What Envy😡 Looks Like Among Men: Part 1: When Your Dog 🐕 Is Really A Snake 🐍

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @ForwardFocus46
    @ForwardFocus46 9 днів тому +21

    Dudes that try to remind you of the negative events in your past. Dudes that talk down and then say they're joking smh. 🚩🚩🤣🚩🚩 Don't ever flip out on these types they'll just gaslight you for having the nerve to get tired of them. Ghost and move forward.

  • @B_Millie
    @B_Millie 9 днів тому +14

    The year a good male friend purchased his home in undeveloped Vegas,he'd been robbed of his music equipment almost as if on schedule.
    We the women were insisting it was inside job. His uncle installed a camera system unbeknownst to him and caught his "right hand man" in a car two houses down orchestrating two minions to break and enter.
    He never confronted him,just submitted evidence to the Detective to open a case.

  • @shermanbailey3276
    @shermanbailey3276 9 днів тому +34

    I realized this about 10 years ago .... Now I move Solo and in SILENCE. 💯🎯❤️❤️❤️

  • @denzela-kum2186
    @denzela-kum2186 9 днів тому +26

    In the words of the late great DMX: "The snake, the rat, the cat, the dog. How you gonna see 'em if you're living in the fog?". As usual, this message was RIGHT ON TIME Minister Mack. I've had my fair share of dogs who turned out to be snakes and I thank the Lord for exposing them sooner rather than later. Keep up the good work and may God continue to bless you abundantly.

  • @keithwoods2911
    @keithwoods2911 9 днів тому +18

    I remember seeing the movie "Othello" played by Lawrence Fishburne when I was a kid & I remember vividly thinking to myself i dont want alot of "friends", if this is what they can to do you.
    Alot of cats get jealous when girls like you.

    • @tdesq.2463
      @tdesq.2463 5 днів тому

      🎯🎯🎯 A powerful cautionary tale if there ever was one. In Othello, Iago was envious not of Othello himself, but of Desdemona.

  • @jacobbaker4545
    @jacobbaker4545 6 днів тому +3

    I'm a woman but a man was envious of my husband (he wasn't his friend).
    Dude tried to infiltrate his life, ruin his reputation, tried flirting with me to break up our marriage, even tried to get his other friends to get their kids to not play with our 5yo
    This was a married man with 2 kids. He even attached a go pro to his 7yr old bike to videotape our property bc we had a lot of cameras. He was plotting to damage my husband's car.
    Oddly, everyone looked up to this guy. He had a great reputation, but he was white so people assumed he was good. Horrible person. He is even mad now that nothing he has done has effected us. Mentally he is off.

    • @tdesq.2463
      @tdesq.2463 5 днів тому

      Yep. That's a snake alright. And yes, ... "mentally off" to put it lightly. I know the very type.
      Best, ...

  • @heruniquestyle8406
    @heruniquestyle8406 9 днів тому +25

    These relationships end with a man's "dawg" sleeping with or running off with his woman. 😮 Never let friends hang around too much, and keep people out of your business! Snakes know how to infiltrate!

  • @ChicaPhoto
    @ChicaPhoto 9 днів тому +45

    Good to see this topic Cassandra, are there videos about when men are jealous of women?

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  9 днів тому +29

      Videos will be coming on the topic of When Your Romantic Partner Is Envious of You

    • @Sweetdreamz313
      @Sweetdreamz313 9 днів тому +1

      🎉

    • @ReRe_642
      @ReRe_642 9 днів тому +2

      This is happening all the time

    • @LadyFitz8396
      @LadyFitz8396 9 днів тому +14

      Ms. Mack, please consider covering the topic on reasons and symptoms of "Black men who are Envious of Black women in non-romantic relationships." Thank you.

    • @naturalgirldiy
      @naturalgirldiy 9 днів тому +1

      Great suggestion. Unfortunately we deal with this a lot..

  • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
    @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 9 днів тому +13

    Among men?! I’m dealing with it with my own dad and brother. 😭 Thank you for today’s video.

    • @bradyryan5105
      @bradyryan5105 9 днів тому +3

      Same here. They don't think I should go out & enjoy myself unless they're benefitting. I can't afford to move out and it's getting stressful putting up with them

    • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
      @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 9 днів тому +2

      @ I pray that God gives you the strategy and instruction to make your next move, however that may look for you. ✨✨✨

    • @TatsyanasTravels
      @TatsyanasTravels 4 дні тому

      Coughs

  • @Bknycharlie
    @Bknycharlie День тому

    For a long time, I did not realize that men dealt with envy amongst each other. But the more I talk to men, the more I learn they deal with it to. I really despise the spirit of envy, it’s VERY ugly.

  • @annadenise8902
    @annadenise8902 9 днів тому +12

    Foot on necks this morning 😂

  • @Fredericko-k7p
    @Fredericko-k7p 9 днів тому +3

    Also by listening well and paying attention even to seemingly minor details it helps put togeter a store of information that helps you put things together to form the bigger picture later on.

  • @devyaye
    @devyaye 5 днів тому

    😮‍💨 took me a while to notice jealousy from other men. I’m solo dolo now 💯

  • @hisdaughterkeyaprays0001
    @hisdaughterkeyaprays0001 9 днів тому +4

    Thank you for sharing this. I'm sending this to my husband and teenage son.

  • @Sheisme120
    @Sheisme120 7 днів тому

    5:22 That’s what one of my ex female friends did to me. She told my now husband that she didn’t know how he was dating an extravert (we were actually not “dating,” we were engaged), and told him she could never date someone like me.

  • @Clementina_Solis
    @Clementina_Solis 9 днів тому +5

    This is interesting. I did not know guys did these kinds of things. I thought they didnt really experience much envy .

    • @DealwiththeReal
      @DealwiththeReal 9 днів тому +6

      I’ve experienced so many incidents of this throughout my life that I lost count! The snakeism is real!!

    • @devyaye
      @devyaye 5 днів тому +2

      🤣 I’ve had to get rid of many friends it’s crazy.
      They always get envious because I attract a lot of female attention.
      It’s almost worst because men are wayyy more lowkey with it.

    • @tdesq.2463
      @tdesq.2463 5 днів тому +2

      Depends on their age. Males with a propensity toward this kind of behavior tend to either wise up by a certain age, or else they don't make it to that age. Know what I mean?

  • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
    @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 9 днів тому +2

    25:31 Distracted and Undiscerning: you took the words right out of my mouth. Not doing this unlocks EVERYTHING! 🙏🏾✨✨

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 6 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing this ❤

  • @johnlamarr2222
    @johnlamarr2222 9 днів тому +2

    You stay on point! I don't ever have to write my topic because you always touch on it. Love your work! Blessings queen 👑🙏🏾! John Lamarr Grand Rapids, MI

  • @startrekmom8001
    @startrekmom8001 9 днів тому +3

    I didn't know husbands can be jealous of their own wives #toxic

  • @johnnylamothe1428
    @johnnylamothe1428 9 днів тому

    Amen! ❤ Praise God. God is wonderful. If a thing is of God, it's wonderful, pure, truthful, marvelous and lovely. And all lead to eternal life. But if a thing is not of God., it's full of envy, selfish, full of lies and wicked. And all lead to eternal death. So everything good is originated from God. Because, the devil is a liar and a deceiver. Sending ❤ 👍

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 9 днів тому +1

    Move i. Silence,.......🙏❤️

  • @melissasmind2846
    @melissasmind2846 9 днів тому +1

    Shared! Thank you

  • @user-superior38
    @user-superior38 7 днів тому

    Amen . 🙏💯

  • @TatsyanasTravels
    @TatsyanasTravels 4 дні тому

    You think women being jealous is one thing but men can be the worst. While I was high school, I remember this dude telling me verbatim “well you know your ‘bro’ is gay or on the DL, that’s why he always hating on you.” I thought he was joking. He was like “I’m serious, him and one of them twins he hang out with gay, you just don’t know it.” Lo and behold years later, one of them twins that the ‘bro’ would hang out with all the time, indeed came out just as that 😳..

  • @Rollacoastertycoon
    @Rollacoastertycoon 9 днів тому +3

    I’ve been jealous before

  • @DoctorCarrieHall
    @DoctorCarrieHall 9 днів тому +1

    Good evening

  • @Tony-TheLastOfTheReal
    @Tony-TheLastOfTheReal 8 днів тому +2

    I wouldn't even be able to live with myself doing lame snake stuff

    • @tdesq.2463
      @tdesq.2463 5 днів тому

      Because you're not disturbed.

  • @AWAKENINGWITDASMITHS
    @AWAKENINGWITDASMITHS 9 днів тому +2

    💯💯💯💯

  • @junejones9819
    @junejones9819 9 днів тому

    SIR BYE.😔🤲🛐

  • @DealwiththeReal
    @DealwiththeReal 9 днів тому +3

    Opening line…like! Didn’t even need ti hear the rest yet

  • @ronniehouston-df7oy
    @ronniehouston-df7oy 9 днів тому

    RIGHT AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH

  • @Sweetdreamz313
    @Sweetdreamz313 9 днів тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @brianmccullough213
    @brianmccullough213 9 днів тому +1

    Ace boogy is the guy name in paid in full

    • @DealwiththeReal
      @DealwiththeReal 9 днів тому +1

      Ace based on Azie, Mitch based Rich Porter, and Rico based on Alpo from Harlem…One of the best hood films of all time

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 9 днів тому

    People are dumb…if men and women compete too much it’s too much for everyone. But some people are just hopeless

  • @militantmalc6328
    @militantmalc6328 9 днів тому

    I Like You Cassandra Mack!! You A Real One..💯 My Nick Name To You Is Ms. C-Mack Lol.

  • @EmpressEmpress-53
    @EmpressEmpress-53 9 днів тому

    💯

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 9 днів тому +4

    My bf in college had a best friend. As soon as my
    bf and I had any problems, his best buddy was right there to take me out for coffee….
    and then I dated both of them.

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 9 днів тому

    I would just not give an F lol