BALDING Through My 20's - Its Time To SHAVE My HEAD BALD

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    In this video Tom Shares with us the moment he shaved off his balding hair after dealing with male Pattern Baldness for 10 years.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 148

  • @victor_lucco7
    @victor_lucco7 23 дні тому +87

    It is strong to have to face baldness when you are young, but remember in life you lose worse things than hair

    • @jackcarver8234
      @jackcarver8234 23 дні тому +2

      yeah but its on the top of ur head, not like u could hide it under ur feets

    • @victor_lucco7
      @victor_lucco7 23 дні тому

      I also have baldness that does not show me is different, I do not hide I shave and let it grow a little and I feel good

    • @gloriouskatatsumuri
      @gloriouskatatsumuri 23 дні тому +3

      ​@@jackcarver8234what does that even mean?!

    • @jackcarver8234
      @jackcarver8234 23 дні тому +8

      @@gloriouskatatsumuri that mean everyone and girls see it, and prefer hair way more often than you think so try convice you that u are great without hair but only girl opinions matter. Of course bald is better than a Big receiding hairline

    • @emelianoallen301
      @emelianoallen301 23 дні тому +19

      @@jackcarver8234only girls opinions matter? really bro? if your self worth is based on women’s opinions in this life you’re done for.

  • @NAMEDTODIE
    @NAMEDTODIE 23 дні тому +25

    Suits him so well, never needed to be worried

  • @Edit.Name.
    @Edit.Name. 22 дні тому +7

    I'm not bald, but with this channel I feel part of the brotherhood

    • @ben0789
      @ben0789 17 днів тому +1

      I shaved my head when my sister pointed out my bald spot.

  • @dakaiez919
    @dakaiez919 23 дні тому +15

    Looking good, good choice. It's really liberating isn't it? I did the same around 2-3 months ago, having massively receding front and balding crown. Used to live with a cap on my head, was extremely anxious about it, hated the look when I saw it.
    Then found the channel, watched for a few days and decided to do the deed, felt amazing just taking it off and was at ease and so much happier/comfortable with myself straight away. Best decision i've made, no more worries and trying to hide it.

    • @ChillCash
      @ChillCash 23 дні тому +2

      The ironic part is that I look much better with a buzz cut than I ever did with long hair! 😇🙏 Easier to nourish my scalp this way too.

    • @richardevans7035
      @richardevans7035 23 дні тому +2

      Balding at the crown is the worst, it happened to me

    • @brendan5419
      @brendan5419 10 днів тому +1

      I was part of the cap gang. the longer you wear cap the more curious people. become about what your hiding. I was in work 3 years before i took cap off was so awkward. Although i dont think i look as good i feel way more relaxed and confident in myself

  • @vikingg317
    @vikingg317 23 дні тому +20

    Welcome brother👨🏻‍🦲

  • @ColzyNonsense
    @ColzyNonsense 23 дні тому +7

    Idk why, I think it’s because this guy is the one that I feel like explains the same emotions I feel and same stuff I go through with my struggle of balding but, it’s time. I’ve seen your videos pop up just like he did and I always find myself coming back to see testimonies, and this is the one that gave me the confidence to go this upcoming week and do it so thank you!

    • @lannyfromcanada3485
      @lannyfromcanada3485 17 днів тому +3

      You got this bro👍

    • @ColzyNonsense
      @ColzyNonsense 17 днів тому

      @@lannyfromcanada3485 I did it boys. The missing piece of confidence is back! My barber and I had a great laugh about it

    • @BudaMac
      @BudaMac День тому

      💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻👴🏻🪒

  • @Jaggerbush
    @Jaggerbush 22 дні тому +4

    Just remember - most of the people youre gonna know in life at your age, you havent met yet! We're only gonna know you THIS version of you... And it looks great!

  • @istvanbally2817
    @istvanbally2817 23 дні тому +2

    Hear the man! This channel makes all the difference! And you, sir, look really cool!

  • @lassebongo126
    @lassebongo126 23 дні тому +12

    You look really good, great choice! 😊

  • @meinkanal7443
    @meinkanal7443 23 дні тому +5

    Bro looks fresh as duck! Awesome story you shared. Can relate & felt the same!

  • @tonyjenkins3937
    @tonyjenkins3937 23 дні тому +14

    Bald is Beautiful get brave get Shaved 🪒

  • @NeilofBeeston
    @NeilofBeeston 23 дні тому +2

    You do look great. I shaved my head bald 4 years ago and got nothing but positives. I have been shaved bald since. It’s a really cool style.

  • @r12004rewy
    @r12004rewy 23 дні тому +2

    Brilliant mate you look really good, your advice to shave your head and not leave it too long is so true, years of worry and torment can be avoided just get those clippers out and shave it off. I personally felt so much better I admit to reducing the length over a matter of years but finally took the plunge and shaved it all off and I absolutely love being bald, I'm addicted to shaving every couple of days and even top it off with bald shine .

  • @AssasinPlays
    @AssasinPlays 23 дні тому +8

    Great editing on this one!

  • @Jaymonroe88
    @Jaymonroe88 7 днів тому +1

    I’m 36 got a full set of hair but it’s thining just a little at the front I always said to my self when my hair starts to thin I’m taking it off which I’m doing next week at the barbers all booked nervous but excited at the same time going for the buzz cut. And I’m grateful that my hair just starting thinin now got to enjoy my teens 20s up to mid 30s. definitely don’t wanna be one of them guys that are trying pull there hair around to cover the light patches with 5 hairs on there head I’m going out with a bit of dignity 😂

  • @DavidC-lr8yw
    @DavidC-lr8yw 23 дні тому +7

    You should do a series on people who choose to be bald. I haven't paid for a haircut since COVID started. I have shaved my head to nought ever since then.

    • @brandondolan4009
      @brandondolan4009 22 дні тому

      Interesting read.. what made you decide to taken it off and keep it like that? Was you experiencing hairloss?

    • @buridah328
      @buridah328 22 дні тому

      You can’t join the brotherhood if you’re not a blood brother

    • @DavidC-lr8yw
      @DavidC-lr8yw 22 дні тому +1

      @@brandondolan4009 no hair loss here. Thick head of hair, I just think being bald is so cool and everyone afterwards always suits the new them.

  • @mrphil3879
    @mrphil3879 23 дні тому +15

    I've just shaved my head with no guard about 2 hrs ago, I've had long hair for a while and had it tied back I just couldn't do it anymore so off it went, I used to have my hair like this years ago

    • @ChillCash
      @ChillCash 23 дні тому +2

      Excellent decision. More attractive and more masculine!

    • @MBJK_baby
      @MBJK_baby 18 днів тому +1

      Best decision ever mate!

    • @BudaMac
      @BudaMac День тому +1

      🪒💪🏻

  • @brentparsons2365
    @brentparsons2365 22 дні тому +3

    He seems like a lovely bloke

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  22 дні тому +2

      Absolute top bloke

  • @richardevans7035
    @richardevans7035 23 дні тому +2

    Looks much better and you look younger,

  • @chanakya6941
    @chanakya6941 14 днів тому +1

    Welcome bro

  • @vanaconsulting
    @vanaconsulting 23 дні тому +1

    Looks really good. Better than with the hair,

  • @Meshwork123
    @Meshwork123 2 дні тому

    Looks good. Accentuates your eye colour. When you’re an old codger like me, they’ll be plenty of other things to worry about.

  • @keaganlloyd672
    @keaganlloyd672 21 день тому +2

    I went fully bald at the age of 20, and I have made peace with it .
    The only thing that still really bugs me …is that I cannot grow a decent beard..I’ve managed to grow a goatee but even then it’s rather insignificant.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  21 день тому +2

      You’ve got 10 years for your facial hair to develop mate. I had nothing at 20 and an extremely mid beard at 25. It was only at 29/30 that I saw its true potential

  • @mondyst2430
    @mondyst2430 23 дні тому +2

    I’m 39 lost my hair 11 years ago had a system for 5 years and just one day woke up and shaved it off but I’d rather bic it with a razzer which I did and been happy since sometimes a wear a hot if it’s hot as ill burn

  • @scrappy-2694
    @scrappy-2694 17 днів тому +1

    Hi I’m new to the channel. Im 28 years old and I came across your channel while looking for hair loss advice but everything seems to be so expensive and in my situation I can not afford a hair transplant. I’ve been thinking of shaving my head just to get it over and done with but I’m genuinely scared because I feel like everyone will laugh at me I also have combined adhd which makes the thoughts even worse. Do you have any advice to help me though this difficult time. Love your vids and thank you in advance for listening to my story.

  • @m4rtas419
    @m4rtas419 22 дні тому +1

    Yeah looks better and masculine. 👍

  • @SewTubular
    @SewTubular 23 дні тому +3

    Went through the same thing about 10 years older. Started shaving my head by my 40s. Shaved is definitely better than half a head of hair.

  • @c.mirashi
    @c.mirashi 23 дні тому +2

    Man im 20 i see balding well people say im by no means ik getting bald and its just my hair are thin,
    But the truth is in getting hair fall and from past 1 year ive seen significant change in my hairline and hair density/volume
    I feel like I should shave it off all, but I still haven't found ny soulmate and I've never dated anyone and i feel like this lowers my chances of dating anyone its sad

    • @viesturs6321
      @viesturs6321 23 дні тому +1

      Dont worry when you accept yourseld wethee it be full bald or buzzcut it will increase your confidence in yourself making it easier to get girls then if your insecure about it, trust me.

    • @jodleeray
      @jodleeray 21 день тому

      Someone who likes you for who you are won’t care that you’re bald. My nephew just had to shave his head for a surgery and he looks awesome. He is only 20.

    • @flynnmiddleton7102
      @flynnmiddleton7102 21 день тому

      I recommend finasteride if you want to keep your hair. The choice is yours. Don’t feel pressured either way.

    • @MBJK_baby
      @MBJK_baby 18 днів тому

      I’m a woman and I’m only 18 so I’m still worried about dating however I love bald guys. They always have better confidence than guys who are struggling with hair loss. I know it’s hard mentally as some women won’t like it but a good woman won’t care and a great woman will realize the money saved from not doing crazy things to try to save your hair can be put towards her.

  • @ahtijansson9283
    @ahtijansson9283 23 дні тому +11

    in my opinion (i'm a woman) bald guys are so much better looking than balding looks cleaner and more professional

    • @dinamo.slavonija
      @dinamo.slavonija 23 дні тому +3

      they all look the same, such a boring look to have

    • @donaldallen9804
      @donaldallen9804 22 дні тому +1

      ​@@dinamo.slavonijahow is it boring?

    • @dinamo.slavonija
      @dinamo.slavonija 22 дні тому +1

      @@donaldallen9804 cause you cant change it. You can onoy be bald for the rest of your life and nothing else. Its boring.

    • @drizzlydr4ke
      @drizzlydr4ke 22 дні тому +1

      @@dinamo.slavonija you must be fun at parties

    • @shyman99
      @shyman99 22 дні тому +3

      @@dinamo.slavonija - Men don't change hairstyles. Women do. Men change facial hair and clothes. If you want to get a perm, feel free. But masculine men will think you are a .....

  • @InspireRise-kk8uf
    @InspireRise-kk8uf 8 годин тому

    Top G

  • @wutangtimmy3064
    @wutangtimmy3064 21 день тому

    Never seen a person look like he was meant to be bald as much as this guy

  • @user-hi1jm8qf2m
    @user-hi1jm8qf2m 19 днів тому

    The biggest challenge going bald is making peace with yourself. You start with the buzz cut, then move to shaving. But hey, ask yourself, do you really need hair on your head to look good ? Look at the rock, vin diesel, kratos ;) it's not a disease, it's an hairstyle. Accept what is given and carry it, your confidence will outshine it.
    Shaving bald since 5 years, and rolling with it.

  • @IWannaBeFamous647
    @IWannaBeFamous647 22 дні тому +1

    You have to leave things that are gonna leave you..
    Looks so much better than you trying to hold on.

  • @Master-hb8ny
    @Master-hb8ny 21 день тому +1

    Я был модельной внешности, девушки вешались на меня. Я начал лысеть рано и 3 года назад облысел полностью. У меня теперь куча комплексов и девушек стесняюсь. Буду делать пересадку волос

  • @thanostsarbos1197
    @thanostsarbos1197 22 дні тому

    What's his age ?

  • @buzzcubb
    @buzzcubb 10 днів тому

    I actually think he looked good before as well as after. There’s nothing wrong with a guy losing his hair. It’s totally natural.

  • @LaszloGalffy
    @LaszloGalffy 20 днів тому

    many thinning people are wearing a hat and i think being bald is so common nowdays that hat is just doing more harm. Literally no one cares about your hair, whether one is bald or has hair. Hat just reinforces insecurity. By the way, most people assume that if you wear a hat, you are probably balding

  • @mrrocknroll5284
    @mrrocknroll5284 2 дні тому +1

    Or you can save for hairplugs. Instead of shaving it off then deep down inside regretting it months later

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  День тому

      What is to regret when months later you can literally be in the exact same position you were in before you shaved it off. It’s a hair cut not cosmetic surgery lad c’mon

  • @healthfreakgg
    @healthfreakgg 23 дні тому +1

    yet again another guy who looks way better bald, haha!

  • @stuartharvey3762
    @stuartharvey3762 19 днів тому

    Fit

  • @smcdonald9991
    @smcdonald9991 23 дні тому +6

    But why do people feel compel to comment on someone's baldness?
    Would it be acceptable to say to an obese person "Oh gosh you're really getting fat"?

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  23 дні тому +9

      He actually makes this point in the full podcast coming soon

    • @neilyb4590
      @neilyb4590 23 дні тому

      Some so called friend will always point out baldness and weight gain they seldom mention weight loss in case your ill

    • @cem1838
      @cem1838 22 дні тому +2

      Exactly! And if you say anything, you're met with "lighten up. Learn to take a joke." But truthfully, we're fair game for teasing. It is demoralizing.

    • @Jay-oh1li
      @Jay-oh1li 22 дні тому +3

      Because baldness is largely a male problem. If women suffered from baldness to the extent men do, there wouldn't be a word about it.

    • @atomicpunk8031
      @atomicpunk8031 21 день тому +2

      It normally sends me into deep depression

  • @donaldallen9804
    @donaldallen9804 23 дні тому

    Shave 🪒 it off be bald be free

  • @Ghost-oq8fw
    @Ghost-oq8fw 23 дні тому +3

    He looks like Locke from LOST

  • @jordanreid2619
    @jordanreid2619 22 дні тому +1

    My hair line is getting fucked I’m 27 lol

    • @shyman99
      @shyman99 22 дні тому

      Sorry you were a late bloomer. Better late than never to finally become a man.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  22 дні тому +5

      Honestly not a bad innings mate

  • @bartdegryse9345
    @bartdegryse9345 3 дні тому

    glow up

  • @elfinzilla
    @elfinzilla 23 дні тому +2

    Good for this guy! He looks great! But as someone whose treated hair loss successfully for over 10 years with Dutasteride, you can keep your hair, there are options!

    • @ChillCash
      @ChillCash 23 дні тому +4

      Not all hair loss is equivalent, bro. Nor is it caused by the same things. That type of stuff only works for certain areas of the head also. And honestly, I think men look better with less hair. The only thing we need are our eyebrows lol.

    • @lucas953
      @lucas953 20 днів тому

      Chemical castration

    • @RoxusRemo
      @RoxusRemo 15 днів тому

      @@ChillCash It's good you like being bald however most others would agree it's not bad to want to keep your hair. I personally got a transplant recently as I felt like it really was part of my identity and I just miss being able to have a bit of individuality. Sure it's a strong, brave thing to embrace it but I think people should just give men less stick for treating it or getting a transplant too!

  • @hannesbolman4710
    @hannesbolman4710 23 дні тому +1

    The Problem with all that channel is , dudes looking awesome without hair bec there already know that , so there are showing it to the audience more likly

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  23 дні тому +3

      Extreme pessimism

    • @joEmusic99
      @joEmusic99 22 дні тому +1

      @@BaldcafeI’m surprised you could make out what they’re saying because I couldn’t 😂

    • @Tazza81
      @Tazza81 20 днів тому

      Even if you are not good looking, every bloke looks better with a shaved head than a receding hairline. Also highly recommend if you have a weak chin or a double chin to grow a beard.

  • @dinamo.slavonija
    @dinamo.slavonija 23 дні тому +4

    great, now you look like every other bald clone with a beard, thats really something

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  22 дні тому +5

      Projection 101

    • @dinamo.slavonija
      @dinamo.slavonija 22 дні тому

      @@Baldcafe keep coping, i can see from miles away how emotionally destroyed by hair loss you are. lil princess was too scared of finasteride and now your bald head puts bread on your table so you can't even go for a transplant anymore you'll have to do an actual job then. youre not foolin nobody.

    • @Yiahi65
      @Yiahi65 22 дні тому

      Castration cope

    • @dinamo.slavonija
      @dinamo.slavonija 22 дні тому

      @@Baldcafe why are you deleting my comments? Did you got hurt by truth? When i started baling i wasn't happy about it, but you recorded yourself on the edge of a mental breakdown. Hairloss ruined you and you are not fooling anybody. The only readon you are doing this is cause it puts bread on your table, and God knows you don't wanna do acutal job. Delete this one too you little insecure baldie.

    • @dinamo.slavonija
      @dinamo.slavonija 22 дні тому

      @@Yiahi65 one more unique baldie. Hit tje gym bro and grow a beard 🖕

  • @ChillCash
    @ChillCash 23 дні тому +2

    Buzz cuts > mop heads

    • @gloriouskatatsumuri
      @gloriouskatatsumuri 23 дні тому +2

      Got to disagree.... But a buzz cut / shaved head >>> balding

    • @ChillCash
      @ChillCash 23 дні тому +1

      @@gloriouskatatsumuri On the contrary. Check the compilation on this channel, every single one of the guys looked better afterward lol! A man's appearance is genuinely cleaner and more masculine with less hair. I'd recommend keeping your eyebrows though of course. 😅

    • @gloriouskatatsumuri
      @gloriouskatatsumuri 23 дні тому +1

      ​@@ChillCashagree but they're all balding. None of them have mops of hair. Mop heads = full head of longer hair, which would usually look better than a full head of hair shaved.
      If you're losing your hair though, a shaved head is 100% better.

    • @dinamo.slavonija
      @dinamo.slavonija 23 дні тому +1

      keep dreaming

    • @ChillCash
      @ChillCash 22 дні тому

      @@gloriouskatatsumuri That's actually quite subjective because I personally think my buzz cut ironically looks way better than my unmanageable hair EVER did. And I used to have a comb over! So we'll have to agree to disagree. Even if the men weren't balding, they'd still look better with the buzz cut. Also, having long hair is a bit feminine mate.

  • @backtothebarber
    @backtothebarber 22 дні тому +1

    Guys you really dont have to shave your head unless you are planning to work on healing your follicles. Or unless you want the bald look. It shouldnt be a defeat. I reversed a decade of hair loss using natural products and simple tools. I help men get their high school hair line back on my channel.

    • @donaldallen9804
      @donaldallen9804 22 дні тому +8

      😂

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  22 дні тому +4

      Why don’t you show your face and your reversal of your decade of hair loss in all your videos? I only clicked on 3/4 but could see you show yourself apart from one picture where you are wearing a hat like in your avatar too.

    • @joEmusic99
      @joEmusic99 22 дні тому +3

      @@Baldcafeobviously still insecure and can’t accept it. BALD is not YOU. YOU are bald. But yeah, let’s all take some medication for the rest of our lives and get surgeries that don’t last but for a decade 💀

    • @backtothebarber
      @backtothebarber 22 дні тому

      @@Baldcafe Good question. As you know, the difference between 5000 new hairs and 20k new hairs is drastic. I am getting out my theories and my faceless videos so by the time I am on camera, there wont be a doubt. You can regrow hair, but people are looking for the "hair transplant" aesthetic and that takes quite a while to duplicate if you saw the pics. From most peoples perspective, I dont supposed to grow any- so even these old pics should raise eyebrows. Believe me, I will and they will make the "scam" posts about me more than they do you. I have no doubts and to be honest with you- so confident that proving it visually is secondary. Lastly, most bald men where hats because we cover ourself, Ive done that for over a decade now too. You know this. I like your channel.

    • @backtothebarber
      @backtothebarber 22 дні тому

      @@joEmusic99 Bald is as much you is telling a woman her alopecia is her or a diabetic that, they should accept it. Or any illness should be accepted. Thats the difference between us, you think balding is hair loss, when it is an omen of a heart or prostate disease. They dont tell you that fibrosis or calcification is everywhere but the scalp is sensitive to it and DHT. Not only am I fixing the hair loss, I am focusing on the greater issue, Early death.

  • @Dsnk30
    @Dsnk30 21 день тому

    he seems not to be happy