What’s killing your libido? How to fix a low sex drive while TTC.

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @Peteluver145
    @Peteluver145 Рік тому +7

    I would LOVE to see a video about nourishing traditions from you!!

    • @linnichelle6928
      @linnichelle6928 Рік тому +1

      Me too!! 🥲💖 I have been struggling for so long to get back to and maintain a healthy weight because of GI problems. I have to work every day to eat an adequate amount of food. And if I rely on hunger queues, I begin losing again. 😢

  • @carolinacs5049
    @carolinacs5049 Рік тому +6

    Hi Ingefleur, I am happy to tell you that I followed all your recommendations and I am pregnant 7w2. After 1.5 year of infertility and 2 previous MC. Thank you so much!!! I Learn so much about my cycle and empower me to decide what’s best for me. I want continue to follow your recommendations through pregnancy, Can I join your patron account? The content will be for me ?

  • @kellylynchfertility
    @kellylynchfertility 11 місяців тому

    I love how this video gives advice for the men as well! Thank you!!

  • @rachelverbracken8751
    @rachelverbracken8751 Рік тому +1

    Such good information here! Thank you!!

  • @FertilityHomeopath
    @FertilityHomeopath  Рік тому

    Wondering if your low libido is related to being outside of your fertile window or a hormone imbalance? *Sign up to my FREE course Your Fertile Window* and learn _when_ you are fertile and _how_ fertile you really are: www.ingefleur.com/freechartingcourse

  • @ceciliaferreira8411
    @ceciliaferreira8411 Рік тому +1

    Hi Ingefleur, love this video. Can you share more about how/which homeopathic remedies can help with past trauma? I know that's been always a major factor affecting my libido even though I've addressed it in different ways. Thanks!

  • @katrinafitchet3588
    @katrinafitchet3588 Рік тому +1

    I'm waiting on a letter with an appointment to see a doctor about my sex drive, I've not managed to have sex with my partner for nearly a year due to not being interested and it's frustrating

  • @joywangombe1107
    @joywangombe1107 11 місяців тому

    My libido is very poor what do boost it

  • @Keepinitreal55
    @Keepinitreal55 11 місяців тому +2

    You mentioned estrogen dominance but you didn’t mention an even more common reason which is estrogen deficiency! When estrogen is low in women it kills sex drive faster than anything else. How did you miss that? 🤔

  • @shannonjdobson
    @shannonjdobson Рік тому

    Happy to see a new video! I have had two chemical pregnancies two months in a row. Progesterone was 32 day 6 but when I went back for testing when I saw the line fading it was 9.2. Thoughts? Do I need progesterone or is this just bad luck?

    • @shannonjdobson
      @shannonjdobson Рік тому

      I watched your videos and for the past 1.5 months have been doing the vitamins etc to help but not sure what the problem is

    • @FertilityHomeopath
      @FertilityHomeopath  Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry to read this lovely. I'd start with my free course Your Fertile Window to look into whether you have a hormone imbalance or not. Also check my video on reasons for miscarrying. Both should help you with a next step to take. Take heart lovely ❤️

    • @shannonjdobson
      @shannonjdobson Рік тому

      @@FertilityHomeopaththank you and thank you for everything you do to help us! I will update.

  • @rhhsflute11
    @rhhsflute11 Рік тому +1

    I am 5 months postpartum and I have zero sex drive. I had an emergency C-section after trying to deliver at a natural birth center. unsure if my hormones are still out of wack. I am exclusively breast feeding and my cycle has not returned. When we've tried to be intimate it has been painful or my body simply doesn't want to do it. it saddens me because I feel like I'm just roommates with hubby.

    • @rhhsflute11
      @rhhsflute11 Рік тому

      I do think part of it is due to my birth trauma as well

    • @InHimAlone
      @InHimAlone Рік тому

      I have had 7 babies, 5 were c-sections, all were breastfed. It is definitely normal to feel how you do at 5 months postpartum. The same hormones that you produce when breastfeeding actually can cause low-libido, but this is another natural way for your body to space pregnancies out. As far as pain, my first was pretty traumatic and I wasn't up to it until 6 months postpartum and it was like learning all over again. It definitely gets better - the pain and the low libido! Be patient with yourself, hopefully your husband is understanding and patient too, and keep trying when you can. Take things slowly. I promise it will get better and eventually you will feel normal again. Every postpartum period is different too - some I didn't really get libido back until I was completely done nursing (although it did get better before that) and other were only a few months after birth. But again, what you are feeling is definitely normal for where you are at, even though it is frustrating.

    • @FertilityHomeopath
      @FertilityHomeopath  Рік тому

      I love that you share this with Michelle, Sheri. Nothing beats support from someone that knows what you're going through.
      I definitely wouldn't expect your period back at this point Michelle, it can really vary per woman and per pregnancy as well. Do look into the birth trauma at some point because I'm sure this is something you'll need to address but I agree with Sheri, at a slow pace. Expect for this to take at least a year to come to terms with.

  • @mariapaschalidou9341
    @mariapaschalidou9341 Рік тому

    Yes we struggle

  • @brittanyfoster4253
    @brittanyfoster4253 Рік тому +1

    Hello I have a different question I guess you could say. I have two preteen daughters that have started menstrual cycles. One daughter's very first cycle was ten months ago the other eight months, they can be somewhat irregular in their timing. My cycle is right on the money when it's supposed to be, but when one of them starts I will spot or bleed for a couple hours. Me and my husband are currently trying to conceive, I am coming into my fertile window and boom this morning one of them started and I had very small spot of blood. My question is does this affect me trying to conceive? I'm on day 10 , does this affect the building of lining in my uterus?

  • @inajain7
    @inajain7 Рік тому +1

    Hi Fleuer. Can high carbohydrate meals and little exercise effect egg development and ovulation for an overweight and insulin resistant woman. I had PCOS earlier but no signs now. Pls reply

  • @Sammy-ce2zw
    @Sammy-ce2zw Рік тому

    Hi I was trying to see? I don't have a regular cycle but I'm trying to get pregnant almost like 4 years and I can can. Can you please help me out?

  • @adinalapadat7035
    @adinalapadat7035 Рік тому +3

    Hi. I am so glad you made this video. Thank you. After 3 traumatic miscarriages in the past few years, after many , many tests and supplements and thousands of dollars invested in figuring why this happens, I find myself still lost. I used to get pregnant easily nod now I don't. I have been watching you for a while now and I learn so much from these videos. My cortisol was suoper low, tood supplements to raise it and now I am subclinical hyperthyroidism with a low DHEA. My OBGYN didn't seem concerned about it🤦🏻‍♀️Any recommendations on how to naturally treat this and maybe get pregnant and have the baby? I would really appreciate any help. I am 40 and hubby 45( his DHEA is low also) . THANK YOU!!!!!

    • @karenm.4478
      @karenm.4478 Рік тому +1

      Hi Adina, your story is very similar to mine. I just wanted to mention that working with an experienced homeopath could be very helpful for you. The right remedies can work towards hormonal balance, address adrenal fatigue, and help you overcome other challenges to getting and staying pregnant. I would also recommend you consider Ingefleur’s detoxes. I’m hoping the best for you!

    • @adinalapadat7035
      @adinalapadat7035 Рік тому +1

      @@karenm.4478 thank you so much, Karen. I have been thinking about the detoxes also, maybe I should do that. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @karenm.4478
      @karenm.4478 Рік тому

      @@adinalapadat7035 yes, the detoxes can make all the difference, especially when you have experienced changes in your fertility over time. Don’t give up hope! 💜💜

  • @laserprincessart
    @laserprincessart Рік тому +1

    How do you detox from both plastic and pharmaceuticals in the water? I'm struggling to find a good water filter system that doesn't rely on plastic.

    • @karenm.4478
      @karenm.4478 Рік тому

      Hi Karin, we have a Berkey filtration system, which is very powerful and uses a stainless steel container.

  • @abigailwilson2573
    @abigailwilson2573 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video! Do you think that a plastic mouth guard worn at night could be damaging?

    • @FertilityHomeopath
      @FertilityHomeopath  Рік тому

      I doubt it would have severe impact. These are made with plastics that are much less known to leak. But honestly, how do we know for sure right? But I would worry less about a mouth guard for sure.

    • @abigailwilson2573
      @abigailwilson2573 Рік тому

      @@FertilityHomeopath thank you so much for taking the time to respond to me! It is something I really need to use, unfortunately, so this is so reassuring! I will fix what I can and try not to worry about the rest. Learning so much from your videos; thank you!

  • @ashn9793
    @ashn9793 Рік тому

    👋 hello Ingefleur! I was hoping you could recommend a good progesterone cream? I’m looking to lengthen my luteal phase and was going to try wild yam root but heard it’s not actually a solution for that problem since it’s not bio identical/available. Thank you ! ❤ baby dust to all

  • @mel-vf8pc
    @mel-vf8pc Рік тому +1

    How do you feel about vaccinating babies? I am so torn on whether to vacc my baby or not. I’ve read too many negative things about it tbh..

    • @flyinginthewind111
      @flyinginthewind111 Рік тому +1

      Don't do it! My mom vaccinated me and she had to go through all these hoops just to make sure I didn't get the "bad" chemicals, but vaccines are made up of almost entirely "bad" chemicals, so it's just better to avoid.

    • @mel-vf8pc
      @mel-vf8pc Рік тому

      @@flyinginthewind111 yeah my daughter is now 4 months old and she’s not vaccinated. I would love to know Fleur’s point of view on this concept!

  • @magdalenagross974
    @magdalenagross974 Рік тому

    I would love if you could explain how to detox from trauma.

    • @FertilityHomeopath
      @FertilityHomeopath  Рік тому +1

      I wouldn't necessarily call it detox, but you can get help from a homeopath to get remedies to help you process it ❤️

    • @michelleh7891
      @michelleh7891 Рік тому +2

      I went to a homeopath for trauma and her remedies are really helping me - def suggest seeing one

  • @myrialazarou6698
    @myrialazarou6698 Рік тому

    Hi, i wonder if there is an homeopath way of solving a specific problem in sex that it has been existed from the begining and it stil exists after 8 years, and because of that we could not have a child. Now there are more fertility problems because of age and the way of life but before marriage this was the only problem. It was psychological but it ruined our lives!

    • @myrialazarou6698
      @myrialazarou6698 Рік тому

      If there sre therapies for this kind of problems please answer me and i will send you more details about it. I have make an ivf and my emprios were found abnormal, all of them 11! Them they gave me very little chances for another to be successful and my health is very bab now, so i need someone to help me on this .

  • @delvene2020
    @delvene2020 Рік тому

    What was the way of eating?

    • @Peteluver145
      @Peteluver145 Рік тому

      Nourishing Traditions. They have a podcast here on UA-cam called Wise Traditions :)

  • @shaniafredericks4273
    @shaniafredericks4273 Рік тому

    Hi for the past 2 months I've been trying to get pregnant and both times I saw spotting before my period. I taught it was implantation bleeding but then I end up getting my period 😭 its so sad and it breaks my heart to see my husband getting excited and then I get my period 😭😭. Please if u have any advice for me comment below... thank you ❤

    • @FertilityHomeopath
      @FertilityHomeopath  Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry lovely, that is really hard. It sounds like you might struggle with progesterone. Have a look at the videos on my channel related to low progesterone.