The Dark Side of Your Emotional Needs: Safety

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
  • Feeling safe and secure is one of our primal emotional needs. At its deepest level, the drive for safety and security is really the drive for survival itself.
    In this second video in my series on the dark side of your emotional needs I'll talk about where the need for safety comes from and the effects of an excessive drive for safety, which can range from flashbacks and panic attacks to depression.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 31

  • @mildredhighcock7333
    @mildredhighcock7333 Рік тому +3

    this hits hard with me - I am not embracing life - I am merely surviving

  • @alataha1115
    @alataha1115 3 роки тому +22

    Most competent balanced therapist I have found, very insightful, honest and non judgemental

  • @halah.2073
    @halah.2073 2 роки тому +9

    I feel like I get transferred to a world of calm and peace when I listen to you.

    • @gekiryudojo
      @gekiryudojo Рік тому

      You are Seeking safety me thinks!

    • @syzygy4365
      @syzygy4365 8 місяців тому

      Same. just what I needed today.

  • @ranamerez8392
    @ranamerez8392 2 роки тому +5

    i am a practician and your videos help me a lot to understand myself and my clients thank you for these free information.

  • @hassanz96
    @hassanz96 3 роки тому +8

    The analogy of the thirsty man drinking fuel, instead of water, was really deep. Thank You very much.

  • @nickpandya5368
    @nickpandya5368 4 роки тому +9

    Thank you for putting often complex psychodynamic theoretical concepts in everyday language
    stay safe and well

  • @beneditamontenegro1404
    @beneditamontenegro1404 4 роки тому +8

    Waiting for the rest of human primal needs x)

  • @duaajust4450
    @duaajust4450 Рік тому

    This is a treasure of information.

  • @ebolds4918
    @ebolds4918 3 роки тому +5

    Great insight into the human condition

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 3 роки тому +4

    sounds like my siblings. Thanks very much.

  • @saeedsobhani4213
    @saeedsobhani4213 4 роки тому +6

    Thanks mark, your psychology Chanel and your advice is the most accurate and professional advice I can ask for.

  • @GUIRADE95
    @GUIRADE95 2 роки тому

    I was raised in my teens in the USA, and educated on a very specific area of engineering by my stepfather, an American/German.
    He was one of the greatest engineers in what it did.
    I followed he's steps but I change to another area of expertise.
    Life was hard, very hard trough my years.
    Can't complain.
    I did and had what most humans only can dream of.
    Like I said in my previous comment, I'm waiting for the right time to rise again.
    I have a lot to give and ways to help.
    Will see what comes first.

  • @snoopy1965
    @snoopy1965 4 роки тому +8

    Mark, thank you for helping me. God love and blessings. You also have beautiful blue eyes.

  • @alanhehe4508
    @alanhehe4508 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you for sharing this knowledge, especially in these crazy times.

  • @GUIRADE95
    @GUIRADE95 2 роки тому

    I remember the times when I was in London, the branch office was located in one of the most exclusive áreas.
    We all knew what was coming, and as today we weren't wrong.

  • @Musalchemy
    @Musalchemy 4 роки тому +4

    Absolutely brilliant video, thank you so much for sharing this information/wisdom !

  • @gekiryudojo
    @gekiryudojo Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @lwjunior2
    @lwjunior2 2 роки тому +1

    Brilliant video. What are the techniques that can be used to increase safety?

  • @Amada__
    @Amada__ 3 роки тому +3

    What an amazing video!!!!

  • @lifeisbeautiful7047
    @lifeisbeautiful7047 Рік тому

    Thank you so much

  • @annajaworska3627
    @annajaworska3627 2 роки тому

    I am so relieved watching your videos and getting much better understanding of my deep unconscious needs.
    i am getting more angry for trusting my ex therapist for years, week by week. thank you for sharing your knowledge.

  • @ignatiusequality9239
    @ignatiusequality9239 3 роки тому +2

    Your description of cults fits religions also

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam3735 4 роки тому +4

    How can we meet our needs safely?

  • @jacquelinepuga8315
    @jacquelinepuga8315 4 роки тому +3

    Great stuff!

  • @luciesupstairs
    @luciesupstairs 3 роки тому +1

    thank you!

  • @Ayesha_F
    @Ayesha_F Рік тому +1

    * cough * Organised Religion * cough *

  • @bradleyriddell4745
    @bradleyriddell4745 4 роки тому +1

    Is banality the new profundity?

  • @bradleyriddell4745
    @bradleyriddell4745 4 роки тому +1

    Fairly obvious stuff Mark