleeping forever alone.
Just discovered this guy. He's now my new favourite. He really know what he's about. And that sold me.
Be careful this spiritual shit bro
I think its funny how guys talk shit about this video, as if they are too cool for this video...yet they still watch it.
Devil Dog2016 nah im too cool
freak me too
Solid demo on how to create sexual tension by being in our body than our head when so many gurus seems to focus too much on verbal skills or gimmicks.
REAL NIGGAZ EAT ASS
It was in my recommended.
Wow......scientifically, socially, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally........this video is spot on and strikes all the right cords! Life lessons here are gold. Indeed the universe is perfectly balanced through the polarities within the transfer of energy.
I agree!
This man has a lot of deep knowledge ! I’d Ike to get his take on relationships the power struggle and how to handle it .
Aye, just be yourself and don’t hide your feelings. 🤷🏾♂️( that’s what I think he is saying.)
The older, richer kids made me have social anxiety, so I never really get into tension even if I tried, every time I have tried I always get depressed or anxious.
Even as a women, I learnt so much from this 😍
marry me, am I doing 5his right?
Its not for u. And what did u exactly learn. Did this teach u to be submissive to ur man because ur not going to be picking up guys. Guys will approach u and pick u up
Have you ever heard of a concept of being gay? you twat I swear y’all guys iq is in the double digits .. you sound like a complete moron no amount of game will help you as women will smell your pathetic ness a mile away loser
The problem with the PUA's videos is that they say vague statements like "be confident" and "be masculine" and they don't explain how to implement those feelings authentically so you carry on making the same mistakes and not understand what the hell is going on. Brian really nails it here and this shit should be shown to every young man in their teens.
The part around 40:00 is good for emotional men to listen to. Some men think they're too emotional, but it works at the great advantage in relationships, when you're able to connect with your partner much easier than men who push their emotions away.
There has to be a balance. Crying over a woman or arguing with your girl is not the way to go.
Be respectful, make her laugh, and be confident.
Literally all you need .
Seems like a lot of hustle for little reward. In all honest its harder than you put it.
@@AS-ff9vp why should anyone babysit a grown....sex nah! There's zero benefits to it
Exactly. People put too much into getting woman. This shit wouldn’t work for a guy if she didn’t want them
Bruh don't even try to make her laugh, do shit that'll make you laugh, she'll be enjoying herself
This shows how fallen the society is
@@andrewedward8067 facts
@@andrewedward8067 You just made that up.
Fernando Alamón > do your research buddy
@@andrewedward8067 I made my research already.
Fernando Alamón > clearly not
"Embrace the TENSION, willing to be VULNERABLE, you can't do it from your head you've got to feel it"
anyone can say hi to her cuz she waiting to listen to you
but it's hard to find a women like her
who gives you proper attention and respect your feelings
Please note at 33:07 the gentleman is defending himself by saying that he had a genuine smile. Protecting your ego is a super beta move. He should have just chilled the f out and go with the flow and just don't care.
I caught that too nice insight
yeaaah good point
What u mean protecting your ego
@@naaiiiz when someone try to correct you but your ego defending your feeling thats the problem, thats the a beta move. just shrug it off he didn’t.
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19TH day of noNUT november i was levitating in my room searching for some tibetian healing high frequency sounds and youtube recomended me this
I know man I know 😂🙌
hehhee
LMAO
"searching for some tibetian healing high frequency sounds" .... 😂😂😂😂😂
😂
Zig Ziglar said "You have to Be before you can Do, and Do before you can Have."
He had friends? Wow, his starting point is already better than mine.
Pólvora Del Rey change ur name bud that’s a start , trust me. Lanas cool but not changing ur name on ur acct as a man. No disrespect
Min 32:00 it's a bit of a con, actually, insofar as before the successful "Hi" the two are primed for successful chemistry by having them lock eyes for like a minute, starring into each other's eyes while the trainer drops cues out attractiveness, body proximity etc. Many studies show that simple, 1 min long eye-locking is enough for most people to develop quite an animal response to another human being unless that being is significantly repugnant.
I joined the Marines at age 17.
I became a bad ass . Never looked back...
Semper fidelis...
Thank you Brian for this very helpful information. I do not feel so ostracized any more. My failures make sense now. Really powerful information. I never knew any of this and have never heard any teaching like this before. Wish I had this knowledge 45 years ago. Oh well. Just seems so natural.
I learned something I should have known 10 years ago :(
Im blessed to have clicked on this video.. really appreciate it.
Was thinking the same
Never in a million years she would be attracted to that first dude with his beatlesshirt..
The approach while coming from your head part instead of your heart and stomach made a lot of sense! I guess that's what meditation is all about especially getting out of your mind. Looking back in hindsight I always come from an analytical space and i can understand why most of the women got a weird vibe from me now. Even though i had the fake smile and thought in my mind (See what i mean haha) I looked approachable, because it was not coming from a grounded space and i was acting more feminine is essence it turned them off. Although everything previous to the interaction i was in my masculine which is probably why they put themselves in my orbit to begin with. I also remember when i entered situations, not even intentionally to interact with women but there happened to be some there where i was speaking from my heart and feeling the tension but not letting it effect my true expression there was an almost instant attraction from them. Before seeing this video i couldn't put my finger on it and even label what i was doing right and wrong but yeah...watching this video has giving me new understanding. So Cool!
David Stone Definitely. Video is very insightful, noticed many flaws in my approach game
Love to hear all that self-awareness you got out of this.
Great talk. Great points. Thank you 🙌
The end of your talk with Q&A and your finger point was insightful.
Its so true, that your mindset regardless of what you say matters. If you intimated , its almost impossible to hide that...they can sense/ smell it!!!
Excellent content and truly valuable. It does make you rethink your whole process up to that point and understand what went wrong all those years ago.
Yea, if I could some 15-25 why life sucked, I was desperately avoiding tension altogether. Lol and of course lesrning to embrace it 26-29 is a wild ride now. Even just small bits at a time are good too!
Women like some tension. Controlled tension used "creatively". They feel the vibes off the man (the energy). Most men's energy is flat, boring and suppressed (afraid). And suppressed is bad as it turns into men who can exploded in a fit of aggression.
At 20 minutes. He talks about your perception of stress/tention. And about having the proper mindset.. for example when there's 2 seconds left in the basketball 🏀 ball game and your down two points.. everyone is scared 😨 to take the last shot..and that's exactly why Michael Jordan..Is the GOAT..he thrived under the tension... those situations made him feel ALIVE
Essentially, emit your emotion through your groin. It doesn't matter what you say.
my eyes were glued to those bumps throughout.
It's the art of not caring. Stoicism. Women over think and care too much about a lot of things like their future like settling down, having security and having kids. So they look for someone who doesn't care and has no worries and this gives them comfort that they'll be okay with someone who has less worries or not caring too much
Have a mate exact same height, race and look as me. Gets a lot more attraction from girls just cos he gives off a masculine vibe. What this guy is talking about Ive seen in real life
John Karandonas Of course, but it's easier for someone good looking to never fully develop his game or vibe. I have attracted many girls only because of my appearance, but as soon as I (or even they) approach, my "niceness" and emotional blockages turns them off instantly. I have experienced hundreds of times that moment when a girl was initially attracted to me only to end up flirting, making up and even having sex with one of my lesser attractive friends who where initially ignored by the woman. Now I understand that is just because of their more masculine energy.
Please don't listen to anyone in this 21 cult. It's awful the way they talk about women. This guy here is one of the milder ones. Go to their channel and listen more they HATE women. I was scared for his volunteer.
@@alanmacias9284 no no no do not listen to this garbage
Ashley he’s probably better looking than you but you just don’t realize it since you’re both “around average.”
Alan Macías probably you’re just weird as fuck and she doesn’t like you, I’ve met more than one good looking guy like that, they’re tall and good looking but still virgins because they’re weird
A tip for men who want to compliment women, Compliment them on a decision THEY made not their looks, like their clothing, earrings, shoes, hair style..etc.. because the woman will feel more grateful for the compliment due to you complimenting the choices she made. Women have tons of decisions to make everyday and Men are the prize they search for, taking hours to get ready to go out to a place to attract men. When you compliment them on a decision they made to attract you that validates them in a sense but leaves them chasing you for validation on how they look. Most guys want to say.. "excuse me, you have beautiful eyes"...You have any idea how many times she's heard that? Just think about it, good video.
Dam she is fine, I woulda had no problem sayin hi to her even if I was a rookie
What’s a better greeting? Hey let’s fuck? Lol
but without the "hey"
They paid her several hundred to be there. Of course she is going to be hot. If they chose a random woman she would weigh 190 and be a 2 out of 10
Bill Johnson I guess that’d hold true to the states lmao, don’t forget the xl fries
Bill Johnson You ever thought about how they could have easily met her throughout their day and introduced her into his life and brought her on stage?
43:34 I like her explanation Of how it feels from the feminine perspective.
And your awareness of the masculine’s poor reaction. It expresses a state within him of lowness (for lack of a better word). Why is he reacting that way? Lack of confidence? Tension fatigue in life? Hell maybe he has no fight left in him.
I think what we have been asking for is women to recognize our states but such is not the case.
So we have to tell ourselves to heal restore recharge and move forward while understanding she may not assist in that process. Not cause she can’t. She’s just too busy hitting us and hoping we stay in show how strong we are opposed to assisting in why we are not.
Either way -at the end of the day- it’s up to us
Having good social skills is good but at the end of the day it's all about your physical attraction.
Man I could’ve used this in my early 20s. Had to figure this out myself. Discussing with the homies. I don’t need this stuff anymore but it’s still good shit
The first few minutes all I could pay attention to was how tiny his hands looked.....then I actually started to listen to what he was saying and got hooked. This is a great presentation! Thanks 🙏
This is connecting with the deepest parts of my soul
Only clicked for the model
That’s why they used it as the thumbnail... lol, sheep
Everyone did.
But ended up staying and commenting.
1. It's all about the ENERGY and not much about the looks.
2. Step into the tensions, conquer your fears, that's how you will raise your energy which will ultimately help to pull the women.
This is the best presentation I have ever seen on dating motivational coaching. Fantastic. I think a lot of men are so deeply insecure that they have to use arrogance and aggression as their modus operandi. I see it all the time on Facebook. Most men on Facebook actually use a fake photo and present themselves as someone else all together with amazing skills and titles. Ha. How far has the world dwindled? That is why we need people like Brian desperately to heal things. And the lady who bullied Brian in the Yoga place first of all needs to be ousted. Who wants to put up with bullies? I'm tall, too but would never bully a short man. Only assholes do that. I like mellow and humble men very much.
I've interacted with hundreds of women over the last two decades who use fake pics and get find out in ten mins flat. I think women do it a lot more than men! There are patterns: women lie about weight, men lie about height. Women lie about the number of sexual partners they've had, and men lie about the job they really do. It's comedy. I can spot a fake a mile off.
What's your Facebook name? I want to look you up. Call it curiousity.
That's because half of the men on facebook are simps and don't understand women they all are just girls in my book
Trust me u wouldn't be able to bully a short man lol. What r u going to do. Men r stronger physically regardless of what height they are. I'm not that tall 5'7 roughly and I wouldn't even look at a tall woman theres nothing she can do to me
@@KD400_ Bro I don't bully anyone ever.
How to be a master at life, BE YOURSELF.
Idk about these other people in the comments. Looks like they’re just here to crack a joke, but this honestly changed things for me. I already have small successes with just a few tips. This is life changing for real.
If a woman is not showing high interest in me i dont even think about talking or aproaching her....i dont wanna waste time in some girl who is not attracted to me...no choosing signal no aproach thats my rule
Lol have u been watching ams
I'm not scared to leave the house. I just don't want to. I have worked hard to achieve what I have...... I want to enjoy my surroundings and be with my dogs.
From time to time you find a good vid and from time to time a masterpiece. This is the latter. God bless.
Money will make you
Taller
Stronger
Slimmer
Funnier
Confident
Everything is improved with $
no your right, but you know right from wrong and you'll know when someone is genuine about who they are or not.
Xavi Jay Sanchez not better looking, though?
Do you have ANYTHING to offer? Maybe something that will earn you money even?
Thank you Brian for your tremendous insight into human nature and our emotional relationships with ourselves which most of us tend to forget.
I can't help but realize that your ideas are inspired or even drawn from Taoism. This resonates with me incredibly. I have only recently began reading the Tao Te Ching and at a very slow pace so as to truly understand and feel what the text is trying to describe. Since it is very ambiguous, I always love it when I find people incorporating Taoism in everyday life, it helps me understand a great deal more, and for that I thank you.
I used what I learned in this video at a gas station tonight. I'll I had to do is look and give a half smile and I had her attention.
I felt like this was mostly BS except the 'connection' play(which was good) until you started talking about the man being the frame and being solid. You just hit me in the head with some things I'm doing wrong in my marriage. thanks. I thot I had this part together but really just missing some things that I should be doing. thanks thanks thanks!!!
Brian I'm surprised you never mentioned the hands in the pockets
Barry A. I'm surprised Brian never noticed it or brought it up or at least say something about it.
It's been a long time since this demo, but what I may have decided was that he needed that defense mechanism in that moment to move forward with the exercise and connecting with her. Sometimes, if you take away TOO much of someone's defenses at once, it hinders their progress. On another note, hands in your pockets don't matter when you bring the right energy and confidence. I see my partner, Dave, do it all the time. He is one of the most magnetic and "naturally" from-birth confident men I've known. Women will constantly bump into him and surround him when we're out. It's not the body language by itself - it's the whole feeling of the guy. Sometimes having your arms crossed can even put you in more in touch with your body and feelings, and/or make you feel safe enough to connect a little better or be more vulnerable and authentic. These body language rules and techniques by themselves aren't the end all, be all.
I know right. That was the first thing I noticed about the first guy's interaction. Hands in pockets says you're closed off or not really sure of yourself.
@@TheFearlessMan Sounds right. The purpose of this was not fixing how the man shakes hands nor where he chooses to keep the idle hand. It is about not losing the powerful warm attraction. The feeling of attraction will modulate the voice and the movements if a man can stay in touch with it. Fixing the details is something one could consider being an feminine approach.
Brian is amazing, The Fearless Man is one of my favorite channels. Intellectual and sophisticated stuff, not stupid PUA manipulative BS
You are a great speaker, Brian! Loved this seminar.
awesome video ... instantly felt what he was saying and even trying it out for myself ... key thing is to relax into your body and it naturally shuts off your thinking mind.
Awesome. Really glad to hear you had that experience for yourself
Do bioenergetics
John Washington this nigga 🤣
You just expressed one of those things I didn't think anyone else even thought of.
I suddenly became an anxious person sometime during/after puberty. Im always in my mind.
Things that should occur naturally aren't. Gotta break those bad habits.
@@Belicose777 how?