Why are people homophobic? | What's Behind Prejudice? Episode 2 | BBC Ideas
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- Опубліковано 6 лип 2020
- In the latest in our series about prejudice - and the underlying reasons behind it - we speak to LGBT activist Richard Beaven about some of the reasons behind homophobia. And he shares his own personal story of coming out as gay when he was almost 40.
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@@natehtf5760 because they love eachother
Why are people Aletheiaphobic? I can't imagine giving a talk using a word, that I didn't understand the meaning thereof. Using the word phobic is a mockery of mental health, pejorative, and inaccurate.
Stop linking "racism" to a lifestyle choice. It simply not accurate.
Saying you don't like someone because of their sexuality, is like saying you don't like someone eating a donut because you're on a diet.
exactly
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I think this can be true tho for dome people😂
I mean some
Your sexual orientation doesn’t specifically make you a bad person or a good person it’s your personality people have to realise that
Sadly, people don't seem to get that.
@@thingsareconstantlyhappeni9811 Right...
Agreed, fully.
@Amin Yashed and how is that?
if you claim to be anything but heterosexual
you are bad.
I don't get homophobia, never did, and never will. All my life I've been told I'm selfish as though it was a bad thing. Personally, I think it's by far my greatest strength and positive quality. Why? Because rather than worry about or bother someone who is gay or lesbian I'm far too busy minding my own business. That's how I managed to save, invest, and retire early. Look after your own business, not everyone else's.
I've met many gays and lesbians in my life and got along with them just fine. Just down the street from me are 2 guys who are married, they seem like all right guys, so what's the problem? Last but not least, I was watching a Pride Parade, and a girl watching the parade had a T shirt that said on it: Some women like other women, get over it. My thoughts exactly.
Thank you. We need more people like this.
@@dehydratedcactus9033 I've always thought of myself as a sensible and rational person, and in a world where most people are like sheep and many are governed more by emotion than logic a lot of people don't "get" someone like me for lack of better words. A small number I've met in my travels really do get me and I think you would be one of them.
@@Abitibidoug
I know how you feel I’m autistic and never got emotional stuff if it’s a efficient there’s no reason not to do it I get most emotions but never belief,pride and traditional mind sets basically the non logical ones
could anyone please explain why I'm homophobic... because being homophobic is goddamn irritating
@@akid9390 I don't know, but suspect it's from years of being socialized to believe it's wrong, especially if you have a religious background. What to do about it? You can start right here on UA-cam. I suggest the video TEDX Talks homosexuality.
I’m a 26-year-old gay man. My boyfriend and I were beaten up by four guys outside the mall one night. We were walking and holding hands, enjoying ourselves, minding our own business, and they approached us. They verbally bashed us with a bunch of homophobic slurs and then attacked. It was a bloody mess on our faces by the time they were done. I still have permanent jaw damage from it. That night changed everything - our sense of safety, our sense of freedom, expression, pride. Now we’re too afraid to hold hands in public as a result 😞 I know it’s 2022 but it’s still a dangerous world for us gays to live in…
This makes me furious and sad. I'm sorry. Please don't let them win. Keep holding hands.
@Ruby Heart what is your age
@Earthrealm well, let's do the same with straights, dont go around holding hands with your partner because it attracts attention and gives off too much heteronormativity. start hiding yourselves so that lgbtq people dont get offended. this is BASICALLY what you just said
Im really sorry about what has happened to you. keep holding hands. its not their business as to what your love life is and if they think that it is their business, then they're the bad guys
You're lucky you are still alive because some Homophobes go as far as killing gay people
What's more sickening is that News reporting's on Murders of Gay people in the comments praise the murderer
And they say we have a "Mental Illness"
as a straight cis guy. i never understood why ppl are homophobic. i don’t get the hatred of something that is totally natural. we see homosexuality in nature. it’s rarer in nature yeah. but that’s simply because animals have less consciousness. so they rely more on an instinct just to breed for children instead of having emotions.
i just never understood why people are homophobic.
i’ve even been called gay or even the t slur a few times just cos of how i dress.
It’s lovely to see a nice person outside of the lgbt community being reasonable.
@@SquamataReptile i think after a bit of research. i’m starting to understand the mind of the bigots. most homophobes are also transphobic and even racist. some even ableist. the reason for this which i believe is that they don’t like oppression. but in a bad way. they see an oppressed group getting special treatment and get jealous, because they’re jealous, they feel the need to be bad. e.g. lgbt (oppresses group) has parades every yeah for a month (equity to boost them/the “special treatment”), then straight people (non oppressed group) see said oppressed group and become jealous because they are not getting parades. “when’s straight parade gonna be a thing”. but some take it to the next step and actually start to really hate lgbt. same for any oppressed group. “when’s white history month, why do black people even need a month”.
that’s just how i think it is. i’m not 100% sure. some of it could be through how they were raised. some of it is because they have a traditional mindset and because of that, they don’t understand what’s natural and what’s not
@SquamataReptile I'm also a straight male. Homosexual relationships are natural and should be treated equally as straight relationships, same with marriages. I feel like the biggest reason lots of people are homophobic isn't even mentioned in this video, and that is religion
@@joey.99 exactly. but also cos heterosexuality is so forced onto us by society. it’s made “the norm” so when people don’t see “the norm” they think it’s “differen” and “weird”
Aids😅😅
tbh, some of these comments are extremely disappointing. i lived in such a perfect bubble believing that in the 21st century, ppl would be more accepting. ig that bubble was ought to burst.
Kanye.
It is indeed disappointing and surprising. Many people can’t critically think for themselves, and stick to these rather… outdated and ignorant beliefs. People can be educated overtime, and especially as more people come out as apart of the LGBTQ community, they will be forced to interact with them. It’s just shocking cause, people apart of the LGBTQ+ community are just normal people. Normal people with jobs, businesses, and even families.
Sinners!
no
@@alanholm77 Karens!
There's an elephant in the room that wasn't mentioned, but I'll mention it: most people ascribe to a set of beliefs that has a Sacred Book, and most versions of that Sacred Book say being gay is a crime worthy of death. And people are afraid to challenge that belief, and that book. That fear has to go away. (This applies to sexism too.)
Exactly, how did he miss this point, it's the more global reason as to why people are homophobic
He probably doesn't want to offend. Religion is a complex topic too
@@daivid286 Same reason why, in Marvel comics, the most plausible motivations behind anti-mutant prejudice are just skimmed on. I mean, why would one superpowered person be a target of bigotry and the other not, all else being equal?
no
Legit every prejudice, racism, sexism, homophobia, it’s all in the sacred book
Some of yall might come for me but Idgaf. Anyways, as a teen I have to say I get bullied not only at school but publicly too. However, what pisses me off are not the slurs or shit is just how people judge u only for YOUR sexuality.. half of the people who are homophobic don't give a fuck about ur personality. They don't even try to get to know u. We live In a society where being homophobic with ur homies is cool. No tf is not? Yall really think people want to be gay smh 💀
@Ruby Heart k
Exactly it’s like u have to be absolute trash for people to like u. I haven’t been bullied but, I have seen it happen to other people. Luckily I live in the U.S and a lot of people around my town aren’t very homophobic or at least won’t attack u for it. I know a lot of gay people. it’s still terrible to see so many people who act like being homophobic gives them power to hurt others. I just finished a show on Netflix where two women ended up together. It was called “Jurassic camp” that’s just the short version of the name. And I looked up the scenes between them and saw so many homophobic comments saying it was gross. While there was a lot of good to it still sucked to see ppl haven’t grown up a little and learned some respect. They don’t have to love but, at least respect it especially when it doesn’t harm them.
homophobia is genetic for me
@@bobosu5823 Well that shows how your parents are💀
They do wanna be gay fool
Ur a disgrace to teenagers
Lily once said “Why do gay marriage bother you when it doesn’t affect you at all?”
And I completely agree with that like how does it affect homophobic people? Like it’s not like they are receiving bad luck or something
@Amin Yashed can you give me a reason?
@Amin Yashed on why gay marriage shouldnt happen?
@Amin Yashed Marriage is used to show the love you feel for that person and that you are going to the stage of marrying them doesn't have to do anything with homosexuality
@Amin Yashed I'm a Christian, but I'm gay. I've read the Bible many times. God, wants us to be free and make our own choices. Being gay however is not a choice, BUT marriage doesn't necessarily have to be between a man and a woman, thats why in some countries gay marriage is allowed. Also, marriage is the union of you and the person you love, no matter the gender no matter the sexuality. I'm sure God doesn't differ us from any other human being. Because we're human, no matter our identified gender or sexualitym also about the population we are litteraly so many people on the earth like what
@Com D Uh... nope. A loving, consensual relationship between two adults will never bother me.
In 1993, I was 30 years old when I got pregnant but I was single, my co workers looked at me as if I were the most insignificant person in this world. I was independent, had a beautiful life and all my family supported me. But I had a hard time to make people outside understand how happy I was. People are people and the world was, is and is going to be the same no matter who you are. Changing inside is a significant step to make life better.
Just a curious question sorry if it make you uncomfortable but what happened?
@@subhabaskaran1849 when society sees that you don't fit in the system, they discriminate you. If it was not for my family support I would probably freak out . Besides that, you have to be a woman to understand what I am saying. I overcame. All the hard time was important for me to grow. Thank you.
@@mariah2516 I'm male and have no trouble understanding you. I recall by far the stupidest thing I ever heard, back in 1991, namely that our Western society is individualistic. I know that because I'm individualistic and because of it have been seen as weird, a misfit. I don't do the things I'm "supposed" to do. For example, never married because I never found that someone I absolutely couldn't live without, I've never been interested in status and conspicuous consumption, have a wide range of interests outside the "normal" interests a guy should have like sports, and so on. A classic example would be in my early forties, I had 2 guys I worked with ask me what someone my age was doing skydiving. I still don't know what my age has to do with how I'm affected by gravity and aerodynamics. In summary, if anyone here thinks we live in an individualistic society, could I sell you some premium priced shares in Nortel Networks, Enron, Eastman Kodak, Bre-X Mining, Bramalea Inc. or Sears Canada?
@@Abitibidoug I don't understand about shares...sorry...but at that time I had to accept I was alone without his father. Not that I wanted, but life put me in that situation. So, instead of being sad I made it great. Having a baby without a father was not my intention.
@@subhabaskaran1849 my baby father left me when I was 3 month pregnant.That was 28 years ago. It was sad but I overcame.
It seems it's quite difficult to get a good answer online about why people are homophobic, because it's a really interesting question. Phobias are not necessarily rational. I believe the reason people are homophobic is because there is an ingrained feeling in humans to be against anything which is supposedly "unnatural". The classic union of man and woman together is biologically/culturally drilled into people so much that anything outside that is deemed "wrong". I also think people are socially awkward about anything which is not common. If someone dresses unusually or doing any kind of behaviour which is against the most common traits etc. The human brain is wired to be fixed on patterns and routine. Having a truly open mind is a modern thing. Just look at politics - the majority of people are not open minded. We have a long, long way to come.
Thanks, it's hard to find a discussion about this, seriously
I think most people are open minded, they're just lead by a vocal minority who reinforce those whack views. Am I wrong on this?
This comment is definitely the best answer to this. It also gives answers to why racism and xenophobia exists as well. Early humanity was about survival and sticking together as a tribe. Anything foreign to humans have always scared them, which is a defense mechanism for survival. There’s still a lot of work to be made, but I’m still glad to say humanity has gotten better compared to what shows throughout history.
You are 100% correct, but it should be noted that phobias and homophobia are not the same. Homophobia, despite its name, is not an actual phobia. I suppose it could be, theoretically, where an individual genuinely has an intense anxious fear of gay people that requires professional therapeutic help to overcome, but such a thing is rare, and I’ve personally never heard of it. Homophobia typically refers to the irrational dislike or hatred of gay people, as the suffix “-phobia” can mean either an irrational dislike or hate; or a mental condition in which one has an intense, irrational fear of something (e.g., claustrophobia).
@@immortalsun Exactly a lot of people choose to be homophobic. Not everyone but, a lot of people. While I will say the lgbt population has greatly increased recently. And a lot of them are younger so maybe things will eventually change. Maybe not completely but, I hope people can feel no shame in who they are one day.
Based off my experiences, Heterosexual men who are attractive, get a lot of women attention and have something going on for himself, doesn't care if a man is gay or not. Straight men who are unattractive and nothing going on for himself are more homophobic.
i think this is also because straight men are pressured to be "manly" as in rude, homophobic and sexist as well - to make obscene jokes about women and just be horrible people in general. Gay guys are accepting of it and they respect women a lot more than straight guys do, and that's what most girls want, a sense of safety. Most gay men also tend to work on their appearance a lot so that checks out too.
People who are homophobic are insecure
people who are homophobic have common sense
true
@@dude6961 ur sexuality. U are in denial. And that's called internalized homophobia. True straight people are either allies or simply Don't care.
@@urstruely8317 and common sense means " nonsensical ideas" in ur dictionary. Right?
@@urstruely8317 keep telling yourself that lmaoo
Everyone should think like that. Being yourself is something to be proud of. Please open your mind, nobody is abnormal, we are humans and as humans we must be free to be whoever we want.
Woah.. you sound a lot like a wise man that I know. I doubt you're him, but the way of phrasing things, plus the ideology and wisdom behind it.. it really sounds like him
I'm proud of existing.
Im proud of being homophobic:>
@Amin Yashed In what context? Are you a fascist?
@Com D but a big fat fuck in the sky is the key?
I’m probably asexual. I say probably because the topic of sex doesn’t interesting me. I have had it. Don’t care for it. I’ve come out to family without using the word asexual and it’s like it goes in one ear and comes out (no pun intended) the other.
Humanity as a whole turns me off as well I try not to think about it too much
@@dodgeball_u_good8655 I hate people in general but I love them too. What the hell is wrong with me.
I feel you...
I'm also ace myself but I have a religion
I hate the world
21st century people be acting like they're in the 1900s judging people because of their sexualities and ethnics
It's very sickening
and it's very sad
I accept gay people are here, I wouldn’t offend or hate of them but I wouldn’t associate with them.,
@Sesshomaru That's a pretty pessimistic view. Look at tbe new generation, more young people are accepting of the LGBT than before
@Sesshomaru Well common in the Middle East and other places, but here in the West, there's been growing acceptance for the LGBT. That's starting to catch on elsewhere, at least steadily. Times are changing, man
I wish that people just accepted everyone for who they are.
Same
If everyone turns gay or supporting gays in approximately the year 2045, I will be the last homophobic man.
I wish that people stop changing God's creation and accept them self as they are
*Love isn’t a gender.*
*it’s a feeling inside us all*
From your point of view, I get it. We shouldn’t just hate them for no reason, even if it’s different
@SE RGIO is that why almost half of all christians get divorced?
@SERGIO-gk5gxAdam and eve isn’t real 😊
@SERGIO-gk5gx surprising that’s the only thing you can say when you can memorize a magic book
@SERGIO-gk5gx
Religious Fanaticism
Religious fanaticism, or religious extremism, is a pejorative designation used to indicate uncritical zeal or obsessive enthusiasm that is related to one's own, or one's group's, devotion to a religion
In my experience people who are perfectly comfortable with their own sexuality have no problem with anyone else's. Just saying.
Exactly.
Yes, because over half of humanity has problems with their own sexuality.
Holy shit, please grow up.
Still parroting this same cringe "theory"? LoL embarrassing
@@reginageorge4Did I touch a nerve , dear? Bless...
@@rde4017 you didn't touch anything.... except maybe children, groomer
Its kinda sad how alot of people are homophobic due to the rules in fairytale book.
Well I have a religion and its Buddhism. It said that you can be whatever you wanna, just make sure to spread positivity and love to other people and living beings. Unlike most religions, Buddhism is all about trying your best to be peaceful and helping others instead of those fairytale stuffs
“Religion is stupid and just made-up brainwashing propaganda! Except Buddhism.”
Nothing wrong with being a Buddhist or being religious in general, but it seems weird to call out religion for being a “fairytale” when you are religious yourself lol
@@immortalsun I am saying this cuz they always bring up religion in thier arguement for some reasons. Idk if thier religion told that or not, but in this case our religion never stated that
Actually i am not that religious. I just take good notes from others, and Buddhism is a good place for that
lol ikr
@Ruby Heart Well you are hating on a group, so they will most likely care if you are a homophobic towards them
gay people are a fairy tale too
Everyone at my school says its gay bad because its in the bible, but doesn't the bible also say to love and accept everyone? Homophobia is like racism, we're all humans just because someone likes something different doesn't mean they have a mental disorder.
No, the bible doesn't say to love everyone. That's pop culture christianity. The bible clearly states homosexuality is immoral
@@categories5066 nice cap
@@Isuckatcapturingwheniplanespot Look up Leviticus 18:22 and Romans 1:18-32 my friend
@@kittennuggets101 yes but that's if they repent. If they think that they can continue living in sin and God will love them then God will reject them. God only accepts people that want to turn from their sins
@@Isuckatcapturingwheniplanespot thats what im saying
As a straight white man what do u even have to gain from being hateful to these people? And before the religious crowd comes in isnt god the ultimate judge if u truly believe that let him be the ultimate judge and just leave people alone
No rights for groomers
@@reginageorge4So... you basically.
@@ophshards4822 nope you, groomer
@@reginageorge4 naw you homophobe
@@ophshards4822 don't take her seriously
As a christian, even if homosexuality is a sin I don't believe homophobia is right, it is arguably even worse of a sin as you are ignoring Jesus request that we love eachother, if there are those that don't agree with you or feel uncomfortable with what you're saying you shouldn't discriminate or make them feel worse because that is not what God wants us to do, he doesn't want us to treat others wrongfully or make fun or them or harass them because of what we believe, instead we should learn to forgive them and understand them better, if they want to stay gay and ignore us than let them do that in peace
Look, I'm a christian too, but I don't believe that homosexuality is a sin either. If you search deep down where it says it's a sin(and sorry for my bad english bible names, I'm brazilian, I do not speak english that well), you'll find people saying things such as romans passage, taken out of context of the ral meaning that was orgy, corintius, translating the words arsenekoitai(rapist) and malakoi (male slut) as both being homosexuals. They use leviticus and genesis from sodom and gomorra, both old testament and from an era witch cristians don't take advice, even sodom and gomorra taking out of context the many zoophilia happening there. I mean, there's just a ton more to uncover and if you really wanna did down it's gonna be a long ride
No one needs to be forgiven for being gay. It’s not a sin. This statement is not doing gay people any favors. You’re just saying once again that we’re wrong for being ourselves. That we’ll be punished and deserve pity. I pity you and christians like you need to rethink sun and align its meaning with something that isn’t love. Gay people love each other. Not a sin. Prejudice is a “sin.”
@@darkdaystarotyour are right being gay in natural even in animal kingdom 💯 it not sin it's natural hate is sin my opinion at it can lead you to the dark side if given in and that's why I try to stay away from the
Love is love God is love and warrior creed is eternal
@@reavnthebarbarian5539I've seen people say that homosexuality in animals are caused by captivity, do you have an argument against that? /genq
I live in Australia, Queensland, Ipswich. I can assure you homophobia is alive and well. I would never dream of walking down the street with my partner holding his hand. NEVER you would be abused or spat on.
I am so sorry that it has to be that way:/ you should be able to love whoever you want without being judged or criticised
Wow and in 2021 australia . Shame it should get better
That’s horrible! They should be ashamed that they even look at you the wrong way.
You and your partner deserves to be yourself in public no matter what people say.
Ikr!!
What?? I’m so sorry man, I thought Australia was much more accepting in that sense
I grew up in a bubble for my entire life i didnt know racism, homophobia even homosexuals themselves existed. I remember one time i thought “can people with the same gender marry?” , and i thought it wasnt real since i was never told about it, and never asked. But one time i asked a black person why their skin was darker than mine i was young so i was just curious ( i learnt later on what caused the dark skin color ) i know it was an inappropriate question but i was curious but they called racist and i was really confused. I thought “what does that mean?” But i didnt say anything and went back to my seat.
I only learnt years later what it meant and also that homosexuals existed, i really wish as i kid i was told what racism was and about homosexuals, and homophobia but then again i always had a hard time understanding things so i probably wouldn’t have understood much but i wish i atleast knew something about it.
but wouldn't it be way nicer if people, i mean literally everyone didn't know what those words were in the first place?
In the Roman times /Ancient Greek homosexuals etc spiritually destroyed themselves
Just asked my grandma what her opinion on the lgbtq+ community was... she said “I think they’re going to hell”
Welp, in that case... I’ll see you there, granny!
Your grandmother said the correct
@@user-hb2ew2rp6i why do you think that?
@@akirao7208 because some ancient book which also promotes stuff like slavery and thinks the world is only 6k years old is wayyy better than common sense, kindness and scientific studies.
@Dancing on the moon what’s so wrong with basing your whole life on a book? I’m trying to find Hogwarts myself
@@hiimpeyton671 I based my life on star wars. If i believe hard enough i might become a jedi
I came to the comments hoping to see everyone getting along and being accepting of one another (and there definitely was alot of you), but there were alot of homophobes here aswell. Some were just being plain old homophobes but others said that their reason for it was that they had traumatic experiences with lgbtq+ people in the past, and to those people I am truly sorry that you experienced that. What those people did was just awfull and totally uncalled for, but you need to understand that not everyone of us is like that. I have met some genuinely nice and loving people from the lgbtq+ community. Heck, my friend group has a mix between a bisexual guy and girl, a gay guy, a lesbian girl, an asexual (me) and a few straight guys and girls, and we all get along great. I am lucky to have such a fun, supportive and loving group of friends. In the end it doesnt matter who you prefer, because everyone has the right to love whoever they want. We just all need to see and accept that.
i think im genetically homophobic because of a number of occurences
At the end of the day it is simply very biased thinking labelling the whole gay community as bad because of a bad experience you had with a gay person. Most (if not all) dictators in the world were straight men right? So should we just start hating all straight men? People treat minorities completely differently than the majority and label them based on isolated experiences.
I won't
@@_Spider4okay kiddo, time for bed.
@@snowwyzenn do something
I’m not homophobic, i just don’t understand why people say that Homophobia is a good thing, or even say as far as saying it’s the best thing ever, unless they may joking or make dark humour jokes
My friends are serious when they say that being homophobic means having common sense. They constantly show off their homophobia like it makes them the best person in the world. They even admitted that they enjoy seeing lgbt people suffer. No joke, they hate them so much that they want to kill them. They probably want to make it slow and painful. Idk what to do
@@BisharpnearOhio maybe stop being friends with such hateful people? It also seems like they don't have much going on in their lives since they make hating on a minority their entire personality
@@rayman11lol look who's talking about making something their whole personality 🤣🤣
@@reginageorge4 What, classic late 90s-early 2000s games and nostalgic tv shows?
@@reginageorge4Ok, you've got to calm down. Your name is literally that. Give the reason you're homophobic.
Homophobia in a scale where people are harmed and harrased is a serious issue, its also cruel that some people get abandoned because they identified as something else than straight.
Even i who isn't a great fan of the lgbtq community can not accept some of the horrible treatment that a significant number of these people have to face, they should be treated normal and have rights like everyone else too, nobody should get home beaten up or utterly broken in the inside just because of their sexuality.
To the people that don't accept the lgbt:
One might/can not accept it which is ok, one can't accept everything but try to tolerate them and understand the fact that these are people, see the person not sexuality, dont let your disagreement and dislike harm, kill, ridicule the people.
I can't tell you to stop being homophobic (the scale where it is internalised or in ones mind, or is just critism), it is something everybody has to find out for themselves and decide for themselves be it out of religion or whatsoever reason. For some it is part of them as so the sexuality to others.
You are not a bad person if you dont support it or accept it, it is your life your view point and opinion.
But the problem starts when you dislike turns to hate and wickedness and determines you to ruin the lives of people and to harm them be it physical violence or psychological torture and violence.
Live and let live.
There is zero way.
I am a straight alli but I never thought I could ever make a difference until I talked to my one of many Lesbian friends I said I was ashamed to be hetro because I felt so bad for LGBTQ peeps because in my school homosexuals are made fun of and I don't want gay people to think I'm aiagnst them because I'm a girl and I like a boy. And my friend tells me that I claimed myself as an Allie and that's all that matters
factory settings are good. Never feel bad for someone like them :)
You’re weak
@@BingQiLing. shut up dude
Nothing wrong with not supporting someone suck it up
You shouldn’t feel ashamed for being straight. All LGBTQ people care about is that you don’t hate them. That’s it. (And it’s “ally,” by the way.)
" Love is the only beautiful thing we have " - Aurora
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Ok but like so people often use religion as a way to get out of it like oh the Bible, first of all that was talking about p3dos not gay people, second of all okay? Like if it’s against your religion then cool your not gay? So then move on it’s not your life just because someone else is gay like what’s the problem like if it’s against your religion and your not lgbt then why are you worried let other people live their lives my gosh
It's not about religion. It's that your body subconsciously thinks reproduction is it's ultimate goal. Your road to adulthood is full of hormonal changes made to make you attractive to the **opposite** gender and to reproduce. It's a meaningless never-ending cycle. Why do you think the activity that gives you the most dopamine is s** or mast******ng? Because your body is rewarding you for achieving your goal. Ensuring the specie's survival. Passing on your DNA. As we grow old we lose most of our child making abilities and slowly turn into disposable trash. Then die. That's it. That's the cycle of life. Birth, Reproduction, Death. Being unable to make children in this type of life makes you technically disabled. You know. You won't convince people with Autism they are normal. They cannot communicate with the outside. What's outside their heads.
You won't go and convince them they are normal. Sure you won't kill them either, but you'll still recognize that something is wrong with them. Not being able to pass on your genes is basically failing the ultimate point of life. Puberty is a whole phase for preparing you for that. Why do you think that your body dies after being unable to reproduce ?
@@greshengaines7099 dopamine is used to reward you for doing the thing.
Well that is actually true I’m Christian my family is Christian and we are not allowed to be apart of lgtbq because it’s a sin for us and I wish it wasn’t a sin but you may be apart of lgtbq I don’t mind really! So if you talk s*** about the homophbes you better watch your mouth cause we are all people and we need to be treated equally even tho homophobes might hate just forget abt it not all homophobes are rude so don’t you dare talk s*** abt us. Also sorry if I’m being rude it’s just… being homophobe is hard! My friends are part of the lgtbq and they treat me like angels they also defend me cause it’s like I’m the only one that’s Christian and I get bullied a lot, So if you if YOU talk bad about us you will regret it it’s just a celebration!?!!? Seriously that’s nothing important thing so stop stop stop homophobes are people be nice be kind and stop hurting our feelings you guys.
@@xerzzy I'm soooo sorry if you ever got discriminated, feared for your life, or had the fear of your friends and family not loving you the same just because your homophobic😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😱😱☹☹☹☹😱😱😱/s
@@iliaserrami86 Hooooly fuck where did this tirade about autism come from.
Love isn’t a gender. It’s a feeling inside us all.
Blah blah blah. That's the comment section supporting gays and nothing else productive in their lives.
@@angpang1637 are you sure you're not referring to yourself? You seem to be doing the same oppositely
If you ask me i just say you are whatever you want as long as it makes you happy
Respect bro
I hope everyone were smart like you.
I wonder if there is a link between IQ and homophobes lol. Because rationally? What's the problem? If anything it's great even from a evolutionary point of view, we're overpopulated anyway (though lesbian pairs sometimes have their own babies, but still).
There is.
And it isn't the least bit surprising.
Lol, another 12 y.o "tolerant" girl writing, i am extremely homophobic, stfu i somehow applied for free to president's school that costs 3500$ per year, if i am homophobic how did i do that??? Omg howwwwww
It is a very big cost for average Kazakhstani family
@@bruh.525 Is this satire?
@@taylosaurus i actually applied to this school...
Listen to my story..... people started predicting that I was gay even before I came out. I was continuously harassed having been intruded,,,,...I was in a boarding school.matrons would continuously check if I was in my bed or if I was out with girls. Everytime I would get checked when a class teacher passed me they would check my pockets for love letters. My classmates would steal my notebooks and drawing books looking for love letters. Teachers would make comments about homosexuality and keep hinting me. Eventually I developed paranoia and anxiety to a point I couldn't stay in school. I startwd self harming and my school further believes self harm is a form of lesbianism. I was almost expelled. I had to sign a letter saying I would be expelled if I was found self harming. I have my national exams and I am not in school. the school environment triggers panic attacks and paranoia. I am afraid of missing out but I cannot attend school. I am currently attending psychotherapy to deal with the anxiety. That is what homophobia has done for me while I never harmed anyone and neither did I come out.
I’m so sorry. So so sorry
@@CrammyCram thanks
OMG me too. Before i came out, this was before i even reached high school (primary school), there was this one boy who used to call me gay even though i never came out to anyone and my classmates started calling me gay. Weird.
That's awful. I'm so sorry you had to go through that😞❤️.
Dude, this hurts my heart. I'm really sorry you had to go through such a traumatic experience. It REALLY goes to show the dangers of homophobia. I hope you're doing well now. You deserve SO much better than this. 💙
I would swear ignore all homophobes. Their existence is something their weakness if they are not have been recognized.
homophobia is genetic, liberals use a different part of their brain than conservatives.
@@bobosu5823 im pretty sure you can be self conscious enough to not use that thing on your username
@@bobosu5823 source?
I grew up in a homophobic home and homophobic society. Thus learning this behavior. I accepted God of Lord and Savior 7 years ago. And even though he teaches us to be kind to love to respect and to not judge others. Because we are much in deep sin as the next man. I have noticed in the past year that I am very aggressive towards homosexuals always criticizing them always making fun of them being very cruel leaving all sorts of nasty comments to them and I just realized I was getting pleasure out of it. Somehow someway the Holy Spirit took those feelings away. As a Christian obviously we believe that homosexuality is a sin and there is a consequence to the sin which is eternal condemnation. A lot of things I do that are not sexual in nature will also get me there. Today. I finally understood that being homophobic is a sin in God's eyes. And all I want to do is please God but I guess this was programmed by society in me I'm glad that's okay today I overcame those feelings. Now I feel very saddened for all the pain I have inflicted I hope God can forgive me. Today I feel like an accept and open my heart to others that are not like me.
I feel I can except love and understand
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This is the clear example of a guy who doesn't use his religion as an excuse to be homophobic, sir, you are a good human being, thank you :)
No rights for groomers
@ijulia08 stop calling LGBTQ people groomer what's wrong with you bigot? 😡😡
@@reginageorge4 How are they grooming kids? Teaching kids about something is different from teaching kids how to do something.
I think from my experience there’s 3 main categories that inform people’s negative attitudes
1: Religiosity. This can be mild as in just believing it’s wrong and maybe telling someone that once or twice then moving on or it can be more severe with constant condemnation and beyond that violence in some cases.
2: People who are closeted or uncomfortable about their bisexuality. These are generally people from poor social backgrounds where they have nothing but bad imagery and ideas that relate to gay/bi people.
3: Those who don’t like the camp types/view it as being a notifier of physical weakness and inferiority. Sadly often times these people are proved right by attacks on gay people where’s it’s like a group of people vs 1 or two skinny twinks who can’t fight back very well and thus semi perpetuate this stigma.
@Democrats Hate America I never said it meant someone who attacks gay people, I know full well it can be just a mild dislike of gay people. As a paleo-conservative I disagree with your points on it being a mental illness. There is nothing inherently detrimental about them playing on sports teams, that one literally I don’t understand one bit. The others I understand why you and other very educated and sophisticated people around the world have concerns over although I would disagree with you on most of what you raised. I don’t think a law abiding individual, who simply tells his/her boss the truth when they’re asked do you have a wife/husband etc that they’re not straight, deserves to be fired. As for certain professions like school teachers, they’ve been allowed to be teachers for decades now I think if they were disproportionately inclined to abuse kids in a school setting then we would’ve heard about it somehow. More often you hear about a woman teacher in her 20s/30s getting in-appropriately getting involved with a teenage student. Adoption I will give you that one, a lot of gay people are highly left wing and degenerate and anti-tradition so I think adoption is one we need more data. I don’t believe that you can turn someone gay though, it’s a cross that no one chooses to burden. As for marriage, again I’m quite undecided, to me there’s convincing arguments from both sides. In my opinion if a liberal “Christian in name only” church wants to marry a gay couple why is it so bad. Surely if you’re a committed Christian you’ll know it’s not real in the eyes of God or your church. Would a genuine Christian recognise a secular marriage as a real marriage, or a divorced couple marrying for that matter? I don’t think they would so I would just treat the whole gay marriage thing the same way. As someone who is a paleo-con, very anti-abortion, divorce, public displays of improper dress, excessive use of bad language in most conversations, and is mildly Catholic and gay I agree with most of what you say. I despise the majority of gay people who talk about it all the time, make it very public and go on degenerate “pride” parades.
@I Hate Democrats 1. If LEADING SCIENTISTS say that homosexuality isn’t a disease, then they’re probably right. Same thing with the earth being round and vaccines not causing autism. Why do people believe that sort of stuff? Because it is backed up by facts and evidence. What do you have to support your case? “them dang libtards bribed ‘em docs to tell ‘‘em being gay isn’t a diesease”.
Secondly, I do not like mayonnaise. Do I HAVE to eat it? No. Can other people eat it? As long as they never show their preference in public because that shit disgusts me. You see how stupid that is? Because YOU don’t like something, people have to hide? This is why all you Christians have a bad rep. Cuz y’all hate for no reason and then call everyone a libtard and such when you lose an argument. 😬😬😬
@Democrats are LOSERS Oh boy, I can tell by profile picture and username that you're either mentally deranged, or a troll. Do you happen to a racist too?
@confederatenation9544wow you are just sad😂 literally laughing at your pathetic explanation “THE COMMIES CAIN’T CHANGE ME, I REFUSE TO BE EDUMACATED”
@confederatenation9544my being lgtbq I agree it’s a mental “problem” but not a illness. A lot of people are different.
I'm asexual, my big sister is a homophobic she might not respect me, but she loves me, cares for me, doesn't support me but respects me. There's nothing wrong with being a homophobic but you just shouldn't go to far just respect the LBQTIA+ you don't need to support it. (I'm pretty sure this didn't make any sense, but whatever and this probably doesn't even suit the video after all-)...
She has to Love you, you are her flesh and blood. There is a Big problem with being homophobic
It makes a person hateful for the wrong reasons and treats other humans As Monsters for having Different preferences
I'm so glad your big sister is homophobic, but your sexuality doesn't support weakness, the reason why I am homophobic is because it supports weakness and you run away from your tradition but your sexuality, I guess it's fine, just don't act all gay.
@@lGNITEDHow is her sexuality "weakness"?
"Don't act all gay" okay, don't act all straight and do straight things in front of my children you hetero!!! 😡😡😡
@@lGNITED false
Oh there are many things wrong with that
IMHO -- *_IGNORANCE & RELIGIOUS DOGMA_* are the 2 biggest drivers of homophobia _[and prejudice & intolerance generally]_ and they often go hand-in-hand which makes them doubly difficult to overcome!
I am 66yo, and during my adult life I have met many gay men and women, and found most of them (not all) to be warm, loving, genuine and caring people who I have been pleased and proud to call, *_'friend'._*
*_R_* 😀
Nope,had to say this but I disagree with you, even if one were to be an agnostic or an atheist,one would think about what's the best for a social order and it's social cohesion, isn't it discrimination that whomsoever doesn't approve of homosexual behaviour is branded as a homophobic with a sublime message that those who have an anti LGBT stance are ignorant and uneducated, I mean their portrayal is very poor in the liberal media.
Let's assume if being a homosexual totally normal and like an everyday thing, what's stopping people to parade a march for incestous relationship as long as these people match under the umbrella of liberty, freedom and democracy ( btw I am a fan of all these things), Cause people citing that homosexuality is ok and natural cause animals also do that, this same logic can be used in the support for incest and pedophilic acts.I don't hate anyone, I just wish to get people have a thorough introspective approach to destructive form of liberalism,where disagreeing is not an option unless you think and act within the status quo.
I think your opinion is wrong. Most anti-gays nowadays are reactionary, not religious. They react to the actions and movements of LGBT organisations, and their most common gripe seems to be with what LGBT people are doing to the culture. The gays got even more hate thrown their way when the government started getting creative with their definition of "hate speech", leading to controversy like the reform of Section 5 (UK). This is a practical issue, not a religious one - citizens simply don't like being locked up just to appease pressure groups, believe it or not. A lot of the hate they get today is the fault of their "champions" interfering with other people's lives, and is nothing to do with religion.
@@newworldorderguy4040 I might have been inclined to debate the issue with you had you not been an anonymous, NWO puppet regurgitating and spouting your NWO puppet-masters' paranoia.
In any event, if you truly do not know, realise and understand that society's moral and ethnic beliefs have been forged and influenced by over 1500 years of religious doctrine and dogma, you are bigger idiot than I initially thought.
@@greylonewolf8750 Sorry... I've only just found your nonsense.
Is Americanese your 2nd language? If so, I forgive you your erroneous grammar. In any event...
Most people are born within ('so-called') normal &/or average parameters, such as average intelligence.
But Nature also creates people who are below average intelligence and who as adults only possess the intellectual capacity of a child. It is sad but true. However, Nature also creates people with above average or very high intelligence, and even geniuses!
Psychopaths and child-prodigies are also aberrant products of Nature... AND SO TOO are homosexuals and transgenders.
THEY DO NOT CHOOSE to be born that way... Nature just makes them that way, and it is NORMAL!
@@robingarvin-mack Your seal of approval means piss of jar to me.
What's funny is that homophobes will say gays should go to hell for loving the same gender well by that logic most kids will feel affection towards the same gender you gonna tell them to go to hell to? Lol I thought so
Homophobic loser all the ones going to hell more likely just hate is not welcome heaven that's going against the whole purpose of heaven being a Holly and Paradise and better place for everyone
Wtf? Kids are not gae. Stay away from children, groomer
@@reginageorge4I'm 15 and gay. I'm planning to ask a guy out soon.
What you gonna do about it?
I love to see the debate. Not only one story. Why it was illegal?
@Sandeep Kumar Sahu and war don't if anything war should be banned.
Often for religious reasons.
Because the government back then put religion before humanity, and it’s sad because it still happens :(
I hope John Stossel or Prof. Jordan Peterson, could join this video.
@@harrishartman_ why Jordan Peterson?
I don’t get why people are homophobic and the fact people call it selfish is disturbing like how does that not make you selfish for liking your opposite gender same with trans people how is it selfish, selfishness definition is doing something for you’re self that will affect other people which is not we’re doing
Just one thing for those mfs that says gay people cannot be masculine at all
*Ancient Greece soldiers*
false lol
@@moderndissident5930but, it’s not false….
LoL keep dreaming 🤣🤣
Well Achilles was gay, yet he was the strongest of warriors.
My brother who clearly has never met a gay man said "I would be friends with a gay person but like not if they try to like hit on me" how do I explain that the lgbtq+ community has standards and they wouldn't like a homophobic Transphobic horrible person
that's what you call your brother?
@@chungusultimate he has said a lot worse about the lgbtq+ community I was just pointing out that one
@@sakuramha5367 No, do you hate him? You called him horrible person
@@chungusultimate well yes I do he's been horrible to me so much he hasn't given me a reason to like him
@@sakuramha5367 what did he do to you?
great video
After watching a lot of homophobic online hating on LGBT and the toxic LGBT people doing stupid things, this is a good source for me to reference in my future anti-homophobia projects
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Stay away from children, groomer
Damn a touhou fan too! Nice!
I was taught to be homophobic, I dont want to be one, but it's so hard to avoid being one when you just think of what they told you if you talked to gays
@Ryan Lastname just saw your comment, every time I would see a guy who is attractive to men, I would always say hi to them. I think it’s a great start to try and get comfortable
@@gtamaincharacter2779 Same! Every time I see a man attracted to men, I say hi to him… but for different reasons.
How exactly were you raised homophobic?
@@askask2721 for example their family taught them that homosexuality was wrong, or if they saw a gay couple in public they’d later talk bad about them, saying stuff like ‘why do they hv to do it in public…’ or ‘did u see them holding hands? i hope theyre just best friends’ etc
It happened to me the same but luckily I stopped being homophobic 4 years ago.
Because humanity isn’t evolved enough… we still have old school ways of thinking about how we should live as humans….. we’re not wild animals anymore… we’re civilized and need to understand everyone is different and it’s ok
It's funny to know that the word marriage is that important to someone that has nothing to do with them. I don't even know why it's such a big deal for a female to date a female or a male to date a male. It's really not a big deal at all. Love is love. Period. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@Com D I don’t see why that’s relevant, like at all?
@Com D That is irrelevant. Doesn't mean fuck all
Wrong 🤡
@@simonhakon3447 🤓
@@femboihours5917 love is fake 🤨
Homophobia is a direct offshoot of religion/ God belief. Just as racism is a direct offshoot of religion/ God belief. So homophobia and racism are strongly tied together by the same religious / God belief threads.
Racism comes from religion? Oh okay not like religion was trying to end racism
@@BingQiLing. Religion was never trying to end racism. In fact religion is FORCED to change it's approach to human eel being.
@@BingQiLing. Jus because religious people within religion does good doesn't mean that religion as a whole is good.
@@BingQiLing. Yes religion at its core is all about separation.
@@BingQiLing. Do you realize that the bible sanctions slavery?
Being a part of lgbt isn't a mental disability,isn't a trend or a sin.Some people are gay,lesbian,asexuals,pansexual,nobinary and etc.Get over it,atleast try to be assertive
homophobia can be genetic.
@@bobosu5823 it's not genetic although it shows what kind of people you're surrounded with
da hail- you think gayness is genetic?@@bobosu5823
What a smart bloke!!!
It's due to religion. Yet the religious are some of the worst people you could come across.
Nope
We're loving,but I'm a bit arrogant,but all my religious friends are loving and great,
What about the spiritual people?
@@_Spider4so your religious friends are the only ones in existance?
@@reptile1687 didn't say that
@@_Spider4 so youre saying religious people can be hateful
This world sucks.... Homophobia racism sexism religion and another issues... I wish we could some how start over
I'm homophobic but i don't want to be,like,i don't like gay,but,i don't fully hate them,like idk,plz don't cancel plz plz
@@Sinsmoke_ seriously.... Your not racist or sexist but homophobic your cool with... Why are people so obsessed with sexuality specifically
Am not gonna let my kid be homo,i cant imagine he being bisexual just NO
@Beatrixx. Cé wtf.... honey you got it twisted... when I was a kid stright people tried making me straight so many times...
Well, how about we find out what causes homosexuality, and delete that from humanity entirely. I think that would solve our homophobia issue. Racism will probably get resolved as there is more intermingling of different races. Sexism isn't getting any better until feminists start acting appropriately and constructively, not being the PC Police that they currently are. I'm confused in regards to your comment on religion, do you seriously believe that all of the major world religions are bad, or are you upset about religious discrimination between different groups. If you're upset about religious discrimination, then that will not be resolved until those who are currently discriminating against other religions stop discriminating against each other religions, and learn to love. I am a Sikh, and for centuries, our people have been oppressed by religious extremists, primarily muslims, and we have absolutely no issue with muslims, just extremist muslims who force his/her beliefs on us.
It won't change until the religious elephant in the room is acknowledged..
People try defy reilgion but if its so stupid then why do most people of the world believe in it and why are we based off of it without religion this world would be fucked up dont say religious people are bad they make the good in the world and when a bad person like the king of saudi arabia people think hes muslim but hes not they are people with satan who think they are religious
Religion makes the good in the world without it we would have greedy people ruling the world like we already do because of athiesm billionaires
The bad people with a religion just think they have a religion you don’t understand
@@BingQiLing. there is no such thing as a good or bad person.. Everyone is capable of doing good or bad.. You seem to be suffering from religious Stockholm syndrome!!
@@BingQiLing. Religion have been the cause for stealing, pillaging, genocide, and a multitude of other despicable atrocities, many still being committed by extremist groups today. The most peaceful nations in the world are some of the least religious, interesting correlation.
Your gonna be fighting for eternity then.
Idk
Atheist Stalin criminalized homosexuality in Soviet Russia
He kind of made it sound like only men can be gay.
He didn’t explain as to why people are homophobic. As long as humans exist some form of bigotry will always remain. It’s human nature to question things that are different from the “norm.”
Even if you don’t agree with it morally objectively gay people are beneficial economically and socially
LGBT products are good business and pretty consistent,they tend to adopt which takes a load of the system, are less likely to have prejudice because of there history,don’t have kids which helps with our high population and due to less likely religious alignment it could be argued there more likely to accept certain sciences but overall they are objectively beneficial you may be homophobic but Maybe put your issues aside for what everyone loves money🤷♂️
Thank you for being rational, have a great life :D
I like what you stated, but I think it’s important to fight against those who think this is moral issue. One’s sexual orientation has nothing to do with morals; it is neither moral or immoral. I wouldn’t want to sit by and allow bigots to hold such ridiculous “opinions”. And our sexuality isn’t a matter of opinion, either.
simply put, it's just who you love happens to be the same gender as you
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Lovely video !
Joanne Carr and her son Nick at 32 Peppard Street, McDowall in Queensland.
It’s not fear. It’s disgust.
And I disgust you the most
The gays aren't even affecting you in anyway possible
You don't even know what phobia means lmao
When you have people literally advocating for homosexuality to become illegal, homosexual ppl to not be shown on tv, and businesses to be able to discriminate against homosexuals you realize it is in fact a fear. Homophobes arent necessarily scared of gay people, they’re scared of society becoming less and less hateful of them.
Ehh, I noticed with history that homophobia became worse in the 90s, through to bits of the 2010s. But, in the 2000s, some teenagers took things to anotha' level, by labeling certain boys more, (boys who played certain instruments). Years before, in the 80s, a brown, and black boy could play a viola, some people not labeling them as gay, (even if they assumed it was a violin). But in the 2000s, some teenagers would somewhat quickly label certain colored, musical boys as gay, or sneakily bisexual. Bits of unnecessary homophobia can cause wrong actions, others to be deceived, disrespectful speech, or maybe even paranoia schizophrenia. I know, cause I have witnessed some different things, & I am 30. Ciao.
Which reminds me, I'm working on a paper about homophobia. Do you know any sources I can use, for reasons why people are homophobic? Religion is _all_ I got. What if the homophobe isn't religious? Then what can possibly make them condemn gay people? I need information on their point of view.
@@johnrainsman6650 What i know, are these things: a) A male homophobe could've grown up hearing one, or both of his parents, or uncles, or an aunt saying homophobic slurs, or homophobic sentences. This caused the homophobe to have more fear in talking to a male, they believe might be gay. The homophobe is a little more likely to talk to a lesbian, but not for a while in public, or certain others might assume he is openly bisexual to the lesbian. If she were bisexual, he would care less how others would view him. 2) Straight girls of color, are more afraid to daydream about a male kissing a male. So, if they are more acquainted with a boy, who they assume is gay, one or more of the girls is more likely to call him a *aggot, when they think they can get away with it.
@@johnrainsman6650 Yet, there is one video about homophobia in public school history. It is on UA-cam, & is called, Indoctrination: A History of Homophobia in Schools. Ciao.
Well actually, I mean the _very_ reason a person becomes homophobic. I can't understand their condemnation even in the slightest. A person is gay, my response: "Yeah. So?"
@@johnrainsman6650 Oh sorry, i just saw your response. I'm from America, & despite that folks have a varied view as to how someone becomes homophobic, here's how i have noticed as to how homophobia gets in root into certain folks: 1) Some folks are afraid that their nieces, or future children or nephews are more likely to have some type of bad situation, with a pedophile. 2) In the South a few boys, no matter what ethnicity, are taught a few lies, about gay and bi men. Certain folks make their boys stay away from openly gay men, or men who might've had a bi past. The main thing is, some straight people, & even some straight children allow their imagination, kinda run wild, assuming that gay folks, & suspected gay folks might wanna be pedophiles, or try to persuade certain family members, or certain folks to do gay acts. Ciao.
Oh for crying out loud this is so patronising I have lots of gay friends (and I speak as a straight man) but all this nonsense about about gay people fancying straight people is garbage!
Dude you’ve wrote 10 comments shut up
Dont know...
Is "homophobia" a mental illness that can diagnosed and treated by a Psychiatrist, or psychologist as defined by the DSM Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders?
@Beatrixx. Cé @Beatrixx. Cé Then the use of "ophobic" is incorrect. It is a "Mental health slur" It is offensive, I call for the media, and the gay community to stop using the mental slur "o-phobic" which is loosely attached to everything now. Practice what you preach.
@Beatrixx. Cé By "normal" do you mean white christian values? Exactly, get rekt with your outdated 2000 year old book written by sand dwelling warmongers.
@Beatrixx. Cé shut up...if two consenting adults fckin behind closed doors annoys u sooo much that u literally want to abuse them...it's a u problem
@@saddam9507 Just because you learned about Mental Health Fun facts on Facebook Doesn't mean you are a psychologist now
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I wanna see the LGBTQ and homophobes argue, I have nothing else to do
its pervert against decent
@@benedibrava BS
Same. It is kind of exciting even though it makes me really tilted.
@@benedibrava we’re not perverted shut up
@@benedibravathat's rubbish 🗑
religion. next question
Saying you don't like someone because of their sexuality, is like saying you don't like someone eating a donut because you're on a diet.
@@kindofaveragefetus9517 you just said that shit.
@@SSFurby mhm, and?
I'm not religious. So what's your excuse?
@@kindofaveragefetus9517 that's the most moronic analogy I've ever heard.
amogus
Finally, some intellectual contributions to the discussion in the comments.
I'm gonna have to kindly disagree with your opinions, please delete this comment for it has messed up my mental health, and I will press charges.
sus
I wanna be myself but if I do I lose most of my family
Some bullshit
I DON'T KNOW WHAT POWER YOU THINK YOU HAVE, BUT YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE THE TRUTH.
THE TRUTH IS,
GAY IS OK.
IF YOU THINK YOU CAN FIGHT THE TRUTH,
UMM,
SO CAN OTHER PEOPLE FIGHT THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU !
😐
i mean i just like to bully gay people i dont know what u on about
@@bobosu5823 your ignorance is laughable
@@bobosu5823 equivalent of bullying black people you dont know for being black
@@bobosu5823 Bullying people for something they can't control is approaching hate crime territory.
Simple and short answer : They're not raised right as a person by their parents / Lived in abusive or hateful environments
i feel embarrassed from being a bi now 😭
It’s really sad. There was a bully I’ve dealt with that is strictly a hypocrite and now pure homophobic. This guy used to be gay and was dumped by his ex-boyfriend who lives in Detroit, Michigan now. Well, to me; I blame homophobic priests and countries who believe in Homophobia. It’s really sad that people who beat lgbt+ people up. I wish there was a law that Homophobes can get murdered but in a way of Self-defense. I knew some Gay Folks who carries guns because of Homophobes trying to harass them constantly! I’ve had friends who are Transgender, Gay and Lesbian. I’m Bisexual myself; I wish Homophobia should be illegal worldwide. If that happens pretty sure Suicide rates would increase in once Homophobic nations. Jerks and Morons like this doesn’t realize lgbt is not a sin but Homophobia is. I’m not Christian at all, but even I know what’s right and what’s wrong!
Where are homophobic people ??
I don't see them here in comments 😃😃
Their dad kicked them out of the family so they could get a life.
@@Isuckatcapturingwheniplanespot lmao
true its surprising i have more faith in this world
Some are replying and I saw one calling others a groomer which I got offended.
im homophobic bcus a gay guy in a restaurant asked if i was straight and i said yes he got mad and ranted abt how people should be who they truly are inside and shamed me for being straight and "homophobic" (i wasnt homophobic but now i am) like i couldnt even beileve it and he did the same thing with the other straight people and got kicked out
edit: bcus of this i got traumatized and every time i hear someone is gay i kinda feel scared lmao
Are you sure the place is't gay bar or something
@@erdemkaraca419 I lived under a rock for some time, so, today we have gays bar, yep this society is all fucked up
I’ll take “Shit that never happened” for 500 alex
Lol
@@erdemkaraca419 im 19
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I hate the word homophobia! Let me explain the actual definition of the word phobia is an acute and psychological irrational fear (and trust me I know as a lifelong sufferer of arachnophobia) a phobia is not a dislike or prejudice against someone’s sexuality preference, creed, colour, ethnicity or religion for crying out loud! It’s far worse than that it is a debilitating anxiety disorder caused by being confronted that leaves you fearing for your life! I know only likewise arachnophobics will only understand this and I’m comforted by the fact that around 88 million people worldwide share the same irrational fear! A phobia is (I accept purely psychological) which grips you like no other and is it life destroying? Yes there are things in life which most take for granted like going up in the loft for example which I cannot do, my phobia (and I have no idea where it comes from as I am the only family member to suffer it) but believe you me and for those who do not understand it, it’s a bit like having a fully loaded gun pointing at your head! I honestly think if I ever encountered a spider now the fear would probably kill me ( and no as you get older it doesn’t decrease in fact it increases and their is no cure) but my point is that a phobia is far worse than a dislike or a prejudice against someone’s preference of sexuality, someone’s skin colour, someone’s ethnicity or someone’s religious beliefs these are just ignorant and Ill educated dislikes so please once and for all can we stop using the term phobia for these trivial dislikes and actually respect the fact that there are real life phobia sufferers after all my phobia isn’t based on a spider origin all spiders are scary
a phobia can also be an irrational dislike or aversion to something, not just a crippling fear.
Ever heard of xenophobia?
@@user-mo7cd9jd8v lie
Homophobia is where people are scared to acknowledge that there is really a little gay in all of us.
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Ok
No there isn’t.
@@hiiguess8716 its true though. Have you heard of the bell curve.
I don't think that's true
No
That's the rhetoric that the church folk use. But I get you.
What is the evolutionary advantage of homophobic?
Muhammad Rizkillah nowhere does it say in evolution that advantage explains everything. If anything it posits the variety of life is what’s required for a rich experience.
@mr dangerous you're comparing early human development to modern society, we could all be gay and still have children with modern science. So that is invalid
There is a ted talk on the evolutionary advantage of homosexuality. It's for the survival of the family. If the mother is stressed its suppose to trigger something in her uterus and influence the male liking gene when the fetus is in the womb because she cant have another son and feed his family or something lol. And homsexual males would also be able to support the family...
@mr dangerous true, but maybe controlling overpopulation and having adoptive parents ready might be good in some cases.
@@joshuaheffernan4374 yes like lesbians, they can get each other pregnant yk. We woman have sperm cells in one of our bone ( forgot what bone it was ) and yes you can see it, it’s a baby
I had to watch this after seeing the insanity of the comments in the anti-lgbt protest in Georgia
So wtf is homophobic really mean?
My best friend is a homo. He suffers. We don’t talk about it. But when I see the garçon serving me where I get my breakfast, I wonder why he has to balance his hips as a woman if, ergonomically, his body has narrow hips. His movements are artificial. He is not himself. IITs weird to watch it. My friend doesn’t make these fake feminine affectations, Teather. It’s peculiar to me, and I wonder what goes on in that psyche that needs to take what he is not…I get curious, and I can’t understand it. 🤔
Third here.
Hi
You beat me to first place
Hello - thanks for watching!
Why is there no mention of religion?
It's irrelevant to this video
Because I’m Muslim
Just disagree but respect
lol no one gives a shit
So can I be phobic to your religion?
Another one i've thought about is how, if someone is homophobic it might be because they think that most gay people...idk have blue hair? Have been on rupaul drag? Have eye tattoos? Make Being gay thier only personality trait? Most gay people are just regular people.
Another bad one is how( and i know alot about this cus i did it as a kid) you think of that person as only gay. Example:
Straight person: 'i smashed your mother' brain process: ahahahahhahaha
Gay person: ; i smashed him' Brain process: GAY
Its an interesting subject
i think homophobia is genetic
Being gay is a choice
@@_Spider4 source?
@@_Spider4so is being homophobic
Jussie Smollett, is that you?!
2:14 *BRUH*
2nd on here
gaypocalypse
97% straight people 🤡
It’s not an apocalypse, it’s people feeling safe to come out.
Hating people becaus of orientation is not a catalyst for hate; their not doing any harm.
Edit: guys i messed up the wording. What I meant to say was: Hating people over something so small like orientation is dumb
Im sorry, are you really saying homophobia doesn’t heart anyone? Even ignoring the mental harm, gay guys were one of the groups sent to concentration camps during the holocaust, being gay is a death sentence in some countries, how is that not harm
@@hithere7080 oh no so sad
ok
@@BingQiLing. It is sad.
Hating people for any reason is absolutely a catalyst for hate and will result in harm being done.
You can't eradicate homophobia any more than you can eradicate fatplobia. As areproductive traits, we have a biological aversion to them. What we can do is stop calling any degree of aversion to homosexuals "hoomophobic" and focus on descriminatory and abusive behaviors.
yeah but homosexuality does make sense in an evolutionary sense, as those who can't reproduce would still be contributing to those that can - and in some way could actually improve the likelihood of children surviving who then go on to reproduce
Being gay isn't a physical trait. Also, how many people are hating on sterile people?
I'm homophobic because I have a bad past of being accused of being gay and my parents used to hit me for thinking I was gay and sense then I never liked the word gay or gay people bi or lesbians every time I see a couple it just triggers me.
I’m sorry for your past but you shouldn’t put that rage and anger on innocent people
I’m so sorry your parents were like that. But many people who actually are gay have to go through that too. You need to tell someone what your parents are doing to you
I didn’t have the same experience as you but all I can tell you is, putting your anger on someone else because of what people have done to you won’t fix anything. I can tell you that because I hated people because I always used to get bullied, got spat at, got kicked. I had severe depression and never had any conversations with people,but I’m just gonna tell you to not think this way. I know it won’t change immediately but I hope progressively it does.😔
dude, tf? ure mad at innocent people who didn’t do a thing to u?
@@TheNigttimeNightmare lemme tell you something. Not everyone lives in a ''happy'' world, not everyone belives in the existence ''non-binary gender''', alright? Yeah, I don't support transgenderism. I find the concept of making changes to your own body via a surgery horrifying.
People today be like : Look at me! I do not hate gays! I am such a good person!!1!!11!
Is there something wrong with that?
Yep. So many wanna be progressives acting all humble lol
True. People will say this shit and then turn around and be racist, ableist or homophobic.
It's interesting, really.
ok
They’re kinda right tho, as long as you’re an ally you’re a friend to me.
why do people hate people that don't agree with them like sure u agree with the Lgbtq+ community but that doesn't mean everyone else has to🙄
Alright, dude, you’ve been acting a little bold lately. I’m going to need to see your father figure.
You found love at 40 as a gay man...? Yeah, you had money