How Do You Cope With Realizing Someone Isn't Who You Thought They Were?

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  • Опубліковано 28 жов 2024

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  • @TheDimahPodcast
    @TheDimahPodcast  3 місяці тому +1

    Such a painful realization when it happens, where do you even go from there? 😣💙

  • @Jibril_Abdulkadir
    @Jibril_Abdulkadir 3 місяці тому +1

    Always have Great episode guys 🤩🤗
    We take people at face value because we can’t be thinking the worse possible outcome, we don’t know who anyone truly is until they show who they are but once they do believe them 💯

  • @mcr670
    @mcr670 3 місяці тому +1

    I've been trying to get over someone who promised me marriage, was looking for engagement rings, he wanted kids with me, he would say I was the love of his life every day... and I can go on. It all looked very real to me. Of course, there were signs I didn't want to confront. We were together for 10 months until I asked him.. why wasn't he introducing me to his family? He came to see me and said he was married and cried for like 3 hours, saying he didn't want me to leave him.
    Not only was he married, but when I asked him how many kids he had, he said the wife was 6 months pregnant with their first!! They had been married for 6 years... extremely unfortunate for me, I had no strength or enough self-worth to walk away then and sticked around for another 1.5 years because i loved him and he had depression and suicidal ideation. He left me in December 2022.
    I made so many mistakes, and I haven't been able to stop grieving how shocking it all was... thanks for this!

    • @TheDimahPodcast
      @TheDimahPodcast  3 місяці тому +1

      hi love - thank you for sharing. wow, i am so incredibly sorry to hear that.. it’s not your fault just know that. i’ve been there, and it does pass.. one day at a time, grace yourself. what you went through is not easy, but you’ll grow so much from it and be amazed at your capabilities.. sending you hugs, you’re going to be okay! what’s meant for you will find you. 🤍

    • @mcr670
      @mcr670 3 місяці тому

      ​@@TheDimahPodcastthank you! ❤ keep up your work 😊