MY LABOR AND BIRTH STORY | The Early Days I Never Want To Forget - Before My Daughter's Brain Injury
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Here is my labor and birth story with my daughter Avery. Avery suffered a hypoxic brain injury at three days old resulting in Cerebral Palsy and Dystonia. The early days before her event hurt to remember, but it's a time I never want to forget.
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My labor and birth with Avery was by far the easiest of my three children, my active labor from start to finish lasted about six hours, and my beautiful little girl arrived after just a few pushes.
My labor story is a positive one, those early days were spent in a happy little love bubble, you will hear all about it in this story time.
I wanted to make this video to add to almost like an archive of the memories I have of the significant events in Avery's life so far.
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I had no idea you had these wonderful days beforehand. I think we all wonder what happened because it all seems so normal with no signs anything was going awry. I can’t imagine the hell you must have felt you were dropped into when everything seemed to be going sooo well and then BOOM …. Life changed in an instant! I think all of us parents can imagine what that must have been like. I think your grief and sense of loss is completely NORMAL. It’s not that you lost “ her” ( thankfully of course) it’s grieving the life you expected you and her to live. That’s real and true. Although of course you are over the moon that she survived and is still in y’all’s lives, but no sane person would wish to have her deal with muscle spasms, pain , tube fed and sickly etc. it’s perfectly ok to be upset that she has to struggle so hard in life when you never could have foreseen this. That’s my take anyway, feel free to correct me if I’m wrong, that’s just me putting myself in your shoes. You’re doing an amazing job adapting to her new needs btw. I don’t discount that in any way ☺️- from Colorado USA
You’ve explained it perfectly. I would never have wished this life for my child, but there was a time that I was just wishing for her life. We’re incredibly lucky and blessed that she’s here with us ❤️❤️
Avery is trying so hard! To think, we take our movements for granted and seeing her struggle and be grateful once she accomplishes her goal. I'd give anything for a cuddle so give her a big hug and please, let her know someone in Georgia (the US Georgia), loves her and her brothers and mummy and daddy! Good on you, sweet girl! I'm so proud of you and your sweet face is etched in my memory. Even when you're feeling poorly you're one of the loveliest sweetest girls I've ever seen.
Thank you so much this is so sweet. I will gladly give her a cuddle for you (any excuse 😂) ❤️❤️
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What a beautiful beautiful little girl. Her dark hair… pretty as a picture. You are an amazing mummy. I love watching your videos ❤
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
your children are so lucky to have you as their mom! you are something else!
Thank you that’s very sweet ❤️
I am glad you had a few days of the beforehand but it probably makes it so much harder. It is the precious moments that tear at our hearts as moms. I wish I could share a hug with you and Avery. Your family is in my prayers. You are a wonderful mom.
I will never wish those days away but yes it definitely makes it so much harder. Virtual hugs instead 🤗 xx
I've only now been able to watch these particular videos. I've been crying since you started this video even though we still have sweet, beautiful Avery in our lives. I give thanks and am so grateful she's here. You need to know the blessing your family is to me...❤
Thank you so much ❤️ it really makes me happy that our journey means a lot to you ❤️❤️ i definitely feel as though I’ve gained a lot of close friends through this channel xx
Thank you for sharing Avery's birth story, I think you are incredibly brave for being able to talk about this part of your lives. Never apologise for getting emotional, as all viewers will understand how difficult this is. Sending hugs and positive vibes to you all xx
Thank you so much, I am glad I have shared it although I knew it wouldn't be easy. That bit of time we had are both sad and happy memories. It's a strange feeling xx
Just seen this video now thank you for sharing yours n your daughters birth story it's very brave of you have seen a later video when you all went on holiday such a beautiful family
Thank you so much ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. Though via a different situation, i understand the complexity of grieving for the loss of what you wanted whilst loving what you now have. It takes time to process such immense trauma and reach acceptance (while at the same time, being a very busy parent). Never apologise for being emotional, it’s your honest humanity (and humour - your husband and the xbox story 😂) that makes me love your channel ❤️
Thank you so much ❤️ I think any trauma can make you grieve for ‘what could have been’ or ‘what if’ xx
Hugs mama! Thank you for sharing Avery's birth story and those first few precious days. I can not even imagine what you have been through. Thank you for sharing your beautiful girl with us. 💗
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Do NOT be embarrassed about peeing yourself. It happens and all of us moms have stories like that. I loved hearing the boys play in the background. Avery was soooooo smiley and is babbling so much more!
She is getting really chatty recently 😂 it’s the cutest thing. It was really funny at the time the flurry of midwives that came into the room because we all thought it was losing blood - nope I just peed myself 😅 xx
Oh crissie. Thank you for sharing Avery’s birth story. My heart sank as you got emotional towards the end. I can so relate when you mentioned of painful memory when we look back and yet we dont want to forget. I wish there’s some sort of miracle or medical breakthroughs that can cure Avery ❤️ stay strong Crissie! You are doing an amazing job as a mom. Sending you and Avery love and hugs. 👩👧
Thank you ❤️ you never know medicine is changing all the time maybe one day we will discover the magic potion. Xx
Thank you for sharing your birth story! It’s completely understandable to mourn the life you expected to have with Avery. Of course you are grateful she is still here (as are we, she’s a special little girl) but it’s natural to feel emotional about how your lives changed so drastically in the blink of an eye. She’s lucky to have such a special family though, you are all amazing. How wonderful to see her reaching and so proud of herself! Yayyyyy Avery! Made me a little misty if I’m honest ☺️
Thank you so much. It's a very strange feeling, I feel guilty for missing that time because Avery is who she is and we've gotten to know this brave, sassy little girl and although I couldn't imagine life without her, I wish I could take all of her struggles away. Every new little milestone is something to celebrate - we've been hearing more and more of her laughing too! I'm just so proud of her xx
@@mummyandavery Yes her laughing is adorable! Don’t feel guilty, you are a wonderful mummy. It’s natural to wish she had the pain free life she started with, it doesn’t take anything away from being grateful for the new life you have together. She is blessed with an amazing family.
That’s a very logical way of putting it. Thank you ❤️
I’m so sorry for all you and your family has been through. Much love and many prayers!
Thank you ❤️❤️
There are no worries regarding your emotional feelings being shown. You are human and no matter what others think you are allowed to talk about your feelings. You are a super strong woman!
What a lovely family 👪 ❤
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You are an excellent speaker on the subject of CP.
Thank you so much I appreciate that ❤️ xx
Oh bless you. You poor thing having to remember that traumatic night. I hope you were able to go to therapy. You are such a strong mommy for Avery and your boys. I am praying for yall 🙏🏻
I haven’t been the therapy yet but I’ve made enquiries.. I know it’s something I need to do for myself. ❤️❤️
Sweet girl , never be sorry for your tears you morn the loss of what could have been . So understandable !
Thank you that means a lot ❤️
God bless you Krissy and that beautiful family! Loved watching bright eyed Avery reaching for her toy!☺️
Thank you 😊 ❤️
Bless you and thank you for sharing your story, my heart goes out to you ❤️ you have such a beautiful family and I definitely saw Avery reach for the toy xx
Thank you ❤️ I’m glad you saw it, it’s subtle but she’s improving 🥰
Hi I just want to say thank you for being so brave and honest in sharing the beginning of your journey with Avery , it took a lot of courage and Irespect and appreciate you ! Many years ago I lost my little boy during a mismanaged preterm labour , he was a footling breech at 24 weeks and should have been born by c section but he wasn’t and he suffocated when the cord was delivered first followed by his body at which point my cervix shut around his neck , a common risk with preterm footling breech deliveries so although he isn’t here with me I do understand those feelings of dreams and joys being followed by heartache as things change course out of your control , that’s all I wanted to say that , and that you have my complete respect much love from a southerner living inDurham now xxx
Thank you ❤️ I’m so sorry to hear that, I’ve heard of so many scenarios where it was the care in the hospital that causes the event. It’s so very sad. I can’t begin to imagine how you must feel ❤️❤️
You have a beautiful daughter xxx and she is well blessed to have you as her mother xxxx
Thank you so much 🥰❤️
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Thank goodness she’s here with you
She’s just beautiful
Your a awesome momma sweetheart
Thank you for sharing
Thank you so much ❤️ she’s a little miracle xx
You're an incredible mother...and a beautiful person. 💗
Aww thank you I appreciate that ❤️❤️
At times like these I wonder why life is so cruel so unfair, especially to children and nice people! 💔 I really wish you didn't have to go through this but at least I know that those tears will soon become joy again, the pain will come and go again, that sweet little face will smile and ease your pain again. 💟 Life is what you make of it and you are doing AMAZING in so many levels!! 💕 Lots of love to all 💕
You’ve pretty much explained my emotions 😂 I get said but Avery never fails to bring me back and remember what I have right now ❤️
Well done 👏 on your intentional reaching Avery what a superstar especially not longer after you being so poorly xx
Thank you ❤️ so proud of her she’s a clever little girly xx
So happy little princess is feeling better awww seeing her reach out for her toy was amazing 🎉 awww poor you what a Scary time but you would do anything for your children xxxx She still gorgeous loving caring and super adorable you won’t change her for the whole world bless her ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
Thank you so much ❤️ absolutely I love her to bits I couldn’t be without her or my boys exactly as they are xx
Yay! I've never been 1st! Avery is adorable. I am watching from South Africa and think about all of you often. I so enjoyed your Disneyland trip!
Thank you so much ❤️❤️ I’m glad you liked the Disney vlog it was a great trip xx
Thanks for sharing.
I got emotional watching the video and I am not the one living the life. So, no need to apologize for being emotional, you are allowed to be.
Thank you ❤️ I feel like my labour, birth and the first few newborn days were incredibly positive, which is amazing to have experienced.. but it does make it so much harder to reminisce on xx
@@mummyandavery I totally understand! From previous videos we knew Avery got sick at 3 days old. But it wasn't until this video I knew she actually came home from the hospital before things went down hill. So I can see how it would hurt more looking back.....
Keep the faith and stay strong even though it's hard as hell. Pray as well.
I think a lot of people would assume that it’s not very often you hear of babies getting HIE after they’ve come home. We are all just really lucky she’s still here ❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing your story. God bless all
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Thanks for sharing. God bless you.
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Thank you for sharing! I’ve been waiting to hear your birth story. I hope in the future there will be better treatment options that are less invasive.
You and me both! Medicine is changing all of the time, I remember the doctors saying that to us when Avery was in ICU. I'm glad I've shared it, it still feels quite surreal looking back xx
so sweet. love ur channel
Thank you 🥰 I’m glad you love my channel ❤️❤️
you so brave tell your story love xxx to you
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Your boys are so cute! And your baby has soo a beautiful face! Greetings from germany
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Your Avery is so precious and a little beauty...I am not sure if you already follow House of Hughes on UA-cam...their little Beckham who is 3 years old suffered a brain bleed which caused him to have cerebral palsy....they share his life and all that they do for him...they have started him on baclofen and botox injections which is helping him with physical issues that your Avery is having...I hope this could be of help to you...you and your family are in my prayers💙
Thank you ♥️ I do watch them. 😊 We’re trialing Baclofen at the moment though we’re only a week or two in, and we’re in the process of referring Avery for Botox in her little arms xx
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She's been making noises it seems like she's trying yo talk yo toys and trying to lift her head up and a tiny bit less floppy maybe the rest from therapy has done her good maybe it's a moral gor all of us to exercise but if you're struggling take a break and then start again