0:24 1) Trying to be perfect at anything. 1:21 2) Being stuck in relationships. 2:11 3) Your work environment. 3:10 4) Maintaining a fixed mindset over a Growth Mindset 4:21 5) Spending excessive amounts of time alone 5:30 6) Not Changing Have a lovely day folks! ❤
#4 hits too close to home for me over the past few years. Because a growth mindset is limitless while a fixed is limited, so reprogram your mind by always striving to broaden your horizons and live the kind of life your future self will benefit greatly from.
1. Trying to be perfect at everything 2. Getting stuck in relationships 3. Your work environment 4. Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset 5. Spending excessive amounts of time alone 6. Not Changing (something such as diet or routine)
@@Wxx12 i feel so stuck as of rn, but i keep going because i know everything with come out how i want it to, and i will achieve my goals. I’m trying to be more positive.
You have been helping me for a long time from your channel, I have been suffering from depression and anxiety because of my parents.. and your channel helped me kinda overcome it.. im still trying to escape but your channel gave a huge impact on it.. Thank u for supporting us and helping us ❤❤❤
timestamps to help you out ; i love this video cause it came right after i procrastinated for 4 hours 0:24 trying to be perfect at anything 1:20 getting stuck in relationships 2:12 a positive/negative work environment 3:12 maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset 4:22 spending excessive amounts of time alone 5:32 not changing diet/attitude/habits
@@Psych2go i was procrastinating on holiday homework, specifically my english oral.. i hate doing them because my tone always sounds off 🥲 (a reply from psych2go themselves IM SQUEALING) thank you to the team at psych2go for always being a steady constant in my life i can rely on
Great video. I can relate to these things. First I think being stuck in a relationship is one way that I stopped socializing outside of the relationship and contributed to being more alone. Meeting new people has helped me see the world differently and realize that I can grow and change. I have been stuck in my ways and routines and falsely assume what I am capable of and my limits. I have done so many things that I thought that I would never do. Mainly watching other groups of people do things like parties, events, concerts, group rides/hikes. I am choosing to be more social with “my people” and am enjoying it. I have come a long way this past 18 months and I have learned to celebrate and savior my growth.
I relate to most of these. For quite a long time, I was in a toxic friendship where the other person stuck me in a cage, not allowing me to change or really be myself - like a flower covered in frost hindering it from blossoming. They then dumped me like a sack of rotten potatoes and I arrived in a very, very dark place. I’ve been trying to work on myself for a while and especially have been trying to raise my self-esteem.
Timestamps 1). Trying to be perfect at anything 0:22 2). Getting stuck in relationships 1:18 3). Your work environment 2:11 4). Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset 3:10 5). Spending excessive amounts of time alone 4:21 6). Not changing 5:30 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
As a man with Borderline Personality Disorder the last point is crucial to me. With hard work and managing emotions I can change! Thanks for great content psych2go
Timestamps:- 0:24 - Trying to be perfect at anything 1:19 - Getting stuck in relationships 2:12 - Your work environment 3:12 - Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset 4:22 - Spending excessive amounts of time alone 5:31 - Not changing Hope this helps you! Have a Miraculous day! ✨
Trying to be perfect. This is something I can relate to. I expect myself to get things right on the first try. And if I don’t, I get so hard on myself. But, I do keep trying the task. I also feel like I should have it all figured out being that I’ve been working on my healing, and I’ve found peace, happiness and joy. So I don’t allow myself to express that I’m sad or anything like that, because I feel like I should have it all figured out. I wonder if perfection can make you limit yourself.
Number 1 is the thing which I actually relate the most, because I once tried to get perfect at everything, but later I honestly realized it was impossible to be perfect in every way, especially in studies.
I’m a perfectionist. I practice for ridiculous amounts of time to get better which I do become really good but then I suddenly lose my skills & have to relearn my skill, this causes me to get really angry, I can’t stand not being the best & it hurts my mental health that I can’t stay good at anything. Anything that isn’t my best or better is absolutely unacceptable to me, I will never settle for mediocrity a day in my life
Well this explains why my therapist is so concerned about me being isolated all the time. But it's going to be a hard habit to break since it's been my whole life basically.
thank you for this! I thought being lonely all the time was fine for me. But now that I watched this video I realized its not good for my mental health. I have socialized more now and it does feel nice! Thank u again ❤
I have tried so many things to remove the pain of myself and I'm always alone, sad, overly emotional and with conditions I have gone to many doctors for and nothing changes. I even moved to a new country just to have no friends or family. I honestly can't wait for this life to be over with
Work environment hit me hard cause no matter how fast i finished my task a new one comes until it builds up. I did like my job cause i want to help my older sister but nothing change at work. My performance is now low and willing to help. Good luck, everyone.
At the young age of 63 I just graduated from Missouri State University. Get my bachelors degree in psychology. My ex is a psychiatrist. You guys are awesome. I love your voice it’s so nice to listen to keep up the good work.
The first thing that I need to change spending a lot of time alone. I’ve been like that since I graduated from high school. I was nervous to connect with people irl and I got used to being myself. As of now, I can become an outgoing person and I’m doing better when it comes to interacting with people this year.
I am stuck in a non-satisfactory work environment and am giving up that nothing will change because I wont grow anything in my career. I also just told my doctor to back off the other day because I really cant stand talking with anyone. I forgot about, or really didnt hear about fixed vs growth mindset. Thanks
I have a fixed mindset. I am aware of the fact that my brain is constantly changing and that's the problem, I am afraid that I was better before and I can't bring it back
Amazing video as always Sadly I relate to most of these! In a future video, can you make one on what makes people so bad tempered/ irritated by the slightest thing?
I remember when my therapist taught me about fixed and growth mindset that it helped me to be able to move forward as we looked at how to carefully change from fixed to growth mindset.
All these are me. But the ones I relate to the most is I never change my attitude when depressed, I prefer to be alone when depressed, and I want to be perfect. This was also uploaded when I’m feeling the lowest so I relate to it even more.
I am sure accepting and tolerating all manner of things go here. Like allowing toxic, immoral, and ignorant people to be around you. A great way to ruin one's outlook in the working and social world.
I just wanna say that I realized that when I hang out with people, I need to initiate the hangout all the time and none of my friends actually wants to hang out with me because I'm the only one that's initiate the hang out and even conversations (most of the time) so now I'm thinking if there is even a friend that likes me
i am guilty if having a fixed mindset, being lonely most of the time and doing nothing to changing cuz i believ i can't be changed, otherwise i'll lose what makes me "myself". i also feel like i have nothing in commom with my friends which some are religious, some are hard workers and some are adults with either work, family or both. i feel like they're all different compared to me, an alien and a nobody in this crazy world which keeps burning every single day.
Perfectionism stems from comparing ourselves from others all the time. Everyone has their own time for success you are never left behind...you will get there where you are meant to be...
Thank you for your insight. It's so easy to be impressed or swept up by other people's accomplishments that we end up comparing ourselves to them, which makes us feel jealous or even depressed at our own lack of progress. However, we must understand that our own journey can be just as impressive if we stop comparing ourselves and honor the pace at which we're approacing our own goals.
Tell that to my skill regression. I get so good and then suddenly my skill goes away and I have to relearn it all. I’m sick of it and I would sell my soul to have it stop. I should be better than almost everyone I practice close to constantly. This skill regression really hurts my mental health because I pretty much can’t be good at anything. I hate myself, I get so angry at my pathetic underperformance cus I lose my skill suddenly, I even harm myself sometimes cus I get so mad at it & I really hate people who are better than me at things. What pisses me off even more is no one understands this whole sudden skill loss/skill regression thing because it only happens to me, they think I’m crazy. I can never find an explanation and solution to this bs anywhere. You can go research this but I’ll assure you, you’ll find nothing but inaccurate results & irrelevant information. I believe it’s a curse Everyone will probably ignore this
@@IDKWHAT2NAMETHISS you're not alone in this, this happens to many people including me. It may be a curse but take it as you get another chance to get more better at it. Maybe this time you will be better than most people. Learn again and again as long as you are alive...
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND KNOW FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING, WELL I HAVE TO GO BACK TO LAY DOWN SO I CAN GET UP AND GO OUT TO KEEP AWAY FROM THE CERAP, INTELL LATER ON MY FRIENDS AND KNOW FAMILY!!! TEE 🙏💯💙💪
I spend a lot of time alone because I’m not really interested in big crowds and I don’t really feel lonely my parents sometimes think I’m shy and not interested but me being alone is because I’m an introvert and as a guy who is a farmer I get really stressed out easily and I feel like I should just walk away from farming because I’m not really interested in it anymore but I try to do what I can do and if I screw up I just keep going no matter how steep the hill is
Fith one hit me hard. I had such a bad past with being alone, I'm terrified to the point of screaming. Usually I'm fine in the day. It's nighttime that scares me. (Sorry for the mini vent btw TvT)
0:25 trying to be perfect at everything 1:21 getting stuck in relationships 2:12 your work environment 4:21 spending excessive amounts 3:12 maintaining a fixed mindset 5:31 not changing
Hey! Ive been watching you for a while and I really apreciate you, I really do. Youve helped me figure out why I feel like this or why I do this, not as a diagnosis but being able to try and ask those questions to my doctor if any of that would be a possible explanation of why im doing it. Its been really hard for me lately, and I dont really have anyone to talk to, so coming to youtube or listening to music is really my only way of feeling not so alone. I dont know if you did a video on this or not, I looked but i could have searched it wrong lol. I was wondering if you could make a video about wanting attention but not wanting attention. Like, sometimes doing things for attention but also other times you hate being noticed, and you hate that you want attention. I have this problem, and a couple of times ive said things that gave me attention because I was feeling alone. It wasnt harmful, just smth like "Oh yeah I did this cool thing" to try and relate with others. But at the same time I hate being the center of attention, it gives me high anxiety and it makes me feel guilty for wanting attention. I dont know if this makes sense, but I hope you know what I mean lol. I hope you all are doing okay, and im sure you do but i hope you all know that work/self balance, you guys deserve a vacation xp
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Seems that I'm not doing anything that isn't hard on me.. well except the excess lone time, I'm pretty lonely but that hasn't stopped me from talking to other people and making myself happy. I now know what I shouldn't do or I'll have a harder time in life thanks to this video.
@@darkraven951 I genuinely think you could afford the time to sit and figure it out. If you feel hopeless start small. As small as you have to go. It’s uphill until it’s downhill, take it from a college flunky with a 6 figure salary.
For some how i change some mini things in my life like being more open or end toxic relations but for some reason i think i can just try new things like trying not to be that much shy 1, 5 and 6 can be my problems
I'm trying to change, but my parents don't believe in me. Because of having autism and TBI, they don't see me as being much further beyond being 13 years old mentally, which is ridiculous compared to my real age of 39. I'm trying to change, but they don't want me to and have started using guilt trips of how much they have done and given up for my sake.
Others might have pointed this out, but just in case: solitude and loneliness aren’t the same thing. Please consider making a video addressing the difference.
I honestly always tried to be Perfect. I thought about of dark thoughts and sickening ways to not be on this world anymore. I always thought if I never did good then I would be pathetic. I always had Fixed mindset. I always thought I would never improve and just do worse. I would always think “I’ll never be able to do it / I can’t do this / I’m pathetic.” I always worry about my looks. Thinking I was ugly because I didn’t fit some beauty standards. I got bullied before on social media. People sweared at me and always brought me down. I still have these thoughts haunting me as it’s behind a happy facade. I try to not think about it often but whenever I’m down it’s all I can think of.
Solitude is something you enjoy being alone, not being with anyone not even mobile otherwise you are still not alone. Solitude is you aee Doing nothing but still enjoying your company
I’m a perfectionist who suffers from sudden skill loss or skill regression. Yeah not a good combination. Anything that isn’t my best or better is unacceptable to me. I can’t stand being bad at things
Trying to be perfect ✅ Being stuck in relationships ✅ (I struggle with boundaries and getting rid of toxic friendships) Negative work environment ❌ (unemployed) Maintaining a fixed mindset ❌ (always learning and growing) Excessive time alone ✅ (I struggle with depression and anxiety) Not changing ❌✅ (I only struggle with my diet because I live with ARFID) Hopefully this list will be changing for better!
I think I've been doing all of these! At one some point of my life. These video was really helpful. Thank you so much. I've beem feeling a little lost since the start of this year and the advent of turning 30. The advice here has been really useful. I just have to apply it. 😀
It's easy to have these mindsets and traits if you actually succeed in life. Failures like me who has absolutely nothing, I mean NOTHING, will always be a failure, no matter the mindset. That's just how it is. If I try to think otherwise, others will perceive me as delusional and arrogant. I need to know my place as a worthless peasant
Yes, but 3 of these are physically impossible to change for me. (Either because i like them, or i just cant due to life) -Your work enviroment -Spending excessive amounts of time alone -not changing
Yeah! Incredible video Psych2go! Gotta watch the full video! But I know it's gonna be great as always❤ U know, I'm really into Psychology 😉 I love it so much! And your videos got me addicted to it✨ Also, I'm an INFJ. I feel mostly alone all the time...😑 The World needs more people like you!! 🌎 Keep going like this! 😊
Well, my mom works at a furniture packaging company and have an toxic work environment that she survived. My mom is a chirstian and she prays to God to help her deal with her work environment. Her co workers are the toxic ones ( not all but still,) and some put loud music in their speakers during work and what was the solution? She brought her own speaker with Bluetooth and put her loud chirstian music to annoyed her co workers. Since most of them speak English and are Americans, they get annoyed if mom put English-speaking chirstian music but if she puts Spanish-speaking chirstian music, they have no clue what the Spanish lyrics even say. Some of them are lazy and don't do much of the heavy lifting of mirrors and try to talk to my mom's boss but he doesn't care. As for right now, most of them left their jobs. Psych2go, I watch your channel and I use some tips of yours to increase happiness like reading a graphic novel and journaling and diary
I've been wondering if doing one or multiple things too much (like playing video games excessively) can cause difficulties in life.. is it true? Also your videos always are always amazing!
I'm glad you mentioned *the sunk cost fallacy* and I'd like to see a whole video about that. I'd heard of it before but don't think I gave it a lot of thought. I suspect I'm guilty of thinking that way, and that it might affect not just my relationships but also clutter, unfinished projects, and maybe other things I'm not aware of! I guess I mostly want some clues to help me be aware of when I'm using that kind of irrational thinking, so I can more easily let go -- AND/OR -- is there a way to tell when _continuing_ to invest time and effort in a project or thing or relationship might bear fruit? Thanks for considering it.
Thank you. when i got to the last part i answered the question of "What can i change" seeing and looking at my mindset has shown me that i moved from a growth mindset to a fixed mindset by letting my trauma and past experiences shut out anything that could hurt me "change" whether it was good or bad always feels like it will kill me because of what I have experienced and gone through. i want to give a huge thanks to psych2Go for helping me talk to a mental health professional i just need to bring up this in session and see what it will do for me. THANK YOU!!!!!!☺☺
Ususally I find myself so different of people as I find personal interest of knowledge and which students within my highschool have neglected. So I enjoy my time excerising and riding my bike while enjoying classical and metal bands 🗿🍵
You don't happen to have a video on "signs that your friends and family don't actually care when they say they do"? Like does it mean something when a friend hears that you feel depressed and immediately defaults to saying "try antidepressants" instead of trying to help you through it or wanting to talk about it?
0:24 1) Trying to be perfect at anything.
1:21 2) Being stuck in relationships.
2:11 3) Your work environment.
3:10 4) Maintaining a fixed mindset over a Growth Mindset
4:21 5) Spending excessive amounts of time alone
5:30 6) Not Changing
Have a lovely day folks! ❤
Hope you have a lovely day as well! Thank you for the kind words and the time stamps!
@@Psych2go hey any chance you know the name of the song used in this video?
@@Psych2goThank you for these videos
@@Psych2goThese videos really help me
Damn I’m ruining my life
Let's see what i will overthink at 4 in the morning
Same 😅
Same
Same
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Lol so many over thinkers here 🤣☺️
0:24 i just want to be perfect to notice me, and my fam be proud of me at once
#4 hits too close to home for me over the past few years. Because a growth mindset is limitless while a fixed is limited, so reprogram your mind by always striving to broaden your horizons and live the kind of life your future self will benefit greatly from.
1. Trying to be perfect at everything
2. Getting stuck in relationships
3. Your work environment
4. Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset
5. Spending excessive amounts of time alone
6. Not Changing (something such as diet or routine)
Thank you so much for the key points!
@@Psych2go Ahh you replied! I love your videos they always help me to reevaluate myself!! thank YOU
I’ve done all these things. I still feel this way
@@Wxx12 i feel so stuck as of rn, but i keep going because i know everything with come out how i want it to, and i will achieve my goals. I’m trying to be more positive.
You have been helping me for a long time from your channel, I have been suffering from depression and anxiety because of my parents.. and your channel helped me kinda overcome it.. im still trying to escape but your channel gave a huge impact on it.. Thank u for supporting us and helping us ❤❤❤
timestamps to help you out ; i love this video cause it came right after i procrastinated for 4 hours
0:24 trying to be perfect at anything
1:20 getting stuck in relationships
2:12 a positive/negative work environment
3:12 maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset
4:22 spending excessive amounts of time alone
5:32 not changing diet/attitude/habits
Thank you so much for the time stamps! If you don't mind my asking, what were you procrastinating on? 😆😆
Thanks person from the internet😊
Bro not even two points in and I'm already ruining my life
Sammmee i procrastinated for 8years ❤❤❤
@@Psych2go i was procrastinating on holiday homework, specifically my english oral.. i hate doing them because my tone always sounds off 🥲
(a reply from psych2go themselves IM SQUEALING)
thank you to the team at psych2go for always being a steady constant in my life i can rely on
Great video. I can relate to these things. First I think being stuck in a relationship is one way that I stopped socializing outside of the relationship and contributed to being more alone. Meeting new people has helped me see the world differently and realize that I can grow and change. I have been stuck in my ways and routines and falsely assume what I am capable of and my limits. I have done so many things that I thought that I would never do. Mainly watching other groups of people do things like parties, events, concerts, group rides/hikes. I am choosing to be more social with “my people” and am enjoying it. I have come a long way this past 18 months and I have learned to celebrate and savior my growth.
I relate to most of these. For quite a long time, I was in a toxic friendship where the other person stuck me in a cage, not allowing me to change or really be myself - like a flower covered in frost hindering it from blossoming. They then dumped me like a sack of rotten potatoes and I arrived in a very, very dark place.
I’ve been trying to work on myself for a while and especially have been trying to raise my self-esteem.
Good job! I believe in you!
Timestamps
1). Trying to be perfect at anything 0:22
2). Getting stuck in relationships 1:18
3). Your work environment 2:11
4). Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset 3:10
5). Spending excessive amounts of time alone 4:21
6). Not changing 5:30
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Better late than never! Thanks as always!
@@Psych2go not a problem happy to help
You too! A dw! No pressure!!
As a man with Borderline Personality Disorder the last point is crucial to me. With hard work and managing emotions I can change! Thanks for great content psych2go
Timestamps:-
0:24 - Trying to be perfect at anything
1:19 - Getting stuck in relationships
2:12 - Your work environment
3:12 - Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset
4:22 - Spending excessive amounts of time alone
5:31 - Not changing
Hope this helps you! Have a Miraculous day! ✨
This is going to be very helpful! Thank you so much ❤️
@@Psych2go It's my pleasure! 😊❤
"Maintaining fixed mindset over growth mindset"
Yup this one hits me hard
Trying to be perfect. This is something I can relate to. I expect myself to get things right on the first try. And if I don’t, I get so hard on myself. But, I do keep trying the task. I also feel like I should have it all figured out being that I’ve been working on my healing, and I’ve found peace, happiness and joy. So I don’t allow myself to express that I’m sad or anything like that, because I feel like I should have it all figured out. I wonder if perfection can make you limit yourself.
everything that has ruined my life i guess has just become the way it is for me. it doesnt affect me like it used to. i guess ive gone numb.
Number 1 is the thing which I actually relate the most, because I once tried to get perfect at everything, but later I honestly realized it was impossible to be perfect in every way, especially in studies.
I don't plan to build relationships anymore, because I realized 6 months ago that friendships are much better than relationships.
@@koduflower2000i agree ❤
@@erikawithee thanks ❤️
I’m a perfectionist. I practice for ridiculous amounts of time to get better which I do become really good but then I suddenly lose my skills & have to relearn my skill, this causes me to get really angry, I can’t stand not being the best & it hurts my mental health that I can’t stay good at anything. Anything that isn’t my best or better is absolutely unacceptable to me, I will never settle for mediocrity a day in my life
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4)perfectionits 30:03 7:12 7:13 7:14 7:16
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Jope it helps:)
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Well this explains why my therapist is so concerned about me being isolated all the time. But it's going to be a hard habit to break since it's been my whole life basically.
thank you for this! I thought being lonely all the time was fine for me. But now that I watched this video I realized its not good for my mental health. I have socialized more now and it does feel nice!
Thank u again ❤
I have tried so many things to remove the pain of myself and I'm always alone, sad, overly emotional and with conditions I have gone to many doctors for and nothing changes. I even moved to a new country just to have no friends or family. I honestly can't wait for this life to be over with
Me now at my 42s hour of work thats barely paid: Hm Work envronment. Sounds like something I might have.
Its a really harsh world being an architect!
Work environment hit me hard cause no matter how fast i finished my task a new one comes until it builds up. I did like my job cause i want to help my older sister but nothing change at work. My performance is now low and willing to help. Good luck, everyone.
At the young age of 63 I just graduated from Missouri State University. Get my bachelors degree in psychology. My ex is a psychiatrist. You guys are awesome. I love your voice it’s so nice to listen to keep up the good work.
These are the best ❤ i need to share these to help out my friends
That's so thoughtful of you!
The first thing that I need to change spending a lot of time alone. I’ve been like that since I graduated from high school. I was nervous to connect with people irl and I got used to being myself. As of now, I can become an outgoing person and I’m doing better when it comes to interacting with people this year.
I am stuck in a non-satisfactory work environment and am giving up that nothing will change because I wont grow anything in my career. I also just told my doctor to back off the other day because I really cant stand talking with anyone.
I forgot about, or really didnt hear about fixed vs growth mindset. Thanks
I have a fixed mindset. I am aware of the fact that my brain is constantly changing and that's the problem, I am afraid that I was better before and I can't bring it back
Amazing video as always
Sadly I relate to most of these! In a future video, can you make one on what makes people so bad tempered/ irritated by the slightest thing?
I remember when my therapist taught me about fixed and growth mindset that it helped me to be able to move forward as we looked at how to carefully change from fixed to growth mindset.
All these are me. But the ones I relate to the most is I never change my attitude when depressed, I prefer to be alone when depressed, and I want to be perfect. This was also uploaded when I’m feeling the lowest so I relate to it even more.
I spend way too much time alone, but with people being the way they are these days, it's hard to be around them.
I have anxiety now cause I am putting others ahead of myself. Not even looking for a relationship. I need to be working in a healthy environment.
I am sure accepting and tolerating all manner of things go here. Like allowing toxic, immoral, and ignorant people to be around you. A great way to ruin one's outlook in the working and social world.
Love the Lofi girl cameo!
I just wanna say that I realized that when I hang out with people, I need to initiate the hangout all the time and none of my friends actually wants to hang out with me because I'm the only one that's initiate the hang out and even conversations (most of the time) so now I'm thinking if there is even a friend that likes me
I like spending a lot of time alone. It’s refreshing and relaxing.
i am guilty if having a fixed mindset, being lonely most of the time and doing nothing to changing cuz i believ i can't be changed, otherwise i'll lose what makes me "myself". i also feel like i have nothing in commom with my friends which some are religious, some are hard workers and some are adults with either work, family or both. i feel like they're all different compared to me, an alien and a nobody in this crazy world which keeps burning every single day.
Good video, they truly help my mental health. Keep up the good work!
Thanks so mcuh for watching! What did you think of today's topic?
@@Psych2goHonestly, I really liked it. These 6 topics a extremely relatable.
Perfectionism stems from comparing ourselves from others all the time. Everyone has their own time for success you are never left behind...you will get there where you are meant to be...
Thank you for your insight. It's so easy to be impressed or swept up by other people's accomplishments that we end up comparing ourselves to them, which makes us feel jealous or even depressed at our own lack of progress. However, we must understand that our own journey can be just as impressive if we stop comparing ourselves and honor the pace at which we're approacing our own goals.
@@Psych2go yesss thanks!! ❤️
Tell that to my skill regression. I get so good and then suddenly my skill goes away and I have to relearn it all. I’m sick of it and I would sell my soul to have it stop. I should be better than almost everyone I practice close to constantly. This skill regression really hurts my mental health because I pretty much can’t be good at anything. I hate myself, I get so angry at my pathetic underperformance cus I lose my skill suddenly, I even harm myself sometimes cus I get so mad at it & I really hate people who are better than me at things.
What pisses me off even more is no one understands this whole sudden skill loss/skill regression thing because it only happens to me, they think I’m crazy. I can never find an explanation and solution to this bs anywhere. You can go research this but I’ll assure you, you’ll find nothing but inaccurate results & irrelevant information. I believe it’s a curse
Everyone will probably ignore this
@@IDKWHAT2NAMETHISS you're not alone in this, this happens to many people including me. It may be a curse but take it as you get another chance to get more better at it. Maybe this time you will be better than most people. Learn again and again as long as you are alive...
The voices of the narrators on these videos are so calming…
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND KNOW FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING, WELL I HAVE TO GO BACK TO LAY DOWN SO I CAN GET UP AND GO OUT TO KEEP AWAY FROM THE CERAP, INTELL LATER ON MY FRIENDS AND KNOW FAMILY!!! TEE 🙏💯💙💪
Your videos used to help me so much, thank you ✌
Thank you so much for the comment! Did you find today's video relatable?
Thanks for this channel man❤❤❤❤
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I spend a lot of time alone because I’m not really interested in big crowds and I don’t really feel lonely my parents sometimes think I’m shy and not interested but me being alone is because I’m an introvert and as a guy who is a farmer I get really stressed out easily and I feel like I should just walk away from farming because I’m not really interested in it anymore but I try to do what I can do and if I screw up I just keep going no matter how steep the hill is
Fith one hit me hard. I had such a bad past with being alone, I'm terrified to the point of screaming. Usually I'm fine in the day. It's nighttime that scares me.
(Sorry for the mini vent btw TvT)
Did anyone else see the title of this video and think "wow, i didn't know that they're letting my mother write their scripts now"
0:25 trying to be perfect at everything
1:21 getting stuck in relationships
2:12 your work environment
4:21 spending excessive amounts
3:12 maintaining a fixed mindset
5:31 not changing
Nice! Thank you!
That was so fast! Thank you!
Finally. I found you.
@@Psych2goyour welcome
@@Psych2goThanks for the informative videos! 😊
Never thought I’d miss my friends as much as I do. Being an adult is pretty lonely.
Hey! Ive been watching you for a while and I really apreciate you, I really do. Youve helped me figure out why I feel like this or why I do this, not as a diagnosis but being able to try and ask those questions to my doctor if any of that would be a possible explanation of why im doing it. Its been really hard for me lately, and I dont really have anyone to talk to, so coming to youtube or listening to music is really my only way of feeling not so alone.
I dont know if you did a video on this or not, I looked but i could have searched it wrong lol. I was wondering if you could make a video about wanting attention but not wanting attention. Like, sometimes doing things for attention but also other times you hate being noticed, and you hate that you want attention. I have this problem, and a couple of times ive said things that gave me attention because I was feeling alone. It wasnt harmful, just smth like "Oh yeah I did this cool thing" to try and relate with others. But at the same time I hate being the center of attention, it gives me high anxiety and it makes me feel guilty for wanting attention. I dont know if this makes sense, but I hope you know what I mean lol.
I hope you all are doing okay, and im sure you do but i hope you all know that work/self balance, you guys deserve a vacation xp
Your voice is super soothing, and your advice often helps me. I appreciate you a lot. :)
this is free therapy
Ikr lol
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Thank you for the thoughtful comment. It's so sad what's happening in the U.S. 😢
Seems that I'm not doing anything that isn't hard on me.. well except the excess lone time, I'm pretty lonely but that hasn't stopped me from talking to other people and making myself happy. I now know what I shouldn't do or I'll have a harder time in life thanks to this video.
🙋 Don't let validation define you. Be comfortable with your own company. COVID and social media revealed an overdependence on validation.
Hello. Love u guys 😊
Hello. Thanks for the love! ❤️ How are you doing today?
2:01 I know all to well about that. 😓
P.S. I love the new channel logo 🥰
Thanks for ur guidance... Feeling much better
thank you for the insight. i will continue doing nothing as it is physically impossible to change the things that are detrimental to my life.
And thus you’re damned to fail.
@@buggus0034 I guess. Thanks for the affirmation.
@@darkraven951 I genuinely think you could afford the time to sit and figure it out. If you feel hopeless start small. As small as you have to go. It’s uphill until it’s downhill, take it from a college flunky with a 6 figure salary.
For some how i change some mini things in my life like being more open or end toxic relations but for some reason i think i can just try new things like trying not to be that much shy
1, 5 and 6 can be my problems
Notification gang! 🥲💜
I'm trying to change, but my parents don't believe in me. Because of having autism and TBI, they don't see me as being much further beyond being 13 years old mentally, which is ridiculous compared to my real age of 39. I'm trying to change, but they don't want me to and have started using guilt trips of how much they have done and given up for my sake.
Thank you.
Am I the only one who finds comfort in asking questions about reality that need logical answers from decades of studies? 🗿
Others might have pointed this out, but just in case: solitude and loneliness aren’t the same thing. Please consider making a video addressing the difference.
I honestly always tried to be Perfect. I thought about of dark thoughts and sickening ways to not be on this world anymore. I always thought if I never did good then I would be pathetic. I always had Fixed mindset. I always thought I would never improve and just do worse. I would always think “I’ll never be able to do it / I can’t do this / I’m pathetic.”
I always worry about my looks. Thinking I was ugly because I didn’t fit some beauty standards. I got bullied before on social media. People sweared at me and always brought me down.
I still have these thoughts haunting me as it’s behind a happy facade. I try to not think about it often but whenever I’m down it’s all I can think of.
Solitude is something you enjoy being alone, not being with anyone not even mobile otherwise you are still not alone. Solitude is you aee Doing nothing but still enjoying your company
@@eenaya9500 I don’t like doing much things alone. QwQ
I’m a perfectionist who suffers from sudden skill loss or skill regression. Yeah not a good combination. Anything that isn’t my best or better is unacceptable to me. I can’t stand being bad at things
I wanna change something in my life
Trying to be perfect ✅
Being stuck in relationships ✅ (I struggle with boundaries and getting rid of toxic friendships)
Negative work environment ❌ (unemployed)
Maintaining a fixed mindset ❌ (always learning and growing)
Excessive time alone ✅ (I struggle with depression and anxiety)
Not changing ❌✅ (I only struggle with my diet because I live with ARFID)
Hopefully this list will be changing for better!
Good luck!!!
im earlierrrrr but i love your videos so much psych2go!
Thanks for joining us early! Let us know what you think about the video :)
Thank you for showing me this, I really need it
Thank you so much once again, Psych2Go! ☺🤗💖
I am not ruining my life but their are others that are by harassing threatening and stalking me
Oh shoot I just realized that I'm all of these, and I've been trying to change for so long but would always have a difficult time with it
Do you have people in your life that can keep you accountable?
@@Psych2go Only my sister, that's pretty much it
I think I've been doing all of these! At one some point of my life. These video was really helpful. Thank you so much. I've beem feeling a little lost since the start of this year and the advent of turning 30. The advice here has been really useful. I just have to apply it. 😀
Assuming now? Hmmmm. Interesting…
You are indeed correct…😢
This is actually something helpful in my life. Thank u, abd please keep making content. Love y'all!!!
It's easy to have these mindsets and traits if you actually succeed in life. Failures like me who has absolutely nothing, I mean NOTHING, will always be a failure, no matter the mindset. That's just how it is. If I try to think otherwise, others will perceive me as delusional and arrogant. I need to know my place as a worthless peasant
Yes, but 3 of these are physically impossible to change for me. (Either because i like them, or i just cant due to life)
-Your work enviroment
-Spending excessive amounts of time alone
-not changing
Thankyou!! :3
You're welcome!! :3
Yeah! Incredible video Psych2go!
Gotta watch the full video! But I know it's gonna be great as always❤
U know, I'm really into Psychology 😉 I love it so much! And your videos got me addicted to it✨ Also, I'm an INFJ. I feel mostly alone all the time...😑
The World needs more people like you!! 🌎 Keep going like this! 😊
Thank you for sharing your experience with us! And as long as you have us, you're not alone! ❤️ Do you plan to study psychology in the future?
Lol I’m an infp. I’m usually in bed for most of the day and I really need to get out more 😅
@@Psych2go Aww! Thanks ❤
Hmm..I don't know! But I think I will!😅
@@Aidverola oh lol 😂😂
Thank You, how did I not know this? I did
Well, my mom works at a furniture packaging company and have an toxic work environment that she survived. My mom is a chirstian and she prays to God to help her deal with her work environment. Her co workers are the toxic ones ( not all but still,) and some put loud music in their speakers during work and what was the solution? She brought her own speaker with Bluetooth and put her loud chirstian music to annoyed her co workers. Since most of them speak English and are Americans, they get annoyed if mom put English-speaking chirstian music but if she puts Spanish-speaking chirstian music, they have no clue what the Spanish lyrics even say. Some of them are lazy and don't do much of the heavy lifting of mirrors and try to talk to my mom's boss but he doesn't care. As for right now, most of them left their jobs.
Psych2go, I watch your channel and I use some tips of yours to increase happiness like reading a graphic novel and journaling and diary
they appreciate the meaning , i appreciate the animation (its nice)
I've become apathetic. Nothing matters anymore. Not even me. I'm just here, and I will take advantage of it until The Matrix says my time is up.
I've been wondering if doing one or multiple things too much (like playing video games excessively) can cause difficulties in life.. is it true?
Also your videos always are always amazing!
Yes its true
I’ve found living to be the number one cause of my life becoming progressively more and more bleak/ruined tbqh.
I'm glad you mentioned *the sunk cost fallacy* and I'd like to see a whole video about that. I'd heard of it before but don't think I gave it a lot of thought. I suspect I'm guilty of thinking that way, and that it might affect not just my relationships but also clutter, unfinished projects, and maybe other things I'm not aware of!
I guess I mostly want some clues to help me be aware of when I'm using that kind of irrational thinking, so I can more easily let go -- AND/OR -- is there a way to tell when _continuing_ to invest time and effort in a project or thing or relationship might bear fruit? Thanks for considering it.
Unfortunately...I don't think I can do much about the school environment.
Thank you. when i got to the last part i answered the question of "What can i change" seeing and looking at my mindset has shown me that i moved from a growth mindset to a fixed mindset by letting my trauma and past experiences shut out anything that could hurt me "change" whether it was good or bad always feels like it will kill me because of what I have experienced and gone through. i want to give a huge thanks to psych2Go for helping me talk to a mental health professional i just need to bring up this in session and see what it will do for me. THANK YOU!!!!!!☺☺
God loves you 😊❤
Thank you
Great video! Build some knowlegde 💪
Well, I am really long times alone. The Problem here is, even if I am with people I still feel most time alone.
Hey thanks Psych2Go. This is exactly what i needed right now!
Self-compassion💙💙💙
I feel so called out right now, and Psych2Go makes great points.
What a fantastic video have a wonderful day also stay safe
Ususally I find myself so different of people as I find personal interest of knowledge and which students within my highschool have neglected.
So I enjoy my time excerising and riding my bike while enjoying classical and metal bands 🗿🍵
Let's just say I find graduate in finding self-love a meaning up to now, I'll keep to it :)
You don't happen to have a video on "signs that your friends and family don't actually care when they say they do"? Like does it mean something when a friend hears that you feel depressed and immediately defaults to saying "try antidepressants" instead of trying to help you through it or wanting to talk about it?
Yeah thank you for the help, even it happens to all of us even me as a teenager adult or a minor!