Same here. My dad was always there for me physically and financially, but the only way he knew how to communicate was through anger with yelling and put downs. If I was a jerk, I would be jealous. Fortunately, I'm not, and it's really touching when Bruce selflessly gives his son the credit he deserves.
My dad was also an unassuming addict. He was a home owning, tax paying, veteran with steady employment who also had a cocaine addiction. He died 3 years ago when he unknowingly did coke laced with fentanyl. Im sure this guy felt like his life was over but I promise him his family would rather see him in jail than in the morgue. Also, you made me cry tears of relief when you said that the death is a peaceful death. I've never wanted to look that up because I was afraid if the answer. I've spent 3 years wondering if my dad was scared and struggling in those last moments and realized the horrible mistake that had happened. I trust in your experience you are correct and will hold on to that because it truly healed my soul just a little.
Desi, can confirm what Bruce said: it is a peaceful death. Probably the most peaceful. I hope it doesn't hurt, but your Dad was there one minute and gone the next. I'm sorry you lost him, but no, he didn't suffer.
I know how you feel and how hard it is not knowing if a loved one went peacefully or not and I've been frequently preoccupied by those same thoughts when my dad's body was found in a dam on my birthday. We didn't even know he was missing because we thought it was at rehab and unfortunately there are mysterious circumstances and the case is still open but we have no idea exactly what day he died since he was last seen on surveillance camera from a gas station buying food to bring with him for rehab and since that was almost 11pm we don't know what day he actually died on because it could've been before or even after midnight. All we know was his body floated fully clothed down the river for a week before he was found in fishway gates at the dam and his cause of death was drowning. It's haunting not knowing if he was lucky enough to go peacefully or fighting for his life while drowning 😢 we have 2days that I mourn his possible death date, then grieve the entire week he was in the water and grieve again on my birthday for the day he was found. The year I was born my birthday happened to fall on father's day which happens every so often years and it's the same way this year. I truly wish you the best in life as you continue on and my thoughts and prayers are with you and we don't know each other but if you need someone to talk with just reply and let me know and I'll give you my email or something. Take care
@@TheFearsomeCrabcat I’m so very sorry that you lost your father this way. We never “get over” it, we just learn how to deal with it, to tamp it down. I think of it as a stiletto embedded next to my heart. After all these years, it just rests there silently, until periodically it suddenly twists and turns, and I have to be alone and cry, as I was conditioned since childhood to not cry in front of other people.
@@jujubean54ify thank you very much and I agree with everything you said especially what you said about never getting over it. I was taught that I shouldn't cry in front of people as well and also when I have experienced great loss such as my dad or another 9 close relatives in a 15&1/2month span of time 4 of whom had cancer and I helped care for them, I've been told by people that time heals all wounds and that I should get over it and it'll get better. When I know someone who has just experienced a loss and reach out sometimes I tell them about it and I tell them that I wish I could tell them honestly that it'll get better and that time heals all wounds but I refuse to lie to them as some have lied to me and so far I have been thanked for my brutal honesty and am usually the first person they contact when they need to talk or cry or scream and don so they don't always feel alone because it truly never goes away. I don't think it ever could. The way you described it is so accurate and well-written by the way, good job! I get the impression that you have experienced great loss as well and as I offered to the other person as well, if you ever need to talk or vent I'm here for you also. My thoughts and prayers are with you as well. Take care
Lemme jus tell ya, us addicts are EVERYWHERE. We’re your nurses, your managers, your stay at home mothers, your bank tellers, your COUNCILMEN. Addiction doesn’t care about your status in the world. Thank god I have been sober going on 6 years, but there is no FACE for addiction. It can take anyone. I pray this man gets his life together.
Exactly. And he said they dont think rational Thats absolutely right. When i was stealing my mothers belongings for cash and stealing money from my brother, it was more important for me to be okay for one night than my entire family relationship. Now as a sober man, I can’t believe how intensely addiction affects your brain.
Preach! They think we are all pan handling dirty dingy people but there’s a lot of us who are functioning or high functioning addicts with ability to fund our addiction. But we usually have some unresolved trauma or rationalize are usage by saying things like “people drink all the time, why can’t I do drugs as long as I’m responsible” which can be true but usually we are killing ourselves or hurting loved ones.
I am a nurse. I also was a heroin addict for 7yrs. High functioning, clean house, owned that home, and I’m a mother. I have a drug charge. I was also able to get clean for 10 yrs now, keep my nursing license and rebuild my whole life. Addiction is a beast not to be fucked with. Thank you for this video ❤
I’m an RN with 36 years sober. I helped addicts and alcoholics with multiple co-morbid illnesses and mental health disorders. Clean addicts are good at helping other addicts, also, especially in health care situation, addiction in nursing is much more prevalent than people realize.
@@juancaminante8078I’m a Mom & still fighting my addiction. I hope that someday, I can be proud to share how many days I’ve been clean too. I very much look up to people who’ve gotten clean, I know how hard it is, & everyone who has had months & years, I’m proud of you.
I was arrested for DUI and after getting booked, as the officer was leaving the jail, I thanked him. I have been sober 36 years...from that day to this.
One of the most important things to do is *NEVER* get complacent. Go to the meetings available for your either alcoholism or other addiction...go to the ones that cater to your problem, take suggestions about how to get and keep your life on track. Help others who need help.
I have no problem with giving anyone a second chance at employment and understand that nobody asks to relapse, but when someone is working as a councilman, they should be higher standard. They are letting everyone down.
Not to defend him but we don't know the situation of his divorce... if he was a previous addict and his kids are taken away i can see how he went back. I hope he gets help and never touches this shit again. I used to love my new years parties, but with fentanyl now being a thing. NOPE! you can't even trust cocaine.
This comment is absurd. Higher standard? The law should apply equally to ALL people. The moment you have different standards thats when you are completely wrong.
I just want to say this, to anyone who might go through a relapse: DO NOT try to do as much as you used to do, ESPECIALLY something like heroin, crack, coke, anything of a dangerous nature like this. Probably the most common form of OD is when someone relapses after not taking it for a long time, and trying to do the amount they no longer have a tolerance for. Obviously, I don't encourage someone relapsing into stuff like this, you should stay sober, but if this advice helps save a life, I'll be happy.
I commented above about my childhood best friend getting outta rehab & dying from an OD that same day. He was dead before he even got the tourniquet & needle out of his arm. Absolutely devastating.
You are 💯 correct!! I lost many friends who have made that common mistake. Your tolerance level to those drugs has greatly diminished and your body can NOT handle that same amount anymore. 🧡
@@paulbob234 It's especially sad to me that people will die like this. It takes strength to quit, and sometimes people falter. They could have been clean for 10 years, but one night of relapse, and they're immortalized as a junkie forever. Nobody ever thinks about the strength they had to have to get clean and get their act together, they just think about that one night their strength faltered. It's not right.
Thank you for sharing ❤ harm reduction is SO important. It doesn't mean we're encouraging people to use, we are just telling them to be as safe as possible when they use. Because the unfortunate reality is that people will use either way. But harm reduction saves lives. Telling people how to use safely saves lives. So don't ever feel like you're encouraging drug use by informing people of how to be safe.
My brother died from crack cocaine that had fentanyl in it. He fell asleep and then stop breathing. I’m so glad this guy got help. It’s not worth losing your life over a high.
@@noraashalo6282 I’m sorry for your loss. My brother died in June 3 years ago 4 days after my birthday. That fentanyl is some really really bad and it’s killing a lot of people
Or more likely they set out to speed ball..crack and meth dealers DONT GET REPEAT biz if they.put drugs together that cancel each other out in ways. It's way more common for people to speed ball than for dealers to cut uppers with downers..because most their customers don't want to be sedated and repeat biz is the ONLY way to deal drugs. It's very common however for users to use street Rx pills to come down from the speed/coke/crack and most pills on the street are just fake fent knock offs now. So I feel your pain, but I think you misinterpreted events due to drug users not being that open about how and what they use. I have an extensive history with first being an addict and now spreading awareness of the dangers of drugs now. It's dangerous to spread misinformation because you wouldn't believe how many addicts think pills are safe and the fent is in powder drugs. Heroin is what they cut with fent..
The way you honor your son is priceless. I'm estranged from my father. He abused me emotionally as an adult and physically as a child. I would give anything for a relationship like you have with your son
Maybe someday you'll have a son and you can have that kind of relationship with him. It's not the same as having the father you deserved, but being that farther for someone would be gratifying and healing in its own way
I always love how you talk about your son it's so refreshing to hear a father that is unashamed to share how proud they are of their child it makes me happy
As a person who has been clean from hard drugs myself for almost 7 yrs, I think that he should be sent to rehab, but barred from serving in public office ever again. I understand better than anyone the struggles of addiction, but there needs to be a higher standard for our elected officials. I'm just extremely thankful that I got out of the dope game before everything started getting laced with Fentanyl. Also, BRUCE I implore you to research the truth about cops and getting exposed to "fentanyl" in the field. It is NOT possible to absorb Fentanyl through skin contact just from touching the powder. The cops perpetuate that narrative in order to create sympathy or fear or whatever, and all the videos you see online are really just uninformed/uneducated officers suffering from panick attacks. Psychosematic symptoms can create just as real a reaction as actual chemicals. It's pretty extraordinary actually. Cops have plenty of risks that they deal with, but on the spot exposure to Fentanyl is complete nonsense. Just trying to get the truth out there.
Hopefully he did go to rehab after jail, maybe even as a part of his sentencing. Sober 8+ years now and that’s what it took for me (flipping my car while DUI, not smoking crack, but same dog, different leg..) just wish him the best. Props to the Major that gave him the stern talk he needed and I just hope he listened!
Thank you,I was going to say the exact same thing,why to police create such fear by saying this things. You are correct 💯 fentanyl cannot be absorbed through the skin.
Actually the officer was insinuating that if he didn’t have the body camera on he would have let him go. Listen carefully how he say it and repeat it. You know I have a body camera on and it seen everything I seen so I have to document it.
Sadly this is American not Germany.. 😂 prison system here in America is literally a fking cooperate interpreter.. it makes insane money locking ppl up.. not only that unlike Germany.. America has a bail bonds system that literally exist to target ppl who get out an catch them slip to throw them back in… after most ppl aren’t aware that inmates make good cheap to free labor producing a woooping 11billion dollars worth of goods and services in 2022 I believe all for Pennys or “reduced time” on “good behavior”. massive turn over of like 74bil since war of drugs started.. 😂 and it’s US THE TAX PAYERS footing the bill… fyi Walmart McDonald’s and 100s of companies btw exploit this .. 💀 American prison system is objectively the most evil shit in the western world… it even outperforms trash dictatorships of the world as it’s literally better at exploiting ppl then them.. 😂 MONEY… most ppl in jail and prisons aren’t even violent offenders… that insane.. not only that all inmates regardless of violent or non violent crimes.. are forced into raw survival mode as prisons btw literally EGREGIOUSLY violate most constitutional rights still afforded to humans as inmates.. and you the public (not you personally) are brainwashed with this view of retribution/revenge so it’s ignored and ok to most ppl… as they say “how a ppl treats their inmates is reflective of how they treat each other” so blacks.. women.. gays.. homeless.. poor.. mental ill.. handicapped.. veterans.. addicts.. even pedos who aren’t sex offenders get treated like criminals.. btw that’s why most ppl with clinical pedofilia don’t seek help cause if how you the ppl will treat them.. so they don’t get help and eventually they ACT.. they coulda got help and this high chance it would have never happened but it’s enabled by society demonizing views … u get the point 😂.. btw I emphasize on pedos because it’s the best example of how ppl will outright cherry-pick and close their ears to basic logic and rational thinking in favor of emotional ideological beliefs… as with all the groups I listed… Americans are nothing more the resources for their own prisons systems… im not Republican nor democratic.. I hate all parties… why does no part ever fking address out prisons system??!! It’s fking EVIL.. im athiest and don’t believe in “good” or “evil” persay so i don’t use that word lightly… this shits EVIL 😂😂
they don’t deserve to be mocked and laughed at either by this lame lawyer. Addiction stems from trauma it’s literally just an attempt to stop suffering.
Imagine being a ridiculously successful criminal lawyer and on the side having a social media platform that would make any normal person rich and you can leverage your sons talents to grow the platform and work together?? You two are literally living the dream!
Gotta say Bruce Rivers, your comments on, " sometimes it just gets ahold of people and won't let go," and," it takes your money,your freedom,and your health," along with," if it weren't for drugs I wouldn't have a job," are some of the best, honest, to the point comments ever stated by a person with more experience dealing with addicts than a counselor or a cop. Appreciate your perspective. Very bipartisan view, which is why I like your channel.
I've been in that situation so many times. Passed out in my car with a needle in my arm and drugs all over my lap. It sucks being in stuck in thay kind of lifestyle. Luckily for me I'm coming up on one and a half years clean next month, and have no desire to return to using. I've found that what has helped me the most to stay clean is putting all the money that would have gone to drugs into an investment portfolio and keep track of all the money on paper. It helps with redirecting all the mental energy I used to put into figuring out how to get high, plus it really puts into perspective all the money I would have wasted on getting my fix everyday. In just 1.5 years I've put away almost 20k. It's insane.
Congratulations and keep up the good work. Don't forget your lowest moments and darkest days! We need those as a reminder of where we came from. Keep working everyday, our fight is never over.
It’s nice to see how positive and supportive you are of your son. It’s sad to see the councilman’s drug habit ruin his life. Addiction isn’t uncommon or an indictment of someone’s character. Its a sad way to live.
My god, thank you for telling it like it is. People are so comfortable laughing/judging crackheads on the streets, but dump sympathy on those wearing ties. The treatment should not differ, and the fact that it does is very telling.
An early Happy Father's Day to you, Bruce. No matter how old our children get they need to be told we love them and are proud of them. Love the work you and Michael do. Thank you both.
I feel sorry for all the less influential people who didn't get to go to rehab and be treated with such apologetic sympathy, and respect. The same fear that cops are spreading about fentanyl killing people through skin contact is the same type of nonsense they used to spread fear of marijuana. If it were true, there would be millions dead from manufacture, delivery and everyone using. There would be no one left to make it, sell it, or use it.
Drug diversion programs are extremely common regardless of the defendant. Whether illegal drugs are dangerous in themselves as well as injected, smoked or injected I have no need to know. So you’d rather these guys take a chance?
Fentanyl absolutely can kill through skin contact. In fact, a frequent way it's administered is through transdermal skin patches. And given just how little it takes to OD - it's measure in millionths of a gram - it's no surprise that a small amount is all it takes. Tens of thousands are dying of it every year. The "Reefer Madness" days ended are a long time ago. Before you were born methinks.
yeah this seems so heartwarming cause the cops are being nice but unfortunately its just an example of what can be wrong with cops. They should treat everyone with respect and compassion
@@HanTheProphet EXACTLY!!! if this guy had been wearing a white wife beater t shirt, athletic shorts and had some tattoos, these cops would have pulled him out of the car, yanking him awake and throwing him onto the ground to get him in cuffs asap.
Thank you Bruce. I just woke up and this is the first video I’ve seen today. I’ve been clean for 4 days. Hopefully I can make it a week and then a month and then hopefully a year. God bless everyone
You crack me up Bruce! “Whenever I hold a crack pipe I get sleep apnea” 😂 My dad always told us the horror stories of the effects of drugs on the brain. We were terrified we’d have flashbacks 20 years down the road like he told us. It worked! Not one of us 4 girls ever tried anything harder than smoked a little weed.
Yes, the best way for people to be responsibly informed on a matter is by being conditioned with hyperbolic exaggerations and misinformation to create a paranoid fear leading to avoidance. Sounds very healthy. Meanwhile cops are blaming panic attacks on contact with fentanyl for exactly the same reasons. Also you shouldn't masturbate because you'll go blind and vaginas have teeth.
@@pistolpete8231 right? It scared us away from ever using. I didn’t want to take that kind of risk and ruin my brain. Of course as an adult I know it isn’t true but his words worked. He had 4 daughters that stayed away from ever using.
Of course the officer was "empathetic, truthful, but firm", he has to arrest a white councilman with powerful republicans behind him. The officer could be fired for this, and he knows this. As the lawyer said, if this was any other person, the guy would have been in handcuffs immediately.
Your son is amazing and it's so wonderful to hear you appreciate him. I love your content, your candid opinions and the way you deliver a message. I love to watch really drunk snobs at a local bar after a big annual horse race. They try to act dignified as they fall out of their chair.
Anytime I feel some depression coming on or when I’m feeling down I watch Bruce and laugh my ass off and then it goes away. I also learn things, too. So ty. Ty very much ❤
Thanks for saying exactly what I was thinking. He has the complexion for the protection. So many black people were incarcerated for decades during the crack epidemic in the 90s. Now that meth and crack addiction has spread to the dominant society, it's a "health crisis". It's not criminalized as much as it was. People like you who speak on this truth are very much appreciated.
@@ZiaSunshine What!!! That’s exactly what he did. He lied and covered up from the start - claimed sleep apnea & lies about drugs in his car. He also tried to use being a councilman to get out of arrest. HE’S white - so everything is right. If black… 1st the call to 911 would have been inaccurate- like “I think he’s trying to steal a car” -2nd the officers (plural) would have walked up to the guy yelling aggressively & guns drawn - 3rd the black man most certainly would have been detained, arrested, injured, violated… Lots of compassion for the poor white man.
I like how you were able to subtly add congressmen when you “corrected” yourself and said councilman. Kudos! Really enjoying your content. And a huge shout out and job well done to Michael Rivers…..incredibly professional work you do sir! ❤❤
Idk why but when he said "by the courthouse probably not a good idea to do some crack" i smiled. The. Thr "just probably not" i fuckin died. Bruce you the funniest lawyer on here😂😂
And this is what success is.. when you are able to talk about your son this way. The dream of every son is to listen to their father refer to them this way. Well done to you and your family.
Love the shoutout to your son, Bruce! That's very sweet of you and Michael: thank you for all your hard work! Your videos are entertaining, informative, and easy to watch.
I really enjoy the content and the way it's presented. It's heartwarming to hear Bruce praising Michael, and it's amazing to see how they are working together on this platform to help turn dreams into reality.
Bruce! You are gold dude! Your E-Sign advertisement: "Let's say you are a councilman and you're smoking crack in your car and you get busted..." HAHAHA!
Alcohol is a drug too, Bruce. Anyone can become addicted to any drug, especially if you had childhood trauma that never got processed or resolved. People also become addicted to foods such as sugar, or harmful processes such as gambling or sex or violence. It's all about escaping our dysregulated emotions because as a society we are taught that it's a strength to stuff down our emotions when really the opposite is true. Stuffing emotions is actually a weakness that makes you weaker. Stuffing your emotions lets them fester and rots you from the inside out. 😢
"Stuffing your emotions rots you from the inside out" Reason why many people who have went through some sort of trauma, the black sheeps/scapegoats, people pleasers, get chronic illnesses, cancer, hbp, etc.
Yeah, ngl the "I drink but I can't understand drugs" bit just threw me for a loop. Alcohol is JUST as bad as "drugs" are, the only difference is that you won't immediately be arrested just for possessing alcohol. There are literally millions of people that have been convicted of alcohol related crimes.
You do understand that not everyone who drinks or used drugs, has some deep seated " emotional trauma". Some people just like to get high dude.. nothing more than that.. you know drugs and alcohol make you feel good right???? Some people just like to feel good.. then they get addicted to feeling good.
Thank you for talking about this & addiction with respect & facts. I'm a recovering heroin addict & will have 7 years in December. Addiction is a disease & definitely does not discriminate
Bruce is such a good dad, always propping his son. You can tell hes a proud papa, it always makes me smile. Props to Michael for doing such an awesome job. Always love catching your videos. ❤ Im going to be 10 years sober this year and this is such a fear of mine. Ive worked hard to create an amazing life, went to college, got engaged, etc. I keep a lot of good strong ties to keep me grounded but you just never know.
Last night someone very close to me contacted me asking if I would hang on to something that has great personal value to her while she is in rehab for her heroin addiction. This video hit me hard as I am hoping and praying that she follows through with treatment and can get her life back. This officer had a terrific balance of compassion while still holding this guy accountable. I hope that other officers watching see this and apply it to what they do when coming across a similar situation. I also wish that anyone seeing this video that has an addiction problem will seek help.
The videos of cops “overdosing” are entirely misrepresented. It’s just not possible to overdose from touching tiny amounts of fentanyl. If it was, doctors and nurses would be dropping like flies. I highly recommend looking further into it. Spreading these ideas is going to result in people actually suffering an overdose dying because people will be afraid that they’ll get a contact overdose.
Mr. Rivers you always get it sooooo right. You cut right through the BS to tell it like it really is. Talent,intellect and insight are the hallmark of your reactions. Thank you.
I love your & Michael’s relationship. My son died four years ago & I miss him so much - so seeing the two of you together is great. And, your show is fabulous!
I am 5 plus years a recovering addict and deal with sleep apnea and it sucks. I will be sober 6 years on June 15th. I sleep with a c-pap and if I don’t use it at night it’s hard to stay awake during the day. I pray anyone who needs help get the help they need. It’s definitely not worth it. I made a lot of dumb decisions during my active addiction days. I give all the credit to my wife for getting me the help I needed.
I'm surprised Bruce didn't mention that this guy is also a lawyer and the special problems that creates for him. Reilly focuses on family law, and he had been in court earlier that day. The R.I. Supreme Court has now suspended his law license and assigned an other attorney to handle his cases. He's also resigned as councilman.
Good, he's finally facing some accountability for all the pain and misery that he's causing for all the people around him. Most people on this thread think that enabling him is the answer. No, that's what will kill him.
@@mektheblack It's not like he went out and caught a cold. He made a conscious decision to hit the pipe. I've got enough of these people in my extended family and I've witnessed the pain and misery that they cause. Don't be telling me about what good people they are.
@Mek you can't really explain it to people like this. You have to wait until it hits home. I have been clean for 5 years, thankfully not everyone thinks like this guy. Obviously his thinking is flawed, it hasn't ever worked, but he cannot be convinced.
I’m so glad I found your channel a couple weeks ago! I’ve watched SO many videos! Love the relationship you have with your son and how much you appreciate him. You really seem like y’all have A relationship fathers and sons should strive for!
My mother has been a respiratory therapist since well before I was born, so I grew up being used to her coming home from a shift in near tears, asking for a hug because a child out there was now without a mom or dad, or how someone not much older than me wasn't going to get to grow up now. Once I got old enough, she started telling me about how they died specifically, and how much they must've suffered. Because of this, I've always been incredibly aware of how this can, and will affect anybody in some way. You're not safe from it just because you came from a wealthy, white family. You're not even safe if you've never experienced any type of trauma. Though I'm not a religious person, I pray that one day every addict has the outlets and resources they need to save themselves, and that every family member, friend, and/or community member has the resources they need to decompress.
This video maybe the best video you and Michel produced. It wasn't so much what happened but everything you said was right on the money. I'm 76, been clean for 50+yrs and totally related to this story. When I think of the money and time I wasted on heroin just pimakes me mad at how stupid I was. I hope people listen to every word you said. Thanks Bruce and Michael.
Hey, I'm really glad you are here 50+ years longer than where you were headed. I quit drinking 15 years ago. It's true that addiction steals everything from us and our loved ones. ❤
This is a reminder that addiction is a PUBLIC HEALTH issue, and it should be treated with seriousness and respect. Just because someone is addicted to a hard drug doesn't mean they're bad people. We have address the root causes of drug use and violence in order to improve our societe.
I'm 10 years sober and STILL get vilified, demeaned and made to feel like shit. Addicts will never get treated with compassion, there is too much ignorance, biases etc 😢
Yeah people that take drugs are often people that never thought that they would be taking drugs. Many start when they are in a vulnerable state and then you are addicted and therefore you continue. I understand that people wonder why people take drugs but they also need to try and understand that things aren’t as black and white as they seem.
@@oskarekelund1476 mine started when l had 14 surgeries and countess procedures after giving birth to my son. I became addicted to pain killers. I naively didn't know you could, and not one of my surgeon's or doctors told me either. Still not a excuse, just explaination of how my story began
Not a single thing will happen to this councilman, NOT ONE THING. That is the way the rules are set up for any state of federal employee. For example, There is a mayor in the city of FORT WAYNE, INDIANA, who committed a felony hit & run or hit & skip, while D.U.I. and caused approx $25K in private/personal damage to other peoples belongings, "cars" and loss of work etc. They didn't even charge him, and he was only required to give an apology to the public, and he is still the mayor. Mayor Tom Henry is a criminal... Their excuse for not charging him, was a week after his actions of a two felony's, among other "would be charges" that... again, a week after he did that mess, just found out that his wife has cancer... Well, I am sorry for his wife, and the journey she will endure, but, anybody else, would have received a huge "F.U." and destroyed your life and you lose everything for even a partial amount of charges.. But not TOM HENRY.. Then you realize, his brothers and sisters (13 of them) have their hands laced into everything of that city including corruption and theft of tax dollars, and favors of contracts to friends and family over others who are more qualified or who came in with the lower bid.. Huge political pulls to take care of their buddies...
Update...he is arrested AGAIN....A MONTH LATER...CRANSTON, R.I. (WPRI) - Embattled former Cranston City Councilman Matthew Reilly has been arrested again, this time facing charges of sexual assault and child molestation, less than a month after his high-profile arrest for drug possession. Reilly, 41, was taken into custody Thursday morning, according to Cranston Police Major Todd Patalano. Cranston police say Reilly was arrested in North Kingstown. Court records show the former councilman is facing three counts: first-degree child molestation sexual assault, second-degree child molestation sexual assault, and enticement of a person under the age of 16. Police allege the charges stem from an incident on May 3. Former Cranston city councilman Matt Reilly appears in court on June 8, 2023. (William Clark/WPRI-TV) He was arraigned Thursday and ordered held without bail. Reilly’s arrest warrant comes after a legal guardian of a 12-year-old girl, unrelated to Reilly, filed a complaint with police, according to a press release
It’s so surreal that all this happened in the parking lot of the salon that I used to work in. The salon owner’s boyfriend saw a guy nodding off in his car, thought he was dying, and he immediately went and notified a police officer to see if the dude was okay.
The cop didn’t treat him like he was an idiot. He kept everything understated, calm and with empathy. Something like that could be the difference between success in rehab or not.
If he was a differnt clas of citizen he would have been thrown on the ground, handcuffed, and charged with as much as they could. Dude deserves to be treated like a regular citizen and not a privileged p.o.s. that most likely pushes for people in his same situation to be charged to the maximum. Honestly hope he goes to prison like anyone else would have
Bruce- if he were black he would have his car searched and be arrested! Police- Searched his car and arrested him. Bruce- Stop lying. This was policing done fairly by a caring department.
As a once drug addict, u just can't explain it unless you've been there. It's all u care about. It controls your life. Everything else just exists but means nothing. Ur living a life just to get you to the next drug. It's so addicting and ur body becomes so dependent, it's like needing air to breathe. This guy wasn't "throwing his life away for drugs"..his life is drugs and his career and relationships is 2nd tier. I'm so glad I got clean before this fentanyl craze happened or I'd 100% be dead
And for naming the likely "white privilege" that seems to be shown. Although by the end of the video it seems that he's been very fortunate to have been met by compassionate and caring officers. Which is also really good to see. No hostility from anyone - showing how it's possible to do law enforcement without fear and aggression. Thanks Bruce, and Michael Rivers!
I'm an EMT. A few years ago I had a run where an assistant in a dentist office decided to get high in her car on her lunch break. Whatever she smoked knocked her out. She dropped it and set her clothes on fire. She was getting burned alive and didn't know it. Transported her with 3rd degree burns. Don't do drugs. Bad things happen.
I've worked as an assistant and don't understand how you would not be 100% for this type of job. You're working in the mouth, sharp instruments, around teeth, tongue, gum, throat, and head to head with your boss sometimes 😮
I love how you already relate the E Sign ad to whatever the video is about 😂 “so let’s say you’re a councilmen and you’re smoking crack in your car, you’re definitely going to need something signed” 😂😂😂
Young child in my community went in the kitchen and told her mama: "Daddy won't wake up." And he never did. Those words haunt me. Good show. I hope it helps someone.
4 years sober… from alcohol! Never underestimate the effects of alcohol. Illegal Drugs are a huge problem, but an even bigger problem lies in plain sight.
As a former dope fiend I can tell you, you can do anything you do sober while in active addiction, its just for how long you can maintain it. Seen some people with heroin addictions maintain high paying prestigious jobs, but eventually you misstep. Its like having an affair, you can take all the steps possible and be as sly as possible, bit eventually you’ll get caught.
This is so true I'd do a line in the morning before work then a line at lunch and at home but there does come a point where you are just feeling more normal than getting high and having a great career and a high paying job just means you don't have to walk up an don't the street looking the part.
My best friend was addicted to heroin. Dude worked 3 jobs and provided for his family. Was never out stealing for his addiction either. Unfortunately, we lost him due to an overdose 3yrs ago.
@@GMB726 im so sorry for your loss my friend 🙏❤️I know how it is losing your friends to that poison. I’m especially glad I’m not using anymore with the fentanyl epidemic…. Lost friends lately because of that too.
@@Pop_Culture_Pulpit Everything stops working for you eventually. As a petty nicotine addict, I used to enjoy the effects of nicotine. Mild buzz and made me feel more focused. I used to still have sensitivity to it and could even do too much of it if I wasn't careful. Now, it's more like I need to constantly use it to just feel normal. It no longer "adds" anything to my experience while using it. However, when I don't have it, THAT is when I "feel it" the most, or more accurately, feel the withdrawal.
I’ve never been arrested in my life and i make an effort to watch all you content! Always coming through with amazing breakdowns. Appreciate your work .
Thanks so much to Bruce AND Michael for another FANTASTIC video! ❤❤ We love you guys and this channel so much, please keep it up! I swear I watch this channel immediately whenever a video is uploaded 😂
100%…. My cousins sold drugs and the customers you would not believe. Addiction does not discriminate. Go to your local methadone clinic… from homeless to teachers, medical professionals, to lawyers in their SUITS going into the office! Just another day!
It's not only adorable that you openly love your son so much but it's so healthy and positive!! All men need to grow up with a dad who tells them they are handsome and tells them "i love you" out loud casually in front of ppl and to be treated like their dads favourite person!! ❤
You do know most dads love their kids right? Not sure what your experiences have been in this life, i'm a dad and tell my kids every day i love them and are proud of them. I don't understand how in your comment you convey almost suprise that a dad loves his kid. There's always exceptions but i'd say that theres more good dads and mums out there than bad ones.
@@dfgiuy22 that's excellent for you and your kids but it's not the reality for a lot of kids.....a lot of men struggle to say "I love you " out loud and they didn't grow up hearing it either....being brought up in a "big boys don't cry, don't be a sissy" household means boys learn to learn to suppress their emotions the only acceptable one being anger "stop crying and go hit them back harder" these boys can grow up to struggle with expressing even positive emotions (but they still express anger) which is confusing for children and the cycle continues...so with that in mind evey time I see a men openly expressing love especially to children it warms my heart and I point it out 😊
Hell yes - thank you Michael Rivers for making your dad review this! (He is the best!) This bodycam footage came across my plate the other day, and I thought it was so absurd, and I immediately wanted to hear a "Bruce rivers CLR" review asap!
New to this channel for like a week or so. The break downs are easy to digest for me as a layman to the laws, you seem to keep an unbias objective outlook, but also come off as a realist down to earth, humble person. Great channel overall.
Bruce, I've got to correct you on this one. Ask any nurse, fentanyl does not absorb through the skin like that. Those fentanyl patches are carefully designed and treated to allow cutaneous transfer, and you'd have to wrap yourself up like a mummy in those things to OD. Otherwise you have to ingest it directly. Cop legends about ODs from touching fent are just like those stories they tell each other about how every guy who hulks out after getting tased is supposedly on PCP. Nah guys, you just got your asses kicked, it's okay to admit it. When cops actually do OD on powdered fent it's either because they got it in their eyes or mouth, they had their hand in the cookie jar, or like with those PCP supervillains they're just landing on a convenient narrative because they need to explain it somehow. None of those stories stand up to scrutiny, and the stories about aerosolized fent are 100% BS. Health care workers handle fent every day, it just doesn't work like that. Ask yourself, why are police the only ones affected by it in that way, but literally everyone else who handles the stuff is not? Why are no firefighters or EMTs having that reaction? Edited to add paragraph breaks because that was a big ol' wall of text.
I agree to disagree Fentanyl can be absorbed through the the skin by touching it, unless the powder form is disturbed it causes a reaction if it is not disturbed it has no effect let me verify that the side that is mediated. It does not have to be put in eyes, nose, and mouth to cause a serious reaction to someone else which is why Narcan is being used by Officer’s and Emergency medical personnel. The low cost of Fentanyl and the lacing/mixing of cocaine and meth it’s truly hard to know what someone has used.
@@Mikki4722 No, the dangers of fentanyl from just touching it are a myth. Not sure why police and now popular TV shows keep making this myth more popular. There are countless medical professionals who have explain ad nauseam what you said if completely false.
@@Mikki4722 Here, this is from an actual M.D. explaining fentanyl and the myths about ODs from simple exposure. ua-cam.com/video/215hLEVD9ww/v-deo.html&pp=ygUORmVudGFueWwgbXl0aHM%3D
We had some officers here in TN who went to the hospital claiming they were exposed to fentanyl and had it absorbed into their skin after just touching the pills. However, when time passed, it turned out that they had panic attacks from thinking they were exposed. Multiple scientists came out and said that the quantity of fentanyl needed for a dry pill to be absorbed into the skin would be far greater than the quantity that they encountered.
Correct, it has to be formulated a certain way to be absorbed thru the skin such as the patches some people are prescribed. Otherwise it doesn't go through your skin like that.
Yep. One cop said he overdosed from touching fentanyl and it turned out he was actually just high on the job from taking the pills he does every day and trying to cover it up.
One of those scientist said that he was running experiments and accidentally spilt it all over himself. He had on regular clothes but had a respirator on. He didn't feel a thing.
They're treating him so special because they see him as one of them. As a council member he's "in the club" so to speak. Equal treatment under the law is a joke.
If someone had believed in me the way bruce believes in his son my life would've gone a whole other way. It's really lovely and important.
Same here. My dad was always there for me physically and financially, but the only way he knew how to communicate was through anger with yelling and put downs. If I was a jerk, I would be jealous. Fortunately, I'm not, and it's really touching when Bruce selflessly gives his son the credit he deserves.
that goes for us all. i believe in you for what it's worth.
@@mealsome1571 me too!!
So now you know what to do for your sons/protégé. I got lucky with my dad I'm trying to be like him for my son good luck to us both
Same 💔
My dad was also an unassuming addict. He was a home owning, tax paying, veteran with steady employment who also had a cocaine addiction. He died 3 years ago when he unknowingly did coke laced with fentanyl. Im sure this guy felt like his life was over but I promise him his family would rather see him in jail than in the morgue.
Also, you made me cry tears of relief when you said that the death is a peaceful death. I've never wanted to look that up because I was afraid if the answer. I've spent 3 years wondering if my dad was scared and struggling in those last moments and realized the horrible mistake that had happened. I trust in your experience you are correct and will hold on to that because it truly healed my soul just a little.
Desi, can confirm what Bruce said: it is a peaceful death. Probably the most peaceful. I hope it doesn't hurt, but your Dad was there one minute and gone the next. I'm sorry you lost him, but no, he didn't suffer.
I know how you feel and how hard it is not knowing if a loved one went peacefully or not and I've been frequently preoccupied by those same thoughts when my dad's body was found in a dam on my birthday. We didn't even know he was missing because we thought it was at rehab and unfortunately there are mysterious circumstances and the case is still open but we have no idea exactly what day he died since he was last seen on surveillance camera from a gas station buying food to bring with him for rehab and since that was almost 11pm we don't know what day he actually died on because it could've been before or even after midnight. All we know was his body floated fully clothed down the river for a week before he was found in fishway gates at the dam and his cause of death was drowning. It's haunting not knowing if he was lucky enough to go peacefully or fighting for his life while drowning 😢 we have 2days that I mourn his possible death date, then grieve the entire week he was in the water and grieve again on my birthday for the day he was found. The year I was born my birthday happened to fall on father's day which happens every so often years and it's the same way this year. I truly wish you the best in life as you continue on and my thoughts and prayers are with you and we don't know each other but if you need someone to talk with just reply and let me know and I'll give you my email or something. Take care
@@TheFearsomeCrabcat I’m so very sorry that you lost your father this way.
We never “get over” it, we just learn how to deal with it, to tamp it down.
I think of it as a stiletto embedded next to my heart. After all these years, it just rests there silently, until periodically it suddenly twists and turns, and I have to be alone and cry, as I was conditioned since childhood to not cry in front of other people.
I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction becomes a disease and everyone deserves much more help and support to get out of it. 😢
@@jujubean54ify thank you very much and I agree with everything you said especially what you said about never getting over it. I was taught that I shouldn't cry in front of people as well and also when I have experienced great loss such as my dad or another 9 close relatives in a 15&1/2month span of time 4 of whom had cancer and I helped care for them, I've been told by people that time heals all wounds and that I should get over it and it'll get better. When I know someone who has just experienced a loss and reach out sometimes I tell them about it and I tell them that I wish I could tell them honestly that it'll get better and that time heals all wounds but I refuse to lie to them as some have lied to me and so far I have been thanked for my brutal honesty and am usually the first person they contact when they need to talk or cry or scream and don so they don't always feel alone because it truly never goes away. I don't think it ever could. The way you described it is so accurate and well-written by the way, good job! I get the impression that you have experienced great loss as well and as I offered to the other person as well, if you ever need to talk or vent I'm here for you also. My thoughts and prayers are with you as well. Take care
Lemme jus tell ya, us addicts are EVERYWHERE. We’re your nurses, your managers, your stay at home mothers, your bank tellers, your COUNCILMEN. Addiction doesn’t care about your status in the world. Thank god I have been sober going on 6 years, but there is no FACE for addiction. It can take anyone. I pray this man gets his life together.
This is 10000% true 👍 but still doesn’t give people the right to down someone because of what they do 🤦♂️
Exactly. And he said they dont think rational Thats absolutely right. When i was stealing my mothers belongings for cash and stealing money from my brother, it was more important for me to be okay for one night than my entire family relationship. Now as a sober man, I can’t believe how intensely addiction affects your brain.
Preach! They think we are all pan handling dirty dingy people but there’s a lot of us who are functioning or high functioning addicts with ability to fund our addiction. But we usually have some unresolved trauma or rationalize are usage by saying things like “people drink all the time, why can’t I do drugs as long as I’m responsible” which can be true but usually we are killing ourselves or hurting loved ones.
You said it perfectly
i’m so proud of you. i wish my parents could say the same !!
I am a nurse. I also was a heroin addict for 7yrs. High functioning, clean house, owned that home, and I’m a mother. I have a drug charge. I was also able to get clean for 10 yrs now, keep my nursing license and rebuild my whole life. Addiction is a beast not to be fucked with. Thank you for this video ❤
I am so happy for you. That took a lot to rebuild but, you did it! Thank you for sharing and I am thankful you are here.
@@shelleybartlett1479 thank you so much ☺️
I’m an RN with 36 years sober. I helped addicts and alcoholics with multiple co-morbid illnesses and mental health disorders. Clean addicts are good at helping other addicts, also, especially in health care situation, addiction in nursing is much more prevalent than people realize.
Another recovered Heroin addict here, 7 years clean. Keep it up! You are inspiring!
@@juancaminante8078I’m a Mom & still fighting my addiction. I hope that someday, I can be proud to share how many days I’ve been clean too.
I very much look up to people who’ve gotten clean, I know how hard it is, & everyone who has had months & years, I’m proud of you.
Bruce never forgets to give his son all the credit. Shoutout to Michael for giving us one of the best UA-cam channels.
Right? It's so wholesome and I love it.
Luv from South Africa. ❤
Amen to that
I was arrested for DUI and after getting booked, as the officer was leaving the jail, I thanked him. I have been sober 36 years...from that day to this.
One of the most important things to do is *NEVER* get complacent. Go to the meetings available for your either alcoholism or other addiction...go to the ones that cater to your problem, take suggestions about how to get and keep your life on track. Help others who need help.
I have no problem with giving anyone a second chance at employment and understand that nobody asks to relapse, but when someone is working as a councilman, they should be higher standard. They are letting everyone down.
Welcome to america bud
Ever think that higher standard leads to this kind of behavior?
Not to defend him but we don't know the situation of his divorce... if he was a previous addict and his kids are taken away i can see how he went back. I hope he gets help and never touches this shit again. I used to love my new years parties, but with fentanyl now being a thing. NOPE! you can't even trust cocaine.
@@syko2164 No one is saying not to have empathy for his situation, just that he probably shouldn't be a councilman right now.
This comment is absurd. Higher standard? The law should apply equally to ALL people. The moment you have different standards thats when you are completely wrong.
You're telling me a free grown man cant smoke crack and take a nap in his own car? I thought this was Merica
Truly an affront to our freedoms
isnt this amurica?
Crack is ILLEGAL IN MERICA🙄
Who hasn't taken a crack nap to get their head straight for the drive home?
@@donnaflores2166you don't the jokkeee
The shout-out to his son always warms my heart!
I was just about to say that.
It’s so important whom you procreate with.
So sweet ❤ I'm definitely jealous of that relationship! I bet that Michael understands how lucky he is.
I honestly wish I could get along with my dad like that. Not even close...
He shouts out his son for more views. How is that heart warming.
@@Bigbubba3031 WTF does that have to do with views? He has no trouble getting views, he has a great personality unlike you...
I just want to say this, to anyone who might go through a relapse: DO NOT try to do as much as you used to do, ESPECIALLY something like heroin, crack, coke, anything of a dangerous nature like this. Probably the most common form of OD is when someone relapses after not taking it for a long time, and trying to do the amount they no longer have a tolerance for.
Obviously, I don't encourage someone relapsing into stuff like this, you should stay sober, but if this advice helps save a life, I'll be happy.
I agree thanks for the comment !!
I commented above about my childhood best friend getting outta rehab & dying from an OD that same day. He was dead before he even got the tourniquet & needle out of his arm. Absolutely devastating.
You are 💯 correct!! I lost many friends who have made that common mistake. Your tolerance level to those drugs has greatly diminished and your body can NOT handle that same amount anymore. 🧡
@@paulbob234 It's especially sad to me that people will die like this. It takes strength to quit, and sometimes people falter. They could have been clean for 10 years, but one night of relapse, and they're immortalized as a junkie forever. Nobody ever thinks about the strength they had to have to get clean and get their act together, they just think about that one night their strength faltered. It's not right.
Thank you for sharing ❤ harm reduction is SO important. It doesn't mean we're encouraging people to use, we are just telling them to be as safe as possible when they use. Because the unfortunate reality is that people will use either way. But harm reduction saves lives. Telling people how to use safely saves lives. So don't ever feel like you're encouraging drug use by informing people of how to be safe.
My brother died from crack cocaine that had fentanyl in it. He fell asleep and then stop breathing. I’m so glad this guy got help. It’s not worth losing your life over a high.
In June of this year he was arrested again for child molestation. This dude is a total piece of shit and deserves no one's sympathy.
My cousin died in June from Meth that had Fentanyl in it
@@noraashalo6282 I’m sorry for your loss. My brother died in June 3 years ago 4 days after my birthday. That fentanyl is some really really bad and it’s killing a lot of people
I’m so sorry x
Or more likely they set out to speed ball..crack and meth dealers DONT GET REPEAT biz if they.put drugs together that cancel each other out in ways. It's way more common for people to speed ball than for dealers to cut uppers with downers..because most their customers don't want to be sedated and repeat biz is the ONLY way to deal drugs. It's very common however for users to use street Rx pills to come down from the speed/coke/crack and most pills on the street are just fake fent knock offs now. So I feel your pain, but I think you misinterpreted events due to drug users not being that open about how and what they use.
I have an extensive history with first being an addict and now spreading awareness of the dangers of drugs now. It's dangerous to spread misinformation because you wouldn't believe how many addicts think pills are safe and the fent is in powder drugs. Heroin is what they cut with fent..
I LOVE IT , WHEN A FATHER LETS HIS SON KNOW HOW MUCH HE LOVES & RESPECTS HIS WORK !
“Bryce Michael! My son! I should’ve told you how valuable you are!”
-Meatcanyon, ‘Death of NPC Simp’
It is really nice! I just hope his daughter gets the same love. From how he's talked about her, I can see who the favorite is.
i tell my son every day
I'm a Rhode Islander and I can tell you that this isn't the first time one of our Politicians got caught like this. 🤪
I bet it happens everywhere.
Our politicians here are mostly all criminal.
God bless Rhode Island
But in your case it was a Kennedy so nothing to see here folks move along
@@SweetUniverse 😆
The way you honor your son is priceless. I'm estranged from my father. He abused me emotionally as an adult and physically as a child. I would give anything for a relationship like you have with your son
Maybe someday you'll have a son and you can have that kind of relationship with him. It's not the same as having the father you deserved, but being that farther for someone would be gratifying and healing in its own way
Oooo he probably smacked your ass for getting into the liquor cabinet, THAT'S discipline.
I can relate.
@@dusteedawg2915 How dare you minimize his pain
I know. Bruce is really a good guy. He seems to nice to be a criminal lawyer.
I always love how you talk about your son it's so refreshing to hear a father that is unashamed to share how proud they are of their child it makes me happy
I gotta say, these cops are real sweet hearts. Seem like wonderful human beings.
As a person who has been clean from hard drugs myself for almost 7 yrs, I think that he should be sent to rehab, but barred from serving in public office ever again. I understand better than anyone the struggles of addiction, but there needs to be a higher standard for our elected officials.
I'm just extremely thankful that I got out of the dope game before everything started getting laced with Fentanyl.
Also, BRUCE I implore you to research the truth about cops and getting exposed to "fentanyl" in the field. It is NOT possible to absorb Fentanyl through skin contact just from touching the powder. The cops perpetuate that narrative in order to create sympathy or fear or whatever, and all the videos you see online are really just uninformed/uneducated officers suffering from panick attacks. Psychosematic symptoms can create just as real a reaction as actual chemicals. It's pretty extraordinary actually. Cops have plenty of risks that they deal with, but on the spot exposure to Fentanyl is complete nonsense. Just trying to get the truth out there.
Hopefully he did go to rehab after jail, maybe even as a part of his sentencing. Sober 8+ years now and that’s what it took for me (flipping my car while DUI, not smoking crack, but same dog, different leg..) just wish him the best. Props to the Major that gave him the stern talk he needed and I just hope he listened!
Came here to say this.
I believed police when they said they could overdose from touching it. Then someone told me that wasnt true and I looked it up and yep. Not true.
Then explain how fentanyl patches work.
Thank you,I was going to say the exact same thing,why to police create such fear by saying this things. You are correct 💯 fentanyl cannot be absorbed through the skin.
This is why it is great to have body cams because you know he would be denying it and accusing the officer of lying.
He would’ve been let go is what would’ve happened.
@@DavidDavis311 exactly. Cops live their GOP masters. Who else is going to give them overtime and give them bonuses
Or the officer simply letting him off with a warning.
Actually the officer was insinuating that if he didn’t have the body camera on he would have let him go. Listen carefully how he say it and repeat it. You know I have a body camera on and it seen everything I seen so I have to document it.
@@cherrelleg8276 officer could've left it off or turned it off if he wanted to regardless of what the rule is. he chose to have it on.
I wish everyone caught like this would be treated with this level of concern and respect. They don’t deserve state violence, they deserve support.
Amen. I agree completely.
This!!
Sadly this is American not Germany.. 😂 prison system here in America is literally a fking cooperate interpreter.. it makes insane money locking ppl up.. not only that unlike Germany.. America has a bail bonds system that literally exist to target ppl who get out an catch them slip to throw them back in… after most ppl aren’t aware that inmates make good cheap to free labor producing a woooping 11billion dollars worth of goods and services in 2022 I believe all for Pennys or “reduced time” on “good behavior”. massive turn over of like 74bil since war of drugs started.. 😂 and it’s US THE TAX PAYERS footing the bill… fyi Walmart McDonald’s and 100s of companies btw exploit this .. 💀 American prison system is objectively the most evil shit in the western world… it even outperforms trash dictatorships of the world as it’s literally better at exploiting ppl then them.. 😂 MONEY… most ppl in jail and prisons aren’t even violent offenders… that insane.. not only that all inmates regardless of violent or non violent crimes.. are forced into raw survival mode as prisons btw literally EGREGIOUSLY violate most constitutional rights still afforded to humans as inmates.. and you the public (not you personally) are brainwashed with this view of retribution/revenge so it’s ignored and ok to most ppl… as they say “how a ppl treats their inmates is reflective of how they treat each other” so blacks.. women.. gays.. homeless.. poor.. mental ill.. handicapped.. veterans.. addicts.. even pedos who aren’t sex offenders get treated like criminals.. btw that’s why most ppl with clinical pedofilia don’t seek help cause if how you the ppl will treat them.. so they don’t get help and eventually they ACT.. they coulda got help and this high chance it would have never happened but it’s enabled by society demonizing views … u get the point 😂.. btw I emphasize on pedos because it’s the best example of how ppl will outright cherry-pick and close their ears to basic logic and rational thinking in favor of emotional ideological beliefs… as with all the groups I listed… Americans are nothing more the resources for their own prisons systems… im not Republican nor democratic.. I hate all parties… why does no part ever fking address out prisons system??!! It’s fking EVIL.. im athiest and don’t believe in “good” or “evil” persay so i don’t use that word lightly… this shits EVIL 😂😂
I think it was fear as much as respect because city council usually funds the police. I'm not saying all police are bad but it's another point of view
they don’t deserve to be mocked and laughed at either by this lame lawyer. Addiction stems from trauma it’s literally just an attempt to stop suffering.
Imagine being a ridiculously successful criminal lawyer and on the side having a social media platform that would make any normal person rich and you can leverage your sons talents to grow the platform and work together?? You two are literally living the dream!
I wish cops had this much compassion for EVERYONE!!
Unfortunately, for them compassion is proportional to perceived importance in society. Sickening
😅Um, they do. Just don't act stupid and make things worst
@@bayg6703who told you to come from under your rock?
@@bayg6703that’s not completely true no one gets the treatment this guy in the bud got like no normal civilian
@@Alex-fe5fz yes, they r.😅 True crime and police cam is half of the content I watched on UA-cam
Gotta say Bruce Rivers, your comments on, " sometimes it just gets ahold of people and won't let go," and," it takes your money,your freedom,and your health," along with," if it weren't for drugs I wouldn't have a job," are some of the best, honest, to the point comments ever stated by a person with more experience dealing with addicts than a counselor or a cop. Appreciate your perspective. Very bipartisan view, which is why I like your channel.
Alcoholism is a big problem too, which is overlooked.
@@davea3889 Absolutely. Way bigger of a problem than something like weed.
@@davea3889agreed.
Not bashing on anyone, but my time as a meth head was more responsible than my alcohol days.
@@StoutShako True . When is the last time u heard of a high speed chase from someone smoking pot ? Or a bank robbery ?
@@davea3889 yes alcohol by far is the biggest problem. It's the solution to, and cause of, all my problems
I've been in that situation so many times. Passed out in my car with a needle in my arm and drugs all over my lap. It sucks being in stuck in thay kind of lifestyle. Luckily for me I'm coming up on one and a half years clean next month, and have no desire to return to using. I've found that what has helped me the most to stay clean is putting all the money that would have gone to drugs into an investment portfolio and keep track of all the money on paper. It helps with redirecting all the mental energy I used to put into figuring out how to get high, plus it really puts into perspective all the money I would have wasted on getting my fix everyday. In just 1.5 years I've put away almost 20k. It's insane.
Major kudos to you. Getting clean is one thing, but staying clean might be even harder. Great idea about the money!
Congrats on your sobriety!
Congratulations and keep up the good work. Don't forget your lowest moments and darkest days! We need those as a reminder of where we came from. Keep working everyday, our fight is never over.
I’m proud of you
Almost my exact story, down to the dollar amount. Proud of you
It’s nice to see how positive and supportive you are of your son. It’s sad to see the councilman’s drug habit ruin his life. Addiction isn’t uncommon or an indictment of someone’s character. Its a sad way to live.
My god, thank you for telling it like it is. People are so comfortable laughing/judging crackheads on the streets, but dump sympathy on those wearing ties. The treatment should not differ, and the fact that it does is very telling.
I spent the whole video thinking: "What is this white nonsense?"
Cry me a river.
The crackhead on the street is much more likely to be antisocial, aggressive, or violent. That’s the difference.
@@lrews6693source: Trust me bro!
@@LawTzuTao source: common sense.
An early Happy Father's Day to you, Bruce. No matter how old our children get they need to be told we love them and are proud of them. Love the work you and Michael do. Thank you both.
I feel sorry for all the less influential people who didn't get to go to rehab and be treated with such apologetic sympathy, and respect.
The same fear that cops are spreading about fentanyl killing people through skin contact is the same type of nonsense they used to spread fear of marijuana. If it were true, there would be millions dead from manufacture, delivery and everyone using. There would be no one left to make it, sell it, or use it.
Cops wouldn't lie though ... I mean, they took an oath 🙃
Drug diversion programs are extremely common regardless of the defendant.
Whether illegal drugs are dangerous in themselves as well as injected, smoked or injected I have no need to know. So you’d rather these guys take a chance?
Fentanyl absolutely can kill through skin contact. In fact, a frequent way it's administered is through transdermal skin patches. And given just how little it takes to OD - it's measure in millionths of a gram - it's no surprise that a small amount is all it takes. Tens of thousands are dying of it every year.
The "Reefer Madness" days ended are a long time ago. Before you were born methinks.
yeah this seems so heartwarming cause the cops are being nice but unfortunately its just an example of what can be wrong with cops. They should treat everyone with respect and compassion
@@HanTheProphet EXACTLY!!! if this guy had been wearing a white wife beater t shirt, athletic shorts and had some tattoos, these cops would have pulled him out of the car, yanking him awake and throwing him onto the ground to get him in cuffs asap.
Thanks Bruce, for keeping it real.
Bruce thank you for respectfully handling this. Drug addiction is very serious and it just wrecks lives without help ❤
Awesome dad helping to get your kid the credit he deserves. You two make an epic pair.
I adore Bruce and Michaels content! I do kinda wonder though about his other son which he’s only mentioned once I think..
@@Aur1x1 but who is he? lol
Me (singing) ‘Bruce Rivers He’s the criminal lawyer!’
My wife ‘what is that?’
Me ‘i don’t answer questions’
4 how long, ha ha
9 months later I assume she's a fan too and asks "and what he do?"
Hahah
"My Huckleberry friend..."
Thank you Bruce. I just woke up and this is the first video I’ve seen today. I’ve been clean for 4 days. Hopefully I can make it a week and then a month and then hopefully a year. God bless everyone
How are you doing? You got this!!❤
One day at a time man!
You crack me up Bruce! “Whenever I hold a crack pipe I get sleep apnea” 😂
My dad always told us the horror stories of the effects of drugs on the brain. We were terrified we’d have flashbacks 20 years down the road like he told us. It worked! Not one of us 4 girls ever tried anything harder than smoked a little weed.
So it worked? Or didn't?
Yes, the best way for people to be responsibly informed on a matter is by being conditioned with hyperbolic exaggerations and misinformation to create a paranoid fear leading to avoidance. Sounds very healthy.
Meanwhile cops are blaming panic attacks on contact with fentanyl for exactly the same reasons. Also you shouldn't masturbate because you'll go blind and vaginas have teeth.
That's entirely a myth, but good on y'all for being responsible regardless :)
@@channelname1019 Are you suggesting that drugs are good?
Logically speaking, her dad wasn't wrong.
@@pistolpete8231 right? It scared us away from ever using. I didn’t want to take that kind of risk and ruin my brain. Of course as an adult I know it isn’t true but his words worked. He had 4 daughters that stayed away from ever using.
This police officer is a great example for all officers. He is empathetic, truthful, but firm.
White Privaledge is a thing‼️
mainly because the defendant is white
What do you do though when the crack pipe came from Joe Biden and the White House
Of course the officer was "empathetic, truthful, but firm", he has to arrest a white councilman with powerful republicans behind him. The officer could be fired for this, and he knows this. As the lawyer said, if this was any other person, the guy would have been in handcuffs immediately.
If the guy was black or Hispanic, he’s already be in handcuffs and getting his car searched.
Your son is amazing and it's so wonderful to hear you appreciate him. I love your content, your candid opinions and the way you deliver a message. I love to watch really drunk snobs at a local bar after a big annual horse race. They try to act dignified as they fall out of their chair.
Anytime I feel some depression coming on or when I’m feeling down I watch Bruce and laugh my ass off and then it goes away. I also learn things, too. So ty. Ty very much ❤
The way that you talk about your son always makes me smile so sweet I’m so thankful for this channel!. You guys make an awesome team.🎉🎉🎉
Thanks for saying exactly what I was thinking. He has the complexion for the protection. So many black people were incarcerated for decades during the crack epidemic in the 90s. Now that meth and crack addiction has spread to the dominant society, it's a "health crisis". It's not criminalized as much as it was. People like you who speak on this truth are very much appreciated.
i have a long memory and my grudges are forever
The crack epidemic was in the ‘80s
The guy with the "complexion for the protection" also didn't give the cops a rash of shit, so there's that.
@@ZiaSunshine What!!! That’s exactly what he did. He lied and covered up from the start - claimed sleep apnea & lies about drugs in his car. He also tried to use being a councilman to get out of arrest. HE’S white - so everything is right.
If black…
1st the call to 911 would have been inaccurate- like “I think he’s trying to steal a car” -2nd the officers (plural) would have walked up to the guy yelling aggressively & guns drawn - 3rd the black man most certainly would have been detained, arrested, injured, violated…
Lots of compassion for the poor white man.
No, it's called councilman protection.
I like how you were able to subtly add congressmen when you “corrected” yourself and said councilman. Kudos! Really enjoying your content. And a huge shout out and job well done to Michael Rivers…..incredibly professional work you do sir! ❤❤
Idk why but when he said "by the courthouse probably not a good idea to do some crack" i smiled. The. Thr "just probably not" i fuckin died. Bruce you the funniest lawyer on here😂😂
And this is what success is.. when you are able to talk about your son this way. The dream of every son is to listen to their father refer to them this way. Well done to you and your family.
Positive masculinity. Spread it around!
Love the shoutout to your son, Bruce!
That's very sweet of you and Michael: thank you for all your hard work!
Your videos are entertaining, informative, and easy to watch.
Man you're a down to earth guy. Absolutely right about compassion being what solves these issues.
I really enjoy the content and the way it's presented. It's heartwarming to hear Bruce praising Michael, and it's amazing to see how they are working together on this platform to help turn dreams into reality.
Bruce! You are gold dude! Your E-Sign advertisement: "Let's say you are a councilman and you're smoking crack in your car and you get busted..." HAHAHA!
Alcohol is a drug too, Bruce. Anyone can become addicted to any drug, especially if you had childhood trauma that never got processed or resolved. People also become addicted to foods such as sugar, or harmful processes such as gambling or sex or violence. It's all about escaping our dysregulated emotions because as a society we are taught that it's a strength to stuff down our emotions when really the opposite is true. Stuffing emotions is actually a weakness that makes you weaker. Stuffing your emotions lets them fester and rots you from the inside out. 😢
right!
"Stuffing your emotions rots you from the inside out" Reason why many people who have went through some sort of trauma, the black sheeps/scapegoats, people pleasers, get chronic illnesses, cancer, hbp, etc.
Yeah, ngl the "I drink but I can't understand drugs" bit just threw me for a loop. Alcohol is JUST as bad as "drugs" are, the only difference is that you won't immediately be arrested just for possessing alcohol. There are literally millions of people that have been convicted of alcohol related crimes.
To depress is to push down. To suppress. Remember that.
You do understand that not everyone who drinks or used drugs, has some deep seated " emotional trauma". Some people just like to get high dude.. nothing more than that.. you know drugs and alcohol make you feel good right???? Some people just like to feel good.. then they get addicted to feeling good.
I just love how he gives his son so much love and attention and support
Thank you for talking about this & addiction with respect & facts. I'm a recovering heroin addict & will have 7 years in December. Addiction is a disease & definitely does not discriminate
Bruce is such a good dad, always propping his son. You can tell hes a proud papa, it always makes me smile. Props to Michael for doing such an awesome job. Always love catching your videos. ❤
Im going to be 10 years sober this year and this is such a fear of mine. Ive worked hard to create an amazing life, went to college, got engaged, etc. I keep a lot of good strong ties to keep me grounded but you just never know.
Congratulations on 10 years sober🎉
Best dad vibes- and it sounds like you raised a very talented and educated son with whom you share a wonderful bond with. I love seeing family teams.
Addiction is such a heartbreaking business. Prayers for all who struggle as well as their support people
Last night someone very close to me contacted me asking if I would hang on to something that has great personal value to her while she is in rehab for her heroin addiction. This video hit me hard as I am hoping and praying that she follows through with treatment and can get her life back. This officer had a terrific balance of compassion while still holding this guy accountable. I hope that other officers watching see this and apply it to what they do when coming across a similar situation. I also wish that anyone seeing this video that has an addiction problem will seek help.
The videos of cops “overdosing” are entirely misrepresented. It’s just not possible to overdose from touching tiny amounts of fentanyl. If it was, doctors and nurses would be dropping like flies. I highly recommend looking further into it. Spreading these ideas is going to result in people actually suffering an overdose dying because people will be afraid that they’ll get a contact overdose.
Fully agree
He didn't say anything about them overdosing on it. He just said it gets in their system. Which, obviously, they don't want.
@@yuriination still, unless they're secretly frogs, it's not getting in their system through their skin
Ummm I’ve seen people fall out in front of me when there was fentanyl unknowingly nearby
Carfentanyl causes ODs from touch. Look it up. You're wrong.
Bruce did any of your clients ever get treated this gently by the cops ?
The most blatant example of unequal law enforcement I've ever seen
he was treated this good not because he's white but he worked for the city
@@denyskar this
@denyskar sure kid
@@denyskar ¿porque no los dos?
Mr. Rivers you always get it sooooo right. You cut right through the BS to tell it like it really is. Talent,intellect and insight are the hallmark of your reactions. Thank you.
I love your & Michael’s relationship. My son died four years ago & I miss him so much - so seeing the two of you together is great. And, your show is fabulous!
I am 5 plus years a recovering addict and deal with sleep apnea and it sucks. I will be sober 6 years on June 15th. I sleep with a c-pap and if I don’t use it at night it’s hard to stay awake during the day. I pray anyone who needs help get the help they need. It’s definitely not worth it. I made a lot of dumb decisions during my active addiction days. I give all the credit to my wife for getting me the help I needed.
Me too. Just turned 10 years, I cannot imagine going back to that painful life.
#WeDoRecover 👌🏼🙏🏼
Same here 10 years sober from heroin 🫶
Good job homie!!
@@johanahonen8627 blessed!
That’s so great to hear…from all of you. Congrats to everyone who has beat any addiction - it’s so freaking hard
I'm surprised Bruce didn't mention that this guy is also a lawyer and the special problems that creates for him. Reilly focuses on family law, and he had been in court earlier that day. The R.I. Supreme Court has now suspended his law license and assigned an other attorney to handle his cases. He's also resigned as councilman.
It's RI. He will be slid back into some cushy job once it blows over. Rhode Island politics are as corrupt as you can get.
Good, he's finally facing some accountability for all the pain and misery that he's causing for all the people around him. Most people on this thread think that enabling him is the answer. No, that's what will kill him.
@@Skank_and_Gutterboy Yeah, let's just treat every disease like that
@@mektheblack
It's not like he went out and caught a cold. He made a conscious decision to hit the pipe. I've got enough of these people in my extended family and I've witnessed the pain and misery that they cause. Don't be telling me about what good people they are.
@Mek you can't really explain it to people like this. You have to wait until it hits home. I have been clean for 5 years, thankfully not everyone thinks like this guy. Obviously his thinking is flawed, it hasn't ever worked, but he cannot be convinced.
I’m so glad I found your channel a couple weeks ago! I’ve watched SO many videos! Love the relationship you have with your son and how much you appreciate him. You really seem like y’all have A relationship fathers and sons should strive for!
Thank you both.
It's sweet how you talk about your son. You guys are awesome.
My mother has been a respiratory therapist since well before I was born, so I grew up being used to her coming home from a shift in near tears, asking for a hug because a child out there was now without a mom or dad, or how someone not much older than me wasn't going to get to grow up now. Once I got old enough, she started telling me about how they died specifically, and how much they must've suffered. Because of this, I've always been incredibly aware of how this can, and will affect anybody in some way. You're not safe from it just because you came from a wealthy, white family. You're not even safe if you've never experienced any type of trauma. Though I'm not a religious person, I pray that one day every addict has the outlets and resources they need to save themselves, and that every family member, friend, and/or community member has the resources they need to decompress.
He missed a belt loop on his pants.
Thank you, Bruce for calling out the white privilege. Its disappointing that some people continue to deny its existence.
Mr. Rivers, it’s a wonderful thing that relationship you have with your content genius. It’s fabulous to witness the good work between you two.
This video maybe the best video you and Michel produced. It wasn't so much what happened but everything you said was right on the money. I'm 76, been clean for 50+yrs and totally related to this story. When I think of the money and time I wasted on heroin just pimakes me mad at how stupid I was. I hope people listen to every word you said. Thanks Bruce and Michael.
Ya, what cd i have if not for drugs and alcohol?
Hey, I'm really glad you are here 50+ years longer than where you were headed. I quit drinking 15 years ago. It's true that addiction steals everything from us and our loved ones. ❤
This is a reminder that addiction is a PUBLIC HEALTH issue, and it should be treated with seriousness and respect. Just because someone is addicted to a hard drug doesn't mean they're bad people. We have address the root causes of drug use and violence in order to improve our societe.
I'm 10 years sober and STILL get vilified, demeaned and made to feel like shit.
Addicts will never get treated with compassion, there is too much ignorance, biases etc 😢
Yeah people that take drugs are often people that never thought that they would be taking drugs.
Many start when they are in a vulnerable state and then you are addicted and therefore you continue.
I understand that people wonder why people take drugs but they also need to try and understand that things aren’t as black and white as they seem.
No drug should be illegal
@@oskarekelund1476 mine started when l had 14 surgeries and countess procedures after giving birth to my son. I became addicted to pain killers. I naively didn't know you could, and not one of my surgeon's or doctors told me either.
Still not a excuse, just explaination of how my story began
David and that’s what the Mexican President is doing and teaching in the mañanera.
Not a single thing will happen to this councilman, NOT ONE THING. That is the way the rules are set up for any state of federal employee. For example, There is a mayor in the city of FORT WAYNE, INDIANA, who committed a felony hit & run or hit & skip, while D.U.I. and caused approx $25K in private/personal damage to other peoples belongings, "cars" and loss of work etc. They didn't even charge him, and he was only required to give an apology to the public, and he is still the mayor. Mayor Tom Henry is a criminal... Their excuse for not charging him, was a week after his actions of a two felony's, among other "would be charges" that... again, a week after he did that mess, just found out that his wife has cancer... Well, I am sorry for his wife, and the journey she will endure, but, anybody else, would have received a huge "F.U." and destroyed your life and you lose everything for even a partial amount of charges.. But not TOM HENRY.. Then you realize, his brothers and sisters (13 of them) have their hands laced into everything of that city including corruption and theft of tax dollars, and favors of contracts to friends and family over others who are more qualified or who came in with the lower bid.. Huge political pulls to take care of their buddies...
he already lost his job genius
Depends. Is he Democrat or republican? Democrats don't go to jail.
@@a_100lb_blunt facts! Hes actually a republican. If he was a Dumbocrat Bruce wouldn't have done a video.
@@a_100lb_blunt How many republicans have gone to jail?
@@a_100lb_blunt
Surely you jest. 😂😂😂😂😂
Update...he is arrested AGAIN....A MONTH LATER...CRANSTON, R.I. (WPRI) - Embattled former Cranston City Councilman Matthew Reilly has been arrested again, this time facing charges of sexual assault and child molestation, less than a month after his high-profile arrest for drug possession.
Reilly, 41, was taken into custody Thursday morning, according to Cranston Police Major Todd Patalano. Cranston police say Reilly was arrested in North Kingstown.
Court records show the former councilman is facing three counts: first-degree child molestation sexual assault, second-degree child molestation sexual assault, and enticement of a person under the age of 16. Police allege the charges stem from an incident on May 3.
Former Cranston city councilman Matt Reilly appears in court on June 8, 2023. (William Clark/WPRI-TV)
He was arraigned Thursday and ordered held without bail.
Reilly’s arrest warrant comes after a legal guardian of a 12-year-old girl, unrelated to Reilly, filed a complaint with police, according to a press release
It’s so surreal that all this happened in the parking lot of the salon that I used to work in. The salon owner’s boyfriend saw a guy nodding off in his car, thought he was dying, and he immediately went and notified a police officer to see if the dude was okay.
Wow! That’s really scary!
I love how he gives all the props to his son you can tell he really loves him and cares about him Admires him And respects him
The cop didn’t treat him like he was an idiot. He kept everything understated, calm and with empathy. Something like that could be the difference between success in rehab or not.
He was a councilman dude... Would be totally different if this was just some random dude.
@@TheRealSwampOperatorno, it wouldn't.
@@FUnzzies1there are so many videos on youtube that show how different cops act
didn`t stop him being arrestedagain for the same thing only a month later!
It warmed the hell out of my heart to hear you praising your son!!!!
If he was a differnt clas of citizen he would have been thrown on the ground, handcuffed, and charged with as much as they could. Dude deserves to be treated like a regular citizen and not a privileged p.o.s. that most likely pushes for people in his same situation to be charged to the maximum. Honestly hope he goes to prison like anyone else would have
Excellent point!!
They would have looked the other way if not for the body cameras. It's reprehensible.
I made the same comment!
BRUCE: "Well, at least he's got his seat belt on." 😆 😅
It's government privilege.
Bruce- if he were black he would have his car searched and be arrested!
Police- Searched his car and arrested him.
Bruce-
Stop lying. This was policing done fairly by a caring department.
@@JodyOwen-we6oo a black person would be cuffed immediately
@@JodyOwen-we6oo lol I love people who don’t understand the privilege they have saying racism doesn’t exist.
As a once drug addict, u just can't explain it unless you've been there. It's all u care about. It controls your life. Everything else just exists but means nothing. Ur living a life just to get you to the next drug. It's so addicting and ur body becomes so dependent, it's like needing air to breathe. This guy wasn't "throwing his life away for drugs"..his life is drugs and his career and relationships is 2nd tier. I'm so glad I got clean before this fentanyl craze happened or I'd 100% be dead
I appreciate how much Bruce loves his son, wish I had a parent that loved me like that.
Thank you Bruce R. For being TRUE to the law and reality.
And for naming the likely "white privilege" that seems to be shown. Although by the end of the video it seems that he's been very fortunate to have been met by compassionate and caring officers. Which is also really good to see. No hostility from anyone - showing how it's possible to do law enforcement without fear and aggression. Thanks Bruce, and Michael Rivers!
I'm an EMT. A few years ago I had a run where an assistant in a dentist office decided to get high in her car on her lunch break. Whatever she smoked knocked her out. She dropped it and set her clothes on fire. She was getting burned alive and didn't know it. Transported her with 3rd degree burns. Don't do drugs. Bad things happen.
Omg
I've worked as an assistant and don't understand how you would not be 100% for this type of job. You're working in the mouth, sharp instruments, around teeth, tongue, gum, throat, and head to head with your boss sometimes 😮
I love it "and here's the thing" !!! :)
I love how you already relate the E Sign ad to whatever the video is about 😂 “so let’s say you’re a councilmen and you’re smoking crack in your car, you’re definitely going to need something signed” 😂😂😂
Young child in my community went in the kitchen and told her mama: "Daddy won't wake up." And he never did. Those words haunt me. Good show. I hope it helps someone.
I love how Bruce talks about his son, it fills my heart with joy
4 years sober… from alcohol! Never underestimate the effects of alcohol. Illegal Drugs are a huge problem, but an even bigger problem lies in plain sight.
As a former dope fiend I can tell you, you can do anything you do sober while in active addiction, its just for how long you can maintain it. Seen some people with heroin addictions maintain high paying prestigious jobs, but eventually you misstep. Its like having an affair, you can take all the steps possible and be as sly as possible, bit eventually you’ll get caught.
This is so true I'd do a line in the morning before work then a line at lunch and at home but there does come a point where you are just feeling more normal than getting high and having a great career and a high paying job just means you don't have to walk up an don't the street looking the part.
My best friend was addicted to heroin. Dude worked 3 jobs and provided for his family. Was never out stealing for his addiction either. Unfortunately, we lost him due to an overdose 3yrs ago.
@@GMB726 im so sorry for your loss my friend 🙏❤️I know how it is losing your friends to that poison. I’m especially glad I’m not using anymore with the fentanyl epidemic…. Lost friends lately because of that too.
@@bentleyv1233 Thank you.
@@Pop_Culture_Pulpit Everything stops working for you eventually. As a petty nicotine addict, I used to enjoy the effects of nicotine. Mild buzz and made me feel more focused. I used to still have sensitivity to it and could even do too much of it if I wasn't careful. Now, it's more like I need to constantly use it to just feel normal. It no longer "adds" anything to my experience while using it. However, when I don't have it, THAT is when I "feel it" the most, or more accurately, feel the withdrawal.
I’ve never been arrested in my life and i make an effort to watch all you content! Always coming through with amazing breakdowns. Appreciate your work .
I just love how much Bruce speaks of his love for his son, “content genius “ Michael- just warms my heart every video
I really appreciate your showing this story to show addictions can happen to anyone and there is help before it’s too late thank you
Thanks so much to Bruce AND Michael for another FANTASTIC video! ❤❤ We love you guys and this channel so much, please keep it up! I swear I watch this channel immediately whenever a video is uploaded 😂
I work at a smoke shop, and some of the people that come in for those pipes are people you would NEVER expect to be doing it
100%…. My cousins sold drugs and the customers you would not believe. Addiction does not discriminate. Go to your local methadone clinic… from homeless to teachers, medical professionals, to lawyers in their SUITS going into the office! Just another day!
It's not only adorable that you openly love your son so much but it's so healthy and positive!! All men need to grow up with a dad who tells them they are handsome and tells them "i love you" out loud casually in front of ppl and to be treated like their dads favourite person!! ❤
You do know most dads love their kids right? Not sure what your experiences have been in this life, i'm a dad and tell my kids every day i love them and are proud of them.
I don't understand how in your comment you convey almost suprise that a dad loves his kid. There's always exceptions but i'd say that theres more good dads and mums out there than bad ones.
@@dfgiuy22 that's excellent for you and your kids but it's not the reality for a lot of kids.....a lot of men struggle to say "I love you " out loud and they didn't grow up hearing it either....being brought up in a "big boys don't cry, don't be a sissy" household means boys learn to learn to suppress their emotions the only acceptable one being anger "stop crying and go hit them back harder" these boys can grow up to struggle with expressing even positive emotions (but they still express anger) which is confusing for children and the cycle continues...so with that in mind evey time I see a men openly expressing love especially to children it warms my heart and I point it out 😊
The amount of love bruce has for his son is incredible. So heart-warming ❤
Hell yes - thank you Michael Rivers for making your dad review this! (He is the best!)
This bodycam footage came across my plate the other day, and I thought it was so absurd, and I immediately wanted to hear a "Bruce rivers CLR" review asap!
New to this channel for like a week or so. The break downs are easy to digest for me as a layman to the laws, you seem to keep an unbias objective outlook, but also come off as a realist down to earth, humble person. Great channel overall.
Welcome!
Bruce, I've got to correct you on this one. Ask any nurse, fentanyl does not absorb through the skin like that. Those fentanyl patches are carefully designed and treated to allow cutaneous transfer, and you'd have to wrap yourself up like a mummy in those things to OD. Otherwise you have to ingest it directly.
Cop legends about ODs from touching fent are just like those stories they tell each other about how every guy who hulks out after getting tased is supposedly on PCP. Nah guys, you just got your asses kicked, it's okay to admit it.
When cops actually do OD on powdered fent it's either because they got it in their eyes or mouth, they had their hand in the cookie jar, or like with those PCP supervillains they're just landing on a convenient narrative because they need to explain it somehow. None of those stories stand up to scrutiny, and the stories about aerosolized fent are 100% BS. Health care workers handle fent every day, it just doesn't work like that.
Ask yourself, why are police the only ones affected by it in that way, but literally everyone else who handles the stuff is not? Why are no firefighters or EMTs having that reaction?
Edited to add paragraph breaks because that was a big ol' wall of text.
@rivercitymud. If your comments about absorption are factual, they need to be widely heard.
I agree to disagree Fentanyl can be absorbed through the the skin by touching it, unless the powder form is disturbed it causes a reaction if it is not disturbed it has no effect let me verify that the side that is mediated. It does not have to be put in eyes, nose, and mouth to cause a serious reaction to someone else which is why Narcan is being used by Officer’s and Emergency medical personnel. The low cost of Fentanyl and the lacing/mixing of cocaine and meth it’s truly hard to know what someone has used.
thanks for sharing your experience @rivercitymud, came to the comments hoping someone was bringing this up
@@Mikki4722
No, the dangers of fentanyl from just touching it are a myth.
Not sure why police and now popular TV shows keep making this myth more popular.
There are countless medical professionals who have explain ad nauseam what you said if completely false.
@@Mikki4722
Here, this is from an actual M.D. explaining fentanyl and the myths about ODs from simple exposure.
ua-cam.com/video/215hLEVD9ww/v-deo.html&pp=ygUORmVudGFueWwgbXl0aHM%3D
Thankyou for your channel you brighton my day the stories are sad you bring laughter to the madness
That officer gets a 10/10 in my book. Hope the guy gets the help he needs and doesn’t enter the death spiral of drug addiction
@@dogeman9645 not that one. He gets at best a 5/10. What I was talking about was the empathetic one towards the end
We had some officers here in TN who went to the hospital claiming they were exposed to fentanyl and had it absorbed into their skin after just touching the pills. However, when time passed, it turned out that they had panic attacks from thinking they were exposed. Multiple scientists came out and said that the quantity of fentanyl needed for a dry pill to be absorbed into the skin would be far greater than the quantity that they encountered.
Correct, it has to be formulated a certain way to be absorbed thru the skin such as the patches some people are prescribed. Otherwise it doesn't go through your skin like that.
Well cops have died of overdose not using proper gloves
Yep. One cop said he overdosed from touching fentanyl and it turned out he was actually just high on the job from taking the pills he does every day and trying to cover it up.
If it was a fentanyl patch they’d be right to be worried
One of those scientist said that he was running experiments and accidentally spilt it all over himself. He had on regular clothes but had a respirator on. He didn't feel a thing.
They're treating him so special because they see him as one of them. As a council member he's "in the club" so to speak. Equal treatment under the law is a joke.
That damn sleep cracknea gets ya every time lol 😂