That was very deep. For a long time I’ve been very hurt and angry about a guy from my past that I never should have gotten involved with. I’ve said to myself I can’t have sex with anyone else after that. I did not get pregnant or have an abortion, but we had a good thing going on until I realized that all I was was his latest flavor of the week. I felt extremely hurt, I felt like he thought I was some kind of slut even though he never said those words to me. Now, I realize I have to let this pain go because there are other men out there that are not like this. I’m still very guarded, I’ve learned my lesson, but my bitterness needs to go. It’s too much and I won’t be able to try to have another relationship until I do let it go.
I know what you're going through ! and I can easily imagine that deep pain ! People can be so cruel . When it happens , we are never ready, and we do have the right to be angry and bitter. But we must let it go because bitter won't make you better , we have to forgive ! Because we need that release ! My wife of 33 years just left me ! She planned it ! It took 5 years to find the right moment to destroy me ! She's actually enjoying what she did to me ! I lose my house everything ! I'm retired now ! And I have to find an apartment, and pay rent ! But it's done now , I let it go ! FOR ME !
@@Steve20333 Wow, I’m sorry. I was married but after about 6 years together, both of us were having some serious issues where we were just arguing too much and not getting anywhere, I was just damn frustrated. So then, you guessed it, I get involved with this handsome charming person, I thought we really had a good connection, and all that’s really happening is I’m getting involved with a total player, he’s good looking and he KNOWS it, and I am just so full of rage after that, not just at him but at myself for falling for it. And my husband and I got back together later but of course, things were never the same. And actually, he died last year in December, he had a lot of health problems, he was 64. I miss him so much, because we always tried to be there for each other and we really did love each other, we just didn’t have much money and it was rough. And in some dumb way I miss the other guy, really I don’t miss him I guess I just miss the sex, but it was very strange how we got together, I will just leave it at that. I don’t need to be broadcasting my sex life on the internet here, and it’s totally non existent now!!! I’m not going to get on any of these crazy dating apps some people do, I’m not going to hang out at any bars, and it seems like everywhere I go everyone is staring at their phones and being totally unaware of anyone around them. We’re just not communicating in real life anymore!!!!
No. It’s off point Jewish sages from middle ages taught me better. One forgives after 1) the facts are out in the open, and agreed on, what you did 2) the other apologizes and that apology is sincere. Apologies come from the heart 3) promise not to do again 4) restitution. Money was stolen/lie was told/ cheating was done? There’s no real apology unless the money is returned, or the gossip to another is retracted and corrected, or the cheating is cleared up, as much as possible. Then one forgives. In fact is almost required to do so, and do so fully and immediately. This video-wordy.
🌠✨What worked for me Very FAST✨🌠 Hold a candle, imagine the person who'd hurt you, pray for their Happiness, short and INTENSELY. You'll see things happening taking its natural course as if Universe is speeding things up for u to watch it. 🌠LEAVE RESULTS TO THE UNIVERSE🌠 ✨It's all about U Having PEACE Within✨
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself
Amen
That was very deep. For a long time I’ve been very hurt and angry about a guy from my past that I never should have gotten involved with. I’ve said to myself I can’t have sex with anyone else after that. I did not get pregnant or have an abortion, but we had a good thing going on until I realized that all I was was his latest flavor of the week. I felt extremely hurt, I felt like he thought I was some kind of slut even though he never said those words to me. Now, I realize I have to let this pain go because there are other men out there that are not like this. I’m still very guarded, I’ve learned my lesson, but my bitterness needs to go. It’s too much and I won’t be able to try to have another relationship until I do let it go.
I’ve been there…..try to look at it like a wonderful lesson you won’t repeat
I know what you're going through !
and I can easily imagine that deep pain ! People can be so cruel . When it happens , we are never ready, and we do have the right to be angry and bitter.
But we must let it go because bitter won't make you better , we have to forgive ! Because we need that release !
My wife of 33 years just left me ! She planned it ! It took 5 years to find the right moment to destroy me !
She's actually enjoying what she did to me !
I lose my house everything !
I'm retired now ! And I have to find an apartment, and pay rent !
But it's done now , I let it go ! FOR ME !
@@Steve20333 Wow, I’m sorry. I was married but after about 6 years together, both of us were having some serious issues where we were just arguing too much and not getting anywhere, I was just damn frustrated. So then, you guessed it, I get involved with this handsome charming person, I thought we really had a good connection, and all that’s really happening is I’m getting involved with a total player, he’s good looking and he KNOWS it, and I am just so full of rage after that, not just at him but at myself for falling for it. And my husband and I got back together later but of course, things were never the same. And actually, he died last year in December, he had a lot of health problems, he was 64. I miss him so much, because we always tried to be there for each other and we really did love each other, we just didn’t have much money and it was rough. And in some dumb way I miss the other guy, really I don’t miss him I guess I just miss the sex, but it was very strange how we got together, I will just leave it at that. I don’t need to be broadcasting my sex life on the internet here, and it’s totally non existent now!!! I’m not going to get on any of these crazy dating apps some people do, I’m not going to hang out at any bars, and it seems like everywhere I go everyone is staring at their phones and being totally unaware of anyone around them. We’re just not communicating in real life anymore!!!!
@@Steve20333 Hey, I am really sorry you’re going through that. I hope in time, things will be better.
No. It’s off point
Jewish sages from middle ages taught me better. One forgives after
1) the facts are out in the open, and agreed on, what you did
2) the other apologizes and that apology is sincere. Apologies come from the heart
3) promise not to do again
4) restitution. Money was stolen/lie was told/ cheating was done? There’s no real apology unless the money is returned, or the gossip to another is retracted and corrected, or the cheating is cleared up, as much as possible.
Then one forgives. In fact is almost required to do so, and do so fully and immediately.
This video-wordy.
🌠✨What worked for me Very FAST✨🌠
Hold a candle, imagine the person who'd
hurt you, pray for their Happiness, short
and INTENSELY.
You'll see things happening taking its
natural course as if Universe is speeding
things up for u to watch it.
🌠LEAVE RESULTS TO THE UNIVERSE🌠
✨It's all about U Having PEACE Within✨
Lots of trendy jargon here
Don’t cross here boundaries. 😉
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