Practicing mindfulness, cognitive restructuring, and self-compassion can help you escape manipulative tactics and regain control of your emotions. I love this !
This is like a comprehensive list of training yourself to Expertly deal with Narcissists. If you are here, its because you are highly empathic, and one of the biggest parts of your journey is learning to establish firm boundaries. I will suggest "grey rock" as a good place to start. Have an awesome day.
I held her accountable for abandoning me when I was young and she hated it and sent her fly monkeys 😂😂😂😂. The Golden child son is a bottomless pit with a drug head who has never held down a job and she has never held him accountable for anything, The invisible child is still seeking her validation till date and never getting it and very codependent on her and men and she too became the covert narcissist. This 3 people are their own worse enemies and when they came for me , it's because I am the first to have ever held the narc accountable as everyone beside her refused to hold her accountable
This video provides essential tactics rooted in Stoicism for managing narcissistic individuals. A must-watch for anyone dealing with challenging personalities and seeking empowerment.
Thank You, these tactics have warded off narcissistic individuals and as a result they stopped showing up in my life and email. A wonderful freedom was experienced and I also became more quickly aware of predatory narcissists. These tools are life and happiness savings.
IMHO, good stuff These creatures are a natural product of the distribution of personality types you can encounter, anywhere. They are adults raised as abused children, looking for a weak personality type to feel superior to, so that they can feel all good about themselves. When they are effectively isolated and exposed by a sufficient quantity normal persons, they eventually break down because social isolation is more powerful than narcissism. Opinions ?
@@rodriguez5117. Here’s a couple possibilities: 1). These days, we have easy access to tons of truthful information and instruction; 2). difficult circumstances/situations, also, can motivate us to seek knowledge and understanding in hopes of lessening our struggles and easing suffering, don’t ya think? 😊
I wish I had learned stoicism many years ago because I have learned to focus on myself over family and other's witch has helped me me focus on myself not to be selfish but I need to work on myself other than helping others. I'm not being selfish but I need to help myself..
Thank you for sharing. It's amazing how timeless and relevant Stoic wisdom can be, no matter when we encounter it. The important thing is that you're gaining this valuable insight now, and it's never too late to apply it to your life. If you're interested in exploring more about Stoic strategies for dealing with difficult people, including narcissists, my UA-cam channel, Live Kindly, covers similar topics. Feel free to check it out for more insights and support. Wishing you all the best on your journey!
I never reacted for 24 years living with the narcissist until the other day. I have to bring out what I'd been keeping for a long time. He was shocked. He didn't expect me to blow up. I'm glad I did. I brought up the 24 years I'd been keeping in my chest. I set up boundaries firmly, and I warned him not to do it again, otherwise. He will be exposed everywhere. The bastard is a demon, but I will no longer tolerate the coward.
Wow.. I was with a narcissist for 3 years, I escaped in a really bad way but I learnt a lot about this type of personality. I met one a couple of months ago and he was so nice to begin but I saw the red flags early and kept my distance. Right enough, after only 1-2 weeks chaos ensued. Leaving on my own on my birthday, walking out, dumping things at my door, calling me mad, I lost my mind, your not a psychiatrist? Nasty words and accusations, said I annoyed him even when I was only nice to him and understanding. It was just awful. I tried to get away but he kept getting me back. A couple of days ago, I confronted him head on, told him what I thought really firmly. Told him to delete my number and that we can not remain friends. I believe he will pop up again at some point and will now be playing the silence. I lost all trust very fast. One huge red flag in the beginning was how he was adamant that I should put my full trust in him and he asked a lot of personal questions very fast. He was gaining ammunition against me and this is not normal. Also lack of empathy. Everything was so clear, gaslighting too, trying to make me question my own mental health. Just pure evil!
They have only 1 purpose; to satisfy their pitiful ego… So glad that you escaped the trap(s), and were not deceived by their attempts to Capture, manipulate and exploit❣️God bless you, friend.
What you said makes a lot of sense but I'm not going to put myself out there for therapists and all that stuff for somebody who absolutely is insecure with their own selves I've also learned from this how to deal with them but also know not to deal with another one at this point I really don't care for them anymore I have no time for their problems or issues the focus is on me I did what I could do for them they didn't appreciate it so I got to keep it moving and I'm glad I've gotten to this point where I don't even care what they do or how they do it😊🥰😉🙏💪👏💯😌
At the stage of realising you are with a narcissist it is time to leave. Ok, creating an exit might be advisable but all the stoic work will have few gains towards that end and may provoke an angry temperamental nasty even more?
I told my narcissistic ex-husband I was leaving him,months before I physically left, but I had already shut down emotionally and mentally almost 2yrs before.I had mastered keeping quiet through all his tantrums, which he misread as a sign I had eventually caved in,but I was busy buying furniture for my new home.He literally saw the movers on the day I left with the kids. Tantrums got worse,I kept my cool through all the name calling and drove off. Point is,start practicing your inner control while you're with them,they'll think you finally know "your place". I took mine a step a bit far and love it for my peace.I never engage with him, except when it's about the kids,even that,only texts apply (remember they know which voice tone will trigger you). I can meet him at school events, I ignore and it has brought me so much peace.Hes the one going around telling people I'm a horrible person,for I never give him any attention, even during the divorce he kept bringing it up. Now he knows, he doesn't exist in my world and he can't do anything about it. All the best moving forward,only God controls our well being.
Just pack your bag, get in your car , and drive away. Thibk yourself fortunate to get away. Be at peace away from them . End of story. There is no negotiating with that type of nature.
Practicing mindfulness, cognitive restructuring, and self-compassion can help you escape manipulative tactics and regain control of your emotions. I love this !
These videos are especially important at a time when psychological insight is devalued or ignored. Thx!
This is like a comprehensive list of training yourself to Expertly deal with Narcissists.
If you are here, its because you are highly empathic, and one of the biggest parts of your journey is learning to establish firm boundaries.
I will suggest "grey rock" as a good place to start. Have an awesome day.
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Very Interesting sir
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I held her accountable for abandoning me when I was young and she hated it and sent her fly monkeys 😂😂😂😂. The Golden child son is a bottomless pit with a drug head who has never held down a job and she has never held him accountable for anything, The invisible child is still seeking her validation till date and never getting it and very codependent on her and men and she too became the covert narcissist. This 3 people are their own worse enemies and when they came for me , it's because I am the first to have ever held the narc accountable as everyone beside her refused to hold her accountable
Wow this sounds like something I could've said myself especially the golden child son part🤦♀️
This video provides essential tactics rooted in Stoicism for managing narcissistic individuals. A must-watch for anyone dealing with challenging personalities and seeking empowerment.
Thank You, these tactics have warded off narcissistic individuals and as a result they stopped showing up in my life and email. A wonderful freedom was experienced and I also became more quickly aware of predatory narcissists. These tools are life and happiness savings.
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IMHO, good stuff
These creatures are a natural product of the distribution of personality types you can encounter, anywhere.
They are adults raised as abused children, looking for a weak personality type to feel superior to, so that they can feel all good about themselves.
When they are effectively isolated and exposed by a sufficient quantity normal persons, they eventually break down because social isolation is more powerful than narcissism.
Opinions ?
I guess...how do you know so much?
@@rodriguez5117.
Here’s a couple possibilities: 1). These days, we have easy access to tons of truthful information and instruction; 2). difficult circumstances/situations, also, can motivate us to seek
knowledge and understanding in hopes of lessening our struggles and easing suffering, don’t ya think? 😊
I wish I had this information on 32 years ago!
I can totally agree with you
I wish I had learned stoicism many years ago because I have learned to focus on myself over family and other's witch has helped me me focus on myself not to be selfish but I need to work on myself other than helping others. I'm not being selfish but I need to help myself..
Thank you for sharing. It's amazing how timeless and relevant Stoic wisdom can be, no matter when we encounter it. The important thing is that you're gaining this valuable insight now, and it's never too late to apply it to your life. If you're interested in exploring more about Stoic strategies for dealing with difficult people, including narcissists, my UA-cam channel, Live Kindly, covers similar topics. Feel free to check it out for more insights and support.
Wishing you all the best on your journey!
Stoicism is Independency.
Narcissism is
Codependency
development.
I never reacted for 24 years living with the narcissist until the other day. I have to bring out what I'd been keeping for a long time. He was shocked. He didn't expect me to blow up. I'm glad I did. I brought up the 24 years I'd been keeping in my chest. I set up boundaries firmly, and I warned him not to do it again, otherwise. He will be exposed everywhere. The bastard is a demon, but I will no longer tolerate the coward.
I practice reading as my personal hobby.Thanks for other process.
I will stand on emotions
Thank you!
I stand strong.
These have been words of insight and wisdom. Thank you for this positive contribution to mental health.
Mind over body
Thank you for sharing your knowledge!! Excellent Video!!!♥️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Wow.. I was with a narcissist for 3 years, I escaped in a really bad way but I learnt a lot about this type of personality. I met one a couple of months ago and he was so nice to begin but I saw the red flags early and kept my distance. Right enough, after only 1-2 weeks chaos ensued. Leaving on my own on my birthday, walking out, dumping things at my door, calling me mad, I lost my mind, your not a psychiatrist? Nasty words and accusations, said I annoyed him even when I was only nice to him and understanding. It was just awful. I tried to get away but he kept getting me back. A couple of days ago, I confronted him head on, told him what I thought really firmly. Told him to delete my number and that we can not remain friends. I believe he will pop up again at some point and will now be playing the silence. I lost all trust very fast. One huge red flag in the beginning was how he was adamant that I should put my full trust in him and he asked a lot of personal questions very fast. He was gaining ammunition against me and this is not normal. Also lack of empathy. Everything was so clear, gaslighting too, trying to make me question my own mental health. Just pure evil!
They have only 1 purpose; to satisfy their pitiful ego… So glad that you escaped the trap(s), and were not deceived by their attempts to Capture, manipulate and exploit❣️God bless you, friend.
What you said makes a lot of sense but I'm not going to put myself out there for therapists and all that stuff for somebody who absolutely is insecure with their own selves I've also learned from this how to deal with them but also know not to deal with another one at this point I really don't care for them anymore I have no time for their problems or issues the focus is on me I did what I could do for them they didn't appreciate it so I got to keep it moving and I'm glad I've gotten to this point where I don't even care what they do or how they do it😊🥰😉🙏💪👏💯😌
Thank you so much for sharing!❤️
Thanks 👍😊 needed this one
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Been learning 50+ years… Still finding eye-opening info to apply! So much knowledge, wisdom and insight to be found, these days, eh?!
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At the stage of realising you are with a narcissist it is time to leave. Ok, creating an exit might be advisable but all the stoic work will have few gains towards that end and may provoke an angry temperamental nasty even more?
I told my narcissistic ex-husband I was leaving him,months before I physically left, but I had already shut down emotionally and mentally almost 2yrs before.I had mastered keeping quiet through all his tantrums, which he misread as a sign I had eventually caved in,but I was busy buying furniture for my new home.He literally saw the movers on the day I left with the kids. Tantrums got worse,I kept my cool through all the name calling and drove off. Point is,start practicing your inner control while you're with them,they'll think you finally know "your place".
I took mine a step a bit far and love it for my peace.I never engage with him, except when it's about the kids,even that,only texts apply (remember they know which voice tone will trigger you). I can meet him at school events, I ignore and it has brought me so much peace.Hes the one going around telling people I'm a horrible person,for I never give him any attention, even during the divorce he kept bringing it up. Now he knows, he doesn't exist in my world and he can't do anything about it.
All the best moving forward,only God controls our well being.
I love what you’ve accomplished for yourself and your children!
Just pack your bag, get in your car , and drive away.
Thibk yourself fortunate to get away. Be at peace away from them . End of story.
There is no negotiating with that type of nature.
Tomorrow, 6th June will be the Most Wonderful Day of your Life..
Amen
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@@donawright6816 GOD bless you 💌
So needed to hear this
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