Beginner Guide to the Flylady System
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- Опубліковано 25 чер 2024
- A complete guide to the entire Flylady system! Being overwhelmed by a messy house and chaotic schedule is the worst, I know, I have been there. By adopting the Flylady cleaning system I have taken back control and I am calmer and happier than ever. In this video, I will walk through the system step by step and show you all of the tools that are available. The best advice I can give is, get started small and don't give up!
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This video was long overdue! I made sure to include all of the daily focuses and how long it takes for me to get my whole daily routine done. Are you brand new to the system? Head over to facebook and join our flylady baby steps group, we start day 1 on Monday! facebook.com/thesecretslob
This was a really great explanation to simplify things. I am a floundering flybaby but love your enthusiasm and positiveness. One item to add is that, especially for working moms, the weekly home blessing can be split up over the week if they dont have time just on Monday. Thank you again for all you do for us. I especially love your weekly sheets. Having everything on one page makes it less complicated and more doable. We love you!
Been at it a year as of June 3rd, thanks to finding you and then Diane in Denmark. So thank you for your videos they helped me tremendously.
Hi steph I love you. Can you please give us parenting tips cause I m awful with my kids .
Hello from New York!
New subscriber. Thank you for the motivation and energetic approach! Wish I had found your channel years ago! Thank you for simplifying the fly lady system. Many of us try to do too much and feel so overwhelmed by the site or book. Just need to get up and get going.
Bless you and your family.
Pamela Lowe Thank you for such nice comments!
Today is my FlyLady ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY!! I’m so grateful for this system. It has improved every aspect of my home life. With 4 kids (ages 8-17), it has been a godsend. A word to the newbies: I spent the first 10 months JUST getting my daily routines down pat. In fact, the only routine I did for the first 6 weeks was shining my sink at night before bed. It’s all that I could handle at that point in my life. And it has only been in the past two months that I’ve been able to add zone cleaning. There is no “one way” to the FlyLady system. Marla Cilly (the FlyLady) always says that housework done incompletely still blesses your family.
Happy anniversary!! Glad that this system has helped you and your family so much. I love hearing these stories. :). And its sooo true...progress is progress!
@Melanie thanks for the great motivating comment! I have 5 kids, so it’s nice to hear it can work for bigger families 💕
Thank you for setting expectations !
I have 4 kids (ages 6-16)! Life is so busy but I love this system.
Is there a paper checklist somewhere??
STEPH STEPH STEPH, this is BY FAR the BEST WAY TO show the WHOLE FLYLADY SYSTEM in one go!! Well done!!!
Yes, I agree!!!! I have been trying to FLY, but somehow the way you lay it out seems far more simple to follow. Thanks, Steph!
Wow! thank you so much Mary Kay :) :)
Great job explaining
I agree! I refer back to this video ALL THE TIME
I sent it to a 17 year old great grand daughter who is starting to want to get more organization in her life. Not sure if it will help, but I thought she would enjoy this young woman's great personality and sincerity! I do!
That's a wonderful gift. Wish someone had done that for me. I'm 36 and married and still really struggle to keep my home.
@@amycain5438 Lucky you to have Steph in your life now!
@@amycain5438 I think we found these videos just in time to be all grown up and keep our home✨ 😂
I found the Fly Lady years ago when I was still married and a stay at home mom. Her system worked great for me then. I used it (combined with other things) to maintain my home. It worked great. I haven't had a system since before 2014 and it shows. I promised myself that I would find a way to make it work as a single, working mom of four. Part of my plan is to put the kids to work to complete some of these tasks! ❤️. Your video helped a lot! I just needed a quick template to get started again!
The fly lady website is very overwhelming. You take the panic out of it. Your lists are the bomb!🌞❤️
When I visit the site, I always think "for not being into clutter, this website is an absolute bomb of digital clutter" 🤣 Steph's videos & printables are so helpful, I think she should be hired to re do the site!
@@meghoffman1655 I agree! It's in serious need of a redesign. It's so old, and not user friendly.
Meg Hoffman Totally agree!
@@alainapotaduh it was not easy to follow when it was new, either. Many people understood it, but for me it was always confusing and overwhelming... Which only compounded everything.
Flylady site is the whole enchilada and offers different levels of interactions and support for people in different situations. And yes it works for someone to break down for you. Her site is needed as she is the source.
THE best introduction to Fly Lady that I've seen.
I've been a Flybaby ever since my daughter was a little tiny girl, and now she's 22! I've somewhat fallen off the flywagon now and again, but the basic strategies and mentality never really left me. The setting a timer and realizing just how LITTLE time most tasks actually take, has been an enormous benefit for which I am forever grateful. It's so fabulous how many people's lives have been improved by Marla, all because she had the courage to share her struggles and her brilliant problem solving mind with all of us.
Steph, I have been watching you for about a year. I watched several other "fly ladies" and when I found your vlog
I knew I had found the One. I confess, I have been overwhelmed by this system. When you offered the printables, I thought that was a great idea. I printed each one, studied it, trying to make it work for my house and was still confused. This video was what I needed. Clear, concise, and in black and white. This described exactly how the tasks fit in the time frame. Love your enthusiasm and the occasional appearances by all your family members.
Also, I like the" Hi guys"
B Kaye Pokrant
AMEN TO THAT! 👍👍👍
I am so glad this video helped! Thank you for your kind words
I’m a perfectionist so not being able to clean my whole house everyday with long work days and 4 animals, is fustration.Your video simplifying FLYLADY is helping me understand progress is more important that completion and that I can make these tasks fit my lifestyle. Thank you, you are a life and time saver.
I totally wish this video would have been out when I first started trying to do the Fly Lady System. It's simplifies absolutely everything. Thank you so much Steph! ☺️
Thank you - this has been great. Your help has been invaluable for my swap from a corporate entity to stay-at-home househusband and musician. From having no idea where to begin, I'm of to a great start thanks to you.
You and Diane in Denmark are blessings to me. As an adult diagnosed with ADHD your routines and teaching style are helping me finally access those routine cleaning skills everyone else seemed to have naturally! Now I’m seeing progress (and some of the carpet in most rooms)and feeling so much better! Thank you. I especially like the 5” Room Rescue- it gives me courage to step into my home office to, little by little, prevent an avalanche of stuff from landing on one of my kitties,
Oh yesss!! I need this refresher course!! I’ve fallen behind with the Fly Lady system bc I’ve been so busy decluttering my hoarded house!! Lol.
You are smart to start with decluttering! You can't clean clutter :)
"HEY GUYS" If you love Steph, her greeting, her sweet personality, and her channel as much as me let's give HER a thumbs up!!! Keep the videos coming!!
Don't change you Steph! We ain't got time for being sensitive over dialect!!!! 😘😘😘
Shauna Ferguson I gave her a thumbs up before I ever watch the video. I know it’s going to be something Helpful for me 🌞
And how radiant does she looking today 💕 she's glowing.
Shauna Ferguson Definitely a thumbs up👍
One of the wonderful things about the Flylady system is how customizable it can be for you and your family. Progress Not Perfection
I did Fly Lady years ago and it worked and then I stopped. Now I'm going to start this again as you have been so encouraging!! I love all your videos! Your kids are so cute and enjoy this age as they grow up so fast. Thanks for your help!!!
Thank you Judy! They are so much fun right now :)
I've been trying to implement flylady for almost 4 years now ..I finally have my routines set in stone and you are right, it is totally life changing! I have free time in my day now 😍😍 I adore your channel xoxo
That's great to hear!! :)
I'm 60 and just getting started. I may have posted already. I just purchased my control journal and plastic sleeves. This is awesome.
Good for you, Vicki! I am 72, live alone and have ADD, OCD and who knows what else! I am trying to get my house organized and clean to sell. Thanks so much for posting! Thank you Stephanie for taking the time to break this system down!
@@susandugan6585 Good for you Susan. I worked in my bedroom all day Saturday and I love the result!!!
Love this. The fly lady system has turned how I keep a house for years now. It's amazing and nothing ever gets out of hand. 🤗
I started using your printable this week. I really like them. It seems they are helping me stay on task throughout the day. I leave it on my kitchen counter near my sink and check things off as they get done. I think this is the answer to getting me on track. Thanks for providing them.
You are so welcome!
I love the way you broke down the Fly Lady System!!!!! Well Done!!!!!
Been following you Steph for about a year now and the past couple of months I've been focusing on adding the swish and swipe. Took a while to get it going but now I'm doing it every couple of days in each bathroom and absolutely love having shiny sinks, counters and toilets! So thankful I found you and your approach to the fly lady system 💖 my home has never looked better 😁
Awesome! Glad it's working for you :)
Steph, you and a few other Fly lady followers won me over to Flylady after 3 years of following another system! I picked up Flylady habits and routines by default while watching videos like yours and others along the way, and finally, 2-ish months ago, I decided to just go with Flylady, and focus on 1 or a few routines or habits at a time, letting them sink in before intentionally adding more...however long it takes to make it a habit. Right now, it's getting morning and evening routines diwn more efficiently. And building my control journal. Dress to shoes, swish and swipe weekly Home Blessing, shine my sink and the zone cleaning are solidly in place. Flylady really is the easiest, most well-balanced and easiest to adapt, than all the others as far as I'm concerned, once you figure it out. I have alot of respect for the other system I was using, to get me started, but I give you and the other beautiful flylady ladies credit for winning my heart to this system. Thank you ❤
Wow I love how u showed us in detail on the screen what the system actually looks like... so helpful!!!!
I am so glad that helped! I am a visual learner too! Hence the printables lol!
I felt so overwhelmed by the Flylady website. You have not only have introduced this system to me (I had never heard of it until finding your channel) but it has completely changed my approach to keeping my house clean & organized. My home was in decent shape but my attitude needed some adjusting. Through you & the Flylady, I more organized, getting chores down faster & most importantly I feel calmer - there's a new joy. Thanks, Steph.
So happy to hear this. Glad I was able to simplify it a little bit!
I’m so happy you explained this system to us! Thank you! Love what you’re sharing!😍
Sisters are great, aren't they? I have a confession. Living in an apartment in NYC, my air conditioning is through-the-window AC units. Because of the virus and New York phased in opening, I could not have my units installed. (I sent them for cleaning last fall), until yesterday. And it was too hot and humid to do my zone cleaning. I tried, and in minutes I was drenched in sweat. There are some who might read this and say, "work out," but being drenched in sweat after 2 or 3 minutes of doing hardly anything physical is different than running and working up a sweat. The temperature in Central Park, away from pavement might say 87 degrees (high 20's), but on the streets, with black pavement radiating heat, it can be 15 degrees higher. SO, I didn't get to my zone cleaning. But now I can. I don't think I can completely finish my zone, but.... something is better than nothing.
I've never made it very far into flylady... It's overwhelming. I also got a little defensive about the need to swish the bathroom... She didn't seem to provide a reason for doing that everyday. However, my kids are about as bad as a muddy dog, so one of my bathrooms could probably benefit from a daily swish at this point.
You made this very simple... Now I just need to somehow print this checklist out...
Last time I tried to implement flylady, it made my week so much smoother... But I also fell into bed totally exhausted at the end of the day. I guess I didn't stick with it because I felt a bit depressed about running ragged by the end of the day. Felt like I had zero time for me. Energy limitations & depression seems to be my biggest challenges.
You can find all the printables at www.thesecretslob.com
Try to just start small - don't over do it, and remember that any progress is worth being proud of :)
Well done Steph!!! This will be a huge help to beginners and seasoned as well. This really breaks it down. I wish I had this when I started the FlyLady system. Way to go!!!
I love this breakdown. We recently moved and still have things to unpack and put away. I feel kind of overwhelmed and I work 5 days a week outside the home. Thank you for giving me a great plan to start over! I have used the FlyLady system for many, many years and it’s so fun to get things into a routine and keep up with everything.
FANTASTIC video!!! I’m struggling right now because I’m spending lots of time at my sister’s house, and coming home for a day or two to keep up with the yard. So I’m home enough that it still needs some cleaning, but my usual Flylady routines don’t fit right now. While listening to you, I came up with a way to try the routines in a way that will keep up with the basic things. Your consistent reminders that we need to build routines that fit our own house and schedule are so encouraging!!! Thank you!!! ❤️
Okay, you inspired me. I stopped watching youtube videos and vacuumed the house for the first time in 9 months. What an achievement !!!!!
You are such a ray of sunshine. You are so encouraging ! I look forward to your videos.
Thank you Diana, you are always a ray of sunshine in the comments section, thank you for that!
You are SO inspiring and I love how you make it your own! I tried Fly Lady years ago when my kids were young and it overwhelmed me. Thanks for breaking it down🙂
Great job on the power point and making it easer to understand the flylady system.
I love how ur honest with your messes it really motivates me to clean.
I loved all the examples and your positivity! I'm very excited to start this system 😊💕 Thank you!!
Stef, thank you for being here to explain this to me!
Thank you so much for the detailed zone cleaning list. I love it!
So glad I found your channel!! Thank you for the breakdown!! I've looked into this system in the past but never implemented it. I appreciate this breakdown, you explained it in a way that totally made it click for me and it sounds perfect!!
I'm a SAH, homeschooling mama with 5 boys ages 9 and under with baby #6 on the way. I'm in planning mode for all the things to make the upcoming school year and days as smooth as possible, and this sounds like it will be an awesome fit!!!!
You did make the system so much simpler. Thank You.
Is it weird I love your channel...and don’t need help with cleaning?? Minimalism and kids getting older solved it for me but I still enjoy your enthusiasm.
Found this channel a few days ago and it’s growing so fast....))) well deserved!
Yes... she îs fantastic! I Wonder how does she gets The Time to film and edit all, besides The real houseworw and cleaning!
Thank you for this super comprehensive explanation. I just wrote down my plan in my bullet journal and will start doing this immediately.
A wonderful assist to your recent excellent videos getting us started on the fly lady system. Clear, well-explained and encouraging.
Thank you so much! I've read the FlyLady book and the website, but your explanation makes it all make sense. Bless you, Stephanie.
Thanks Steph. I have started the Flylady system several times ,get overwhelmed doing everything right,then give up.
Watching your video makes it really simple thanks for showing how easy it can be
Oh my goodness!! You are an answer to my prayers. Thank you SO much!!
Steph, your videos just keep getting better! Love your presentation style and your honesty and down to earth manner! Keep up the great work!
Thank you so much!!
Thank you! Love this simple explanation!
Thanks Steph! Nice, concise and clear 👍
I followed Flylady years ago (2000 to about 2008 when my life went pear-shaped again... Since then I've struggled and slipped back into my old cluttered, slovenly ways. I've been following your channel for a bit and you've given me the kick in the butt to start again!
Awesome! Good luck getting back into it :)
This was SO helpful! I've found the Flylady system overwhelming to break into but it makes perfect sense now.
Thank you for making sense of all this...
The BEST video about it so far. Thank you very much xx
That was awesome! I’ve been following along for the last year and seeing the visual was so helpful! My problem is not letting other things derail me. We’ve got lots of homestead projects to get done and I leave the house for last. Then it gets overwhelming again. I’ve got to work on that! Thank you for being so helpful and encouraging to all of us.
I definitely find it harder to keep on track in the summer...I always want to be outside! We just have to do a what we can..progress is progress!
Hello from deep South Texas! Thank you so much for such an awesome, insightful and helpful video. I am a teacher, who tries to undo a year's worth of "house neglect" in the summers. I have started using the Flylady app for my routines and it is working wonderfully. Thank you for carefully explaining Zone cleaning and the Daily Focus mission. The features are on the app, but I had largely ignored them because I did not understand them and neither had I taken the time to read through them. I sat and watched your video while having breakfast after getting all of my "morning routines" completed. Thanks again for your motivation!!! Love your channel and your enthusiasm, but above all, I love your wholesome and much welcomed honesty. Have a great Flylady day!
Thank you so much! Sounds like you're making good progress :)
I think this was probably one of your best videos ever! I am not brand new, but this was so very helpful!
Thank you for the breakdown. I finaly understand where to start. The site is so overwhelming. Anxiety predicts that much information equals choas of the mind. Rewatching and taking notes.
Thank you so much for this! I have been wanting to start this and was so overwhelmed thinking I had to get a zone done every day 😅 thank goodness I saw this! I'm excited to get started now!
You explained the system so well, concise, and clear. I did try her system a few years ago but found it too confusing. I have taken on board some of the fly lady stuff but then modified it to suit me
This is such a great overview of the whole system!! I’ve just recently gotten back into my own version of FlyLady and your videos have encouraged me to keep it up. Thanks so much for sharing! 😊
Good luck getting back into it :)
Great video to clarify what can be an overwhelming system. Thanks!
You do such a great job of making the system uncomplicated!
This system changed my life!
Hi Steph, I just want to give a bid thanks to you and the fly lady system. I have decluttered and am now using this system to clean in a way I never thought possible. I did my first ever zone clean this week and am amazed and proud of how clean my house looks and feels in just 15 minutes each day. Thank-you for breaking the fly lady system down so it’s easy to understand for those who feel overwhelmed by all the house cleaning that needs to be done and not being able to start. Even after a long day at work when the last thing I want to do is clean, I remind myself it’s only 15 minutes and I get it done and the time goes so quick. I now have to stop myself cleaning longer. You are a gem 👏
A very good and simple description of Flylady's systems, and the daily schedule examples really helped. Thank you!
This is the best explanation I’ve ever seen, thank you so much!!!
Glad it was helpful!
This was one of the best explanations I've heard of this system. It finally makes sense to me. Thank you!
Great to hear!
This breakdown of the system was definitely the easiest to follow that I've seen! Thank you for taking the overwhelm out of it ❤️❤️
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for being so very motivating! I quite like the things you said about customizing to suit one's own situation. As for me, I've often thought about how much I've had to modify my cleaning routine due to age and being in a different house. It's not in the least bit similar to how it was 40 years ago! lol, just have to assess the situation and formulate a plan.
Ok this is the first time I’ve ever heard of the fly lady system! I’ve been a full time mum for over 4 years and I quite often feel like things are chaotic and I feel so overwhelmed and mad at myself that I can’t keep my house in order to my standards. I’m so excited there’s this info available. I’m gonna get started on a routine! Yay!
Excellent job of breaking down the flylady routine for those of us starting out on the journey. Thanks so much for sharing.
You are so welcome!
Thank you for doing this! I need all the help I can get
You simplified the system! You cleared away the clutter- ha! I am so thankful!
Glad it was helpful!
Missing steph... dont skip ads so that we can still help her even when she is resting... hope everything is okay steph.. missing your new videos.. cant wait to see the new house reno... sending hugs and lots of love...💕
You did a great job explaining the FlyLady's system. 😀😀💜💜. Thank you for sharing concrete, real-life examples! Your advice to be flexible is very helpful, too!
Thank you! I'm glad you found it helpful!
This is exactly what I needed!!!❤️
Super helpful! Have heard of the fly lady. Have heard of zine cleaning. Have heard of 20 minutes then stop. But never really understood how it works - this made sense of it all. Thank you
Best explanation video ever! Can’t wait to try this system
A really excellent video Steph! I’m sure many people will find this method so much easier to implement now. Your hard work is evident! love ya! 🤗❤️
Thanks so much!
This video was so helpful. I’ve been trying to get down the fly lady system and I couldn’t. U are a big help! Thank u!!!
Thought of you today. Hope you and your family are well during these crazy times. Thank you for your videos. They have really assisted me as I am really busy at work. So truly, thank you.
You are so welcome
Great video! So helpful to us newbies who are navigating the system. I love the balance the routines bring and I am actually enjoying getting things in order. Instead of feeling overwhelmed about having to clean the whole house, this system breaks the work down in very manageable segments. Hubby has been jumping on board, too! Keep the videos and info coming! Much appreciated.
Glad it was helpful!
A great explanation of the system! Thanks!
I love it! That helps so much!
Thanks so much for doing & sharing all of this. I got frustrated with the FlyLady System & quit.
I got really behind on the house & I’m going to try out your worksheets & tweek it to work for me. The thing that got me to try it again was you mentioning that it takes you a couple of cycles to check everything off in a zone & that it takes you about two months to zone clean the entire house.
Sometimes I spend so much time doing chores, I don’t get the Blessing Hour or Zone Cleaning. I still got check marks today & it’s much better than this morning & I went to the pool. I’ll just pick up tomorrow.
Loved this explanation and breakdown 👏👏👏👏
Hi from Ireland, love your videos, Steph. I work full time and have a 5 year old daughter. I am on 2nd week of using your printable which for me is a game changer. Love your motto ‘progress not perfection’ as in the past i was definitely guilty of not bothering if I couldn’t achieve perfect results x
Thank you simplifying and presenting in an easy to do format. I loved this!
Glad it was helpful!
I wish there is more than just one thump up I want to give you a million like for this fabulous vedio thank you for your great work
Thank you so much 😀
I'mm so glad I found your channel. I finally get it now! Thank you so much❣️
Thank you for this video bc I am a fly lady newbie! Still in the declutter stage.
Great video ! You explained it perfectly !
So beautifully presented , explained..
Finally! A clear explanation of the system. Thank you!
Glad it helped!
This is great! Thank you for making it sound so simple.
But I will probably clean my own bathroom daily. My hubby can clean his own. He needs to be responsible for some parts of the house!!
Thank you for this! I have found it difficult to get my head around how to put all the different bits of the flylady system together and the website is quite overwhelming. This video was exactly what I needed to help me straighten the whole process out in my head. Thanks again! I'm now a subscriber. 😊
Your energy is the best!
I appreciate that :)
Thanks for this video, I had never heard of the FlyLady system and will look into it more, but this was a great introduction. I have a daily routine that works fine, but I haven’t been able to get my regular bi-weekly housekeeper organized since January (repeat no-show and delays, then COVID19 (I’m high-risk, so I didn’t want anyone coming in until we knew more), then looking for and re-hiring someone. She is finally coming next Saturday, can’t wait to get my filthy house started on! I have a disability and have done my best to keep my kitchen and bathroom, mostly, up to a decent standard, but that’s about it. The real work is in training a new person, nearly all people willing to do this work here (San Francisco Bay Area), don’t speak English, so I decided to make a list/guidelines, with my laborious translation (my Spanish is as limited as her English), to keep on my computer, and update as needed. Things have been complicated here by not only the virus, but terrible heat waves, multiple wildfires causing unbearably smoky conditions and necessitating being ready to pack for evacuation, and power outages. Then, I got laid up with a foot injury two days ago! I’m trying to be super patient and soldier on until the blessed coolness of November arrives.🙂