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The other daughters who have the mother’s who don’t care for them… I feel less lonely knowing I am not alone. When I was younger, it could be hidden and now that I am a grown woman with grown adult children helping other adults who go through this, I feel less lonely.😢😞
My aunt was a nasty witch towards me as a little girl yelling at me screaming profanities at me. I was a little girl like 7 or 8 years old. Now as an adult she suddenly wants to play nice. But I remember how she treated me and I’ll never forget it
Same with female cousins I'm in elementary school they in high school bulling me but as adults I look like a model & they look like Cinderellas 2 step sisters 😅they still wonder why I don't EVER talk to them,I only get along with male cousins.
@Sweetdreamz313 They are sick. The depth of wickedness in some people shocks me. God fights our battles for us. I tell myself things like this are a compliment. They don't bother hating the unremarkable.
@Sweetdreamz313 omg once I asked her if she has any pics of me from certain period bc I lost pics from then and she sent me one with text on it saying my face got slimmer? Like why are you adding descriptions to my pic and who are you sending it to? There had to be some group chat with me as a topic. The more I research this topic the more I realize there are a lot of women who have mothers like that and I don't feel crazy anymore. I was gaslit my whole life.
My mother did this. It amped up after my father died. I went no contact for many years, siblings too and didn’t go to her funeral. She and siblings volunteered to tell ppl a bunch of lies as to why I didn’t deal with them. One family friend who has known me from birth bumped into me and told it all. She said, “I’ve known your mom since high school and I know that they lying” They also worked hard to make sure that I didn’t receive any inheritance. Guess what?…they went through that little bit of money and lost the childhood home THAT WAS PAID for …via failure to pay the taxes. All that hard work that my deceased dad did to get us out the hood and they are back there. It’s Crazy!!!!!!! I know that he’s rolling in his grave.
Envy also leads to self-destruction. They think they are hurting and affecting only the person they're targeting. But that ricochet effect is real... they may either be humbled afterward or bitter.
My mom experienced this. She was mean to me too. Once I figured this out and stood up for her and also told her she didn’t deserve to be treated that way, she lightened up her load. This is very real. I’ve experienced it as well but it stops with me.
Amén! I noticed this and did the same thing spoke up for her to my grandma (who I love and still have a great relationship with) but I also had to stand up to my mom myself ❤ if no one has told you what you did was very brave and I’m proud of you. Great job
This has definately been a thing in my family. ALL the women in my family are awful to me. It's been that way since I was a child. I no longer speak to those women.
As a girl, I remember my mother, aunt, and grandmother did this to me. Anytime.we had a get togethrer, I was immediately targeted. My hairstyle was too "grown" if it wasn't in a plain ponytail, my pants too tight, etc. I "smiled too much" in front of the male relatives. This made me become more masculine in the way I dressed. I stripped myself of natural femininity. It was years into my adulthood that I regained my feminine sense of self, but still felt intimidated around them, always toning my appearance down, well into my 30s and 40s. Today, I dont go around them when they are in groups.
This message was right on time.💯 My mom's aggressive and envy sister has been jealous of me since age 13. I remember one weekend staying over with my cousins and I had woke up that Saturday morning looking for my outfit. Well, low and behold my Aunt had went in my bag and put on my outfit and shoes to wear uptown. When she saw me looking at her, she gave me scowl look. I was baffled as to why would she put my clothes on. Three things hit my spirit, 1. She was envious of me 2. She didn't want me to look better than her children. 3. My coca cola bottle frame.. I started distancing myself from her and eventually cut her and my cousins off because they are just like her.💯 #AE🤢
Im going through the same the women in my family are envious and hateful because Im strong and independent. My family of women have a history which I call a generational curse of dealing with abusive men and co-depency. Not me I started to become self reliant and started breaking all generational curses they have resentment towards me because of my inner strength which something they lack! Which I don't care.... Im better than them in they know that....instead of embracing someone for being strong they rather tear you down self hate is something else! Sending them all loving and healing energy ❤️
I have a cousin who experienced AE and PD with her Mom. Still recovering and healing in her 40s. With me, it was jealousy over my smarts, awards, professional achievements and even my marriage & kids from the same aunt. Graduated my master's in my early 40s on the Dean's list and she's the only "elder" that didn't attend the after party. I wasn't surprised at her absence.
I’m overjoyed when my children do well, I try my best to make sure they don’t make the same mistakes I made. As a mother I don’t understand any other way but I try to understand people are people first. My mother wasn’t like that, I grew up as the scapegoat.
Amen. Unfortunately this toxic behaviour is prevalent in my family. Specifically my Mom's side. Her Mother (my Grandmother) was widowed at a young age and it left Her a very bitter woman. My Mom, who was the oldest, was made a defecto parent to her 7 siblings. It had a very negative effect on her. She was never close to any of us as kids.. I think she resented the fact that we didn't have the hard life that she had to endure growing up.. She was a verbally abusive bully and still is. Sadly my Aunts arent far off. Despite regular verbal abuse of all kinds as a child, God prepared a window that I could escape through. I was smart, very athletic and loved by many of my teachers.. They were my saving grace and destiny helpers through it all. They believed in me and pushed me to achieve beyond the expectations of my family. Only God could have done this and I praise Him for His favour has always followed me.. I don't really have much of a relationship with my mother or Her side of the family because of how toxic they all are.. I thank God that I have come to a place of acceptance, healing and understanding because of your channel...
I experienced evil not based on my beauty, but because I was smart growing up and became a nurse despite help from my family. My Aunts knew my mom was sick with addictions and well as my dad. All my Aunts did nothing to support me growing up in my womanhood.
I don't know if it was envy or not, but I was hated from my young childhood. As a young child I was hated. I realize now it's because of the light GOD gave me. I didn't understand Spiritual Lights when I was a child.
Minister Mack , u r a WISE WOMAN OF GOD. My mother was very verbally abusive to me for about 30 years. I've decided to go very low contact with her. I pray that your channel grow 2 MILLIONS OF SUBSCRIBERS. People need 2 hear your messages.❤❤
I experienced this with my dad's sisters as a teen. I am shaped like my moms side of the family, tall and slender. I still am after 4 children at the age of 34 now. My dads side they are short and wide. As a teen they would target me when it was time to go to the beach or pool. Always made comments about my shape and obsessed with what bathing suit i was wearing. Monitoring me. None of my other girl cousins who i was close with, received this type of treatment. They made comments about how skinny i was. And outwardly wishing they had my body. I didn't understand why they behaved this way towards me until i turned 30. Bc they are 40+ years older than me. It was like God took the blinders off and i understood clearly. They were very envious. Now im on the path of forgiving them for how they treated me.
My story is equivalent to yours. In my 3rd pregnancy I was carrying twins and they were reluctant to tell me that I can kiss that pretty shape goodbye. 😂I laughed within. I birth my twins and my body bounced back. I'm still physically fit and those miserable Mary's won't even look at me.😂
My mother all of my siblings and my aunts were all jealous of me I had no idea until I was 40 fell on hard times and needed to live with my mother . It all came to the surface 🤡 4:20
Thanks for covering this…unfortunately I experienced a not so good experience growing up and am glad I left at 18… I now live across the country…my older cousin who I grew up with me recently said my mom is getting older and may need care. My first response is she can’t stay with me and I’m not moving back. Oh well🤷🏾♀️… When I was growing up, my mom used to say she was going to a retirement home… so I am honoring that…!
Experienced this on both mother's and father's side, in addition to gaslighting, their witchcraft. I have long separated myself once God showed me. Forgive, but remove yourself.
Wow I thought it was just my female family members. As soon as I walked in the door I was physically assaulted with their opinions about my clothes, my weight , my hair, what I eat…..lawd! This persistently happened in my early twenties and continued until I cut them all off a few yeas ago. I’m 60 years old now . And yes I AM the most successful out of them all and have no regrets about walking away from the madness to save myself.
I had similar experiences with my mom. My father told me at age 5 yrs, my mom was jealous of me. I was confused because people told me I was pretty like my mom. My grandmother had explained jealousy to me as my baby sister was born when I was about 4 yrs old so I understood it. I felt if I was less than (pretty smart, sweet things my father told me)she would love me and stop being jealous. This false belief wreaked havoc on my self esteem. She apologized to me, admitting that she was jealous of me when I was 42. I said an apology belittled us both and was 30 years too late. I had been in therapy for quite some time by then. I was told by many to forgive and I did eventually, reminding those advising me that forgiveness is a process, not an event. This impacted our relationship with distance...I put up healthy boundaries out of need. I've made peace with my childhood. thank you for this post
I remember I was in the car driving with my mom and dad and my mom asked my dad, "Do you think she looks better than me?" My dad replied, "Of course she looks better than you." And then my mom looked so surprised. I was like what kind of question is that. I was only like 16 or 17. I am in no contact with them because they refuse to change.
Thank You so much for this video!!! Unfortunately I spent my entire childhood and young adult life getting hate from so many types of older women, aunties, and siblings. These situations are SPOT ON!!!!! Women at work, women in the church, and so called friends aka "frenemies" have traumatized and done damage to me so I suffered alone and in silence for most of my life. Thank you for the confirmation and vindication. Amen.
My aunts on my mom and dad side of the family was like that to me. On my dad's side, my aunts taught their kids to hate me and my mom forced me all the time to go by those people and she never believed me when I told her stuff that was going on. My mom's sister always was petty towards me and always wanted to have something to say everytime I had an opinion by stuff. My mom's sister always tried to make her life appear so much better than my life.
My jaw dropped! I haven’t even watched the video yet! Wow is all I can say just from the title! My mother and aunt hate me! I actually think they may be witches!
My mother used to buy spell kits in novelty shops in the 1970's. She took me to churches that preached lust for money and how to get rich quick. My mother listens to "A course in miracles," which some say is demonic. She doesn't formally see herself as a witch, but she sure does a lot of things to bring demons into herself.
This is a bit long, but I hope its read. Can I just say how proud I am to be a part of the community of pple( mostly women)who share and maintain the healing on this channel. Let me quick share tht *AS WE SPEAK, my own mother (yes she is my rival in her mind) she insists on being in my space and so overheard this lesson. She has tossed her better angels out the door( and locked it) and having a narc rage in her bedroom . It so described all her relationship choices w me that she is emotionally out of control. Ms.Mack, healing sisters, we are a powerful group because we have strived, held on while the heavy winds of all this strengthened our minds and hearts. We are a tribe tht welcomes the newcomer and challenge each other when the goal is to help raise each other up. Thanku for all the years. Ms. Mack,I cldnt find help tht tended to focus on these needs. W u, I found support and validation. From the bottom of my heart "Thankyou". All of you. Happy Holidays..finally, or at least it's on the way to all of us ❤.
been traumatized by my 'Aunties on my dads side' my whole life, since I was 12 years old. And now 10 years later by my only family in a foreign country, my mom's sister. Great.
Lord you know how to get out Attention father I have even listened to pastor Cassandra mack episode yet and the title alone has confirmed that what I been noticing about my aunt and older women in my family Jesus 😊
Yeah and they always try to feed you food. I believe they curse the food and possibly put something nasty in it. My aunt cooked my large plates of food and as soon as I tasted it it would taste very weird. I don't eat her food anymore because one time God shouted loudly at me, "no matter how hungry you are, do not eat her food!".
AE from certain coworkers in my lifetime. Such a terrible experience. *Aggressive* meaning just keeps coming at you persistently & like you said- undeniably. When they are always ready to pounce, yeah, you know there's something wicked brewing under that surface. When she goes *out of her way* to attack you. Until you really have it OUT with them and let it be clearly known that -- no, I won't be your human punching bag!! Soooo abusive. It's awful. They will answer to God someday for their wicked behavior.
I haven't been through it but it's always good to know something so you can help others and trauma you're absolutely right has to be worked on and worked out because you didn't do anything to deserve that hatred and envy from auntie's and other women older women in the family I always want to learn I don't have to go through something in order to learn about it
I can say I didn’t experience it from my dad’s side of the family with two beautiful sweet aunts (RIH) but mom side not my great aunts they gave me gifts with wisdom and love but my mom sisters some of them were good with it hidden envy and I know who and who not to deal yes agree it’s needs to stop 🛑
People in the churches are so scarred especially in the south where I am now living. They have been victims of abused and I have never experience that. I had my uncles and my father in my life. I knew how I wanted to be treated by a man. Stand for something or fall for anything. I am independent, work six days a work and thank God I have the knowledge to gain things myself. Several women in the church hated on me so after a while I started to go to another church where I see the demonstration of God. I also never wear weave, always had lots of hair where I can wear french fold. A few people have asked me if I wear a wig. I just laughed so hard. Thank God!!!
PD!!! My jealous mom and maternal aunts envied my grandmother poured into me at a young age! They envied her showing me the attention she never gave them! They knew I was chosen before I knew!!! 😢😢😢
Sometimes and even from older friends and coworkers over the years too even more so. Sometimes in-laws or sometimes older friends can be like family too as I never had any sisters. Sometimes my brothers would bully or make fun of me when I was a small child but pretty much stopped as I got older.
They knew you would see their jealousy. As a child, you can internalize put downs and teasing and think something is wrong with you. As an adult, you now have the wisdom and understanding to see right through them and perceive their intentions and as a result, their blatant jealousy.
I did not experience this. This sounds like its from toxic (personality disorder) family members. Just because I did not receive this from female family members, my father WAS a narcissist. I try to avoid him, holidays are hard.
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This applies to women who are in the workforce too!!
The other daughters who have the mother’s who don’t care for them… I feel less lonely knowing I am not alone. When I was younger, it could be hidden and now that I am a grown woman with grown adult children helping other adults who go through this, I feel less lonely.😢😞
I’m come in the door letting em know, I’m not here to make friends! Leave me alone!!!😊
Yup
This is why a lot of us were late bloomers until we broke away from generational curses and these spirits
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Agreed
AMEN!
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General curses are doctrinal nonsense. A choice cannot be a curse. OK.
No contact and keeping yr business to yourself will keep your peace in tact. .
Preach 😊
I started tearing up when you said others are envious of your good heart🥺
Not only relatives but older sister and even mother , oh yes! I have experienced this myself. I am the female version of the Biblical Story, Joseph.
Labeled a “goody two shoes” simply for wanting to stay out of trouble by not following the crowd. You will know them by their fruit.
My aunt was a nasty witch towards me as a little girl yelling at me screaming profanities at me. I was a little girl like 7 or 8 years old. Now as an adult she suddenly wants to play nice. But I remember how she treated me and I’ll never forget it
She probably wants to get back close to you so she can find out what hurts you and begin to do it again. I wouldn't trust her. Not at all.
Same with female cousins I'm in elementary school they in high school bulling me but as adults I look like a model & they look like Cinderellas 2 step sisters 😅they still wonder why I don't EVER talk to them,I only get along with male cousins.
My mom was my first bully.. aunts helped me
Same. She harbors the demon of envy.
@BeautifulLife000H omg I think so too! She's operating with the spirit of Jezebel. Most narcissists have the spirit of Jezebel.
Same here they even had a group chat group with my picture in it
Making fun of me
@Sweetdreamz313 They are sick. The depth of wickedness in some people shocks me. God fights our battles for us. I tell myself things like this are a compliment. They don't bother hating the unremarkable.
@Sweetdreamz313 omg once I asked her if she has any pics of me from certain period bc I lost pics from then and she sent me one with text on it saying my face got slimmer? Like why are you adding descriptions to my pic and who are you sending it to? There had to be some group chat with me as a topic. The more I research this topic the more I realize there are a lot of women who have mothers like that and I don't feel crazy anymore. I was gaslit my whole life.
My mother did this. It amped up after my father died. I went no contact for many years, siblings too and didn’t go to her funeral. She and siblings volunteered to tell ppl a bunch of lies as to why I didn’t deal with them. One family friend who has known me from birth bumped into me and told it all. She said, “I’ve known your mom since high school and I know that they lying” They also worked hard to make sure that I didn’t receive any inheritance. Guess what?…they went through that little bit of money and lost the childhood home THAT WAS PAID for …via failure to pay the taxes. All that hard work that my deceased dad did to get us out the hood and they are back there. It’s Crazy!!!!!!! I know that he’s rolling in his grave.
Envy also leads to self-destruction. They think they are hurting and affecting only the person they're targeting. But that ricochet effect is real... they may either be humbled afterward or bitter.
My mom experienced this. She was mean to me too. Once I figured this out and stood up for her and also told her she didn’t deserve to be treated that way, she lightened up her load. This is very real. I’ve experienced it as well but it stops with me.
Good for you! 🙌🏾👏🏾
AMEN SISTAH!
Good for you…break the cycle!!!
Amén! I noticed this and did the same thing spoke up for her to my grandma (who I love and still have a great relationship with) but I also had to stand up to my mom myself ❤ if no one has told you what you did was very brave and I’m proud of you. Great job
This has definately been a thing in my family. ALL the women in my family are awful to me. It's been that way since I was a child. I no longer speak to those women.
smart move
@@ViolaHGlaze Thank you
As a girl, I remember my mother, aunt, and grandmother did this to me. Anytime.we had a get togethrer, I was immediately targeted. My hairstyle was too "grown" if it wasn't in a plain ponytail, my pants too tight, etc. I "smiled too much" in front of the male relatives. This made me become more masculine in the way I dressed. I stripped myself of natural femininity. It was years into my adulthood that I regained my feminine sense of self, but still felt intimidated around them, always toning my appearance down, well into my 30s and 40s. Today, I dont go around them when they are in groups.
Damn sorry that happen to you girl .. may God restore your peace of mind ❤ 🕊️
This message was right on time.💯 My mom's aggressive and envy sister has been jealous of me since age 13. I remember one weekend staying over with my cousins and I had woke up that Saturday morning looking for my outfit. Well, low and behold my Aunt had went in my bag and put on my outfit and shoes to wear uptown. When she saw me looking at her, she gave me scowl look. I was baffled as to why would she put my clothes on. Three things hit my spirit, 1. She was envious of me 2. She didn't want me to look better than her children. 3. My coca cola bottle frame.. I started distancing myself from her and eventually cut her and my cousins off because they are just like her.💯 #AE🤢
My Aunt did me that way, stole my new clothes 😢 and made me share all my things with my cousins.
Lord Chile....whewww... I haven't listened yet but I guarantee you I experienced this as a young girl trying to grow up healthily
Im going through the same the women in my family are envious and hateful because Im strong and independent. My family of women have a history which I call a generational curse of dealing with abusive men and co-depency. Not me I started to become self reliant and started breaking all generational curses they have resentment towards me because of my inner strength which something they lack! Which I don't care.... Im better than them in they know that....instead of embracing someone for being strong they rather tear you down self hate is something else! Sending them all loving and healing energy ❤️
Cause you not in unhappy relationship and resilient and strong woman
I have a cousin who experienced AE and PD with her Mom. Still recovering and healing in her 40s. With me, it was jealousy over my smarts, awards, professional achievements and even my marriage & kids from the same aunt. Graduated my master's in my early 40s on the Dean's list and she's the only "elder" that didn't attend the after party. I wasn't surprised at her absence.
I’m overjoyed when my children do well, I try my best to make sure they don’t make the same mistakes I made. As a mother I don’t understand any other way but I try to understand people are people first. My mother wasn’t like that, I grew up as the scapegoat.
Amen. Unfortunately this toxic behaviour is prevalent in my family. Specifically my Mom's side. Her Mother (my Grandmother) was widowed at a young age and it left Her a very bitter woman. My Mom, who was the oldest, was made a defecto parent to her 7 siblings. It had a very negative effect on her. She was never close to any of us as kids.. I think she resented the fact that we didn't have the hard life that she had to endure growing up.. She was a verbally abusive bully and still is. Sadly my Aunts arent far off.
Despite regular verbal abuse of all kinds as a child, God prepared a window that I could escape through. I was smart, very athletic and loved by many of my teachers.. They were my saving grace and destiny helpers through it all. They believed in me and pushed me to achieve beyond the expectations of my family. Only God could have done this and I praise Him for His favour has always followed me..
I don't really have much of a relationship with my mother or Her side of the family because of how toxic they all are.. I thank God that I have come to a place of acceptance, healing and understanding because of your channel...
I experienced evil not based on my beauty, but because I was smart growing up and became a nurse despite help from my family.
My Aunts knew my mom was sick with addictions and well as my dad.
All my Aunts did nothing to support me growing up in my womanhood.
I don't know if it was envy or not, but I was hated from my young childhood. As a young child I was hated. I realize now it's because of the light GOD gave me. I didn't understand Spiritual Lights when I was a child.
Minister Mack , u r a WISE WOMAN OF GOD. My mother was very verbally abusive to me for about 30 years. I've decided to go very low contact with her. I pray that your channel grow 2 MILLIONS OF SUBSCRIBERS. People need 2 hear your messages.❤❤
I experienced this with my dad's sisters as a teen. I am shaped like my moms side of the family, tall and slender. I still am after 4 children at the age of 34 now.
My dads side they are short and wide.
As a teen they would target me when it was time to go to the beach or pool. Always made comments about my shape and obsessed with what bathing suit i was wearing. Monitoring me. None of my other girl cousins who i was close with, received this type of treatment. They made comments about how skinny i was. And outwardly wishing they had my body.
I didn't understand why they behaved this way towards me until i turned 30. Bc they are 40+ years older than me.
It was like God took the blinders off and i understood clearly.
They were very envious. Now im on the path of forgiving them for how they treated me.
My story is equivalent to yours. In my 3rd pregnancy I was carrying twins and they were reluctant to tell me that I can kiss that pretty shape goodbye. 😂I laughed within. I birth my twins and my body bounced back. I'm still physically fit and those miserable Mary's won't even look at me.😂
Cassandra, i wish there were more mothers in this world like you. Thank you❤
My mother all of my siblings and my aunts were all jealous of me I had no idea until I was 40 fell on hard times and needed to live with my mother . It all came to the surface 🤡 4:20
Thanks for covering this…unfortunately I experienced a not so good experience growing up and am glad I left at 18… I now live across the country…my older cousin who I grew up with me recently said my mom is getting older and may need care. My first response is she can’t stay with me and I’m not moving back.
Oh well🤷🏾♀️…
When I was growing up, my mom used to say she was going to a retirement home… so I am honoring that…!
Experienced this on both mother's and father's side, in addition to gaslighting, their witchcraft. I have long separated myself once God showed me. Forgive, but remove yourself.
I’m so exhausted because I keep having to interact with miserable people!
So sad!
AMEN!
Wow I thought it was just my female family members. As soon as I walked in the door I was physically assaulted with their opinions about my clothes, my weight , my hair, what I eat…..lawd! This persistently happened in my early twenties and continued until I cut them all off a few yeas ago. I’m 60 years old now . And yes I AM the most successful out of them all and have no regrets about walking away from the madness to save myself.
I had similar experiences with my mom. My father told me at age 5 yrs, my mom was jealous of me. I was confused because people told me I was pretty like my mom. My grandmother had explained jealousy to me as my baby sister was born when I was about 4 yrs old so I understood it. I felt if I was less than (pretty smart, sweet things my father told me)she would love me and stop being jealous. This false belief wreaked havoc on my self esteem. She apologized to me, admitting that she was jealous of me when I was 42. I said an apology belittled us both and was 30 years too late. I had been in therapy for quite some time by then. I was told by many to forgive and I did eventually, reminding those advising me that forgiveness is a process, not an event. This impacted our relationship with distance...I put up healthy boundaries out of need. I've made peace with my childhood. thank you for this post
I remember I was in the car driving with my mom and dad and my mom asked my dad, "Do you think she looks better than me?" My dad replied, "Of course she looks better than you." And then my mom looked so surprised. I was like what kind of question is that. I was only like 16 or 17. I am in no contact with them because they refuse to change.
Thank You so much for this video!!! Unfortunately I spent my entire childhood and young adult life getting hate from so many types of older women, aunties, and siblings. These situations are SPOT ON!!!!! Women at work, women in the church, and so called friends aka "frenemies" have traumatized and done damage to me so I suffered alone and in silence for most of my life. Thank you for the confirmation and vindication. Amen.
My aunts on my mom and dad side of the family was like that to me. On my dad's side, my aunts taught their kids to hate me and my mom forced me all the time to go by those people and she never believed me when I told her stuff that was going on. My mom's sister always was petty towards me and always wanted to have something to say everytime I had an opinion by stuff. My mom's sister always tried to make her life appear so much better than my life.
What a great topic.
Yes, it is.
My mom was my first bully. I am learning to forgive and forget. 💛
My jaw dropped! I haven’t even watched the video yet! Wow is all I can say just from the title! My mother and aunt hate me! I actually think they may be witches!
My mother used to buy spell kits in novelty shops in the 1970's. She took me to churches that preached lust for money and how to get rich quick. My mother listens to "A course in miracles," which some say is demonic. She doesn't formally see herself as a witch, but she sure does a lot of things to bring demons into herself.
This is a bit long, but I hope its read. Can I just say how proud I am to be a part of the community of pple( mostly women)who share and maintain the healing on this channel. Let me quick share tht *AS WE SPEAK, my own mother (yes she is my rival in her mind) she insists on being in my space and so overheard this lesson. She has tossed her better angels out the door( and locked it) and having a narc rage in her bedroom . It so described all her relationship choices w me that she is emotionally out of control. Ms.Mack, healing sisters, we are a powerful group because we have strived, held on while the heavy winds of all this strengthened our minds and hearts.
We are a tribe tht welcomes the newcomer and challenge each other when the goal is to help raise each other up. Thanku for all the years. Ms. Mack,I cldnt find help tht tended to focus on these needs. W u, I found support and validation. From the bottom of my heart "Thankyou". All of you.
Happy Holidays..finally, or at least it's on the way to all of us ❤.
This applies to men as well
Pity I did not have this video 30 years ago. I could not understand it. I was totally overwhelmed!
This is a few female relatives: 1 is low-contact and the others are cut.
It is so sad when it happens.
been traumatized by my 'Aunties on my dads side' my whole life, since I was 12 years old. And now 10 years later by my only family in a foreign country, my mom's sister. Great.
🙏🙏🙏Thank you again & again. Please continue your work.
Lord you know how to get out
Attention father I have even listened to pastor Cassandra mack episode yet and the title alone has confirmed that what I been noticing about my aunt and older women in my family Jesus 😊
Its brutal! But it started in my mid 20s from the hatin hags!
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It’s something you don’t want to see but can’t help but see things right in your face I have several witches in my family like this
Yeah and they always try to feed you food. I believe they curse the food and possibly put something nasty in it. My aunt cooked my large plates of food and as soon as I tasted it it would taste very weird. I don't eat her food anymore because one time God shouted loudly at me, "no matter how hungry you are, do not eat her food!".
AE from certain coworkers in my lifetime. Such a terrible experience. *Aggressive* meaning just keeps coming at you persistently & like you said- undeniably. When they are always ready to pounce, yeah, you know there's something wicked brewing under that surface. When she goes *out of her way* to attack you.
Until you really have it OUT with them and let it be clearly known that -- no, I won't be your human punching bag!! Soooo abusive. It's awful. They will answer to God someday for their wicked behavior.
Amen! I’m going thru exactly this with one Auntie…I used to call and share so much, I have stopped! thank you for addressing this! ❤
I haven't been through it but it's always good to know something so you can help others and trauma you're absolutely right has to be worked on and worked out because you didn't do anything to deserve that hatred and envy from auntie's and other women older women in the family I always want to learn I don't have to go through something in order to learn about it
I can say I didn’t experience it from my dad’s side of the family with two beautiful sweet aunts (RIH) but mom side not my great aunts they gave me gifts with wisdom and love but my mom sisters some of them were good with it hidden envy and I know who and who not to deal yes agree it’s needs to stop 🛑
Thanks for sharing
People in the churches are so scarred especially in the south where I am now living. They have been victims of abused and I have never experience that. I had my uncles and my father in my life. I knew how I wanted to be treated by a man. Stand for something or fall for anything. I am independent, work six days a work and thank God I have the knowledge to gain things myself. Several women in the church hated on me so after a while I started to go to another church where I see the demonstration of God. I also never wear weave, always had lots of hair where I can wear french fold. A few people have asked me if I wear a wig. I just laughed so hard. Thank God!!!
They should have these in work places and family interventions etc
Thank you for validating the experiences of all the little girls.❤
What a awesome message from for Jesus🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾On time message💚Mister Mack
PD!!! My jealous mom and maternal aunts envied my grandmother poured into me at a young age! They envied her showing me the attention she never gave them! They knew I was chosen before I knew!!! 😢😢😢
YEP very real!!!
Thank you for the greater insight about envy, and the distinctions from jealousy and covetousness.❤️
Thanks!
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Great topic! This is not talked about a lot. AE. And at the work place
Thanks for sharing this
You put a lot of love into my heart Ms. Mack. This message touched me so deeply. You give me hope and healing. Thank you.
I'm listening & shared. Reciprocity is ❤.
fa sure fa sure 🎉
Resonates 💯.
🗣️PD! PD! PD! I put one for each elder who felt like this toward me.
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Sometimes and even from older friends and coworkers over the years too even more so. Sometimes in-laws or sometimes older friends can be like family too as I never had any sisters. Sometimes my brothers would bully or make fun of me when I was a small child but pretty much stopped as I got older.
They knew you would see their jealousy. As a child, you can internalize put downs and teasing and think something is wrong with you. As an adult, you now have the wisdom and understanding to see right through them and perceive their intentions and as a result, their blatant jealousy.
I did not experience this. This sounds like its from toxic (personality disorder) family members. Just because I did not receive this from female family members, my father WAS a narcissist. I try to avoid him, holidays are hard.
AE…even with my Mother
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Ok this is gross come on why would aunts or family be jealous/teach that. This is why I can’t deal with family it’s making things more gross
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This terrible n sad wow jus wow. I have my stories but my God
Are you a psyhic.
No, she’s anointed with the Holy Spirit of God.
Please turn to Jesus, the Kingdom of Christ and of God doesn't do divination
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