Why can't you STOP THINKING about them even though they've MOVED ON?

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths 2 місяці тому +11

    Seeing someone you cared about move on can trigger feelings of inadequacy or self-doubt

    • @cerico76
      @cerico76 2 місяці тому

      About them!

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому +2

      Yes, it definitely can. Remember though that your worth is unaffected by the external world. Remember who you are and all that you are.

  • @Teegee1387
    @Teegee1387 2 місяці тому +7

    Wow. Thank you for this. I am struggling so hard to let go. I feel the energy sometimes and I often wonder if I’m losing mind because it can be so intense. I’ve literally been forcing myself to let go because holding on hurts a lot. I guess I need to just let it flow.

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому +1

      Yes, this is always the answer. Let it flow.

    • @Teegee1387
      @Teegee1387 Місяць тому

      @@CoachAliki Thank you

  • @Tom-cp6yj
    @Tom-cp6yj 2 місяці тому +4

    It's betrayal trauma.. you built them up in your head, and the opposite happened!

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому +4

      This is sometimes the case but not always. When you are betrayed, it affects you deeply. The important thing is to gain the understanding and release the pain so you move forward.

  • @florencelancette9119
    @florencelancette9119 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank You so much, Aliki 🙏. You have such a great and deep understanding of human feelings. You are amazing and a treasure for all of us❤

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому

      Wow, thank you. ❤️

  • @DaveK0526
    @DaveK0526 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, explains so much!

  • @adamsmith868
    @adamsmith868 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Aliki as usual 😀

  • @fierymoth4330
    @fierymoth4330 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Aliki, I am learning to let go of energy and let if flow in and out of my life, slowly but surely ❤

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому +1

      Wonderful! This changes everything. It all moves into place when you let it flow.

  • @cerico76
    @cerico76 2 місяці тому

    I am feeling melancholy and anger. She left me 7 months ago, not a single day has passed without thinking of her. She moved on quickly after a 26 years relationship, I simply cannot. I think my feelings are normal.

  • @MN-xi1nb
    @MN-xi1nb 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Aliki🙏🌹🕊❤

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому +1

      You are so welcome! ❤️😊

  • @linggg1541
    @linggg1541 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you this is helpful. Can it be that I get stuck in the loop of thoughts out of pure habit? I am 3 months out of a divorce after 33 yrs of marriage. I'm aware I'm holding deep anger at being betrayed and left for another woman, and feeling grief over the loss of a life I once had along with all my hopes and dreams of what it would/should have been. I feel stepped over, mistreated and abandoned ( recognising this rings the same bell as my neglectful childhood), how should I move forward with this please? I just feel very sad.

  • @funnybunny81
    @funnybunny81 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much 🥲

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому

      You are so very welcome!

  • @TroyPosey
    @TroyPosey 2 місяці тому +1

    Excellent video Aliki! 😊 Your wisdom and insights are always so helpful, and you explain it in a way that's its very easy to understand. A lot of this esoteric stuff can get confusing. 😂
    You are looking lovely today. I hope you've been well, and that you have an amazing day and weekend! ❤🌹😘

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much Troy! I hope you have been doing well. Wishing you a wonderful week!😊❤️

    • @TroyPosey
      @TroyPosey 2 місяці тому

      @@CoachAliki Thanks Aliki, you too! 😊❤️

  • @cerico76
    @cerico76 2 місяці тому

    26 years together,she left me seven months ago, moved with someone else after not even a month. Pretty much disappeared from my life, even if We have a son together. Every night and every morning she comes in my mind, I’ve listened to my feelings, in the night they are of sadness and melancholy, in the morning, I am angry with her. What should I think? I really would love to move on, but my guts is telling me that there is something unresolved. I won’t ask her to talk ,I’ve tried already, she didn’t even call me back. 😂

  • @SA-wj1jo
    @SA-wj1jo 2 місяці тому +1

    They were not on ny mind in last 7 years as they are in last 4 months and the trigger was a song. What us this??

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому

      Songs can be powerful triggers. What do you feel the connection is?

  • @ArmandoRodarte-n1b
    @ArmandoRodarte-n1b 2 місяці тому

    Thank u again this helps last we spoke you give me some advice. It’s been 8 months still can’t stop thinking. Some people I know say reason why it hasn’t happened. It’s because there’s blockage and it’s all in due time sometimes it can take longer The feeling is there for sure I know it unless I’m going crazy and I believe she knows it too just based on the things she doesn’t, Instagram. But then again, it could be a coincidence, but they say that’s too many coincidence do you believe it’s blockage? Thanks for the video it helps and thank you for being around

  • @kanimozhi5487
    @kanimozhi5487 2 місяці тому

    Therapy 🩵

  • @DuEnglish-f2g
    @DuEnglish-f2g 2 місяці тому +2

    What's thus universe justice? How can a cheater who spoiled hurted left me , still live happily with another girl? Then whats the point? So everyone can hurt anyone and live happily. Isn't it. That evil cheater womanizer who hurted left blocked me even after I cried and begged several times. I'm suffering with extreme emotional pain and deep intense strong feelings of love and grief for last 9 years . But he is living happily with another girl. Is this universe law? So there's no karma. Isn't it?. So no matter How evil someone to be to other but can live happily. I hate this universe justice

    • @prakhya123
      @prakhya123 2 місяці тому

      They will get their karma, maybe later but they will. Universe does not let bygones be bygones.

    • @CoachAliki
      @CoachAliki  2 місяці тому

      I understand the deep pain you are experiencing and the sense that there is no justice. I know it is hard to accept now, but forgiving him and yourself will set you free from experiencing the pain day after day. When you are ready, forgive, let the energy go, and move forward.