This is life on $7.50 an hour

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  • Опубліковано 22 чер 2024
  • Safiyyah Cotton makes $7.50 an hour working at McDonald's. So how does she stretch her budget? With a lot of help from the government. Here's a look inside the life and budget of a low-wage worker.

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  • @lalelulallo
    @lalelulallo 5 років тому +7612

    The real sad part is even if she gets a slightly better job, she will lose all those benefits and be in the same hole again.

    • @lorizline3457
      @lorizline3457 5 років тому +564

      EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!! IT IS A VICIOUS CYCLE!!!!!! ... Stop this world, I wanna get off!!! 😩🙈

    • @dimplez2u228
      @dimplez2u228 5 років тому +394

      Omg I felt that ! That’s what happen to me , seems like when I got better job more bills and food stamps cut off !

    • @johndavis8457
      @johndavis8457 4 роки тому +30

      Bingo 100 right

    • @keyannalee2432
      @keyannalee2432 4 роки тому +12

      lalelulalo yes

    • @darlenegallegos8908
      @darlenegallegos8908 4 роки тому +112

      Right ! I agree with you. Never ends. This is why education is so important. For all our children !

  • @hayleykitty401
    @hayleykitty401 7 років тому +6013

    that's why I don't want kids until I make good money

    • @cris_here
      @cris_here 7 років тому +475

      you make it sound like she planned this.

    • @diegolopez3434
      @diegolopez3434 7 років тому +676

      Christin K that's the fucking problem, she didn't and that's what's wrong... telling your boyfriend to put a condom on is way better than 200K through out 18 years shiiii

    • @KrustyKlown
      @KrustyKlown 7 років тому +241

      Christin K: surely some of these women, do plan for this .. "suicide of ambition" .. the ultimate excuse for not finishing high school, or going to college, or getting a better job .. "I had a kid .. oh well, it happened ..." .. LOL, well ... birth control, abstinence, sex without intercourse, and abortion ..can all "happen" before the 3rd trimester of pregnancy .. there is no justifiable excuse for being such a poor provider for a child. Women & Men can do MUCH better, and by doing so, uplift our entire country.

    • @NUCLEARARMAMENT
      @NUCLEARARMAMENT 6 років тому +87

      This is why I'm fucking traps, no need to worry about kids.

    • @92web34
      @92web34 6 років тому +78

      Hayley Kitty kid are expensive I wouldn't want kid

  • @christophm860
    @christophm860 2 роки тому +3133

    Personally, I think we should pay our politicians $7.50 an hour and see how quickly they pass a federally mandated wage increase to a living wage.

    • @CRYPTOETV
      @CRYPTOETV 2 роки тому +15

      Sick politicians don't give money printed FIRCFREE and at will to poor people so they can maintain and increase class difference and keep slaves they can control and exploit at will always..evil GOV

    • @GreenGretel
      @GreenGretel 2 роки тому +46

      That doesn't work. State-level politicians receive relatively low pay (not minimum wage level of course), but all that has lead to is their ranks being filled with rich businessman who can afford to do legislating as a sort of hobby and often fundraise their own campaigns (and make laws that suit the interests of themselves at the expense of the rest of us). You need publicly financed elections and a fundamental overhaul of the lobbying/legalized bribery that dominates the political process to get real change. Constitutional amendment-level overhaul because the corporatist Supreme Court justices were literally appointed _because_ of their willingness to enable/legitimize the bribery, so they'll gut most federal laws meant to change things.

    • @arthurfisher7198
      @arthurfisher7198 2 роки тому +42

      Saddest part about it all is politicians decide their own salaries and also decide when they “deserve” a pay raise

    • @HazyEmpathy
      @HazyEmpathy 2 роки тому +8

      Most of the politicians with offices are given a budget higher than the average American salary, SOLEY for furniture. And they get it every year.

    • @PirateCat822
      @PirateCat822 2 роки тому +2

      Not much will happen as they usually get money from big companies

  • @jermainelatimer804
    @jermainelatimer804 2 роки тому +711

    I'm friends with her on Facebook and she's doing better now.

    • @therealist2000
      @therealist2000 2 роки тому +71

      thats very good to hear!

    • @carterburton
      @carterburton 2 роки тому +12

      nice

    • @AdamAdamHDL
      @AdamAdamHDL 2 роки тому +16

      Thank you for the update

    • @jermainelatimer804
      @jermainelatimer804 2 роки тому +48

      @@AdamAdamHDL she's alot better than she was during that interview

    • @reesecreatesllc
      @reesecreatesllc 2 роки тому +18

      Thank God 🙏🏾 God continue to bless her & her family !!

  • @Ionwonk
    @Ionwonk 3 роки тому +6637

    "I’ll rather struggle for him, than him struggle for me." - The love of a mother

    • @dynamichunter843
      @dynamichunter843 3 роки тому +156

      I mean that’s pretty obvious, she’s the one who chose to have him it’s not his responsibility to help his mother, it’s hers.

    • @lilmaster3273
      @lilmaster3273 3 роки тому +25

      @@dynamichunter843 I agree with u

    • @charlest2858
      @charlest2858 3 роки тому +1

      @@dynamichunter843 Lol

    • @RK-ep8qy
      @RK-ep8qy 3 роки тому +113

      Not just the love of a mother, the love of a GOOD mother
      There's mums that berate their kids and abuse them for being a 'burden' then force them to get a job very very young

    • @tlockerk
      @tlockerk 3 роки тому +10

      This can be good or bad, depending on the kid; some will work hard, graduate, get a trade or college to take care of Mom. Others will start making money earlier in illegal ways. it's a damn hard way to live, and she's past worry, and feels she has no ability to change her circumstances. She should qualify for WIC, wonder if she applied?

  • @skinnywizard103
    @skinnywizard103 3 роки тому +7860

    This is not living, this is existing & it is extremely depressing to watch.

    • @4agony777
      @4agony777 3 роки тому +252

      Yeah fr. If I ever end up like this I’m spending my paycheck on a gun

    • @mistaandason6159
      @mistaandason6159 3 роки тому +55

      To be honest where i live minimum wageis about $3.50 an hour thats $1.75 US.Still people are living comfortable with just that.and mofo around here has 3-5 kids on that salary .

    • @whoisylo
      @whoisylo 3 роки тому +5

      whats the difference

    • @davidwest8375
      @davidwest8375 3 роки тому +24

      Go to school or fine a job that pays 15 or 20 and leave small business alone

    • @sophyli3101
      @sophyli3101 3 роки тому +107

      @@mistaandason6159 you should consider the living cost.The u.s is expensive .

  • @KittyCelestialx
    @KittyCelestialx 2 роки тому +47

    I make $16 an hour and that still isn’t enough, and what sucks the most out of it is that the government claims that I make too much to receive assistance such as housing or WIC/Stamps. I have a two year old daughter and in a month we’ll be bound to be homeless due to the whole renting progress being broken as well. I cannot get into a place without somebody telling me that I need a co-applicant, but I don’t have anybody. I don’t care if I have to live in a studio apartment, I just want the best life for my daughter that’s not in a shelter.

    • @brianjones7660
      @brianjones7660 2 місяці тому +1

      a two year old daughter....and your husband does what?
      Oh, I see.....

    • @TinkOutLoud
      @TinkOutLoud Місяць тому +2

      @@brianjones7660 Your comment helps her how? Oh, I see.

    • @keithgeezee
      @keithgeezee 3 дні тому +1

      I've had this same exact problem. I was denied housing assistance and food stamps 2 years ago because they said $25,000/year was too much. I don't like living check to check and I hate seeing people struggle like this when there's such a huge gap between us and the wealthy. This is heartbreaking to hear. Sad thing is that there's thousands like her with similar stories..

  • @andrewheffel3565
    @andrewheffel3565 2 роки тому +120

    Tough to watch. She works and collects multiple government benefits to barely get by. She seems very responsible. So sad. I spent my 20's in poverty, it was hard. I found a career path in my 30's, and when I had kids at 40 I pushed them hard to take school serious and I put them both through college. They have good careers and didn't have to go thru what I did. I hope her son does well, but the odds are not in his favor.

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 2 роки тому +5

      responsible? getting pregnant and the father leaving? she didnt even grad highschool bro. dont feel sad for a bum like this lmfaoo. i wonder why theres no father

    • @Vertekmaster
      @Vertekmaster 2 роки тому +10

      @@wavylol1 government and CEOs did a good job brainwashing the public to hate anyone that doesn't follow their path to work for their own corporate interests.
      Anyone who doesn't make the same decisions: "lmaooooo screw this bum she should've just followed the latter like everyone else"

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 2 роки тому +2

      @@Vertekmaster you mean a girl who did absolutely nothing in life except get pregnant and cry ab working at mcdonalds? youre a 100% Radical left sheep. Lmao.

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 2 роки тому +2

      @@Vertekmaster Brb in a few years when shes covered in tats and selling crack. lmao

    • @Vertekmaster
      @Vertekmaster 2 роки тому +7

      @@wavylol1 of course the "anyone who disagrees with me is radical leftist sheep" retort anytime someone disagrees with poor living conditions.
      Just how far are you down the "pick yourself up by the bootstraps" rabbit hole?

  • @levelupwitharie
    @levelupwitharie 5 років тому +7121

    Lord forgive me for ever saying there's nothing to eat in the house when there was a refrigerator full of stuff. I pray this young lady is in a better situation now.

    • @larandle
      @larandle 5 років тому +220

      I'm trying to tell you. It's humbling as hell

    • @janetyamashige9573
      @janetyamashige9573 5 років тому +13

      @@larandle Yes!

    • @MrThinkEncourager
      @MrThinkEncourager 5 років тому +87

      Snappingturtle 267 You may have a point, but I don't think she knew the dad would get incarcerated. Looking at the price of public schools per student, I don't think anyone would be able to afford a child, lol. Some poor or middle class might could, but after the second and third child, one would be close to being broke from the cost I'm seeing.

    • @levelupwitharie
      @levelupwitharie 5 років тому +11

      Dee M Preach!!

    • @tompain2751
      @tompain2751 5 років тому +14

      She gets food stamps,and other assistance!

  • @gowwf6046
    @gowwf6046 5 років тому +4302

    She is clearly very sad , I pray everything gets better for her

    • @AmberAmbwee
      @AmberAmbwee 5 років тому +88

      Cutie Fruity You can see it in her eyes immediately. :(

    • @oopsiepoopsie2898
      @oopsiepoopsie2898 5 років тому +44

      That’s not gonna do anything

    • @gowwf6046
      @gowwf6046 5 років тому +26

      Oopsie Poopsie boi stfu

    • @oopsiepoopsie2898
      @oopsiepoopsie2898 5 років тому +27

      Cutie Fruity why it literally won’t do anything there are things you could do. You don’t even have to give her money, a better job, better skills, better education, things for her child, a husband or wife.

    • @joeblack2113
      @joeblack2113 5 років тому +7

      Life is what you make it,
      This is not a 3rd world, she lives in the greatest country in the world.
      She is a flat out loser, and mostly likely her child will be part of the cycle

  • @maryelvis3172
    @maryelvis3172 Рік тому +182

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    • @dralfred2400
      @dralfred2400 Рік тому +1

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    • @nyreggie
      @nyreggie Рік тому +1

      I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.

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      @maryelvis3172 Рік тому +1

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    • @nyreggie
      @nyreggie Рік тому

      @@maryelvis3172 You allow people to trade for you? that's interesting, I would love to learn, hope it’s safe?

    • @zombie15ish
      @zombie15ish Рік тому

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  • @goldenhourss
    @goldenhourss 2 місяці тому +4

    Her blank expression.. omg I pray for things to get better for her. She deserves better❤

  • @melo.472
    @melo.472 3 роки тому +6805

    she went from McDonald’s worker to law student now that’s one hell of a comeback story respectable

    • @kevinfowlks7351
      @kevinfowlks7351 3 роки тому +145

      Hell yea 🔥🔥

    • @Pcarnevaaa
      @Pcarnevaaa 2 роки тому +640

      And now she has 300k law school debt. Much better.

    • @24sirosaydeacker57
      @24sirosaydeacker57 2 роки тому +210

      @@Pcarnevaaa she can probably pay it back

    • @Pcarnevaaa
      @Pcarnevaaa 2 роки тому +511

      @@24sirosaydeacker57 HAHAHAHA a law student in 2021 paying back 300k debt? not likely. Unless you graduated a top 3 and working 85 hours a week at a large firm.

    • @itsmause8715
      @itsmause8715 2 роки тому +832

      @UCCNAbAN6f7pLcIuOQ9a6wqg stop being fucking negative you sad fuck

  • @86bmiller
    @86bmiller 5 років тому +3615

    I wish more people understood that in life you are only a paycheck away from becoming homeless.

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 5 років тому +329

      Not if you plan accordingly, live BELOW your means and invest in something that will create PASSIVE INCOME. I am ALWAYS saving because you never know when you will need it for a rainy day (e.g. car breaks down, medical bills, etc).

    • @ikrame8442
      @ikrame8442 5 років тому +138

      If you suck at money management and if u have bad luck yea

    • @sammlotshwa2140
      @sammlotshwa2140 4 роки тому +188

      Yea because some people don't make enough to actually save any of it

    • @armeniajones7873
      @armeniajones7873 4 роки тому +25

      He said I will never leave you or forsake you

    • @mossyteef
      @mossyteef 4 роки тому +133

      American Creole some people genuinely cannot afford to save any of their money, and have to use their entire paycheck each time they receive it

  • @jikal9032
    @jikal9032 2 роки тому +129

    Boomers be like: "Well, just don't buy shoes or use the heat lol"

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 2 роки тому +1

      You forgot the quintessential proverb of theirs saying that people are not forced to work in these sorts of conditions in the first place if they're being paid such 💀💀

    • @bm-rf4bc
      @bm-rf4bc 2 роки тому

      Please, compare the two generations in depth. You might uncover the secret to not being worthless.

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 2 роки тому

      @@bm-rf4bc >young America foundation subscriber
      there is nothing more than could be said here lmfao

    • @bm-rf4bc
      @bm-rf4bc 2 роки тому

      @@khaz8460 the depth of your intellect is unmatched. lol yourself to the food shelf.

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 2 роки тому +1

      @@bm-rf4bc tHe dEptH of YouR iNtellEct is unmatched
      Will do good sir, will do. If that is what it will take to appease to the all too "righteous" conservative ego sphere :))

  • @mrrayonsplayz350
    @mrrayonsplayz350 2 роки тому +37

    i can't lie i feel really bad for her i hope she gets a better life :(

    • @sombitmukhuti2660
      @sombitmukhuti2660 2 роки тому +3

      Why would you lie about that

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 2 роки тому +2

      She raised 10k in her GoFundMe, licensed CNA, and spends family time.

  • @kimberlyruiz8643
    @kimberlyruiz8643 4 роки тому +3690

    Don't make fun of other people's struggles because God will humble you so quick.

    • @Abjecthda
      @Abjecthda 4 роки тому +117

      Facts! Some of the comments on here smh they don't understand the struggle.

    • @michaelcager6449
      @michaelcager6449 4 роки тому +59

      @@Abjecthda The struggle is real but not impossible to overcome. There are many factors that can make the struggle harder then what it is. One is by having kids out of wedlock at a young age. Two is by engaging in criminal activity resulting in a built up criminal record. The 1964 War On Poverty Bill passed by President Lyndon B. Johnson give poor Americans huge opportunities to rise up the economical latter.

    • @lana_6336
      @lana_6336 4 роки тому +5

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @kimberlyruiz8643
      @kimberlyruiz8643 4 роки тому +75

      @Shinobu Kawajiri You must havr never struggled in your life. Godbless your ignorance.

    • @kimberlyruiz8643
      @kimberlyruiz8643 4 роки тому +29

      @Shinobu Kawajiri you're fucking weird lmao

  • @RobWillx
    @RobWillx 5 років тому +3718

    She sounds so defeated. Nobody should have to live like that. 😓

    • @andreagreen1133
      @andreagreen1133 5 років тому +113

      Robyn Williams this struck me as well i pray her life gets better she looks so young (to me) and she’s lost her smile and her spirit is broken

    • @ryman1933
      @ryman1933 5 років тому +112

      No one did this to her except her. She made bad choices and now others have to pay for her bad choices.

    • @tehagan37
      @tehagan37 5 років тому +75

      Robyn Williams. She has no hope left. She probably has a family she can't depend on. Some people are blessed to have a strong support system.

    • @ryman1933
      @ryman1933 5 років тому +20

      damien neimad Pretty good advice.

    • @septembersapphire347
      @septembersapphire347 5 років тому +30

      Sadly millions of people live like this.

  • @AR_119
    @AR_119 Рік тому +15

    I'm 27, making $75k a year (soon to be 90k) own a home in a good neighborhood, no car payment, no kids, and have a 401k yet still feel like everyone else is making more and has more. I can only imagine how these people feel. Puts things in perspective.

    • @Quit3Cut3
      @Quit3Cut3 Рік тому +1

      I make 47 a year and struggle to get by. My husband does much better than I do, but we still struggle to get by and try to save for a house. It’s really a struggle these days.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому +1

      @@Quit3Cut3 It is. The problem is the cost of living. A house in Ga is 365k! That's twice what it was in 2020. This is just sad and frustrating. It's almost impossible for anyone to afford homeownership.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому +1

      The woman in the video is a licensed CNA, raised 10k in her GoFundMe, and spends time with her son. She's doing well!

    • @alessandrasouza3979
      @alessandrasouza3979 Рік тому +7

      I think this isn’t the best video to flex anything you have tbh

    • @DominantBtch
      @DominantBtch 2 місяці тому

      ​@@alessandrasouza3979how is it flexing, you sound dumb

  • @ruzzelladrian907
    @ruzzelladrian907 Рік тому +37

    An advice to everyone in poverty’s, don’t get pregnant or get someone pregnant.

    • @RONEFFECT
      @RONEFFECT Рік тому +4

      Preach!

    • @beetlejuice424
      @beetlejuice424 Місяць тому

      Who the f*ck penetrated that bitch? That’s my question 🤮

    • @robertmasina7388
      @robertmasina7388 Місяць тому +2

      I think this nation doesn't do enough for prevention of unwanted pregnancies with its youth, something European countries do right.

  • @abbymora1569
    @abbymora1569 4 роки тому +3169

    I hope the broadcasting network gave her some money. I think it would be rude if they just made this story then left her in the same situation

    • @doriildn2170
      @doriildn2170 4 роки тому +118

      abby mora. Exactly

    • @iamcringe.4343
      @iamcringe.4343 4 роки тому +125

      TrUe because no one wants to be a camera for no reason

    • @princesse0920
      @princesse0920 4 роки тому +58

      abby mora
      Same. I really hope they paid her.

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 4 роки тому +116

      No, they didn't. She stated she wanted to show struggle. I'm glad she did it, though. She's better. Check her update on her page.

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 4 роки тому

      @Pro Everything Look her up on Facebook.

  • @edra2005
    @edra2005 2 роки тому +4342

    I'd rather my taxes go towards helping people like her than selfish and entitled politicians and millionaires

    • @lauraenright3667
      @lauraenright3667 2 роки тому +92

      I thought taxes went towards schools, public roads, healthcare etc..

    • @edra2005
      @edra2005 2 роки тому +270

      @@lauraenright3667 they also go towards politicians and 'government subsidies' aka Elin Musks Space Force

    • @edra2005
      @edra2005 2 роки тому +209

      @@lauraenright3667 don't forget Trump's weekly Golf Trips

    • @lauraenright3667
      @lauraenright3667 2 роки тому +116

      @@edra2005 oh you live in America. Now it all makes sense

    • @iwillnotcomply5475
      @iwillnotcomply5475 2 роки тому +19

      Don't vote Democrat. The billionaires support Democrats. Why do the plebs vote against their own interests?!

  • @latisha334
    @latisha334 2 роки тому +82

    She gets almost twice as much money from the government aid than work. Wow.

    • @JC-fd8ho
      @JC-fd8ho 2 роки тому

      @Mariah Lee why?

    • @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751
      @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 2 роки тому +5

      @Mariah Lee you literally cannot save up or get a better job it's not that simple stop being ignorant and close- minded.

    • @latisha334
      @latisha334 2 роки тому

      @@nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 why can’t she get a better job? McDonald’s is literally bottom tier.

    • @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751
      @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 2 роки тому +4

      @@latisha334 instead of asking people to get better jobs ask the government to raise minimum wage I worked at macdonalds as a 16 year old in England and I got 15 dollars an hour because the minimum wage is higher. Stop shifting the blame onto employees someone has to have these jobs. No job is "bottom tier" She is a essential worker who feeds the community.

    • @Ms9mmBeretta
      @Ms9mmBeretta 2 роки тому +4

      @@nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 the part where you said "no job is bottom tier." THANK YOU FOR SAYING THAT, AND I COULDN'T AGREE MORE. That's people's problem right there. They're brainwashed to think that way, when EVERY job is important. Her condescendingly looking down on this woman for the job she works says more about her than anything else. Smh

  • @caitlynwright8526
    @caitlynwright8526 2 роки тому +150

    It breaks my heart that the childcare benefit is more than what she makes a year. At that point she's just missing time with her son :( this is so sad

    • @orlandocarrillo7132
      @orlandocarrillo7132 2 роки тому +3

      But she's only 22. There are people who at 22 still make 0 dollars per month because they are studying. He should set apart some time to learn new skills, preferably online. Many times its free, only time and dedication is needed.

    • @myrddinemrys5599
      @myrddinemrys5599 2 роки тому +3

      That's true for a lot of families. Plenty of stay at home moms until kindergarten because they won't earn enough working to pay for the child care. That's with a second income of course. Single parents or anyone on assistance of course has to follow the rules set by politicians who are convinced everyone is out to game the system. They need her to "prove" she earned the assistance by working, never mind that it makes zero financial sense. She doesn't work she won't qualify for any of the programs, so she works, costing the government more money.

    • @No29999
      @No29999 2 роки тому +2

      @@orlandocarrillo7132 a real American there. You’re a joke. Have some heart before saying such bs. Egocentric piece of crap.

    • @orlandocarrillo7132
      @orlandocarrillo7132 2 роки тому +2

      @@No29999 ok, then sorry for saying that. Then she should rather cry and do nothing and accept there is nothing she can do to stop being poor.

    • @No29999
      @No29999 2 роки тому +1

      @@orlandocarrillo7132 OR fight the state??! Fight for a better life! There are too many sheep, y’all so dumb. Really. You have all the prove in front of you, and y’all can see how USA has shifted to the worse since WW2, yet idiots like you keep blaming the people in the bottom half of society for doing too little. Really?. You’re a joke, but so are many parts of the world. 🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑

  • @abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz102
    @abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz102 3 роки тому +3326

    It's sad how kids earn millions by flailing their hands on tiktok but people who actually work, like her, don't get a lot.

    • @SamanthaMac912
      @SamanthaMac912 3 роки тому +268

      This is the world we live in 😔

    • @SurrealisticSlumbers
      @SurrealisticSlumbers 3 роки тому +207

      When I have a child, I will inform them that being a social media star or an influencer is not a real job. If they like the camera, I will arrange for acting lessons so they can become a legitimate actor, or work in broadcast journalism or something along those lines. The day is coming when these platforms will be demonetized (Tik Tok, UA-cam, whatever else is out there) and brands will come to realize that partnering with these "influencers" is hurting their bottom line (well, that and the fact that their products are of cheap quality, vastly overpriced and produced via child slave labor in places like Guatemala). The day of reckoning is upon us. Workers unite!

    • @oliviadinges3255
      @oliviadinges3255 3 роки тому +43

      I know its bull and most already rich from there parents

    • @staticfuture251
      @staticfuture251 3 роки тому +55

      Lynx Lefay it is a real job though. I’ve got plenty of sponsorships and opportunities because of it. Yeah it sucks because it’s basic shit but in reality that’s just how the world is moving on now. Social media is key, the shit you mentioned is dead af. People do vlogs, and make their own skits and all sorts of shit now. Acting lesson is whatever, the thing about now a days you don’t need to act no more

    • @SurrealisticSlumbers
      @SurrealisticSlumbers 3 роки тому +37

      @@staticfuture251 Interesting; your channel has no videos.

  • @Tony-gt1ow
    @Tony-gt1ow 7 років тому +2414

    Give her the money this video earned

    • @jenna3937
      @jenna3937 7 років тому +52

      Tony Lopez good idea

    • @Tony-gt1ow
      @Tony-gt1ow 7 років тому +5

      im.superman101 yeee

    • @NybKww
      @NybKww 7 років тому +94

      a lot of channels get paid by the amount of views. Its not just ads.

    • @jayyyayyy7712
      @jayyyayyy7712 7 років тому +24

      나서린이 channels don't get money for views it's the advertisements of products that do idiot

    • @Tony-gt1ow
      @Tony-gt1ow 7 років тому +9

      Jayyy Ayyy but vids bring subs and those subs see other vids related to the channel and those have adds so it's her help as well tht they gain subs money and views so why can't u just help her out just a little at least any help is better than no help

  • @metv4254
    @metv4254 2 роки тому +7

    I was in her position and I was homeless many times. In the end...I moved back in with my parents and went to the career center and got a good job. I never stopped striving for a better career.

  • @andrewdean4359
    @andrewdean4359 2 роки тому +12

    Startıng early is the best way of gettıng ahead
    to build wealth, investıng remaıns a priorıity.
    The stock market has plenty of opportunities
    to earn

    • @russellwilliamson2147
      @russellwilliamson2147 2 роки тому

      you're right, the importance of multıple
      stream of income, unfortunately having
      a job doesn't mean financial ,freedom or
      Security

    • @martinadangana8954
      @martinadangana8954 2 роки тому

      speakıng of been successtul. I know l
      am blessed if not I wouldn't have met
      someone who is as spectacular as Mrs Stacy Griffin Kartn I wouldn't have met
      someone who is as spectacular as Mrs Stacy Griffin Kartner

    • @oliviaanderson5389
      @oliviaanderson5389 2 роки тому

      I have been surviving through my
      fr with her, AM so glad I
      Invested when I did. I'm earring
      $25,000 weekly wth her

    • @kathleengeorge5516
      @kathleengeorge5516 2 роки тому

      Investment is that thing Iine that
      Separates the rich from the poor

    • @nankardomyil7783
      @nankardomyil7783 2 роки тому

      I'm so happy trading with I'm so happy trading with her

  • @29xs19
    @29xs19 7 років тому +597

    Dear lord, please watch over this mother and son. In the name of Christ please help this mother and son though life. Please, please give this mother and son what they need to survive.

    • @Clavin_
      @Clavin_ 7 років тому +21

      You are a wonderful person

    • @29xs19
      @29xs19 7 років тому +9

      Thank you sir.

    • @jacobdsouza5581
      @jacobdsouza5581 7 років тому +11

      I wish you could like comments more than once.

    • @danielbaxa8118
      @danielbaxa8118 7 років тому +6

      Yes please lord

    • @29xs19
      @29xs19 7 років тому +7

      Thank you kind people

  • @LeeyaAre
    @LeeyaAre 4 роки тому +2092

    This hurts my heart man. She is depressed but has to survive

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye 4 роки тому +9

      LiayahR Not anymore she’s rich now check her fb

    • @KadrinaA
      @KadrinaA 4 роки тому +7

      Glicks Prod. Fr ? What does she do

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye 4 роки тому +15

      Champagne K She got married to a doctor 👨‍⚕️

    • @sumirekakei6999
      @sumirekakei6999 4 роки тому +7

      Glicks Prod. can you send me the link?

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye 4 роки тому

      Sumire Kakei Nah

  • @meeks1201
    @meeks1201 2 роки тому +39

    I know she is so tired, the look in her eyes 😢 Privileged folks judge and say things like ‘work harder’ when they have no idea what it’s like to struggle. My heart hurts for her, she’s a great mama doin it all on her own

    • @SquirrelHill
      @SquirrelHill Рік тому +4

      Just because someone decides not to have a baby out of wedlock doesn't mean they are "privileged." A more accurate word would be "responsible."

    • @IIIII...
      @IIIII... 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@SquirrelHill ​ SquirrelHill
      Even if she was married her situation would still be the same because her son's father is most likely broke.

    • @DanielaBodoh
      @DanielaBodoh 29 днів тому +2

      Exactly, I hate when boomers say crap like "you're not making enough money because you're lazy and don't work hard!!!!!" when people like this woman bust their tails off working at retail stores or fast food places (I've worked retail before and it is NOT easy and you are on your feet all day, so don't even start with the laziness thing) and they still don't make enough money to survive. It's not that people aren't working hard, it's that companies aren't paying people living wages.

  • @swenzybeatz3156
    @swenzybeatz3156 2 роки тому +9

    Bruh she only works 16 hours a week…. seems like the problem is deeper rooted

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw 2 роки тому +1

      Bro you cant work full time when you got a child and no other person to watch out for them

    • @raymondreddington9788
      @raymondreddington9788 2 роки тому +2

      @@xiscaw who told her to open her legs then?

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw 2 роки тому

      ​@@raymondreddington9788 it doesnt matter how she got the child, the fact is that she has a child now

    • @raymondreddington9788
      @raymondreddington9788 2 роки тому

      @@xiscaw yeah yeah perfect idea bring child to the world and then cry about how life turned about to be

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw 2 роки тому

      ​@@raymondreddington9788idgaf about what youre talking about you're completely off topic from what i was saying to this guy

  • @dhouston1451
    @dhouston1451 4 роки тому +1991

    Having a college degree doesn’t guarantee you’re going to make more than minimum wage. Don’t believe the hype.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 4 роки тому +242

      That is why you don't get useless degrees like sociology or any other liberal arts degree. Go for a STEM program.

    • @dhouston1451
      @dhouston1451 4 роки тому +60

      Miguel Bermudez , or Business Administration and Economics apparently.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 4 роки тому +44

      @@dhouston1451 unless u get an MBA and go work as a restaurant manager to become an area supervisor or something like, they are useless.

    • @dhouston1451
      @dhouston1451 4 роки тому +46

      Miguel Bermudez , true. I wish I knew that beforehand. I have a son now along with tons of student debt. I can’t afford to get an MBA at this point. I’ve came to terms it was all a big waste of time and so I will not push my son to put in the waste of time as I did. Anymore it’s all about who you know. College doesn’t matter.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 4 роки тому +36

      @@dhouston1451 yeah i regret studying political science and getting $30K in debt.

  • @terracottabrown4178
    @terracottabrown4178 3 роки тому +1563

    She looks sad, depressed, stressed, mentally and physically exhausted but she needs to survive for her son..

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 3 роки тому +71

      Update: she raised in her Gofundme 10k and is licensed in CNA and working to make a better life for herself.

    • @jammysandwich4079
      @jammysandwich4079 3 роки тому +4

      @@shimmer4771 where’s the update story

    • @christopherkeller6367
      @christopherkeller6367 3 роки тому +18

      She should have thought it through before having a kid with some low life dude.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 3 роки тому +56

      @@christopherkeller6367 How about we show compassion and kindness? She's a person and deserves empathy. 🙂

    • @ughwhatever6380
      @ughwhatever6380 3 роки тому +28

      @@christopherkeller6367 stfu white boy

  • @ladderup6584
    @ladderup6584 Місяць тому +1

    The strength of this woman to navigate so much injustice is awe-inspiring. What an incredible mother. I’ve always tried to be nice to fast food workers, but now I 100% will commit to leaving them with a smile and whatever kindness I can offer them.

  • @jennaguig
    @jennaguig 2 роки тому +35

    Sophia,
    I hope you're doing well. I hope you and your son are living the life you both deserve. You're a great, hardworking mom, and I have tons of respect for you ❤️

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому +7

      She's doing better now. She is licensed as a CNA, spends time with her son, and doing well.

    • @SRP3333
      @SRP3333 10 місяців тому +1

      @@shimmer4771that is such good news I remember watching this video a couple years back and I randomly thought of it and her and had to come back to rewatch and check comments and see if there’s was an update. So happy to hear that, thank you for sharing!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 10 місяців тому

      @@SRP3333 She raised 10k in her GoFundMe.

  • @melissas6446
    @melissas6446 4 роки тому +1273

    Breaks my heart. She’s trying and feels hopeless. I hope she is blessed in some way.

    • @lovelythomas8837
      @lovelythomas8837 4 роки тому +25

      Bless you for saying such kind words I hope she is in a better place now

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you for such kins words... many commentators are very mean and harsh... she's trying to do better! She raises 10k in her Gofundme. She's trying to do better.

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 3 роки тому +4

      Bitch Pudding where is this information?

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 3 роки тому +13

      Bitch Pudding and those are very harsh words. It doesn’t change the fact that she doesn’t deserve an easier life. There are so many in her situation. It’s truly sad and the innocent children that are put in the middle

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 3 роки тому +5

      Bitch Pudding that’s sad. I really do wish her the best. I get what you’re saying just seemed harsh.

  • @sheedevil3367
    @sheedevil3367 5 років тому +879

    Don't judge her until you walk in her shoe's

    • @frensplace5576
      @frensplace5576 5 років тому +10

      Let me just act like a crackhead in an Elementary School and expect them to understand the position I’m in

    • @Krazidawg
      @Krazidawg 5 років тому +20

      I made sure that i would never walk in her shoes at 22yrs old. It’s called hustling, do it hard in your twenties, easier to recover when you’re young, take aggresive, calculated, sometimes risky investments, you can take losses when your young. Do more, you have a Son.

    • @yunga8305
      @yunga8305 5 років тому +7

      Krazidawg real shit You gotta risk your life for it at times to if you really want it ... McDonalds paycheck aint gonna do nothin .

    • @MENLOROGUE14
      @MENLOROGUE14 5 років тому +8

      They probably stank. Im good

    • @phenitagomes1292
      @phenitagomes1292 5 років тому +14

      Judging this woman would be more easy than to understand where she came from n what she's been through. Ppl can be real asawholes

  • @lifematch
    @lifematch 2 роки тому +12

    My parents both worked minimum wage job so that my siblings and I can have a better life. Now we are all pretty successful in our career thanks to my parents. It was very difficult for my parents to raise us, so i cannot image what she is going through as a single mother.

  • @SPtheGREAT
    @SPtheGREAT 8 місяців тому +4

    This is WHY I COUNT MY BLESSINGS...my ❤️ goes out to her...

  • @pennylane611
    @pennylane611 7 років тому +1915

    shes not looking for pitty just giving us an idea of what life is like at $7.50 an hr

    • @Sonia-iy3rj
      @Sonia-iy3rj 7 років тому +12

      Tel F Don't be a rude bitch

    • @pennylane611
      @pennylane611 7 років тому +13

      Tel F WHOs talking to you!

    • @competetodefeat4610
      @competetodefeat4610 7 років тому +30

      Maybe you missed the part where she mentions her 2 week earnings indicating she's working part time. This is NOT a representation of working for $7.50 an hour it's a representation of somebody working PART TIME making 7.50. She needs to work full time, get a second job to get more hours or a combination of both. And here's a thought how about going after the deadbeat dad. She also chose to have a child in what i promise you was with some complete loser. Seems to be that basically ALL of her issues she brought on herself and it's complete and utter bullshit to claim this is a representation of what it's like to live on that wage because she is only working, again, part time.

    • @bmxmyth166
      @bmxmyth166 7 років тому +76

      +Vicious Circle she can't work full time because *she has a fucking kid to look after*, did you even watch the video? And her boyfriend is in prison (for all we know he could be in there for something as harmless as cannabis possession)... think before sounding like a condescending dumbass.

    • @2georgiamom
      @2georgiamom 7 років тому +44

      At the end of the day, who's responsible for her situation? (Hint: it's not McDonald's, the government, or me).

  • @filthysaltine3368
    @filthysaltine3368 7 років тому +418

    Minimal wage is made from teenagers not adults.

  • @domc5849
    @domc5849 2 роки тому +5

    I hope she is in a better place.i live in Philly as well n it's definitely hard out here.stay strong sis it will get better keep pushing n never give up!!

  • @dankkeesha7279
    @dankkeesha7279 2 роки тому +3

    This is why you don’t have kids until your financially ready to do so

    • @lunax8068
      @lunax8068 2 роки тому

      yes, yes it is lol.

  • @lisasteadman619
    @lisasteadman619 2 роки тому +5029

    Such sadness in her eyes. Hope she is doing better today. Much respect for even working.

    • @marisoltorres9027
      @marisoltorres9027 2 роки тому +103

      Yes exactly, at least she was trying God willing she is doing better today

    • @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy
      @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy 2 роки тому +135

      Well maybe she shouldn't have wasted time with poor relationships & instead of getting knock up. She could've went to schooling first ! Trade school

    • @fordgalaxiefanclub7733
      @fordgalaxiefanclub7733 2 роки тому +382

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy u speaking facts but atleast have some humanity

    • @amaliasafaryan4256
      @amaliasafaryan4256 2 роки тому +41

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy True we women have like eight different types of birth control most of them are free LOL we don't live in the 1800s anymore we have options

    • @adamk9677
      @adamk9677 2 роки тому +25

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy this is why school is ver important and listen to your parents.

  • @indicababez
    @indicababez 6 років тому +3388

    This makes me grateful for everything that I have

  • @gaibriellahunter4173
    @gaibriellahunter4173 2 роки тому +7

    I feel that look in her eyes, I’ve been there. Glad to hear she’s doing better!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому

      She is. This is what determination does for someone.

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon Рік тому +3

    People do the best they can and you tell she loves her baby. Apparently, there are people in the comment section who do not understand welfare.

  • @jasminewilliams8064
    @jasminewilliams8064 7 років тому +1332

    Wow that's pretty sad. I understand this 100% because I make 8.50 an hour and I still live with my mom and that's still not enough at all. My prayers go out to her and her son.

    • @rebeccaatkins6299
      @rebeccaatkins6299 7 років тому +10

      Why didn't you plan your life out? If you are a teenager ignore this but if you are over 20 and out of college it is your fault.

    • @jasminewilliams8064
      @jasminewilliams8064 7 років тому +11

      rebeccaatkins_ um I'm 18

    • @rebeccaatkins6299
      @rebeccaatkins6299 7 років тому +1

      Jazzi Williams I said if you are under 20 ignore this.

    • @jasminewilliams8064
      @jasminewilliams8064 7 років тому +38

      rebeccaatkins_ okay well don't reply to my comment then. State your opinion independently please. Otherwise I think your talking about me.

    • @jackiemontrose1279
      @jackiemontrose1279 7 років тому +2

      Jazzi Williams z

  • @angelo8304
    @angelo8304 3 роки тому +3905

    Even after seeing this, I'm sure many would still say "work harder".

  • @rkotitan10
    @rkotitan10 2 роки тому +12

    Reasons like this make me feel better about tax time. You deserve help! You’re a hard worker and keep your head up. Hope everything is better since the video

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому

      She raised 10k in her GoFundMe and is licensed as a CNA. She's doing well!

  • @matteotarantino758
    @matteotarantino758 2 роки тому +16

    Love how this was uploaded 6 years ago and the minimum wage is still the same

  • @tamekamccain5594
    @tamekamccain5594 5 років тому +584

    This girl sounds tired and defeated.. almost to were she has given up.. I pray things get better for her and her son💜

    • @Starfish6
      @Starfish6 4 роки тому +9

      I do too😭😭😭

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 роки тому +22

      Thank you. The more she works, the higher her rent will be. The racist commentators don't understand struggle. She raised 10,000 in her Gofundme. She's trying to finish college. I'm glad you understand.

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 4 роки тому +1

      if god cared, she wouldnt be poor

    • @analisae4233
      @analisae4233 4 роки тому +4

      Spartan 91 like god says the last will be first and the first will be last god sees everything

    • @ilovebeingamomgomez9394
      @ilovebeingamomgomez9394 4 роки тому +2

      Juan Shaft Patel people tend to forget that theres also a devil.....

  • @ahmadx1998
    @ahmadx1998 7 років тому +1817

    God bless her & her son.

    • @mertduman1008
      @mertduman1008 7 років тому +2

      Addie why won't you then lol

    • @Kylejameselmore
      @Kylejameselmore 7 років тому +4

      Ahmad X man there is no god. if there was decent people wouldnt struggle to eat.

    • @ashyy6819
      @ashyy6819 7 років тому +1

      Ahmad X No Need For 1 Like = Prayer. FINALLY

    • @juice.4638
      @juice.4638 7 років тому

      Ahmad X yes right super right

    • @brendianoandlandiano3172
      @brendianoandlandiano3172 7 років тому

      Ahmad X yeah

  • @thomasd9237
    @thomasd9237 Рік тому +7

    Shouldn't be making babies if you cannot afford to take care of them properly

  • @Aly-hk6mg
    @Aly-hk6mg 2 роки тому +5

    its been almost 7 years from when this video was made to today. i hope she is doing better financially, emotionally, mentally, and physically.

  • @nikoflowers1635
    @nikoflowers1635 4 роки тому +328

    The pain in her face and eyes. I pray blessings for her.
    The sad part is this is reality for a lot of individuals in this country.

    • @moisesfrias1117
      @moisesfrias1117 4 роки тому +3

      due to been irresponsable...

    • @stephaniezuniga5835
      @stephaniezuniga5835 4 роки тому

      @@moisesfrias1117 exactly

    • @michaelg7251
      @michaelg7251 4 роки тому

      That's gas from eating Popeye's sandwiches. Mamm!es love thugs and fast food.

    • @tonycash5550
      @tonycash5550 4 роки тому

      May The Lord bless you Safiyyah. I will pray for you sister. I'm glad that you and your sister help each other out every month.

  • @raapo4530
    @raapo4530 7 років тому +681

    "Whenever you feel like criticizing any one...just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had."
    F. Scott Fitzgerald

    • @rebeccadawson5636
      @rebeccadawson5636 7 років тому +1

      That's an amazing quote

    • @raapo4530
      @raapo4530 7 років тому +1

      Its from the great gatsby... i try and remind myself it whenever i see people struggling

    • @thatperson420blyat
      @thatperson420blyat 7 років тому +12

      +True Music why did the bitch get pregnant in the first place. Typical

    • @komalkaur2620
      @komalkaur2620 7 років тому +9

      +Danny Reyes things happens, MISTAKES happened. Why should one mistake make her life that miserable?

    • @wrany72
      @wrany72 7 років тому +4

      I don't know what I think about situations like this. At first you want to criticize and say "don't do this" "don't do that". I have been lucky, but I came from very little. I was also fairly smart, but I worked hard in school and got a doctorate. I'm not sure why some people fail to see the importance of school and others are lifted out by gifts, luck, or opportunity. It's unfornately the reality we live in. If we make it easier to be lazy then more people will be lazy. If we make it harder than we are failing as a society.

  • @southernbeauty36
    @southernbeauty36 Рік тому +4

    I remember living this way for years. I wanted to off myself. Stress on top of stress and people don’t understand why Im so humble and work the way that I do. Scared to go back to living this way. I hope she is doing better now.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 6 місяців тому

      She raised 10k her GoFundMe, she's licensed CNA, and enjoys family time with her son. She's doing well! 🎉😊

  • @zimtheinvaderofficial
    @zimtheinvaderofficial Рік тому +4

    money is the key to happiness

  • @naeemahbadia4266
    @naeemahbadia4266 5 років тому +440

    Aww we went to high school together and she’s so cool and silly, and I I’m happy to say she’s doing a lot better than she was when this cane out

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 5 років тому +30

      Are her parents alive? Why is she not getting any assistance from her family members so that she can try to go to school? I really feel for her and I hope that she can move out of that job to something better.

    • @naeemahbadia4266
      @naeemahbadia4266 4 роки тому +77

      American Creole she has an associate degree, and her mom is Alive but her mom has responsibilities too, everyone’s mom isn’t the same

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 4 роки тому +27

      @@naeemahbadia4266
      Understandable. I know it can be tough without family support. I hope that she continues to move on to bigger and better things.

    • @saucesfc8946
      @saucesfc8946 4 роки тому +7

      wow the american school system is great for spelling

    • @NBA_Z0
      @NBA_Z0 4 роки тому +6

      Why the fuck you lyin? Why you always lyin? Mhmm oh my god! Stop the fuckin lyin!

  • @kstrimm8014
    @kstrimm8014 5 років тому +1464

    The sadness in her eyes is heartbreaking...I wish i could give her a hug and tell her it's going to be OK!!!

    • @tylermccall2584
      @tylermccall2584 4 роки тому +30

      A Mc let’s say she does the udemy course and does find them on sale.... wow she got anther job making 12 bucks a hour😱. Oh shit I lost health care, shit food stamps are gone or practically nothing.... back to the same shit hole again..... gotta love America

    • @kstrimm8014
      @kstrimm8014 4 роки тому +9

      @A Mc well this information is not useful to me...why don't you inform her

    • @killaa1028
      @killaa1028 4 роки тому +39

      A Mc it’s not always the persons fault, you’re clearly too privileged to understand that

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 4 роки тому +5

      Hugs dont help telling ur man to use a condom and her going on birth control helps boo..

    • @killaa1028
      @killaa1028 4 роки тому +12

      Jesus will Judge birth control is dangerous for a lot of women, and you never know she could’ve been using a condom they don’t always work.. and often times people don’t know that they are pregnant until after the fact, you were probably an accident yourself

  • @metallizationofficial980
    @metallizationofficial980 2 роки тому +7

    How could a Billion Dollar Company pay the backbone of there money that low

  • @user-ho9gt3ly6b
    @user-ho9gt3ly6b 2 роки тому +5

    Let's be honest, is McDonald's a place where you expect to make a "living" wage?

    • @penny4thought168
      @penny4thought168 2 роки тому

      It should be.

    • @danielpearse9875
      @danielpearse9875 2 роки тому +1

      It's a place for students and teens to work, not parents.

    • @penny4thought168
      @penny4thought168 2 роки тому

      @@danielpearse9875 If that was the case McDonalds would be closed Monday-Friday from 6-4.

  • @michealthomas2624
    @michealthomas2624 8 років тому +2556

    This is the type of life is where the child will be something big when he grows up or he will be a bum

    • @GreenChica12
      @GreenChica12 8 років тому +86

      Yep, that is so true. It all depends how he is raised at home!

    • @zachsahni7282
      @zachsahni7282 8 років тому +187

      +ymarty1990 All I know is this lady is trying her best :)

    • @YungJhay22
      @YungJhay22 8 років тому +19

      damn... u right asf tho

    • @taylors.2546
      @taylors.2546 8 років тому +4

      +zach sahni Absolutely!

    • @YungJhay22
      @YungJhay22 8 років тому +9

      ***** shut yo bitch ass up

  • @bougelaal
    @bougelaal 4 роки тому +1042

    This is the side of the USA that social media doesn't show... Only Lambos, Palm trees and yachts

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch 3 роки тому +6

      Yes they do

    • @nicoleharrington9086
      @nicoleharrington9086 3 роки тому +16

      Im South African, I thought all Americans are rich.

    • @justsumteennn6778
      @justsumteennn6778 3 роки тому +17

      @@nicoleharrington9086 lol

    • @vinukabest3
      @vinukabest3 3 роки тому +25

      @@nicoleharrington9086 It is like every other country. You have people struggling like this in every nation. Not just the US.

    • @icemike1
      @icemike1 3 роки тому +5

      @@vinukabest3 yeah but every other country's not fronting

  • @kyriakimbler8183
    @kyriakimbler8183 2 роки тому +10

    I struggle time to time making $12 an hour with no kids So I can Only Imagine What she had to endure making $7.50

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому

      Yep. In Philly, too. Poor girl, she's struggled so much. She raised 10k in her GoFundMe, licensed as a CNA, and enjoys spending time with her son.

  • @JohnHernandez-uu1id
    @JohnHernandez-uu1id Рік тому +4

    Make better decisions in life and you don't have to worry about min. wage.
    1) graduate from high school
    2) don't do drugs, which includes marijuana
    3) don't have kids until your married
    4) if you get a min. wage job you can always show up 10 minutes before start time, look professional, work hard and get promoted!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому +1

      Waiting till marriage to have children doesn't mean the father will be involved nor does it mean you will be well off.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому

      The woman in the video studied law school and raised 10k in her GoFundMe and enjoys spending time with her son. She's doing well now. 😌

  • @emmasmith5676
    @emmasmith5676 6 років тому +1564

    She may not live the high life but she has her mind straight for her son so he doesn’t need to struggle,in my book she’s a good person and mother

    • @Jaisee14
      @Jaisee14 6 років тому +18

      She's a good mother but she cannot give him what he needs. She should have put the baby up for adoption so that he could have the life she cannot give him. I was adopted and I am grateful for my parents who gave me the life I knew my parents could not nor did they care enough to do so.

    • @jrkarmagetubih
      @jrkarmagetubih 6 років тому +75

      Your lucky to have been adopted, not every child that goes into that system does.

    • @agramon9940
      @agramon9940 6 років тому +10

      emma smith If she has her mind straight for her child she wouldn't be in that situation. She's lazy and lacks discipline. Words don't mean anything until you put it into action.

    • @PlaceholderDoe123
      @PlaceholderDoe123 6 років тому +5

      +Chris LaVey What I'm wondering is why she doesn't get a second job...

    • @kimberlythunert6968
      @kimberlythunert6968 6 років тому +58

      Chris and Victoria...if she got a second job, who would pay her child care for those hours? And lazy? I see a young mother struggling to do the best she can for her child. Perhaps you're missing the point. NO ONE can live on $7.50 hour!

  • @jasonpeterson5606
    @jasonpeterson5606 5 років тому +1126

    Minimum wage is the modern day legal slave pay.

    • @AmazingStoryDewd
      @AmazingStoryDewd 5 років тому +72

      You're paid what you're worth as they say. If that's true then many people aren't worth shit. Kinda fucked up.

    • @niickio8250
      @niickio8250 5 років тому +32

      James Roscoe not what you’re worth. What your employer believes your work is worth. It’s an agreement made with both sides of the party. A McDonald’s employer has reason to pay a worker $13 for flipping burgers instead of managing the franchise like another might do.

    • @teddyn240
      @teddyn240 5 років тому +29

      I don’t think slaves get paid at all. More like modern day versions of those factory workers from the gilded age.

    • @Jniorcast
      @Jniorcast 5 років тому +9

      It's honestly even worse than traditional slavery. Now they don't even have to worry about feeding or housing their slaves.

    • @teddyn240
      @teddyn240 5 років тому +12

      Mill B Ya, it’s not like slaves were treated literally as property and farm animals. It’s not like these guys have tons of benefits while slaves badly had any possessions at all.

  • @Jaytee1765
    @Jaytee1765 Рік тому +3

    CAN YOU IMAGINE $7.50/hr in 2022? This is criminal.

  • @liam2246
    @liam2246 2 роки тому +8

    It's up to the government to increase minimum wage. In Australia, our minimum wage, for a 22 year old and older, is USD$15 if you are part-time/full time which includes paid leave, sick leave and guaranteed number of hours per week, or USD$20 if you are a casual employee. Both include a bonus 10% on whatever you earn which goes towards your retirement fund. This is all legislation. It's up to the government. Why would McDonalds want to voluntarily pay more money!? They don't gaf about their employees. McDonalds is a business. They want to earn as much profit as possible.

    • @ashotofmercury
      @ashotofmercury 2 роки тому +1

      This! And American's still yap on about it being 'the greatest country in the world!' Erm, compared to where?!..... 🤷🏻‍♀️🙄 Maybe it was in the 1950s, but those days are looooooong gone! 🤨

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Рік тому

      @@ashotofmercury Ah, Jim Crow era.

  • @DJ-rf7up
    @DJ-rf7up 6 років тому +1267

    If this doesn't inspire u to stay in school idk what will

    • @Ammut6
      @Ammut6 6 років тому +71

      White Iverson ues. stay in school and stay in debt.

    • @IronMike-lt6et
      @IronMike-lt6et 6 років тому +81

      White Iverson
      The school system is shit

    • @YourLordship
      @YourLordship 6 років тому +60

      School is for the stupid sheep. Fuck that shit. There's a reason most successful people drop outta college.

    • @narata1541
      @narata1541 6 років тому +64

      A lot of "tough" sounding people saying they don't need school. The lady being interviewed may have had the same views at your age and look at her now.

    • @modelmindedmoniqueerwin899
      @modelmindedmoniqueerwin899 6 років тому +10

      White Iverson how do u know she ain't stay in school?

  • @iamtroll2487
    @iamtroll2487 5 років тому +380

    She looks so exhausted. I feel so bad for her omg

    • @InSaN3ViSioN
      @InSaN3ViSioN 5 років тому +13

      Exhausted working only 16 hours a week. Meanwhile, Elon Musk works over 100 hours a week and is changing our world with 4 revolutionary companies. Says a lot about people's mindsets.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 років тому +17

      @@InSaN3ViSioN Or, she can't work more than that or else her rent will be too high or her son won't have a babysitter. (She can't work weekends, holidays, or without daycare.) Her foodstamps would be cut, leaving her with NO money, and her benefits would be cut. Some people have disadvantages. Doesn't mean they're a bad person. Just saying.

    • @BurningMoonlight
      @BurningMoonlight 5 років тому +3

      Ice Cream Lover At least someone understands.

    • @skip031890
      @skip031890 5 років тому +4

      @@shimmer4771 Thank you for nicely pointing out how welfare, ultimately, does not allow people to progress in life. She's going to be perpetually stuck in a system of poverty if she doesn't make the right choices for her own life. Government assistance is not the answer, but that's all she probably knows; sadly.

    • @rosegoald
      @rosegoald 5 років тому +4

      S3 XY just because she doesn't work alot of hours at her job doesn't mean she can't be exhausted. She's a single mom. Work is never done

  • @manestage5403
    @manestage5403 2 роки тому +3

    She broke my heart because I've been there before. I reflect sometimes and don't even know how I and my son have come far now. 🙌🏾

  • @maddixodaniel5753
    @maddixodaniel5753 Рік тому +2

    This is why my mother always says school is important

  • @NatsuoxOkami
    @NatsuoxOkami 5 років тому +824

    "I'll struggle for him so he doesn't have to struggle for himself."
    "I don't want him to struggle like me and I want him to get a good paying job."
    Those are the most heartwarming things to say. She truly is a good mother, I hope she gets a higher paying job to better support herself and her son.

    • @sofiasalas1336
      @sofiasalas1336 5 років тому +23

      kommisar try living in her shoes

    • @rubenescalante7998
      @rubenescalante7998 5 років тому +6

      @kommisarYou need a reality check!!!!!

    • @vavale13
      @vavale13 5 років тому +13

      I'm sorry Kamisar, but in what Alice in wonderland alike world you are living in? People don't plan to life like this, life wasn't easy on her and if you lived in her shoes for two days you would run to mommy for sure. It's about being brave and giving your best to do everything that is possible due to the situation you're in, and she's doing it, with every single right to complain about what she struggles with in a >interview< made exactly for that

    • @sofiasalas1336
      @sofiasalas1336 5 років тому +6

      kommisar that’s not what I meant stupid. What I meant was people weren’t expecting to live like this and for you to say that is disrespectful is an awful human being. So shut your mouth and remember this. Ps making a homemade food is over her budget

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 років тому +3

      @@vavale13 Thank you! Someone who gets it! She's doing better now, she raised money and trying to find another job. She seems to be having a little trouble finding a place.

  • @grubhubguy9629
    @grubhubguy9629 7 років тому +266

    This woman chooses to get pregnant with a dead beat whose in jail, and is complaining about her living situation? Sorry, you made your bed, now you gotta sleep it. And before you attack me, saying I'm a privileged white man... Listen to this.
    Grew up dirt poor. Had no one but my parents. Both my parents worked retail jobs at the mall. They always told me to study hard and stay in school, to stay away from drugs and make friends with the right people. I listened to EVERYTHING they told, and I'm glad I did.
    When I got old enough, I started working to help my parents out with bills. We couldn't afford a car, so we took the bus everywhere. I used to stay up until 3a.m doing homework and sleep about 4 hours. High school was hell for me, but I was the first in my family to graduate.
    Couldn't afford university, so I went to my local community college. Fell in love with Biology and decided to pursue a career as a Registered Nurse. Took me 5 - almost 6 years to complete my Associates Degree because I had to work 2 jobs just to support myself and my parents. Now, after 26 years of busting my ass, it's all paid off.
    Currently a Registered Nurse, making close to 70k a year. Saving money to attend university and complete my BS to further my career. Nothing was handed to me. I worked my ass off for everything.
    It pisses me off when people like this woman here, who makes all these shitty choices, then expect other hard working people to help them out because they're too damn lazy to get an education. I grew up with nothing. Now look at me. I started from the bottom. You make the bed you sleep in. Listen to parents. Stay in school. Don't have kids until you have a career. And don't expect people to hand you anything.

    • @spookyshark29
      @spookyshark29 7 років тому +1

      I'm 20 an I'm self employed

    • @spookyshark29
      @spookyshark29 7 років тому +1

      College Dropout

    • @wanyasmith2443
      @wanyasmith2443 7 років тому +2

      +Napoleon that's what I'm saying a little, why are you putting your life on the internet like people care about your mistakes on life, LOSER!!!!

    • @datboidego
      @datboidego 7 років тому +9

      good for you son. this makes you immortal and it also let's you have superpowers.

    • @IBZI7
      @IBZI7 7 років тому +51

      Careful with trying to motivate people on UA-cam , they will send you death threats. I liked your story though.

  • @helenapereira8547
    @helenapereira8547 Рік тому +2

    I also told the dentist to pull one tooth out because I couldn't afford the treatment 😞

  • @reposter6434
    @reposter6434 2 роки тому +17

    Mad how I'm only 18 and get paid more than this woman, makes you think about life more.

    • @lmd1034
      @lmd1034 2 роки тому +1

      When this came out she was making more than you and she probably does to this day now

    • @mohawk4759
      @mohawk4759 2 роки тому

      @@lmd1034 what

    • @wallyy6223
      @wallyy6223 2 роки тому +1

      inflation

    • @BigBoiTurboslav
      @BigBoiTurboslav 2 роки тому

      Lmao I get paid half of this woman, why is she complaining

    • @monicawilson8075
      @monicawilson8075 2 роки тому +1

      @@BigBoiTurboslav doing what and what region of the world.

  • @amberndavid53
    @amberndavid53 6 років тому +872

    She's a Good Mom, I hope everything works out for her. God bless Her in every which way possible.

    • @acrossgames4347
      @acrossgames4347 6 років тому

      Amber Alegria Amen

    • @dogdoggman4971
      @dogdoggman4971 6 років тому +19

      Amber Alegria single moms are not good moms.

    • @dk-vo3tr
      @dk-vo3tr 6 років тому +8

      dog doggman just as bad as the one that raised you.

    • @chergilles
      @chergilles 6 років тому +5

      dog doggman lol what?
      What if the father died?

    • @nickobrien2478
      @nickobrien2478 6 років тому +13

      not really, she has a baby by a criminal and is a societal leech

  • @AshzxQuidYT
    @AshzxQuidYT 4 роки тому +234

    This video was 7 min long but it felt like 7 hours, my heart breaks for her. By sharing her story I know she’s got to be in a better place financially. God bless you wherever you are!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 роки тому +9

      She raised 13,000 in her Gofundme. She's trying to finish school or get a better job. She really is working her hardest to make a better life.

    • @aparnapolisetty9571
      @aparnapolisetty9571 4 роки тому +1

      Hi
      Can you share her go fund me page

    • @fixmepainreliefyogamhac4563
      @fixmepainreliefyogamhac4563 2 роки тому

      I hope the GoFundMe is in someone else's name or something
      They can take insurance or assistance away

  • @robloxglowiee4315
    @robloxglowiee4315 2 роки тому +6

    Shame there are millions just like her. If I see anyone struggling like this I want to help and make difference to their life.

  • @lovefashion4373
    @lovefashion4373 Рік тому +2

    She is a wonderful soul. We need better support systems for single mothers/fathers

  • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
    @JaneDoe-cy3nc 8 років тому +2450

    The fact that people are judging this women is beyond me. Put yourself in her shoes. No one wants to live like that, what if one day you find yourself in her shoes cause something terrible happens? Don't say "That would never happen to me" because life is so, so unpredictable say "I hope to never find myself in this situation." I pray for nothing but better for this lady and her son.

    • @jrenae4057
      @jrenae4057 8 років тому +26

      Exactly!!!

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 8 років тому +76

      Nobody's stopping her from changing her life. There's only about a billion different scholarships and grants available to low income single mothers. She's working 16 hours a week, she could easily find a second job or go to school.

    • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
      @JaneDoe-cy3nc 8 років тому +14

      +VegasGirl35 all we know is a 6:42 video about this women. If it was more in depth and it came to light she was just doing this cause she wanted to, then I would say maybe you should try a little harder for a better life for you and and your son.

    • @oo-eu6qz
      @oo-eu6qz 8 років тому +41

      Why would you allow yourself to become pregnant to include another life into your shitty one? People like this deserve SHAME!

    • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
      @JaneDoe-cy3nc 8 років тому +48

      +o¿o no, they do not. Shame on you for saying that! Like I said, you don't know her story and even so she had her son and she is doing what she can for him. Let her be and if you have a better life be thankful.

  • @normatobias328
    @normatobias328 4 роки тому +859

    That's why I open a daycare where I charge you according to what the parents can afford because some moms have it really tuff

  • @jacksonowens8216
    @jacksonowens8216 2 роки тому +4

    That’s why you have to be grateful for even the smallest things in life

    • @vmobile890
      @vmobile890 2 роки тому

      Always live in a trailer in a nice safe nice community with elders .Always stayed on a budget and bought cheapest nice things worked as good as expensive things . Life has and is rewarding and good . Moved to nice trailer park in upscale town with expensive homes very low crime . Plenty of stores close no shortage of food nice people .

  • @matthewsisk
    @matthewsisk 2 роки тому +2

    I respect that she’s trying her best and making the effort to work.

  • @Dreaming875
    @Dreaming875 5 років тому +180

    Awe she looked so depressed :/

    • @mimineabdou7852
      @mimineabdou7852 5 років тому +6

      Mel takes on the world so Tired

    • @Dreaming875
      @Dreaming875 5 років тому +1

      Mimine Abdou that too :(

    • @jspurs22
      @jspurs22 5 років тому +4

      But she pick to be with an idiot who made her depressed

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 років тому +9

      @@jspurs22 There's nothing she can do about her past mistakes, all she can do is try to do better now. There's no going back. But, she's working, taking care of her son, and doing it all on her own. She's not a bad person, so stop judging her. You aren't in her position. Not everyone is going to technical college, as mentioned. But, does that mean she shouldn't be able to make a good life for herself? Should she work like a slave? Should her son suffer. Bottom line, people shouldn't be punished for mistakes. They still have to survive.

    • @iamdavid2372
      @iamdavid2372 5 років тому

      Roblox Player 2013 What the, kind of comment is this, how hateful Look ur 7 years old and u shouldn't discriminate at such a young age. Ppl of all ages and diversity shouldnt discriminate in general so pls love all and not hate because of color

  • @scooters47
    @scooters47 5 років тому +751

    America we can't be proud of the way we treat our citizen's. $7.50 an hour 16 hours a week how the hell does she survive and our priority is giving the super rich a huge tax break.

    • @Casinodemedici
      @Casinodemedici 5 років тому

      Catch Amazon

    • @bigmeatyclawzz
      @bigmeatyclawzz 5 років тому +43

      @Teddy James you tried to blame feminism, a movement created by women who want equal treatment as men receive, on the reason why america has wage shortages. pure comedy.

    • @bigmeatyclawzz
      @bigmeatyclawzz 5 років тому +17

      @Teddy James then you could've said women, not fucking feminism LMAO

    • @shreksboyfriend2572
      @shreksboyfriend2572 5 років тому +6

      Why cant she work 8hours a day?

    • @sh0rtyb0yp1mp
      @sh0rtyb0yp1mp 5 років тому +9

      sh0rtyb0yp1mp
      1 second ago
      minimum wage is for kids going to college until they are done and are able to get a better job , it is not ment to raise a family , this is why we must show our kids that they need to better them selves before starting a family , be able to pay for child care , food , rent , and insurance , if not you fall into this type of situation on foodstamps housing assistance childs assistance , and once you fall in its is one of the hardest things to come out of it could take generations or never happen, but the youth doesnt listen as didnt i and had to learned the hard way ,

  • @crellercorps
    @crellercorps 11 днів тому +1

    Wizzair flight attendants: Am I a joke to you?

  • @Bluebaby422
    @Bluebaby422 8 місяців тому +2

    I pray she’s doing better today 😭

  • @GeeLeslie
    @GeeLeslie 5 років тому +1292

    Yall want to exploit her struggles but did yall help her?

    • @eledesma5478
      @eledesma5478 5 років тому +20

      The Notorious TG hold the fuck up This Leslie person has a point so shut your crusty-ass mouth with all your crusty-ass vibes🤪

    • @eledesma5478
      @eledesma5478 5 років тому

      The Notorious TG they would donate. No shit sherlock👌

    • @GeeLeslie
      @GeeLeslie 5 років тому +10

      The Notorious TG damn i feel sorry for whoever raised you, ik they did better than that 😂

    • @tghamd9327
      @tghamd9327 5 років тому +1

      pSyChobUns ;c lol y’all still didn’t answer my question

    • @momoblue1691
      @momoblue1691 5 років тому +2

      why not just keep sharing the videos, so people can learn ?

  • @cocokissas4359
    @cocokissas4359 5 років тому +284

    Damn I felt that! "I'll wear the struggle so he can live."😭😭😭

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 роки тому +10

      Black women gotta stand strong as no one else cares for our struggles! 💯

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 роки тому +11

      She raised 13,000 in her Gofundme. She also has an Associate's degree. 😄

    • @nickabbott319
      @nickabbott319 4 роки тому

      Princess Emerald you a black women too,ohh

    • @TheColumbiakid
      @TheColumbiakid 4 роки тому +3

      Yall gotta stop fucking with losers. Dudes with no future no skills just want to sell drugs

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 роки тому +2

      @@TheColumbiakid i kmow for a fact no woman or man wants to struggle. You have to remember that women aren't meant to work hard jobs, we're not like men... nor are we built like them. No woman plans on being a single mother. Trust me, most women choose a man thinking he's a good one and then he leaves/ abusive. How about we teach women to choose good men and men how to treat a woman? No man who doesn't respect women will get respected. I can promise you that.

  • @user-xg4td3gg7e
    @user-xg4td3gg7e Місяць тому +1

    ‘To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all’ - Oscar Wilde

  • @MTTT19
    @MTTT19 2 роки тому +5

    Whenever someone says that the minimum wage rate is fine and enough for people to live off, this just proves how wrong they are.

    • @vanillapinkfluff3477
      @vanillapinkfluff3477 2 роки тому

      It's depressing the way the money and work force operates.

    • @giggoty4926
      @giggoty4926 2 роки тому +1

      shes alive has a place to live and clearly able to feed herself and her kid. thats more then a ton of people get

    • @robertmasina4610
      @robertmasina4610 2 роки тому

      @Matt Thornton. The way to get to a "livable wage" job is for one to graduate high school and after that get an education or learn a job skill.

  • @opinionated
    @opinionated 8 років тому +834

    She seems so tired and depressed. I can't wait for her to have a success story.

    • @kinglongdong9820
      @kinglongdong9820 8 років тому +30

      That or she blows her brains out.

    • @vannagonzalez7690
      @vannagonzalez7690 8 років тому +8

      +KingLongDong Jesus Christ!!! smh

    • @poppyseed1000
      @poppyseed1000 8 років тому +28

      You're right. People don't want to talk about it, maybe it crosses the line into the subject of mental illness but so many people commit suicide because their financial situations make them feel like there is no other way out. It's a shame, all that wasted potential.

    • @elu5334
      @elu5334 8 років тому +2

      She probably on some drug 2 calm her down

    • @yourstruly_777
      @yourstruly_777 8 років тому +10

      I agree, msleilani15. I though she seems so defeated. I'm sure she's quite depressed about her situation, and thats understandable, but she keeps on pushing.

  • @JessicaGail
    @JessicaGail 3 роки тому +1897

    She said she makes $230-$240 every TWO weeks. That’s $115-$120 per week... And $436 per month. Oh my god. I made that at my first job at a grocery store and I can attest to the fact that it’s nothing. I didn’t even have bills at the time, I just lived at home. I can’t imagine the stress of trying to support yourself and a child on this amount of pay. Our system is so broken and it breaks my heart. I hope they paid her well for this interview and I hope she and her child are doing better now. I wish we could get an update. Also social programs are a lifesaver, we need more of them in this country.

    • @FlansyLinny
      @FlansyLinny 3 роки тому +40

      I didn't even know places gave that little of hours even at part time. At the very least she could find a job paying a little more, even $10 an hour isn't hard to find and would increase her income a lot.

    • @Faeborn
      @Faeborn 3 роки тому +19

      And I thought 1600 a week was very little

    • @GLAMZARAM
      @GLAMZARAM 3 роки тому +42

      Minimum skill minimum wage

    • @Faeborn
      @Faeborn 3 роки тому +3

      @Arrow Right 🤣 I make 1600 and my husband makes the same. So 3200 a week.

    • @mayymayy6822
      @mayymayy6822 3 роки тому +10

      @@FlansyLinny this video was shot 5 years ago. No one was paying minimum wage at 10 an hour

  • @longlongsmart9351
    @longlongsmart9351 2 роки тому +2

    Can someone explain for me why her income were 7.50 bucks an hour, but she only make 240 bucks for every two weeks ? Is it a part time job?

  • @thehollyannrose
    @thehollyannrose 2 роки тому +7

    I still don’t understand why Medicaid doesn’t have better dental benefits. I used to have it and they wouldn’t even deep clean my teeth when they were coated in plaque from years without cleanings or help cover the cost of a crown when I fractured my tooth!! 🥺🥺

    • @GTAIVisbest
      @GTAIVisbest 2 роки тому

      I can't cope over our healthcare system anymore. I keep trying to cope and say "well, it's not so bad, you just have to keep your max yearly OOP in an HSA and.... and...." before I remember a max yearly OOP is like $4,000 and most people live on federal minimum wage paycheque to paycheque. Goddamn it