I'm no therapist at all, but a resistant client myself. Listening to your story was humbling, both you and my own therapist are way more resourceful and subtle than I currently am (or consider myself capable of being). Thank you so much for your thoughful content, it has, indeed, helped me. May you have a wonderful weekend, Mark.
work together with client sense of control and Choice suggestive but unsure language give credit, even oppose your own achievement use resistance as a tool
This is great. I hope to become as skilled as you as I venture toward a degree in Mental Health Counseling. Thank you for helping teach fellow therapists.
I find it particularly interesting how people resist the positive and not just the negative which brings about tension in our narrative. “ a denying of our best side, of our talents, of our finest impulses, of our highest potentialities, of our creativeness. In brief a struggle against our own greatness” Abraham Maslow. To compliment this quote I also like the idea derived by Nietzsche where we ignore our higher selves because when it speaks it speaks in a demanding voice. It is all too easy to sit and watch television all day and at the end of it all feel terrible, but the step towards a goal can also be terrifying.
Found your channel because my 2 best friends are therapist and as u can imagine they give me LOTS of advice about my life lol ur videos are good, sincere and honest
I'm a 'resistant client' I find though that it's the therapist that shuts down on me when things get complex, it's too complicated for me and also the therapist, they politely shut down on me, I notice it and I shut down a little bit more and that's kind of the end of the therapy. I'd love to go deeper on it but I find no therapist well, maybe it would be too draining for them, but I'm so determined to get well I don't want to quit
I think hypnosis works for addiction Mark but not ptsd that I've got. My brain is traumatised so sleeping techniques wouldn't work on me, and I've tried everything else.
Hi Mark, I have difficulty processing the thought that I could ever let anyone else guide me into saying or doing things ( giving control). I have been a part of a conference where a hypnotherapist demonstrated their skills on an individual, thinking similar to the psychiatrist in your session. The issue is that I am about to complete my master's in psychology I feel I will miss out on an important skill that could help my clients. What can I do to deal with this resistance?
One of the best videos I have ever seen about resistance. A combination of wisdom and poetry.
I enjoyed hearing Mark’s inner thoughts during the volunteer story.
He seems like a down to earth person with a great sense of humor.
I'm no therapist at all, but a resistant client myself. Listening to your story was humbling, both you and my own therapist are way more resourceful and subtle than I currently am (or consider myself capable of being). Thank you so much for your thoughful content, it has, indeed, helped me. May you have a wonderful weekend, Mark.
Thoroughly impressed with this strategy and being able to respond so well to the resistant participant in the moment. Very helpful. Thank you.
Amazing that she cooperated with you in the end! She just wanted to be recognized.
I love how you use stories
work together with client
sense of control and Choice
suggestive but unsure language
give credit, even oppose your own achievement
use resistance as a tool
The introduction was epic
This is great. I hope to become as skilled as you as I venture toward a degree in Mental Health Counseling. Thank you for helping teach fellow therapists.
You are the most unhateble person in this world mr. Tyrrell 😊
Thank you for the wonderful lecture!
Useful and instructive. Thank you!
Mark is amazing at his skills ❤️
I find it particularly interesting how people resist the positive and not just the negative which brings about tension in our narrative. “ a denying of our best side, of our talents, of our finest impulses, of our highest potentialities, of our creativeness. In brief a struggle against our own greatness” Abraham Maslow. To compliment this quote I also like the idea derived by Nietzsche where we ignore our higher selves because when it speaks it speaks in a demanding voice. It is all too easy to sit and watch television all day and at the end of it all feel terrible, but the step towards a goal can also be terrifying.
Great anecdote. I bet you said 'touché' to yourself after that. 😂
Found your channel because my 2 best friends are therapist and as u can imagine they give me LOTS of advice about my life lol ur videos are good, sincere and honest
2 friends that are therapists. That's pretty cool.
Brilliant! Have you ever lost your cool with a client and how do you repair?
😊 wonderful video! Thank you!
Very helpful thankyou 👌🏾
Thank you ❤ 🙏 Awesome 👏
Amazing! Invaluable. And an amusing story! Thank you.
Thank You ,as always highly informative + appreciated!!
VERY INSIGHTFUL,,, THANK YOU!
I'm a 'resistant client' I find though that it's the therapist that shuts down on me when things get complex, it's too complicated for me and also the therapist, they politely shut down on me, I notice it and I shut down a little bit more and that's kind of the end of the therapy.
I'd love to go deeper on it but I find no therapist well, maybe it would be too draining for them, but I'm so determined to get well I don't want to quit
I think hypnosis works for addiction Mark but not ptsd that I've got. My brain is traumatised so sleeping techniques wouldn't work on me, and I've tried everything else.
Have you tried Rewind therapy?
Hi Mark, I have difficulty processing the thought that I could ever let anyone else guide me into saying or doing things ( giving control). I have been a part of a conference where a hypnotherapist demonstrated their skills on an individual, thinking similar to the psychiatrist in your session. The issue is that I am about to complete my master's in psychology I feel I will miss out on an important skill that could help my clients. What can I do to deal with this resistance?
You are hypnotized all the time - watching movies / reading books which give you emotional responses.
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Thank you as always...:-)
So here 10:12 I like the dramatic change on the close-up
Outstanding video! In September I'm starting my coaching course here in Holland. By watching and learning from your videos I'll be well prepared.
But Uncommon.............all women are like that! LOL hahahah;;;;;;No way you are married!
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