The Emotions Expert: The Lies You Believe About Emotions Are Destroying Your Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @annmarieknapp
    @annmarieknapp 10 місяців тому +5

    So excited for this interview. Dr. Feldman-Barret has radically shifted how we study emotion and in particular, interoception (our perception of our bodily sensations, like heartbeat sensations). Looking forward to this interview.

  • @djoy1391
    @djoy1391 10 місяців тому +26

    As a former smoker I think one of the things that people forget about is the deep breathing, particularly the slow exhale, involved in the process. Obviously, smoking is really bad but the part we could keep is the going outside, potentially with a friend, and having a chat while we do deep breathing for 5 minutes.

    • @supervyk
      @supervyk 10 місяців тому +2

      So true

    • @loberleitner1
      @loberleitner1 10 місяців тому +3

      That is such a great parallel to make. Interesting commonality.

    • @tessajetta8146
      @tessajetta8146 9 місяців тому +1

      That is what I miss the most. Going outside, socializing, deep breathing.

    • @kashq502
      @kashq502 4 місяці тому

      Hey that's a really good idea.

  • @tkppodcast
    @tkppodcast  10 місяців тому +6

    Share your favorite part of the convo below 👇. If you enjoyed this episode, Hit the like button on the video! It helps us a lot. 🙏

  • @YanGao-uz4pj
    @YanGao-uz4pj 6 місяців тому +1

    This is really exciting to know the new way to measure emotions! I guess the emotion in the brain is so abstract or the current medical tool is not able to capture the dynamics in the brain. The memory is definitely in out mind but the current measurement tool Iis not possible to project the picture for the memory. Unless someday, we will develop a very sensitive tool and know how to present the abstract dynamics in a vivid way. Dr. Barrett is really making a significant contribution in the important area!

  • @ivfchic3316
    @ivfchic3316 10 місяців тому +11

    This is fascinating! I don't tell my daughter to stop crying, it can be 15 minutes of screaming but I hold that space (she is home schooled) we then have a cuddle. It could be sadness but mostly it's frustration or anger which are such huge emotions for her little body. It's allowed in our home (but obviously not socially accepted elsewhere) We are beginning to talk about transmuting those emotions into energy as a driver to move forward (which is what I've done as a child) I don't know if what I'm doing is right, but she cries very little and its a normal emotional response. As I say, it is hard (but I've had to work on myself a lot to be able to hold this space for her)
    There is always growth in struggle.

    • @firsthelix6726
      @firsthelix6726 8 місяців тому

      Amazing, sounds like love in it's most sincere form!

  • @karinah5487
    @karinah5487 10 місяців тому +1

    Shane, your questions and interaction are so good and natural. I enjoyed this interview very much with Lisa. I leave with the reminder to BREATHE to the bottom of my lungs. Thank you!

  • @sayusayme7729
    @sayusayme7729 9 місяців тому +1

    As a neurodivergent person I struggle with not only facial expressions, but inflection, energy, stance, voice control or speed.
    Often discombobulated as it feels like so many are hiding theirs.
    Interesting chat.
    Thank you

  • @thaliakate444
    @thaliakate444 10 місяців тому +6

    Insightful conversation. How to Human 101.

    • @stacielivinthedream8510
      @stacielivinthedream8510 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes! Unfortunately, we need to be reprogrammed! People are waking up all over the place to so much!

  • @S_H9260
    @S_H9260 10 місяців тому

    47:23 I also ask people, "do you want me to help or do you want me to listen?" because my instinct is to come up with a solution. It is useful.

  • @lisaskye296
    @lisaskye296 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @elsavelaz
    @elsavelaz 10 місяців тому +1

    Can you please describe the role of 911 operators and their discernment in accepting calls only if the person conforms to their “I don’t want to deal with your emotions ?” Recently experienced this and it was NOT OK

  • @elsavelaz
    @elsavelaz 10 місяців тому

    Can you also comment on facial recognition software and the assumptions that they are based on?

  • @Manehoph
    @Manehoph 10 місяців тому

    Thats why emotion will only have feelings according to its context, meaning , context will provide the feelings behind this categorical emotion, i guess of logic comes from syncronized affect, if its not syncronized thou, we have different intellegence too, if I am angry, it is logical to for me to shout. its the affect we get our intellegence.

  • @MarinaM-o6p
    @MarinaM-o6p 10 місяців тому

    I believe my emotions ALWAYS …IF I AM SAD IS BECAUSE I DID NOT GET what I was hopping for or other people made sure I would not get it …..so I am quite the opposite …..I will always go into the direction where I am welcomed and appreciated…..

  • @UssiTheGrouch
    @UssiTheGrouch 6 місяців тому

    A conversation between her and Brenè Brown would be very interesting...

  • @jyothishmg5041
    @jyothishmg5041 10 місяців тому +1

    How actors evoke emotions through conscious process...?

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @evadebruijn
    @evadebruijn 10 місяців тому

    ✌️