i'm a sophomore student struggling right now after seeing my midterm grades. hearing her voice makes me feel like crying while doing this butterfly hug technique. it's really hard and i'm overwhelmed by a lot of emotions right now. thank you for comforting me through this video. really, thank you so much.
It's been about 12 years since I finished college but learning how to regulate our emotions is a must I believe. I actually got teary when she said the affirmation of 'I'm in a safe place'. I wish I had focus on managing my emotions when I was younger, please keep going, you will do great! Our well-being is always more important than our grades or our jobs.
I've just been shown this technique in my last session with my Health Care provider. Retired Canadian Army diagnosed with PTSD. Still learning it but the immediate sense is of peace and tranquility for a short period of time. Hopefully with practice the positive effects will be longer lasting. I followed along with the video and a sensation I felt was on the left side of my head, a tingling sensation. Bottom line is that for myself the technique helps.
This bilateral stimulation has worked for me in some of the toughest times. I learned this technique in my Voices for Women group session. I have also shared this technique with my kids and hope they utilize this and share where required in times of loneliness. It is very effective. I suffer from Dissociative Identity Disorder and my husband PTSD. I have not shared this with him yet but I will certainly do so when he needs. Thanks for sharing!!
Wow, Her voice is like magic at calming me down! I did this in therapy with EMDR for healing of repressed childhood sexual abuse memories! Works brilliantly as Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk said it would in his book!
I found this through a link from the Psyche magazine news letter. I have a bipolar disorder with chronic anxiety. These kinds of things rarely work for me, but this actually seems like it does! Thank you!
I was talking with this person from the Trevor Project (on Trevor Text) and they recommended this video to help calm myself down. I really like Bilateral music for the way it makes my brain feel. This made it feel the same way the music does and I'm super happy about it. Thanks to Jayden for the help!
Hi Vicky, I am a therapist being trained for EMDR and it is not unusual for your emotions to be retrieved while doing the tapping or hugs. Remember you are being stimulated with the tapping. My recommendation would be for you to consider doing EMDR therapy so you can get the full benefit. Maybe there are some memories that are stuck and you need help getting them unstuck. The butterfly hug helps to calm down but you may need to process what it is that it's pending in your memory. Hope this helps.
@@ep2891 My Health Care provider took me through this technique for the first time in our last session. Prior to actually doing it I recalled a specific incident from my life. Yes there were tears but after going through the whole process there was indeed a sense of peace and tranquility. I'm looking forward to becoming more proficient at using the technique.
Thank you, I was so touched by this exercise.... I do something similar with my clients but this was so Nice, so gentle & beautifull. Thank you for wonderfull guidance ❤❤❤❤❤
Lovely video, good sound and great delivery of information. I can easily imagine the speaker doing a really good job on guided mindfulness audio recordings.
I can't fucking believe it! I'm just discovering/realizing for the first time in my 44 years of life... The rage and grief I feel... THESE ARE MY SUPERPOWERS! The fact that I can feel these at all, this alone, is my superpower! It is sacred it is divine it is feminine it is miraculous. Most are too numb to know or to feel. But I know. And I feel. This has all been in preparation for my mission as an alchemist. I am a Lioness. I am a Goddess. I am a Radically Honest Biker Bitch! Holy heaven I am mind-blown! HALLEUJAH! AND PRAISE THE LORD!
As in holy Quran Allah said- 28:32 Now put your hand through ˹the opening of˺ your collar, it will come out ˹shining˺ white, unblemished. And cross your arms tightly to calm your fears. These are two proofs from your Lord to Pharaoh and his chiefs. They have truly been a rebellious people.”
Side note: I love that you didn't use a bright white background.
The lovely lady’s voice made me feel so relaxed. Great technique to help manage anxiety. Thank you for sharing.
i'm a sophomore student struggling right now after seeing my midterm grades. hearing her voice makes me feel like crying while doing this butterfly hug technique.
it's really hard and i'm overwhelmed by a lot of emotions right now. thank you for comforting me through this video. really, thank you so much.
It's been about 12 years since I finished college but learning how to regulate our emotions is a must I believe. I actually got teary when she said the affirmation of 'I'm in a safe place'. I wish I had focus on managing my emotions when I was younger, please keep going, you will do great! Our well-being is always more important than our grades or our jobs.
God Bless you with your studies. Millions get through it and you will too.
Your grades do not determine your value that is external. Your perspective will change once you understand that. Big hug to you! ❤️🦋☀️
I've just been shown this technique in my last session with my Health Care provider. Retired Canadian Army diagnosed with PTSD. Still learning it but the immediate sense is of peace and tranquility for a short period of time. Hopefully with practice the positive effects will be longer lasting. I followed along with the video and a sensation I felt was on the left side of my head, a tingling sensation. Bottom line is that for myself the technique helps.
I was in the war in Bosnia.Had ptsd.Now im totaly free of all symptoms.I was in oneness ua-cam.com/video/FMWtWBkAdkA/v-deo.html.
You have the most soothing voice! I needed you growing up 😢
please DO ASMR videos, your voice melted my brain.
This bilateral stimulation has worked for me in some of the toughest times. I learned this technique in my Voices for Women group session. I have also shared this technique with my kids and hope they utilize this and share where required in times of loneliness. It is very effective. I suffer from Dissociative Identity Disorder and my husband PTSD. I have not shared this with him yet but I will certainly do so when he needs. Thanks for sharing!!
It's the basis of EMDR which is extremely useful for PTSD
who's here from its okay not to be okay..💗💗💗
Me
Yessss!!! I love that drama! 💖
Me too
Yes. I love that series aha
I just finished watching it and it has no reason being this good
Thank you....will try it during exams, to calm myself down. It is socially acceptable to do this then walking around in the exam room.
The delivery of this talk is amazing. Super soothing and refreshing. Thanks!
This is so helpful for me; within a few minutes, I already felt grounded and safe. Thank you so much.
My counsellor put me onto this video today. So grateful.
Beautiful soothing voice n presence.... thanks a lot...may God bless U!!
Wow, Her voice is like magic at calming me down! I did this in therapy with EMDR for healing of repressed childhood sexual abuse memories! Works brilliantly as Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk said it would in his book!
Anything Bessel Van Der Kolk says is gold.
I would watch her if she was reading a phonebook. I am really impressed with the way she talks.
Soothing voice
I found this through a link from the Psyche magazine news letter. I have a bipolar disorder with chronic anxiety. These kinds of things rarely work for me, but this actually seems like it does! Thank you!
Beautifully done. You have a very calming energy and voice as you demonstrate this.
Love your voice, so calming and soothing. Thank you!
thanks i accept myself with my depression and anxiety and i can feel bad so i don't need to hide myself and who i am
Thank you.................plus your voice is so calming. Brought tears to my eyes & my memories are flowing
I can fall asleep to your voice lol. It's so soothing
I just had my first panic attack and the crisis councilor I talked to sent me this, thank you
did it help? i want to try it with my daughter...i need to hear about experience of somebody who trains it
Same here
Thank you for this. My therapist tried to teach me this yesterday but I was to agitated to take it in at the time.
Amazing, the voice is soothing. Thank you
You remind me of my previous therapist - same calming voice and face full of empathy. Thank you so much for this ❤
I was talking with this person from the Trevor Project (on Trevor Text) and they recommended this video to help calm myself down. I really like Bilateral music for the way it makes my brain feel. This made it feel the same way the music does and I'm super happy about it. Thanks to Jayden for the help!
Wow your way of being is so sweet and soothing, thank you for sharing yourself
Why did it make me cry??? :(
Hi Vicky, I am a therapist being trained for EMDR and it is not unusual for your emotions to be retrieved while doing the tapping or hugs. Remember you are being stimulated with the tapping. My recommendation would be for you to consider doing EMDR therapy so you can get the full benefit. Maybe there are some memories that are stuck and you need help getting them unstuck. The butterfly hug helps to calm down but you may need to process what it is that it's pending in your memory. Hope this helps.
Me too....
same
I cried too
@@ep2891 My Health Care provider took me through this technique for the first time in our last session. Prior to actually doing it I recalled a specific incident from my life. Yes there were tears but after going through the whole process there was indeed a sense of peace and tranquility. I'm looking forward to becoming more proficient at using the technique.
Thank you so much. This was beautiful, soothing, grounding and trauma informed. Excellent resourcing technique to pair with emdr
This made me cry just now. Very relieving. Thank you for sharing this technique! 🙏
Was shown this in my trauma therapy group and it helps me so much x
Whenever I feel slightly stressed, I can use this to comfort myself and to just relax, it’s a soothing feeling
I love this technique it has helped me calm down. I learned it in EMDR therapy sessions.
Thanks to It's ok to be not ok, im now here.🥰
Does anyone know who this woman is? Her voice is SO soothing. I would love to find more videos with her!
Please!!!
Same!
Thankyou, i did this and suddenly im crying alot, but after that all my depressions slowly gone
Wow that’s great 😃 how r u feeling now ?
Thank you, I was so touched by this exercise.... I do something similar with my clients but this was so Nice, so gentle & beautifull. Thank you for wonderfull guidance ❤❤❤❤❤
Lovely video, good sound and great delivery of information. I can easily imagine the speaker doing a really good job on guided mindfulness audio recordings.
Thank you for the support. I needed this today! ❤️❤️❤️
My therapist sent me this video, and I am so thankful to her for this 💓
Thank you for this sharing and the tears that it provoqued!
Who's here from Rachel Southerd?
Meee hahah
Thank you and it's very soothing!
thank you
never knew i needed this
I cried at the end.
Thank you...this has changed my life.🦋🤗
How beautiful. Thank you.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH! loving hugs from Germany
Beautiful. Thank you!
I will watch it over and over just to hear your voice
So calming, thank you!
Feeeeels so good. Big Love from Berlin ✊️💜✨️✨️✨️
I needed that.
Any chance you can make a 5 or 10 minute version? Your voice is very soothing.
Very useful. I am using with my clients. Thanks.
Thank you, I use to help my depression
Gang-tae brought me here 😍
YESS
Her voice is so soothing
Her voice is wonderful!
I added this to brainspotting therapy doing the bilateral music it helps ALOT
Thanks for this video. I’ve been asked to do this 1-2 times between weekly therapy session. Just wanna make sure I’m doing it all correctly.
thank you ♥
1:06 starts here.
THANK YOU ❤️
This really helped me , thank u ❤
Thank You for this Video you also have a Calming voice which is nice too if your a newbie😊😊😊
Thank you 💚
Such a wonderful technique!
I still use this technique.
Thank you so much you sweet angel 💗💕✨
Thank you
Teşekkürler Melis 🤍 iyi ki varsın 💗
My therapist taught me this I love it all much
So butterfly hugs exist Thanks to IT'S OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY
Thank you so much 💗
I do this but tap each finger at a time, it helps even more for me.
Thank you so much for this ❤
I like it, thanks!
Here cause of "It's ok to not be ok" drama
This helps so much
Thanks
Just search this video after watching korean drama "Psycho Its Okay" :D
Wow this works great!
I like the butterfly kisses..thanx
Is it normal to cry while doing this 😫
It's makes my tear out.
Thank you very much love you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very nice
طول عمري ادور عن الحنان طلع الحنان بين يديني
❤❤❤❤thanks
A crisis counselor lady told me to do this . I thank her so much can’t remember her name
Thank you for this :'(
I can't fucking believe it!
I'm just discovering/realizing
for the first time in my 44 years of life...
The rage and grief I feel...
THESE ARE MY SUPERPOWERS!
The fact that I can feel these at all,
this alone, is my superpower!
It is sacred it is divine it is feminine it is miraculous.
Most are too numb to know or to feel.
But I know. And I feel.
This has all been in preparation for my mission
as an alchemist.
I am a Lioness.
I am a Goddess.
I am a Radically Honest Biker Bitch!
Holy heaven I am mind-blown!
HALLEUJAH! AND PRAISE THE LORD!
May i use this Video for my content name The butterfly hug for reference?
Tyf means
THIS WHITE WOMAN HAS A VERY NICE VOICE
beautiful
Thank you ))))
As in holy Quran Allah said- 28:32 Now put your hand through ˹the opening of˺ your collar, it will come out ˹shining˺ white, unblemished. And cross your arms tightly to calm your fears. These are two proofs from your Lord to Pharaoh and his chiefs. They have truly been a rebellious people.”
Thanks.
Such a beautiful woman. Lovely and thank you for the technique en your blessed being!
❤❤❤