I'm asperger myself. And I noticed that, When Aspeger tell a story, They still LIVED in their story. Their visual cortex projected the video of the memory, flashback that keeps coming back every time we mentioned something, which makes them FEELS like they just experience it yesterday. Combined with the PTSD from Afghanistan, I can feel that he tried so hard not to deep dive into that moment. It is something that I hope many people would understand despite they usually don't.
His relationship with his air force friend reminds me of the same relationship I had with my dad. He passed away from undiagnosed cancer in 2019. I shared a lot of the same stuff with my dad and he was one of the few people who understood me and didn't judge me. I also am on the autism spectrum and have had ADHD since I was 5 years old. I'm turning 25 this year and I'm finishing a degree in industrial engineering this.semester. I'd probably would be diagnosed with Asperger's now instead of autism.
I was told I have Asperger’s a few months ago. It’s got a lot of pros and cons. It means I either fit in to a group or don’t fit in with no middle ground. I’ve got a good bs detector and a good long term memory, but letting go is difficult at the best of times.
I was diagnosed being on spectrum as a kid. I'm either high functioning autistic or have Aspergers myself. Dating is still the hardest thing for me to do. Statistically I'm doing well in other areas of my life. I have a full time job, went to college. I've heard 60% of people on the spectrum are unemployed. I'm really into weightlifting and making electronic music. The best luck I had with girls was when I was below 10% body fat and really lean. Girls would tell me I was cute or hot and do most of the work. As I've gotten older sadly that doesn't happen anymore. Girls over 23 definitely look for more than just looks. I envy a few of my coworkers who are just funny and smooth. That's not who I am and I'm okay with that. I'll find my own way to attract women. More than one way to skin a cat.
The more people talk openly about it, the better known, and more normal it is. Really, I think there are so many people on the spectrum, that you're not really odd. ❤️
Look into theRedPill. I’m also diagnosed with Asperger’s and let the label hold me back for years. Just think of it as a label, it’s not you. You can always improve your social skills. It will be hard, but it can be done. You just need to learn every aspect of socialising until it becomes 2nd nature
As a Aspie who has lost a best friend to suicide, I understood his pain on such an emotional level, that I know exactly how he feels. It’s not easy always carrying that weight on your back and in the mind.
Can you please put the full episodes on . I love this show but I live in the states and can’t get it here. Trust me I would pay for a monthly app if it was available
@@shannonricelewis6016 Actually 1 in 100 people in the UK have it, according to the NHS. People with Asperger’s are all different and all have different coping strategies and ways of masking it so it will present itself differently in different people.
I hope I find love someday I to have Asperger’s syndrome it’s really hard to find a woman that will accept me for who I am and actually give me a chance I’ve been humiliated and belittled and torn apart by many women in life and I really don’t deserve that I’ve been single for 8 in a half years still trying to find the right woman who will give me an opportunity to get to know her and give me a chance I’m really not a bad man I was raised very well and I know how to treat women right but with feminism movement going on it’s making it even harder for men like myself with Asperger syndrome to find love because feminism is destroying women in life and viewing all men as evil and trying to compete with men when all I want is to have a healthy relationship and marriage with my future spouse one day
@@SlightlySoberYT don’t commit suicide it’s not worth it it will not solve anything if you commit suicide you will not go to heaven that’s a sin that cannot be forgiven please don’t give up just because you can’t get a girlfriend that does not mean it’s the end of the world pursue a career in a hobby that you are good at focus on doing the things that make you happy in life me personally today I gave up on love and asked god to remove it from my life and deliver me from thinking or wanting love its probably not in gods will for me to get married and have kids or have a girlfriend and I’m willing to accept that but please don’t end your life that’s something that you cannot take back or undue that is permanent and you won’t go to heaven if you do it
@@SlightlySoberYT Please, don't do it! It doesn't mean you'll find comfort and neither will your family, much on the contrary. It never rains forever!
Because they were talking about his son’s mother and how that relationship ended. It’s only a red flag if your date keep harping on about their ex. It’s a sign of emotional maturity if a person can acknowledge that a relationship ended and the reason. She didn’t say anything weird, she followed the flow of conversation well.
I was dating sb with Asperger, I took all the abuse cause I thought that was a normal asperger thing, the ass one day sent me a dumping message and disappeared
About 3:13 in the video. He briefly mentioned it, just prettymuch one or 2 sentences. Would have been nice if there'd had been a proper convo about it in the fact alot of neurotypicsl people don't understand unless they have an autistic loved one. even then sometimes it the person is presenting a stereotypical way, for example a non speaking 4 year old boy who's obsessed with trains, they'll often assume someone who isn't like that can't be autistic
Good to see divorcees dating again. Lots of people in my country avoid divorcees. Especially divorcees with children. They just assumed theres smtg wrong with them. It'd be easier for widows to get néw spouses. Unless they killed them 😂. But it's really good to see divorcees with kids and asperger dating again.
Guy was in the army invading countries and fighting in Afghanistan....how is that a good experience? I hear his pain and suffering but the way British people justify their violent imperialism is really something else....
@@annaingolfs Well at least in heterosexual couples. Men expect women to have strong people skills and not to be too weird. The opposite is not so true.
I think there would possibly be a lot of people in the RAF unaware of their diagnoses/undiagnosed ( I was diagnosed at 4 ish, didn't find out til my 11th birthday and also accidentally. If I didn't I'm not sure when my parents would have told me, or even if) but yeah I don't think they do take autistics. Which is discrimination in itself
You should never be going on dates with people who can't or are uncomfortable talking about it period. If they have issues with it or don't understand it then they probably are living in the stone age in more than area of their life.
@@johnwayne5984 it may have subtly as i say its a spectrum, some people have it and u would never guess but it can still affect them others are on another end of the spectrum and need support... its ignorant to say it doesn't affect him even though it may be less than others that have it
@@finleytweedale949 Well I have it. I live in the UK speak Russian know everuthing about the History have lots of exotic ant nests species from all around the world. Have to write everyday tasks down on paper. Also have girls wanting to call an ambulance when my panic attacks kick in but I never feel the need to tell anyone. Especially on a first date. I just think hes milking it.
I'm asperger myself. And I noticed that, When Aspeger tell a story,
They still LIVED in their story.
Their visual cortex projected the video of the memory, flashback that keeps coming back every time we mentioned something, which makes them FEELS like they just experience it yesterday. Combined with the PTSD from Afghanistan, I can feel that he tried so hard not to deep dive into that moment. It is something that I hope many people would understand despite they usually don't.
This man oozes insightfulness and charisma - as a heterosexual guy, I have no issue with saying that this dude is one big beautiful bastard.
Utterly magnetic man; looks, personality, voice, sensitivity, stature, everything!!!
He seems like a really genuine guy
His relationship with his air force friend reminds me of the same relationship I had with my dad. He passed away from undiagnosed cancer in 2019. I shared a lot of the same stuff with my dad and he was one of the few people who understood me and didn't judge me. I also am on the autism spectrum and have had ADHD since I was 5 years old. I'm turning 25 this year and I'm finishing a degree in industrial engineering this.semester. I'd probably would be diagnosed with Asperger's now instead of autism.
I was told I have Asperger’s a few months ago. It’s got a lot of pros and cons. It means I either fit in to a group or don’t fit in with no middle ground. I’ve got a good bs detector and a good long term memory, but letting go is difficult at the best of times.
I can help you with all aspergers problems ! Just let me know if you want help
i doubt it unless you have been through it
I hope she said yes to wanting to see him again. He seems like a pretty nice guy.
I was diagnosed being on spectrum as a kid. I'm either high functioning autistic or have Aspergers myself. Dating is still the hardest thing for me to do. Statistically I'm doing well in other areas of my life. I have a full time job, went to college. I've heard 60% of people on the spectrum are unemployed. I'm really into weightlifting and making electronic music. The best luck I had with girls was when I was below 10% body fat and really lean. Girls would tell me I was cute or hot and do most of the work. As I've gotten older sadly that doesn't happen anymore. Girls over 23 definitely look for more than just looks. I envy a few of my coworkers who are just funny and smooth. That's not who I am and I'm okay with that. I'll find my own way to attract women. More than one way to skin a cat.
same here man
The more people talk openly about it, the better known, and more normal it is. Really, I think there are so many people on the spectrum, that you're not really odd. ❤️
I'm turning 30 this year, and just got diagnosed with asperger's.
I feel like an alien around most humans. The fella in the video is a great chao
Look into theRedPill.
I’m also diagnosed with Asperger’s and let the label hold me back for years.
Just think of it as a label, it’s not you. You can always improve your social skills. It will be hard, but it can be done.
You just need to learn every aspect of socialising until it becomes 2nd nature
@@Yeppro22 can people just write a book about all the social cues and social rules? That's easier for us to memorize
I have Asperger’s. I wish I could be more sociable and not be so anxious all the time
Try semen retention, good diet and gym
I’d see him any day. They both make a gorgeous looking couple.
That has to be one of the best beards I have seen.
As a Aspie who has lost a best friend to suicide, I understood his pain on such an emotional level, that I know exactly how he feels. It’s not easy always carrying that weight on your back and in the mind.
I wanna see more of this couple and this dude. He seems like a catch. I wanna know if it worked out?
Can you please put the full episodes on . I love this show but I live in the states and can’t get it here. Trust me I would pay for a monthly app if it was available
The piano is doing my head in
God bless his soul 🙏 ❤ awesome content
Jack looks like a Disney prince, such a gorgeous man.
Really genuine fella 👌
She didn't deserve him...!!
Mate. Your a legend!!!
Any woman would love you!
That last line is the worst. Never tell a guy that. It's soul crushing
@@cwill6491 indeed
@@capcheesetoastie36 oh, at first I thought this was a girl's account or something un-ironically saying that lol
It looks like you already know
I would say they don't feel like the right fit it might work but she does feel a bit distant.
He’s so lovely, it hurts
Beautiful Human, very touching .. and a brutal video stopp without ending. pity
Is this the right clip?!
This guys great as a person with asbergers i relate to him. He's like me
People these days must lie about it. There's no way this dude has aspergers. People lie to get views I guess.
How do you know
@@shannonricelewis6016 Actually 1 in 100 people in the UK have it, according to the NHS.
People with Asperger’s are all different and all have different coping strategies and ways of masking it so it will present itself differently in different people.
@@shannonricelewis6016 How is there no way? You probably don't even know what it is. he's probably very good at masking aswell
@@jjjj-x9g yeah I have it and nobody believes me when I tell them
So charming.
Both amazing people! :)
Its so hard to speak about it
I hope I find love someday I to have Asperger’s syndrome it’s really hard to find a woman that will accept me for who I am and actually give me a chance I’ve been humiliated and belittled and torn apart by many women in life and I really don’t deserve that I’ve been single for 8 in a half years still trying to find the right woman who will give me an opportunity to get to know her and give me a chance I’m really not a bad man I was raised very well and I know how to treat women right but with feminism movement going on it’s making it even harder for men like myself with Asperger syndrome to find love because feminism is destroying women in life and viewing all men as evil and trying to compete with men when all I want is to have a healthy relationship and marriage with my future spouse one day
Let me help you! I can teach you how to navigate all this , loneliness sucks and u WILL be able to find someone if you let me help! I’m aspie
Just give up and end it all. You will never get a date in this day and age if you have Aspergers or autism. I'm ending it on the 17th of may
I'm not being fatalistic, just saying the sad truth. unless you are very attractive, girls will hate you no matter what
@@SlightlySoberYT don’t commit suicide it’s not worth it it will not solve anything if you commit suicide you will not go to heaven that’s a sin that cannot be forgiven please don’t give up just because you can’t get a girlfriend that does not mean it’s the end of the world pursue a career in a hobby that you are good at focus on doing the things that make you happy in life me personally today I gave up on love and asked god to remove it from my life and deliver me from thinking or wanting love its probably not in gods will for me to get married and have kids or have a girlfriend and I’m willing to accept that but please don’t end your life that’s something that you cannot take back or undue that is permanent and you won’t go to heaven if you do it
@@SlightlySoberYT Please, don't do it! It doesn't mean you'll find comfort and neither will your family, much on the contrary. It never rains forever!
why is she talking about her exes on the first date.
Because they were talking about his son’s mother and how that relationship ended. It’s only a red flag if your date keep harping on about their ex. It’s a sign of emotional maturity if a person can acknowledge that a relationship ended and the reason. She didn’t say anything weird, she followed the flow of conversation well.
Not the best topic but it was touched on hear for a reason.
I was dating sb with Asperger, I took all the abuse cause I thought that was a normal asperger thing, the ass one day sent me a dumping message and disappeared
It’s definitely not normal Aspie behavior. Sorry that you had to go through all that.
Sometimes people are overwhelmed i guess that he had not the (outside) support needed.
Keep up Social contacts and friendships is difficult.
Is this the asperger's gathering? I came here to see if I can find a good dating mask to wear. Anyone else?
Probably because men always have to court women
I never heard this guy mention that he had Asperger’s.
About 3:13 in the video. He briefly mentioned it, just prettymuch one or 2 sentences. Would have been nice if there'd had been a proper convo about it in the fact alot of neurotypicsl people don't understand unless they have an autistic loved one. even then sometimes it the person is presenting a stereotypical way, for example a non speaking 4 year old boy who's obsessed with trains, they'll often assume someone who isn't like that can't be autistic
@@oliviadaly4795 thanks for letting me know pal. I heard him mention the word “Asperger’s” now.
I'm 35 and this guy looks 10 years older than me
If you’re just one TENTH as attractive you can count yourself fortunate
@@gerardmackay8909 you think he's attractive? Okay.. to each their own. 😬
@@sages101 yes that’s true one man’s meat another man’s poison 👍
and probably ten times hotter too lol
Good to see divorcees dating again. Lots of people in my country avoid divorcees. Especially divorcees with children. They just assumed theres smtg wrong with them. It'd be easier for widows to get néw spouses. Unless they killed them 😂. But it's really good to see divorcees with kids and asperger dating again.
These ppl talk very strange, where is this again?
the uk
Not this rude insensitive comment about us…
Guy was in the army invading countries and fighting in Afghanistan....how is that a good experience? I hear his pain and suffering but the way British people justify their violent imperialism is really something else....
This. As someone with autism I agree.
I swear this is super nornal having thep baby would be hinderance to his dating propsects moee then anything.
My ex had autism and he couldn't show me love
People with Austism have trouble expressing emotions but that's doesn't mean they don't have them.
It's likely much harder to find love for an asperger woman than for an asperger man, especially if he has a good job.
Why?
@@annaingolfs Well at least in heterosexual couples. Men expect women to have strong people skills and not to be too weird. The opposite is not so true.
@@missj.4760 actually it's the other way around no women wants a socially inept men
I have Aspergers and I don’t find it hard finding boyfriends
@@Juliaplans You are a women it's a lot easier
The RAF don't take people with asbugers I should know I try to join RAF regiment I'm asbugers my.
I think there would possibly be a lot of people in the RAF unaware of their diagnoses/undiagnosed ( I was diagnosed at 4 ish, didn't find out til my 11th birthday and also accidentally. If I didn't I'm not sure when my parents would have told me, or even if) but yeah I don't think they do take autistics. Which is discrimination in itself
That's strange... why would high functioning Autism prevent you from being able to pilot a plain anymore than it does driving a car?😮😮😕
He might be diagnosed later ad he said he let the militard after hid mate died. Probably got his psycheval after that
wtf is this sob story
makes good TV, or something?
Are you new to the show
Shhhhh
My room mate says don't get involved with someone who has a kid
You should never teach about Asperger's to other people.
why
true
Why not? Break down the stigma. We deserve to have a life etc just as everyone else
You should never be going on dates with people who can't or are uncomfortable talking about it period. If they have issues with it or don't understand it then they probably are living in the stone age in more than area of their life.
Advantage
This video hahaha
What's it's like dating with Aspergers, if your already hot, perfect everything and very well adapted.
How can this help anybody lol
This guy aint asbergers. Just an attention seeker.
You can’t even spell Aspergers
It's a spectrum, just because he isn't obviously really disabled doesn't mean he doesn't have a diagnosis
@@finleytweedale949 Well clearly it hasnt affected his interaction skills.
@@johnwayne5984 it may have subtly as i say its a spectrum, some people have it and u would never guess but it can still affect them others are on another end of the spectrum and need support... its ignorant to say it doesn't affect him even though it may be less than others that have it
@@finleytweedale949 Well I have it. I live in the UK speak Russian know everuthing about the History have lots of exotic ant nests species from all around the world. Have to write everyday tasks down on paper. Also have girls wanting to call an ambulance when my panic attacks kick in but I never feel the need to tell anyone. Especially on a first date. I just think hes milking it.
Great video,keep it up!🕑