the real drama is watching this dude in the background get slapped by a baby zombie to one heart, only eat potatos, heal to 2 and call it "Good enough" and get back to building in the dark.. b r u h
@Burritofan his family were "late" so they just didn't show? His friends "forgot" so they just didn't show? His fiancee's BFF was in "crisis" so they just didn't show? And NONE OF THEM called him or texted him or emailed him. They're like... oh, he'll be mad so we'll wait. BS He's too trusting and forgiving.
He's the kinda guy whose next update will be "Hey guys, I'm leaving my house for today because my wife's boyfriend is coming over, but it's okay, because she says it's not physical or emotional and I believe her since she pinky-swore and called my parents to let them know!"
2nd story. Fiance doesn't realize where he is on the importance list. He's not in the top 3 and i would look closely at his fiance. Really look hard at her. A woman doesn't just forget unless the man isn't in her top 3.
2nd story, phd op is stupid as a bag of rocks. Move on from those people op, they don’t give a F about you. Find your people who love and support you. If my significant other was getting a phd, I would never miss it. My toxic friend can kick rocks!
Dude with the PhD really going out of his way to defend his fiancée and absolve her completely for blowing off his big day to spend the ENTIRE DAY with her overdramatic friend in the hospital. Especially when the day could have been halved and she attend both things-and only when she realized how much trouble she was in with him did she call him and give these lame excuses and he totally bought it (because he wants to gaslight himself right along with her). Face it dude, she didn’t even want go because it bored her too much and any excuse was good enough to dodge it. You sound like a paycheck and security deposit for her more than anything. Get used to always being put last because you aren’t important enough to her to warrant putting herself out for. She just doesn’t want to lose her meal ticket.
His bar is low because his parents are human garbage, so having a GF who is absurdly people pleasing with her dogshit friend doesn't feel as disrespectful when you've had a lifetime of neglect and no love whatsoever from the people who brought you into the world.
ST1 Record any interaction he may have from the mother, father or his ex, go to hr or someone high up at the company and explain that he’s uncomfortable that his ex-gf mother may have some power over him at the company and because of his recent break up and the parents behaviour including the ex gf’s dad threatening him that he’s worried the dad might tell the mother to harass or do something that could impact OP’s work and that op is requesting either the mother is moved away so she doesn’t interact with op or that op is moved away from her and op needs to look into getting a lawyer.
Sooo was she trying to get pregnant?? I’m also confused why he didn’t break up with her when she kept pushing for no condoms , like the red flag was literally suffocating his ahh 💀.
Story 2: It all seems quite the "coinsidence" that everybody he invited had some kind of convenient excuse on why they didn't bother showing up to his defence all on that exact day. OP of story 2 seems to be the type who would blindly believe anything as well, hence why none of his friends, family or even his fiancee respects him.
2nd story: Had a similar thing happen to me with my graduation. Evrryone had very legit excuses and I was giving apologies and a party in my honor. But it still hurts sometimes, i can still remember the disappointment i felt during it. Apologies and partys numb it, but its never really gone.
Story 2: leave the fiancee she is not loyal to you and gives priority to a friend instead of you. She is weak. She is gaslighting you. You will regret marrying you. She is easily swayed. Your family is toxic and could not be bothered. Your friends don’t consider you important enough. Everyone who knows you are gaslighting you. Again - do not marry her and find a better spine than the one you have now, better yet - grow a titanium one, otherwise they will keep doing this to you. You are too conciliatory. Your fiancée does not deserve you. She will marry you for prestige and money.
About second story... Doormat, naive, this peoples don't give a shit about him, they didn't even send a text message or something, his fiancée could call him or something maybe even telling him the reason before. The bestman is a jerk, i would still have him invited to the wedding but not as a bestman anymore, his family just don't care enough about him and he's too dumb to see that, and screw all the friends, even the one who was really sick because he could at least tell OP why he didn't come. I would never talk with these peoples again even if i know it's a petty thing to do, also if i still talking with them i would never show up at time or even go to their events, and if they complain i would say: "Why should i bother? As you couldn't show up at mine, i couldn't to yours. It's a normal thing right? :)." That's it.
Story 2: i would have been a brat and wouldn't invite anyone except the fiance and people who came from the last list and new friends invited instead but just for one party
s1; Talk to your boss, your family, and the police warning them of the psycho family and ex. get it documented that you were threatened and want it written down for safety sake.
Within seconds of listening to story 1 I was screaming for OP to run and get the hell away from her! Story 2 makes me sad...I wish he had followed through with his original plan. He deserves better than all of them.
S1: NTA. Of course covid deniers would have a daughter like this. Record every interaction. S2: NTA. You mean to tell me the fiance couldn't take a minute to call or text?! S3: NTA. Always get screenshots.
1st story: this is why irresponsible people like Opie and his girlfriend do not need to have sex. They want to do adult things but don't want to deal with the adult consequences of situations like this.
o hell no im just 2:27 in and omg get out of there fast just run! She didnt defend you at all she and her perants and goin to land you in jail get out get out now.
OK I need close on story one does anyone know if there was a final update I can't find it on reddit 6 years ago I was falsely accused and it was he'll for 18 months the only reason I'm not doing weekends in the electric chair was because she told the Ada before he convened a grand jury that she made it up so her parents wouldn't beat her and chain her to a radiator until she was 25 we were 17 at the time and both her parents were mentally ill then turned evangical Christian
4 місяці тому
A veces escucho cosas en estas historias de reddit que me hacen cuestionar me los problemas, el egocentrismo y la falta de capacidad empática de la humanidad. Luego recuerdo quela mayoría de estas historias ocurren en estados unido y quienes opinan son estadounidenses también y se me pasa. La gente de ese país es extremadamente rara. Como la gente que opinaba en la segunda historia que op no tenía derecho a enojarse porque nadie tenía obligación de ir. Claro me gustaría ver lo contento que estas la próxima vez que tenga una cosa importante sucediendo en tu vida y tengas el deseo de que la gente que amas y te importa este con vos. Todos te digan seee y no aparezca nadie, ah! y que luego haya silencio de radio. me encantaría ver como te sientes en ese momento
Anecdotal, but after the emergency contraceptive my own relationship went downhill fast too. But it was a result of breakage, so a genuine accident; wish it never happened or I handled it differently.
the real drama is watching this dude in the background get slapped by a baby zombie to one heart, only eat potatos, heal to 2 and call it "Good enough" and get back to building in the dark.. b r u h
Ong bro i was holding back urges to punch my phone 💀💀
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I don't have even a basic appreciation for video games, and still **i** felt that b r u h 😂
@@LMCorvinus fr bruh
@@SecretVoices25are you playing in background or who's video is that?
For someone who is a PhD... dude is a little trusting.
Literally NO ONE showed up, and EVERYONE had a valid excuse, and he just accepts that? Poor guy
Yeah I didn’t like how he was all “the fiance didn’t need to do that” fuck yes she did.
@Burritofan his family were "late" so they just didn't show? His friends "forgot" so they just didn't show? His fiancee's BFF was in "crisis" so they just didn't show? And NONE OF THEM called him or texted him or emailed him. They're like... oh, he'll be mad so we'll wait. BS
He's too trusting and forgiving.
yeah... he got played and is rolling with it. took me years to realize I was that chump also.
They definitely lied
He's the kinda guy whose next update will be "Hey guys, I'm leaving my house for today because my wife's boyfriend is coming over, but it's okay, because she says it's not physical or emotional and I believe her since she pinky-swore and called my parents to let them know!"
Mostly just the usual drama, but story #2... OP is getting his Ph.D. That's fucking awesome. Well done, OP.
@@Shadriand yeah, I went to my friend's defense and this was stated in the beginning
He should've go LC with everyone and broke up with the girlfriend
@@lastofadyingbreed4850 I'm glad that I don't have to do a dissertation once I get my MD.
@@Shadriand I have never heard of anyone defending their Ph.D. To earn a Ph.D. one has to defend their dissertation.
2nd story. Fiance doesn't realize where he is on the importance list. He's not in the top 3 and i would look closely at his fiance. Really look hard at her. A woman doesn't just forget unless the man isn't in her top 3.
op is a real doormat accepting the fiancé excuse and his friends
S2 - these are some BS friends. Blackout? Pleaaase. And the family's lame excuse about their inability to be on time is just so very sad.
the first story is absolutely awful, those people are all terrible. that's such a pile of red flags, it's a straight up celebration at the Kremlin
You sound like you wear a mask while driving
First story not even half way through and i am saying RUN OP!
I'm jot even 1/4 way through, girls a headcase, she is fully messing and manipulating him, and from the title she's only going to get worse
I'm like 2 minutes and 40 seconds in and I'm just like bro run
Sounds like fiances gf knew what she was doing by keeping her at the hospital all day. She's jealous of gf and fiance stealing her away.
2nd story, phd op is stupid as a bag of rocks. Move on from those people op, they don’t give a F about you. Find your people who love and support you. If my significant other was getting a phd, I would never miss it. My toxic friend can kick rocks!
Story 2 is just sad! Life needs to hit him with some common sense.😢
Dude with the PhD really going out of his way to defend his fiancée and absolve her completely for blowing off his big day to spend the ENTIRE DAY with her overdramatic friend in the hospital. Especially when the day could have been halved and she attend both things-and only when she realized how much trouble she was in with him did she call him and give these lame excuses and he totally bought it (because he wants to gaslight himself right along with her). Face it dude, she didn’t even want go because it bored her too much and any excuse was good enough to dodge it. You sound like a paycheck and security deposit for her more than anything. Get used to always being put last because you aren’t important enough to her to warrant putting herself out for. She just doesn’t want to lose her meal ticket.
Everyone around the op is shit.
His bar is low because his parents are human garbage, so having a GF who is absurdly people pleasing with her dogshit friend doesn't feel as disrespectful when you've had a lifetime of neglect and no love whatsoever from the people who brought you into the world.
Story 2 the guy is a door mat he's spent a decade for this and nobody showed up cut everyone out and go his own way
ST1
Record any interaction he may have from the mother, father or his ex, go to hr or someone high up at the company and explain that he’s uncomfortable that his ex-gf mother may have some power over him at the company and because of his recent break up and the parents behaviour including the ex gf’s dad threatening him that he’s worried the dad might tell the mother to harass or do something that could impact OP’s work and that op is requesting either the mother is moved away so she doesn’t interact with op or that op is moved away from her and op needs to look into getting a lawyer.
Sooo was she trying to get pregnant?? I’m also confused why he didn’t break up with her when she kept pushing for no condoms , like the red flag was literally suffocating his ahh 💀.
Story #2, everyone is full of crap. Amazing how many coincidences there were.
Story 2: I wouldn't marry her, just saying
Story 2: It all seems quite the "coinsidence" that everybody he invited had some kind of convenient excuse on why they didn't bother showing up to his defence all on that exact day.
OP of story 2 seems to be the type who would blindly believe anything as well, hence why none of his friends, family or even his fiancee respects him.
2nd story: Had a similar thing happen to me with my graduation. Evrryone had very legit excuses and I was giving apologies and a party in my honor.
But it still hurts sometimes, i can still remember the disappointment i felt during it. Apologies and partys numb it, but its never really gone.
Eating raw potatoes while having cooked pork...
Saw too
Story 2: leave the fiancee she is not loyal to you and gives priority to a friend instead of you. She is weak.
She is gaslighting you. You will regret marrying you. She is easily swayed. Your family is toxic and could not be bothered. Your friends don’t consider you important enough. Everyone who knows you are gaslighting you. Again - do not marry her and find a better spine than the one you have now, better yet - grow a titanium one, otherwise they will keep doing this to you. You are too conciliatory. Your fiancée does not deserve you. She will marry you for prestige and money.
That baby zombie was hilarious
I couldnt even pay attention to the 2nd story, BRO EAT THE FOOD AND HEAL
Fr and using logs in the furnace instead of planks
About second story... Doormat, naive, this peoples don't give a shit about him, they didn't even send a text message or something, his fiancée could call him or something maybe even telling him the reason before. The bestman is a jerk, i would still have him invited to the wedding but not as a bestman anymore, his family just don't care enough about him and he's too dumb to see that, and screw all the friends, even the one who was really sick because he could at least tell OP why he didn't come. I would never talk with these peoples again even if i know it's a petty thing to do, also if i still talking with them i would never show up at time or even go to their events, and if they complain i would say: "Why should i bother? As you couldn't show up at mine, i couldn't to yours. It's a normal thing right? :)." That's it.
S2: EVeryone conveniently had a "valid" excuse on the exact friday sounds fishy
S2 How can a person with a phd be so gullible
Book smart isn't the same as common sense or street smarts
Story 2: i would have been a brat and wouldn't invite anyone except the fiance and people who came from the last list and new friends invited instead but just for one party
s1; Talk to your boss, your family, and the police warning them of the psycho family and ex. get it documented that you were threatened and want it written down for safety sake.
Story 3 this is the best way to deal with a cheating partner. Go full Danny phantom and go 👻 . No closure no drama. Just straight 👻
2nd story: congratulations on your Ph.D
Within seconds of listening to story 1 I was screaming for OP to run and get the hell away from her!
Story 2 makes me sad...I wish he had followed through with his original plan. He deserves better than all of them.
S1: NTA. Of course covid deniers would have a daughter like this. Record every interaction.
S2: NTA. You mean to tell me the fiance couldn't take a minute to call or text?!
S3: NTA. Always get screenshots.
Run OP RUN!! She is psycho
The cheating is the closure
That minecraft farm should be considered a crime😭
1st story: this is why irresponsible people like Opie and his girlfriend do not need to have sex.
They want to do adult things but don't want to deal with the adult consequences of situations like this.
First story is just bait.
The things young men tolerate for some zex...
Sounds like someone fibbed about their girlfriends age.
The censorship of the work sex makes it sound like “ass sex”
o hell no im just 2:27 in and omg get out of there fast just run! She didnt defend you at all she and her perants and goin to land you in jail get out get out now.
Story1... He's weak just dump her
Im sorry but the minecraft builder in the background had a sword and used the axe while being attacked by a mini zombie...fam
OK I need close on story one does anyone know if there was a final update I can't find it on reddit 6 years ago I was falsely accused and it was he'll for 18 months the only reason I'm not doing weekends in the electric chair was because she told the Ada before he convened a grand jury that she made it up so her parents wouldn't beat her and chain her to a radiator until she was 25 we were 17 at the time and both her parents were mentally ill then turned evangical Christian
A veces escucho cosas en estas historias de reddit que me hacen cuestionar me los problemas, el egocentrismo y la falta de capacidad empática de la humanidad. Luego recuerdo quela mayoría de estas historias ocurren en estados unido y quienes opinan son estadounidenses también y se me pasa. La gente de ese país es extremadamente rara.
Como la gente que opinaba en la segunda historia que op no tenía derecho a enojarse porque nadie tenía obligación de ir. Claro me gustaría ver lo contento que estas la próxima vez que tenga una cosa importante sucediendo en tu vida y tengas el deseo de que la gente que amas y te importa este con vos. Todos te digan seee y no aparezca nadie, ah! y que luego haya silencio de radio. me encantaría ver como te sientes en ese momento
I wish these translations could figure out live, and read.
She is 21 and still lives with mum and dad 🤦 crazy red flag
clickbait nonsense, grow up
Shut up
It's frightening how stupid story one's parents are but honestly the whole family is off their rocker
Anecdotal, but after the emergency contraceptive my own relationship went downhill fast too. But it was a result of breakage, so a genuine accident; wish it never happened or I handled it differently.