The type of man who puts forth effort and time and planning to violate women’s privacy is a special degenerate category of men. A desire to violate, a plan to violate, an intention to violate and taking action to violate. Disavowing their own integrity and violating others. How toxic.
I am Korean living in Korea. This happened to me but the sad part was it was actually my boyfriend who was secretly filming me.. It happened in 2013 and there was no words to describe these kind of criminals back then so I was really confused, I couldn’t describe my situation to anyone. Somehow I managed to tell adult men in the church that I went to at that time, and I just ended up being bullied for being sexually active. Somehow it was very OK to hate a sex crime victim in Korea for a very long time… and.. yeah. It’s still happening. I can’t even mention my experience in korea, or say there are sex crimes happening in public spaces, it’s considered as forbidden thing to say. 저는 어릴 때 미국 살다 한국에서 훨씬 오래 살고 있는, 지금은 성인인 여자에요. 여기에서 묘사된 불법촬영을 예전 한국인 남자친구에게 겪었어요. 그런데 되게 슬픈 건 한국에서는 이런 일을 겪었다고 하면 아주 높은 확률로 거짓말로 여겨요. 뭐랄까, 이미 Kelsey의 영상을 즐겨보고 있는 입장에서 한국의 단점들.. 낙후된 가치관들에 대한 묘사에 충분히 동의하고 있다는 얘기가 되겠지만.. 한국의 담점들 중에는 정말 뿌리깊은 혐오가(성차별, 인종차별 등 모두) 심어져 있는 것들이 있어요 ㅠㅠ
I'm so sorry this happened to you. This recently happened to my friend here. She suspects that a Korean guy she was dating filmed her without her consent, but she can't do anything about it because she doesn't have the video :(
I'm from the U.S. and I don't use public bathrooms at all. Even when I use to go clubbing, I never used the bathrooms. I wait until I get home. Thanks for warning us about the camera and unwanted touch from these creepy guys. Congrats on graduating, but your school should have taken that incident more seriously. They only would if it happens to someone that they love.
I second that. I know at least one guy who used these. You are safer not to go to bathrooms in sleazy places like clubs and bars. Even hotel rooms are not safe sometimes. He (middle aged guy, two kids) used to tell us how proud he was to take pics of teenage girls and make them uncomfortable and used to tell us his fantasies and laugh about it. Keep safe... SEX FREAKS are everywhere... not just incels.
Either you have the strongest bladder I ever heard of or you drink not enough or hold your pee for too long. (Which both would be a pretty stupid thing to do, cause it’s very bad for the kidneys)..
@@owly-kiki6674 Careful! Middle aged men (believe me, I know them, I am one of them) will absolutely install cameras and watch you in public bathrooms, schools, hospitals, hotels... It really happens.
@@royzlatanestevez9843 I really don’t get your point. So what? Never go to the toilet again? You don’t give solutions, nor sympathize with victims. Your comments are more like those „ if you don’t wanna get sexually molested as a woman, dress and act modestly so those „middle aged men“ don’t have a reason.“ Euhm .. like no?!
As you said, South Korea is economically a 1st world country, but when it comes to social practices and legal rights, not so much. Perhaps it's an example of a 2nd world country? Hopefully the young people like you can help change things as time goes on. Love your videos!
uhhhh 2nd world country technically mean "well developed" self declared communist countries like china so idk but yeah it's kinda ina limbo between first and 3rd world
I'm from germany. This is mind blowing to me. I can't imagine how women must feel knowing that this often happens. I wonder if I would dare to use a public restroom (and I often use them) because of it. Thank you for talking about this important topic. I love your videos and that we as foreigners get some insight in korean society. I love watching K-Dramas but I'm aware that it's not reality. I actually saw a scene where this thing happened to a character (hidden camera) in Buisness proposal and was very shocked. The character seemed to have a trauma (I don't know how else to call it) because of it and I totally understood. It's horrible and sad. But, to not leave the comment on such a negative note, I really like your content and that you are so open-minded. I recently watched your video about leaving mid sex when you're not enjoying it and girl, I watched it more than one time after that. xD It was entertaining, respectful and had a great message. Also your video about depression. These two stood out to me the most. I hope you're doing well. Regards from Germany!
I'm South American and we definitely have our own problems, however I don't want to talk about that right now. I just want to share a small observation be I've made about gender dynamics. You see, I've asked around to my many cousins and also my classmates in university (I went to a public university in which there was people from different social classes backgrounds, there was a similar amount of men and women in my career), about their school experience... One of the things that stood out to me is that, contrary to what people who advocate for separating men and women's education, for the shake of their "virtue" or pacing their development and expecting them to start interacting when they're "mature adults"... In mix-genders schools that had classrooms with an even amount of men and women, in which they interacted since they were little kids... The average age in which people start being sexually active is a lot older and people get less distracted from their studies by things such as dating or relationship drama. In contrast, in segregated schools with "only girl" or "only boys", there was a higher percentage of students that would start having sex at a very young age, also a higher percentage of people that would become isolated from the opposite sex, also a higher number of teen pregnancies (although this last thing of non planned pregnancies seems to be more influenced by social class and level of education). For example, I went to the same mix-gendered private school since I was 5 until 18, and I had a lot of classmates (including myself) that were "late bloomers". (Obviously, this wasn't the case for everyone, I did also have classmates who started having sex very young... But overall, most of them had healthy relationships). My friend went to an all girls schools and in her school, there was a lot of people obsessed over needing to date (it was partially morbid curiosity about sex, partially a social status/popularity thing)... A lot of girls would experiment a lot and go to parties organized between an all women's and an all men's school frequently. People would seek any interaction with the opposite sex, only to find a girlfriend/boyfriend, as if it was a competition, not even try to make friends. My youngest brothers go to and all boys school and another thing the segregated schools seem to have in common, is a tendency to have a more generalized "bullying culture" to create social hierarchy (the bullying is specially nasty in highly academically competitive schools). There's a more crude use of language, more of a gang mentality, more judgement based on appearance/social class/sports/academics, and even more violence between schools. This leads me to believe that not segregating genders in schools (and diversity in general, of any forms) truly helps to develop empathy and social awareness.
This is fascinating.. and scary. What you said about k-dramas is so interesting. They are procuring unhealthy realities. 😢 Well done here! Thank you for your willingness to speak up!
Meanwhile, in western countries, it's the other way around. Degrading men as a whole if now perfectly normal and more and more shows reflect this reality. I have yet to see "balance" between men and women.
This always scares me. I work in homes and I’m constantly paranoid for secret cameras. Especially as an attractive woman. This is a problem everywhere.
It makes me FURIOUS. That mofo should have been expelled and publicly shamed. Years down the line he is most likely going to be filming his female patients(or doing worse while they are unconscious).
Please do more real content like this. We have so much content online about dating Korean men/ woman that can last everyone for years. I think this content is much more helpful to everyone to protect themselves and shed a real light on Korea. Thanks
@@coraline1503 Hello, Yes I watch so much content and there are so much videos about dating which in my opinion does not really help with traveling to Korea.
really sad, I have to say that segregating people by gender is always a disaster, as they never had contact with people of the opposite gender they see them as just objects
Its crazy, it is clearly perverted. Anywhere I go in my City, even a Changing Room....I will maintain awareness and keep myself covered all times...in case! I would even shower after a swim in my suit, and then take all off under towel. I will never understand a guy's mind to do this, as they are pretty much guilty. 😡 Kelsey reminding us to always be wary/observant, no matter where we live 👍
And now the mystery is all solved. We were discussing with my girlfriends all these bathroom videos available for free on a very popular porn site as to who would be turned on by this? But honestly it never crossed my mind that it was filmed without the women's consent. This is so so wrong! These type of crimes deserve a bigger punishment
My brother was watching this video with me (he's also your fan) and straight up asked what makes these dudes get off on potentially watching a 70 year old woman blow her load in a public toilet? He can't wrap his mind about these kinds of crimes. Like realistically they get all types of women on videos from elderly women to underage girls, like eeeww wtf. I've seen videos from other channels about the dangers of incels following women home after drinking or coming across a drunk girl and following her and trying to force his way into her house. Luckily their doors automatically locked both times but holy shit it was fucking scary. I have so much respect and gratitude towards you for being real and completely honest about the realities, bc so many foreigners really do have this unrealistic image about korean men and korean society. I know not all korean men are like this but people who don't live there never know who's safe and who's not. Really thank you for not just saying to come to Korea bc it's so perfect, and instead being honest about the society and potentially saving someone's life. ❤️
Hi Kelsey, thanks for this video. I think it is important to know the various degrees of sex crimes because it various from countries. Also I am glad you mentioned how these things are portraited in Kdramas and Anime both of which I watch. Those are medias that in a subtle way promote bad behavior. Hopefully your videos will educate people. Thank you
Thanks for speaking up Kelsey, it’s so important that this is discussed so that Koreans can give it more thought and possibly society will change and it will stop - and that foreigners are forewarned too of course, because we aren’t very familiar with that sort of crime, it doesn’t happen much in the west (I guess porn is so prevalent here and accessible that watching someone pee isn’t a big deal so no one wants it🤷♂️🙈 i suspect actual sexual assault is more common that is reported in South Korea though, I think your law makes it difficult to win such a case and there is still a stigma about being a victim that many don’t report it…Women are treated poorly in many countries (much worse than in Korea) - Korea is probably better than you think - I hear many young people speak of very progressive views regarding gender equality and women’s rights on some of the videos I watch, so I think it’s getting better. 💜💜
As you are saying that anime and kdrama have peeping into girls business is normalized. So in my country even though stalking is a crime it been normalized by Indian film industry and it's super creepy and intimidating. Because they don't understand no means no
You shouldn't be separating girls and boys growing up so they can see each other as siblings and protect each other. It's when you separate them that they see each other as objects not familiar to themselves. And that's where dysfunctional thinking begins.
I was in 7th grade when i had joined this aerobics class that used to take place in a separate room in a gym. The classes lasted for 2 months and after that i never went back there. Once, i was passing through that area and saw that the gym had shut down completely. Got to know later that someone had found a hidden camera in the ladies changing room 🤢 Thankfully, i had never used the changing room there so i was relieved but imagine finding out you went to some public bathroom and there was a camera installed there like how far can people go honestly!
This made me think of 2018 when I actually used so often public bathrooms on my vacation, instead of waiting. I'll go to Korea in January the next time and am already thinking of ways how to protect myself, a filter, screwdriver is now a new idea, thank you. Also thank you for speaking about this !!
Hiring 8K employees to check 20K bathrooms? WTF? 2.5 bathroom per person? Checking 10 per day should not be impossible even with travelling. Something is not OK here with the numbers.
I was super uncomfortable with the whole voyeuristic CCTV-watching plot in The K2 - exactly what you are talking about... I think in most countries voyeurism is seen as creepy, but clearly the writers/producers of that drama (and others) want to depict it as cute & romantic. It reminds me of early British “risqué” silent movie tropes of “What the butler saw”. It’s pretty gross.
I’m going to be honest I use to live in Seoul when I was 21 and being in the city all day I would need to use public restrooms. While I’d try to check if there were any cameras in my stall, I was still concerned.
In Ukraine, hidden cameras are something unusual. They can be found only in some cheap sex hotels or "special" saunas. But it is always a scandal. A few years ago, a student installed a camera in a girl's shower. And it was so strange and unusual, that it was shown on national television. The boy was caught because the camera automatically turned on in response to movement, and the first recording from the camera was this very student at the time the camera was installed.
Thank you Kelsey for describing so eloquently this Molka problem. Being way older than you and your fans, nothing really shocks me anymore. I was glancing through the comment section and the word “ perverts” sprang into my eyes: what on earth could be so attractive when a woman tries to urinate or defecate??? And then there are the KDramas, which- from my perspective- are just good enough for practicing Korean listening, but the actresses have to portray women that are devout and submissive. I share your frustration, may be there’s hope, if boys ( and girls) learned to interact more naturally with each other. I know it’s easier said than done. Nevertheless, Korea still remains a top travel county for me. 😎. Wish you the best. Take care
In 2 months I'm going to Korea and I will stay in an Airbnb house.. oh you made me feeling worried and scared. Actually I've used Airbnb in korea many times.. I never thought about hidden cameras.. I feel stupid and naive now because this thought not even crossed my mind. BUT what can I do??????? How can I protect myself when go to the house???? Should start checking all the corners of the house?? Really I'm talking seriously.
I think you should be okay but my advice would be to turn all the lights off and check for any blinking lights anywhere when it’s dark. If you see a blinking light somewhere then chances are it’s a hidden camera, report it to AirBnB and then have a backup plan to find housing elsewhere.
I can't remember all of them, but there are camera detection tips in a couple youtube videos by I think VICE news about this exact topic. Just search for hidden cameras in Korea. There is also a app for iphones called "Fing" that has subscription or free versions and it scans for wifi sources and devices connecting to wifi near you. You can use it to see if there are any devices nearby that are live stream hidden cameras as those have to stream to wifi
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Thanks for posting this! Been hoping you would cover this for a while so we can find out what it's like for you as a woman who actually lives there. Also, I'm happy to buy you and all your friends a tiny screwdriver so you can smash all the cameras!
Thank you, Kelsey, for bringing attention to a huge issue that often gets overlooked when people talk about Korea. Too many people romanticise Korea as a whole, but the social issues within the country make it one of the worst highly developed countries to be a female.
naaaahhhh...if anyone is caught in college trying to install a camera in the bathroom/locker room/etc, they should be expelled regardless of their major. They're an adult and have full understanding of consequences to their actions - if they do something like that they have dug their own grave. I hope he got exiled by the student body at least.
In the west we call them peeping toms 😑. They have no shame and we’ll literally hide in bushes, or literally do it in front of your face with their own Camera, phone and now bloody drones 😫.
Why would people want such poor quality porn? That is also illegal and unethical? A hidden camera video must surely be much worse quality than a porn with proper sized cameras and lighting from a ready and willing porn star.
6:48 In America this kind of thing was popular in the '80s in "teen sex comedy" movies like Porky's or Revenge of the Nerds, but yeah, you don't really see it anymore.
Thank you for letting me know that Kdrama romance is a lie and not realistic even though I'm not a big fan of Kdrama I only watch it for entertainment and language learning. The government system in Korea is this bad enough to not care for the well being of their citizens that's terrible and thanks for letting me know what I need to watch out for when I come to visit Korea in the future which is why before going out I don't drink anything liquid to avoid bladder override that will make me go and use the bathroom this topic sends shivers down my spine It makes me wonder if it's like that in the Korean hotels and residents homes too. Guys needs to know that violation of women's privacy is a serious crime and should be stopped a guy is supposed to be a responsible decent person so technically filming women and children is a pedophile case and has to be brought into account I hope it gets better.
Thx for talking about this. I think lots of people still don't know about the spycam in Korea. Crazy! Yet the gov still haven't restrict and establish law and more protection for women. Yes, like most Asian countries, the gender inequality is real and not sure when it will get better. Look forward to your club video. Def sound less safety than other western countries. However, in the U.S, we have to worry more about gun and others life threatening too for the club.
Thank you for debunking images perpetuated by Kdramas.Spy cam crimes is a symptom of the problem around gender inequality and incels in Korea. In the US being caught with a spy cam is a felony in all 50 states. Looking forward to your next video on the realities of nightclub culture.
More power to you Kelsey! It is difficult and brave to shed light on the dark side of Korea especially in today's day and age where 3 out of 5 girls or women all over the world are obsessing over Korea and Korean men. There is a lot of generational trauma and deep-rooted societal issues in Korea which people are just not ready to address and with the Hallyu wave it has become more difficult to call things out. Keep up the good work. Lots of love and luck!✨🤗
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORK KELSEY , THESE PIECE OF SH*T OF MEN FIND ANYTHING TO DESTROY WOMEN LIFES BUT WE WILL NOT LET THEM AND THEY ARE GOING TO PAID FOR IT . YOU ARE SMART FUNNY BEAUTIFUL AND STRONG I LOVE YOU
I love Kelseys way. She has a beautiful personality and is very attractive. She is warm and intelligent and I love the way she chuckles in her videos. I've just come from watching her video on when she graduated and depression. She is lively and fun to watch in her other videos too. She is a beautiful soul 🧡
OMG if this is all true, it's terrible. I guess for these things to get better they will have to change some aspects of their culture, which will be tough to do, but worth it in the end.
Is it possible that too much studying, or work keeps people from learning social skills? Then there are guys who are only concerned about getting attention people or women. There are grown men in my building who act like that...Thanks Kelsey for keeping us informed!! 💖💗💞🙏
We hear about secret camera crimes on the Korean news almost every single day. Be sure to block any suspicious objects (e.g. water bottle) or holes in public bathroom
In the late 2000s I briefly worked at a vocational school with most adult girls up to age 21, but also teen girls 17+. Being not a sex offender my PO did not object. A guy working at the school used these for awhile. Eventually he got busted of course - the cameras were relatively large and bulky and obviously cameras. But tech is so advanced now, it's crazy. I'm sure few ppl would get busted now. Not sure what happened to him. Shoutout to you Remend.
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Wish you could just show the fish hon
The type of man who puts forth effort and time and planning to violate women’s privacy is a special degenerate category of men. A desire to violate, a plan to violate, an intention to violate and taking action to violate. Disavowing their own integrity and violating others. How toxic.
Hey what about your fine looks hon
I am Korean living in Korea. This happened to me but the sad part was it was actually my boyfriend who was secretly filming me.. It happened in 2013 and there was no words to describe these kind of criminals back then so I was really confused, I couldn’t describe my situation to anyone. Somehow I managed to tell adult men in the church that I went to at that time, and I just ended up being bullied for being sexually active. Somehow it was very OK to hate a sex crime victim in Korea for a very long time… and.. yeah. It’s still happening. I can’t even mention my experience in korea, or say there are sex crimes happening in public spaces, it’s considered as forbidden thing to say.
저는 어릴 때 미국 살다 한국에서 훨씬 오래 살고 있는, 지금은 성인인 여자에요. 여기에서 묘사된 불법촬영을 예전 한국인 남자친구에게 겪었어요. 그런데 되게 슬픈 건 한국에서는 이런 일을 겪었다고 하면 아주 높은 확률로 거짓말로 여겨요. 뭐랄까, 이미 Kelsey의 영상을 즐겨보고 있는 입장에서 한국의 단점들.. 낙후된 가치관들에 대한 묘사에 충분히 동의하고 있다는 얘기가 되겠지만.. 한국의 담점들 중에는 정말 뿌리깊은 혐오가(성차별, 인종차별 등 모두) 심어져 있는 것들이 있어요 ㅠㅠ
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I'm so sorry this happened to you
I'm so sorry this happened to you. This recently happened to my friend here. She suspects that a Korean guy she was dating filmed her without her consent, but she can't do anything about it because she doesn't have the video :(
I'm from the U.S. and I don't use public bathrooms at all. Even when I use to go clubbing, I never used the bathrooms. I wait until I get home. Thanks for warning us about the camera and unwanted touch from these creepy guys. Congrats on graduating, but your school should have taken that incident more seriously. They only would if it happens to someone that they love.
I second that. I know at least one guy who used these. You are safer not to go to bathrooms in sleazy places like clubs and bars. Even hotel rooms are not safe sometimes. He (middle aged guy, two kids) used to tell us how proud he was to take pics of teenage girls and make them uncomfortable and used to tell us his fantasies and laugh about it. Keep safe...
SEX FREAKS are everywhere... not just incels.
how do u manage to wait ! i go bathroom every hour. no way would i last 8 hours at work /school / hanging out or travelling .. just impossible !
Either you have the strongest bladder I ever heard of or you drink not enough or hold your pee for too long. (Which both would be a pretty stupid thing to do, cause it’s very bad for the kidneys)..
@@owly-kiki6674 Careful! Middle aged men (believe me, I know them, I am one of them) will absolutely install cameras and watch you in public bathrooms, schools, hospitals, hotels... It really happens.
@@royzlatanestevez9843 I really don’t get your point. So what? Never go to the toilet again? You don’t give solutions, nor sympathize with victims. Your comments are more like those „ if you don’t wanna get sexually molested as a woman, dress and act modestly so those „middle aged men“ don’t have a reason.“ Euhm .. like no?!
As you said, South Korea is economically a 1st world country, but when it comes to social practices and legal rights, not so much. Perhaps it's an example of a 2nd world country? Hopefully the young people like you can help change things as time goes on. Love your videos!
uhhhh 2nd world country technically mean "well developed" self declared communist countries like china so idk but yeah it's kinda ina limbo between first and 3rd world
What country on this planet even prosecutes illegal footage harshly?
I'm from germany. This is mind blowing to me. I can't imagine how women must feel knowing that this often happens. I wonder if I would dare to use a public restroom (and I often use them) because of it. Thank you for talking about this important topic. I love your videos and that we as foreigners get some insight in korean society. I love watching K-Dramas but I'm aware that it's not reality. I actually saw a scene where this thing happened to a character (hidden camera) in Buisness proposal and was very shocked. The character seemed to have a trauma (I don't know how else to call it) because of it and I totally understood. It's horrible and sad.
But, to not leave the comment on such a negative note, I really like your content and that you are so open-minded. I recently watched your video about leaving mid sex when you're not enjoying it and girl, I watched it more than one time after that. xD It was entertaining, respectful and had a great message. Also your video about depression. These two stood out to me the most. I hope you're doing well. Regards from Germany!
yeah, but since i know i about this, i even check our bathrooms or hotel/rbnb in germany... we can buy this stuff in germany too...
In Europe there have been a number of cases where cameras were placed in in AirBnBs.
mein gott, du bist nicht im deutschunterricht. schreib keinen aufsatz und komm zum punkt
@@coraline1503 dann les es doch nicht und gut ist
I'm South American and we definitely have our own problems, however I don't want to talk about that right now. I just want to share a small observation be I've made about gender dynamics. You see, I've asked around to my many cousins and also my classmates in university (I went to a public university in which there was people from different social classes backgrounds, there was a similar amount of men and women in my career), about their school experience... One of the things that stood out to me is that, contrary to what people who advocate for separating men and women's education, for the shake of their "virtue" or pacing their development and expecting them to start interacting when they're "mature adults"... In mix-genders schools that had classrooms with an even amount of men and women, in which they interacted since they were little kids... The average age in which people start being sexually active is a lot older and people get less distracted from their studies by things such as dating or relationship drama. In contrast, in segregated schools with "only girl" or "only boys", there was a higher percentage of students that would start having sex at a very young age, also a higher percentage of people that would become isolated from the opposite sex, also a higher number of teen pregnancies (although this last thing of non planned pregnancies seems to be more influenced by social class and level of education).
For example, I went to the same mix-gendered private school since I was 5 until 18, and I had a lot of classmates (including myself) that were "late bloomers". (Obviously, this wasn't the case for everyone, I did also have classmates who started having sex very young... But overall, most of them had healthy relationships). My friend went to an all girls schools and in her school, there was a lot of people obsessed over needing to date (it was partially morbid curiosity about sex, partially a social status/popularity thing)... A lot of girls would experiment a lot and go to parties organized between an all women's and an all men's school frequently. People would seek any interaction with the opposite sex, only to find a girlfriend/boyfriend, as if it was a competition, not even try to make friends. My youngest brothers go to and all boys school and another thing the segregated schools seem to have in common, is a tendency to have a more generalized "bullying culture" to create social hierarchy (the bullying is specially nasty in highly academically competitive schools). There's a more crude use of language, more of a gang mentality, more judgement based on appearance/social class/sports/academics, and even more violence between schools. This leads me to believe that not segregating genders in schools (and diversity in general, of any forms) truly helps to develop empathy and social awareness.
This is fascinating.. and scary. What you said about k-dramas is so interesting. They are procuring unhealthy realities. 😢
Well done here! Thank you for your willingness to speak up!
Meanwhile, in western countries, it's the other way around.
Degrading men as a whole if now perfectly normal and more and more shows reflect this reality.
I have yet to see "balance" between men and women.
The cameras are in public bathrooms which means they aren’t just filming women but children as well! Disgusting 🤬
I really admire your courage to confront these horrible crimes ! Keep up the good work!
This always scares me. I work in homes and I’m constantly paranoid for secret cameras. Especially as an attractive woman. This is a problem everywhere.
I'm shocked that that criminal from your school didn't get punished ...
It makes me FURIOUS. That mofo should have been expelled and publicly shamed. Years down the line he is most likely going to be filming his female patients(or doing worse while they are unconscious).
Please do more real content like this. We have so much content online about dating Korean men/ woman that can last everyone for years. I think this content is much more helpful to everyone to protect themselves and shed a real light on Korea. Thanks
content? u r watching a video
@@coraline1503 Hello, Yes I watch so much content and there are so much videos about dating which in my opinion does not really help with traveling to Korea.
really sad, I have to say that segregating people by gender is always a disaster, as they never had contact with people of the opposite gender they see them as just objects
Its crazy, it is clearly perverted. Anywhere I go in my City, even a Changing Room....I will maintain awareness and keep myself covered all times...in case! I would even shower after a swim in my suit, and then take all off under towel. I will never understand a guy's mind to do this, as they are pretty much guilty. 😡
Kelsey reminding us to always be wary/observant, no matter where we live 👍
Thank you for covering such an ignored topic! When brought up, many men try to say it's blown out of proportion. But it's very serious.
And now the mystery is all solved. We were discussing with my girlfriends all these bathroom videos available for free on a very popular porn site as to who would be turned on by this? But honestly it never crossed my mind that it was filmed without the women's consent. This is so so wrong! These type of crimes deserve a bigger punishment
My brother was watching this video with me (he's also your fan) and straight up asked what makes these dudes get off on potentially watching a 70 year old woman blow her load in a public toilet? He can't wrap his mind about these kinds of crimes. Like realistically they get all types of women on videos from elderly women to underage girls, like eeeww wtf. I've seen videos from other channels about the dangers of incels following women home after drinking or coming across a drunk girl and following her and trying to force his way into her house. Luckily their doors automatically locked both times but holy shit it was fucking scary. I have so much respect and gratitude towards you for being real and completely honest about the realities, bc so many foreigners really do have this unrealistic image about korean men and korean society. I know not all korean men are like this but people who don't live there never know who's safe and who's not. Really thank you for not just saying to come to Korea bc it's so perfect, and instead being honest about the society and potentially saving someone's life. ❤️
Hi Kelsey, thanks for this video. I think it is important to know the various degrees of sex crimes because it various from countries. Also I am glad you mentioned how these things are portraited in Kdramas and Anime both of which I watch. Those are medias that in a subtle way promote bad behavior. Hopefully your videos will educate people. Thank you
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The police did massive sweeps in public bathrooms but found nothing
Thanks for speaking up Kelsey, it’s so important that this is discussed so that Koreans can give it more thought and possibly society will change and it will stop - and that foreigners are forewarned too of course, because we aren’t very familiar with that sort of crime, it doesn’t happen much in the west (I guess porn is so prevalent here and accessible that watching someone pee isn’t a big deal so no one wants it🤷♂️🙈 i suspect actual sexual assault is more common that is reported in South Korea though, I think your law makes it difficult to win such a case and there is still a stigma about being a victim that many don’t report it…Women are treated poorly in many countries (much worse than in Korea) - Korea is probably better than you think - I hear many young people speak of very progressive views regarding gender equality and women’s rights on some of the videos I watch, so I think it’s getting better. 💜💜
As you are saying that anime and kdrama have peeping into girls business is normalized. So in my country even though stalking is a crime it been normalized by Indian film industry and it's super creepy and intimidating. Because they don't understand no means no
You shouldn't be separating girls and boys growing up so they can see each other as siblings and protect each other. It's when you separate them that they see each other as objects not familiar to themselves. And that's where dysfunctional thinking begins.
I was in 7th grade when i had joined this aerobics class that used to take place in a separate room in a gym. The classes lasted for 2 months and after that i never went back there. Once, i was passing through that area and saw that the gym had shut down completely. Got to know later that someone had found a hidden camera in the ladies changing room 🤢 Thankfully, i had never used the changing room there so i was relieved but imagine finding out you went to some public bathroom and there was a camera installed there like how far can people go honestly!
You have opened my eyes to this problem. I never knew it was so bad. So thanks. I’ll definitely be more mindful in the future 💜😊
This made me think of 2018 when I actually used so often public bathrooms on my vacation, instead of waiting.
I'll go to Korea in January the next time and am already thinking of ways how to protect myself, a filter, screwdriver is now a new idea, thank you.
Also thank you for speaking about this !!
Hiring 8K employees to check 20K bathrooms? WTF? 2.5 bathroom per person? Checking 10 per day should not be impossible even with travelling. Something is not OK here with the numbers.
I was super uncomfortable with the whole voyeuristic CCTV-watching plot in The K2 - exactly what you are talking about... I think in most countries voyeurism is seen as creepy, but clearly the writers/producers of that drama (and others) want to depict it as cute & romantic. It reminds me of early British “risqué” silent movie tropes of “What the butler saw”. It’s pretty gross.
I’m going to be honest I use to live in Seoul when I was 21 and being in the city all day I would need to use public restrooms. While I’d try to check if there were any cameras in my stall, I was still concerned.
I'm so happy you got a sponsor. Thank you for this video. Blessings.
In Ukraine, hidden cameras are something unusual. They can be found only in some cheap sex hotels or "special" saunas. But it is always a scandal. A few years ago, a student installed a camera in a girl's shower. And it was so strange and unusual, that it was shown on national television. The boy was caught because the camera automatically turned on in response to movement, and the first recording from the camera was this very student at the time the camera was installed.
Love your videos and your honesty! Looking forward to more of your content 😌
This stuff makes me lose faith in humanity too.
Peed in the subway bathroom in Seoul couple yrs back without knowing about molkas. Really hope me peeing is not floating around on the interweb.
So disturbing and it makes me angry that women can't seem to get a break anywhere
Thank you Kelsey for describing so eloquently this Molka problem. Being way older than you and your fans, nothing really shocks me anymore. I was glancing through the comment section and the word “ perverts” sprang into my eyes: what on earth could be so attractive when a woman tries to urinate or defecate??? And then there are the KDramas, which- from my perspective- are just good enough for practicing Korean listening, but the actresses have to portray women that are devout and submissive. I share your frustration, may be there’s hope, if boys ( and girls) learned to interact more naturally with each other. I know it’s easier said than done. Nevertheless, Korea still remains a top travel county for me. 😎. Wish you the best. Take care
it's so sad how some low - lifes have to exist in our world...... Good news when they're caught!!
In 2 months I'm going to Korea and I will stay in an Airbnb house.. oh you made me feeling worried and scared. Actually I've used Airbnb in korea many times.. I never thought about hidden cameras.. I feel stupid and naive now because this thought not even crossed my mind. BUT what can I do??????? How can I protect myself when go to the house???? Should start checking all the corners of the house?? Really I'm talking seriously.
I think you should be okay but my advice would be to turn all the lights off and check for any blinking lights anywhere when it’s dark. If you see a blinking light somewhere then chances are it’s a hidden camera, report it to AirBnB and then have a backup plan to find housing elsewhere.
I can't remember all of them, but there are camera detection tips in a couple youtube videos by I think VICE news about this exact topic. Just search for hidden cameras in Korea. There is also a app for iphones called "Fing" that has subscription or free versions and it scans for wifi sources and devices connecting to wifi near you. You can use it to see if there are any devices nearby that are live stream hidden cameras as those have to stream to wifi
Tôi rất thích nước và người dân Nam Hàn . Nhưng ở đây không phải chỉ có trọng nam khinh nữ. Mà còn giai cấp chủ tớ. Cứ làm gì sai là quỳ xuống để xin lỗi. Tôi kính trọng người dân Nam Hàn với nền giáo dục của Hàn quốc ❤❤
Thanks for posting this! Been hoping you would cover this for a while so we can find out what it's like for you as a woman who actually lives there. Also, I'm happy to buy you and all your friends a tiny screwdriver so you can smash all the cameras!
Thank you, Kelsey, for bringing attention to a huge issue that often gets overlooked when people talk about Korea. Too many people romanticise Korea as a whole, but the social issues within the country make it one of the worst highly developed countries to be a female.
Very twisted and disturbing ...
Sadly alot of clubs/bars in America are like that too. Ive been groped without consent quite a few times when at a club or bar esp in the city
naaaahhhh...if anyone is caught in college trying to install a camera in the bathroom/locker room/etc, they should be expelled regardless of their major. They're an adult and have full understanding of consequences to their actions - if they do something like that they have dug their own grave. I hope he got exiled by the student body at least.
In the west we call them peeping toms 😑. They have no shame and we’ll literally hide in bushes, or literally do it in front of your face with their own Camera, phone and now bloody drones 😫.
Why would people want such poor quality porn? That is also illegal and unethical?
A hidden camera video must surely be much worse quality than a porn with proper sized cameras and lighting from a ready and willing porn star.
It’s the violation of privacy that’s appealing to them.
6:48 In America this kind of thing was popular in the '80s in "teen sex comedy" movies like Porky's or Revenge of the Nerds, but yeah, you don't really see it anymore.
Nice informative videos
Thank you for letting me know that Kdrama romance is a lie and not realistic even though I'm not a big fan of Kdrama I only watch it for entertainment and language learning. The government system in Korea is this bad enough to not care for the well being of their citizens that's terrible and thanks for letting me know what I need to watch out for when I come to visit Korea in the future which is why before going out I don't drink anything liquid to avoid bladder override that will make me go and use the bathroom this topic sends shivers down my spine It makes me wonder if it's like that in the Korean hotels and residents homes too. Guys needs to know that violation of women's privacy is a serious crime and should be stopped a guy is supposed to be a responsible decent person so technically filming women and children is a pedophile case and has to be brought into account I hope it gets better.
Thx for talking about this. I think lots of people still don't know about the spycam in Korea. Crazy! Yet the gov still haven't restrict and establish law and more protection for women. Yes, like most Asian countries, the gender inequality is real and not sure when it will get better. Look forward to your club video. Def sound less safety than other western countries. However, in the U.S, we have to worry more about gun and others life threatening too for the club.
Thank you for debunking images perpetuated by Kdramas.Spy cam crimes is a symptom of the problem around gender inequality and incels in Korea. In the US being caught with a spy cam is a felony in all 50 states. Looking forward to your next video on the realities of nightclub culture.
More power to you Kelsey! It is difficult and brave to shed light on the dark side of Korea especially in today's day and age where 3 out of 5 girls or women all over the world are obsessing over Korea and Korean men. There is a lot of generational trauma and deep-rooted societal issues in Korea which people are just not ready to address and with the Hallyu wave it has become more difficult to call things out. Keep up the good work. Lots of love and luck!✨🤗
You should be the judge 😊
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORK KELSEY , THESE PIECE OF SH*T OF MEN FIND ANYTHING TO DESTROY WOMEN LIFES BUT WE WILL NOT LET THEM AND THEY ARE GOING TO PAID FOR IT .
YOU ARE SMART FUNNY BEAUTIFUL AND STRONG I LOVE YOU
why do u yelling af? mental health issues?
He did not get expelled! 😨 i hope that if he ever tries to do this again he faces real consequences and hopefully doesnt become a doctor
I love Kelseys way. She has a beautiful personality and is very attractive.
She is warm and intelligent and I love the way she chuckles in her videos.
I've just come from watching her video on when she graduated and depression.
She is lively and fun to watch in her other videos too.
She is a beautiful soul 🧡
I hope someone secretly films me going to washroom and watches me while eating😮
이 여자는 매일 지가 다니는 학교 자랑질을 하네 서울대도 아니고 엣날에 연대 다녔으면 인정하지만 지금연대가 우수한 학생들이 다니는 학교라는건 인정못함
OMG if this is all true, it's terrible. I guess for these things to get better they will have to change some aspects of their culture, which will be tough to do, but worth it in the end.
Is it possible that too much studying, or work keeps people from learning social skills? Then there are guys who are only concerned about getting attention people or women. There are grown men in my building who act like that...Thanks Kelsey for keeping us informed!! 💖💗💞🙏
We hear about secret camera crimes on the Korean news almost every single day. Be sure to block any suspicious objects (e.g. water bottle) or holes in public bathroom
Don't say "awkward" when you mean perverted/creepy :(
I stopped watching kdramas . It just didn't feel ryt
Now I know why🤔
the u.s shares the same
In the late 2000s I briefly worked at a vocational school with most adult girls up to age 21, but also teen girls 17+. Being not a sex offender my PO did not object. A guy working at the school used these for awhile. Eventually he got busted of course - the cameras were relatively large and bulky and obviously cameras. But tech is so advanced now, it's crazy. I'm sure few ppl would get busted now. Not sure what happened to him. Shoutout to you Remend.
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Did the clubbing video get made? 😊
Omg first comment Kelsey😤💗💗💗
Please post more🙏❤️✨
pls get a life
So i take it genderless bathrooms won't be a thing in a future Korea?'
why would anyone want a genderless toilet 😐
I like this Japanese Aesthetic with the video
Plss share with us every dark detail.... 💗
Why are you saying women as woman instead of wi·muhn? Is that how canadians say it?
she's korean