@Ti Klim the states get s a 125% refundt of all $ payed out in costedy and aillomony by the federal and this make the familiy courts the ONLY poplick servies that MAKES money for the states !!!!
As a survivor of family court corruption myself I’ve often debated whether to go to law school simply to fight for parents of corruption. However the stress of this job and my health issues don’t work together. But I do wonder if this can be taken to the Supreme Court?
I feel the same way. I am caring for 3 kids with special needs many of which have been exacerbated by the PTSD they have been diagnosed with because of this situation. I can barely keep up between the courts and the schools. I feel like I am fighting on all fronts I fighting in courts, in school because the school is constantly out of compliance with their IEP’s and with my kids on a regular basis because they are picking up their fathers abusive behaviors and using them on each other so my home is in a constant state of chaos and I can’t even get the courts to let me tell my story let alone get them to talk to witnesses or professionals with long standing relationships with my children. And my children have been appointed minor counsel who do not speak to these people either or to my children enough to understand what is happening. These people are making recommendations without even looking at all the facts. We are always rushed and told there is no time to deal with these things. The rulings in my case have been egregious and it is not even hard to see that. That is why I am searching UA-cam videos to try to find out how to help myself and my kids, it hurt to see the problem is systemic and that I may not find relief even with more knowledge of the law.
We should all be united and form an alliance in order to fight and stop this epidemic, or it will get worse. If not, this can happen again to our children when they are parents.
What can we do I am in court fighting false allegations along with a magistrate who conducting my case WITH BIAS & UNFAIRLY... ALL I've tried to do is prove is my case she have been helping the residential parent which is crazy
Its scary to even have to worry about this. My case is solid as well. No question. Substantiated abuse and alienation is still being used to try and take my kids.
They did it to all of us. We have to form groups on the local level and take the most corrupt court out and expose them in front of all America and the world. They must be targeted in the same way they targeted our families. What a shameful way to make a living. Shameful.
Statistically women file for divorce about 80% of the time and on top of that family court judges side with the wife 70 to 80% of the time. I am sure there are women who have been victims of the family court corruption but make no mistake family benefits women and punishes men more than the inverse. That is something this reporter won't bother to mention. Men get hit with absurd child support bills and the bill can only go up, it can't come down regardless of your employment status or financial situation. And if you lose your job and can't pay? Then you get tossed in jail. To be fair, you're not being jailed for not paying but for violating a court order. Then there's alimony because her highness needs to be kept at the standard of living she is accustomed. I am certain there are women who've been victimized by corrupt family court judges however most of the women I've met who complain about family court are being disingenuous. Anyone who would like more info should look up the Duluth model and the tender years doctrine.
Thank you. I will now. I am not disingenuous. My entire family and network of friends saw what happened to me. Its unbelievable. It opened all of their eyes to this morally decrepit system that is 100% corrupt. America is done. There is nothing sustainable about this system. It is crumbling and the day will come when these perverse and lecherous lawyers and judges will be held to account for all the harm they willfully caused our innocent children.
Ever notice that SHE is entitled to the standard of living she is accustomed too, but you are not? You have to live in a basement studio apartment while paying for her 3 bedroom house and food bills, only to be labelled a deadbeat for your troubles.
I was hit with the silver bullet. Family court didn't have the intelligence to figure out the mother was lying. So the court rubberstamped the mother for custody for 3+ years, without providing any intelligent reason for it. It took me 3 years to prove the mother was the perpetrator of domestic violence...and I got primary custody of our son. But I had to move mountains to do so. Now I teach other dads how to do it, because the cards are stacked against them. Family court has already proven to our society that it cannot be in charge of child custody and support issues. Therefore, it is definitely time to completely overhaul or abolish family court.
I was the child in such a situation, and literally nobody who had the power to stand up for me wanted to. The fact that even most reform movements only make it about THE PARENTS and the genders of THE PARENTS always THE PARENTS is very disappointing. What about us? What about the children? What about the children’s rights?
If it happens to one Friend of the court, family court, Juvenile Courts it happens to all I do know we do have some ethical professionals. Thank God ua-cam.com/video/Lg7fkOnsyJs/v-deo.html
It'll NEVER happen. Americans are too soft, women have largely taken over the family court system NATIONWIDE and when women rule over something, they rarely cede power.
This report completely fails to mention that women are often encouraged to make false claims of abuse to gain leverage in divorce proceedings. That's critical information when evaluating the flaws.
You are 200% correct. Lawyers do encourage mothers to make false DV allegations. And then family court judges enable and endorse false allegations by 1) rubberstamping the mother on restraining order requests, and giving her default custody, 2) without any actual intelligent analysis (like a competent professional would perform) - and yes, I have transcripts proving this, and 3) not pursuing contempt of court against the mother when it's proven she lied and made false allegations. District Attorneys and Police Officers throughout the US also enable and endorse false allegations when these officials run away from any possible criminal charges for false allegations made by the mother. I have seen this firsthand, as well. It was quite amazing to see the police and DA running in circles to get away from the idea of prosecuting the mother or false claims. Amazing is the wrong word. "Embarrassment to our country" is a better term for it.
I agree my ex lied every hearing and I asked to hold her in contempt the judge said she wasn't a police or prosecutor and couldn't do anything I asked then if I quit paying my support u won't have me jailed she said that is different. If ur a man just give up take what they offer and go away it's the only way to stay sane. I did give up after that hearing.
@@jamesgotti8102 I totally believe you because I went through similar circumstances... In terms of how the cards are stacked against the dads. But I was not in a position where I could give up custody to my ex because she was extremely dangerous. So I found ways to overcome the incompetence and the gender bias of my judge. There are ways to do that but you have to move mountains, which is completely unfair to fathers and children. So now I am making a docu-series to help dads overcome the type of thing that happened to you. This has to end.
Yes. I was a victim of that. My ex got the upper hand in filing false domestic violence against me. She is also an attorney. Stupid me for marrying her. Happens all the time in California. Men Beware!!! I lost custody of my son and thrown out of my own house which I built. Such injustice in this divorce system especially for men.
Fathers ex girlfriend filed restraining order at different times against both Mother and Father and now has custody of our daughter. CHERYL ANNE SMITH CHILD ADVOCATE ATTORNEY HAYWARD CALIFORNIA IS THE REASON WHY. HER 6 FIGURE INCOME FOR TAKING OUR CHILDREN SHE CALLS HER OWN.
I've beat 7 false injunctions the judge started to see the pattern every even year I get my son for his birthday guess what both the past even years I got hit with dv injunction a week before so I couldn't send gift or call his house its rigged for women
How about removing any confidentiality about the actions of family courts. Subject every decision made in such courts to public scrutiny. If the judge was appointed make sure that the officials that appointed him/her are also held liable. Make all orders given by the family courts be subject to review by higher courts, both criminal & civil. Put cameras with sound in the courtroom, regardless of how judges or activists feel about it. These judges are acting on behalf of the state & paid for by our taxes, they should not be allowed to avoid strict scrutiny of how they discharge the powers of their office.
0 seconds ago Due to 11 years of family court in which my ex-wife used the judicial system as her stage, or platform to leverage control, she gave me an ultimatum that if I did not sign over all my legal and physical rights, she would, 1 Ruin me Financially and 2. She would make sure that I would not have a relationship with my son. Family court is not interested in justice and they could care less about your children. Its a 50 Billion Dollar a Year Business. No one holds anyone accountable and DSS should simply be closed down and boarded up as a condemned facility. 60% of the children who died from abuse last year, around 90% of those children had open DSS and CPS cases. Would you throw a rattlesnake in your child’s crib? Picking up the phone and calling DSS is putting your child at a greater risk and it’s generally going to come back and bite you in the end as well.
Agreed. When the courts rubberstamp the mother with default primary custody on Day 1, it gives the mom all the leverage to to threaten you and blackmail you, using your child. Not all moms do that, obviously. But too many do. And courts look the other way when this happens. I have never known a judge who took responsibility/accountability for their poor decision-making.
"Ye are gods". Jesus said. Judgers of men. Woe to him who judges wrongly. And to those who are actually abuseing. For to these is the greater damnation eternally.
Isaiah 33:1 ► New International Version Woe to you, destroyer, you who have not been destroyed! Woe to you, betrayer, you who have not been betrayed! When you stop destroying, you will be destroyed; when you stop betraying, you will be betrayed.
I hate to give this advice but for those just entering the family law sytem... get OUT. Leave your kids if you can and start some place else. The law system uses your love for your kids to take everything you have.
I have been in a 4-year divorce battle where domestic violence is evident, yet I have been called the liar. There is extreme collusion. The judge has a personal relationship with the petitioner. He has been awarded the majority of the assets and has the primary placement of the children. The GAL refuses to report for the children, including calls to her of verbal abuse, hiding in the closet out of fear, and being hit with an object. The father has alienated me from my children who I was the primary parent for while he traveled out of state for work all our marriage. Now, I face 72 hours in jail for filing my own income tax return, and a commitment order was just signed. The court is allowing the petitioner to continue to abuse through court order to the point I am on the edge of bankruptcy. So far, I have been unable to get legal help.
It’s too late to change these Courts of Equity. I don’t want it to change either, I want them to continue. I want the rage in men to build until it explodes, and it will.
I agree. My ex husband forged my signature, cashed my check from my separate account, took my sons education fund that my mom set for them, forged my signature got my family restaurant, not seeing or supporting the kids, and lied I did not let him see them.
Yup. Money wins. I could not keep up with my ex's free attorney. Leveling the playing field only applies if both parties are paying. There is no leveling if the other party has a free attorney.
So many stories circulating where money is the ONLY reason a party gets custody regardless of criminal or violent behavior. I am sure not every case is judged this way and I’m sure there are still some judges with a conscience, but so many stories where it’s solely money motivated. I pray for change for the sake of al family and children🙏
That is a common thought but incorrect. Title 4 Feds match $1 for $1 money coming into court. Usually they put larger income in such a hole they exhaust every penny trying to see their child
I have lost everything. My ex had a free attorney which means she had no financial incentive to comply with a parenting agreement. I spent thousands to get it just to be faced with needing more court intervention to enforce it. I had no choice but to give up. I spent thousands just for the right to pick up my kid from school. Family law IS corrupt. I am planning to move out of America at my retirement. My kid will have to fend for herself. The state took ALL of her financial resources and no one gives a sh×t. I have lost my home and over 150 thousand. They will continue cases until you can't. I had to pay for the right to attend my child's doctor appointments...just to have my ex refuse to cooperate to allow it. GAL knew she wouldn't comply and told the judge the parties would cooperate. He KNEW my ex would not...I gave him 7 years of documentation that didn't matter. VERY CORRUPT SYSTEM.
I have witnessed the same behaviour in our family court system here in Canada. It is corrupt judges that get away with their bias and unethical conduct that wrecks the judicial system. Submitting a complaint, even with strong evidence is ignored. Judges are protected at all costs.
I know about this and I did win custody after my son said that his mother lied She couldn't coach him and me and him still are mad about it today many years later
My daughters legal guardian substituted judgment for her, my daughter at that time was 10. Her “lawyer” (wearing a pink backpack to court) said my daughter wanted to be with me, but the whack job “therapist” my ex hired said she was regressing because of me (not because my ex shipped her brother back into the foster care system!). The judge sided with her, and I was now FIGHTING for my 50%. Almost a year to the day (Xmas week..again), the judge now said “I can’t make her talk to her dad”. Think about that contradiction folks. One year she can’t speak for herself, 365 days later the judge couldn’t care less! My ex has MANIPULATED the courts, the “therapist” AND an ENTIRE FOSTER CARE PROGRAM! My adopted daughter WANTS HER BROTHER BACK! Stay tuned….
Cover much more on this issue. The judges do not have enough real oversight. There are many very bad judges in the USA, and there is not enough fast and practical ways to correct their improper actions and errors. USA has huge problems with the courts with many bad judges and bad lawyers; and not much of the public is willing to discuss the problems.
Yup even in the news they can't admit that to Many men lose custody this way I am one of them I just gave up I pay and went away. I still have visits I don't use. Never again will my ex try and ruin my life send me to prison for just being in my child's life. Ur not alone
It sounds to me that this video is pro believe the acuser and don't ask questions. We all know which gender tends to make false accusations and that insists people just believe them and also happens to the the one who initiates %80 of devorces and tends to be the unfaithful one.
I know exactly how you feel I've been alienated from my 2 boys. Only my daughters life i was able to be in. But she was alienated from her 2 brothers. Our lives have never been the same. I have not been able to live a normal life for 13 years.
@@lyfless I hear you... my life has been devastated since 2011, I have never been the same ...never will be. Life is cruel and those who abuse don't care who they hurt.
Me too. Parental alienation is ongoing and no one does anything about it. Kids for cash...that's what the government made the family law system into. It has NO integrity. It is ALL about the money
Family courts were perfect up until the early 1970's. What has been legislated, administrated and processed through these courts afterwards is a tragedy. Don't believe me? Go read it for yourself.
Does not apply in Sweden. I was in court with my ex wife. Everything she said was taken seriously and judge clearly stated no evidence required. Unlike in criminal court where evidence is a must.
Good report topic. Please keep focusing on this topic. There are massive problems of corruption in courts in various states by various persons including judges, lawyers, clerks, and certain parties.
In family courts as well as in criminal courts also im a victim of being wrongfully convicted for the crimes i never committed and criminal court covered the backs of the smallfakefamilycourt crime to hear my true story of mine and my family and the fake family court and both criminal courts wrongfully convicted me im innocent and i never committed the crimes in my life my first exwife called cps on our family she told me and my wife that if she cant have me back as her husband that she was going to destroy me and my family and our family found us dealing with a fake portable family court crime ring us familys became being the victims victimized by this crime
Have you covered job and family services with children orphaned from deceased parent/parents and the legal loop hole for them to take a child away from relatives and adopt to strangers. Whoever gets ok'd to adopt through the system gets money monthly for that child. Puts the child at risk for type of human trafficking through the system. We are experiencing that now!!!
My family is being torn apart by my ex-husband, and father to my 12yr old son. I do believe he is a master narcissist. He will stop at NOTHING, and lies about anything and everything to succeed in alienating me from our child and have complete control. I seeked help for post-partum depression/anxiety after having my 3rd son. I was self-admitted into a local/private, mental health treatment center. My ex the next court day, filed an ex-parte hearing, did not serve nor notify me, and told the judge that I was removed and taken to a drug and alcohol institution etc. He was granted FULL custody. Prior to this hearing, I had 70+% custody. I have been treated like a criminal ever since. Because I chose to reach out for help, the stigma, and the lack of knowledge on parental alienation, personality disorders, and mental illness, I have now lost my child. I fought for a long time to regain 50% joint custody until May of this year when I lost my son completely. At this point, I’m in utter fear and desperation. The harm being done to my son emotionally and mentally is unbearable to watch as a mother. To not be able to protect him is a feeling I would not want any parent to ever have to experience. The thought that my son may believe that I have abandoned him makes my heart break even more. I want my son to know that his mama never gave up, and that I’ve been fighting every day. My ex has lied and continues to lie to an extent that is inhumane. He has destroyed not only my reputation, but most importantly, is doing everything and anything in his power to destroy my relationship and bond with our son. He uses our son as tool to torment and inflict pain on me. When in return, our son is the one suffering most. October of this year marked 10 years since filing for divorce and dealing with his false accusations, and allegations in court. I have been diagnosed with complex PTSD, severe depression & severe anxiety due to the 15 years of abuse from this monster. My son also suffers with mental illness due to the abuse. I have not been able to see, nor been able to communicate with my son in any way since May of this year. My ex refuses and has blocked me from having any form of contact or communication. Including any and all family members. He disregards all court orders and won't cooperate with the court evaluation. I don’t know if my son is okay, and I honestly don't know what my ex is capable of next. I’m fearful that my son could become suicidal.HELP!
If I were a young man wanting a fàmily and knowing what I know now - I would only accept marriage if these laws were in place that is fair. 1) house gets sold to the highest bidder and split 50 50. ( today she gets the house and a new guy moves in and judge decides house value) 2) no alimony either way. 3) 50 50 Custody. No child support and all children's bills split 50 50. 4) pay own attornies 5) savings, bills, retirement split 50 50. This is fair but women would never agree because they want marriage to be a winning lottery ticket, and it is.
I have tried that. People complain that family court is biased against dads. As a dad who ultimately won primary custody, I can 100% confirm the bias against dads is real. All you have to do is evaluate every word and action of the judge. Ask: "What would a competent & neutral person decide, given what this judge has heard?". Compare it to "what did this judge decide?". See the difference. Night and day. When you do that, the bias becomes transparent. Judges aren't smart enough t effectively cover up their bias.
Family Law IS pay to play...or kids for cash. I am disgusted with what I have experienced. My child pays the ultimate price. I have the right to pay...not the right to be a dad. Advice...DON'T have a child in Illinois!
i took my wife to court after she kept my son from me for a month, i got full custody he gets to see her everyweek and for the entire summer. The last time my son saw his mother was 4years ago and he is 7 now, he is attached at the hip to my current wife his step-mom. People can be evil to.
Everyone, in the complaint, you can demand a Jury trial for your divorce or custody battles. Criminal cases have 12 juries. Civil/family cases have 6 juries.
Ok let's be real for just a min here. Yes the family courts need to be changed to be more fair for both parties involved because clearly there is corruption their and is very evident. But why was is that when this problem affected men no one cared The stastics alone should tell a very sobering story about what has happened to men after a divorce and yet inspite of all this NO ONE CARED about what happened to us at all.
Yup...the court does not care if you have been destroyed by the court, emotionally and financially. I have lost everything and yet I'm expected to keep paying child support. I was out of work and was taken to court for child support but yet my ex is out of work and lives off my child's support and she is unemployed! The system is HEAVILY biased for the money. And while you are destroyed and shaking your head, you are expected to keep paying. Unbelievable. Fathers who went through the family law system and commit suicide is to be expected. The stress is overwhelming. Illinois is the worst.
I think California is the worst. Perhaps USA is worst and that's why America is falling. Soon there will be no more family law and the once wealthy lawyers and judges will now be homeless beggars on the street.
withholding access of a child should be jail time. 50/50 should be automatic. the reason why mothers won't be civil and cooperate equally is because it goes against what the father wants. there is no other reason. and abuse is a joke. all these women claim abuse. you let then put their such inside you then call them abusive when you don't get what you want
I'd love to help change the law. My daughter lost custody of her children because her in-laws accused her of things, but what the in-laws & family do is actually far worse & dhs gave them the custody of my grandbabies, from the people i helped my grandchildren & daughter escape from for so long & that wrenched situation. I was denied gardianship only because of my income level. I was in disbelief. I'm the only one that had a sustainable and meaningful relationship with those children but got them torn out if my life and have no voice to tell my side of the story. I want to change the law so bad so that just because of income levels a grandmother like myself who would guide, love & protect those babies should have the gardianship, not the family that didn't protect them. In Arkansas I have no rights unless I take CPS to court which I could never afford. How can the government just give the kids to the ones who don't protect them only for something far worse to end up happening. Broken Hearted 💔
Family court rights for women - They usually get - house, children, alimony, child support, furniture, pets, tax teturn, savings, retirement funds. Alienation is accepted. Men gets his clothes and the bills. He has no rights in court. If he has them, where are they documented ?
Parental Alienation is REAL. I lived it for 10 years, and no allegations of abuse or neglect. I know hundreds of parents who are living this same nightmare. The number of those being abused is low, compared to those truly being alienated from their children. Judges should NOT be making such decisions. Psychologists are NOT trained in alienation. The real experts will say Judges, psychologists, GAL's and AMC's nearly get it wrong 99.9% of the time. These court actors also receive complete immunity. The stories in this video are evidence that judges and therapists get it wrong. Courts don't typically grant custody to abusers.
What makes it not a real term in your opinion? I find that to be an ignorant statement, when myself along with thousands of parents have experienced true parental alienation. In fact, many experts use this term, including psychologists, psychiatrists, attorneys, and mediators. I have heard Judges use the term and some have testified in CT Supreme Court, where they were asked what parental alienation means. Just because the APA doesn't recognize it, and nor do they need to, doesn't debunk that it is REAL. Ignorant people who have ever experienced this will at some point either experience it themselves or will have a family member experience this. Come back and talk to me then. Do some parents use it as a tool to gain custody of children, of course that happens, just like parents use domestic violence as a tool or other false allegations used to leverage their custody case. It's no different than any other lie in family court.
Go to mark 38:00 in this 12 hour video, where judges are being grilled on family courts, and specifically at 38:00 a judge talks about parental alienation. Parental alienation IS REAL and recognized by those in the family court system. www.ctn.state.ct.us/ctnplayer.asp?odID=15225
Christine Sirgant i agree that it is real as i have experienced it, but it is also being used falsely against protective parents. There needs to be a full investigation and overhaul of the family court system based on evidence rather than opinions for both sides of this as the stats clearly show children are consistently being given to abusive parent. Being alienated from a parent is not nearly as bad as being physically/sexually abused.
I lost my child who had numerous medical issues, including a life threatening tumor. Her father sexually abused her and claimed I had Munchausens by proxy. Family Court judges in New Jersey aligned themselves with him because they gain by trafficking sexually abused children into the children's system of care in exchange for money and power. My ex was a compulsive liar, and narcissist booted off Wall Street for poisoning the workplace environment by lying on his bosses and spreading false rumors. He is an expert study on people in positions of power who can be corrupted. The judicial system needs to be overhauled at 2 levels: Law school graduates need more life experience, an ethical oath of oblgation and a residency requirement before licensure to gain wisdom. Second, lifetime appointments must be abolished. This primitive practice incarcerates our system of justice and does not allow for knowledge growth within a nation's judicial elite. Instead, the current system too easily allows smart but naive and untested individuals to become lords of flies....so little wisdom with total, absolute judicial reign. How contradictory this is for a democracy.
I am a documented domestic violence survivor, despite proof and my children claiming abuse multiple times over the years my family court judges have made egregious rulings. I don’t believe anyone with any training could look at my case and not see what is happening. There is so much proof I couldn’t even begin to explain in this short comment. I have searched and searched for legal support to stop his continued abuse through the use of the courts to no available there is no help for survivors of domestic violence or there kids available other than counseling and help filling out forms(and that’s if you know the forms you need). My kids are active being affected by the completely uninformed court’s decisions.
Lilia, are you available for & will you consider a follow up? I'm in WA State however I know Parents in EVERY State as well as abroad! All over the UK, Ireland, Switzerland, Australia, the EAU Emirates, Netherlands & Germany....
This sounds all too familiar with my case. I was alienated from my son. With an order in place, she deliberately violated and kept him from me for 3 years. Somehow she was able to get another state to take jurisdiction and ended up getting my rights Relinquished. Now I have no son. The court system is so crooked to take a willing parent ,Who wants to be involved away from a seven year old boy. Every boy needs his father and they took that from me. I'm as straight as they come. I'm in the military, don't drink or do drugs. I'm expected to risk my life to protect people in this country.But yet I don't have a say so when it comes to my own son. The choices were made by a bunch of female therapist, lawyers and judges who couldn't live the life they live without people like me. Sad world we live in and kids are affected. Statistics show. I wish there was something I could do.
Is against men. I was a great father a great husband why am I paying so much? Is causing me depression health issues cant sleep etc. You named it. Its completely unfair. Shame on you USA.
Shared custody should NEVER be 'automatic' but instead determined based on whether or not the parent is mature, responsible, moral and genuinely loving and caring. Parents who ABANDON their children should NOT be awarded any custody at all - only visitation rights and only after being held ACCOUNTABLE for their actions. Too many narcissists in the family court are using children to stoke their own egos.
I have and now I'm fighting for my two youngest kids the were adopted two people who will not let me talk to the no pitchers Even no report cards and order was spose to be that way the only thing they said we was are house was unsanitary and we were moving and we had stuff everywhere and they knew this they went and got my kids from school came to the house and took my daughter then made all these other aligations on us after wards now I suffer depression and anxiety of not having them I have my oldest but he 16 now I have had him year now and he was molested beat up jump by a group of kids why he was in the system he suffers every day too asking when he's going to talk or see his brother and sister and he also suffers from adhd and the low side of autism if there is anyone out that could help me get my kids back please I need so our family can be happy again
Have a friend fighting for custody right now in utah. He was told by the lawyer that the courts look very poorly and unfavorably against parents who point fingers (acuse) at the other parent and not to acuse his ex of anything. Meanwhile his ex she did make a false accusation against my friend which she can't prove because it never happened this will rightly work against her and like the guy in this video says " you don't make an accusation you can't prove and go back to 0. Meanwhile my friend submitted 150 pages of Hatefull texts from her including multiple deaths threats and calling him gay and that she doesn't want her son to be with him because he will make him gay This is going to look very bad for her and she has nothing she can prove at all. He even has video recordings of her misconduct and written testimonys by a certified professional who interacted with her that she blew up on the professional person for no good reason. If someone is going to make an accusation the courts are right to ask for proof. He didn't acuse her of anything just submitted evidence to show the court what hes working with.
I'm surprised that so few people know the power of the affidavit. Court orders and child support. No. I'm not a deadbeat. I was supporting "our" child anyway and had primary placement. Her mother was the one gaming the system in conspiracy with the judge and I put a stop to it with an affidavit that I actually got my ex to sign off on. A judge can't overrule an affidavit. I ended that situation (back in the '90s) with an affidavit. Study up...
Riverside CA Family Law Case RID 1300823 my children were being molested and filmed by their father and a group. They are connected, and no criminal charge were filed. I was given custody and we moved to Austin Texas. But when my 8 year old son was hospitalized 51/50, citing what happened back at his dad’s, all custodial rights were taken from me. I didn’t comply and hid with my children for 2 years until turned in for a reward. I now face 14+ years in prison and haven’t been given my natural right to speak with or see my children in 17 months. Please help.
We all agree that there are complete misinterpretation of the laws by administrative judges in family courts. But, the question is what will be done to eradicate these color of law behaviors? Recently, an attorney in the 11 Judiciary Court of Miami Dade County in Florida decided to substitute her own client’s salary deductions into net income while calculating a Child Support Index. This is taxes that are paid to the government per this individual’s salary. The lawyer chose to withdraw after her client refused to consent to the omitted items. The judge instead of reporting the attorney as per the Judicial Canons, closed to adjudicate the matter through the use of the fraudulent document. The Florida Bar stated that the attorney’s action was ethical and within the realms of the law, while the Judicial Qualification Commission said likewise for the judge. What recourse are there for this and citizens of this Democratic Union?
Agreed....way too many false allegations. But nobody needs guardian ad litems. Who needs more lawyers on the case? We need intelligent people who can analyze a situation. So...I guess that means nobody needs family court judges either.
Why is this FACT not mentioned? I invite you to call your state or the Florida Dept of Revenue and ask them as I did why the Federal Government pays our State EXTRA millions for "going above and beyond the Federal "Minimum" for creating non-custodial parents." What everyone needs to know. So how much did Florida receive from your Social Security tax dollars? As of June 30, 2016 Florida received 167.8M from the Federal Government for CREATING non-custodial parents. Plus 26.6M for incentives for going above and beyond Federal expectations. WHAT! going over expectations??? Ask why the government has a minimum! IF parents are in agreement. REALITY - It does not matter if you are in agreement. Did you know our state will be FINED if it falls below the minimum expected by the Federal Government? Will you please ask your state. H.R.3130 - Child Support Performance and Incentive Act of 1998105th Congress (1997-1998) Sponsor: Rep. Shaw, E. Clay, Jr. [R-FL-22] (Introduced 01/28/1998) Committees: House - Ways and Means | Senate - Finance Occupation: Judge, Accountant... imagine that Shaw died September 10, 2013 The family court cartel has bullied good people to death. Do they care? What did they learn in Ethics Class??? ua-cam.com/video/sWUuFGqG_Aw/v-deo.html
It's the same in Australia, my brother has been fighting in the family court for 4 years now, he only gets to see his children in an unhealthy contact centre run by the so called charitable, with two court hearings a year at best! All the Judge does at the end of each hearing is make orders that my brother do more counseling programs, yet there has been no abuse to my nephews, just an un amicable mother that is bitter and a bais old Judge from the Northern Territory, who seems to be more worried about his position on the bench, then what's best for the children. Not only has my brother been alienated from his children but our whole family as well due to the split! Just through separation alone he has lost all rights to his children and we my brothers family have lost the right to spend time with some very very important family members, my nephews! Shame on you Family Courts shame!
He is better off giving up. I spent 8 years of my life trying to get common sense. I did not get it. I ran out of money. If he can...tell him to walk away...start some place else.
one of the many issues in family court is they are all in bed together. it's like the wild wild west in family court. it's much like a game of chess or cards. i have been there many times. my own lawyers have told me it's a game. it's a game to them. high stakes for our children and devastation in many cases to us. family court reform is a long uphill battle. it's a 50 billion dollar a year business. put yourself in their shoes- how easy would it be for you to let go of all that easy cash? reform means loss of revenue to a well established business. lots of people in family court want very much to keep their current life style growing. they do not want to let go of the easy cash and look for another way to make this kind of money. they are fighting as hard as we are- for different reasons.
Transcripts offer are doctored by Auscript on orders of some registrars who are accommodating to barristers and judges who are part of the club...the act has been treated with contempt by some bent greedy soul less barristers ..it's called complicate.embroil.exploit
Parental alienation is a very real nightmare for many of us. My daughters mother ( who works in the law system ) is suffers from NPD and is dedicated to destroying my relationship and my parenting time.
In Colorado the family law section of the Colorado Statutes is 3 1/2" thick and in the end the judge doesn't have to follow any of it, because the judge can make any decision he likes in "the best interest of the minor child". The Statute even says that a mothers love is somehow better than a fathers love.
So frustrating! I was wrongfully and unlawfully dragged through family for 2 years with unnecessary and prejudice adjournments. Trial scheduling judge Justice Martha Tweedie needs to be removed. She filled out the applicants TSEF which parties are to fill out, not a judge Rule 17(11) Then Trial Judge Justice Michael Gibson conducted the rigged trial. Applicant admits to paying $7900 on unsigned commissioned document, then asks the judge for $160,000 then is awarded $60,000 absolutely BS what I had to deal with. I want go public about my experience with this crooked family court
lost my kids to the mothers with false allegations. Alot of fathers in this position. Fighting it now, its been 6 months. But it takes 1 year to show my evidence.
If the proceeding does not allow jury of peers then there is no due process and where there is no due process then it violates the 5th and the 14th ammendment bill of rights to due process. Every order from a court that lacks personal, subject matter, and territorial jurisdiction is void( it means it is not valid) and no one can enforce such order that violates the Highest law of the land( The Constitution of the United States of America) The doctrine of Res judicata also does not apply on void orders.
Normally the judge interprets and applies the law. In family court They are the law, they can make anything up
Custody is sold, know the red flags.
People are waking up
It's the same in the UK - zero transparency, zero accountability - DO you know the last time a High Court Judge was sacked? NEVER
The FAMILY courts have been turned into a GLORIFIED COLLECTION AGENCY for the states!
@Ti Klim the states get s a 125% refundt of all $ payed out in costedy and aillomony by the federal and this make the familiy courts the ONLY poplick servies that MAKES money for the states !!!!
Family court is corrupt.
I totally agree Tulsa Family Courthouse is so currupt
@@michelleseveland1341 so is the Illinois court
Ive found many lawyers keep the fighting going till their is no money left
As a survivor of family court corruption myself I’ve often debated whether to go to law school simply to fight for parents of corruption. However the stress of this job and my health issues don’t work together. But I do wonder if this can be taken to the Supreme Court?
Be a voice definitely
I feel the same way. I am caring for 3 kids with special needs many of which have been exacerbated by the PTSD they have been diagnosed with because of this situation. I can barely keep up between the courts and the schools. I feel like I am fighting on all fronts I fighting in courts, in school because the school is constantly out of compliance with their IEP’s and with my kids on a regular basis because they are picking up their fathers abusive behaviors and using them on each other so my home is in a constant state of chaos and I can’t even get the courts to let me tell my story let alone get them to talk to witnesses or professionals with long standing relationships with my children. And my children have been appointed minor counsel who do not speak to these people either or to my children enough to understand what is happening. These people are making recommendations without even looking at all the facts. We are always rushed and told there is no time to deal with these things. The rulings in my case have been egregious and it is not even hard to see that. That is why I am searching UA-cam videos to try to find out how to help myself and my kids, it hurt to see the problem is systemic and that I may not find relief even with more knowledge of the law.
We should all be united and form an alliance in order to fight and stop this epidemic, or it will get worse. If not, this can happen again to our children when they are parents.
What can we do I am in court fighting false allegations along with a magistrate who conducting my case WITH BIAS & UNFAIRLY... ALL I've tried to do is prove is my case she have been helping the residential parent which is crazy
@@CYoung-cv6ih it is corrupt
It’s a very sad day when the courts fail children.
it's been a sad decade and a half
@@tw7231 possibly more.
Then every day is a sad day.
And failed familys
When Courts fail everyone is the worst.
Stay single and childless my friends.
@Cityzen Y you are right. You should produce speachless gene pool for government and tax paying.
Or become educated
What's weird is, it seems that the Abusive Parent gets the child everytime.
I have absolute proof my daughter is abused by her mother and I lost all parental rights. I have irrefutable proof
Was an expert a witness?
Its scary to even have to worry about this. My case is solid as well. No question. Substantiated abuse and alienation is still being used to try and take my kids.
Yup. Sounds very similar.
They did it to all of us. We have to form groups on the local level and take the most corrupt court out and expose them in front of all America and the world. They must be targeted in the same way they targeted our families.
What a shameful way to make a living. Shameful.
Yup, I've got proof my daughter was abused and molested the courts still sided with the mother
Statistically women file for divorce about 80% of the time and on top of that family court judges side with the wife 70 to 80% of the time.
I am sure there are women who have been victims of the family court corruption but make no mistake family benefits women and punishes men more than the inverse. That is something this reporter won't bother to mention.
Men get hit with absurd child support bills and the bill can only go up, it can't come down regardless of your employment status or financial situation. And if you lose your job and can't pay? Then you get tossed in jail. To be fair, you're not being jailed for not paying but for violating a court order. Then there's alimony because her highness needs to be kept at the standard of living she is accustomed.
I am certain there are women who've been victimized by corrupt family court judges however most of the women I've met who complain about family court are being disingenuous.
Anyone who would like more info should look up the Duluth model and the tender years doctrine.
Thank you. I will now. I am not disingenuous. My entire family and network of friends saw what happened to me. Its unbelievable. It opened all of their eyes to this morally decrepit system that is 100% corrupt. America is done. There is nothing sustainable about this system. It is crumbling and the day will come when these perverse and lecherous lawyers and judges will be held to account for all the harm they willfully caused our innocent children.
Tender Years has been replaced with best interest of the child.
Ever notice that SHE is entitled to the standard of living she is accustomed too, but you are not? You have to live in a basement studio apartment while paying for her 3 bedroom house and food bills, only to be labelled a deadbeat for your troubles.
I was hit with the silver bullet. Family court didn't have the intelligence to figure out the mother was lying. So the court rubberstamped the mother for custody for 3+ years, without providing any intelligent reason for it. It took me 3 years to prove the mother was the perpetrator of domestic violence...and I got primary custody of our son. But I had to move mountains to do so. Now I teach other dads how to do it, because the cards are stacked against them. Family court has already proven to our society that it cannot be in charge of child custody and support issues. Therefore, it is definitely time to completely overhaul or abolish family court.
How did you do it? I would like to know your strategy.
I was the child in such a situation, and literally nobody who had the power to stand up for me wanted to. The fact that even most reform movements only make it about THE PARENTS and the genders of THE PARENTS always THE PARENTS is very disappointing. What about us? What about the children? What about the children’s rights?
Exactly. Children have rights. I am so sorry 😞
If it happens to one Friend of the court, family court, Juvenile Courts it happens to all
I do know we do have some ethical professionals.
Thank God
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So when are we all going to band together and demand transparency, accountability and end to corruption that is destroying the lives of children?
People just whine on the internet. Very few of us want to band together and do something about it
It'll NEVER happen. Americans are too soft, women have largely taken over the family court system NATIONWIDE and when women rule over something, they rarely cede power.
This report completely fails to mention that women are often encouraged to make false claims of abuse to gain leverage in divorce proceedings. That's critical information when evaluating the flaws.
You are 200% correct. Lawyers do encourage mothers to make false DV allegations. And then family court judges enable and endorse false allegations by 1) rubberstamping the mother on restraining order requests, and giving her default custody, 2) without any actual intelligent analysis (like a competent professional would perform) - and yes, I have transcripts proving this, and 3) not pursuing contempt of court against the mother when it's proven she lied and made false allegations. District Attorneys and Police Officers throughout the US also enable and endorse false allegations when these officials run away from any possible criminal charges for false allegations made by the mother. I have seen this firsthand, as well. It was quite amazing to see the police and DA running in circles to get away from the idea of prosecuting the mother or false claims. Amazing is the wrong word. "Embarrassment to our country" is a better term for it.
I agree my ex lied every hearing and I asked to hold her in contempt the judge said she wasn't a police or prosecutor and couldn't do anything I asked then if I quit paying my support u won't have me jailed she said that is different. If ur a man just give up take what they offer and go away it's the only way to stay sane. I did give up after that hearing.
@@jamesgotti8102 I totally believe you because I went through similar circumstances... In terms of how the cards are stacked against the dads. But I was not in a position where I could give up custody to my ex because she was extremely dangerous. So I found ways to overcome the incompetence and the gender bias of my judge. There are ways to do that but you have to move mountains, which is completely unfair to fathers and children. So now I am making a docu-series to help dads overcome the type of thing that happened to you. This has to end.
@@FatherX2022 Have you done the docu-series? If so where can I find it?
It's on UA-cam, under my name.
Lawyers donate MILLIONS to Judges. The system was never about justice
Many women use restraining orders and false abuse claims in family court.
Yes. I was a victim of that. My ex got the upper hand in filing false domestic violence against me. She is also an attorney. Stupid me for marrying her. Happens all the time in California. Men Beware!!! I lost custody of my son and thrown out of my own house which I built. Such injustice in this divorce system especially for men.
Fathers ex girlfriend filed restraining order at different times against both Mother and Father and now has custody of our daughter.
CHERYL ANNE SMITH CHILD ADVOCATE ATTORNEY HAYWARD CALIFORNIA IS THE REASON WHY. HER 6 FIGURE INCOME FOR TAKING OUR CHILDREN SHE CALLS HER OWN.
I've beat 7 false injunctions the judge started to see the pattern every even year I get my son for his birthday guess what both the past even years I got hit with dv injunction a week before so I couldn't send gift or call his house its rigged for women
How about removing any confidentiality about the actions of family courts.
Subject every decision made in such courts to public scrutiny.
If the judge was appointed make sure that the officials that appointed him/her are also held liable.
Make all orders given by the family courts be subject to review by higher courts, both criminal & civil.
Put cameras with sound in the courtroom, regardless of how judges or activists feel about it. These judges are acting on behalf of the state & paid for by our taxes, they should not be allowed to avoid strict scrutiny of how they discharge the powers of their office.
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Due to 11 years of family court in which my ex-wife used the judicial system as her stage, or platform to leverage control, she gave me an ultimatum that if I did not sign over all my legal and physical rights, she would, 1 Ruin me Financially and 2. She would make sure that I would not have a relationship with my son. Family court is not interested in justice and they could care less about your children. Its a 50 Billion Dollar a Year Business. No one holds anyone accountable and DSS should simply be closed down and boarded up as a condemned facility. 60% of the children who died from abuse last year, around 90% of those children had open DSS and CPS cases. Would you throw a rattlesnake in your child’s crib? Picking up the phone and calling DSS is putting your child at a greater risk and it’s generally going to come back and bite you in the end as well.
Agreed. When the courts rubberstamp the mother with default primary custody on Day 1, it gives the mom all the leverage to to threaten you and blackmail you, using your child. Not all moms do that, obviously. But too many do. And courts look the other way when this happens. I have never known a judge who took responsibility/accountability for their poor decision-making.
"Ye are gods". Jesus said. Judgers of men. Woe to him who judges wrongly. And to those who are actually abuseing. For to these is the greater damnation eternally.
I believe......it’s the end times It’s unbelievable how no one cares anymore
These judges will have a greater judgement for sure. Christ will be our deliverer & will avenge the blood of his people.
What verse is this?
Isaiah 33:1 ►
New International Version
Woe to you, destroyer, you who have not been destroyed! Woe to you, betrayer, you who have not been betrayed! When you stop destroying, you will be destroyed; when you stop betraying, you will be betrayed.
I hate to give this advice but for those just entering the family law sytem... get OUT. Leave your kids if you can and start some place else. The law system uses your love for your kids to take everything you have.
Yes you are 100% correct.
I have been in a 4-year divorce battle where domestic violence is evident, yet I have been called the liar. There is extreme collusion. The judge has a personal relationship with the petitioner. He has been awarded the majority of the assets and has the primary placement of the children. The GAL refuses to report for the children, including calls to her of verbal abuse, hiding in the closet out of fear, and being hit with an object. The father has alienated me from my children who I was the primary parent for while he traveled out of state for work all our marriage. Now, I face 72 hours in jail for filing my own income tax return, and a commitment order was just signed. The court is allowing the petitioner to continue to abuse through court order to the point I am on the edge of bankruptcy. So far, I have been unable to get legal help.
It’s too late to change these Courts of Equity. I don’t want it to change either, I want them to continue. I want the rage in men to build until it explodes, and it will.
I agree. My ex husband forged my signature, cashed my check from my separate account, took my sons education fund that my mom set for them, forged my signature got my family restaurant, not seeing or supporting the kids, and lied I did not let him see them.
His day is coming. Shame on him. I'm so sorry 😞 😢
I know its a year since your comment but did he get charged?
Whoever can outspend the other party usually wins. Minus any criminal, violent or drugs inolved
Yup. Money wins. I could not keep up with my ex's free attorney. Leveling the playing field only applies if both parties are paying. There is no leveling if the other party has a free attorney.
So many stories circulating where money is the ONLY reason a party gets custody regardless of criminal or violent behavior. I am sure not every case is judged this way and I’m sure there are still some judges with a conscience, but so many stories where it’s solely money motivated. I pray for change for the sake of al family and children🙏
Or those who are on state assistance
That is a common thought but incorrect. Title 4 Feds match $1 for $1 money coming into court. Usually they put larger income in such a hole they exhaust every penny trying to see their child
I have lost everything. My ex had a free attorney which means she had no financial incentive to comply with a parenting agreement. I spent thousands to get it just to be faced with needing more court intervention to enforce it. I had no choice but to give up. I spent thousands just for the right to pick up my kid from school. Family law IS corrupt. I am planning to move out of America at my retirement. My kid will have to fend for herself. The state took ALL of her financial resources and no one gives a sh×t. I have lost my home and over 150 thousand. They will continue cases until you can't. I had to pay for the right to attend my child's doctor appointments...just to have my ex refuse to cooperate to allow it. GAL knew she wouldn't comply and told the judge the parties would cooperate. He KNEW my ex would not...I gave him 7 years of documentation that didn't matter. VERY CORRUPT SYSTEM.
Men should not ever get married anymore because there is a 60% chance these people will be involved in your lives very soon.
I have witnessed the same behaviour in our family court system here in Canada. It is corrupt judges that get away with their bias and unethical conduct that wrecks the judicial system. Submitting a complaint, even with strong evidence is ignored. Judges are protected at all costs.
I know about this and I did win custody after my son said that his mother lied
She couldn't coach him
and me and him still are mad about it today many years later
Liars always winner in nz family court.
My daughters legal guardian substituted judgment for her, my daughter at that time was 10. Her “lawyer” (wearing a pink backpack to court) said my daughter wanted to be with me, but the whack job “therapist” my ex hired said she was regressing because of me (not because my ex shipped her brother back into the foster care system!). The judge sided with her, and I was now FIGHTING for my 50%. Almost a year to the day (Xmas week..again), the judge now said “I can’t make her talk to her dad”.
Think about that contradiction folks. One year she can’t speak for herself, 365 days later the judge couldn’t care less!
My ex has MANIPULATED the courts, the “therapist” AND an ENTIRE FOSTER CARE PROGRAM! My adopted daughter WANTS HER BROTHER BACK!
Stay tuned….
Cover much more on this issue. The judges do not have enough real oversight. There are many very bad judges in the USA, and there is not enough fast and practical ways to correct their improper actions and errors. USA has huge problems with the courts with many bad judges and bad lawyers; and not much of the public is willing to discuss the problems.
Funny how they skipped the part where the man gets falsely accused of abuse and has his life destroyed and his child taken away
Yup even in the news they can't admit that to Many men lose custody this way I am one of them I just gave up I pay and went away. I still have visits I don't use. Never again will my ex try and ruin my life send me to prison for just being in my child's life. Ur not alone
Silver bullet google it. I hear it happens alot.
It sounds to me that this video is pro believe the acuser and don't ask questions. We all know which gender tends to make false accusations and that insists people just believe them and also happens to the the one who initiates %80 of devorces and tends to be the unfaithful one.
I lost my children due to being protective. 10 years I have been suffering with parental alienation. Has destroyed my entire life.
I know exactly how you feel I've been alienated from my 2 boys. Only my daughters life i was able to be in. But she was alienated from her 2 brothers. Our lives have never been the same. I have not been able to live a normal life for 13 years.
@@lyfless I hear you... my life has been devastated since 2011, I have never been the same ...never will be. Life is cruel and those who abuse don't care who they hurt.
Me too. Parental alienation is ongoing and no one does anything about it. Kids for cash...that's what the government made the family law system into. It has NO integrity. It is ALL about the money
Jesus help us
Its very rare that that happens. What did you do?
When you hear the court lawyer say things like ," oh but you make good money!" You know you're screwed.
I’d like to share my story. My sons dad kept my child from me for almost one year.
Same!
Two of mine did: my son's dead beat donor did 16 yrs and my daughter's deadbeat donor currently now 5 years☹️😪.💔
@@zootehnik6662 yes☹️
California. You just said the problem.
Family courts were perfect up until the early 1970's. What has been legislated, administrated and processed through these courts afterwards is a tragedy. Don't believe me? Go read it for yourself.
Does not apply in Sweden. I was in court with my ex wife. Everything she said was taken seriously and judge clearly stated no evidence required. Unlike in criminal court where evidence is a must.
This is how it is in Michigan no evidence is required.
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So accurate. You WILL get accused of parental alienation. Be cateful
Can we sue courts ?
Good report topic. Please keep focusing on this topic. There are massive problems of corruption in courts in various states by various persons including judges, lawyers, clerks, and certain parties.
In family courts as well as in criminal courts also im a victim of being wrongfully convicted for the crimes i never committed and criminal court covered the backs of the smallfakefamilycourt crime to hear my true story of mine and my family and the fake family court and both criminal courts wrongfully convicted me im innocent and i never committed the crimes in my life my first exwife called cps on our family she told me and my wife that if she cant have me back as her husband that she was going to destroy me and my family and our family found us dealing with a fake portable family court crime ring us familys became being the victims victimized by this crime
I’m sorry the mom went through that. Im going through the same. It’s disgusting how humans are this vile.
Have you covered job and family services with children orphaned from deceased parent/parents and the legal loop hole for them to take a child away from relatives and adopt to strangers. Whoever gets ok'd to adopt through the system gets money monthly for that child. Puts the child at risk for type of human trafficking through the system. We are experiencing that now!!!
My family is being torn apart by my ex-husband, and father to my 12yr old son. I do believe he is a master narcissist. He will stop at NOTHING, and lies about anything and everything to succeed in alienating me from our child and have complete control. I seeked help for post-partum depression/anxiety after having my 3rd son. I was self-admitted into a local/private, mental health treatment center. My ex the next court day, filed an ex-parte hearing, did not serve nor notify me, and told the judge that I was removed and taken to a drug and alcohol institution etc. He was granted FULL custody. Prior to this hearing, I had 70+% custody. I have been treated like a criminal ever since. Because I chose to reach out for help, the stigma, and the lack of knowledge on parental alienation, personality disorders, and mental illness, I have now lost my child. I fought for a long time to regain 50% joint custody until May of this year when I lost my son completely. At this point, I’m in utter fear and desperation. The harm being done to my son emotionally and mentally is unbearable to watch as a mother. To not be able to protect him is a feeling I would not want any parent to ever have to experience. The thought that my son may believe that I have abandoned him makes my heart break even more. I want my son to know that his mama never gave up, and that I’ve been fighting every day. My ex has lied and continues to lie to an extent that is inhumane. He has destroyed not only my reputation, but most importantly, is doing everything and anything in his power to destroy my relationship and bond with our son. He uses our son as tool to torment and inflict pain on me. When in return, our son is the one suffering most. October of this year marked 10 years since filing for divorce and dealing with his false accusations, and allegations in court. I have been diagnosed with complex PTSD, severe depression & severe anxiety due to the 15 years of abuse from this monster. My son also suffers with mental illness due to the abuse. I have not been able to see, nor been able to communicate with my son in any way since May of this year. My ex refuses and has blocked me from having any form of contact or communication. Including any and all family members. He disregards all court orders and won't cooperate with the court evaluation. I don’t know if my son is okay, and I honestly don't know what my ex is capable of next. I’m fearful that my son could become suicidal.HELP!
I would be very very willing to share my ongoing court saga
If I were a young man wanting a fàmily and knowing what I know now - I would only accept marriage if these laws were in place that is fair.
1) house gets sold to the highest bidder and split 50 50. ( today she gets the house and a new guy moves in and judge decides house value)
2) no alimony either way.
3) 50 50 Custody. No child support and all children's bills split 50 50.
4) pay own attornies
5) savings, bills, retirement split 50 50.
This is fair but women would never agree because they want marriage to be a winning lottery ticket, and it is.
Yup
Try being male dealing with these clowns!
I have tried that. People complain that family court is biased against dads. As a dad who ultimately won primary custody, I can 100% confirm the bias against dads is real. All you have to do is evaluate every word and action of the judge. Ask: "What would a competent & neutral person decide, given what this judge has heard?". Compare it to "what did this judge decide?". See the difference. Night and day. When you do that, the bias becomes transparent. Judges aren't smart enough t effectively cover up their bias.
Family court judge JOANNE MCCRACKEN behavior totally disgusting San Jose California
Family Law IS pay to play...or kids for cash. I am disgusted with what I have experienced. My child pays the ultimate price. I have the right to pay...not the right to be a dad. Advice...DON'T have a child in Illinois!
i took my wife to court after she kept my son from me for a month, i got full custody he gets to see her everyweek and for the entire summer. The last time my son saw his mother was 4years ago and he is 7 now, he is attached at the hip to my current wife his step-mom. People can be evil to.
Everyone, in the complaint, you can demand a Jury trial for your divorce or custody battles. Criminal cases have 12 juries. Civil/family cases have 6 juries.
In what state not fl or NH
Family Courts need to be Abolished
Here here 🙌 👏
This happens because these judges are not elected, can you imagine what happens if they faced the public?
Ok let's be real for just a min here.
Yes the family courts need to be changed to be more fair for both parties involved because clearly there is corruption their and is very evident.
But why was is that when this problem affected men no one cared
The stastics alone should tell a very sobering story about what has happened to men after a divorce and yet inspite of all this NO ONE CARED about what happened to us at all.
Yup...the court does not care if you have been destroyed by the court, emotionally and financially. I have lost everything and yet I'm expected to keep paying child support. I was out of work and was taken to court for child support but yet my ex is out of work and lives off my child's support and she is unemployed! The system is HEAVILY biased for the money. And while you are destroyed and shaking your head, you are expected to keep paying. Unbelievable. Fathers who went through the family law system and commit suicide is to be expected. The stress is overwhelming. Illinois is the worst.
I think California is the worst. Perhaps USA is worst and that's why America is falling. Soon there will be no more family law and the once wealthy lawyers and judges will now be homeless beggars on the street.
SOLUTION: DONT HAVE CHILDREN
withholding access of a child should be jail time. 50/50 should be automatic. the reason why mothers won't be civil and cooperate equally is because it goes against what the father wants. there is no other reason. and abuse is a joke. all these women claim abuse. you let then put their such inside you then call them abusive when you don't get what you want
I'd love to help change the law. My daughter lost custody of her children because her in-laws accused her of things, but what the in-laws & family do is actually far worse & dhs gave them the custody of my grandbabies, from the people i helped my grandchildren & daughter escape from for so long & that wrenched situation. I was denied gardianship only because of my income level. I was in disbelief. I'm the only one that had a sustainable and meaningful relationship with those children but got them torn out if my life and have no voice to tell my side of the story. I want to change the law so bad so that just because of income levels a grandmother like myself who would guide, love & protect those babies should have the gardianship, not the family that didn't protect them.
In Arkansas I have no rights unless I take CPS to court which I could never afford.
How can the government just give the kids to the ones who don't protect them only for something far worse to end up happening.
Broken Hearted 💔
I am so sorry you beautiful soul. You are a great Grandmother and I pray for your reunion with your grandchildren 🙏
Family court rights for women -
They usually get - house, children, alimony, child support, furniture, pets, tax teturn, savings, retirement funds. Alienation is accepted.
Men gets his clothes and the bills. He has no rights in court. If he has them, where are they documented ?
Parental Alienation is REAL. I lived it for 10 years, and no allegations of abuse or neglect. I know hundreds of parents who are living this same nightmare. The number of those being abused is low, compared to those truly being alienated from their children. Judges should NOT be making such decisions. Psychologists are NOT trained in alienation. The real experts will say Judges, psychologists, GAL's and AMC's nearly get it wrong 99.9% of the time. These court actors also receive complete immunity. The stories in this video are evidence that judges and therapists get it wrong. Courts don't typically grant custody to abusers.
What makes it not a real term in your opinion? I find that to be an ignorant statement, when myself along with thousands of parents have experienced true parental alienation. In fact, many experts use this term, including psychologists, psychiatrists, attorneys, and mediators. I have heard Judges use the term and some have testified in CT Supreme Court, where they were asked what parental alienation means. Just because the APA doesn't recognize it, and nor do they need to, doesn't debunk that it is REAL. Ignorant people who have ever experienced this will at some point either experience it themselves or will have a family member experience this. Come back and talk to me then. Do some parents use it as a tool to gain custody of children, of course that happens, just like parents use domestic violence as a tool or other false allegations used to leverage their custody case. It's no different than any other lie in family court.
Here are two of many attorneys who represent parents facing parental alienation. www.micklinlawgroup.com/how-to-prepare-for-custody-battle/
farzadlaw.com/divorce-and-child-custody/what-is-parental-alienation/
Go to mark 38:00 in this 12 hour video, where judges are being grilled on family courts, and specifically at 38:00 a judge talks about parental alienation. Parental alienation IS REAL and recognized by those in the family court system. www.ctn.state.ct.us/ctnplayer.asp?odID=15225
Christine Sirgant i agree that it is real as i have experienced it, but it is also being used falsely against protective parents. There needs to be a full investigation and overhaul of the family court system based on evidence rather than opinions for both sides of this as the stats clearly show children are consistently being given to abusive parent. Being alienated from a parent is not nearly as bad as being physically/sexually abused.
I lost my child who had numerous medical issues, including a life threatening tumor. Her father sexually abused her and claimed I had Munchausens by proxy. Family Court judges in New Jersey aligned themselves with him because they gain by trafficking sexually abused children into the children's system of care in exchange for money and power. My ex was a compulsive liar, and narcissist booted off Wall Street for poisoning the workplace environment by lying on his bosses and spreading false rumors. He is an expert study on people in positions of power who can be corrupted. The judicial system needs to be overhauled at 2 levels: Law school graduates need more life experience, an ethical oath of oblgation and a residency requirement before licensure to gain wisdom. Second, lifetime appointments must be abolished. This primitive practice incarcerates our system of justice and does not allow for knowledge growth within a nation's judicial elite. Instead, the current system too easily allows smart but naive and untested individuals to become lords of flies....so little wisdom with total, absolute judicial reign. How contradictory this is for a democracy.
How do you continue living without our children:(
You don't. Its unbearable 😫
They don’t want to believe something and they say we lied.
I am a documented domestic violence survivor, despite proof and my children claiming abuse multiple times over the years my family court judges have made egregious rulings. I don’t believe anyone with any training could look at my case and not see what is happening. There is so much proof I couldn’t even begin to explain in this short comment. I have searched and searched for legal support to stop his continued abuse through the use of the courts to no available there is no help for survivors of domestic violence or there kids available other than counseling and help filling out forms(and that’s if you know the forms you need). My kids are active being affected by the completely uninformed court’s decisions.
I have been a victim. If anyone knows a lawyer to help me in Illinois.
Lilia, are you available for & will you consider a follow up?
I'm in WA State however I know Parents in EVERY State as well as abroad! All over the UK, Ireland, Switzerland, Australia, the EAU Emirates, Netherlands & Germany....
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It is not just family court. This abuse of discretion problem is rampant throughout all divisions of the courts.
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This sounds all too familiar with my case. I was alienated from my son. With an order in place, she deliberately violated and kept him from me for 3 years. Somehow she was able to get another state to take jurisdiction and ended up getting my rights
Relinquished. Now I have no son. The court system is so crooked to take a willing parent ,Who wants to be involved away from a seven year old boy. Every boy needs his father and they took that from me. I'm as straight as they come. I'm in the military, don't drink or do drugs. I'm expected to risk my life to protect people in this country.But yet I don't have a say so when it comes to my own son. The choices were made by a bunch of female therapist, lawyers and judges who couldn't live the life they live without people like me. Sad world we live in and kids are affected. Statistics show. I wish there was something I could do.
My children were to I was dead and this came up in court
Judges need to be held accountable for everything not just some things
Is against men. I was a great father a great husband why am I paying so much? Is causing me depression health issues cant sleep etc. You named it. Its completely unfair. Shame on you USA.
I wish I’d participated
I’m going through this
As victim of DV and cross accused
Then alienated while children were lied to
So sad and all those grandparents gaining custody along with the abusive parents..
I know..victim of that.
Shared custody should NEVER be 'automatic' but instead determined based on whether or not the parent is mature, responsible, moral and genuinely loving and caring. Parents who ABANDON their children should NOT be awarded any custody at all - only visitation rights and only after being held ACCOUNTABLE for their actions. Too many narcissists in the family court are using children to stoke their own egos.
I have and now I'm fighting for my two youngest kids the were adopted two people who will not let me talk to the no pitchers Even no report cards and order was spose to be that way the only thing they said we was are house was unsanitary and we were moving and we had stuff everywhere and they knew this they went and got my kids from school came to the house and took my daughter then made all these other aligations on us after wards now I suffer depression and anxiety of not having them I have my oldest but he 16 now I have had him year now and he was molested beat up jump by a group of kids why he was in the system he suffers every day too asking when he's going to talk or see his brother and sister and he also suffers from adhd and the low side of autism if there is anyone out that could help me get my kids back please I need so our family can be happy again
What state do you live in?
Transcripts in my county cost $4/ page. I have a 3 year long family court case lol
Demand your filings Forma Pauperus and demand it under the freedom of information act
@@tyroncline5978 what does that mean
Have a friend fighting for custody right now in utah. He was told by the lawyer that the courts look very poorly and unfavorably against parents who point fingers (acuse) at the other parent and not to acuse his ex of anything. Meanwhile his ex she did make a false accusation against my friend which she can't prove because it never happened this will rightly work against her and like the guy in this video says " you don't make an accusation you can't prove and go back to 0. Meanwhile my friend submitted 150 pages of Hatefull texts from her including multiple deaths threats and calling him gay and that she doesn't want her son to be with him because he will make him gay
This is going to look very bad for her and she has nothing she can prove at all. He even has video recordings of her misconduct and written testimonys by a certified professional who interacted with her that she blew up on the professional person for no good reason. If someone is going to make an accusation the courts are right to ask for proof. He didn't acuse her of anything just submitted evidence to show the court what hes working with.
I'm surprised that so few people know the power of the affidavit. Court orders and child support. No. I'm not a deadbeat. I was supporting "our" child anyway and had primary placement. Her mother was the one gaming the system in conspiracy with the judge and I put a stop to it with an affidavit that I actually got my ex to sign off on. A judge can't overrule an affidavit. I ended that situation (back in the '90s) with an affidavit. Study up...
We are not in the 90's anymore. An affidavit for what?
Affidavit for what coparenting
Riverside CA Family Law Case RID 1300823 my children were being molested and filmed by their father and a group. They are connected, and no criminal charge were filed. I was given custody and we moved to Austin Texas. But when my 8 year old son was hospitalized 51/50, citing what happened back at his dad’s, all custodial rights were taken from me. I didn’t comply and hid with my children for 2 years until turned in for a reward. I now face 14+ years in prison and haven’t been given my natural right to speak with or see my children in 17 months. Please help.
So what about the "Protective Parent" who actually is making false allegations to obtain full custody? Does this not happen?
Yes, it does. I speak from 23 years of experience as the victim along with my kids, even with my parents acting this way when I was child.
Easy way to fix family courts: STOP FAVORING MOTHERS!!!
We all agree that there are complete misinterpretation of the laws by administrative judges in family courts. But, the question is what will be done to eradicate these color of law behaviors?
Recently, an attorney in the 11 Judiciary Court of Miami Dade County in Florida decided to substitute her own client’s salary deductions into net income while calculating a Child Support Index. This is taxes that are paid to the government per this individual’s salary. The lawyer chose to withdraw after her client refused to consent to the omitted items. The judge instead of reporting the attorney as per the Judicial Canons, closed to adjudicate the matter through the use of the fraudulent document.
The Florida Bar stated that the attorney’s action was ethical and within the realms of the law, while the Judicial Qualification Commission said likewise for the judge.
What recourse are there for this and citizens of this Democratic Union?
There are allot of fake abuse allegations as well. Guess who loses either way? The kids! Do they need guardian ad litems?
Agreed....way too many false allegations. But nobody needs guardian ad litems. Who needs more lawyers on the case? We need intelligent people who can analyze a situation. So...I guess that means nobody needs family court judges either.
Why is this FACT not mentioned?
I invite you to call your state or the Florida Dept of Revenue and ask them as I did why the Federal Government pays our State EXTRA millions for "going above and beyond the Federal "Minimum" for creating non-custodial parents."
What everyone needs to know.
So how much did Florida receive from your Social Security tax dollars?
As of June 30, 2016 Florida received 167.8M from the Federal Government for CREATING non-custodial parents. Plus 26.6M for incentives for going above and beyond Federal expectations. WHAT! going over expectations???
Ask why the government has a minimum! IF parents are in agreement. REALITY - It does not matter if you are in agreement.
Did you know our state will be FINED if it falls below the minimum expected by the Federal Government? Will you please ask your state.
H.R.3130 - Child Support Performance and Incentive Act of 1998105th Congress (1997-1998)
Sponsor: Rep. Shaw, E. Clay, Jr. [R-FL-22] (Introduced 01/28/1998)
Committees: House - Ways and Means | Senate - Finance
Occupation: Judge, Accountant... imagine that
Shaw died September 10, 2013
The family court cartel has bullied good people to death. Do they care? What did they learn in Ethics Class???
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that was a great you tube video...that you linked to. good testimony.
It's the same in Australia, my brother has been fighting in the family court for 4 years now, he only gets to see his children in an unhealthy contact centre run by the so called charitable, with two court hearings a year at best! All the Judge does at the end of each hearing is make orders that my brother do more counseling programs, yet there has been no abuse to my nephews, just an un amicable mother that is bitter and a bais old Judge from the Northern Territory, who seems to be more worried about his position on the bench, then what's best for the children. Not only has my brother been alienated from his children but our whole family as well due to the split! Just through separation alone he has lost all rights to his children and we my brothers family have lost the right to spend time with some very very important family members, my nephews! Shame on you Family Courts shame!
He is better off giving up. I spent 8 years of my life trying to get common sense. I did not get it. I ran out of money. If he can...tell him to walk away...start some place else.
I am so sorry they will pay. They will never get away with harming all the children. Their day will come.
one of the many issues in family court is they are all in bed together. it's like the wild wild west in family court. it's much like a game of chess or cards. i have been there many times. my own lawyers have told me it's a game. it's a game to them. high stakes for our children and devastation in many cases to us. family court reform is a long uphill battle. it's a 50 billion dollar a year business. put yourself in their shoes- how easy would it be for you to let go of all that easy cash? reform means loss of revenue to a well established business. lots of people in family court want very much to keep their current life style growing. they do not want to let go of the easy cash and look for another way to make this kind of money. they are fighting as hard as we are- for different reasons.
This is so true.
Transcripts offer are doctored by Auscript on orders of some registrars who are accommodating to barristers and judges who are part of the club...the act has been treated with contempt by some bent greedy soul less barristers ..it's called complicate.embroil.exploit
Yup
Treason.....
Parental alienation is a very real nightmare for many of us. My daughters mother ( who works in the law system ) is suffers from
NPD and is dedicated to destroying my relationship and my parenting time.
I was a victim
Parental alienation or domestic violence. It's not safe gaurding the children is it.
Its a shame how women keep Fathers from their child out of spike and what ever else
In Colorado the family law section of the Colorado Statutes is 3 1/2" thick and in the end the judge doesn't have to follow any of it, because the judge can make any decision he likes in "the best interest of the minor child". The Statute even says that a mothers love is somehow better than a fathers love.
The fact that they only mentioned the woman's side.
So frustrating! I was wrongfully and unlawfully dragged through family for 2 years with unnecessary and prejudice adjournments. Trial scheduling judge Justice Martha Tweedie needs to be removed. She filled out the applicants TSEF which parties are to fill out, not a judge Rule 17(11) Then Trial Judge Justice Michael Gibson conducted the rigged trial. Applicant admits to paying $7900 on unsigned commissioned document, then asks the judge for $160,000 then is awarded $60,000 absolutely BS what I had to deal with. I want go public about my experience with this crooked family court
lost my kids to the mothers with false allegations. Alot of fathers in this position. Fighting it now, its been 6 months. But it takes 1 year to show my evidence.
Please please help me I'm currently going thur a custody dispute in Westchester county family court this been going on since july202
If the proceeding does not allow jury of peers then there is no due process and where there is no due process then it violates the 5th and the 14th ammendment bill of rights to due process. Every order from a court that lacks personal, subject matter, and territorial jurisdiction is void( it means it is not valid) and no one can enforce such order that violates the Highest law of the land( The Constitution of the United States of America) The doctrine of Res judicata also does not apply on void orders.
Can you explain this in easy language?
They can rule on things with no evidence or proof
JUDGES & LAWYERS WHO KILL THEIR OWN CHILDREN, DO NOT TREAT ANY OTHER CHILDREN IN PROBATE COURT ANY DIFFERENT ❤💯🎬