I was a little worried about switching it up but I'm really glad you like it. Sometimes I feel like my thumbnails are all the same and get old, idk if you feel the same, or do you like the consistency?
@@jacobdreamsasmr honestly i think some smiling ones would be nice just as a little break and show us a different side that we all get to see in your videos! but ofc whatever you feel comfortable with, we will still watch no matter how the thumbnail looks :)
That's great to hear, I have this ancient light box that attaches to my camera, idk if you could tell but I haven't used it the past couple vids cuz it dies so quickly, but I did this time and the lighting is way better
aww ur thumbnail is so cute! maybe its bc i fall asleep to ur videos so quick, but i dont really see u smile much so this is a nice surprise. great video as always, thanks for the nice rest before my trip tmr :))
For some reason I forgot I do asmr and when I was picking a thumbnail I was like oh let me switch it up and pick a smiling one, they've seen me smile I'm sure it's fine. And then I remembered that nobody looks at the screen past the first 5 seconds. And I was right cuz a couple of people said it scared them. But I'm glad you like it hahaha
About the questions thing... I would say its entirely dependent on the person to whom you are speaking, but generally I think most girls enjoy when a guy asks interesting and engaging questions. The issue lies in the fact that every girls definition of interesting is going to be different and so I just say go for it and find out. Me personally, I love when a guy asks interesting maybe some would say "weird" questions because it shows he cares and that he himself is interesting.
Just came to say I would love if you did another advice video. I have watched the full 2 hours of it at least 3 times. I know it was probably tons of work so no rush, just want you to know your work was appreciated and we would love another one!
@@jacobdreamsasmr I love any advice you give catered towards just being a person in your early 20s figuring life out. Specifically though, I would love some advice on building relationships, both romantic and platonic. I moved about a year ago from a small town in Oregon, to Orlando. I love it here. I love my job, I love the city, I love my home, but I haven’t made a single friend. I have some amazing friends from back home that I keep very close contact with so I haven’t really been lonely, but it’s just not the same as if they were here. I have met a few people through bumble bff/ facebook groups, but I am just so picky. If there is one small red flag or something I dislike I’m done with them. I am the same way with romantic relationships. I want close friends like I used to have, but I value my alone time so much and I find that the average person tends to like me more than I like them then I just end up hurting their feelings. Sorry it’s so long, but I just wanted you to get the full picture. I’m not sure if this is even something you can help with, but i’ve just been struggling with it. Thanks!
Somehow me smiling in the thumbnail is even more sociopathic than the soulless stare I usually do. Have you watched any of the new season yet, I haven't
i was about to fall asleep but u asked for 5 seconds to come up wd an example on what kinda out of pocket questions u used to ask in highschool,but still didn’t come up wd anything after a loong pause was OUTRAGEOUS lol
I am really good with nerves. I think there was one date I went on that I was like super nervous because I didn’t want to say or do anything awkward but after many dates I just try to stay cool and not be so much in my head.
Bruh I'm so glad you asked, I really like it, specifically glock and inside. I think it'll grow on me too, that's what's happened with every album he's put out. What did you think?
Just noticed that you have the tiktok “dead eyes” that is why the thumbnails give me a scary vibe. From the way you speak tho, I am sure you are a chill guy.
I feel like this channel is slowly becoming you just being our dating coach 😂
i would nottt be complaining🤣
some ppl actually pay for dating coaches, so yall be grateful we gettin this for free 😭
I’m honestly okay with that cause I’m learning “ how to love Lil Wayne voice “ lmaooo
love that you're smiling in ur thumbnail!
same. W jacob
❤❤
I was a little worried about switching it up but I'm really glad you like it. Sometimes I feel like my thumbnails are all the same and get old, idk if you feel the same, or do you like the consistency?
@@jacobdreamsasmr honestly i think some smiling ones would be nice just as a little break and show us a different side that we all get to see in your videos! but ofc whatever you feel comfortable with, we will still watch no matter how the thumbnail looks :)
your lighting for your videos is so easy on the eyes and so cinematic, i really appreciated that
That's great to hear, I have this ancient light box that attaches to my camera, idk if you could tell but I haven't used it the past couple vids cuz it dies so quickly, but I did this time and the lighting is way better
his smile is so cute
aww ur thumbnail is so cute! maybe its bc i fall asleep to ur videos so quick, but i dont really see u smile much so this is a nice surprise. great video as always, thanks for the nice rest before my trip tmr :))
For some reason I forgot I do asmr and when I was picking a thumbnail I was like oh let me switch it up and pick a smiling one, they've seen me smile I'm sure it's fine. And then I remembered that nobody looks at the screen past the first 5 seconds. And I was right cuz a couple of people said it scared them. But I'm glad you like it hahaha
I wish I could play this in a Bluetooth earpiece for my first date next week… both to relax me and so I know what he’s going to ask next
About the questions thing... I would say its entirely dependent on the person to whom you are speaking, but generally I think most girls enjoy when a guy asks interesting and engaging questions. The issue lies in the fact that every girls definition of interesting is going to be different and so I just say go for it and find out. Me personally, I love when a guy asks interesting maybe some would say "weird" questions because it shows he cares and that he himself is interesting.
loved your smile on thumbnail
Just came to say I would love if you did another advice video. I have watched the full 2 hours of it at least 3 times. I know it was probably tons of work so no rush, just want you to know your work was appreciated and we would love another one!
I love advice vids so that’s a great idea, do you have any specific topics you’d want addressed?
@@jacobdreamsasmr I love any advice you give catered towards just being a person in your early 20s figuring life out.
Specifically though, I would love some advice on building relationships, both romantic and platonic.
I moved about a year ago from a small town in Oregon, to Orlando. I love it here. I love my job, I love the city, I love my home, but I haven’t made a single friend.
I have some amazing friends from back home that I keep very close contact with so I haven’t really been lonely, but it’s just not the same as if they were here.
I have met a few people through bumble bff/ facebook groups, but I am just so picky. If there is one small red flag or something I dislike I’m done with them. I am the same way with romantic relationships.
I want close friends like I used to have, but I value my alone time so much and I find that the average person tends to like me more than I like them then I just end up hurting their feelings.
Sorry it’s so long, but I just wanted you to get the full picture. I’m not sure if this is even something you can help with, but i’ve just been struggling with it.
Thanks!
Jacob omg i got so sweet and kind vibes watching this video,you’re so shiny and have so positive energy!! thank you so much for new amazing video💗
That's so sweet of you, thank you! I'm glad you liked it
i can’t sleep cuz some of the things you’re saying are so funny lmao (neighbour’s dog,finance book etc😭😭)
the smile in the thumbnail is giving major homelander vibes, halloween homelander roleplay when
Somehow me smiling in the thumbnail is even more sociopathic than the soulless stare I usually do. Have you watched any of the new season yet, I haven't
yes!! the new season is so good, i always watch discussion videos afterwards cause this season has so much potential
bro this dude that I like asked me out yesterday!!! I’m def gonna play this while i’m getting ready for my first date 😊 Thank you!! 🙏 ❤
Let's goooo congrats bruh, have fun, if it works out I expect a wedding invite
HAHHAHA “wish you were on a first date” thank you i do 😭
My fav channel ❤️
i was about to fall asleep but u asked for 5 seconds to come up wd an example on what kinda out of pocket questions u used to ask in highschool,but still didn’t come up wd anything after a loong pause was OUTRAGEOUS lol
I messed that part up so badly bruh I swear I had like five examples before I recorded
This is crazy cuz this Saturday I’m literally going on my first first date in months 🤯
Then this video truly was for you, good luck and have fun
ohh yaaaay just in time for bed ❤
never looked better thank you kind sir 🙂↕️🫶🏾
I am really good with nerves. I think there was one date I went on that I was like super nervous because I didn’t want to say or do anything awkward but after many dates I just try to stay cool and not be so much in my head.
Experience definitely helps, I hope you still get excited about it though
Brooo your girlfriend is lucky to have you 😂
Fr bruh I tell her that every day
This was good.
Off topic but your hair is growing rlly well
I second that ❤
Just found your channel 💜
this ate
Jacob, thoughts on the hardstone psycho album? Also do you have a fav song yet?
Bruh I'm so glad you asked, I really like it, specifically glock and inside. I think it'll grow on me too, that's what's happened with every album he's put out. What did you think?
@@jacobdreamsasmrI really liked it too! My favorite rn is kryptonite
Can you make mukbang, cooking asmr videos. Even a gardening video could be cool!
Those are great ideas, I'd love to try something a little more experimental and life-like, like showing you guys my shoes or clothes or something
someone said his name is jacob but looks like edward
Soft spoken video next pleaseeeeee
I've been thinking a bit about different whisper styles I could try, do you know any channels who do that well that I could check out?
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bro uploaaaaddd a new video 😭😭
Actually am though 🙌🏻
Jacob you should fr think about becoming a therapist ‼️
I've lowkey been thinking about it, it's just the three more years of school that intimdates me
That thumbnail terrified me at first
Can a guy be happy once in a while smh
bro upload
Next time make a video on arrange marriage
That's interesting, I have absolutely no experience w that but maybe I'll do some research into it
You're definitely an INFJ
I am, what gave me away
We need a vid with your gf next
I actually think she's down, I'll tell her you said that and see what she says
Just noticed that you have the tiktok “dead eyes” that is why the thumbnails give me a scary vibe. From the way you speak tho, I am sure you are a chill guy.
He's chill once you get to know him
Bro upload wtf
I am begging for a boyfriend roleplay if you are willing and comfortable 🙏