No. 1 Performance Psychologist: Here's What The Best in the World Know About Success That You Don't

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  • Опубліковано 6 лис 2024

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  • @tkppodcast
    @tkppodcast  6 місяців тому +8

    There is a reason 17 of his clients have become number one in the world.
    Leave a comment below with your favorite moment ⬇
    Also, could you do me a favor and hit the like button on the video? Thank you!

  • @dadadadadadadadadadadada
    @dadadadadadadadadadadada 6 місяців тому +8

    Shane, you're doing God's work brother. I respect the mission you're on. Thanks for all you do. I liked, I'm subbed, I'm commenting. Keep it up big fella.

  • @barbarafairbanks4578
    @barbarafairbanks4578 6 місяців тому +5

    IMO - we can tell ourselves 'stories' that play out in our reality - but largely in a unconscious way...
    i.e., we are, to a large extent, unaware of these (unconscious) stories/beliefs about ourselves.
    Imo, it's not enough to simply become aware of our (negative) selftalk, then stop it in its tracks. This may help us, but to only a nominal degree.
    BUT! This negative self talk comes from somewhere....
    The unconscious.
    ...THAT's where these beliefs need to be uncovered, and addressed!
    The surest way to know what our unconscious thoughts about ourselves, are, is to take a good hard look at the outpicturing of our lives.
    "Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will rule your life, and you will call it fate."
    Carl Jung

    • @chrisnorris1959
      @chrisnorris1959 6 місяців тому +1

      Interesting!
      How do we go about taking a look at the out picturing of our lives?

    • @MrgoldenRose
      @MrgoldenRose 6 місяців тому

      Well said

    • @barbarafairbanks4578
      @barbarafairbanks4578 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@chrisnorris1959
      Oh, sorry... I guess I wasn't very clear.
      What I meant by 'outpicturing' was simply - what's going on in our life?
      e.g., what's the overall picture?
      Where are we struggling, but find again & again we cannot seem to overcome?
      What is it that we 'think' we know and believe about ourselves- but, no...if this is NOT what's showing up in the 'picture' of our lives- then we have to realize we really don't hold that particular belief about ourself (or our world) that we thought we did.😮
      For instance, if we consistently have money issues - and as much as we may try to consciously overcome that - we seem to come back to the same unhappy situation with our finances - then it's obvious that we must hold some unconscious belief(s) about $$$ we didn't know we had.
      That's the outpicturing I was talking about.
      Same with anything in our lives... problematic anything (fill in the blank) romance; career; self-esteem; friendships; money; time management; social life.
      If we regularly struggle with any area in our life, and no matter how hard we try to overcome - we always end up in the same (unhappy) situation in that particular area.
      That's the outpicturing - and if our picture is 'off' in any of these areas - we have to assume that, in that particular area, we hold an unconscious belief, that we are consciously unaware of.
      The hard part is changing that belief (that is not serving us). Takes alot of introspection and internal work.
      But the 1st step is to realize what that (flawed) belief is. 😊

    • @chrisnorris1959
      @chrisnorris1959 6 місяців тому

      Thank you!

    • @chrisnorris1959
      @chrisnorris1959 6 місяців тому +1

      @@barbarafairbanks4578 Great reply! Thank you! Looks like I got some introspection and internal work ahead of me. 🙂

  • @veroniquemarie9037
    @veroniquemarie9037 6 місяців тому +6

    Many parents are horrible at raising their kids 😢
    They are judgmental, limited and with no perspective for the future.
    They only project on their own kids the poor limited, narrow and « comfortable » programs they had installed in themselves by social control.😱
    These parents are no good at « Caregiving » and many kids need good teachers, coaches and mentors to let them consider and build a better Vision and Future for themselves.
    Many activities can do that through Sports 🏀
    Learning foreign languages 🇫🇷 and all kinds of hard and soft skills that they might love ❤️ and propel them towards a firstly better Self-image 🎉🤷‍♀️. Self-image is KEY 🔑

  • @1amb1
    @1amb1 2 місяці тому

    great content, thanks
    so true about a burning desire, or a true north start one cultivates for themselves...
    "A young man went to Socrates and asked him the secret of success.
    Socrates asked him to walk with him to the nearest river. By the time they got there, Socrates asked the young man to walk with him a little bit on the water. When Socrates noticed that they had come to some deep part of the water, he held the head of the young man and forcefully pulled it inside the water. The young man struggled to get his head out of the water, but Socrates exercised more force. When Socrates noticed that the strength of the young man was failing, he pulled off his head and asked him what he desired most when his head was under the water.
    The man said, “oxygen.” Socrates answered and said, “If you desire to succeed as much as you desire oxygen when your head is under the water, you will surely succeed.”

  • @veroniquemarie9037
    @veroniquemarie9037 6 місяців тому

    Thank you 😊 for this amazing interview and I am going to purchase the audio version of your book on CHARACTER 🌈🔥⚡️

  • @walknwander
    @walknwander 6 місяців тому

    Very good dialogue! Thank you!

  • @iyasalqasem4090
    @iyasalqasem4090 6 місяців тому

    Is the Human Performance Institute still going? It seems tough to find, and links not working? Interested to see what it's doing.

  • @laura835
    @laura835 6 місяців тому

    thank you very much for this

  • @machsij
    @machsij 6 місяців тому

    One of the best knowledge available online.

  • @CecilCorringham
    @CecilCorringham 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks

  • @thankfulforlife
    @thankfulforlife 6 місяців тому

    Say ONLY the RIGHT things to yourself, your loved ones and the people you come in contact with. It’s the only way we ensure healthy minds in people. A healthy mind is a creative mind.
    Let us be CONSCIOUS and SELFLESS.

  • @malemaline
    @malemaline 6 місяців тому

    What about when you've experienced trauma? I feel stuck in a state of sadness and loneliness and fear. I've tried to change it but no luck.

    • @mackrineabukah5741
      @mackrineabukah5741 5 місяців тому

      Have you tried getting help from a mental health professional? Often when one experiences trauma, navigating away from its effects alone is very challenging

    • @malemaline
      @malemaline 5 місяців тому

      @@mackrineabukah5741 yup for almost ten years on and off

  • @BruceBair
    @BruceBair 6 місяців тому

    For advice on what to do about video games, I would listen to interviews by Jane McGonigal.

  • @karthikrajeshwaran5391
    @karthikrajeshwaran5391 6 місяців тому

    Phenomenal one

  • @mlpan1263
    @mlpan1263 5 місяців тому

    great!!!!

  • @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858
    @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858 6 місяців тому +3

    The inner voice of the child in the sweatshop who made your shirt, and the stories they tell themselves are meaningless. But please, continue in your wisdom.

    • @FighterFlash
      @FighterFlash 6 місяців тому

      not very humble are you messenger😂 nice iPhone!

  • @mrjeff9169
    @mrjeff9169 6 місяців тому

    #Truth

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @veroniquemarie9037
    @veroniquemarie9037 6 місяців тому +10

    And whenever a person suffers 😢from poor Self-image and lack of love, ❤️ support and perspectives, this person is at risk of falling down into addiction and all kinds of self-sabotage « strategies » 😵‍💫

    • @malemaline
      @malemaline 6 місяців тому +1

      It's so hard to change.

  • @bellakrinkle9381
    @bellakrinkle9381 6 місяців тому

    Typically, parents do not focus on what their children think since they mostly think about themselves. Children, too often, are objects of fulfilling the expectations of parents or of their childhood.
    These days, most women are realizing that motherhood is not smart, if it fulfills someone else's expectations.

  • @userresuh
    @userresuh 5 місяців тому

    Success is to care for others . Don't believe me? Just wait

  • @Leta251
    @Leta251 6 місяців тому +1

    Novak it’s a good tennis player but he doesn’t live true and love. The moment he denied the genocide and cleansing rape was committed by his country and goes on tv play victim of booming his country cuz they refuse to stop genocide shows he doesn’t live on true and love

    • @malemaline
      @malemaline 6 місяців тому

      Agree. I think that's why people don't really like him.