1 SIMPLE Tip to Reduce Nerves When Public Speaking

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  • @magnusbruce4051
    @magnusbruce4051 Рік тому +2003

    Don't forget: most people haven't read your script 10+ times before they hear you speak. They're experiencing it for the first time and need a little bit more time to process your words.
    A rhythm that seems natural to you because you practiced it a lot is completely alien to your audience.

    • @lilbear19601
      @lilbear19601 10 місяців тому +6

      That's probably the 👽 did a Uie and brought me back.😢

    • @MrNicePotato
      @MrNicePotato 10 місяців тому +17

      Exactly!! People presenting at school always cram as much as possible just to speak as fast as possible. They didn't realize people don't get 80% of the idea they gave.

    • @prakashsuthar8856
      @prakashsuthar8856 9 місяців тому +1

      Your 3rd line brings back all the fear to speaker " they need little bit more time to process"
      Means feeling of getting judged arouses here

    • @menoswater1032
      @menoswater1032 8 місяців тому +8

      @@prakashsuthar8856What you just described is a normal human reaction. When nervous we focus our attention inward.
      What you want to consciously do is focus your attention OUTWARD. Instead of thinking “they’re judging me” think about how you what your saying is affecting them.
      This helps with social anxiety in general. Even in situations like parties.

    • @___idk
      @___idk 5 місяців тому

      .....

  • @38TheMaster1w
    @38TheMaster1w 10 місяців тому +604

    Wait, I just realised this doesn't only apply to speaking in public. It can apply to anything, Job interviews, speaking to your date, meeting new people.

    • @Squirrel-zq6oe
      @Squirrel-zq6oe 8 місяців тому +16

      Mind = blown

    • @DA_KEYZ
      @DA_KEYZ 6 місяців тому

      Facts 😊

    • @settherealtor
      @settherealtor 5 місяців тому +10

      I spoke slow n fast to 2 different girls over the phone. The first one fell in love and payed more attention than the 2nd

    • @sufma6505
      @sufma6505 5 місяців тому

      Bro speaking slow is a cheat code lol. Specially when talking to girls

    • @rinaz8219
      @rinaz8219 2 місяці тому +1

      💀

  • @bigkurz
    @bigkurz 10 місяців тому +191

    Public speech is incredibly important. It’s cool to be able to teach that to others

  • @food4thoughttt
    @food4thoughttt Рік тому +79

    One thing i love about vihn is how practical he is...
    It's not like those videos which gives you a pump of adrenaline rush and then you can't use the information in the end.
    I had a school presentation and I nailed it especially on variation of tone. Thanks for these amazing videos

  • @j.kyol.4499
    @j.kyol.4499 10 місяців тому +30

    I think a lot about communication.
    It matters greatly to me, as someone who’s been bullied and made fun of, I’m so used to being on guard all the time. These tricks help me cope, and sometimes I may overthink how I need to communicate, but your tips are helping me so much. Thank you!

  • @I___dunno
    @I___dunno Рік тому +224

    Dude this is going to help so much. Tomorrow I have to make a 3-day weather forecast for school and I’m extremely nervous

    • @I___dunno
      @I___dunno Рік тому +9

      @@tiffanyh.5788 eh at least I got partnered with my friend. She’ll be able to calm my nerves somehow. She was also nice enough to only let me say one paragraph.

    • @Bot28111
      @Bot28111 Рік тому +1

      What is your username. You’re in school? Lol

    • @I___dunno
      @I___dunno Рік тому +2

      @@Bot28111 yeah. Is there something wrong with it? If there is I doubt I’d remember to change it.

    • @JohnYoo39
      @JohnYoo39 Рік тому +1

      Hey dude, hope the forecast presentation went well.

    • @I___dunno
      @I___dunno Рік тому +4

      @@JohnYoo39 YEAH ABOUT THAT… my nerves kinda got in the way of that.. I never ended up doing it and kinda had my friend do it herself. But I’m fine now 😅

  • @azrise
    @azrise 5 місяців тому +14

    I'm shivering just thinking about it 😭😭

    • @besatsified5162
      @besatsified5162 4 місяці тому +6

      you're not alone

    • @brekdak4014
      @brekdak4014 4 місяці тому +4

      im so scared

    • @Daintyrose_xx
      @Daintyrose_xx Місяць тому +2

      Sameee I have to give a speech at my school and I’m nervous

    • @01KKJR10
      @01KKJR10 Місяць тому +1

      I have a presentation next week, and I've put in my mind most of the possible things that could happen to me there, so that makes me a little more comfortable because no matter what happens to me at least I know. As much as I'm nervous I'm excited

    • @Daintyrose_xx
      @Daintyrose_xx Місяць тому +3

      @@01KKJR10 nice! I also have to give a speech at my school next Monday , I’m also excited but I’m nervous.. my problem is that when I’m exposed to situations like this my body automatically shivers , so I’m scared to shiver when I’m on stage !!

  • @benamerdamino5318
    @benamerdamino5318 Рік тому +6

    This dude is helping people .. he genuinely wants to facilitate people's coexistence.. respect

  • @davorcelar3306
    @davorcelar3306 Рік тому +61

    Wonderful tip, Vinh! Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Keep it coming. ❤️

    • @askvinh
      @askvinh  Рік тому +6

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @prajwalsharma5877
    @prajwalsharma5877 8 місяців тому +4

    The free content has so much value. Imagine his lives events.

  • @PasteurPlaysVideoGames
    @PasteurPlaysVideoGames 3 місяці тому +10

    I had a college interview yesterday. It went horribly. How could I possibly think of any of that advice if I’m nervous. It overpowers all memory and rationality

    • @Peak-a-boo-sm8uh
      @Peak-a-boo-sm8uh 3 місяці тому +3

      i can understand u very well, i have to give a 2 minute speech infront of 50 people and i am so fucking nervous because I have severe anxiety and I am an introvert too , so it's super hard for me .

    • @kimtabel5971
      @kimtabel5971 3 місяці тому +1

      How did your speech go?

  • @ilyasofficial1617
    @ilyasofficial1617 10 місяців тому +4

    This is nice tip. When i do thesis defense, i tried to slowdown and my nervous-ness went away and relaxed.

  • @askvinh
    @askvinh  Рік тому

    Link to my FREE 3 part online course 🥰
    gifts.vinhgiang.com/youtube

  • @thefourthwritedjentleman3643
    @thefourthwritedjentleman3643 10 місяців тому +4

    Have not seen a bad video from you, top tier content for anyone and everyone I think

  • @teamslater23
    @teamslater23 10 місяців тому +6

    At my work I have this amazing opportunity to speak in front of people but I get nervous and scared. Thank you for all the advice. I feel like it's going to help me when I go to different plants around the US and help me succeed 🤗

  • @brian1192
    @brian1192 7 місяців тому +1

    This was actually a good tip not just for this subject but in general

  • @DiscoCokkroach
    @DiscoCokkroach Рік тому +1

    Vinh, your videos are insightful, inspiring, and refreshing. Thank you for sharing your God-given gifts with us.

  • @ANA7H3MAhd
    @ANA7H3MAhd 5 місяців тому +1

    The use case for talking faster is creating energy and stress about what you’re communicating. This is vital when hammering home an action point (without being overdone of course)

  • @phil3617
    @phil3617 Рік тому +20

    How to deal with mind blank while speaking

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor Рік тому +1

      keep doing it until you stop blanking out

    • @deathhunter1029
      @deathhunter1029 9 місяців тому +2

      Know your stuff well so you can improvise

  • @clementng7718
    @clementng7718 10 місяців тому +1

    Great coaching, Vinh 🙌🥰

  • @tarkusd7534
    @tarkusd7534 10 місяців тому +3

    slow rate of speed makes others relax, so thats why the people always fell asleep during my presentations

  • @nsovomahange
    @nsovomahange Рік тому +35

    The first thing I do is speak slower and slower and slower… until I eventually just stop speaking because no one’s listening anymore 🙂👍🏽

  • @hollandp9606
    @hollandp9606 10 місяців тому

    Speaking slowly with good pronunciation is so cool. It can make even boring material sound interesting.

  • @bekdev564
    @bekdev564 5 місяців тому +1

    Ikr, I feel so anxious when I see someone else anxious 😅

  • @RobBrightBeast
    @RobBrightBeast Рік тому

    Ooo it not only makes you seem more relaxed, it relaxes you

  • @gagakingof6139
    @gagakingof6139 4 місяці тому

    Wow, that’s actually helpful

  • @Quipple
    @Quipple Рік тому +6

    Can these be applied to debates?

    • @Luis-gs4hi
      @Luis-gs4hi Рік тому +3

      I think it can be applied to any type of speaking in front of others or an audience. A lot of the stuff he teaches seems to be great advice for theatre as well

  • @palanisamyrajaraman1644
    @palanisamyrajaraman1644 Рік тому +1

    All your video are really useful brother

  • @imlyshawn3690
    @imlyshawn3690 4 місяці тому

    Wow. Never ever crossed my mind. Thanks 👍

  • @mtiderman
    @mtiderman 6 місяців тому

    this is great. Definitely agree and have experienced this to be true.

  • @Stimario
    @Stimario 5 місяців тому

    That's a great tip, I believe can work in any situation ❤❤❤ much love great job ❤️😊

  • @manuelsanchez6221
    @manuelsanchez6221 Рік тому

    Wow, such a simple but extremely effective tip. Thanks!!!

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- Рік тому

    Awesome!!!😮😮 congratulations 🎊

  • @KissMan-lz7ej
    @KissMan-lz7ej 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much sir for this information

  • @KonradTamas
    @KonradTamas 10 місяців тому +2

    This guy is sooooo fkn goood

  • @FlySpleen
    @FlySpleen Рік тому

    Great timing, as I've been looking for ways to be more relaxed in my upcoming wedding vows ❤

  • @ageretube3035
    @ageretube3035 9 місяців тому

    Glad following you

  • @d.deepak
    @d.deepak 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for the tip

  • @Rajeevkumar-bv5qi
    @Rajeevkumar-bv5qi 7 місяців тому

    Great information

  • @francis_duarte
    @francis_duarte Рік тому +2

    You know your stuff!

  • @chae325i
    @chae325i Рік тому +1

    Thank you. Love your videos 💯✅

  • @themagicshop3924
    @themagicshop3924 6 місяців тому

    This is soo helpfull l was exactly doing this

  • @Domino10112
    @Domino10112 4 місяці тому

    Very helpful tip! I can always use it for success. 😁😁😁👍🏽💯

  • @andreasbudiman6891
    @andreasbudiman6891 Рік тому +1

    Super great tips. I’m implementing.

  • @Randomsass
    @Randomsass 29 днів тому

    Thank you i have become speak the talker of words

  • @saichaithvik
    @saichaithvik 8 місяців тому

    U r awesome

  • @joshsohan1157
    @joshsohan1157 Місяць тому

    Slow movements
    Direct eye contact
    Don't look away
    Enthusiasm
    Powerful voice
    Good posture
    Nod less
    Talk slow (slow rate of speech. Relaxes you)

  • @rjunior0792
    @rjunior0792 Рік тому

    Vinh rules!

  • @internetexplorer7143
    @internetexplorer7143 5 місяців тому

    I often speak really quickly when I’m doing public speaking but it’s not because I’m nervous but it’s because I have a lot of information to get out in a limited amount of time, so that makes me speak really quick

  • @flowerwaifu
    @flowerwaifu Рік тому +1

    I was fully expecting some big plot twist but no, it was just good advice

  • @ManojKumar-cj7oj
    @ManojKumar-cj7oj 6 місяців тому

    "Slow down " That's what she said!

  • @Dentofall
    @Dentofall 8 місяців тому

    For me the best tips r like if ur in a apartment say have a good day with a smile to people when they leave the lift at their lift or go to the park and if u a kid go to the play ground and ask hey can u push me in the swing I'll push u too or like do u wanna play tag play with me in the sand etc.

  • @wojciechm7653
    @wojciechm7653 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @maike.welerson
    @maike.welerson Рік тому

    A comunicação altera a emoção.

  • @Thapee
    @Thapee 3 місяці тому

    Was taught to also replace fill-up words like uhmm etc with silence.

  • @brentdelacruz558
    @brentdelacruz558 8 місяців тому

    im sending this to my friends or something idk

  • @NaveedShahzadKhan
    @NaveedShahzadKhan 10 місяців тому

    There is really no discussion of stage fright in the media, but I think it is an important topic that needs more examples and awareness.

  • @emeru_emeru
    @emeru_emeru Рік тому +2

    I think now I know why people don't listen to me when I speak :cc

  • @user-du3oy3du3c
    @user-du3oy3du3c 4 місяці тому

    Good 👍 point

  • @ianiskandar4165
    @ianiskandar4165 7 місяців тому

    Thanks God to teach me too in my mind like : .. if you are a fast talk type.. how I do it is speak with a "second" slow kind of.. like a "clock" .. tik tok tik tok there is a slow phase in there.. like a normal heart rate .. so your audience can think because if too fast more than second clock thing, your audiences brain cant keep with you to receive your information.. thanks for this video too..

  • @GreyBlackWolf
    @GreyBlackWolf Рік тому

    Theres many speech teachers out there making loads of money on bs that is already known but this guy knows people. Not tricks. People. Growing up people who used this to their advantage with psychology and sociology degrees. Knowing people opens more doors to the world and yourself than you could possibly imagine.

  • @yapsonark407
    @yapsonark407 Рік тому

    Nice! ❤

  • @DiptiGogoi80
    @DiptiGogoi80 6 місяців тому +1

    Forget 'bout the speech, there's a kind of people who even forgets to breath while speaking in a public event... nd yess I'm one them 🥸🖐️
    : Can u make a video on how to breath normally nd not like I'm having asthma attacks while speaking publicly?? 🙏

    • @kimtabel5971
      @kimtabel5971 3 місяці тому

      Try the Wim Hof breathing exercises. The best thing is to take several deep breaths into your tummy, not lungs, and slowly exhale. Practice it every now and then. Do it right before speaking and during a pause in your speech as well. This will help lower your heart rate and makes sure you don't hyperventilate

  • @Luneatix98
    @Luneatix98 7 місяців тому

    Interesting because while we were asked to talk about what we love in uni I noticed that people who were nervous spoke fast, I told myself that I will speak slowly but I just couldn't

  • @edidiongwillie2782
    @edidiongwillie2782 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @michaelobregon9936
    @michaelobregon9936 9 місяців тому

    GREAT ADVICE but I do have a question 🙋‍♀️ if I have a time limit for my speech how can I talk slower and still keep in time?

  • @closethatdoor5555
    @closethatdoor5555 2 місяці тому

    Had that boy in boot camp 😂

  • @TheHigherFury
    @TheHigherFury 11 місяців тому +1

    Nah the reason I speak fast is because people interrupt or tune out so I'm trying to deliver my thoughts in the short period of time I have their attention

  • @Space_Princess
    @Space_Princess 6 місяців тому

    As an autistic who has ADHD too, I can talk very fast when I'm excited about a topic. My brain goes a million miles per hour so I speak fast. People tell me "slow down. It's okay" or "gosh, you're a renter gob" or "you come across as if you're nervous". Now I know why this can be the case. I seem nervous because of how I'm coming across with how fast I speak and it puts people off or catches them off guard 😅

  • @joegreene8045
    @joegreene8045 5 місяців тому

    Do you have any events in the states?

  • @parrislabeur-cb3dr
    @parrislabeur-cb3dr Рік тому

    TRUTH

  • @besatsified5162
    @besatsified5162 4 місяці тому

    i have a class presentation tommorrow i will come with some results

  • @user-li5ly4xp1b
    @user-li5ly4xp1b 2 місяці тому

    Russian Mafia Boss gives advice for today.
    "If you want be charismatic,here are some simple fixes:"
    Number 1:"Don't divide your attention always focus on one thing"
    Number 2:"Move slow,talk slow,when you have charisma you have the power of God and that power is pure"
    "Be honourable"

  • @utkarshkumar7957
    @utkarshkumar7957 5 місяців тому

    But while slowing down, what to do if you forgot what you were going to speak next??

  • @violett874
    @violett874 10 місяців тому +1

    Also apparently beta blockers. I start to shake when I have to do public speaking even if I feel perfectly fine about it. I hear a lot of public speakers/ artists take them for this issue.

  • @ThatOneOddGuy
    @ThatOneOddGuy Рік тому

    People pay money and go places to learn what this guy is teaching while I learnt it from observing interactions in highschool

  • @willcaine1208
    @willcaine1208 Рік тому +1

    Can you be my college public speaking teacher 😭

  • @darshanmishra5450
    @darshanmishra5450 10 місяців тому

    Is pre recorded course avbl?

  • @benedictus7081
    @benedictus7081 6 місяців тому

    I have a kind of a reverse question tho. What if, you have a lot of key material to say (even after cutting down lots of points), in a very pressing time limit, which then makes you have to speak fast. In this case, surely, speaking fast will unconsciously make you tensed up. How would you handle the situation?

  • @user-wj5uw7bm3e
    @user-wj5uw7bm3e 10 місяців тому

    This decently helpt me but I got nerves again during my presentation because I realized that I wanted to fill the gaps that started forming because of the slow down speech with “eeeeh”
    Any tips for that?

  • @closethatdoor5555
    @closethatdoor5555 2 місяці тому

    N***a said twerk in the chat 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Nursing-tv4ec
    @Nursing-tv4ec 5 місяців тому

    but what if we have a time limit!

  • @adarshpalavalli7095
    @adarshpalavalli7095 10 місяців тому

    How do I speak slowly

  • @abiriprince
    @abiriprince 3 місяці тому

    Hey guys 🙂

  • @landofmyth221
    @landofmyth221 Рік тому

    The fact that he speaks like jet

  • @kawaii_hawaii222
    @kawaii_hawaii222 8 місяців тому

    Actually speaking slower often makes me a lot more nervous

  • @tamilanlee2849
    @tamilanlee2849 11 місяців тому

    slow down it relaxes you and your people

  • @charlenephillips1031
    @charlenephillips1031 Рік тому

    How about when you don’t have anything planned out and your mind goes blank 😢

  • @vent3z
    @vent3z 6 місяців тому

    I have a problem that I am so nervous that I forget everything I wamted to say. And so I talk TOO slow and try getting my words organized again... but I don't calm down somehow and just keep talking very very slow. Anyone have any tips?

  • @rodney.roadman
    @rodney.roadman Рік тому

    r u gonna do sydney

  • @ElskaTheAnimator
    @ElskaTheAnimator 7 днів тому

    When I do public speech, I don’t start speaking faster, I cry (Not even joking, happened the two last times I had to present in front of my class) Can someone tell me what I can do please? I have one coming soon…

  • @Obeythebacon
    @Obeythebacon 6 місяців тому

    Umm what if I'm a rapper and I get nervous on stage? What do I do then?

  • @dimitrakouroupi
    @dimitrakouroupi 6 місяців тому

    Except what if I cant slow down because I have to say a hundred things in only half an hour?

  • @billyfaulk6789
    @billyfaulk6789 11 місяців тому +2

    My ADHD goes full blast so I actually have to force myself to speak faster otherwise my thoughts have huge gaps between then while my brain is trying to grab the right thought out of a jumbled mess of thoughts.

    • @xBintu
      @xBintu 10 місяців тому

      You won't come along in life if you always have your ADHD as an excuse or something you can put the blame on it
      think about it...

    • @billyfaulk6789
      @billyfaulk6789 10 місяців тому

      @@xBintu how is this relevant?

    • @kino7539
      @kino7539 7 місяців тому

      @@xBintubefore you are quick to judge someone with ADHD you should educate yourself on it.

  • @kreativeforce532
    @kreativeforce532 11 місяців тому +1

    I want slow speakers to hurry up and get to the point. Also they appear less competent than fast speakers. 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @sam-kk1pl
    @sam-kk1pl 4 місяці тому

    The boy sounds like vihn😂

  • @Chehli
    @Chehli Рік тому

    When people speak that slow I wanna crawl out of my skin. I’m already thinking about something else and just want to put them on 2x speed

  • @FrogeniusW.G.
    @FrogeniusW.G. Рік тому

    Actually, I have the feeling/experience that people have no patience to listen then.

  • @mattmiller237
    @mattmiller237 9 місяців тому

    Right....... i don't think any of them understand being nervous in front of a crowd....

  • @davidharrow9025
    @davidharrow9025 4 місяці тому

    I wish I watched this before my presentation at work. oof...I was nervous and talking faster than I would like. Embarrassing! 😮