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It's hell on earth.
I am not a daughter, l am a house mate. Shecgoes out of her way to look inefficient. She takes something l need and hoing it, and when l call the owner to replace something l need, she has already hidden it and l get cussed out. I had the nerve to close a door she wanted open until she decided to close it, with permission, she had to call the owner and complain!!! So sick.
Yes it is !
Very true! I lived it my whole life!
Same.
It’s so true, as soon as I hit puberty the hate really got worse.
🙋🏿♀️or sister-in-law. She hated that everyone we came in contact with us, instantly was drawn to me and would say how much they liked me. This would also happen with her family members and friends or mine. She did not like that my brother doted on me, so she turned him against me. Escaped and now NC!
I am sorry that you went through that ! For some of us, it has been a "mixed bag" so to speak. When money is involved, or the fact that my (SIL) may or may not know about the theft (due to my brother) then the claws come out, even though she is NOT the victim !
I understand your situation, and know your pain !! I am glad you relocated and began a new life ! Good for you !
How is NC ?
Big time. And the mamas boy narcissist of that narcissist mom is so controlled by her as is everyone in the family. Except the daughterinlaw like me who sat back watching how unhealthy and crazy this family was. He living with me for years at my home, a child with me, and shed call telling him to come home supper was ready. She disowned him for a month because he didnt ask for her permission first to get engaged to me. Then when I had all the wedding planned and paid for myself, simple justice of the peace she disowned him saying I had to have a big church wedding at the religion she joined to marry his dad despite her never going to that church after her wedding in 1966. And I had my own religion and it was my second wedding so I wanted religion kept out of it. I didnt want gufts since I did that with my first wedding and it wasnt proper plus I owned a home and everything even if hed lived with mommy his whole life. In the end he sucked me dry,abused me in my home, crashed my cars after stealing them as he wasnt allowed to drive, then stalked me for years came back and stole everything I owned for over 40+ years on security cameras just to get revenge. Mom and daddy in on it, stuff in their garage and house,i saw it all plus they used his brothers truck and I caught his bro and nephew there in my home truck full. Family crazy narcissists.
You met my mother! My sis-in-law agrees.
Wow 10000000% true
Absolutely. I thought my mom would be proud of me when I became a nurse but nope. It finally dawned on me why she wasn’t proud. She was too busy being jealous
Sooooo true !
Switch this around to daughters’ being envious of their mothers eg.. ‘it’s my time to shine, you have had your time’… just as destructive in a relationship, sadly 😢
Agree and topic strangely avoided as it causes so much outrage 😢
Yes. My oldest daughter
100% truth. They're envious of their sons as well, my mom is always trying to compete with me, it's bizarre.
Yes, yes,.yes, yes!!!!!
🎉🎉🎉🎉 facts
I can’t even imagine having a narcissistic mother. My dad was hell on earth. My heart goes out to those who have had to endure a narcissist mom. Someone who should had been 😢a best friend later in life
Bingo. My friends toldme this,...tookme awhile to accept the hurtful truth !!!
Im sorry for you ladies who went through stupid demonic shit
My ex is so jealous of my daughters I’m honestly scared for them
My covert Narc mom and I got into it a few months ago. It was late and we were in the kitchen. She picked a fight about. I kid you not, some yogurt I had in the fridge. She insisted it was bad and I was wasting food by not eating it. I knew it wasn’t bad because I only bought it a week and a half prior. I made the mistake of saying that she was being ridiculous as I opened the yogurt to show her it was fine. That really set her off and we proceeded to have a back-and-forth that ended with me in tears. She accused me of thinking I was better than her. 🎉It went on in this ugly vein until I cried uncle. And she just stood there, cold as ice, staring at me with eyes full of animosity and it dawned on me what she was. I felt cold and sick and I was actually afraid of her. At that moment I thought I was standing in the kitchen with a demon. I had convinced myself that evil spirits didn’t possess people anymore but I don’t think that’s true, because I met a little satan with my mother’s face. That was one of the worst nights of my life. She has better moments but I still pray 😢a hedge of protection around myself, and wonder whether she ever feels remorse for the awful thing she said. No is my guess.
True. I lived it and it’s painfully the case!
Yeah, I know. It's pathetic. I want nothing to do with her anymore.
Truth! I totally get this! They get crafty and say things behind your back!
Yes
My ex mother in law was so covert about it too!
YUP
She is my biological mother! I don't know where to start from.. what to say first.. She is trying to upset me all the time in order to convince others that I am violent and that she needs protection! She wants to see me angry. She hates my inner peace. She is crucifying me since I was a child. No one believes me.. I feel sorry for her, because she never felt a woman or a mother. She is so confused when I am around, she's angry and wild.. She wants me to live a lonely life, she took everyone from me. I don't know how she convinces people about things, but she does. One word; 'Dangerous'.
My ex said the same thing and I wish I had believed that fact. She is envious of me and used to treat my sister in law that way until she started ignoring her. She used to be stunning 😍 She is in her mid 70's now. She is older now and still gets angry 😠
She will ruin any type of event or plan that the victim is involved in ! The Dark Tetrad is obsessed with the target, has control issues, and may commit horrible abuses/offenses against the target, then lie about it !
Thank you Jill !
Hey Junior high started ended high school a diary denied. Talk of hur crushed. No remorse
Yeah, it's pathos 😢
My mother was a freaking nightmare my whole life. Her death was her last hurray. Cut me & my son out of her will.
She beat me as a kid, neglected- gossiped - accused me of all kinds of psycho things.
My first visit to OBGYN & I was a VIRGIN- on a whim, she dropped me off at a FREE CLINIC FOR POOR. Took off, went shopping 🛍️. I had No idea what to expect! The Dr. was a mean- nasty non English speaking Philipino getting her EXPERIENCE in at the free clinic. She made a fight with me the day of my high school graduation. I left walked while they all ate dinner in silence. Even my spineless dad & Narc brothers.
She didn’t want to pay for my wedding never paid for me college- but did for my brothers. She had mouthed me.
I have allergies & inflamed lungs to this day because she kept the dog & when I was a small child I was allergic
Be glad she's gone. Time for healing and being kind to yourself ❤
Spot on. Please read Snow White for dtails
YEP😮
My mother in law is probably in the highest in the spectrum of narcs, she insisted on me to take my wedding dress off as son as I signed the wedding aggreement, brain burning jelousy
And put on a normal dress, instead
And what if it's the daughter-in-law that's envious of the mother-in-law. Or the son in law that tries to cut your daughter out of your life because they are narcissist?
At twelve my mom had some guests over. Two guy friends. They started commenting about me asking if they could date me when I got older. I saw my mom's face, and at that moment knew she would find a way to get rid of me. Before my thirteenth birthday she caught me in her pot stash and flew me to NYC from California and left me with my dad for good. My dad soon got a new girlfriend
With two new daughters. He then taught me they all came first and emotionally abandoned me.. He let me know I was just a burden to him. An inconvenience ..He drove me to a bus stop and put me alone on a bus to a camp for the two longest months of my life......At that moment I lost the love of both my parents.. What a horrible traumatic abandonment of two narcissistic parents. They had only conditional love for me..
The only real love I've ever had is God's love.. Only Christ can heal these wounds and God himself. 😇
my mom
When did you meet my mother-in-law
How do you deal with her if you don’t mind me asking ? And is your spouse good at managing her ?
After decades it was either her or me being institutionalized. That is the truth. My husband did nothing. He said he'd talk to her but never would. Unfortunately my husband was a narcissist also. By the time I got to my 60s there was nothing normal left for me. I could never explain the torture from 2 of them. I never told anyone because he was the"nicest, sweetest guy". All the psychologists say you must get out but I was a stay at home mother with 3 children and had nowhere to go. They don't explain anything on how to get out .I'm embarrassed to say that but it's true. I waited until I was 65 so I could collect social security as an income then I divorced him, which in turn got rid of her. Don't ever let anyone get you to that point. NEVER
I chose to forgive ❤
I forgive, but I don't make excuses for bad behavior and I don't forget.
Nevertheless, we are free to avoid toxic people and move on with our lives.❤
@creativelady7 Yes, of course. I see that you're watching the same video too, ok.
What about a mother that favors adult sons over adult daughters and talks about most other women "out there in society,, young and old, with mostly great disdain and criticism. Even though she trues to seem loving and pleasant towards us four daughters, she tends to sound slightly jealous or resentful in her undertones. This often makes me sense she has an underlying hate for women in general. I think this is probably complicated.
Everyone thinks she’s sweet and I’m disrespectful.