Yeah he did. You could tell how infuriated she was with how he was being treated. And that’s from dealing with other clients, and other cases. She was a FIRECRACKER, but also showed what type of woman the mother is. She killed it. With the mom, and great grandma.
19:02 - Bam! This was one of about 5 great arguments she made. This is a great example as to why you date for a year, live with one another for a couple, enjoy a few years of marriage, and then have kids. Even so, a marriage might end when kids are older, but at least you know what type of person you’re dealing with before bringing a life into the world and the child doesn’t come into this type of situation.
I feel like the judge let her get away with alot of leading questions. Felt like the other lawyer could have objected alot more than he did. I'm rooting for the guy. Think the mother and her family tried to control him and the kid. But just the way she asked alot of her questions I noticed were leading.
Yep! I do too! Just like they would jail the father for not helping! I spent the first 3 yrs of my daughter’s life chasing her Dad around. NOT FOR MONEY! For him to spend a few consistent hours or more with my daughter every week. Without my supervision! He wouldn’t take her bc he thought it would hold me back and make life hard on me. It did make things hard on my daughter and myself. It made it hard to have a dating life.
When I divorced, I made damn sure we had equal time and even time together with our child. Even after we had both remarried. Children require that as a bare minimum. We never involved the courts because people who require court to tell them how to be a parent shouldn’t be producing children in the first place. Seeing a mom or dad have to fight to either get the other parent to show up for their child, or to get equal time with their child is only ever hurting the child and that’s a very sad situation. Only the children pay for it. This man isn’t perfect, but he’s paid his dues for his poor choices. She’s making her baby pay for the fact she isn’t in love with him. If he never has time to learn how to be a father, how can she criticize him for being an imperfect father? It’s self-fulfilling. Children need their parents, the ones they were born to. Her actions in this situation are reprehensible.
@@TorrieG Yes, her family will stop at nothing to keep him away and will turn the child against him every chance they get. Obviously he will do nothing right in their eyes. Every time the child comes home from a visit from Dad, the family will poke and prod the kid to find out details they can use to make the kid feel bad for loving his Dad. So sad.
They let continuous bad actors keeping damaging the community. Soft hearts for them but they love making an example out of normal people who has screwed up once.
As a woman I agree with you; however, this judge made the best possible decision with what he had to work with. Granted dad is clean, but he did have a past and mom made that known. The judge had to order him to do a drug treat that quickly after court to prove MOM wrong! Yes, it sucks that the father had to go through that, but it’s just gonna benefit him in proving that Mom is alienating him along with her family.
A good mother would not keep a child away from a good father and wouldn't refuse child support. It is meant for the child, not her. She is harming this little boy! Shameful
She stated off the jump, it made her sick in her stomach that he could pay support Now, but Not when They were together. So she's mad that He is making his life and career better for Himself, and she's just "doing hair" for under minimum wage. She's a typical evil vindictive woman that needs to be charged in Some way for keeping that little boy away from his father.
I think there should be a charge for this. My first son’s father wasn’t fit. The trauma it caused him really sucks…so when I see moms who have a good father for their child and then they keep the child from them it irritates me.
a good mother wouldn't start the relationship off by being a ho-bag and then trying to use her "unfaithful tendencies" to challenge paternity and prevent visitation later
It is a moral crime of the highest order to keep a child from its father because he didn’t want her anymore. My mother did this and I hated her for it. It wasn’t just her revenge but she destroyed several families in the process not to mention forcing me to not be able to see and love my Father. This mother is a narcissist and this is criminal. It is child abuse and it is unsustainable. She’s hiding something.
My husbands ex did this. He didn't see his kids for 13 years despite paying child support. When she learned we got married, she cut off all communication.
@@chef.in.the.woods7it’s because you won…. The kids was just another access point to him for her….. You barred that access…. Good job helping that man💪🏽🫡
This guy deserves a dad of the year award for sucking it up and going into a house with 3 huge nags who criticized his every move just to see his kid. I’m so glad with the judge’s decision. These women are not acting in the best interest of the kid at all.
Never mind that she Admitted to and entered into the record, that she was cheating around the time of conception😂 What genius lawyer thought it was smart for HER to officially question paternity?! Basically she lost her mind when she was caught cheating. I've seen it before that when chicks get caught they "convince" their family that the boyfriend was abusing her. Therfore they can pretend that her cheating wasn't the actual problem and that she isn't truly is a POS.
Girl math is "Keep your money, we don't need your help = I was working 12 hour shifts in order to support my entire household" The math isn't mathing...
Telling him to keep the money we don’t need it, then saying he shouldn’t see his son because he doesn’t pay child support is terrible. Sounds like she was denying the money so she could say he doesn’t help.
She is a witch. This guy found a trade and is applying himself making decent money, and he will make even more in a year or two once he is graduated. She doesn’t realize the day will come when her son turns around and blames her for all she did to him. The first three years of a child’s life determine so much about their personality and security of self. Effectively removing the father from the equation is neglectful at a bare minimum. Children need fathers. She is causing damage she cannot take back.
One of the reasons child support should be deducted by the court then the court pays the parent that has the child, then the caretaker parent can't say child support wasn't paid..
@@j3pelfreyNormally but he said she won't take cash from him either. it's just someone being too proud and stubborn to help her child by taking money from someone she hates. she's thinking of herself and not the child
Never mind that she Admitted to and entered into the record, that she was cheating around the time of conception😂 What genius lawyer thought it was smart for HER to officially question paternity?! Basically she lost her mind when she was caught cheating. I've seen it before that when chicks get caught they "convince" their family that the boyfriend was abusing her. Therfore they can pretend that her cheating wasn't the actual problem and that she isn't truly is a POS. And justify keeping the child away from the father and his family.
@@jacobladder6165 I don't think she cheated, I think she lied and said she didn't know for sure who the dad was just to make it more difficult for the guy to see his son unsupervised... despicable behavior from 3 generations of harpys
The child will hate her for all this when he gets older. Parents kids do grow up and they will see which parent is the bad one! Stop keeping kids away from good dads! Makes me sick!
Yepper my sister and I moved to our dad's when we were of age 12 when court said we could make a choice. When court asked why we wanted to move we both said she's mean and lies about our dad. Never forgave her. She was horrible.
Yes we do! I am one of those children and I am currently writing a book about what my mother did to our entire family out of bitterness and hatred towards my father. I figured it all out and that was IT.
This poor baby is missing a huge piece of who he is by not having his dad in his life in any meaningful way. It’s disturbing anyone would do this to their child.
@LoveyCee good luck writing! I hope you are successful and your book makes it to a top seller. I'm sorry your Mom did that to you! Best wishes and drop the name when you are done if you remember lol. 💗
They let her contradict herself on the stand and didn’t do shit. Blatant lies from a witness is a felony Her testimony : She paid all of the bills and had to do all the parenting and household chores and working 12 hours a day every day Also : He would only watch the child like an hour or maybe 2 sometimes when she had to work but no more than that. She’s a lying C U Next Tuesday!He must have told the lawyer don’t go for the kill cause he could have. He still loves her yet she hates him. Been there done that 😢before
I've never seen such a gentle man treated like this. She will reap what she sows. I see a very hard future for her and he will get full custody at some point.
I'm a stepmom in a scenario like this and the mother and maternal grandmother were awful. They have since tried to make amends when my stepchildren were teenagers. But I will say this does not end well for the mother. My stepchildren are grown and my stepson won't really even go around his mother.
So sad. So many kids go without their parents, so it infuriates me when I see a child and a parent go through this. I had my first daughter very young at 20, I chased her dad, not for money but for him to bond with her. It has been heartbreaking times. My husband has helped raise her since 3, but she knew her Dad, and she still wanted him too throughout the years. I didn’t put him on child support until she was 5. I only did it then out of anger bc of how he neglected to show any care or love for her. So I figured if you can’t give her time, you will pay her!
Yep I had mom of my step children do some ugly things too and I'm the end we now all get along but they visit me more and text or call their mom not so often that I had to step in and ask them to include their mom more cause it's the right thing to do for our grandchildren families united show so much more then families that hate
@Dominancelogistics No they won't, I had to pay and my ex-wife was illegal and banned from the United States for crimes she committed. Even after that, she and I went to court in Tennessee, the judge told me I wasn't allowed to have a lawyer and didn't let me speak. Gave her all custody and I walked out owing 27k and hadn't even seen my child not once yet since she was born. The courts are weaponized against men regardless how bad the mother is.
This blocking on payment apps. Two reasons. 1. Doesn't want a paper trail for two reasons. 1. Doesn't have to claim it on taxes. 2. Can get more in child support if no record, and it's easier to make him look bad for "not paying". 2. Her acct is often overdraft, and the venmo would do nothing but bring thay current, instead of put money in her pocket. Either way, that's a REALLY bad look.
“Any other concerns with his parenting” the lawyer asked, she said no! Then he reminded her about substance abuse!?😂 yeah if she thought he had a drug problem, wouldn’t that be the top priority she wanted to talk about!?????
When he said, "I dont know what that word means," when asked if they were critical of him... Bless him. He seems hard working, genuine, and too kind to be treated this way.
I hope he was just nervous. If he doesn’t know what critical means that’s concerning. He may not take the parenting class because it’s not mandatory, but will be used against him if this case is heard again. I hope his lawyer reiterates this.
What a child that girl is! I’m half way through and I cannot believe she and her momma and grandma got away with this insanity as long as they did. That little girl needs to grow the hell up! Thank God he has a GREAT lawyer. I hope the judge gives her a good dose of reality!
I have never heard a family so desperate to keep a child away from a father. They sound pathetic. How horrible of this woman and her family to keep this baby from the love of a father and family. People beg for fathers to be in their childrens lives. The payment to make it harder is just a complete disgrace. I feel sorry for this dad and definitely the child because the mother and her family is going to cause this child so much mental anguish and is going to keep him in court and call CPS constantly. I certainly hope this judge sees through it and this man gets his son and really gets him permanently away from this crazy family and they get a day or 2 with him every other week. They will mentally ruin this child and if that's not obvious to everyone then there is something wrong with you. He has desperately tried to be a father but she is so hateful and mad that he left her. I'm grateful the laws have changed there. What a hateful disgraceful family to do this to a child. They are far from perfect OBVIOUSLY! The hell they have put this family through to see this child is crazy. The woman needs mental help.
My ex was awarded joint custody. And he was awarded holidays. Support was set at $95 per week for 2 children. He came and got them twice. And stopped paying support. The courts never helped me, and I begged him to see his children. Fast forward, he missed EVERY milestone, graduations, honors (our daughter graduated valedictorian) He missed his son's wedding. Now, he has cancer and is dying. He is begging his children to come see him. They do not even know him. This trial is so sad. 😢
I couldn't have said it better myself, but I'm just a Single Father raising my 3 children, 8 6 and 4, by myself for the last 4yrs and counting, after Their mother left for a life of addiction Somewhere in Nashville, where we've Never lived, and is now in a sober living place in Dickson, supposedly, after just spending 30 days in a detox. But we've gone through this More times then I care to count in these last 4years, so I'm not holding my breath. I Hope, for the sake of My kids, that She Does do this next 1 year in that place, so maybe by this time next year, she can finally see her kids again. But Trusting Her, after all the H€LL she put me through, including taking my 1st born, my daughter, just before she turned a year old and fled NC to Tenn after lying to her family about Who I Am. But, That dad seems to be trying to better himself while that mother wants nothing but to Hurt Him.
Never mind that she Admitted to and entered into the record, that she was cheating around the time of conception😂 What genius lawyer thought it was smart for HER to officially question paternity?! Basically she lost her mind when she was caught cheating. I've seen it before that when chicks get caught they "convince" their family that the boyfriend was abusing her. Therfore they can pretend that her cheating wasn't the actual problem and that she isn't truly is a POS.
That mother sits on her high horse yet she is also living at home and demonstrably immature. She has no clue whats best for the child. Child doesnt care if the money for his care is venmo! That father could become father of the year if gicen a chance yet she will ALWAYS stick to her narrative hes incapable.
She likes treating him like he's incapable, if she treated him as capable she'd have to relinquish her high horse and would be insulted to be his equal
This girl is ridiculous. I watched the video, she is resentful, and I am heartbroken for this father and their son. She allows him a 4 hour visit supervised by herself, her mom ONCE A WEEK. She complains that he needs to "be a father" and do stuff other than play with him and put him to sleep. Ummm sis, you dont give him a chance "to be a father" critizing everything he does if it's not done your way? What do you expect him to do, or how do you expect him to develop a relationship or parenting schedule with 4 hours a week, and sometimes longer when you cancel visits last minute?? She uses his "past" against him, DUI, drug use, but she knew about his "PAST" when they started dating and long before even getting pregnant. On their second date, he was in drug court, and in order to go on a second date together, she had to sign off saying shes aware of his past. Only now it's an issue? Only now she's worried about his past? Why wasn't it worrisome before your son was born? This man has been sober since then, and shes allowed him to care for their son ALONE when they were together while she was working... It's obvious there isn't a problem, and she is trying to use his past as ammunition as to why she doesn't "trust him" alone. Then, she claims the child would be traumatized if he was without her because he only sees his dad for 4 hours a week. UMMM, ok... because YOU created that situation. YOU only allow him to see the child that much. That's not by his choosing. She wants him to pay cash for child support because paying venmo makes it "too easy" - yeah, no, you just dont want a record of him paying child support. Some fathers / mothers dont give a damn about their child. There are children who have no idea who their absent parent is. Here you have a man who is working and going to school, trying to pay you child support, begging to be in his sons life. He had NOTHING BUT nice things to say about her.... and the second she takes a stand, she puts him down and looks down on him for being 31 years old, having a full-time good paying job, going to school, because he's what... living with his sister or should be doing more with his life?!? It just breaks my heart. I pray when they go back to court in 4 months the judge grants joint custody, 50/50. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
She had no experience raising a child when she first became a parent. She had no problem having him parent while they were together, and she was at work. She moves in with mom and Gramma. All of a sudden, he's a problem? and her mom and gramma have taken more care of that baby than mom. I have a problem with the judges decision. He took her statement that dad is basically crap as a parent.
I disagree with you! Being a woman has nothing to do with deciding who is a decent parent or not! Apparently you are her, just opposite sex! Being a good PARENT is what it takes to decide what’s best for the child! This little boy needs his dad! He didn’t choose either one of them for parents! She’s a selfish narcissist.
This is basically the mom's argument "he doesn't know how to cook." "You lock the kitchen everyday when you're not in it" "He should try to break in" "He did, and he got arrested" "He shouldn't have got caught" "But you locked him out and called the police when he tried. You created the problem" "it's still his fault"
It’s bs he has to prove himself all bc she kept the baby from him! She didn’t have to prove herself to anyone b4 she was allowed to take her baby home.
This Mother is a control freak, immature and just a big hater! Her behavior is appalling and unacceptable. I feel so bad for Dad. Both the kid and Dad need a relationship with each other! 😢
This is absolutely sick. That baby is going to grow up and realize what she stole from him. The first three years of a child’s life determine the remainder of it and she has kept him from having any meaningful relationship with his father. She hates her ex more than she loves her son. She should not have even 50% custody if this is how she treats her son. If she thought this guy was so terrible, she should have had birth control or an abortion. But she didn’t. This is of her making and she’s making her baby pay for it. That’s what is so sick about this. This is a guy who’s made some reasonably notable poor decisions but he has made them right. He didn’t get on the criminal merry-go-round like so many others. He is making something of himself and even figured out a trade to be able to support himself and his son. Zane deserves a better mother and I hope she can grow up and be that mother. Otherwise the day will come that Zane will learn what has occurred and people don’t just get over that.
I get not jumping into 50/50 custody, but I was hoping he would get more right away. This man is ready, willing, and wanting to be an active, present, loving, caring father to his child, and she won't let him. Women like her make me so angry. Vindictive and spiteful. I'm praying he ends up with the 50/50 custody he wants. I also pray he and his child grow a bond that is unbreakable. Father's are so important in a child's life. As a mother I couldn't imagine treating my child's father this way. Ive done all I can to help nurture the relationship my husband has with our kids. Watching him with our kids, and the joy they all have brings me so much happiness.
Yes! It’s important even for married couples to nurture the relationship between the parent and child(ren). Bc, I grew up in a married home where I was raised to keep things from my father. They weren’t even things I did. It was things happening around me. Believe me when I tell you it could have harmed my relationship with my father, had I not grew up looking up to my Dad (as a little girl) and wanted to make him proud, so I’ve been resented my mother to this day for my honesty. I loved both parents, but always felt bad that bc my Dad worked 2 jobs, and bc he was a God fearing man (never abusive ever, he was such a sweet man) and expected us to behave and be well mannered, so things were hidden from him! So sad for a family and children.
It's bc of the points he had to follow which is fucked up. Keep the kid away from 1 parent and you get so many favor points that helps you when it 100% shouldnt be looked at as a good thing. This is based on the 1 hour 55 minutes - 2 hour mark
He got screwed without lube. The even more fucked up part 1 if he needs a drug test the mother should be forced to get 1 and 2 getting more favor points based on the fact you kept the kid away from the dad 100% needs changed. If you kept the kid away from the other parent you it should 100% be marked as a zero on both sides if not hurt you for it.
Im working on childsupport payments also. My ex, childs mother, is the one that is supposed to pay and never has. She is very behind on payments and the dfacs say they can not locate her yet ive given home address and work address and still nothing. Now that shes locked up i can not even reach the dfacs. If rolls are reveresed, id be in jail.
Yep. Women for some reason, EVEN though they’re known for making things 10x more difficult 95% of the time, seem to never get the same energy from judges as men do. And that’s in every courtroom, even criminal. I bet judges start locking these women up for playing games and BS for contempt for 10 days, watch how quick the games stop. But noooooooo. That rarely happens. I watched a case that was over a year or so, multiple court dates, of a woman doing nothing but playing games. Refusing to drop off the child at scheduled drop dates and times, the judge told her. Drop the kid off now to him. Right now. She refused and he said. Well then then yourself into jail by 6pm. She didn’t show up. They went n got her ass the next morning. Guess how quick the games stopped, how sorry she was, how it would NEVER happen again. and she got in line with what the court was ordered to do.
@@hpprochargedtbssI agree completely. Judges who allow the circus to go on- is responsible for all the effects. They know - they see the outcomes and they’re not accountable. Just saw one and the judge- was high praising the pregnant woman, who lost two of her other kids, who had a fellow living with her on section 8, whose grandma had one of the children, she didn’t pay child support, she was a horrible mother, and the judge kept praising her as if she was wonderful. It’s his fault. All of the drama
So she is a spiteful liar and cheater, but wants to claim the dad is the liar. Okay. Go it. Dude is fighting to be in his child’s life, and she is fighting tooth and nail to keep him out. She doesn’t need custody of the child. She needs therapy before they should even consider granting her visitation
Has the mother been subjected to a hair follicle drug test? Why aren't mothers held to the same standard? Visitation can be limited if he happened to smoke marijuana in the last year - not fair. Family court is so biased towards the mother.
@@jerometruitt2731 if he's in her home, yes, she can make him leave so long as his presence there isn't court ordered, as well as refuse him placing cameras in her house. Other than that, he can wear a bodycam, carry a tape recorder etc. and there's really nothing she can do about it since Tennessee is a one party state.
1:17:19 I still have an hour left, but my heart is breaking for this father. I pray this judge sees the truth & does the right thing. This female is a complete & total piece of work. I'm actually shocked that she's so manipulative, controlling, deceitful, quick to anger, easily agitated & clearly a narcissist at such a young age. Her attitude is so nasty, like a mega Karen. Omg, poor Zane. I can't imagine this sweet little baby having to be in a house full of THEM....3 GENERATIONS at that. I would put $ on it, that within a few years, the dad will have what he wants. This....female is the type they make Lifetime movies about. Side note: LOVE dad's sweetly aggressive attorney, lol.
Are you???? She’s a single mom who was raised by a single mom who was raised by a single mom. She’s the 3rd generation of a “scorned woman” who was just treated absolutely horrible.(pffffffft) *eye roll* 🙄😒. She’s a miserable c u next tuesday just like her mother. And grandma. It doesn’t shock me AT ALL she’s acting the way she’s acting. Period. Especially with this newer generation and thought processes that “men ain’t nothing, and we don’t need men at all. They’re completely worthless” attitude that modern women have. It’s disgusting. She hates/ jealous of her baby daddy more than she loves her son. It’s sad. And infuriating.
His lawyer is amazing and was able to demonstrate that she’s just withholding the child out of spite and that her mom and grandma are encouraging it. Then saying he doesn’t know how to parent. How’s he supposed to learn if you only see the child once a week for four hours? The judge made the correct ruling. He better stay on her ass about his kid.
dad is a first time dad. trust me you learn as you go but her family will never accept that. they keep throwing up that he puts him in danger and he should know better...yall do because you've raised kids, mom knows because yall are there teaching her but I guarantee she is the PERFECT parent in yalls eyes. truth is he will NEVER be enough. She will always find something. Mom is all about control because she's pissed at dad. I really hope that the courts learn from cases like this and give dad's more and get away from always siding with moms
That don’t care about what the dads done in the past, they just don’t want to share the child, so they can play all pitiful “we just have to do everything by ourselves!” Hell these people make me want to do drugs!
But he’s not a lone either. He’s with his mom and sister? Or aunt. Whatever it was. They’ve raised children. It’s the same thing. This is just a miserable woman with two much more miserable older women in her ear. I feel a parent who purposely keeps their child away from the parent just to cause drama and purposely hurt not only the other parent but the child/children should lose custody IMMEDIATELY and also put into jail for contempt. Let’s see how things change when they sit in jail for a good 10 days. Bet the games and BS stop REALLLLLL quick.
She's a control freak and i hope she watches this and see how evil she is and how bad and selfish she is. She needs to be grateful he is stepping up to the plate. Shes a self centered immature brat. The judge is doing his job. He has to be fair to both parents. Of course her family is going to side with the mother and trash him.
I am disgusted at the attitude of this mom. The dad wants to be there but because he is trying to get you the help you need in the easiest way it’s a problem?
Kaylin is bitter and immature. It is time to get over the fact that Chase is over her and just wants to be with his son. Electronics child support payments only. So her and her mother can't come back to court saying he isn't paying.
When visitation starts she will photograph Zane before he goes and when he comes back. She is a horrible person. Her parents are not so good either. That is Zane’s daddy. He loves him. Hopefully she will meet someone and move on.
Thanks for sharing. I love Judge Wolfe, he’s so wise and always concerned for the children….these videos are so educational I wish I had this tool back , 20 yrs ago when I went thru a custody battle…it was brutal…. This one here, this mom made her own rules, good thing Dad took her to court
So his familys good enough when gifts are being given but not the rest of the year thats insane. The mother clearly doesnt want to share the child out of spite.
Her Lawyer: Did she ever deny your 4 hour visits? Father: No but she denied me more time. Her Lawyer: But she never denied you the 4 hours!? There’s no court order in place…so she’s got no right to limit his time to 4 hours. What a horrible human…but I’m sure it’s a trickle down effect from the mom/grandma.
I can’t recall who called grandma to the stand. If it was the father’s attorney, it was a brilliant move. If it was the mother’s attorney, it was a big mistake. She did more harm than good to the mother’s case.
I absolutely love this judge! He explains everything so clearly and listens intently. He also is very fair and understanding of both sides. He’s an example of how judges should be when presiding over such delicate cases
As for the mother she wasn't sure who the dad was and that says a lot. Her family needs to step aside and let the dad be a father. If she's working up to 12 hours a day, she has no clue what is going on with baby. I know the dad is going to be a great parent, I wish all fathers were like him. I'm going to be praying for him and his son. As for the mom stop working long hours and spend more time with your baby and don't forget baby has a real father that cares about his son.
Mom is just being hateful however she will regret it because the child is the one who will pay the cost and it will cost her in the end. Im glad dad has a lawyer worth every penny. This mother ( I use that term loosely) is RIDICULOUS refusing venmo because she doesnt want it to be easy for him LMAO. The dad's lawyer is my hero, she is holding deet to the fire, she is not letting up.
I have never understood a woman who operates like this. How can you ever hate a man more than you care about the overall well being of your child? A son needs his father..this is absolutely ridiculous and sad.
Venmo is a problem because it makes things a little easier on him. That sounds so spiteful. If he doesnt get a chance with that kid, she will ruin the kid.
I use to be the distraction for my brothers ex. Was awful but happily did it or she would hover and not let my brother alone with his son. He would try to give him a popsicle she says no and 10 mins later she hands him tge popsicle so it's from her. Eventually she thought she was my best friend and would tell me all the stupid situations she put my nephew in. But my job was ask her to hang out so my brother could see his don even tho they use to live together. nid take her to movies or lunch. She had moved out of state and 2 diff states, my brother had $$ orders in 1 state but full custody in other and went bankrupt. My dad and i convinced her to move closer and my brother filed for custody so she couldn't move again. My nephew was taken away when her bf hit him and my brother had him ever since. She left state and abandoned him but had a child support order in a diff state neither lived in and yrs she cashed the checks and he could never get the money back. My nephew is a grown man now and I'm so proud of him he is kind and strong and loves his family and works hard and is a kind friend and a loving nephew. ❤️ my brother kept him safe and never regretted the cost.
If I ever get into a custody "battle" I hope my lawyer is half as good as this gentleman's. The worst part about this hearing is actually not even about the child. The fact that she blocked him on venmo and created additional barriers for him to do what he needs to do is deceptively bad for him. The last thing you want to do to someone experiencing substance abuse is create additional barriers in front of them. The more barriers there is to anything, but especially in front of recovering addicts, the less likely they are to stay clean. Imagine if you went to a facility to fight your substance abuse and instead of helping you they just made your life even harder.
Mom needs to take a parenting class as well. She needs to stop weaponizing that baby. This judge is putting too much trust in her. Just because he's an irresponsible grandfather doesn't mean this man will be an irresponsible father.
Please let this dad show that he is going to be a consistent person in his child's life and let this bitter mom get over herself and her hatred for this man and comply for the best of her child. This child deserves to have both of his parents in his life.
She slept with a man who isn't father material? What does that make her?. Let him be a dad. Not every dad is perfect. At least he's trying. So many fathers never even want to see their kids.
The mom & her family have zero credibility in my opinion. What makes the judge think the mom & her family were honest about everything? It’s not like she’s some angel.
I am glad his family supports him.. This is heartbreaking. My dad was never a consistent support in my life, but I always wanted him to be. Children need their father's
This girl needs to get her mom and grandma out of her business. She called him when her Dad had a heart attack and she called him. I think she’s blindly allowing two man haters to lead her!
You see so many parents who don't want anything to do with their kids. Here we have a parent who wants so badly to be involved and is denied. It's so sad.
Why does the father have to do the parenting course and not the mother? And why the drug test for the father snd not the mother as well? You honestly believe if he did drugs she abstained?
He found him a damn good lawyer.
Yeah he did. You could tell how infuriated she was with how he was being treated. And that’s from dealing with other clients, and other cases. She was a FIRECRACKER, but also showed what type of woman the mother is. She killed it. With the mom, and great grandma.
He chose well
He needed a damn good lawyer he was getting hosed for no reason
19:02 - Bam! This was one of about 5 great arguments she made.
This is a great example as to why you date for a year, live with one another for a couple, enjoy a few years of marriage, and then have kids. Even so, a marriage might end when kids are older, but at least you know what type of person you’re dealing with before bringing a life into the world and the child doesn’t come into this type of situation.
I feel like the judge let her get away with alot of leading questions. Felt like the other lawyer could have objected alot more than he did. I'm rooting for the guy. Think the mother and her family tried to control him and the kid. But just the way she asked alot of her questions I noticed were leading.
i firmly believe women who do this should be arrested and charged neglect of child and harassment to the father.
Yep! I do too! Just like they would jail the father for not helping! I spent the first 3 yrs of my daughter’s life chasing her Dad around. NOT FOR MONEY! For him to spend a few consistent hours or more with my daughter every week. Without my supervision! He wouldn’t take her bc he thought it would hold me back and make life hard on me. It did make things hard on my daughter and myself. It made it hard to have a dating life.
Yes! And she can !! Parental neglect
It's called contempt of court. If the mother restricts access to the child when it's court ordered, she's in deep doo-doo
When I divorced, I made damn sure we had equal time and even time together with our child. Even after we had both remarried. Children require that as a bare minimum. We never involved the courts because people who require court to tell them how to be a parent shouldn’t be producing children in the first place. Seeing a mom or dad have to fight to either get the other parent to show up for their child, or to get equal time with their child is only ever hurting the child and that’s a very sad situation. Only the children pay for it. This man isn’t perfect, but he’s paid his dues for his poor choices. She’s making her baby pay for the fact she isn’t in love with him.
If he never has time to learn how to be a father, how can she criticize him for being an imperfect father? It’s self-fulfilling. Children need their parents, the ones they were born to. Her actions in this situation are reprehensible.
What about the 17.8 million fatherless children? What do you think should happen to those fathers?
I love Dad’s lawyer! She is great!
Yes, he needs to keep a fund for her over the next years because they will do everything they can to stop him from seeing this child.
@@TorrieGYes! They WILL be back in court.
The judge is damn good and fair for both sides .
@@TorrieG Yes, her family will stop at nothing to keep him away and will turn the child against him every chance they get. Obviously he will do nothing right in their eyes. Every time the child comes home from a visit from Dad, the family will poke and prod the kid to find out details they can use to make the kid feel bad for loving his Dad. So sad.
Wake up judges!!!! Stop letting these bitter women ruin lives.
As a woman, I entirely agree with you.
He needs his votes from the wenches, he ain't siding with the men
They let continuous bad actors keeping damaging the community. Soft hearts for them but they love making an example out of normal people who has screwed up once.
As a woman I agree with you; however, this judge made the best possible decision with what he had to work with. Granted dad is clean, but he did have a past and mom made that known. The judge had to order him to do a drug treat that quickly after court to prove MOM wrong! Yes, it sucks that the father had to go through that, but it’s just gonna benefit him in proving that Mom is alienating him along with her family.
Yep
A good mother would not keep a child away from a good father and wouldn't refuse child support. It is meant for the child, not her. She is harming this little boy! Shameful
She stated off the jump, it made her sick in her stomach that he could pay support Now, but Not when They were together. So she's mad that He is making his life and career better for Himself, and she's just "doing hair" for under minimum wage. She's a typical evil vindictive woman that needs to be charged in Some way for keeping that little boy away from his father.
This lady is a LIAR.
Tbh, this is happening A LOT!
I think there should be a charge for this. My first son’s father wasn’t fit. The trauma it caused him really sucks…so when I see moms who have a good father for their child and then they keep the child from them it irritates me.
a good mother wouldn't start the relationship off by being a ho-bag and then trying to use her "unfaithful tendencies" to challenge paternity and prevent visitation later
It is a moral crime of the highest order to keep a child from its father because he didn’t want her anymore. My mother did this and I hated her for it. It wasn’t just her revenge but she destroyed several families in the process not to mention forcing me to not be able to see and love my Father. This mother is a narcissist and this is criminal. It is child abuse and it is unsustainable. She’s hiding something.
100%. She hates him more than she loves her child. It’s pathological!
My husbands ex did this. He didn't see his kids for 13 years despite paying child support. When she learned we got married, she cut off all communication.
@@chef.in.the.woods7it’s because you won…. The kids was just another access point to him for her….. You barred that access…. Good job helping that man💪🏽🫡
Why didn't he fight it? What state btw?@@chef.in.the.woods7
I fully agree with you the mother the grandmother and the great-grandmother are all three disgusting controlling women
She doesn’t want him venmoing her money because That leaves a paper trail, A.K.A. Proof that he is paying her child support
This guy deserves a dad of the year award for sucking it up and going into a house with 3 huge nags who criticized his every move just to see his kid. I’m so glad with the judge’s decision.
These women are not acting in the best interest of the kid at all.
Yep
Never mind that she Admitted to and entered into the record, that she was cheating around the time of conception😂 What genius lawyer thought it was smart for HER to officially question paternity?!
Basically she lost her mind when she was caught cheating. I've seen it before that when chicks get caught they "convince" their family that the boyfriend was abusing her. Therfore they can pretend that her cheating wasn't the actual problem and that she isn't truly is a POS.
Women who pull stunts should lose custody automatically and have child support revoked and reversed
@@jacobladder6165thats what happened to me shes been bitter ever since
Having a boy spending time with his father is critical to his success as an adult
Girl math is "Keep your money, we don't need your help = I was working 12 hour shifts in order to support my entire household"
The math isn't mathing...
Telling him to keep the money we don’t need it, then saying he shouldn’t see his son because he doesn’t pay child support is terrible. Sounds like she was denying the money so she could say he doesn’t help.
She is a witch. This guy found a trade and is applying himself making decent money, and he will make even more in a year or two once he is graduated. She doesn’t realize the day will come when her son turns around and blames her for all she did to him. The first three years of a child’s life determine so much about their personality and security of self. Effectively removing the father from the equation is neglectful at a bare minimum. Children need fathers. She is causing damage she cannot take back.
One of the reasons child support should be deducted by the court then the court pays the parent that has the child, then the caretaker parent can't say child support wasn't paid..
My bet is she wanted cash so she could lie about the amounts he was giving. Zelle or venmo leave a trail of receipts that can't be disputed.
@@j3pelfreyNormally but he said she won't take cash from him either. it's just someone being too proud and stubborn to help her child by taking money from someone she hates. she's thinking of herself and not the child
That mom is ridiculous and after hearing the grandmother I know where she gets her snarky attitude
I agree
Understatement. I hope she see this and reads everything.
Agree! The child and any issues need to be handled by mom and dad, grandma's opinion is irrelevant, she doesn't get a vote.
Never mind that she Admitted to and entered into the record, that she was cheating around the time of conception😂 What genius lawyer thought it was smart for HER to officially question paternity?!
Basically she lost her mind when she was caught cheating. I've seen it before that when chicks get caught they "convince" their family that the boyfriend was abusing her. Therfore they can pretend that her cheating wasn't the actual problem and that she isn't truly is a POS. And justify keeping the child away from the father and his family.
@@jacobladder6165 I don't think she cheated, I think she lied and said she didn't know for sure who the dad was just to make it more difficult for the guy to see his son unsupervised... despicable behavior from 3 generations of harpys
He needs 50/50 custody. He needs to fight her for this tooth and nail. She’s mean enough to do something very very reckless.😢
It's expensive
It's a good thing the order is temporary. Once he proves what the judge asks with no issues there shouldn't be any issues for 50/50.
The child will hate her for all this when he gets older. Parents kids do grow up and they will see which parent is the bad one! Stop keeping kids away from good dads! Makes me sick!
The mom will tell a lie to child how bad his father is and manipulation the child
Yepper my sister and I moved to our dad's when we were of age 12 when court said we could make a choice. When court asked why we wanted to move we both said she's mean and lies about our dad. Never forgave her. She was horrible.
Yes we do! I am one of those children and I am currently writing a book about what my mother did to our entire family out of bitterness and hatred towards my father. I figured it all out and that was IT.
This poor baby is missing a huge piece of who he is by not having his dad in his life in any meaningful way. It’s disturbing anyone would do this to their child.
@LoveyCee good luck writing! I hope you are successful and your book makes it to a top seller. I'm sorry your Mom did that to you! Best wishes and drop the name when you are done if you remember lol. 💗
I see that woman going to jail later for violating a court order
I do too.
Won't happen
Women almost never go to jail in these scenarios.
They let her contradict herself on the stand and didn’t do shit. Blatant lies from a witness is a felony Her testimony : She paid all of the bills and had to do all the parenting and household chores and working 12 hours a day every day
Also : He would only watch the child like an hour or maybe 2 sometimes when she had to work but no more than that. She’s a lying C U Next Tuesday!He must have told the lawyer don’t go for the kill cause he could have. He still loves her yet she hates him. Been there done that 😢before
I've never seen such a gentle man treated like this. She will reap what she sows. I see a very hard future for her and he will get full custody at some point.
👉The father should have full custody ‼️This woman and her mother are trying to alienate this father, and should be admonished and fined.
Yeah they’re so sick! I swear who would want to sit supervised by demons.
@@aprilpinketon2567Hen peckers toward the father! So true!
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This man had it bad as well.
Grand Karen , Mom Karen, and Karen.
😅😅
I bet they will try & find any little thing to stop him having his son because that’s what Karen’s do 👍🏻
No one can beat a spiteful woman like a determined and way more intelligent woman 😂
I'm not sure I didn't see one..
@@donnakawana 😂The attorney. She wrecked those spiteful hags!
I'm a stepmom in a scenario like this and the mother and maternal grandmother were awful. They have since tried to make amends when my stepchildren were teenagers. But I will say this does not end well for the mother. My stepchildren are grown and my stepson won't really even go around his mother.
So sad. So many kids go without their parents, so it infuriates me when I see a child and a parent go through this. I had my first daughter very young at 20, I chased her dad, not for money but for him to bond with her. It has been heartbreaking times. My husband has helped raise her since 3, but she knew her Dad, and she still wanted him too throughout the years. I didn’t put him on child support until she was 5. I only did it then out of anger bc of how he neglected to show any care or love for her. So I figured if you can’t give her time, you will pay her!
I was the child that couldn’t go around my mother a lot of the time.
Trust me this little boy will have nothing to do with his mother and grandmother and the great-grandmother will be gone by the time he's old enough
Yep I had mom of my step children do some ugly things too and I'm the end we now all get along but they visit me more and text or call their mom not so often that I had to step in and ask them to include their mom more cause it's the right thing to do for our grandchildren families united show so much more then families that hate
No matter if the non-custodial parent, is paying their obligations of child support. The custodial parent CANNOT keep the child from them.
Exactly!!
Yeah but they do!!
@ a judge will come down extremely hard on that behavior.
@Dominancelogistics No they won't, I had to pay and my ex-wife was illegal and banned from the United States for crimes she committed. Even after that, she and I went to court in Tennessee, the judge told me I wasn't allowed to have a lawyer and didn't let me speak. Gave her all custody and I walked out owing 27k and hadn't even seen my child not once yet since she was born. The courts are weaponized against men regardless how bad the mother is.
They cam and they do , the courts do nothing to females.
This blocking on payment apps.
Two reasons.
1. Doesn't want a paper trail for two reasons. 1. Doesn't have to claim it on taxes. 2. Can get more in child support if no record, and it's easier to make him look bad for "not paying".
2. Her acct is often overdraft, and the venmo would do nothing but bring thay current, instead of put money in her pocket.
Either way, that's a REALLY bad look.
No one is taxed for receiving child support. It's not a taxable income
Its applys as $$ if shes on welfare or needs to claim income like to go to school. @WitchyBishy
Child support is not taxable because there is an assumption that the paying party already paid taxes when they earned the income.
@@WitchyBishyyes but they will recoup money to pay for services provided same difference 😂
I've never understood this behavior.. The child needs a father, it's not about you anymore. Let that baby have a daddy. Selfish🙄
Wow, what a hateful family
“Any other concerns with his parenting” the lawyer asked, she said no! Then he reminded her about substance abuse!?😂 yeah if she thought he had a drug problem, wouldn’t that be the top priority she wanted to talk about!?????
When he said, "I dont know what that word means," when asked if they were critical of him...
Bless him.
He seems hard working, genuine, and too kind to be treated this way.
I hope he was just nervous. If he doesn’t know what critical means that’s concerning. He may not take the parenting class because it’s not mandatory, but will be used against him if this case is heard again. I hope his lawyer reiterates this.
What a child that girl is! I’m half way through and I cannot believe she and her momma and grandma got away with this insanity as long as they did. That little girl needs to grow the hell up! Thank God he has a GREAT lawyer. I hope the judge gives her a good dose of reality!
I have never heard a family so desperate to keep a child away from a father. They sound pathetic. How horrible of this woman and her family to keep this baby from the love of a father and family. People beg for fathers to be in their childrens lives. The payment to make it harder is just a complete disgrace. I feel sorry for this dad and definitely the child because the mother and her family is going to cause this child so much mental anguish and is going to keep him in court and call CPS constantly. I certainly hope this judge sees through it and this man gets his son and really gets him permanently away from this crazy family and they get a day or 2 with him every other week. They will mentally ruin this child and if that's not obvious to everyone then there is something wrong with you. He has desperately tried to be a father but she is so hateful and mad that he left her. I'm grateful the laws have changed there. What a hateful disgraceful family to do this to a child. They are far from perfect OBVIOUSLY! The hell they have put this family through to see this child is crazy. The woman needs mental help.
Yup
My ex was awarded joint custody. And he was awarded holidays. Support was set at $95 per week for 2 children. He came and got them twice. And stopped paying support. The courts never helped me, and I begged him to see his children. Fast forward, he missed EVERY milestone, graduations, honors (our daughter graduated valedictorian) He missed his son's wedding. Now, he has cancer and is dying. He is begging his children to come see him. They do not even know him. This trial is so sad. 😢
I couldn't have said it better myself, but I'm just a Single Father raising my 3 children, 8 6 and 4, by myself for the last 4yrs and counting, after Their mother left for a life of addiction Somewhere in Nashville, where we've Never lived, and is now in a sober living place in Dickson, supposedly, after just spending 30 days in a detox. But we've gone through this More times then I care to count in these last 4years, so I'm not holding my breath. I Hope, for the sake of My kids, that She Does do this next 1 year in that place, so maybe by this time next year, she can finally see her kids again. But Trusting Her, after all the H€LL she put me through, including taking my 1st born, my daughter, just before she turned a year old and fled NC to Tenn after lying to her family about Who I Am. But, That dad seems to be trying to better himself while that mother wants nothing but to Hurt Him.
And the corrupt judge
Never mind that she Admitted to and entered into the record, that she was cheating around the time of conception😂 What genius lawyer thought it was smart for HER to officially question paternity?!
Basically she lost her mind when she was caught cheating. I've seen it before that when chicks get caught they "convince" their family that the boyfriend was abusing her. Therfore they can pretend that her cheating wasn't the actual problem and that she isn't truly is a POS.
That mother sits on her high horse yet she is also living at home and demonstrably immature. She has no clue whats best for the child. Child doesnt care if the money for his care is venmo! That father could become father of the year if gicen a chance yet she will ALWAYS stick to her narrative hes incapable.
She likes treating him like he's incapable, if she treated him as capable she'd have to relinquish her high horse and would be insulted to be his equal
No way mom ..you are a control freak and this dad does not need supervision ….
This girl is ridiculous. I watched the video, she is resentful, and I am heartbroken for this father and their son. She allows him a 4 hour visit supervised by herself, her mom ONCE A WEEK. She complains that he needs to "be a father" and do stuff other than play with him and put him to sleep. Ummm sis, you dont give him a chance "to be a father" critizing everything he does if it's not done your way? What do you expect him to do, or how do you expect him to develop a relationship or parenting schedule with 4 hours a week, and sometimes longer when you cancel visits last minute??
She uses his "past" against him, DUI, drug use, but she knew about his "PAST" when they started dating and long before even getting pregnant. On their second date, he was in drug court, and in order to go on a second date together, she had to sign off saying shes aware of his past. Only now it's an issue? Only now she's worried about his past? Why wasn't it worrisome before your son was born? This man has been sober since then, and shes allowed him to care for their son ALONE when they were together while she was working... It's obvious there isn't a problem, and she is trying to use his past as ammunition as to why she doesn't "trust him" alone.
Then, she claims the child would be traumatized if he was without her because he only sees his dad for 4 hours a week. UMMM, ok... because YOU created that situation. YOU only allow him to see the child that much. That's not by his choosing. She wants him to pay cash for child support because paying venmo makes it "too easy" - yeah, no, you just dont want a record of him paying child support.
Some fathers / mothers dont give a damn about their child. There are children who have no idea who their absent parent is. Here you have a man who is working and going to school, trying to pay you child support, begging to be in his sons life. He had NOTHING BUT nice things to say about her.... and the second she takes a stand, she puts him down and looks down on him for being 31 years old, having a full-time good paying job, going to school, because he's what... living with his sister or should be doing more with his life?!?
It just breaks my heart. I pray when they go back to court in 4 months the judge grants joint custody, 50/50. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
She had no experience raising a child when she first became a parent. She had no problem having him parent while they were together, and she was at work. She moves in with mom and Gramma. All of a sudden, he's a problem? and her mom and gramma have taken more care of that baby than mom. I have a problem with the judges decision. He took her statement that dad is basically crap as a parent.
I find it disgusting that a woman thinks she is best to make the decision on who is a decent parent or not.
I disagree with you! Being a woman has nothing to do with deciding who is a decent parent or not! Apparently you are her, just opposite sex! Being a good PARENT is what it takes to decide what’s best for the child! This little boy needs his dad! He didn’t choose either one of them for parents! She’s a selfish narcissist.
Dude had a badass attorney. The judge would make faces when he knew that girl was lying 😂😂😂
This is basically the mom's argument
"he doesn't know how to cook."
"You lock the kitchen everyday when you're not in it"
"He should try to break in"
"He did, and he got arrested"
"He shouldn't have got caught"
"But you locked him out and called the police when he tried. You created the problem"
"it's still his fault"
It’s bs he has to prove himself all bc she kept the baby from him! She didn’t have to prove herself to anyone b4 she was allowed to take her baby home.
Dad has an awesome lawyer👍 Brought plenty of reliable witnesses and knew when to ask the right questions with the right tone
Her own attorney tripped her up. 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I despise this judge. He’s always on the side of the woman and the men have to jump thru hoops to get any kind of fair shakes
Yeah he's the worst, trash everytime I've seen him.
This Mother is a control freak, immature and just a big hater! Her behavior is appalling and unacceptable. I feel so bad for Dad. Both the kid and Dad need a relationship with each other! 😢
This is absolutely sick. That baby is going to grow up and realize what she stole from him. The first three years of a child’s life determine the remainder of it and she has kept him from having any meaningful relationship with his father.
She hates her ex more than she loves her son. She should not have even 50% custody if this is how she treats her son. If she thought this guy was so terrible, she should have had birth control or an abortion. But she didn’t. This is of her making and she’s making her baby pay for it. That’s what is so sick about this. This is a guy who’s made some reasonably notable poor decisions but he has made them right. He didn’t get on the criminal merry-go-round like so many others. He is making something of himself and even figured out a trade to be able to support himself and his son.
Zane deserves a better mother and I hope she can grow up and be that mother. Otherwise the day will come that Zane will learn what has occurred and people don’t just get over that.
I agree
Maybe not because dad pushed for his rights while he was still young and didn't let her drag on in her BS for years.
I get not jumping into 50/50 custody, but I was hoping he would get more right away. This man is ready, willing, and wanting to be an active, present, loving, caring father to his child, and she won't let him. Women like her make me so angry. Vindictive and spiteful. I'm praying he ends up with the 50/50 custody he wants. I also pray he and his child grow a bond that is unbreakable. Father's are so important in a child's life. As a mother I couldn't imagine treating my child's father this way. Ive done all I can to help nurture the relationship my husband has with our kids. Watching him with our kids, and the joy they all have brings me so much happiness.
Preach
Yes! It’s important even for married couples to nurture the relationship between the parent and child(ren). Bc, I grew up in a married home where I was raised to keep things from my father. They weren’t even things I did. It was things happening around me. Believe me when I tell you it could have harmed my relationship with my father, had I not grew up looking up to my Dad (as a little girl) and wanted to make him proud, so I’ve been resented my mother to this day for my honesty. I loved both parents, but always felt bad that bc my Dad worked 2 jobs, and bc he was a God fearing man (never abusive ever, he was such a sweet man) and expected us to behave and be well mannered, so things were hidden from him! So sad for a family and children.
It's bc of the points he had to follow which is fucked up. Keep the kid away from 1 parent and you get so many favor points that helps you when it 100% shouldnt be looked at as a good thing. This is based on the 1 hour 55 minutes - 2 hour mark
The dad got screwed…..
I just hope he never gives up or gives in and lives to fight another day for Zane. People need to be really careful who they have children with.
He got screwed without lube. The even more fucked up part 1 if he needs a drug test the mother should be forced to get 1 and 2 getting more favor points based on the fact you kept the kid away from the dad 100% needs changed. If you kept the kid away from the other parent you it should 100% be marked as a zero on both sides if not hurt you for it.
As always
"it made me upset he could help then but not while we were together" shows she is jealous and niw spiteful
Im working on childsupport payments also. My ex, childs mother, is the one that is supposed to pay and never has. She is very behind on payments and the dfacs say they can not locate her yet ive given home address and work address and still nothing. Now that shes locked up i can not even reach the dfacs. If rolls are reveresed, id be in jail.
Yep. Women for some reason, EVEN though they’re known for making things 10x more difficult 95% of the time, seem to never get the same energy from judges as men do. And that’s in every courtroom, even criminal. I bet judges start locking these women up for playing games and BS for contempt for 10 days, watch how quick the games stop. But noooooooo. That rarely happens. I watched a case that was over a year or so, multiple court dates, of a woman doing nothing but playing games. Refusing to drop off the child at scheduled drop dates and times, the judge told her. Drop the kid off now to him. Right now. She refused and he said. Well then then yourself into jail by 6pm. She didn’t show up. They went n got her ass the next morning. Guess how quick the games stopped, how sorry she was, how it would NEVER happen again. and she got in line with what the court was ordered to do.
@@hpprochargedtbssI agree completely. Judges who allow the circus to go on- is responsible for all the effects. They know - they see the outcomes and they’re not accountable. Just saw one and the judge- was high praising the pregnant woman, who lost two of her other kids, who had a fellow living with her on section 8, whose grandma had one of the children, she didn’t pay child support, she was a horrible mother, and the judge kept praising her as if she was wonderful. It’s his fault. All of the drama
So she is a spiteful liar and cheater, but wants to claim the dad is the liar. Okay. Go it. Dude is fighting to be in his child’s life, and she is fighting tooth and nail to keep him out. She doesn’t need custody of the child. She needs therapy before they should even consider granting her visitation
So sad that she lies through her teeth.. her son has a lying mother.. a terrible mother.
Has the mother been subjected to a hair follicle drug test? Why aren't mothers held to the same standard? Visitation can be limited if he happened to smoke marijuana in the last year - not fair. Family court is so biased towards the mother.
This family court. Not all family courts.
@@frigid4realall family courts are the same! They’re all ran under the same biased court system.
I hope he takes his class including a cpr class, and keeps meticulous records of his dealings with her. She's diabolical
If I was him I would film all visitations so she can't drum up false allegations.
@@GlendaJusticeabsolutely- dash cams, in house cameras, body cams - keep the film running and a diary to jot down times and dates of events
@@GlendaJustice she could tell him stop filming or get out. Unless it's a single party consent state he may have an issue.
@@jerometruitt2731 if he's in her home, yes, she can make him leave so long as his presence there isn't court ordered, as well as refuse him placing cameras in her house.
Other than that, he can wear a bodycam, carry a tape recorder etc. and there's really nothing she can do about it since Tennessee is a one party state.
So when he got some money and is trying to help out she calls it throwing it in her face smh. Did she say he left a screwdriver on a high counter?
I’ve been here. Hell Hath No Fury…
1:17:19 I still have an hour left, but my heart is breaking for this father. I pray this judge sees the truth & does the right thing. This female is a complete & total piece of work. I'm actually shocked that she's so manipulative, controlling, deceitful, quick to anger, easily agitated & clearly a narcissist at such a young age. Her attitude is so nasty, like a mega Karen. Omg, poor Zane. I can't imagine this sweet little baby having to be in a house full of THEM....3 GENERATIONS at that. I would put $ on it, that within a few years, the dad will have what he wants. This....female is the type they make Lifetime movies about. Side note: LOVE dad's sweetly aggressive attorney, lol.
Are you???? She’s a single mom who was raised by a single mom who was raised by a single mom. She’s the 3rd generation of a “scorned woman” who was just treated absolutely horrible.(pffffffft) *eye roll* 🙄😒. She’s a miserable c u next tuesday just like her mother. And grandma. It doesn’t shock me AT ALL she’s acting the way she’s acting. Period. Especially with this newer generation and thought processes that “men ain’t nothing, and we don’t need men at all. They’re completely worthless” attitude that modern women have. It’s disgusting. She hates/ jealous of her baby daddy more than she loves her son. It’s sad. And infuriating.
I’d love to see a follow up on this!
His lawyer is amazing and was able to demonstrate that she’s just withholding the child out of spite and that her mom and grandma are encouraging it. Then saying he doesn’t know how to parent. How’s he supposed to learn if you only see the child once a week for four hours? The judge made the correct ruling. He better stay on her ass about his kid.
dad is a first time dad. trust me you learn as you go but her family will never accept that. they keep throwing up that he puts him in danger and he should know better...yall do because you've raised kids, mom knows because yall are there teaching her but I guarantee she is the PERFECT parent in yalls eyes. truth is he will NEVER be enough. She will always find something. Mom is all about control because she's pissed at dad. I really hope that the courts learn from cases like this and give dad's more and get away from always siding with moms
That don’t care about what the dads done in the past, they just don’t want to share the child, so they can play all pitiful “we just have to do everything by ourselves!” Hell these people make me want to do drugs!
I bet these women nag and judge everyone in their life.
@ You know they do, they are the kind that think the world is out to get them.
But he’s not a lone either. He’s with his mom and sister? Or aunt. Whatever it was. They’ve raised children. It’s the same thing. This is just a miserable woman with two much more miserable older women in her ear. I feel a parent who purposely keeps their child away from the parent just to cause drama and purposely hurt not only the other parent but the child/children should lose custody IMMEDIATELY and also put into jail for contempt. Let’s see how things change when they sit in jail for a good 10 days. Bet the games and BS stop REALLLLLL quick.
She even got her to admit to lying about cheating!!!! Dude who is this lawyer, I need her! Dude! Bravo! Holy cow.
And has the audacity to say she can’t trust him
She's a control freak and i hope she watches this and see how evil she is and how bad and selfish she is. She needs to be grateful he is stepping up to the plate. Shes a self centered immature brat. The judge is doing his job. He has to be fair to both parents. Of course her family is going to side with the mother and trash him.
I am disgusted at the attitude of this mom. The dad wants to be there but because he is trying to get you the help you need in the easiest way it’s a problem?
Gotta make it harder for him to pay her, why?
@@miketyson1717because she wants to play games and cause BS. Lock her ass up in jail for 10 days for contempt. Watch how quick the games and BS stop.
I'm disgusted by the judge, lawyers and the ex. They are all f'n scumbags.
Kaylin is bitter and immature. It is time to get over the fact that Chase is over her and just wants to be with his son. Electronics child support payments only. So her and her mother can't come back to court saying he isn't paying.
When visitation starts she will photograph Zane before he goes and when he comes back. She is a horrible person. Her parents are not so good either. That is Zane’s daddy. He loves him. Hopefully she will meet someone and move on.
Thanks for sharing. I love Judge Wolfe, he’s so wise and always concerned for the children….these videos are so educational I wish I had this tool back , 20 yrs ago when I went thru a custody battle…it was brutal…. This one here, this mom made her own rules, good thing Dad took her to court
Agreed
So his familys good enough when gifts are being given but not the rest of the year thats insane. The mother clearly doesnt want to share the child out of spite.
EXACTLY what I thought.
Her Lawyer: Did she ever deny your 4 hour visits?
Father: No but she denied me more time.
Her Lawyer: But she never denied you the 4 hours!?
There’s no court order in place…so she’s got no right to limit his time to 4 hours. What a horrible human…but I’m sure it’s a trickle down effect from the mom/grandma.
This woman is spiteful and bitter. She needs therapy ASAP.
Exactly!
It’s clearly generational. She was taught this behavior by her mother who was taught by her mother.
She knew what she was doin by not having him pay child support. She wanted to control the situation.
I'm going through the same thing, such a shame
I can’t recall who called grandma to the stand. If it was the father’s attorney, it was a brilliant move. If it was the mother’s attorney, it was a big mistake. She did more harm than good to the mother’s case.
Take custody from her.
I absolutely love this judge! He explains everything so clearly and listens intently. He also is very fair and understanding of both sides. He’s an example of how judges should be when presiding over such delicate cases
As for the mother she wasn't sure who the dad was and that says a lot. Her family needs to step aside and let the dad be a father. If she's working up to 12 hours a day, she has no clue what is going on with baby. I know the dad is going to be a great parent, I wish all fathers were like him. I'm going to be praying for him and his son. As for the mom stop working long hours and spend more time with your baby and don't forget baby has a real father that cares about his son.
IMO, mom is not being protective at all. She's being a bitter snot who clearly just wants to make Dad's life difficult. She should be jailed.
She's just mad they aren't together anymore. She needs to allow him to be with his child.
Mom is just being hateful however she will regret it because the child is the one who will pay the cost and it will cost her in the end. Im glad dad has a lawyer worth every penny. This mother ( I use that term loosely) is RIDICULOUS refusing venmo because she doesnt want it to be easy for him LMAO. The dad's lawyer is my hero, she is holding deet to the fire, she is not letting up.
If he has to pay child back support,
Will she only be visiting the kid for 4hrs per week for a year to balance out visiting rights?😮
This woman is disgusting. She’s lying about this man because she is a control freak and she’s mad that they’re not still together.
That's exactly what I got from all of this!
She is controlling by not allowing him to spend time with his son.
I have never understood a woman who operates like this. How can you ever hate a man more than you care about the overall well being of your child? A son needs his father..this is absolutely ridiculous and sad.
I think that the mother thinks that if she isn't taking support, then she is justified in the dad not getting to see the child.
Paternity should be automatically established once a DNA test has proven a biological parent... The fact it is not is simply just ridiculous.
If that’s not what happens then what is the process? That does seem silly
Paternity does prove parentage, do you know what "Paternity" means?
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Venmo is a problem because it makes things a little easier on him. That sounds so spiteful. If he doesnt get a chance with that kid, she will ruin the kid.
I notice other women are getting tired of women like this.
Really tired and disgusted!!!
I would say any normal adult woman has always known better. Ones who don't or haven't are not mature and would not put their child's needs first.
Horrified would be the word. These women are not women
Have been for decades
I use to be the distraction for my brothers ex. Was awful but happily did it or she would hover and not let my brother alone with his son. He would try to give him a popsicle she says no and 10 mins later she hands him tge popsicle so it's from her. Eventually she thought she was my best friend and would tell me all the stupid situations she put my nephew in. But my job was ask her to hang out so my brother could see his don even tho they use to live together. nid take her to movies or lunch. She had moved out of state and 2 diff states, my brother had $$ orders in 1 state but full custody in other and went bankrupt. My dad and i convinced her to move closer and my brother filed for custody so she couldn't move again. My nephew was taken away when her bf hit him and my brother had him ever since. She left state and abandoned him but had a child support order in a diff state neither lived in and yrs she cashed the checks and he could never get the money back. My nephew is a grown man now and I'm so proud of him he is kind and strong and loves his family and works hard and is a kind friend and a loving nephew. ❤️ my brother kept him safe and never regretted the cost.
If I ever get into a custody "battle" I hope my lawyer is half as good as this gentleman's. The worst part about this hearing is actually not even about the child. The fact that she blocked him on venmo and created additional barriers for him to do what he needs to do is deceptively bad for him. The last thing you want to do to someone experiencing substance abuse is create additional barriers in front of them. The more barriers there is to anything, but especially in front of recovering addicts, the less likely they are to stay clean. Imagine if you went to a facility to fight your substance abuse and instead of helping you they just made your life even harder.
Sounds like father should get custody, let the mother pay him child support.
Father should go after spousal support
Mom needs to take a parenting class as well. She needs to stop weaponizing that baby. This judge is putting too much trust in her. Just because he's an irresponsible grandfather doesn't mean this man will be an irresponsible father.
Thank you for defining terms as you go! 😊
It would be great, when the time comes to hear the final custody judgement.
Please let this dad show that he is going to be a consistent person in his child's life and let this bitter mom get over herself and her hatred for this man and comply for the best of her child. This child deserves to have both of his parents in his life.
She slept with a man who isn't father material? What does that make her?. Let him be a dad. Not every dad is perfect. At least he's trying. So many fathers never even want to see their kids.
when the doctor told her she couldn't have a child he meant shouldn't, for the good of the child
The mom & her family have zero credibility in my opinion. What makes the judge think the mom & her family were honest about everything? It’s not like she’s some angel.
I would NEVER do supervised visits with my child.
Statistically, children grow up to be more grounded if they're raised by a single dad.
I think she needs to be supervised as a parent
I am glad his family supports him.. This is heartbreaking. My dad was never a consistent support in my life, but I always wanted him to be. Children need their father's
1:18:00 here is the timestamp if you here for the blocked Venmo payments
She said "i would give money even when it wasnt wanted" - so she is saying he should force her. I wonder what she would say if he did that?
She wants cash so she can say she didn't get it. Venmo is totally traceable.
She's going to have him in court for the next 17 years.
This girl needs to get her mom and grandma out of her business. She called him when her Dad had a heart attack and she called him. I think she’s blindly allowing two man haters to lead her!
She makes me sick I always tried to make it easier on my ex cause in the end it makes it so much better on my son I don't get hateful pos like this
Let me get this straight, this lady is blocking child support payments bc it DOESN'T INCONVENIENCE THE FATHER?!!!
You see so many parents who don't want anything to do with their kids. Here we have a parent who wants so badly to be involved and is denied. It's so sad.
Why does the father have to do the parenting course and not the mother? And why the drug test for the father snd not the mother as well? You honestly believe if he did drugs she abstained?
With so many guys who dont pay child support shes gonna complain about the money going directly into her bank account instead of getting cash?!
Give the child to the father
He's gotta pay retro child support, maybe she should owe him retro visitation, give him a year and a half where she only has 4 hrs supervised visit.
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Who else came here from the clip and just realized this was 2 hours long??