That brother does NOT get to propose on anyone’s wedding day. What a crass and inappropriate thing to do. And he is just trying to one up OP by getting married, despite not being equipped to do so. His girlfriend dodged a bullet in leaving him. OP did the right thing in standing his ground.
The brother can't even afford a venue to propose he has to sponge off his brother's wedding, there's no way he be able to afford a wedding, a honeymoon or anything else after. The parents can't, and narcissist grandma wouldn't, so of course he'd want his little brother to pay for all that too. This is another 'do it for Dan' story
I always thought it was universally known that proposing at someone else's wedding is hella tacky. But the fact the guy who wasn't invited to the wedding threatened to boycott it made me chuckle.
The relative shouldn't propose on the wedding day because even asking to do that shows he doesn't care and wasn't really asking but would have done it if he has been given a chance. And the grandmother needs to get her mental faculties checked. It doesn't matter who's older or who gets married first. The brother is 30, acts like a child and uses other people as scapegoats for his problems. I'm 32 and I have problems but I see a counselor for it and I don't blame other people.
I honestly think anyone wanting to propose at a wedding is selfish for a couple of things. First, the day isn't yours. It's a celebration made in honor of a couple coming together to start a new journey. Second, the person that is being proposed to would be put in a terrible spot. Surrounded by people who know you is a way to pressure someone to say yes. It's nothing short of trapping them.
In the US you can give family up to $14000 tax free. So you are in the clear. Double check with your accountant. I gave my mom $10000 and it was tax free when I asked my CPA.
DUDE ! PARENTS WILL ALWAYS SHOW BROTHER HE ONLY SON THEY TRULY LOVES ! YOU ARE JUST A. PERSONAL ATM 🏧. ! FAMILY ONLY PRETENDING 2. LOVE 💕. YOU ! ONLY AS LONG AS. YOU ARE MAKING FAKE ! LOVE 💕. PAYMENTS ! NO PAYMENTS ! NO. PRETENDING 2. LOVE 💕.
Wait, why I feel that I've heard this story before, but different wording? The brother is the golden child, and the grandma coddling him to the max, also the grandma lied to the fiance to break them up, because the grandma wanted the golden child to marry first?
im just here to say, is incredible how op's grandma didnt learn anything after the whole poisoning snow white thing that she did in her youth, and is still doing the same shenaningans. because they have to be the same person right?
Wtf you write this post that your brother wanted to propose to his gf on your wedding day 😂 in my country wed couple make those announcements that there are brother's or sister's is next in line and they are getting engaged after our dinner
PAYING 4. BROTHER. WEDDING VIA. PARENTS MONTHLY. PAYMENTS ! YOU ALWAYS KNEW ! THAT MONEY 💴. IS GOING STRAIGHT 2. BROTHER ! YOUR ENTIRE LIFE ! 4. REST LIFE !
I'm guessing you're a liberal and everybody else's stuff is yours too right? It's his wedding his and his wife's it's their spotlight not his brother spotlight
Clear to see that the brother cannot afford to get married.
Can't even fund his own proposal!
Yeah for real, what a tool!
Bro can organize his own engagement party instead of trying to highjack your wedding. What a cheapskate!!
HE ISNT ! BROTHER IS VIA. PARENTS ! MONTHLY ALLOWANCE
That brother does NOT get to propose on anyone’s wedding day. What a crass and inappropriate thing to do. And he is just trying to one up OP by getting married, despite not being equipped to do so. His girlfriend dodged a bullet in leaving him. OP did the right thing in standing his ground.
The brother can't even afford a venue to propose he has to sponge off his brother's wedding, there's no way he be able to afford a wedding, a honeymoon or anything else after.
The parents can't, and narcissist grandma wouldn't, so of course he'd want his little brother to pay for all that too.
This is another 'do it for Dan' story
Brother needs to be shown lots of reddit entries about how proposing at someone else's wedding is a no-class, no couth thing to do.
happy fiancé happy life right... You are doomed... DOOOOOOMED
Exactly!
I'd like to think that he's just joking
The grandmother loves the older brother more because he's exactly like her. And everyone loves looking at their own reflection.
#1 rule of a wedding is to never take attention away from the bride and groom
I always thought it was universally known that proposing at someone else's wedding is hella tacky.
But the fact the guy who wasn't invited to the wedding threatened to boycott it made me chuckle.
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Grandma, do we need to get you examined for possible dementia?
The relative shouldn't propose on the wedding day because even asking to do that shows he doesn't care and wasn't really asking but would have done it if he has been given a chance. And the grandmother needs to get her mental faculties checked. It doesn't matter who's older or who gets married first. The brother is 30, acts like a child and uses other people as scapegoats for his problems. I'm 32 and I have problems but I see a counselor for it and I don't blame other people.
I honestly think anyone wanting to propose at a wedding is selfish for a couple of things. First, the day isn't yours. It's a celebration made in honor of a couple coming together to start a new journey. Second, the person that is being proposed to would be put in a terrible spot. Surrounded by people who know you is a way to pressure someone to say yes. It's nothing short of trapping them.
CHECK PARENTS BANK STATEMENTS ! SEE DEPOSIT GO IN ! THEN. WITHDRAW SAME DAY 2. BROTHER ACCOUNT !
In the end even the grandmother hates him
You know, it would be really nice if you could post if the story has an update with a timestamp
In the US you can give family up to $14000 tax free. So you are in the clear. Double check with your accountant. I gave my mom $10000 and it was tax free when I asked my CPA.
DUDE ! PARENTS WILL ALWAYS SHOW BROTHER HE ONLY SON THEY TRULY LOVES ! YOU ARE JUST A. PERSONAL ATM 🏧. ! FAMILY ONLY PRETENDING 2. LOVE 💕. YOU ! ONLY AS LONG AS. YOU ARE MAKING FAKE ! LOVE 💕. PAYMENTS ! NO PAYMENTS ! NO. PRETENDING 2. LOVE 💕.
do it for dan
Ig im the first comment? Idk why people do this but let's try!
Wait, why I feel that I've heard this story before, but different wording? The brother is the golden child, and the grandma coddling him to the max, also the grandma lied to the fiance to break them up, because the grandma wanted the golden child to marry first?
I think it's because this story has been uploaded in another Reddit story channel, I know because I've seen it.
I know these stories are fake but they are so entertaining
As fake as all tv shows and movies. Just basic entertainment.
Granted this is a pretty bad edit of an existing story. They removed and changed alot of the dialog that gives background. It also broke up the flow
NO MEANS NO !
im just here to say, is incredible how op's grandma didnt learn anything after the whole poisoning snow white thing that she did in her youth, and is still doing the same shenaningans. because they have to be the same person right?
... But where's the kicker?
Wtf you write this post that your brother wanted to propose to his gf on your wedding day 😂 in my country wed couple make those announcements that there are brother's or sister's is next in line and they are getting engaged after our dinner
PAYING 4. BROTHER. WEDDING VIA. PARENTS MONTHLY. PAYMENTS ! YOU ALWAYS KNEW ! THAT MONEY 💴. IS GOING STRAIGHT 2. BROTHER ! YOUR ENTIRE LIFE ! 4. REST LIFE !
YOU ARE ALREADY PAYING ! 4. BROTHERS WEDDING 💒 ! EVERY DOLLAR YOU GIVE THEM ! GOES STRAIGHT 2. BROTHER ! YOUR MONEY 💰. HAS. ALWAYS BEEN 4. BROTHER
Tbh i think he's made it a big deal for nothing. It could've been happy moment all round
I'm guessing you're a liberal and everybody else's stuff is yours too right? It's his wedding his and his wife's it's their spotlight not his brother spotlight
@@561BoogieMan What does that have to do with being liberal?
What a dumb comment. Did you even watch the whole thing?
Proposing at other people’s weddings is super corny and selfish FYI.
MAKE YOUR OWN STORY INSTED OFF COPY OTHERS - DO BETTER.