Want more life lessons to help you in your personal growth? We also made a video on the signs you might be wasting your life: ua-cam.com/video/i484m71KzNA/v-deo.html Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes to create awareness. This video is not a substitute for professional advice, but for general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and seek professional for help if you're struggling.
Everybody's life is going to fall apart: Current Analysis: (Short Version): * Species stay on this Earth: They all eventually die and go extinct. * Species leave this Earth: They all eventually die and go extinct. (No exceptions at this time).
"The best way to deal with absolute truth reality is to deal with absolute truth reality. And if one is not dealing with absolute truth reality, then one is not dealing with absolute truth reality. Find and deal with absolute truth reality." (OSICA)
Then 6 signs: 1: You are not interested in anything 2: You do not care about yourself or your home 3:You refuse to communicate with others 4: You do not live in the present 5: You keep postponing things 6: You hate your job
I have a video request, which is a pretty personal topic to me. Could you do a video on the "socially frowned upon" and "taboo" symptoms of trauma? The effects people try to hide away and pretend don't exist, try to shove under the rug to fit their "look at this poor pitiful baby" concept of PTSD. Try to make victims of trauma shut up about what we face so they can pretend trauma isn't permanent, and that they've changed a life forever. It would absolutely make me enthused to have someone finally talk about how trauma is complex in that it doesn't cause every sufferer to act like a fawning deer. Some people turn mad, asocial, bitter, and that does not make them some kind of clone of an abuser. Please talk about how trauma can effect your sexuality in the future, how it can break apart your mind and make you feel nauseous about thoughts you cannot control. How even if you weren't sexually abused, it can still make its way to the crevices of your mind. I want people to understand trauma isn't just fear, it can be hate. It's called Ptsd, & stress can be expressed in countless ways, even ways people refuse to acknowledge. I don't ask for anyone to submit to someone who's acting cruel because past trauma, that would be horrible. But I want people to understand that not everyone comes out of an awful experience whimpering like an injured puppy who needs pats, some come out fighting and growling even if they know others just want to help. I want others to understand that much like an aggressive fearful dog, that we will heal if you give us time, space, and understanding. Maybe I'm just rambling though.
I feel like there’s no helping me. I don’t care about this fact anymore, I used to cry about it but now I just take it as a fact. I’ve tried getting help. No one cares. I’d rather think about the past were stuff was actually happy and motivating. Every day is the same.
I know how you feel. And I care, I really do. Nobody deserves to go through this hell hole of negative thoughts. I've been there. If you want to, we can have a chat. It's okay if not though, but take care of yourself, friend.
I hope you have the means to ask for clinical help. 20+ years of depression has ruined many things for me. Don’t let that happen to you if you can help it. I always had the resources I just never believed I was good enough to even be helped. SSRIS have changed my life completely.
We’re all falling apart actually with how this world works, money is like the king nowadays, the school system is stressful/not to mention jobs.. to live in this world, it’s like we’re graded for each of the things we do, if you dont reach/have this in life, you’re most likely be considered too weak/lack of motivation and worst is you’re miserable human being... what a sad world we live in, we dont need more CEOs and companies in this world, we just need to help each other and not measure success through what someone has successfully built, not about the money :(
Well, I know the worse thing we can do is compare ourselves to others or get caught up in focusing on distractions around us whether it's our family, friends, or stuff on tv and social media. Best to focus on the road we're on or wish to be on. But I admit it's hard to turn off the tv sometimes or turn away from that adorable cat video before getting down to work, lol.
@@skywalker6648 These are some of my biggest struggles comparing myself to others and feeling down about my life, and getting stressed out by family and people around me. I'm having a hard time focusing on the road i'm on, though I'm trying to tell myself it's good that I'm taking it one step at a time.
@@cameronvafai4866 Yeah, I know how easy it is to fall into that trap. Maybe it means we need to fill up our own calendars more whether it's with work and/or hobbies in a way that makes us unavailable for all that negative thinking as well as other people trying to stress us out. I guess it takes discipline and is definitely a challenge. Especially, when it seems like it's always something happening to try and distract us from our path!
I think so too and i agree with u on everything . Now i believe that being born and having a life is the greatest curse one can ever have ... also the way world works the way society ... it is just like if cant fix it . Fit in it ... and it is not worth surviving .. I believe and I KNOW . That root cause of 99 % problems of our lives our world is because humans dont have humanity ... the day humans get humanity is the day they will choose to change everything ... and the only thing that stands between humans having humanity is money .. and money gives freedom . Humans just want to consume most of freedom and of pleasure at the expense of everything ....no matter what comes thier way that is exactly what they have been doing since stone age ...
Seems like mostly everyone's life's falling apart. I'm giving big hug for anyone who read this. Thanks for keep trying and not giving up. Despite we are strangers, I really glad you're still here today. Love u guys
I've been avoiding acknowledging that I'm ruining my life, until I watched this video and realised that while I was no longer depressed, I still kept doing the things I did when I was. Thank you for calling me out. I contacted a therapist and am hoping to pull myself out of this mess.
Well, speaking from my heart... You don't always need to care about what happens in your life, it however doesn't give you an excuse to give into the awful parts of life. No matter how bad it is, no matter how much you can't handle it sometimes you just really gotta hold on for the sake of yourself. People like me would say "hold on it will get better! keep going you can do this!" but I personally don't believe in it as much as others. Sometimes it really will just suck and you just gotta keep on sucking till you choke. But that's life being unfair and you're gonna be fighting it even if you can barely throw in a punch. You just need to try, hold on and get ahold of yourself whenever you can. Being okay and the complete opposite of okay is alright, we all have days where life feels like hell. It's hard to try without seeing anything, but you're doing more and gaining than what you can see from your perspective. As long as you are doing something, you're doing great. Sometimes you can't control things and everything is spiraling down, but you just gotta breathe, realise you're falling and make sure you strike a good landing pose. And anyone's feeling down still I hope you realise that even if you can't think of anything that cares about you I do :D. Even if it's meaningless for you. Hope we all have a great day!
1. you are not interested in anything 0:59 2. you do not care about yourself or your home 1:49 3. you refuse to communicate with others 2:28 4. you do not live in the present 3:14 5. you keep postponing things 4:05 6. you hate your job 4:42 I hope I could help! (:
1: Yes, I don’t feel like anything really excites me I don’t have something I look forward to everyday. 2: Maybe, i try to exercise everyday but it’s just feels like a drag, and I push it back to a little before bed. 3: I don’t refuse, i just feel like I’m bad at social interactions and I can’t connect with people. 4: Yes, I always think about the past like everyday probably. 5: Yes, I seem to do things last minute. 6: Yes, don’t want to keep doing it, tired of it but I feel stuck with it Just wanted to throw in my feels on this.
Same. I'm everywhere but the present. My mind is like a washing machine when it comes to how thoughts shift though my meat computer of a brain. I could be doing important shit and be subconsciously thinking of 5 other things I'd rather be doing instead or of things that just amplify my anxiety...
Same ... I have a family , i have responsibilities so i tried my best to improve myself but everyday feels like a struggle for absolutely nothing , every moment feels as if I'm dragging a dead body trying to bring it back to life , I'm tired already
I've actually made a conscious effort to "get my shit together" but I was still curious about this video. Turns out I might've had Anhedonia ever since the start of high school, got over it at 25 with a lot of Jordan Peterson videos and some teeth gritting. Whoever is reading my comment rn I just want to so; you got this, you really do.
@@yaurfeiussystuhncc You got this kid. I'm nearly 40 and my shit isn't together. But I've been diagnosed with Borderline/Emotionally Unstable Personality disorder. Well, my bills are paid, I'm in intensive therapy, I have a part-time job. I have clothes, food and a roof over my head. I have a personal trainer I see once a week since November 2020 ( they keep closing the gyms in London Lockdowns) But I'm literally still sitting in those warning signs since March 2020. On paper I'm adulting but I have zero deep connections, not romantic, not friends, not family made worse by the lovely pandemic. My get up and go has got up and gone. I keep trying but I still get a lot of rejection and suffer from some mysterious fatigue. I'm close to the point of staying in bed and avoiding all social contact that isn't therapy, work or exercise.
Absolutely I have ruined myself. I totally agree, not one but all 6 points mentioned I'm going through. I hope, I would come out of them. God bless me, and all who are in my shoes.
U WILL. We all hv a choice and u know what yes, it does sound very cliche of me to say that. U might say “Winny, u hv no idea what I’m going through” and yes, ur right...I don’t. But tell me this...who is the one who can change ur life? Problems keep on arising in this life, but we will always try to look for solutions. Ur already stronger than u think bc ur being vulnerable and sharing the truth with the world. So thank u for that 🙏❤️ ur amazing Amer. Ur not alone ok?
This assumes that you have friends or family to reach out to...or more specifically, friends or family who have the ability and desire to help you. If you have that, you are very lucky, which means you will be fine.
I was feeling super poopy today so I went for a run, to gym and walked my dog, needless to say I feel much better! Oh, and sat in the sunshine for a while, felt like a nice warm hug.
sometimes i fell my life just stopped in a eternal loop. After my young sister dead, i think the thing get worst, and i think my self: "don´t worry, everything is gonna be alright" and every day i think is nothing is alright. And i don´t have motivation to study
Imo, that's a common feeling, but also a indication that you're meant for more! Try to spend some time looking for things that makes you feel better & motivated and pursue them ☃️☃️☃️
I Hope youll be able REALLY get alright Also idk If you opend Up about this but i think Most teachers would understand that you have No Motivation to study Its totally reasonable
You've got grief kid. Try to see a professional once a week for a year about it and you will bounce back. I'm stuck in the loop but I've got Borderline/Emotionally Unstable Personality disorder with childhood abuse trauma and domestic abuse trauma so I have a lot of work to do to get out of the loop.
My life fell apart a loooong time ago and it never came back but I’m thankful I’m alive. I love life and I take things day by day and my gloves are off I deal with things the best that I can and that’s all I can do.
This hit home with me on every point fortunately, i quit my job two years ago (and i have no fear i can go back in the field at any moment i want it), and during the pandemic i actually started to move in the right direction (i even got accredited in photography, for the sake of it !) Yay for me!
@Aalia Parasar Thank you, besides humble bragging, i also posted this to show that momentum towards better can be achieved, as i already witnessed, and all the small opportunities can be turned into "good luck". I hope everyone gets back on track. Best wishes for you too!
Today was a bad day for me. My bunny died and a pile of stress got on top of me. I isolate myself a lot, social intercations seemed overwhelming and im starting to get more agressive. Anyways stay safe and take care💕
Sorry to learn of your loss. It is never easy to lose a part of your life this way. Know that others can easily understand your loss and wish you peace, strength and good today as well as going forward. Things will get better.
Lol, my cousin told me he went to like dozens of therapists before finding that right one. Now he is doing so much better. He says his new therapist helps him make sense of things in a way he understands. Good luck!
i dont get it, why are so many people depressed? it feels kinda good to see you are not the only one, but in bigger picture it feels so shit that so many are living like this.
Yeah someone told me that life suck..but man, life is already hard since long time ago(no offense)...i think that lotta people just tired being rejected, bullied, harsh victim, etc...so yeah kinda sad knowing that lot of peeps have sum depression and/or anxiety.
Pandemic made it worse?...i thought that pandemic made it better😅...beside stuckin boredom of online school i think less social interaction nowaday surely help some peeps (esp introvert) on their mental health
I belive every person is difficult and have something to give us in life, everyone have role in the world, and it's so sad that there is many people didn't find themself and become depressed and die without we know what they should give into our life. We lost many miracle :/. I hope we can make the world more better and we'll find a way to be less depressed people in the world. A world when everyone can be happy...
@@vcta8313 that's fair. I was thinking more about people who lost their jobs or loved ones, and who don't do well with isolation. And there's been a lot of anxiety about the present/future over this past year, and anxiety tends to go hand in hand with depression. That's basically what I was getting at.
@@Omikkii hey, I don’t know u, but even I don’t want that for u. Life is beautiful. Of course it has its ups and downs, but that’s just part of it. Can u maybe tell me what’s not going right?
@@vcta8313 yeah,.. well, I meant stress, distraction, anxiety and pressure from parents and peer group etc... Emotions students experience in general 🍁
I woke up this morning to an unpleasant phone call then I open my youtube app and see this video... I click on it and just realized my life is almost in complete shambles.... Thanks for the insight 😅 hopefully I get the courage to do something about it
I'm scared because I'm starting to develop Hikikomori tendencies. Everything feels like a meaningless chore or routine (even simply existing), the only relief I can afford myself is the sweet release into the unconscious or when I'm distracted from my own grim reality. It's not like I've given up yet, but the lack of accessible professional help from where I live combined with the my constant incapacity to muster up enough willpower to ask for help makes thing a lot more difficult. I try to constantly keep up my unfazed and stoic facade but it's all starting to fall apart lately. I just wanna be happy, be motivated, be confident, have dreams, goals or ambition, and ultimately feel like an actual complete living being.
This video is the summary of my life of 2/3 years ago. Now, is totally different. For all the people that feel stuck and useless, for all the people that think all is meaningless, please, try to trust yourself and the process. Start with little things, like clean your room. Life is the amount of many little things, and if we start to care about these little things and start to fix them all, once at time, the quality of our lifes will begin to improve. Please, try with little things and try to trust in the process and in yourself. I know is not easy, but it's possible and, I promise, things will get better.
Ever since my junior high school year ended, I feel empty and nothing motivates me. I feel bored everyday. I have someone I like but these days I don't feel it :(( I want to do something but I keep on telling myself "I'll do it later" until I forget about it.
You're very welcome! We hope we can help you. Glad to hear they are so calming. If there are any topics you want us to cover. Feel free to share them with us!
That's all me 😢, especially I just lost my mom and now my brother,all your videos it's all me I need help 🙏 so bad I have a 10 year old son he needs me but not like this,
Am i broken? I hate work. It doesnt matter the job. I just want to stay at home and play games. Not have to worry about money or bills or work and just. My ideal life style doesn't work with how current life is. I feel trapped in system i didn't ask to be a part of, but forced to play a role in.
im no person to be giving advice. i had all of these happen except for the work one because i didn't work then, i was too young to deal with that. But I got through it. Me of all people.TW! I forced myself to eat sleep and drink water even when i felt i didn't deserve anything. I had many weak moments just like everyone else. But we all have this strength in us to keep going, something (a fact or a feeling something anything) that can help us hold on. As simple as the feeling of the sun on your skin, or the taste of coffee or a dream of going somewhere someday. I focused on that, and when i lost love for the things i felt defined me, i held on to the simplest most core feelings. Thats me. Of course not everyone is the same but I hope this is helpful. I hope everyone here can find that home in their mind, make that home in their mind, and when things hit rock bottom, be able to draw strength from it. with much love to you all- random internet person
@@jawad9757 I won’t literally die lol it’s just a joke that’s supposed to mean “guess I’ll just accept that my life will fall apart” which is just a joke
Timestamps 1. You are not interested in anything 0:53 2. You do not care about yourself or your home 1:42 3. You refuse to communicate with others 2:21 4. You do not live in the present 3:07 5. You keep postponing things 3:58 6. You hate your job 4:36
I have Anxiety, Depression, Schizophrenia, ADHD, ADD, Anorexia, POST, Digestive problems, PCOS all at once. It makes me so vulnerable that I literally faint or pass out when I think of something negative. I feel guilty at my mistake a lot of times, once I committed a mistake and I wasn’t educated about that topic and people attacked me sending D34TH THR34TS, false accusations, false rumours which I couldn’t think of. This made me lose hope in life and I started to think about my future like “what if this person exposes me and I won’t have a future” kind of like these thoughts. I’ve been lonely my whole life and I’m the only child in my family. My Mother passed away when I was 13 and My Father lives abroad to make money for our family and I currently live with my aunt. The mistake I made has a big, negative impact on me like I lost meaning in life like I started showing no interest in things I used to do. I always feel guilty to an extend that I feel ashamed of being alive. I really need some encouragement cuz I don’t have anyone around me. This makes me cry every night and since I don’t have anyone to talk to, I always talk to my pillow and my plushies and tell them all my problems and hug them tight and people call me a psycho for this. This matter is literally eating me alive and I haven’t had a peaceful sleep in a long time. I just wanna be a person who could spend my life being successful cuz I’m working very hard for my future despite my mental health and no one really cares about me. I just wanna be a normal person who could help people who are as vulnerable as me. I really was the mood maker and the clown with people around me. I had a bag of chocolates in my bag cuz whenever I saw a child or a person cry, I’d always offer them the chocolates with motivational notes with it. The smile made me happy but deep down I’m so broken to the fact that I haven’t had a peaceful sleep as people still judge me a lot. Please help me
@@MindNow I may sound a little rude or weird while saying this but I am totally fine with the way my life is right now. There is no problem in my life and I don't want to change. I don't know why but I feel more peace when I am away from everything and everyone.
@@abcizz ur not rude at all. Everyone has their own definition of happiness. And if that is what makes u happy then awesome. But I just hope ur not lying to urself that ur happy when in fact deep down u feel miserable. 🙏❤️
0:55 You are not interested in anything. 1:43 You do not care about yourself or your home. 2:22 you refuse to communicate with others. 3:08 you do not live in the present. 3:59 you keep postponing things. 4:37 you hate your job. Hope it'll help you
Guess I scrape(d?) the border of giving up on everything. What held me together is that I need to function for my kids. Got out of an abusive relationship one and a half year ago, fought for almost one year to save them, too, and only recently it started to get better. Honestly: you guys have done a great job saving them and me without ever having seen any of us. And I'm super grateful for your work. Please continue saving people by informing them about the abysses of human minds!
To any people reading this, sometimes in any point of your life, you might feel like any of the things mentioned in this video. It's okay, you don't have to immediately go into a rush mode and writing down on too much goals you need to work on. It's just normal, because our heart and mood always swings up and down throughout our life. Sometimes, the best way we can do is just to accept our feelings. Just put some more effort in your life and you'll be fine. Control what you can control 👍
I truly, truly wish you were correct...unfortunately, when the universe hates you, and you're living life on "Nightmare" difficulty mode, you can put in as much effort as you want, but the universe will use any method possible to block your progress and stop you from achieving success. This is in stark contrast to people living on "Easy" or "Normal" difficulty, where once effort is put in, the universe either allows things to work out or steps in to make sure things work out.
It's fine! If you have a good friend - just try to tell him/her a little bit about your situation and see how he will react to that. Promise yourself that tomorrow you will go to the therapist. And don't shift that "tomorrow" :-) When you will do something of that - you will see that most of your fear was for nothing. Like 90% of it.
@@VengefulPolititron I'm not aligned with Jordan Peterson, I don't need a personality test, and I talk to God, my angels and guides all the time, but thanks.
Thank for these videos, their sorta helping me in my life, my parents are in a divorce and I didn't want to tell anyone but these videos have helped me open up to more people. Thank you so much
Well done. I have been there once years ago. A side effect of steroids I was on for asthma. The worst feeling ever and it lasted a week. I will never forget that week.
Everyday it’s like I’m waking up doing homework and just living and I got done with track a few days ago and it was a huge part of my life and it made me happy and I’ve been in a lot of mental health battles and they’ve ended and tbh Idk where I stand at the moment
I feel bad, helpless, and ....... I feel like life is a lie. I might be an idealist person, but I just wanna be as comfort as I am. Doing things that I don't like makes me feel like, "I have to please them or they'll hate me". And now, I stuck w/ this 6 signs :'( I still can't figure out how to get out from here and this vids kinda help me. At least, Ik that I'm not the only one. Thank u 💙
You know, I relate to your words. I don't know what to tell you, except for you to hang on right now. I'm sure something will come by, that will help you. Anything, to inspire you, to hold you up, to guide you. I care.
I've never watched a video that is so accurate like this ... I used to do all these things from awhile ago but thanks god I finally became better 💗 But this brings back memories and it also makes me realize what was going on and it make me conscious about myself and things I do and how I do it ...I mean I knew I was not fine but these little details was not in mind.. Anyway, thanks for sharing these info with us I love your content so much 😍😍💗
@@MindNow I am coming out it too. I identified my problems and found some creators on UA-cam, spotify who,I feel will help me. Like I had a problem with always thinking about future self and worrying. So I took steps just like they said. Spotify is a really good app for self development. The podcasts are amazing. Please remember to stay within the positive community.
Yup, I have been there a couple of times in my life. "FOR ME", this was the prelude that it was time to make some changes. Certain areas of my life I had outgrown. In my 20's, it was friends, getting serious about a career path and old behaviors that were not working for me. Now in my late 40's. Spent the first 5 years of my 40's numb. Went on 3 year cocoaine binge. Sobered up, and finally came to the realization that it was time for major changes again. Left the rat race of the north east, took different avenues in my career. Got the f**k away from the dysfunctional family ( One more bullshit holiday while wearing a fake smile and I would have gone postal). Am I deliriously happy all the time, NO. But, I am at peace most of the time.
I knew it I would find all the signs relatable but I am trying so hard to practice mindfulness and meditation in these tough times hope I get over this....
I was in serious depression ..I had all these signs ..I would just be in my bed and not even shower...I used to love to draw and do self care....but now I don't care about it..now I don't have any goals
These videos have opened my eyes to a lot of life’s issues. I’ve forwarded them to several people in my life in hopes to help them and I’ve used them to help myself as well. I’ve utilized a counselor for myself I don’t know if my entire life I referred to my counselors as my floating device through life because without them I will drown. I’m one who suffers with anxiety, depression, PTSD and ADHD. So it is imperative for me to stay on top of my mental health and this last year has been the most difficult so thank you for all of your videos
The sad part is all of this applies to me... but i just don’t care anymore Ive become accustomed to how i am and honestly I don’t want to change cuz its just how i feel comfortable with myself
@@MindNow of course not But it feels no matter what i do feels like it never changes it so i just don’t even try anymore. Tbh i haven’t had a good day since late 2017
I had all of the signs, and my life failed apart. After months of misery i think that im coming back and slowly ready to take my life on even higher level than it was before.
I'm depressed and need help, but I'm not allowed to be depressed. I have terrible mood swings, like horrible ones. I have to be active, study, sing and go around my day even though I don't want to, my family pushes me. It's not like I'm furious at them for pushing me, but them pushing me worsens my situation. I can't even cry because my mom, dad or brother may walk in at any time. Sometimes I want to cry, scream and should, but I can't. I feel worthless. Nothing motivates me. It sucks Little updated: I'm going to college this fall, and it turns out that my dad is not paying for anything. He won't even help me take loans. I have no idea where life is going.
Wow I thought it was only me but turned out as it’s not only me, my life was upwards now it’s turning downwards i don’t even wanna mention what the heck happened in my life but Fr it’s really just disappointing and sad…..
too much entertainment or purposely going on learning sprees to distract yourself from your problems. I learned everything in except how to love myself and solve my past
I used to watch this channel just cuz of my curiosity... I still love to watch this.... But in past I used to get amused by some of comments where strangers giving virtual hugs to everyone...i was like Why they need a hug from strangers.... But after facing some ups & downs in my life... I understand how those little & kind comment can heal someone's scar So please take care of yourself, I know you are going through a tough time but you are strong okay! I love you and I am glad that you exist :)
is it just me that finds it extremely hard to talk to people about their feelings and bottle it all up. ive been abused when i was younger and never talked about it to anyone because i feel like im putting my problems on them
Never EVER keep it all to urself. I’m really sorry that u went through what u had to go through. But u need to share it with someone so u feel liberated from it. If it’s not too personal then I’d love to hear it. If it’s very personal then find someone who u hv been friends with for some time and share it with that person, but don’t feel like ur putting ur problems on them.
@@MindNow thank u so much, this makes me feel better about talking to people because my mum always told me not to tell anyone about family things because its only between us.
@@ily6489 reminds me EXACTLY of my mum. But hey, if it’s a good friend then please do because eventually u will realize bottling it up all by urself, it will affect u 😊🙏❤️
Based on these videos, i have found that i am a highly intelligent lonely person, depressed, close to mental collapse, i don´t have healthy habits, I have low self confidence and I am incapable of an intimate relationship ... and i tend to be lonely. what a great person! :D
Want more life lessons to help you in your personal growth? We also made a video on the signs you might be wasting your life: ua-cam.com/video/i484m71KzNA/v-deo.html
Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes to create awareness. This video is not a substitute for professional advice, but for general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and seek professional for help if you're struggling.
I feel like my life was a waste from the beginning, is that bad
I didn’t watch the video yet tho lmfao
Everybody's life is going to fall apart: Current Analysis: (Short Version):
* Species stay on this Earth: They all eventually die and go extinct.
* Species leave this Earth: They all eventually die and go extinct.
(No exceptions at this time).
Yes yes yes
Thank you
I feel like this video was made for me
Can u also make video on how u can change all these habits for good
Some of these I have some I don't
"The best way to deal with absolute truth reality is to deal with absolute truth reality. And if one is not dealing with absolute truth reality, then one is not dealing with absolute truth reality. Find and deal with absolute truth reality." (OSICA)
I have never clicked on a video so anxiously in my whole life
Me too 😢
Same!!!
i immediately stopped moving when i saw that they uploaded this
i was talking to myself about this TT
Same, bro/sis/enby sibling, same
Then 6 signs:
1: You are not interested in anything
2: You do not care about yourself or your home
3:You refuse to communicate with others
4: You do not live in the present
5: You keep postponing things
6: You hate your job
Thx
Damn I was just about to do this lmao
@William Liao it's better to take this as your first step to change for the better :')
So how do we fix this when you're stuck between a rock and hard place?
my life is fcked :D need to fix it real quick-
I have a video request, which is a pretty personal topic to me.
Could you do a video on the "socially frowned upon" and "taboo" symptoms of trauma? The effects people try to hide away and pretend don't exist, try to shove under the rug to fit their "look at this poor pitiful baby" concept of PTSD. Try to make victims of trauma shut up about what we face so they can pretend trauma isn't permanent, and that they've changed a life forever.
It would absolutely make me enthused to have someone finally talk about how trauma is complex in that it doesn't cause every sufferer to act like a fawning deer. Some people turn mad, asocial, bitter, and that does not make them some kind of clone of an abuser.
Please talk about how trauma can effect your sexuality in the future, how it can break apart your mind and make you feel nauseous about thoughts you cannot control. How even if you weren't sexually abused, it can still make its way to the crevices of your mind.
I want people to understand trauma isn't just fear, it can be hate. It's called Ptsd, & stress can be expressed in countless ways, even ways people refuse to acknowledge.
I don't ask for anyone to submit to someone who's acting cruel because past trauma, that would be horrible. But I want people to understand that not everyone comes out of an awful experience whimpering like an injured puppy who needs pats, some come out fighting and growling even if they know others just want to help. I want others to understand that much like an aggressive fearful dog, that we will heal if you give us time, space, and understanding.
Maybe I'm just rambling though.
Dude first
Id like a video on this too
wait this comment was 1 week ago when this video was just uploaded minutes ago
How is this posted a week ago? Are you a time traveler?
Why is it 1 week ago
I feel like there’s no helping me. I don’t care about this fact anymore, I used to cry about it but now I just take it as a fact. I’ve tried getting help. No one cares. I’d rather think about the past were stuff was actually happy and motivating. Every day is the same.
I care Rosejane. Would u mind telling me what ur struggling with?
I am here for you hun. U can also try this site called 7cups if u needed someone regularly to be by your side. Hope u break that sad chain!
I know how you feel. And I care, I really do. Nobody deserves to go through this hell hole of negative thoughts. I've been there. If you want to, we can have a chat. It's okay if not though, but take care of yourself, friend.
I feel the same😭, I need help! And I don't know who will help me😭
I hope you have the means to ask for clinical help. 20+ years of depression has ruined many things for me. Don’t let that happen to you if you can help it. I always had the resources I just never believed I was good enough to even be helped. SSRIS have changed my life completely.
It's sad that more than 135k people are worried about their life falling apart
It's sad that a good chunk of them (myself included) have lives that are actually falling apart.
@@RosieSapphireMusic hope you and everyone else fix whats breaking their lives apart
maybe it needs to
31k
I'm not worried, just remind me of my past time
We’re all falling apart actually with how this world works, money is like the king nowadays, the school system is stressful/not to mention jobs.. to live in this world, it’s like we’re graded for each of the things we do, if you dont reach/have this in life, you’re most likely be considered too weak/lack of motivation and worst is you’re miserable human being... what a sad world we live in, we dont need more CEOs and companies in this world, we just need to help each other and not measure success through what someone has successfully built, not about the money :(
Well, I know the worse thing we can do is compare ourselves to others or get caught up in focusing on distractions around us whether it's our family, friends, or stuff on tv and social media. Best to focus on the road we're on or wish to be on. But I admit it's hard to turn off the tv sometimes or turn away from that adorable cat video before getting down to work, lol.
@@skywalker6648 These are some of my biggest struggles comparing myself to others and feeling down about my life, and getting stressed out by family and people around me. I'm having a hard time focusing on the road i'm on, though I'm trying to tell myself it's good that I'm taking it one step at a time.
@@cameronvafai4866 Yeah, I know how easy it is to fall into that trap. Maybe it means we need to fill up our own calendars more whether it's with work and/or hobbies in a way that makes us unavailable for all that negative thinking as well as other people trying to stress us out. I guess it takes discipline and is definitely a challenge. Especially, when it seems like it's always something happening to try and distract us from our path!
I think so too and i agree with u on everything . Now i believe that being born and having a life is the greatest curse one can ever have ... also the way world works the way society ... it is just like if cant fix it . Fit in it ... and it is not worth surviving .. I believe and I KNOW . That root cause of 99 % problems of our lives our world is because humans dont have humanity ... the day humans get humanity is the day they will choose to change everything ... and the only thing that stands between humans having humanity is money .. and money gives freedom . Humans just want to consume most of freedom and of pleasure at the expense of everything ....no matter what comes thier way that is exactly what they have been doing since stone age ...
My life feels like it's falling apart but I'd rather sit while it crumbles than get out, today was a bad day for me
Why what happened
@@Darklord-xw3eo alot of things happened, but it's fine it was probably my fault as usual
me too, it was really bad day today, sometimes you feel like its easy just to let it happen then to fix it if bad becomes a routine for everyday
literally like the "this is fine" meme
@@shubhanshujain9827 sometimes I believe that if something is wrong with me I might be faking it but my friend tells me that I'm not
ah yes my weekly call out video
Oufff I feel this.
*bold of you to assume my life hasn’t fell apart*
Wait until the day life start to get extremely dull. or the day you lose a close relative.
@@user-iq7mk3gb9w bold of you to assume that hasn’t already happened 🤨
My life has been falling apart for awhile, so I can relate a lot to this video.
Seems like mostly everyone's life's falling apart.
I'm giving big hug for anyone who read this. Thanks for keep trying and not giving up. Despite we are strangers, I really glad you're still here today. Love u guys
Big hugs back! 💙
I've been avoiding acknowledging that I'm ruining my life, until I watched this video and realised that while I was no longer depressed, I still kept doing the things I did when I was. Thank you for calling me out. I contacted a therapist and am hoping to pull myself out of this mess.
how are you now?
The worst part is that I really don’t care at this point anymore
My life will fall apart?Whatever😶
You're cringy af
thing is, i dont even know how to make myself care
Well, speaking from my heart... You don't always need to care about what happens in your life, it however doesn't give you an excuse to give into the awful parts of life. No matter how bad it is, no matter how much you can't handle it sometimes you just really gotta hold on for the sake of yourself.
People like me would say "hold on it will get better! keep going you can do this!" but I personally don't believe in it as much as others. Sometimes it really will just suck and you just gotta keep on sucking till you choke. But that's life being unfair and you're gonna be fighting it even if you can barely throw in a punch.
You just need to try, hold on and get ahold of yourself whenever you can. Being okay and the complete opposite of okay is alright, we all have days where life feels like hell. It's hard to try without seeing anything, but you're doing more and gaining than what you can see from your perspective. As long as you are doing something, you're doing great.
Sometimes you can't control things and everything is spiraling down, but you just gotta breathe, realise you're falling and make sure you strike a good landing pose.
And anyone's feeling down still I hope you realise that even if you can't think of anything that cares about you I do :D. Even if it's meaningless for you.
Hope we all have a great day!
Do u think I do
@@mazualaparte5385 💀💀💀
1. you are not interested in anything 0:59
2. you do not care about yourself or your home 1:49
3. you refuse to communicate with others 2:28
4. you do not live in the present 3:14
5. you keep postponing things 4:05
6. you hate your job 4:42
I hope I could help! (:
Oh ! Hi time traveler !
Hi fellow time travelers
Hi fellow time travelers
@@nakshatramusic21 hiiii!
How are you able to watch this two week ago when the video is just uploaded?
1: Yes, I don’t feel like anything really excites me I don’t have something I look forward to everyday.
2: Maybe, i try to exercise everyday but it’s just feels like a drag, and I push it back to a little before bed.
3: I don’t refuse, i just feel like I’m bad at social interactions and I can’t connect with people.
4: Yes, I always think about the past like everyday probably.
5: Yes, I seem to do things last minute.
6: Yes, don’t want to keep doing it, tired of it but I feel stuck with it
Just wanted to throw in my feels on this.
Me too🙋♀️
Same. I'm everywhere but the present. My mind is like a washing machine when it comes to how thoughts shift though my meat computer of a brain. I could be doing important shit and be subconsciously thinking of 5 other things I'd rather be doing instead or of things that just amplify my anxiety...
Same ... I have a family , i have responsibilities so i tried my best to improve myself but everyday feels like a struggle for absolutely nothing , every moment feels as if I'm dragging a dead body trying to bring it back to life , I'm tired already
My life isn't entirely falling apart but sometimes I feel like I am.
It do be like that sometimes.
For me it's the opposite. I often think my life is falling apart day by day, but sometimes it feels totally fine.
@@afa4766 it's hard to get over...!!❌
Same
Ur never alone! U got this!! 🔥🙏❤️
me too 🥺
I've actually made a conscious effort to "get my shit together" but I was still curious about this video. Turns out I might've had Anhedonia ever since the start of high school, got over it at 25 with a lot of Jordan Peterson videos and some teeth gritting. Whoever is reading my comment rn I just want to so; you got this, you really do.
well im in highschool and i have it lol but anyway good on u for that truly am proud of u for it
Thanks a lot for motivating in the commentsection!
@@yaurfeiussystuhncc Hope youll 'get your Shit together' and feel better soon
@@yaurfeiussystuhncc You got this kid. I'm nearly 40 and my shit isn't together. But I've been diagnosed with Borderline/Emotionally Unstable Personality disorder. Well, my bills are paid, I'm in intensive therapy, I have a part-time job. I have clothes, food and a roof over my head. I have a personal trainer I see once a week since November 2020 ( they keep closing the gyms in London Lockdowns) But I'm literally still sitting in those warning signs since March 2020. On paper I'm adulting but I have zero deep connections, not romantic, not friends, not family made worse by the lovely pandemic. My get up and go has got up and gone. I keep trying but I still get a lot of rejection and suffer from some mysterious fatigue. I'm close to the point of staying in bed and avoiding all social contact that isn't therapy, work or exercise.
May I ask how u went about it? What was ur process? Yes, u said Jordan Peterson videos, but what EXACTLY did u do?
Absolutely I have ruined myself.
I totally agree, not one but all 6 points mentioned I'm going through.
I hope, I would come out of them.
God bless me, and all who are in my shoes.
U WILL. We all hv a choice and u know what yes, it does sound very cliche of me to say that. U might say “Winny, u hv no idea what I’m going through” and yes, ur right...I don’t. But tell me this...who is the one who can change ur life? Problems keep on arising in this life, but we will always try to look for solutions. Ur already stronger than u think bc ur being vulnerable and sharing the truth with the world. So thank u for that 🙏❤️ ur amazing Amer. Ur not alone ok?
Just a random time traveler saying Have a good day! 😃💙
Hey, premium guy!
And you too! :>
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Thx you too! 💚
When isolating, reaching out to friends or family can feel overwhelming. I've noticed that once I've taken action, though, I actually enjoy it.
Understandable hahaha
The problem is i have no one to reach out
This assumes that you have friends or family to reach out to...or more specifically, friends or family who have the ability and desire to help you. If you have that, you are very lucky, which means you will be fine.
I was feeling super poopy today so I went for a run, to gym and walked my dog, needless to say I feel much better! Oh, and sat in the sunshine for a while, felt like a nice warm hug.
Vitamin D and increasing serotonin levels is always good, lol!
Yesss!! Take advantage of these activities because they a lot with our mind 😊🔥❤️
sometimes i fell my life just stopped in a eternal loop. After my young sister dead, i think the thing get worst, and i think my self: "don´t worry, everything is gonna be alright" and every day i think is nothing is alright. And i don´t have motivation to study
Imo, that's a common feeling, but also a indication that you're meant for more! Try to spend some time looking for things that makes you feel better & motivated and pursue them ☃️☃️☃️
Hey what you are going through is normal, and I hope you are able to love yourself and take care. I'm rooting for you ❤️
@@omisha797 thanks :)
I Hope youll be able REALLY get alright
Also idk If you opend Up about this but i think Most teachers would understand that you have No Motivation to study
Its totally reasonable
You've got grief kid. Try to see a professional once a week for a year about it and you will bounce back. I'm stuck in the loop but I've got Borderline/Emotionally Unstable Personality disorder with childhood abuse trauma and domestic abuse trauma so I have a lot of work to do to get out of the loop.
My life fell apart a loooong time ago and it never came back but I’m thankful I’m alive. I love life and I take things day by day and my gloves are off I deal with things the best that I can and that’s all I can do.
That's all you can do sometimes.
This hit home with me on every point
fortunately, i quit my job two years ago (and i have no fear i can go back in the field at any moment i want it), and during the pandemic i actually started to move in the right direction (i even got accredited in photography, for the sake of it !)
Yay for me!
@Aalia Parasar Thank you, besides humble bragging, i also posted this to show that momentum towards better can be achieved, as i already witnessed, and all the small opportunities can be turned into "good luck". I hope everyone gets back on track.
Best wishes for you too!
And done, got a new job ! :)
Today was a bad day for me. My bunny died and a pile of stress got on top of me. I isolate myself a lot, social intercations seemed overwhelming and im starting to get more agressive. Anyways stay safe and take care💕
Sorry to learn of your loss. It is never easy to lose a part of your life this way. Know that others can easily understand your loss and wish you peace, strength and good today as well as going forward. Things will get better.
I am so sorry for ur bunny
I am so sorry about your bunny. Loss of a pet is devastating. Hugs to you from far away.❤
I have like...almost all of these. Yikes. But I’m going to a new therapist now, so hopefully that should help 😌
good luck love
When u are as awesome as yourself, getting better will seem like it's the only choice😗✨✨✨
Lol, my cousin told me he went to like dozens of therapists before finding that right one. Now he is doing so much better. He says his new therapist helps him make sense of things in a way he understands. Good luck!
I wish u only the best Ellie 🙏❤️
good luck m8
i dont get it, why are so many people depressed? it feels kinda good to see you are not the only one, but in bigger picture it feels so shit that so many are living like this.
Yeah someone told me that life suck..but man, life is already hard since long time ago(no offense)...i think that lotta people just tired being rejected, bullied, harsh victim, etc...so yeah kinda sad knowing that lot of peeps have sum depression and/or anxiety.
I honestly think social media is a huge factor in today's rates of depression. Not only that, the pandemic has only made things worse.
Pandemic made it worse?...i thought that pandemic made it better😅...beside stuckin boredom of online school i think less social interaction nowaday surely help some peeps (esp introvert) on their mental health
I belive every person is difficult and have something to give us in life, everyone have role in the world, and it's so sad that there is many people didn't find themself and become depressed and die without we know what they should give into our life. We lost many miracle :/. I hope we can make the world more better and we'll find a way to be less depressed people in the world. A world when everyone can be happy...
@@vcta8313 that's fair. I was thinking more about people who lost their jobs or loved ones, and who don't do well with isolation. And there's been a lot of anxiety about the present/future over this past year, and anxiety tends to go hand in hand with depression. That's basically what I was getting at.
Is it just me or someone else can also find all the points relatable?
You're not alone.
Nah don't worry, I can relate too
Me except the last one cuz I am 19 barely out of high school and far from getting a serious job yet.
Definitely it’s just not you. Many of us are. If only we can connect with each other and save ourselves from the inevitable......
The only one I don't do is refusing to communicate, but the last one is a given since everyone has to go through school
The fact that I apply to all of these and already tried everything to fix these things just shows how crappy my life is
Ur life isn’t crappy. How long hv u been trying?
@@MindNow Over 2years at this point honestly just feel like giving up now
@@Omikkii hey, I don’t know u, but even I don’t want that for u. Life is beautiful. Of course it has its ups and downs, but that’s just part of it. Can u maybe tell me what’s not going right?
@@Omikkii If you can't fix it for so long - go to the therapist.
They are trained to help with that.
Also - there is NOTHING shameful of doing that.
this whole video really called me out. since the pandemic it got worst and i got nobody. i feel confused, pressured, anxious, scared, stuck
The pandemic made things worse for those already feeling these symptoms. Sometimes, I still can't believe we went through this.
Remember that ur not alone V. What do u think u need help with the most and I will try my very best to give u my 2 cents.
Now after I just felt like fixing my life.. I had to click on this video. Such great timing.
A request, Please make something for students regarding time management and how to deal with emotions🍂✨
Omg yes plss
oh.. nice! i need that lol
Uh, maybe you need to be more specific about emotions that you've mentioned
@@vcta8313 yeah,.. well, I meant stress, distraction, anxiety and pressure from parents and peer group etc... Emotions students experience in general 🍁
Thats a nice idea
I woke up this morning to an unpleasant phone call then I open my youtube app and see this video... I click on it and just realized my life is almost in complete shambles.... Thanks for the insight 😅 hopefully I get the courage to do something about it
U WILL get the courage. Why isn’t there a reason to live?
Wasn’t expecting to be featured in this video 🤣😅🥲😢
lol me too 😆😢
I'm scared because I'm starting to develop Hikikomori tendencies. Everything feels like a meaningless chore or routine (even simply existing), the only relief I can afford myself is the sweet release into the unconscious or when I'm distracted from my own grim reality. It's not like I've given up yet, but the lack of accessible professional help from where I live combined with the my constant incapacity to muster up enough willpower to ask for help makes thing a lot more difficult. I try to constantly keep up my unfazed and stoic facade but it's all starting to fall apart lately. I just wanna be happy, be motivated, be confident, have dreams, goals or ambition, and ultimately feel like an actual complete living being.
Yup my life is falling apart as I could relate with everyone of the signs
R u actually doing STH about it? Or r u just letting it happen?
This video is the summary of my life of 2/3 years ago. Now, is totally different.
For all the people that feel stuck and useless, for all the people that think all is meaningless, please, try to trust yourself and the process.
Start with little things, like clean your room. Life is the amount of many little things, and if we start to care about these little things and start to fix them all, once at time, the quality of our lifes will begin to improve.
Please, try with little things and try to trust in the process and in yourself. I know is not easy, but it's possible and, I promise, things will get better.
Who else feels like their day is incomplete without watching his videos💕
dream? are u rael?
@@basvandooren3841 hes fake
same
Imagine being fake. Oh wait, it's this dude!
DREAM?!?!?!
Ever since my junior high school year ended, I feel empty and nothing motivates me. I feel bored everyday. I have someone I like but these days I don't feel it :(( I want to do something but I keep on telling myself "I'll do it later" until I forget about it.
Thank you for every single video...It make me feel good everytime I watch these videos...You really calm me
You're very welcome! We hope we can help you. Glad to hear they are so calming. If there are any topics you want us to cover. Feel free to share them with us!
Can you make a video about how to be confident and how to make good friends and like how to stop being an introvert
I found this, unfortunately, very accurate to describing my life. that's a little painful to admit, and honestly worrisome.
I was like "fuck" when i realized i had the first 4 signs and then as the video continues i actually have all of them and was like "owshi-"
Please this is me-lmfao-
So you have a job?
@@sammuelmccall56789 not really but i do have school works that i have negliged ever since this online class thing started 😣
same
That's all me 😢, especially I just lost my mom and now my brother,all your videos it's all me I need help 🙏 so bad I have a 10 year old son he needs me but not like this,
Well alright then I guess I can check off all the boxes, this is fantastic, finally a test I can get a 100% in.
Am i broken? I hate work. It doesnt matter the job. I just want to stay at home and play games. Not have to worry about money or bills or work and just. My ideal life style doesn't work with how current life is. I feel trapped in system i didn't ask to be a part of, but forced to play a role in.
How dare you post this right as I am having a crisis over how my generation won't have a good future and its falling apart, I hate it here
Why do you hate it here?
im no person to be giving advice. i had all of these happen except for the work one because i didn't work then, i was too young to deal with that. But I got through it. Me of all people.TW! I forced myself to eat sleep and drink water even when i felt i didn't deserve anything. I had many weak moments just like everyone else. But we all have this strength in us to keep going, something (a fact or a feeling something anything) that can help us hold on. As simple as the feeling of the sun on your skin, or the taste of coffee or a dream of going somewhere someday. I focused on that, and when i lost love for the things i felt defined me, i held on to the simplest most core feelings. Thats me. Of course not everyone is the same but I hope this is helpful. I hope everyone here can find that home in their mind, make that home in their mind, and when things hit rock bottom, be able to draw strength from it.
with much love to you all- random internet person
Me having almost all the signs:
*guess i’ll just die then*
No pls don't
@@jawad9757 I won’t literally die lol it’s just a joke that’s supposed to mean “guess I’ll just accept that my life will fall apart” which is just a joke
@@silvieplayz3443 just wanted to say it just on the (increasingly common) off-chance it wasn't
When you've been binge watching for 3 hours and UA-cam recommendation snaps you back to reality.
Timestamps
1. You are not interested in anything 0:53
2. You do not care about yourself or your home 1:42
3. You refuse to communicate with others 2:21
4. You do not live in the present 3:07
5. You keep postponing things 3:58
6. You hate your job 4:36
I have Anxiety, Depression, Schizophrenia, ADHD, ADD, Anorexia, POST, Digestive problems, PCOS all at once. It makes me so vulnerable that I literally faint or pass out when I think of something negative. I feel guilty at my mistake a lot of times, once I committed a mistake and I wasn’t educated about that topic and people attacked me sending D34TH THR34TS, false accusations, false rumours which I couldn’t think of. This made me lose hope in life and I started to think about my future like “what if this person exposes me and I won’t have a future” kind of like these thoughts. I’ve been lonely my whole life and I’m the only child in my family. My Mother passed away when I was 13 and My Father lives abroad to make money for our family and I currently live with my aunt. The mistake I made has a big, negative impact on me like I lost meaning in life like I started showing no interest in things I used to do. I always feel guilty to an extend that I feel ashamed of being alive. I really need some encouragement cuz I don’t have anyone around me. This makes me cry every night and since I don’t have anyone to talk to, I always talk to my pillow and my plushies and tell them all my problems and hug them tight and people call me a psycho for this. This matter is literally eating me alive and I haven’t had a peaceful sleep in a long time. I just wanna be a person who could spend my life being successful cuz I’m working very hard for my future despite my mental health and no one really cares about me. I just wanna be a normal person who could help people who are as vulnerable as me. I really was the mood maker and the clown with people around me. I had a bag of chocolates in my bag cuz whenever I saw a child or a person cry, I’d always offer them the chocolates with motivational notes with it. The smile made me happy but deep down I’m so broken to the fact that I haven’t had a peaceful sleep as people still judge me a lot. Please help me
Oh my gosh! I relate to all these facts. I'm kinda both glad and worried that my life might fall apart
It won’t. Don’t be pessimistic and try ur best to find solutions for ur life.
@@MindNow I may sound a little rude or weird while saying this but I am totally fine with the way my life is right now. There is no problem in my life and I don't want to change. I don't know why but I feel more peace when I am away from everything and everyone.
@@abcizz ur not rude at all. Everyone has their own definition of happiness. And if that is what makes u happy then awesome. But I just hope ur not lying to urself that ur happy when in fact deep down u feel miserable. 🙏❤️
@@MindNow I don't even feel anything now so the question of feeling miserable or happy does not arise .
@@abcizz just keep going and embracing it and eventually u will get there 🙏❤️
I have all signs ..........and it is time for me to wake up ......
Ooh!! I love the colors so much! And the animation is very cinematic! Has a game/ movie feel i love it!
Thank you for your feedback :) glad you like it!
Can depressingly relate. I clean my room time to time is my only good one.
My life is already crumbling apart-
Let's hope it'll get better at some point in the future.
0:55 You are not interested in anything.
1:43 You do not care about yourself or your home.
2:22 you refuse to communicate with others.
3:08 you do not live in the present.
3:59 you keep postponing things.
4:37 you hate your job.
Hope it'll help you
I can't rely on others, also I don't like to be around most people.
So relatable.
me2 I'm introverted
@@flynntime-bs7194 me too and also hard core avoiding personality type.
Usually these videos are pretty softcore tidbits, but this one kinda sorta helped me live my best life.
This hit to much to home
It pretty much described my life so far...
Guess I scrape(d?) the border of giving up on everything. What held me together is that I need to function for my kids.
Got out of an abusive relationship one and a half year ago, fought for almost one year to save them, too, and only recently it started to get better.
Honestly: you guys have done a great job saving them and me without ever having seen any of us. And I'm super grateful for your work. Please continue saving people by informing them about the abysses of human minds!
To the 1% reading this:
U are worth it. U are a fantastic person and a beautiful person, inside and outside. Have a good day💗
You too!!
this video couples well with the feeling of dread and doom that can come with anxiety and depression...another good title.
To any people reading this, sometimes in any point of your life, you might feel like any of the things mentioned in this video. It's okay, you don't have to immediately go into a rush mode and writing down on too much goals you need to work on. It's just normal, because our heart and mood always swings up and down throughout our life. Sometimes, the best way we can do is just to accept our feelings. Just put some more effort in your life and you'll be fine. Control what you can control 👍
I truly, truly wish you were correct...unfortunately, when the universe hates you, and you're living life on "Nightmare" difficulty mode, you can put in as much effort as you want, but the universe will use any method possible to block your progress and stop you from achieving success.
This is in stark contrast to people living on "Easy" or "Normal" difficulty, where once effort is put in, the universe either allows things to work out or steps in to make sure things work out.
These videos show me how much I need therapy or to tell someone about my feelings but I’m scared
It's fine!
If you have a good friend - just try to tell him/her a little bit about your situation and see how he will react to that.
Promise yourself that tomorrow you will go to the therapist. And don't shift that "tomorrow" :-)
When you will do something of that - you will see that most of your fear was for nothing. Like 90% of it.
Your voice is so calming. Keep on going, i love ur vids
Thank you so much!
Ur pfp what true art it is
I'm so appreciative of your videos! No matter the criticism, you do help. Thank You!
Well, it's official. My life has been falling apart for *years* . 😭😭😭
take a personality test watch Jordan Peterson videos and talk to God
@@VengefulPolititron I'm not aligned with Jordan Peterson, I don't need a personality test, and I talk to God, my angels and guides all the time, but thanks.
@@jademusic1211
don't to guides or angels.
it'll end badly.
Thank for these videos, their sorta helping me in my life, my parents are in a divorce and I didn't want to tell anyone but these videos have helped me open up to more people. Thank you so much
ME REALIZING THAT I HAVE BEEN EXPERIENCING ALL THE SIGNS:
I... AM... JUST... GONNA... PRETEND... I... DIDN'T... SEE... THAT...
👁️💧👄💧👁️
Me too
Me, three. But there is hope. We can all get out of this feeling. There will be good days. Hugs to all
Well done. I have been there once years ago. A side effect of steroids I was on for asthma. The worst feeling ever and it lasted a week. I will never forget that week.
Everyday it’s like I’m waking up doing homework and just living and I got done with track a few days ago and it was a huge part of my life and it made me happy and I’ve been in a lot of mental health battles and they’ve ended and tbh Idk where I stand at the moment
Embrace it. Don’t runaway from it and one day u will get to the solutions Avixiette.
I feel bad, helpless, and ....... I feel like life is a lie. I might be an idealist person, but I just wanna be as comfort as I am. Doing things that I don't like makes me feel like, "I have to please them or they'll hate me". And now, I stuck w/ this 6 signs :'( I still can't figure out how to get out from here and this vids kinda help me. At least, Ik that I'm not the only one. Thank u 💙
You know, I relate to your words. I don't know what to tell you, except for you to hang on right now. I'm sure something will come by, that will help you. Anything, to inspire you, to hold you up, to guide you. I care.
@@zairamatt7308 And I cant say nothing too except thank u :'( That means a lot for me since everyone just neglecting me T^T
I've never watched a video that is so accurate like this ...
I used to do all these things from awhile ago but thanks god I finally became better 💗
But this brings back memories and it also makes me realize what was going on and it make me conscious about myself and things I do and how I do it ...I mean I knew I was not fine but these little details was not in mind..
Anyway, thanks for sharing these info with us I love your content so much 😍😍💗
May I ask how u got over it? What’s ur process?
@@MindNow I am coming out it too. I identified my problems and found some creators on UA-cam, spotify who,I feel will help me. Like I had a problem with always thinking about future self and worrying. So I took steps just like they said. Spotify is a really good app for self development. The podcasts are amazing. Please remember to stay within the positive community.
Yup, I have been there a couple of times in my life. "FOR ME", this was the prelude that it was time to make some changes. Certain areas of my life I had outgrown. In my 20's, it was friends, getting serious about a career path and old behaviors that were not working for me. Now in my late 40's. Spent the first 5 years of my 40's numb. Went on 3 year cocoaine binge. Sobered up, and finally came to the realization that it was time for major changes again. Left the rat race of the north east, took different avenues in my career. Got the f**k away from the dysfunctional family ( One more bullshit holiday while wearing a fake smile and I would have gone postal). Am I deliriously happy all the time, NO. But, I am at peace most of the time.
Feeling sad that everything is relatable.
R u giving up? Or r u looking for solutions?
I knew it I would find all the signs relatable but I am trying so hard to practice mindfulness and meditation in these tough times hope I get over this....
To get over it. EMBRACE it. That is what mindfulness meditation is about 😊
I was in serious depression ..I had all these signs ..I would just be in my bed and not even shower...I used to love to draw and do self care....but now I don't care about it..now I don't have any goals
Sounds like me
@@oo-rn3ec hope ur doing well
My advise would be - start drawing again.
Just for yourself. Or maybe even for no reason at all :-)
@@igorthelight thx ..I am trying to put myself together but..I don't feel that enjoyment i used to get but still doing my best 😄
@@goingcreative5020 I think you will get better :-)
These videos have opened my eyes to a lot of life’s issues. I’ve forwarded them to several people in my life in hopes to help them and I’ve used them to help myself as well. I’ve utilized a counselor for myself I don’t know if my entire life I referred to my counselors as my floating device through life because without them I will drown. I’m one who suffers with anxiety, depression, PTSD and ADHD. So it is imperative for me to stay on top of my mental health and this last year has been the most difficult so thank you for all of your videos
5: You keep postponing things
This is 100% me.
Aside from that the rest don't really apply to me though, I just procrastinate a lot.
The sad part is all of this applies to me... but i just don’t care anymore
Ive become accustomed to how i am and honestly I don’t want to change cuz its just how i feel comfortable with myself
Ok, the only question is...r u happy with it?
@@MindNow of course not
But it feels no matter what i do feels like it never changes it so i just don’t even try anymore.
Tbh i haven’t had a good day since late 2017
@@IcyHalo do u hv good friends that u can surround urself with??
Psych2go: how many of these habits do you have?
Me: yes
I had all of the signs, and my life failed apart. After months of misery i think that im coming back and slowly ready to take my life on even higher level than it was before.
I hate cleaning and I've accepted the fact my things will always be messy,
Same omg
Kinda the Same lol
Bae come live in my trash heap , and press your cigarette on my tongue, wake up with your phone and lipstick pressed in to my back
I'm depressed and need help, but I'm not allowed to be depressed. I have terrible mood swings, like horrible ones. I have to be active, study, sing and go around my day even though I don't want to, my family pushes me. It's not like I'm furious at them for pushing me, but them pushing me worsens my situation. I can't even cry because my mom, dad or brother may walk in at any time. Sometimes I want to cry, scream and should, but I can't. I feel worthless. Nothing motivates me. It sucks
Little updated: I'm going to college this fall, and it turns out that my dad is not paying for anything. He won't even help me take loans. I have no idea where life is going.
My life will not fall apart in Jesus name.🙏🏽
Wow I thought it was only me but turned out as it’s not only me, my life was upwards now it’s turning downwards i don’t even wanna mention what the heck happened in my life but Fr it’s really just disappointing and sad…..
As soon as I saw the title, I just HAD to click
Same
Everyone ‘s life falls apart from time to time. It’s inevitable. The key is to never stop rebuilding.
Also beware of self-sabotage and self-destructive tendencies because those can manifest themselves in lack of grooming or living in trash
too much entertainment or purposely going on learning sprees to distract yourself from your problems.
I learned everything in except how to love myself and solve my past
I used to watch this channel just cuz of my curiosity... I still love to watch this.... But in past I used to get amused by some of comments where strangers giving virtual hugs to everyone...i was like Why they need a hug from strangers.... But after facing some ups & downs in my life... I understand how those little & kind comment can heal someone's scar
So please take care of yourself, I know you are going through a tough time but you are strong okay! I love you and I am glad that you exist :)
is it just me that finds it extremely hard to talk to people about their feelings and bottle it all up. ive been abused when i was younger and never talked about it to anyone because i feel like im putting my problems on them
Never EVER keep it all to urself. I’m really sorry that u went through what u had to go through. But u need to share it with someone so u feel liberated from it. If it’s not too personal then I’d love to hear it. If it’s very personal then find someone who u hv been friends with for some time and share it with that person, but don’t feel like ur putting ur problems on them.
@@MindNow thank u so much, this makes me feel better about talking to people because my mum always told me not to tell anyone about family things because its only between us.
@@ily6489 reminds me EXACTLY of my mum. But hey, if it’s a good friend then please do because eventually u will realize bottling it up all by urself, it will affect u 😊🙏❤️
Thanks for telling! My life IS falling apart :)
I'm here to spread some peace. I hope you are doing well! Have a nice day :) please read my description!
Thanks fellow time traveler, see you in the year 2050
her voice and drawing is so adorable i cant- also thank u for making this video- i was searching for one
Oh no looks like my life is going to tear apart 😀👌
Based on these videos, i have found that i am a highly intelligent lonely person, depressed, close to mental collapse, i don´t have healthy habits, I have low self confidence and I am incapable of an intimate relationship ... and i tend to be lonely. what a great person! :D
This is one of the signs. Yup, there's no hope for me.
How come u say there’s no hope? Do u feel like giving up?
I feel it too, no one helps me, I can't ask😭
Remember: while you are alive - you CAN change things!
Thanks for adding Hindi (हिंदी) subtitles, you don't know by doing this how many people would be benefited. Thank you again, god bless you.