Gary Vaynerchuk on Stoicism, Soft Skills, and Becoming Your Best Self

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2021
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    On this episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast Ryan talks to entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk about his new book Twelve and a Half: Leveraging the Emotional Ingredients Necessary for Business Success, how to get comfortable with vulnerability and emotional development, the best way to maintain long term business success, and more.
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    Gary Vaynerchuk is an entrepreneur, author, speaker, and Internet personality. First known as a wine critic who expanded his family's wine business, Vaynerchuk is now more known for his work in digital marketing and social media as the chairman of New York-based communications company VaynerX, and as CEO of VaynerX subsidiary VaynerMedia.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 191

  • @DailyStoic
    @DailyStoic  2 роки тому +45

    Hope everyone enjoys this interview. We'd love to hear what your favorite parts were, comment the timestamps!

    • @andrewryan2814
      @andrewryan2814 2 роки тому

      Just subscribed to daily email. Ever since I first began to study Marcus Aurelius, I strive to be more stoic. If a Roman emperor can withstand far greater temptation than is offered to us, we should all strive to that same goal.

    • @robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654
      @robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654 2 роки тому +4

      My favorite part was (paraphrasing) the whole thing about people/business/orgs that may have done you dirty, and they are not even a thing to waste energy on. Put them on a shelf somewhere and move forward. The sesne of actually moving forward with that level of detachment... In listening to this interview I envisioned what that would feel like to be so far liberated from those negative experiences, and thought to myself - hell yeah! What an epic success that is.

    • @formisfunction1861
      @formisfunction1861 2 роки тому

      The whole thing is pure gold!

  • @joedavis4150
    @joedavis4150 2 роки тому +149

    I'm 80 years old now. At age 10, in the fourth grade,, when they were doing their best to break me, and almost did, I made a solemn vow to myself that I would never be like them.... I have lived up to it.

    • @TheOwl1017
      @TheOwl1017 2 роки тому +14

      As Marcus Aurelius says "The best revenge is to not be like your enemy."

    • @DaniJ923
      @DaniJ923 2 роки тому +1

      Congrats sir!

    • @jorgepgam1243
      @jorgepgam1243 2 роки тому +1

      @Totem Hill p

    • @jorgepgam1243
      @jorgepgam1243 2 роки тому

      Yame lo aprobaron ya

    • @jorgepgam1243
      @jorgepgam1243 2 роки тому

      By iDfhh de las tarjetas a la

  • @codyhunt1838
    @codyhunt1838 2 роки тому +42

    “When we watch this in 5 years people are going to be quitting jobs they love.”…. I just resigned from the best job I’ve ever had because I had an option to take on something more difficult and meaningful. We are there already Gary.

    • @codyhunt1838
      @codyhunt1838 2 роки тому +2

      Just passed my licensing exams today… can’t believe it’s happening. Thank you all!

    • @DefeatLust
      @DefeatLust 2 роки тому +1

      @@codyhunt1838 Congratulations 🙂

  • @ProjectJamesify
    @ProjectJamesify 2 роки тому +88

    Ryan and Gary, you know it's going to be good

    • @louielimranola
      @louielimranola 2 роки тому

      FOR SURE

    • @marcelmarcel5688
      @marcelmarcel5688 2 роки тому +1

      If u want they also have a video on Gary's channel where they do an episode together.

    • @louielimranola
      @louielimranola 2 роки тому

      @@marcelmarcel5688 I will check it!

  • @Better_Call_Bulba-Saur
    @Better_Call_Bulba-Saur Рік тому +4

    It's inspiring how two pros with noticeably incompatible personalities are having a conversation on so many relevant life topics and having both agreeing and disagreeing views on them. Normally we see people agree or disagree in these talks but this time we actually get to see a middle ground.

  • @joedavis4150
    @joedavis4150 2 роки тому +5

    ... " when you eliminate fear, people can move fast."...

  • @zachrat9083
    @zachrat9083 2 роки тому +11

    ‼️If you aren’t eating your own shit and sleeping 3 hours a night, you don’t want to be rich ‼️😎💪🏻

  • @studywm_pls
    @studywm_pls 2 роки тому +15

    bro two of my best mentors talk - this is incredible !!!

  • @juliuslopezramirez8028
    @juliuslopezramirez8028 2 роки тому +8

    26:36 best bit in my opinion, something thats so repeated by many people and yet embodied by not that many, we truly are fortunate and many times we don't realize it, but when we do most of our problems become trivial and they stop being something to be upset about. Great conversation, keep it up!!

  • @johnhansen4794
    @johnhansen4794 2 роки тому +6

    That was the perfect Gary V ending. 😎

  • @sensecarter2516
    @sensecarter2516 2 роки тому +9

    This is an incredibly inspiring channel. These principles of stoicism have impacted me immensely. Thanks for your self-sacrifice to inspire others.

  • @ashtonlosier5123
    @ashtonlosier5123 2 роки тому +13

    I really wish they would go into more advanced things with stoicism and Ryan would bounce those deeper ideas about stoicism and the logos and what not and see how they respond to that

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino 2 роки тому +2

      Gary is incapable of anything beyond the first sentence. He lacks any depth.

    • @matthewcote5198
      @matthewcote5198 2 роки тому

      @@DinoCorvino damn, you really didn't listen to any of this conversation, did you?

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino 2 роки тому +2

      @@matthewcote5198 I did not. I rejected Gary V a long time ago, and feel no need to listen to him when there are things I think of more substantive of my time.

    • @matthewcote5198
      @matthewcote5198 2 роки тому

      @@DinoCorvino look, that's cool and all, but what would Marcus Aurelius say? Making opinions on things you are totally uninformed about. Gary has shown a totally different side of himself recently...and if you are a fan of stoic philosophy, you will also understand that Marcus accepted truth can come from any source. But to call another human with no depth when you haven't even given them a real chance is pretty shallow.

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino 2 роки тому +1

      @@matthewcote5198 I am sure that is true. I gave Gary a chance a long time ago, and after reading what he wrote, watching his videos, even speaking to him on the phone twice, I made a personal choice for myself that there are other things that I would like to consume. That Gary was not one of those things, and given the state of the so called content world, Gary is just one loud voices in a sea of loud voices. I am under no obligation to try to consume them all. You are free to take your truth from where ever you find it, I chose to reject Gary based on the lack of substance in his first three or four books. His participation in the so called HUSTLE culture, his support of the DISRUPTION thing. He lost me really when he talked out his ass about public schools. There are other voices I want to hear from, feel free to find yours where you wish.

  • @JackCarver_Reporting_in
    @JackCarver_Reporting_in 2 роки тому +1

    Damn, the Audio/Video quality of this show makes it so enjoyable to watch!

  • @viviancrawford114
    @viviancrawford114 2 роки тому +1

    Gary is clever to say that you have to have courage to do something or anything.

  • @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776
    @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776 2 роки тому +6

    Two heavyweights of thought. Great meditation to start the day. I was fortunate that a key part of our business school studies was based on "soft business skills". Love the notion of "sportsman/womanship"

  • @hectorcavadajr6727
    @hectorcavadajr6727 2 роки тому +5

    Gary V the Stoic lmao that's great

  • @lyndao7356
    @lyndao7356 2 роки тому +1

    Wow. Breath taking. Good job, guys.
    This: ‘If you’re one of the people who thinks someone else’s success takes from you, you’ve lost already’ paraphrasing Gary, of course, but that’s the truth.

  • @Rod-dg7fy
    @Rod-dg7fy 2 роки тому +16

    Someday there will have to be a movie on Gary. He is the best example of the current state of the world.

    • @somguy728
      @somguy728 2 роки тому +7

      That comment could mean so many things - I consider Gary to be a high energy snake oil salesman - not a mass murdering eugenicist like those from Davos.

  • @aminmohammadi5011
    @aminmohammadi5011 2 роки тому +4

    My immediate response to thumbnail and titles and after checking the name of channel 5times, was oh shit! Ryan & Gary! I've never expecting this!!! THE Best thing I couldn't imagine! Thanks Ryan 💛

  • @JaredJacobsonLaw
    @JaredJacobsonLaw 3 місяці тому

    AMAZING conversation 💯💯💯 thank u 🙏

  • @louielimranola
    @louielimranola 2 роки тому +1

    OMGGGG STOICISM AND GARY, WHAT A COMBO!!!

  • @TheYorickFrijtersShow
    @TheYorickFrijtersShow 2 роки тому +6

    This was great. One of the two people I listen the most to and this ending is really typical and funny 😂❤️

    • @FrenchPhotos
      @FrenchPhotos 2 роки тому

      hahahaha "get out of here man!"

  • @viviancrawford114
    @viviancrawford114 2 роки тому

    Gary is so clever. I think that Ryan is clever too. I want to be a stoic. Freedom is the key to joy

  • @Flips4Miles
    @Flips4Miles 2 роки тому +3

    Gary the legend

  • @chatch909
    @chatch909 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you, Ryan. This is solid.

  • @isaiahbarze1952
    @isaiahbarze1952 2 роки тому +1

    I immediately saw this and thought That I would be better for listening to this.

  • @therealdavidtrotta
    @therealdavidtrotta 2 роки тому +2

    Perfectness, two of my favs!

  • @nani8701
    @nani8701 2 роки тому +2

    This is legendary gary helped me and millions of ppl appreciate it

  • @anwest
    @anwest 2 роки тому +2

    This is gold! Thank you!

  • @ChristianSoschner
    @ChristianSoschner 2 роки тому +5

    Awesome episode. Thanks for putting it together

  • @MyOutdoorQuest
    @MyOutdoorQuest 2 роки тому +1

    two legends in one frame ❤️‍🔥 #stoicism

  • @along9971
    @along9971 Рік тому

    ROFL!! Gotta love Gary!

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 2 роки тому +3

    Wow! Look at that wall made with books!

  • @louielimranola
    @louielimranola 2 роки тому +1

    SAVED THIS FOR LATER BUT I KNOW THIS IS GOING TO BE AMAZING

  • @a-jai9381
    @a-jai9381 2 роки тому

    i love love love love love this so much!!!

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 2 роки тому

    Change is not progress but progress requires change!

  • @divorcetheworld
    @divorcetheworld 2 роки тому

    I love the gratitude talk. The whole time I was hoping the conversation would head towards "if you regret fine, this is where you're at. Where to you point your sails from here.

  • @IamMattBeard
    @IamMattBeard 2 роки тому

    The...Gary V - "romantic of the concept of losing it all and building it back up!" Amazing interview. Every piece is just full of value.

  • @wawuchallenge8469
    @wawuchallenge8469 2 роки тому +7

    I love this interview, as always Gary dropping a ton of value coupled with stoic philosophy, this is priceless life lesson.

  • @Adrianblackshowman
    @Adrianblackshowman 2 роки тому

    So thankful for you two coming together for this talk! Thanks guys! Lots of gems in here!

  • @SalvationsElite
    @SalvationsElite 2 роки тому +2

    Hey man, this is the first time I've ever seen your content, and I'm blown away by your ability here. Loved every second of this conversation. Definitely subbed! Excited to go through more! You and Gary click to say the least!

  • @alanchriston6806
    @alanchriston6806 2 роки тому +1

    Superb once again , Brilliant 😊😊

  • @woahwoah407
    @woahwoah407 2 роки тому

    Legendary.

  • @droshik
    @droshik 2 роки тому +1

    Loved everything about this! This is the type of content I can consume 24/7! ❤️

  • @zachprice355
    @zachprice355 2 роки тому

    I'm so happy so happy i found this video

  • @AlexZeBeast
    @AlexZeBeast 2 роки тому +1

    This is powerful!

  • @viviancrawford114
    @viviancrawford114 2 роки тому

    Great speech Gary. I believe you.

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 2 роки тому

    "No opinion is the super power." = Love it!

  • @weavemagic
    @weavemagic 2 роки тому

    loved this conversation - thanks ryan & gary

  • @nikeball7
    @nikeball7 2 роки тому

    Very very very grateful

  • @akramdris7096
    @akramdris7096 2 роки тому +1

    it could be a good idea bring to the podcast Chris Bumstead, he is a big fan of stoicism

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 2 роки тому

    Life is long and life is short views = great conversation.

  • @MrAshay12
    @MrAshay12 2 роки тому

    Best interview of Gary in a while

  • @mcjoe4324
    @mcjoe4324 2 роки тому

    Daily stoic, Like this if you’ve kept contact with gary for more to come❤️

  • @educatedbybitcoin
    @educatedbybitcoin 2 роки тому

    Super high quality episode!

  • @theindiancricketpodcast
    @theindiancricketpodcast 2 роки тому

    I LOVE the way it ends! Wow you guys!

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 2 роки тому

    Two genius's

  • @ErikKing1
    @ErikKing1 2 роки тому

    That was very insightful.

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Рік тому

    "Hey I'm humble." LOL!

  • @erichopham
    @erichopham Рік тому

    When you judge others, you’re practicing for yourself

  • @LwaziSbuLive
    @LwaziSbuLive 2 роки тому

    Lovely Talk.

  • @unspokenwounds
    @unspokenwounds 2 роки тому

    Loved this entire thing! Best part was the very end when it'\s REAL REAL!

  • @dwaynecrosse8208
    @dwaynecrosse8208 2 роки тому

    Yes sirrr

  • @joser3075
    @joser3075 2 роки тому

    43:00 gratitude 🙏🏼

  • @pilkingtongue
    @pilkingtongue 2 роки тому

    this is my first podcast on this channel, i’ve only ever heard of ‘gary v’, i’ve been interested in stoicism before i was directed here, i think it was comedian annie ledderman shared you on an ig story, now i’m here, throughly enjoyed this. i know both of you could go at least 2+ hours and i would’ve seriously enjoyed it. thank you!

  • @ImperialDarkKnight
    @ImperialDarkKnight 2 роки тому

    Solid content to help you with attachments of knowledge

  • @antoniotubbs
    @antoniotubbs 2 роки тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @pucyu9678
    @pucyu9678 2 роки тому +2

    A true and through and through bs artist at his prime

  • @thescruffie
    @thescruffie 2 роки тому +1

    Great interview! The end got me 😂

  • @liam_dawson
    @liam_dawson 2 роки тому

    excellent interview

  • @expeditiontotry
    @expeditiontotry 2 роки тому +5

    I've been waiting for this conversation to happen. So hyped!
    I love Gary's ability to know he's a Stoic and at the same time say he's not one. That's so Stoic

    • @afinkeln
      @afinkeln Рік тому +1

      no that's just Gary enjoying his own flatulance

    • @ShinShinoke
      @ShinShinoke Рік тому

      He comes across as incredibly self obsessed personally

  • @DinoCorvino
    @DinoCorvino 2 роки тому +9

    oh this is too bad. I think Gary is a huge part of the problem. Him, Kevin Rose, Tim Ferriss, that generation of guys...just straight unconsidered lives. I feel bad that this interview even happened.

    • @FrenchPhotos
      @FrenchPhotos 2 роки тому

      Why? what's with Tim Ferriss?

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino 2 роки тому +3

      @@FrenchPhotos That crew of guys, for so long have claimed this bullshit title of DISRUPTOR and used it to make claims that have been attacked for years. Whether it be Kevin Rose and his bullshit tearing down a historical house, or the medical claims that are or are not posted by Ferriss, to the absolutely devoid of substance books that Gary Vee puts out combined with this youtube presence that is a long career of empty platitudes. Vaynerchuck has gotten to the point that Trevor Wallace even mocked him. There are people who do work, share knowledge, then there are these guys who got rich, and now talk all the time.

    • @FrenchPhotos
      @FrenchPhotos 2 роки тому

      @@DinoCorvino I would agree on some points. They were fooled by randomness and now they're talking in hindsight. But if you look at the back end, they were giving value to their market as well. Garyvee with his Agency working with big brands, Tim Ferriss and his personal struggle to better his lifestyle, and interviewing people who have their own struggles as well. But I won't discount your opinion as they also have some truth in it. ❤️

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino 2 роки тому

      @@FrenchPhotos So here is the thing, I know no one who has worked with or for Gary Vee. And look, his books are empty and without substance. What an opportunity he has to be a great mentor, but what he gives is style, the pose, the iconography. Not the work. A thousand years ago Bill Gates wrote a 500 page book about email. Dense, and hard to get through. But, really substantive. Punch Punch Jab Jab, or whatever, the ever annoying Hustle book. These guys do REAL things, not just buzz words. Not just DISRUPT OR HUSTLE OR HACK. And they sit down on those nonsense phrases, and people go for it.

  • @dallaspassmore
    @dallaspassmore 2 роки тому

    I’ve been saying Gary is a modern day stoic

  • @chrisa6212
    @chrisa6212 2 роки тому

    Based on how much you both had to say, to the point of Gary running over on time, I think it would interesting to have a part 2 of this dialogue.
    It was great to listen to! 👍

  • @yesyesyay8452
    @yesyesyay8452 2 роки тому

    I wish Gary isn’t glorifying social media as if it’s the only thing to become successful in the world. Otherwise, Respect.

  • @zacrobinson6117
    @zacrobinson6117 2 роки тому

    Ryan, please read the I ching and break it down for the plebs

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 2 роки тому

    Life is short compared to the endless amount of time available to get but at the same time life is long asf for us if your smart!!!

  • @BillyPulido
    @BillyPulido 2 роки тому

    Seeing this two in one vid. Wishing all the best here in comments.

  • @LaynoProd
    @LaynoProd 11 місяців тому

    this had so much life gems that even apply to me as a music artist, thank you Ryan and Gary for this wisdom 🙏🏽💎👨🏽‍🎨 with gratitude, LaynoProd

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 2 роки тому

    The alumni locker room = powerful!

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK 2 роки тому

    🖤

  • @christiandeltoro5128
    @christiandeltoro5128 2 роки тому +1

    I came to a conclusion that the reason why people judge others goes back to our evolutionary methods of human history. We “change/evolve” the world to suit us rather than ourselves “change/evolve” to suit the environment. We started making stone tools to give ourselves the advantage in nature rather than evolving over long periods of time. “Changing/evolving” others sounds like the expedient way to get to where we want to be. The hard way is looking inwards and change ourselves each individually.

  • @MichelleCrenshaw
    @MichelleCrenshaw 2 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ruben_torres
    @ruben_torres 2 роки тому

    Best ending ever.

  •  2 роки тому

    Awesome interview! So funny, was exactly 8:44 when he said it...I was kinda confused until I realized it was pure coincidence

  • @JoshBatalibasi
    @JoshBatalibasi 2 роки тому

    Great chat and how goods that bookshelf 📚😍🙌

  • @ScottDLuffy
    @ScottDLuffy 2 роки тому +1

    When I was 5 , 6 , 7... 4... 12 , 14, 13.. 11

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 2 роки тому +1

    I love the stoics and love all you do and I love @garyvee because your an intelligent dude! But guys please don’t sleep on my views cause I don’t on yours.

  • @chuyv4760
    @chuyv4760 2 роки тому +1

    I hope Ryan reads the book Breath by Rickson Gracie.

  • @unnaturalatrophy8073
    @unnaturalatrophy8073 2 роки тому +5

    Oh its the dude who couldn't pay the 100$ for garage guy

  • @gabes80
    @gabes80 2 роки тому

    He's whatever is trending today

  • @raiseyourmedia
    @raiseyourmedia 2 роки тому +1

    Gary is right... the right perspective is everything.

  • @Demajaasa
    @Demajaasa 2 роки тому +15

    I can't believe you invited this fraud

  • @Shaad2321
    @Shaad2321 2 роки тому

    This was a great intervenes! I’m trying to find the RBC buford interview and can’t seem to locate! If anybody knows where to find or has link leave a reply! Thanks!😃

  • @rodredoun1922
    @rodredoun1922 2 роки тому +8

    Gary V is very interested in wisdom lol, aren't we all?

    • @garyvee
      @garyvee 2 роки тому

      We sure are Xoxox

  • @jillym2743
    @jillym2743 Рік тому

    Great Podcast. I just came from the Robert green one to this. The energy is very different.
    Gary is awesome but his energy makes me wired up...not in a good way.
    The loud talking is not my vibe.
    Felt so chill with Mr green podcast.

  • @TiMoney22
    @TiMoney22 2 роки тому +1

    I like them discussing about being contextual to your audience

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 2 роки тому

    Btw i talk deep about everything because everything is a copy of everything and o the stoics are the road maps of life! Plus they knew shit before others!

  • @haroldoluizrodriguesfilho7779
    @haroldoluizrodriguesfilho7779 2 роки тому

    Admiral Stockdale, John Wooden, Warren Buffet, Monty Roberts, Peter Drucker, Clayton Christensen…wisdon

  • @kevinsnyder3040
    @kevinsnyder3040 2 роки тому +5

    he is obnoxiously loud...but people like loud people whom exhume confidence