“Social Media Isn’t Real” | My Beef with Jackie Aina on TikTok

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  • @msubiquitouslove
    @msubiquitouslove Рік тому +96

    Jackie has experienced domestic violence, displacement and living in shelters as a child with a family of seven forcing her to temporarily drop out of high school, this woman created an amazing life for herself where many people would have been crushed by similar or less hardships, she has paid her dues and earned her lifestyle. I’m so happy for her bc I’ve been through so many similar circumstances, I’m proud of her strength, bc I know first hand exactly how much it takes to block out negativity and victoriously triumph against those odds and those sort of cards. The point of life is to grow and evolve, she’s grown beautifully, what is wrong with that? I don’t think she purports to be perfect. But she has attained a certain level of financial freedom and luxury and that’s amazing. Just bc your reality doesn’t align w hers doesn’t automatically make hers not real? It’s not real for you, it’s real for her. And who knows, maybe you’ll be just as rich as her one day to where you’ll be steaming your bed sheets and splurging on luxury daily and if and when you do, I pray it doesn’t bother anyone and that people only feel happiness for you. Bc nobody knows your internal struggles and what you had to overcome to get there nor would it be your burden to share your struggles or anybody’s business to know if you chose to not share. Let’s just be happy for one another without labeling or demanding or expecting or judging or feeling bad bc we think someone else is doing better than we are, bc we all deserve to be happy and comfortable and at peace and free.

    • @Jackieeeisvibing
      @Jackieeeisvibing Рік тому +10

      I agree but wow this age terribly from her making those nasty ass candles off the cloud of Nigerian people suffering like I still watch Jackie I know I like her but she is not free from criticism she’s like not the best person 💀 homegirl was in the military so she very much still stands by American imperialism and it really shows she blocks people who haven’t even talk to her before like if you like a comment that makes fun of her in any way you’re immediately blocked😂 and just because she’s had a hard time and now has a better life does it mean like she’s just free to be a menace because what happened to that whole thing with Paige I don’t like her either because she was laid up with Jeffree star but like to make a video with a huge claim that somebody stole money from you and then not elaborate when people ask questions and just hope it goes away is crazy Jackie pulls a lot of nonsense and she’s not self-aware enough to apologize

    • @likhwezititus
      @likhwezititus Рік тому +16

      My question is what was she looking to get from Jackie?

    • @RiceSteph
      @RiceSteph Рік тому +10

      You definitely said all the words I wanted to put together. I recently got promoted 50% and got a hugeeee bonus. I made the mistake to "share" this information with someone who I THOUGHT would be happy for me, but just like this woman I was somehow unrelatable. I've worked soooo fucking hard, I and so grateful for the opportunities, but my personal preparation (sweat & tears) let me to those opportunities just like Jackie. I hate seeing folks victimize their circumstances cus someone has grown to a better stage of their life. You are not "happy for them" you're disappointed with your own situation. SMH! If you were "happy" for them you wouldn't be making this video. Get therapy

    • @FabBbyGrl
      @FabBbyGrl Рік тому +6

      @@RiceSteph That's not the point of this video.

    • @chelseymichelle9286
      @chelseymichelle9286 Рік тому +12

      Girl you got this all wrong, coming from poor and violence doesn't allow anyone to be treated with disrespect just because they have a different perspective!!

  • @xyqueriastone
    @xyqueriastone Рік тому +58

    Anytime you disagree with influencers they get offended & block you as if you’re supposed to kiss their ass. It’s weird because me supporting your content doesn’t mean I’m going to necessarily agree with everything you say/do. Then when you go against them their minions come to attack which does nothing but bait the influencers head up more 🙄 . She got snappy with me In the comments one time about something so SIMPLE and I just respectfully said “okay” cuz girl bye. I’ve noticed ANY time you disagree with an influencer (in a respectful manner might I add) they get mad and block you as if they’re not mature enough to have open dialogue. I’m sorry that happened to you because it does suck being blocked by someone you supported for years and the moment you disagree with something you become disposable to them. Just shrug it off and continue to thrive beautiful 🤍

  • @swathiramaswamy4910
    @swathiramaswamy4910 Рік тому +11

    I honestly think you killed your critique!! It sounded spot on, and I think you articulated it so well! I was able to follow everything you were trying to say, and I really appreciated when you acknowledged the things you could have done better in hindsight. I haven't seen your stitch video, so I don't know the full context, but even though I do love Jackie Aina, I can still agree that I think we are sold the idea of PERFECTION, and that just isn't attainable. Happiness for sure is, but it's going to come with some shitty moments/days/months/years, and influencers don't have an OBLIGATION to show those things to us, but to deny that those moments do exist, whether small or large, is a lie and I think it was really cool of you to give your opinion on that, regardless of how it was taken. I'm excited to see more of your content!

  • @jaygriffin8217
    @jaygriffin8217 Рік тому +26

    I'm trying to understand the issue..are you saying she shouldn't show her accomplishments? And as a content creator me personally I'm not going to make 3 separate videos for each social media platforms it takes too long. And you shouldn't take social media serious! In one breath it sounds like you are comparing your life to hers while simultaneously wanting her to admit she's struggling in life. If she says her life is perfect maybe in her mind her lifeis perfect.

  • @motherof3pearls
    @motherof3pearls Рік тому +14

    You are already speaking to the crowd! Thank you for your voice. Unfortunately, this attitude is prevalent with UA-camrs. They sweet talk, beg, and dance for you to subscribe then when they reach a million subscribers they delude themselves into think they were flying solo.

  • @BeautyFilledDisaster515
    @BeautyFilledDisaster515 Рік тому +16

    Late… unfortunately what J.A. said is open to interpretation. I took it that she meant why should anyone show you their bad side so that you feel better about what you’re going through. So many people (especially the black community) thrive on seeing others do bad. Top influencers go through a lot to get to where they are. They’re judged and berated consistently so imagine what they would deal with if they showed those “personal and intimate” traumas. With that being said, I believe influencers can be authentic without showing the tough sides of their lives as long as they’re able to speak on it. I don’t need a video of the breakup, don’t lie to sell me something you hate, etc.
    I love the way you handled this…

  • @Wandia462
    @Wandia462 Рік тому +37

    Going of Tiannas 2 cents, if people are bored and want to see more than just the 'soft life', the numbers will show that. There are also plenty of influencers who share 'more real' content. So
    1. Find content that you want to watch!
    2. I balance my emotions (because as u said, sometimes it's easy to watch Aina's type of content and think 'damn, I'm doing poorly') by watching Aina type of content and 'more real content'
    3. I think your feelings are valid. As is Aina's response. Because really, your reaction rubbed her the wrong way. You have a chip on your shoulder and you feel like she owes you the type of content you want. And that's unfair to put that on her.
    Just do you.

  • @kckrox6911
    @kckrox6911 Рік тому +38

    Girl huh?!!!!! 😂😂😂 I patiently waited for your point and no ma’am…… if a page/person no longer resonates with you it’s ok to go elsewhere. Wanting an influencer to post what you think is wild. What I noticed with Jackie is that she is genuine with what she posts. If she doesn’t believe in it , she’s not going to discuss or post it. Why would you want a person who has been through real sh!t lay her darkest parts to people who would pick at the vulnerability for sake of conversation. You clearly don’t know what REAL trauma looks like. You literally don’t want to relive it or be asked about it over and over. There are tons of trauma pages sis if that’s what you like. I understand why Jackie creates the boundaries she has and I hate to tell you, you do sound like you want to puppeteer her how YOU want. Create the content YOU want to see….. Just to add sometimes people aren’t struggling sis. The last 5 years have been my best. My family is good, my bank account good and I am good in all aspects within as well.. Jackie brand has evolved and grew up. You not there yet and that’s ok. You are 24. she’s 35 and settled. Rewatch your video sis outside yourself you sound like a hater and I am not the type to throw that word around either. This video was confusing.you sound simply pissed she had the audacity to block you 😂😂😂. It’s ok sis. It happens to the best of us. Instead of worrying about Jackie, focus on what you want this page to be and learn how to organize your thoughts and content because you are too scattered for a follow babe. You cute tho 😂. Wish you the best.

    • @Hush-puppy
      @Hush-puppy Місяць тому +1

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @crystalliving993
    @crystalliving993 Рік тому +9

    What is it that you want with her? Saying she does owe her audience relatability as they are her boss is the same as saying you have to do a task at work that's not in your position or job description simply because your manager wants you to.

  • @jtheblogger
    @jtheblogger 9 місяців тому +8

    Gosh people are so entitled. What makes you think you’re entitled to people’s private life. Social media is a place for people or influencers to express their creativity, whatever that means to THEM and you as the audience can watch it if it’s relatable to you. Jackie don’t owe anyone relatability, vulnerability, NOTHING. If she’s at a stage of her life where she’s enjoying the fruits of her labor let her be. Y’all wouldn’t dare question a yt woman about their choice to live a soft life. It’s like blk women are expected to be humbled and accommodating. Why can’t blk women be soft and luxurious and freely express that? And the sad part is when the critics is coming from a fellow blk woman, like girl go heal. It’s giving weird 🙄. People are meant to grow and evolve I hope you grow and evolve to.

  • @DemureDarlings
    @DemureDarlings 6 місяців тому +2

    Although you are saying some real things, it’s the intentions behind them that make feel that most people start off admiring people until they boil inside and become envious 😢

  • @Kiki32131
    @Kiki32131 Рік тому +5

    Your hair and makeup is sooooo beautiful. I love this look!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @astoldbytay9605
    @astoldbytay9605 Місяць тому +2

    I just came across this video. You're gorgeous!

  • @cfoxy3
    @cfoxy3 Рік тому +10

    There's a lot of people on here supporting Jackie’s snobby attitude. There's a way to tell someone “no” without being arrogant towards someone else or blocking the person. I'm sorry to say, but Jackie has a tendency to be rude and many other huge influencers have complained about her behavior in the past as well. This isn't something new.

  • @TheCherokeegoddess
    @TheCherokeegoddess Рік тому +27

    Move on babee

  • @TunedIntoTennis
    @TunedIntoTennis Рік тому +12

    Just perusing through the comments and it dawns on me. Why do you care if a literal stranger you’ve never met blocks you on a social media platform?
    Like why does that stop anything you have going on? If you wanna see the content that bad just make another internet account? Lol that’s simple. But if someone interprets your comments as shady or disrespectful or whatever the case may be, and they block you it’s going to be ok. The next day will be the same. Especially if you don’t know the person on a personal level.

  • @cys1953
    @cys1953 Рік тому +24

    Girl you’re sounding jealous because Jackie A. has grown, matured and thrived. She is doing her thing and if you don’t like it….don’t watch. Move on! You are contradicting yourself all over the place.

  • @LS-gy9bq
    @LS-gy9bq Рік тому +18

    Hey girl, I just came across your video and I'm sorry you're taking the Jackie Aina blocked so hard. What I have found is number one, these influencers only want people to agree with them. Once influencers get the really big money from their account being so high, they don't care about a few people dropping off. They're basically locked in with their money. Once I saw that huge mansion that she was in and that she really didn't give a f--- what is she was related or not , I was good even though I used to ride for her. TBH I can barely even stand these all white living room all white kitchen and everything look in the same influencers just showing everyone how they give all their money to racist designers ‼️ it's disgusting that they are called influencers and they choose not to stand for anyting.

    • @user-wt9xm6xz6l
      @user-wt9xm6xz6l 9 місяців тому

      Girl you sound like hater. What’s wrong with her having a huge mansion. It would be better if she was suffering? Lord I can’t stand miserable people. Go make your own money and stop hating on others

  • @justice5927
    @justice5927 6 місяців тому +2

    Girl bye….

  • @TsahaiLayne
    @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +4

    Hey guys! I’m sorry this video was so long and unedited. I was able to get the software back up so going forward I’ll do better. Hope everyone is having a good new year so far. If interested in the tiktok stitch I’m referencing pls go tmy profile on tiktok @tsahailayne . Thanks for watching ❤

    • @kamos5203
      @kamos5203 Рік тому

      I see why Jackie blocked you

  • @Celestial_Nomad90
    @Celestial_Nomad90 3 місяці тому

    as a millennial Jackie's status has elevated tremendously and it was a time where she would address the trolls and respond to her supporters and do the whole back and forth bid.. she's older which I think your missing and she's wiser and understand the tactics people use to take you off your chariot to throw tomatoes with them lol.. damned if you do damned if you dont scenario here.. she has stated in the past that the content gets boring for her sometime which is why she takes breaks.. doing anything too much can lead to burnout .. this isn't just social media play dress up and do make up anymore for Jackie she is a brand and she has a reputation to uphold as well as a business and she's working essentially.. so we have to extend celebs// influencers grace when they want to remind us we are not their friends that's god letting you know through them you need to touch some grass and get off the internet for a while cause what she's doing doesn't make you or break you.. we need to stop idolizing people we do not know in the first place that way we dont try to play judge and jury around every lil thing they do or dont do that offends us..

  • @markschreck8794
    @markschreck8794 Рік тому

    Hi Tsahai. I'm someone the analog recently sent your way and I'm glad it did. Your variety show channel is quite refreshing (how did you discover people do more than one thing during their day???).

  • @emilygraham5912
    @emilygraham5912 9 місяців тому

    I think your take is solid, you do continue to comment on how you feel you are delivering the content - you say you are rambling; repeating, etc. but then you say you can’t do an outline or focus because you want to be conversational. I think you can still be conversational while focusing. Perhaps on a paper jot down big themes you want to cover and things you don’t want to miss. Perhaps time yourself and rehearse it loosely once that way ut gives more confidence in your delivery. Overall you stepping forward and sharing was really important and I enjoyed listening.

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 8 місяців тому

      As someone who is neurodivergent and has ADHD , I do everything you suggested when I have to give a team presentation.

  • @shamoyabruce712
    @shamoyabruce712 9 місяців тому +1

    Side bar, girrrlll that lip is fire on you. What lipsick is that?

  • @BritneyAlea
    @BritneyAlea Рік тому +1

    I just was asking when are you coming back to YT on your TikTok live lol, I got my wish!

  • @LasBlackUnicrn
    @LasBlackUnicrn Рік тому +5

    Jackie blocked me on Twitter and I had never even interacted with her before. I probably liked a tweet that was calling her out on something 🤷🏾‍♀️lol (it was around the time accused petty Paige of literal hacking and theft which she was wrong for) I was like wth? I’m sure it hurt you as someone who supported her so long. But we have to remember these ppl could not care less about their audience and if you aren’t doing what they want you are disposable/replaceable. At this point I dnt really buy into any influencers these days.

  • @Cece-em5vo
    @Cece-em5vo Місяць тому

    Why are all these comments paragraphs? What the fuck???

  • @chelseymichelle9286
    @chelseymichelle9286 Рік тому +2

    ❤🎉This video is spot on to how i felt when she blocked me...i commented on how great she looked in her dress but maybe it was accidently misread on her part. I was hurt because i followed and promoted her and i had to come to terms with she is really a small bully and she has a huge ego. It is okay to say i appreciate all of her funny content, fashion, makeup advice, support for black busniesses, her face alone allowed for brands to expand. Also LOVE her candles!! They are the best, but she took a compliment- i believe- in the wrong way and it made me see her more in reality. God bless you for being bold to post the truth on parasocial relationships...and how they actually hurt when they end ... hopefully you grow from this and take time away from internet and more into real life friendships ❤❤

    • @luiysia
      @luiysia 9 місяців тому +4

      jackie is sooo defensive. you can say "you look so good in blue" and she'll be like "oh so i don't look good in red? blocked"
      she's clearly dealing with something else bothering her in life so please don't take getting blocked personally.

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 8 місяців тому +3

      @@luiysiaGreat point.

  • @RedRoseSeptember22
    @RedRoseSeptember22 Рік тому +2

    Welcome back Tsahai!!! It's been so long and I was legit excited to see a new video from you ♥I hope you had a nice holiday season and also, Happy New Year!!! Hopefully we'll see more from you this year? Ouch to the root canal D: hope you heal fast. ♥

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +1

      Hey!! My holiday was alright this year, nothing crazy. I hope yours was better 😭 Happy New Year to you too. Thanks for watching ❤

    • @RedRoseSeptember22
      @RedRoseSeptember22 Рік тому +1

      @@TsahaiLayne I hope this year is better for you and thank you ♥

  • @thembiskosana3910
    @thembiskosana3910 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤ I hear you.

  • @Fatellee
    @Fatellee Рік тому +2

    Can we get the lipstick details 😍

  • @TheSinfra
    @TheSinfra 7 місяців тому +1

    I dont what point you are trying to make. Sorry i dont get it

  • @Simplyerin_
    @Simplyerin_ 11 місяців тому

    New subbie

  • @gailmckenzie2529
    @gailmckenzie2529 7 місяців тому

    WE KNOW JACKEE IS NOT HONEY AND ROSES ALL THE TIME WHO REALLY CARES SHE IS JUST LOOKED ON FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND MAYBE SOME HELPFUL CONTENTS THAT SHE CAN GIVE. FORGET HER MAKE YOURS SHINE AND PERSONABLE TO ALL YOUR STANDING AND BELIEFS OF HOW YOU WANT TO BE BELIEVED AND VIEW ON OF ALL YOUR BLESSED GIFTS, TALENTS OF WHAT YOU HAVE INSIDE OF YOU TO SHARE❤ GOD BLESS ITS A LOVELY TODAY❣️🌹🌹🌹🌹❣️

  • @hearme4581
    @hearme4581 9 місяців тому

    I totally understand where you are coming from, she definitely puts out a fake my life is pretty demeanor. There is nothing new under the sun. She didn’t find the cheat code thats the image she posts.

  • @heysilly1341
    @heysilly1341 Рік тому

    I love you

  • @gamalbh4364
    @gamalbh4364 Рік тому +1

    I hope someday we can be in touch when I do come again to US Colonel Jamal from dubai 😀 😊 ☺️ ❤️

  • @genesistackie8167
    @genesistackie8167 5 місяців тому

    Get a life