Yes, I dated a narcissist and every job she had their was an excuse why she had to quit. but I came to the conclusion that they are lazy and just want to complain and do nothing but torment and blame you.
Been there for 30+ years before this info came out I always wondered what I was doing wrong. Now I know that its the cult of gossip that people push you out and influence management.
I leave jobs where I'm working for a narcissist. They seem to like management roles. Generally anywhere with a high turnover of staff will give it away.
I mean Danish is the best, he always has a knew video exposing something a narcissist does and he's always so exact. Like his videod about the Narc trapping you with pregnancy, The Narc and money, pets whatever it is he's always so accurate
@@peacefuldays4255 yeah sometimes I feel he is the best when it comes to Narcs No doubt there are so many ppl who are great but I feel Danish has this different and accurate approach every single time he makes a video and it's his personal motto to show their real cruel face to the world he is not just doing this for money or fame I believe Danish really wants to disclose them and make them lose I can sense that in his videos 😇
And they all "hate" their bosses....they last about 2 years then are either fired or quit claiming they had the most "evil" boss: usually someone so evil that they expected them to show up to work on time.
Very interesting. I see things happening all the time with this narcissist I know. Deadlines are never ever met, it's always blamed on his team which keeps getting bigger so the jobs get done and still they don't. Doesn't help he's probably messing with two of the girls on his team and having to hide each from eachother and constantly stopping them to have to feed his ego. One of them is his scapegoat a lot of times when he knows he's going to have a walk or inspection. He stays home with some lame excuse and she then has to do the walk and get in trouble for his lack of production or completion of his duties. But it's never his fault. He's never said he could have done this, or should have done that or could have worked harder, it's always someone else's fault and his job is in danger now but he's to arrogant to see it.
Very true! A narcissist believes themselves to be beyond perfection. They believe the empyrean realm to be their footstool. So when it comes to a regular job, the narcissist expects the job to accommodate and orbit around their incessant demands. A narcissist believes themselves to be ‘the boss’ on the first day of work until the last day. I worked with someone who was demoted from a shift supervisor position before they finally left. It was sad to see them losing ground, becoming less connected to reality and more asinine in their absurd struggle-while acting like they were still the cherry on top of the milkshake. In their own minds, they’re living in a castle built on a cloud. But in reality, they’re facing eviction notices for failing to be stable with their workplace.
Facts! My ex with change job so many times. He would take long breaks and then he would come back. I wouldn't be able to do that or I would have gotten fired.
Yes this is exactly what they do !! It's so scarry because I don't know how he's going to pay the bills he's mounted up. And the worst of it is because he's buying and doing things to keep us in debt and possibly loose everything in the process. It's literally insane.
The narc was a teacher/ coach . Average time on a job 1.5 years and was fired or forced resignation from every single one. Only reason he lasted that long is teachers union and the power and control from the position.
I have realized that I have been sabotaging myself when it comes to not being able to keep a job. It’s not like me as I have a history of stability. Unfortunately the stability came with a price because even though jobs were in a toxic environment and trying to ignore that took a toll on me regardless. I’m semiretired now and still want to work so I need to come up with a plan. 👍
My ex would go through jobs like toilet paper but it just wasn't the laziness even tho he made it sound that his job he was the one that everyone ran to but h eff eventually would quit or be fired because they would start to see his true colors
Omg this is so true. My ex Narc kept quitting his job and one time he saw one nice looking and rich bar manager. And he changed his job straight away to bar boy to become one. But he kept complaining about how others are not good at their job and they are way worse than him and he doesn’t understand why they are at the higher position than him. He started to talk to high position people to get “connections” to go higher but didn’t study and didn’t pass the exam for cocktails. When he met his friends, he sometimes lied that he is an ambassador of the bar and later few months when he couldn’t get the position he wanted, he talked bad about their bar quality and quit that this place doesn’t deserve him😂😂 Now he said he wants to be an actor and he’s jobless asking me for financial support so i left. 😂😂🎉
UNLESS your colleague is a covert narcissist who ran an effective smear campaign behind your back - which your managers and colleagues believe - and they ARE conspiring against you because you’re new and the narcissist has been grooming and manipulating these people for years into adoring him
10000000%. 5 jobs so far this year... If he doesn't get the admiration from bosses he craves, he quits. Or he trys to control everyone and he gets fired. He is good at his job I have the letters and awards to prove it but he doesn't play well with coworkers or bosses. Because he's good he feels entitled to special treatment..
Mine quit the first job he got in over 12 yrs to start paying child support when I came back in his life. He in his own words told me he had been showing off throwing full food stuffed boxes on his shoulder and twisted his knee. He was working with a lot of older people and said he wanted to take a week off because he was very much needed and didn't want to go to the dr to get seen and get back at it. Needless to say eventually during that week he decided he would just quit. I honestly think he was wounded that he'd grown overweight from all his self-indulgence and had fallen in front of everybody and gotten laughed at.
God!! exactly correct. He punished his 6 year old daughter for telling truth when she answered phone and told he is sleeping when he was supposed to attend some important meeting. He punished her for 28 yecdestroying his life.
exactly that is why she keeps having more kids to not have to work, cant keep a job..really cant keep anything cant go deeper, want to fix things wrong with the job and feel like they have alot ot offer but it is in themselve that can not be looked at deeper in...the narc feels at first smooth clear nice but it is too normal it never goes anywhere...
Yes, I dated a narcissist and every job she had their was an excuse why she had to quit. but I came to the conclusion that they are lazy and just want to complain and do nothing but torment and blame you.
"There" is a place, ,"their" is item
She most likely got fired 😂 but she wud never mention dat because that means somebody had control
I’ve had to leave jobs because of narcissistic abuse. I wish they would have left, but they were always protected by management.
My boss was a horrible narcissist... She was just the absolute worst... I feel for u
Been there for 30+ years before this info came out I always wondered what I was doing wrong. Now I know that its the cult of gossip that people push you out and influence management.
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Exactly they don't leave jobs they force others to leave
I leave jobs where I'm working for a narcissist. They seem to like management roles. Generally anywhere with a high turnover of staff will give it away.
Omg! These people are so delusional.
That is right..they act like a boss over employees on their level.
Omg yes,the xhusband continually did this.
How are u so bloody accurate Danish always I mean always all the time ur amazing we need people like you to understand these monsters 👹👍
I mean Danish is the best, he always has a knew video exposing something a narcissist does and he's always so exact. Like his videod about the Narc trapping you with pregnancy, The Narc and money, pets whatever it is he's always so accurate
@@peacefuldays4255 yeah sometimes I feel he is the best when it comes to Narcs No doubt there are so many ppl who are great but I feel Danish has this different and accurate approach every single time he makes a video and it's his personal motto to show their real cruel face to the world he is not just doing this for money or fame I believe Danish really wants to disclose them and make them lose I can sense that in his videos 😇
@@peacefuldays4255 we need more ppl like Danish in this world to guide us and help us
@@kayinatkidunya well he's definitely more thorough than the others. He has studied this intensely. I'm going to sign up to get a consultation.
@@peacefuldays4255 You Must I Recommend him And then help Us too after ur consultation
Empaths change jobs often as well, due to unnecessary narcissistic gang stalking in the workplace. We are living in a failed society. 💔
he would change he diet and workouts for both of us like crazy.
mine was an engineer and he worked at the same company for 7 years. he is a malignant self righteous narcissist
You need to leave
And they all "hate" their bosses....they last about 2 years then are either fired or quit claiming they had the most "evil" boss: usually someone so evil that they expected them to show up to work on time.
No one would do things the "right way" aka his way. He would pitch a hissy fit a walk off the job!!
Thanks Danish!❤⚘
Learning with your teachings!
Very interesting. I see things happening all the time with this narcissist I know. Deadlines are never ever met, it's always blamed on his team which keeps getting bigger so the jobs get done and still they don't. Doesn't help he's probably messing with two of the girls on his team and having to hide each from eachother and constantly stopping them to have to feed his ego. One of them is his scapegoat a lot of times when he knows he's going to have a walk or inspection. He stays home with some lame excuse and she then has to do the walk and get in trouble for his lack of production or completion of his duties. But it's never his fault. He's never said he could have done this, or should have done that or could have worked harder, it's always someone else's fault and his job is in danger now but he's to arrogant to see it.
Who are you able to break down a narcissist's psychology so well in detail? Wow. This is on the money !!!!
Very true! A narcissist believes themselves to be beyond perfection. They believe the empyrean realm to be their footstool. So when it comes to a regular job, the narcissist expects the job to accommodate and orbit around their incessant demands. A narcissist believes themselves to be ‘the boss’ on the first day of work until the last day.
I worked with someone who was demoted from a shift supervisor position before they finally left. It was sad to see them losing ground, becoming less connected to reality and more asinine in their absurd struggle-while acting like they were still the cherry on top of the milkshake. In their own minds, they’re living in a castle built on a cloud. But in reality, they’re facing eviction notices for failing to be stable with their workplace.
Facts! My ex with change job so many times. He would take long breaks and then he would come back. I wouldn't be able to do that or I would have gotten fired.
My ex narcissist got fired multiple times for his anger issues. And then lied about how he got fired.
My ex would do the same 5 jobs in less than 4 years and he’s currently unemployed right now , just sad
Yep. This is so true
Yes this is exactly what they do !! It's so scarry because I don't know how he's going to pay the bills he's mounted up. And the worst of it is because he's buying and doing things to keep us in debt and possibly loose everything in the process. It's literally insane.
I just get very bored. I work very hard. But once I've learned what I need to know, it just feels like drudgery; so I find something new to do.
The narc was a teacher/ coach . Average time on a job 1.5 years and was fired or forced resignation from every single one. Only reason he lasted that long is teachers union and the power and control from the position.
And too often, a strong union can protect them, time and time again.
We sit with a school dropout as a narcissist.Dont think you can get worse.
Mine worked 40 yrs at Sherwin Williams and because he didn't care for me or what would happen to us, he had no 401K and sold his $10,000 life ins.
I have realized that I have been sabotaging myself when it comes to not being able to keep a job. It’s not like me as I have a history of stability. Unfortunately the stability came with a price because even though jobs were in a toxic environment and trying to ignore that took a toll on me regardless. I’m semiretired now and still want to work so I need to come up with a plan. 👍
Because their off their rockers
My ex would go through jobs like toilet paper but it just wasn't the laziness even tho he made it sound that his job he was the one that everyone ran to but h eff eventually would quit or be fired because they would start to see his true colors
Or like my mother, just be a housewife and tell everyone else with jobs how they r doing them wrong and if she worked there she'd do/say such and such
some maybe not all
Omg this is so true. My ex Narc kept quitting his job and one time he saw one nice looking and rich bar manager. And he changed his job straight away to bar boy to become one. But he kept complaining about how others are not good at their job and they are way worse than him and he doesn’t understand why they are at the higher position than him. He started to talk to high position people to get “connections” to go higher but didn’t study and didn’t pass the exam for cocktails. When he met his friends, he sometimes lied that he is an ambassador of the bar and later few months when he couldn’t get the position he wanted, he talked bad about their bar quality and quit that this place doesn’t deserve him😂😂 Now he said he wants to be an actor and he’s jobless asking me for financial support so i left. 😂😂🎉
UNLESS your colleague is a covert narcissist who ran an effective smear campaign behind your back - which your managers and colleagues believe - and they ARE conspiring against you because you’re new and the narcissist has been grooming and manipulating these people for years into adoring him
10000000%. 5 jobs so far this year... If he doesn't get the admiration from bosses he craves, he quits. Or he trys to control everyone and he gets fired. He is good at his job I have the letters and awards to prove it but he doesn't play well with coworkers or bosses. Because he's good he feels entitled to special treatment..
Mine quit the first job he got in over 12 yrs to start paying child support when I came back in his life. He in his own words told me he had been showing off throwing full food stuffed boxes on his shoulder and twisted his knee. He was working with a lot of older people and said he wanted to take a week off because he was very much needed and didn't want to go to the dr to get seen and get back at it. Needless to say eventually during that week he decided he would just quit. I honestly think he was wounded that he'd grown overweight from all his self-indulgence and had fallen in front of everybody and gotten laughed at.
Yes
True
God!!
exactly correct. He punished his 6 year old daughter for telling truth when she answered phone and told he is sleeping when he was supposed to attend some important meeting. He punished her for 28 yecdestroying his life.
If they are a Boss😮 they constantly fire and hire their staff... and make drama in their life
Yes everyone is stupid and even he said once „a monkey“, now using that person as a fling monkey
Omg 😮😮😮 now it makes sense!!!!!!!
Omg
Yikes… until the make their own company and ditch you😪
Ok sir
Very true!
Nope, excellent at his job and way better at everything in life than anyone else in his mind.
omg I think Im a narcissist 😭
Unbelievable.
That is so true that narc I had works people and not jobs because he's lazy 😢😮
exactly that is why she keeps having more kids to not have to work, cant keep a job..really cant keep anything cant go deeper, want to fix things wrong with the job and feel like they have alot ot offer but it is in themselve that can not be looked at deeper in...the narc feels at first smooth clear nice but it is too normal it never goes anywhere...
Demeanor seems a bit sus on more than one level
Hahaha, I know so many narcissists that have had the same job for 20-odd years. You are speaking about a sub-set of Narcs.
True!
Because he's arrogant
This is mostly not true from what I’ve seen