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  • Today I am talking about reinventing yourself in midlife. From career, to relationships, hobbies, to finding purpose, I’m sharing my personal, life-altering pivots along with strategies I've learned to help set you up for success. Let your second half be your best half! Also, I'll be answering some of your questions.
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  • @lisad8551
    @lisad8551 Рік тому +140

    Going thru this now. I just walked away from a VP position in a very toxic workplace. Doing what I love. 59 years young and I couldn't take it. Moments of defeat, doubt, fear and anger are flowing. But I know I did the right thing. I will find my wayy❤

    • @SusanBRoman-ch9bm
      @SusanBRoman-ch9bm Рік тому +28

      @lisad8551. At 58, I also walked away from high level position due to a toxic workplace. It was the career of a life time but my integrity meant more than anything else. I may not be making the salary that I did nor have the power and prestige that came with the title but I am so much happier and healthier. 3 yrs later, I realize what a gift/blessing quitting that position really was. Good luck.

    • @jelenapetrovic5876
      @jelenapetrovic5876 Рік тому +6

      Mental health should be always on 1st place! Choosing Yourself was the best choice.

    • @PriscilaForbes
      @PriscilaForbes 11 місяців тому +2

      All the best to you. I did the same thing at 59 and am three years into it. Walking away from an executive level position and all its perks is a courageous decision (I keep telling myself that). Everyday is a learning experience and an adventure.

  • @hopedodson8058
    @hopedodson8058 Рік тому +81

    I pivoted in 2015, right before I turned 50. I left my husband in TX and moved back to St. Louis with no job and 2 kids to support. I had my faith, my friends and a lot of anger that kept me motivated to keep moving forward towards success in life. 8 years later my life is so blessed! It’s the best decision I ever made… and also the hardest thing I’ve ever been through.

  • @bobbiwiniecki2704
    @bobbiwiniecki2704 Рік тому +96

    Eight years ago my husband suffered a fatal heart event while we were on vacation in Mexico. He was 62. I spent a most of my 60's in a fog, dealing with guilt, moving, and adjusting to my new normal. Thank God for my children, their spouses, my seven Grandchildren, and great friendships. In March I celebrated my 70th birthday and things are going great. Recently I was chatting with someone with all that and the words, "before life interrupted" popped out of my mouth. That was it completely! Life Interrupted

  • @carolewarrenrealtor
    @carolewarrenrealtor 10 місяців тому +3

    Was cleaning out my closets and preparing for 2024 while listening to your podcast. It was interesting and really resonated with many aspects that occurred in my life. Thanks for your perspective and courage to be vulnerable/transparent. Agree that life happens when we simply take action and move forward - even if small steps I'm looking ahead with intent to engage with more folks, do what I enjoy most, and explore at least one new thing monthly. Appreciate you, and excited for future opportunities and making better choices to create monumental joy & fun in my life ❤.

  • @linneasimchah1621
    @linneasimchah1621 Рік тому +9

    I'm 46 y/o and after 17 years of marriage (the last 4.5 years have been TERRIBLE), I am going thru the grieving process of accepting that this union may not ever be healthy again. I can only do what I can do. It is an unrealistic expectation to control/change my spouse. I needed this podcast. I'm very grateful for you sharing your experience and perspective.

  • @julieharpa9372
    @julieharpa9372 Рік тому +37

    Thank you Dominique ,as a widow of 18 months ,loseing my Husband of 44 ,years im trying to find my new life ,its hard ,but take one day at a time ,i am started yoga this week for the first time ,and joined the gym which looking forward too ❤

    • @harmony3395
      @harmony3395 Рік тому +3

      Condolences. You are brave to go ahead and start some new things and I hope it brings you some peace 💫

    • @julieharpa9372
      @julieharpa9372 Рік тому

      ​@@harmony3395Thank you so much❤️

  • @sherillsullivan2348
    @sherillsullivan2348 Рік тому +5

    Dominique, You're such a lady and care so much about your audience. I get the feeling you want us to flourish with you. Such an unselfish act of kindness to help us be the best version of ourselves. Thank you! xxxs

  • @elizabethscott3048
    @elizabethscott3048 Рік тому +6

    Excellent podcast! Yes, focus on health; spiritual, psychological, social, physical, and mental! And remember that you can spend your time productively or not. I’ve had severe challenges, but I was determined to rise above it all. At 57 I became a graduate student by 62 I had two masters degrees, by God’s grace & a super supportive husband. I pray that every woman attending this podcast will be blessed with resources she needs for success. As Dominique says, “Be bold & be blessed”

  • @michellealbrecht2222
    @michellealbrecht2222 Рік тому +21

    Dominique where were you 20 years ago? I pivoted right into darkness and I didn't come out for 20 years. You are the poster child for the successful midlife pivot. You sure deserve it.
    I must say also that I have seen the light and I am recovering from that darkness. I'm afraid that doesn't happen real quickly and that's 70 it's kind of scary. Well it's always scary. I first left my job of 22 years and 4 months later I left my marriage of 27 years. I lost myself a long time ago but I will not give up on that. I'm so happy to find you today.

  • @michellew3932
    @michellew3932 Рік тому +15

    My voice kept telling me I needed to buy and decorate a cute little place in Italy with my husband. Luckily after a little arm twisting my husband went along with it. We are both empty nesters retiring soon and we did that whole look at each other and said who are you and now what do we do. It has been such a journey, not easy at times but extremely fulfilling. I’m pretty conservative so this was way out of my comfort zone! What you spoke to about making yourself a little uncomfortable and enjoy the journey, that really resonates with me. A little voice kept telling me, go for it!

  • @jackielee2138
    @jackielee2138 Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much for this video. I am 52 and wanting to make some changes in my life, but it can be a little scary. Your videos always uplift me, knowing I'm not alone on this journey.

  • @carolynhamilton3316
    @carolynhamilton3316 Рік тому +22

    Great video. I was not as wise when I ended up divorced. No internet yet or utube or Google to give advice such as yours. Now I'm 79 and just trying to get by, but love the advice and so wonderful that younger women can be so knowledgeable on what to do and how to do it with all this wonderful information that's out there. You are a very wise woman. ❤

  • @kimberleykirk8047
    @kimberleykirk8047 Рік тому +25

    I've been through leaving a abusive marriage that lasted 22 years so, I understand the leaving part.

  • @alpharogers2
    @alpharogers2 Рік тому +8

    Change is inevitable. I learned to embrace change with the Lord. Thanks for the inspiring testimony. I pray that you find someone with same faith. 😊

  • @Heidimhop
    @Heidimhop Рік тому +19

    Support from anyone, family, friends…is a must! I felt that I couldn’t talk to anybody because I knew that nobody would understand. Most horrible thing to go through! Was my choice and after 18 years no matter what it took, I took that leap of faith and stayed strong for my dreams. God was with me through it all the good and the bad and placed me where I was meant to be❤

  • @Rosemm111
    @Rosemm111 Рік тому +10

    This is a topic that resonates with so many women, professionally and personally. Is like going through a new rebirth. Every woman goes through that at some point in life. Peeling layers of years of believes and preconceptions. To love ourselves in a way we have to take the time to dig deep and learn who we really are and see all the successes we are capable of. Strong determined women, down on their knees. Some days are better than others. It happens one step and milestone at a time until the longing for the old hurts heal and no longer bleed. It takes times and prayer. A necessary process to make us wiser and stronger. Thank you, Dominique for your transparency, honesty and just by getting real in this matter. Anyone that has gone through this knows it is a real challenge. But in the end, WE SURVIVED.

  • @lisaerceg9894
    @lisaerceg9894 Рік тому +5

    Just because we transition from one stage into another does not mean we are " imploding ". It takes much reasoned, measured, and honest thought; grace towards yourself and others, perhaps forgiveness, and courage. It's called LIFE. Brava.

  • @JulieNick28
    @JulieNick28 Рік тому +19

    I’m a few weeks late and I’m in the place of struggle. Fought breast cancer, left my marriage, got a promotion…life was starting to go great. A year later I got laid off. I’m still getting severance but it’s a struggle out there to even get an interview and I’m scared. I don’t have anything to fall back on. So I’m trying to stay positive and rise above this. Just praying the right opportunity opens up before October :). ❤

  • @LSChestersMom
    @LSChestersMom Рік тому +27

    Thank you! I do think the finances and future planning is key. I am single, never married, no kids and no family ( grew up in abuse and had to walk away).
    I have a wonderful life now thanks to lots of healing, recovery from childhood trauma and I also have been on my own all my life ( with God of course) and I am thinking a lot about how to set myself up for the best future I can. I have a great business and am very focused on how to set myself up financially now and in the future. Thanks for being a wonderful role model :)

    • @liana2136
      @liana2136 Рік тому +7

      It's great to hear you are thriving in spite of a very difficult beginning! Thank you for sharing. 🌸

    • @peacequeen2579
      @peacequeen2579 Рік тому +8

      I relate to you so much. Almost exact description but don't have my own business. I'm 60 and trying to plan for my last decades and chapter which may mean moving to Italy.

    • @nattmc9347
      @nattmc9347 7 місяців тому +1

      Your life sounds exactly like my past, family, and support system. I am so happy to see your current state and outlook on life. I am not there yet. I was very successful in my life and career before losing my parents and dealing with an extremely toxic family (siblings). Thank God that's over. I am developing a path to accel and regain my focus. I am creating the plan, path, and execution to my life and happiness. Thank you for sharing.

  • @jeffjaynecrowell8649
    @jeffjaynecrowell8649 Рік тому +3

    While I am currently not in this situation (I made these changes in my mid 30’s, divorced, back to school single mom), your wisdom from experience helps me to be a better listener and a more compassionate friend to others. I truly believe that once we cross a life bridge, we turn around to help others make it! Many Blessings to you and thank you! You are a gift to so many!❤

  • @dilciayadiraberti4260
    @dilciayadiraberti4260 Рік тому +3

    It’s been great to hear about your experience. I’m 53 and after 23 years building a successful career, my husband and I had to leave our country and start over in the US to give our teenage son opportunities we had but he won’t . It’s been so hard and challenging to face all the new things at once, including a new language, but I truly believe that God needs us to learn and grow from this experience to be able to embrace His highest purpose.
    I’ll put your 7 steps in motion. It’s awesome to see how much I can really do to be better. Thank you so much 🙏🏻

  • @kymh4357
    @kymh4357 Рік тому +12

    Please keep this conversation going. I'm trying to leave a 26 yr marriage. I'm 51. All the pauses have come into play and the hormonal volley ball isn't fun..i love this podcast, it really hit home and I believe there are more of us our there.

    • @sunflowers6172
      @sunflowers6172 7 місяців тому

      Going through this now. Finding out who I am and what I want. Looking at this like an adventure.

  • @maggieborek8499
    @maggieborek8499 Рік тому +47

    I am going through the exact same thing right now. It is hard, and it is painful. Not sure when the positive will start happening in my life. Its been 2 years already. I feel like I've aged 10 years in the past couple years. Praying that something good will happen soon 🙏

    • @luvinmaks
      @luvinmaks Рік тому +1

      Yes! It ages you for sure.

  • @audreyso1201
    @audreyso1201 Рік тому +31

    Hello Dominique, thank you for this very interesting topic. I don't have an easy life, 28 years of autism (with my son) and it's not over but I always stay positive and try to keep fighting for him, I give myself moments to me, it brings me a balance and above all I want my mind to be at the top in the middle of my life. Thank you for this video🧡💛💚❤🌺🌻🌼

    • @gegeschannel8836
      @gegeschannel8836 Рік тому +1

      My sister has a 23 year old severely autistic son. She is my hero. She is not only an advocate for her son but a great mother and wife. I understand what you are going thru and really suggest you get a support group if you have not. ❤

    • @audreyso1201
      @audreyso1201 Рік тому

      @@gegeschannel8836 💛💛💛

    • @whiskersBOOSTER2
      @whiskersBOOSTER2 Рік тому +1

      Autism mom here, too, my son is 26. Sending love and light your way.❤️

    • @audreyso1201
      @audreyso1201 Рік тому

      @@whiskersBOOSTER2 I too send you a lot of love and energy and good luck with your son❤❤🧡🧡💛💛

  • @AvonleaMontague
    @AvonleaMontague Рік тому +3

    32-year-old baby here. Thank you for this video!

  • @kelliquincel3418
    @kelliquincel3418 Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love you and so happy I found you 3 years ago. I have been following you and so much resonated with me. I became divorced in 2010 and felt I didn't know where I belonged anymore. In 2014 I left my home state and my 25+ year career to move to Florida where I always felt I needed to be in the second part of my life. The sale of my home, the new job and so many new welcoming friends made the transition easier. As you said, you have to have faith and know it will all work out. I wish you the best my dear.

  • @sharonbroughton7969
    @sharonbroughton7969 6 місяців тому

    You are amazing Dominique.. your communi skills are wonderful .. how you can explain things so clearly & logically !! I love you and how you inspire women all over the world xx

  • @megcreates2.0
    @megcreates2.0 Рік тому +9

    My husband walked out in our 36yr marriage were 53 now😢.
    We’ve been snowbirds for the last 12yrs so I have my stuff in my house in Alaska and he has stuff in our house in TX. We literally built together. We built it no contractor’s. It’s built on land his family homestead and won’t give it up the value is 3x’s as much! First it’s 50yrs newer(AK house!) I sold my heritage land to help financially build the house so now he stripped me of my heritage 😢.
    So much more…
    I will say, I will NOt live in anger but my heart is breaking.

  • @pamelastgeorge4304
    @pamelastgeorge4304 Рік тому +4

    Sharing what you’ve learned with UA-cam is a amazing gift

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady Рік тому +12

    Wow! This is a lot! I am an Empath and your situation was very painful 😢 I hope your getting to a better place! I love you! You are my mentor. I enjoy looking for you on UA-cam

  • @CatherineHaynes-q5i
    @CatherineHaynes-q5i Місяць тому

    Your words are encouraging. I would like to add, don't overthink it. I am a woman of faith as well. I didn't have time to do all of that. My workplace was toxic, my home life is toxic, I have no relationships to anchor me. All I had was God and my faith in myself. I quit with no plan, and I am moving forward with a vengeance. I am being blessed financially in places that I did not see. This happened within the 2 weeks that I said Adios. Now, I can be intentional on my next career move. Social media is an Avenue I plan on using, but in the meantime my goal is to utilize my Psychology degree and get my master's in public administration and find a job in service. I journal and keep vision boards, but in the midst of it, I trust God and myself. I can't make it if I put all my trust in this broken world. We all trying to figure it out.

  • @barbaramorris7696
    @barbaramorris7696 Рік тому +20

    I always said be independent. Then it happened to me 4 children and 21 years of marriage ended just like that. It sent me into the working world from being a stay at home mom, home daycare. That working world sent me through many changes and all made me grow. Ending my career after 14 years at my last position which I started at age 59. Retirement two years ago. A single mom with a career and in a non committal relationship for 25 of those years I too took that long look at how I lost myself in that relationship. After several years of knowing I had to break it off. I could not tell you the amount of confidence I gained. That was four years ago and only now do I feel the need for someone in my life. And being two years retired and working solely on my health and fitness I am ready for a new challenge. My thoughts are to be an influencer like you Dominique only on a smaller scale. Since I am 75 I am thinking, Flourishing into the 70's. Not knowing where to start is a problem for me. Today and your future podcast could bring a pivot in my life. Thank you❤

    • @nickadams1519
      @nickadams1519 Рік тому +1

      Sending Love ❤️....Barbara...Are you single? ❤️🌹🌹🌹

  • @samc5877
    @samc5877 5 місяців тому

    Great conversation as always Dominique. So true in so many ways. My life took a turn last year when I was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, aged 45. I went through a period of extremely traumatic illness, then had terrible depression and anxiety because of it. Like you, I'm a positive person, so these feelings were so alien to me, and it took a LOT to get myself through those days. Obviously, I still have the illness hanging over me, but I live life as fully as I can, remembering that every day is a gift - something we should all do, but we so easily take things for granted.
    Be bold and truly live your life, as you get one time round ❤

  • @ladyesther
    @ladyesther Рік тому +24

    Yes, making friends in this stage of life is really hard especially for introverts and us moms to disabled children. It's very isolating. I don't mind being alone, but I do need friends. And being an introvert and shy makes it a challenge. The last friend I made was because I was referring her to my caregiver since she also had an adult child with a disability. Kind of beautiful actually.

    • @eleonorarigovic7551
      @eleonorarigovic7551 Рік тому +3

      I too have a 38yr old with severe schizoeffective disorder. My husband showers him brush teeth etc. He is still very loving and understands but in and out of psychosis. He suffers from catatonia as well, very difficult to get out of the house. We have 23yrs of this. Love him to death but our life is really hard. There is no we time for fun. Its in gods hands 1:00

    • @MM-mc9ru
      @MM-mc9ru Рік тому +4

      I’m the same…an introvert with a disabled son and very few friends. It’s hard and lonely.

  • @simplyouniquev4450
    @simplyouniquev4450 3 місяці тому

    I can so relate with this…mine was after a 20 yr marriage back in 2014. I was able to reinvent & bounce back by 2016 all while in the beginning stages of menopause with purchase of my home solo & a mom of 2 almost adult children. Then I lost my mom & a company closure in 2019…then the pandemic hit & a career I’ve had for 14+ years has been very difficult to obtain a full time job in. At 55 years young, I am at the point where I need to pivot in all areas of my lifestyle fe now that I am an empty nester. Thank you for this video.

  • @rosemaryhernandez7949
    @rosemaryhernandez7949 Рік тому +5

    This was such a wonderful podcast, it was full of wisdom and very knowledgeable information. It’s always such a pleasure listening to your honesty, you are truly a beautiful human being. 😘🌹👏

  • @pamelaarcher6122
    @pamelaarcher6122 Рік тому +6

    You have been the best guest you’ve had on your podcast yet!!!

  • @karenscookingkorner
    @karenscookingkorner Рік тому +16

    Man, this episode resonates SO much with me right now!!!! Thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @brendameeks285
    @brendameeks285 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos Dominique, so uplifting and so helpful for even 72 year old women 🙏♥️🤗🌹♥️♥️♥️

  • @juliadavid3637
    @juliadavid3637 Рік тому +12

    Another great informative video, thank you Dominique 😊 I love that this video is just you on camera, you're so easy to watch and listen to ❤️

  • @debbieanderson6740
    @debbieanderson6740 Рік тому +3

    I am 60 and decided to make some changes. Started with my diet. Concentrating on getting enough protein. Cutting out simple carbs. I sometimes do have some icecream but that is ok. Just watching my body change for the better is huge. Now I am exploring HRT. Need to regulate my sleep and help my brain fog. And also continuing my journey of learning piano. Loving that!

  • @christinemack2153
    @christinemack2153 Рік тому +2

    Positive self talk and not being too proud to lean into family and friends is powerful. You're so strong to make these changes that weren't serving you and so resilient, Dominique!! xo

  • @kymmorello6459
    @kymmorello6459 Рік тому +1

    Your open heart and your generosity in sharing is a welcome gift to all of us in midlife. Thank you.

  • @chicanica64
    @chicanica64 Рік тому +8

    So sorry you went through this painful situation. You inspired me to look at my relationship and start a conversation going. Thank you. You inspire us all and I am thankful the UA-cam algorhythm suggested you 3 years ago. ❤❤

  • @Michelle-nm7ci
    @Michelle-nm7ci 11 днів тому

    Your history inspired me, I’m almost 47, I went back to school and finished a bachelor degree in nursing, I’m currently un happy married, and planning to get a divorce, I’m working as a RN here but I’m studying to pass the exam to get the register license from USA and to be able to move to USA with my daughter who started college this year, I feel like I’m getting crazy some times.

  • @peacequeen2579
    @peacequeen2579 Рік тому +6

    I completely changed my life. Upped my game, took the reigns at 50. Ten years later I'm the best I've ever been in any relationship and I have no plan on stopping!

    • @debbie3733
      @debbie3733 Рік тому +1

      What steps did you take to achieve this?

    • @nattmc9347
      @nattmc9347 7 місяців тому

      How did you accomplish this ...?

  • @minoerahyder1229
    @minoerahyder1229 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much and looking forward to much more😊
    I am always delighted to listen to you being a woman of God too
    A muslim South African fan ❤

  • @beachbum285
    @beachbum285 Рік тому +6

    Thank you thank you thank you for being here and sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us!! Love to you and yours! ❤

  • @VEE-rd7cu
    @VEE-rd7cu 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for bringing such a personal touch to your videos. You have helped me with my makeup. I loved you and Mom's relationship & like you, I thought Me & Mom would enjoy the last years together. She was supposed to be a centenarian. She passed in 2019 & I have just really come out of a depression of sadness & loneliness. When, I read this I screech but Truth is not for the weak of mind. Keep Rockin'!

  • @Jesusaves911
    @Jesusaves911 Рік тому

    This has been a hard year for me. Divorce, moved across the country, new job, first year as an empty nester and i just turned 50 😳 It's surreal what a person can do when facing a crossroads. I am worth more so I moved on. Looking forward to the mystery that is my life. God is my best friend, the perfect father and husband. He has good things planned and I'm here for it! Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @madham7684
    @madham7684 Рік тому +2

    I know using filters makes us look better, but when it comes to authenticity, I love the ladies that practice what they preach. Now, I’m not saying you do, just saying that showing our age is a badge of honor and respected.

    • @LB12306
      @LB12306 Рік тому +2

      Totally agree, Bethenny Frankel said it best - “It’s desperate, it’s destructive, and it’s rampant". As for UA-camrs who shill skin care products and extol how fantastic they are all while using filters they obviously have no moral compass whatsoever.

    • @samc5877
      @samc5877 5 місяців тому

      I don't believe Dominique does use filters - you'd be surprised what good lighting can do. I actually think she's a great example of growing old, and looking great. She's told us what she's had done, and it's not for everyone, but it is for some. I have Botox and have had fillers, though you wouldn't necessarily know, and I feel much better about myself for it

  • @thomasanders1314
    @thomasanders1314 Рік тому +2

    I had my breaking point at the beginning of this year. I got fired without giving me any notice, after 13 years of serving for the company and you know what? It was one of the best moments in my life!:) Now, maybe I'm still sorting things out, but this whole process was like a giant relieve. I'm very happy, where I am now.

  • @carolidzerda7177
    @carolidzerda7177 Рік тому +1

    Dominique, you are such an amazing Lady and I admire your honesty and transparency, thank you. I have been pondering on some changes and have learnt a great deal from this Podcast. Thank you for being such an inspiration to so many, with wisdom and authenticity. May God continue to speak to your heart and guide you in all that you do. Much love ❤

  • @carolvillanueva488
    @carolvillanueva488 Рік тому +13

    You’re AWESOME, Ms. Dominique!🥰🙏❤️

  • @francesmcnicholas1117
    @francesmcnicholas1117 Рік тому +2

    Great podcast. I’m 60 will be 61 in three weeks. Sixty was great the bad part this year I lost my brother. That loss got me thinking I was working in a job that wasn’t serving me. I loved the company I worked for great people treated me very good but I needed a change so I retired early at 60.5 years old. Now I need something for me the good think I planed well with my finances. I can not believe I did it. I purchased my new car for a new start. Need something for me in a second act that brings me joy. Keep us the good work love your videos.

    • @laurievanzon2126
      @laurievanzon2126 Рік тому

      I lost my brother also when I turned 60. A month later I was let go from a stressful job. Luckily, I too planned for the future and was able to retire. It took a while, but I'm trying new things, joined the Gym, and went on a bus trip to Memphis. I am saying yes when people ask me to go places and I feel blessed. Good luck with your future!

    • @neanea1173
      @neanea1173 Рік тому +1

      I lost my brother in April. I'm 58, he was 53. I never imagined it would be so difficult.. but I guess I never thought about losing my little brother. ;(

  • @annmarie6732
    @annmarie6732 Рік тому +8

    Thank you Dominique. 'Messy' happened to me in 2021 at 53. The last 2 years have been tough but also incredible! I feel empowered, I have gained wisdom, I understand the word 'compassion' more, I understood what 'self-care' meant. I have studied Reiki, rekindled old friendships, became healthier and fitter. I am upskilling my creative knitting with a view to launching myself on utube.. I would love if you would do a video on this online platform ❤

  • @funnycatsandfriends9268
    @funnycatsandfriends9268 Рік тому

    Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. I have learned so much since I started watching you on UA-cam. I’m so happy that this pivot is working out for you. I have recently been displaced from my job. I’m forced to pívot during midlife but grateful that I’m in a good place emotionally, mentally and physically. I’m expecting something even better to come! Time to have faith, dream big and believe it will all work out for my hood and that of my family 🙌🏼

  • @antoniawood1854
    @antoniawood1854 Рік тому

    Too right, always finding a way to have some or complete financial independence is important. Theres always a rainy day!!! We need to do our best to be prepared for what "come what may's" into our lives!

  • @NaefP.M
    @NaefP.M Рік тому +13

    You are amazing! I love your positive spirit! ❤❤

  • @glendayelverton1676
    @glendayelverton1676 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for your podcast today, for sharing and for your openness about the last 2-1/2 yrs.🙏❤️

  • @claudial.gonzalez4268
    @claudial.gonzalez4268 Рік тому

    I truly want to believe that God doesn’t drop me ………our Heart has its reasons……but we have to learn to listen , through silence and through tears among other things!! Love and embracing ourselves and to be able to love important people in our lives and also to walk away from toxic ones! Thank you Dominique!! ❤❤❤

  • @mayracalderon5598
    @mayracalderon5598 Рік тому

    Thank you!!! You nailed it. I don't need it, I want it. You are such an inspiration to me and so many women! Many blessings to you, Dominique! ❤

  • @maryjoseph7086
    @maryjoseph7086 Рік тому +1

    One of the most inspiring and honest podcasts I have ever heard. Had to hear it over several days but totally worth it. Thank you Dominique and her awesome team

  • @morganryan1319
    @morganryan1319 Рік тому

    Dominique, you're amazing. I think it's incredible that you've brought this professional quality to UA-cam. I watched you from the beginning, but have recently rediscovered you. I love hearing you speak on your new podcasts--what you have to say and the grace and eloquence in how you say it. What an excellent way to pivot from your news career.

  • @jennylane2498
    @jennylane2498 Рік тому +4

    So cool to see you find your footing and truly be in your element 😊

  • @TrueStature
    @TrueStature Рік тому +2

    I cannot say how timely and relevant this topic is for me. I am 52 and undergoing major life changes and it’s been a process of growth and a process of getting real and being honest, it’s also been a process of realizing that my life is not a Hallmark movie and I no longer get to be vague or live on the surface. I’m so grateful for this video, Dominique. You have a Gift that you offer to women everywhere. Thank you

  • @peacebewithyou6048
    @peacebewithyou6048 Рік тому +1

    I was first drawn to you (your channel) because of your "personal" life with your job,
    your husband, your mom, your day-to-day trials and tribulations. It was almost like
    a soap opera . . but a very glamorous "soap opera!" Your personal "stuff" was the
    big hook for me, regardless of the glamor. I'm still drawn to that personal content.
    I think you're a very smart, beautiful woman with an exciting life. I'm hoping you
    continue that exciting lifestyle. It's analogous to a TV show. It makes me want to
    watch your show every day. I guess what I'm trying to convey to you is that I'm
    drawn into your "life," with all the good--the bad--and everything in between. So . . .
    I'm championing the plan that showcases your personal life . . . wherever that
    takes you.

  • @annecox1161
    @annecox1161 Рік тому +4

    Glad you are doing better Dominique

  • @MarilynDean-i5b
    @MarilynDean-i5b Рік тому

    What a informative Pod Cast today. I am on good shift now. My interest have changed and it is making me a better person. God, yes! All things are possible through christ who strengthens us. I have found journaling 20 years ago and looking back and reading it now, started out negative which is more positive now. God brought me through it. I am because of Gods love. ❤️

  • @conniegable9657
    @conniegable9657 Рік тому +2

    Excellent, excellent podcast, Dominique ‼️ Thank you for your openness and honesty. (Spoken from a 70 year old, blonde, still in shape (mostly 😂) hiker, walker and yogi). I’ve been thru much the same the last 42 years including the death of a newborn, motherhood of two others, left a 17 yr marriage in midlife, returned to graduate school as a single mom in midlife, dating, remarriage, moved to a new city at age 50, now back to my home town and wonderful grandmotherhood - and lots more in between. Thanks for saying that we can accept the saggy skin - (it’s actually AOK with me), and that it’s NOT what you see in the mirror. Thank you for advertising and encouraging personal therapy, and being open about healing issues from your past with your father. And yes, GOD HAS GOT US ALL‼️

  • @karenscookingkorner
    @karenscookingkorner Рік тому +7

    Yes! More financial education episodes!! Please 😊😊

  • @A040815
    @A040815 Рік тому

    50-60 s are the happiest time in my life. Already being accomplished professionally, seeing your growing children succeeding, having grandchildren,able to prioritize the important, taking care of each other and supporting in mutual relationship with your spouse… and planning the retirement… truly golden years

  • @amaliyaamstislavskaya6547
    @amaliyaamstislavskaya6547 Рік тому

    Thank you Dominique for this podcast. I am 50 and going through the tough period of my life. This podcast is a big support for me right now

  • @monagould1829
    @monagould1829 Рік тому +1

    You are such an incredible mentor!!! Thank you for all you bring to your viewers

  • @tadeuszoltarzewski
    @tadeuszoltarzewski Рік тому

    Thank you for being so honest about your life change. It takes real courage. Sending respect and ❤from Rosie O from Devon England 👏🇬🇧🤗x

  • @maple8576
    @maple8576 Рік тому

    You are the best I’ve followed, thanks for sharing things happened in your life and your advices. Wish you the best

  • @tonyahigginbotham4367
    @tonyahigginbotham4367 Рік тому

    I'm 54 years old, divorced since 2012 after twenty years of marriage and I have one son who is 33 years old.
    I'm in the process of reinventing my life as well.
    For 32 years, I've been in the media as Account Executive and have been blessed with a very lucrative income. It's a hard decision to make a change but at the same time very exciting. I have met a man who is my soulmate and who I love dearly.
    My choices are based on my happiness and not based on superficial reasons.
    I truly admire you and have followed you for years.
    Oh, by the way, my friend and former colleague, Lisa Fischer Gibson, interviewed you a while back on her podcast. You are truly an inspiration for so many women who are flourishing in their 50's❤. Thank you for all you do.

  • @terrideboer3673
    @terrideboer3673 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the Lume endorsement! I’ve wanted to try it for awhile and just ordered it!

  • @JeanetteFigaro-Barr
    @JeanetteFigaro-Barr Рік тому

    “And you wear it well”. I never thought I cared much for blogs. I really enjoy yours. TY.

  • @ljroberts3739
    @ljroberts3739 Рік тому +10

    Hello there, Super Dominique 😊
    I'm slightly older.... But after a very chaotic life, it's the small things that I seek for balance. I adore my dog, rescue cats and horse. They keep me grounded and at peace. And a sense of peace is vitally important after a crisis in 2018 that almost ended my life. I'm striving for work: school: art balance. Above all, I'm keenly aware of my mental state by sleeping well. You mentioned a Women's Health Retreat... Where may I find that?
    Thank YOU SO MUCH for taking on all of these subjects.
    Kind good regards & continued success 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @louisest-pierre9748
    @louisest-pierre9748 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for your words, work and inspiration ❤😊

  • @melindabiddy7165
    @melindabiddy7165 Рік тому +8

    I am in middle of this. Trying to reinvent myself as well.

  • @ninajohnson6578
    @ninajohnson6578 Рік тому

    So glad you will be addressing finances for women in mid life and beyond. Critical!

  • @marlenekerrmarlene1259
    @marlenekerrmarlene1259 Рік тому +8

    50s is sooooo young , yes as we get a lot older it is scary knowing time is going so fast

    • @adacrespin3005
      @adacrespin3005 Рік тому +2

      Yeah you don’t really even start to age till your late 50s.I would like to see her come on about 10 years from now and show how she feels and looks

  • @marilynrybak9154
    @marilynrybak9154 Рік тому

    Once I learned I needed to set boundaries and learned how to set those boundaries and stick to the boundaries, things in life got much better.

  • @welcomwelcom9882
    @welcomwelcom9882 Рік тому +4

    I love and look forward to your wonderful Monday podcasts
    Interesting educational and inspiring
    Thank u Dominique

  • @reneebertram2365
    @reneebertram2365 Рік тому +8

    OMG, Your story is a lot like mine. I am a stronger and better for going through the diversities. I love myself more now. My very good friend di ally left a terrible marriage after 42 years. She is REALLY reinventing herself! I have a ton of wisdom to share with her. I am sharing your channel with her too!

  • @daylasimeone336
    @daylasimeone336 Рік тому +3

    Havent even started watching yet but i am having some hard mid-life feelings. Turning 50 this week, youngest child just graduated, been unfulfilled in my job (over 25 years there). I need a pep talk lol

  • @laurel2dream837
    @laurel2dream837 Рік тому

    Dominique, thank you so much for doing the podcast! I admire you and I’m praying for you. I went through a divorce five years ago and gone through health challenges with three of my four sons. I am happy to hear that you are going to drive deep into the financial discussion! Blessings💞

  • @dianaduffy9185
    @dianaduffy9185 Рік тому +4

    Such a helpful podcast....packed with encouraging words and insight! Thank you ladies!❤

  • @Karrycraus
    @Karrycraus Рік тому

    Thank you Dominique you are such an inspiration. You really had so much at one time but you handled yourself with such grace and class. I really enjoy spending time with you watching UA-cam and now the Pod Cast! Thank you for you honesty and openness that can't be easy. Best wishes and blessings.

  • @sandyroyals5920
    @sandyroyals5920 Рік тому +3

    Just started following you. I am 10 years older than you with very similar passions. I am a lay Counselor at a non-profit working with women. I love your zeal for life and I totally admire your transparency and keeping it real. I am enjoying all of your content and journey. Keep up the good work! 💞

  • @deniseneppl3655
    @deniseneppl3655 11 місяців тому

    Ohhh Tears and more tears ! This was a great lol video ! Love Ralphie ! You four are really blessed to have each other . Happy thanksgiving to you all💕

  • @Celltosoul
    @Celltosoul Рік тому +2

    Please do a video on the business of UA-cam. It would be fascinating and very helpful! Thank you!

  • @Foodtrends463
    @Foodtrends463 Рік тому +4

    Hello Dominique, I love your videos and can definitely relate to starting over. Can you please talk more about the youtube business, how to start it and what’s involved. Thank you so much!

  • @sandraammons6672
    @sandraammons6672 Рік тому +2

    Good luck and you have come a long way. All of this is impossible to do when you don’t have any money. Do do have to have some money. Great job. Love your videos.

  • @RoseannaSassoSchottenfeld
    @RoseannaSassoSchottenfeld Рік тому

    WOW was this conversation very near & dear to my heart. I started a UA-cam channel for the mature woman, about 3+ years ago when I was going to be an empty nester. Now I know I can be a business woman and create something of my own. I just don’t know the business background of UA-cam. How to make money? How to ask/read a contract? What contract is legitimate? How to become an entrepreneur with my UA-cam channel? I’d love to hear a podcast about that! Thanks so much!

  • @carolynruiz3656
    @carolynruiz3656 Рік тому +1

    As an octogenarian and having pivoted many times in my life. Like you have just moved into an apartment complex and love it. Would be fun to share my story and perspective with you. You only confirm what I have positively experienced.

  • @liana2136
    @liana2136 Рік тому +5

    I respect your decision to leave the news industry, Dominique. It was a courageous thing to do, especially considering that the timing was not ideal for you. Thank you for walking the "be bold" talk. ❤

  • @tinaharris7629
    @tinaharris7629 Рік тому +1

    Hi Dominique, I am very much enjoying your new podcast channel. Could you please tell us what lipstick you are wearing it looks so beautiful and summery. Thank you for all that you do. Much love xx