The tilt of head, a slight smile, a glance…that’s what I do naturally since I was a teenager…explains why I was always approached. Hmmm…now it’s science 😄
This conversation is really making me laugh....in the best way. I'm 64 and ready to find my husband! Many years of healing my trauma...thanks for this!
This explains why guys I’m not interested in are always interested in me. The men I truly like, I shut down and become super self conscious. And I’m more myself and open to men I don’t feel a risk with
Feminity is feeling of safety, and also offering safe space for other partner. Masculinity is about pursuing and action. Feminity is about accepting love and action from men. Feminity isnt about action, but acceptance. But the thing is women also take a lot of action... because being still may too often cause an anxiety or depression action creates a motivation in women as well...because it is oposition of anxiety. But women like to pursue also feminine hobbies, or sports. People think women are so active and taking action, because they want to be masculine. Actually they take action, because they feel discomfort of anxiety, therefore they love sports and hobbies. She feels like she builds her own confidence, health etc, it has nothing to do with men but her own confidence. The skills she learns help her to abe also feminine.
Listened to this podcast before a meet up and was intentional to use most of them as the conversation flowed. It was so much fun and helped me feel flirty and playful 😊. That little meet up for coffee ended up lasting 3 1/2 hours and the conversation never lagged
I can talk to anybody and everybody- I'm a social butterfly. But there is a guy who I'm crushin on, and I'm almost certain he likes me too, but I can't say a word to him because the one time I spoke to him, I froze in an eye lock for like 10 seconds and I couldn't even remember what I had to say. I was like a teenager, and I'm 46! Why can't he be the one to talk to me? I've caught him staring at me, and peacocking in front of me.
Same! Then I for some reason ignore the one I REALLY want to talk to because I don’t want to come across as needy. Ugh. The old tapes in my head are strong!
OK guys. Here’s the deal. In public spaces, the men in the “engineering” department control the temperature settings. Men run warmer due to two things: generally more physical, less sedentary jobs in the workplaces, and greater muscle mass. So they make the temp too cold for the ladies. At work, women will take sweaters, knowing this. At social gatherings, they will wear their festive, social clothes trying to look cute and sexy. Meanwhile, the guy will have the temp set to frigid yet again. We would rather look cute than be warm, in a social setting. We suffer for you men. Well, not me. I’m older and I am bringing the damn sweater.
In MN, no one sensible dresses for attraction. You dress for survival. I'm not wearing spaghetti strap dresses and stilettos if it's 25 below and ice and snow. A smart guy will applaud your common sense and be assured he won't have to take you into A and E because you've fallen and broke your ankle. If you physically and emotionally take care of yourself, you will attract the right type of person.
I work at a local store as a cashier, I have met my boyfriend because he came through my line, he said I was so kind and nice and when he left he couldn't stop smiling, he decided he had to came back a bit later and asked me if I was single and if I was if he could take me out. Just showing genuine kindness and attention to him made that big of a difference to him, and has made a huge difference in my life! ❤❤
Woman is here 🙋🏻♀️. If I am talking to you it doesn’t mean that I like you, it means that I don’t think you are some weird guy; therefore I am engaging in conversation with you. Also 3 glances mean nothing, but if woman looks at you at smiles that might be a welcoming gesture.
@@pamestesduggin3488Me too -- which explains why a woman's smile is ambiguous to men who are trying to interpret whether a woman is flirting. (It also explains why I -- a 7.5 on my best day -- get hit on regularly at events, supermarkets and the like.)
The wig says it all and the need to “find one” by Gary was hysterical. As an older single lady you are both spot on about your suggestions. One can never be too guarded for their safety with someone they are just meeting, but a smile never hurt anyone. It is all in how you practice. Now to find that mirror!? Lol Thank you for all your research and experience.
@@lesliemaki888 just personal hygiene being on point then. Good oral healthcare, clean skin that's not greasy looking, Chapstick, using a eyelash curler doesn't require putting in makeup but can make your eyes more open/feminine looking
Great advice. My sister is more attractive than me but I was always approachable and comfortable with men, so I typically had no issues attracting them. Unfortunately, it’s always the ones that I’m not typically interested in. With the great looking men I get very shy and too self aware, which looks less confident. Women fear rejection too. Will work on the three glances. Thanks!
Great tips!! Thank you. For the bonus tip: for me it's not that I'm afraid of being promiscuous, I'm afraid about my safety and making sure he not some kind of psycho killer. LOL
Ya 🥺😬. I’ve had a psycho in my life before and it took me years to actually get out in public and not be terrified. Every time a man glanced my way. I’m doing way better now.
I am always cold. I carry a jacket and coat in my vehicle. There have been times I wasn’t planning to stay inside the ac, I ran into a couple I hadn’t seen in 26 years. I stayed there talking with them at least 40 minutes. As soon as we said our goodbyes I was out the door to warm up. Being cold is Not an excuse. Actual Fact. I do enjoy listening to your channel. Thank you.
*Once we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.*
I haven’t been out in years… like years. I think I’m washed up getting ready for this dance thing. I do put on mascara, blush and lipstick only bc who the heck is going to be interested in me I thought. I wasn’t looking for anyone since I’d given up. I was dancing with friends and talking away with friends. I was shocked to find men giving me the eye throughout the night. Shocked. Who knew? So the only thing I didn’t do was flirt/ touch back. I could see that I inadvertently did all the other things you talked about. So you men are definitely onto something there 👍
The wig 🤣 👏🏻 soooo flirty! 💋 Love the sharing of the meaning of touch. As a massage therapist & Reiki energy master this is of foundational importance. 🙏 Human psychology is fascinating ❤ Thank you for your insightful offering.
Confidence-YES! I’ve been in a funk/ slump for a couple months. Tuesday I got up the courage again to sing at the open jam at the local jazz club. I did my home work & was prepared musically. Decided to get a little more dressed up than usual. My musician buddy said, “sell the hell out of it” (songs are stories). I sang well, with confidence & had fun. 4 guys asked me for my business card after the show. 😂 The game changer for me was walking in the door with confidence & letting my confidence grow throughout the night. The song, “You Don’t Know Me” made famous by Ray Charles & more recently Michael Bublé. (I changed the reference as singing from a woman about a man. )
So I am finding a huge connection in what you are saying are signals and someone with high anxiety. As someone who has this, I find people I wouldn’t want to be interested being just that. Hearing you explain these green lights, I now see not a lot of different between my flirt and my shy anxious look. It’s a huge eye opener!
So interesting hearing men discuss men & women this way. Ran into someone who was working, thought wow I'm feeling something, didnt know what to do with that. Regret i didn't show i noticed him. Assumed he was married anyway. But will always want to replay that time.
I’m going to respectfully disagree with your opinions about the being cold as an excuse comments. Women often dress provocatively, or think that they ought to in order to attract a man- putting on a parka to keep our temp regulated does not create sexiness. Cold hands and feet can accompany auto immune conditions, which are super common in women these days. The body language of being cold v. closed off can be distinguished if subtle attention is paid
Hello, Adam and Gary. I’m a first time listener. Not sure why it appeared on my feed. I found your podcast hilarious but equally practical. Will try to remember and implement. Thanks for the tips. Incidentally, women have it just as hard. Remember the book / movie, “He’s Just Not That Into You”? Women do put themselves out there only to discover that the guy isn’t interested. Basically, rejection is a two way street.
Adam and Gary really committed here on play-acting the research-backed tactics. You gotta few chuckles out of me as well! You continue to embody your brand: STRATEGIES. Listeners can adopt what you espouse or not; you are simply presenting ideas and strategies, mapping out why you find them particularly worthy of consideration. Nice job, Gents!
The guy in black is wrong when he says just because a woman is talking to you or just because shes engaging with you means shes interested in you. Not true. It honestly means shes just talking to you as she would any other human being. It does not mean just because shes talking to you shes interested in you romantically or sexually.
Women have typically had so many negative experiences out in the world by the age of 40, that the Ice Queen body language and RBF are all that gets us home alive.
I’m 5’10 with blonde hair and green eyes. I definitely don’t have any issues getting “noticed”. It’s always the men that I don’t want the attention from that approach. Though I do appreciate their willingness! Lol
Love this but totally disagree about women being cold - it’s hard to know how cold a venue will be and we usually run colder than men (and are usually in lighter clothes like a dress vs a guy will have on a blazer). I am cold all the time and will cross my arms to stay warm. Please don’t be offended by this! Offer your jacket if you have one and if she says no, then you know 😂
Here is the thing. I give flirty face to everybody. I'm not looking to date everyone but I have been told that I am flirting when I think I'm just being friendly. Can someone just be naturally flirty in the world?
The number one thing be friendly and honest And don't be so picky on both sides because sometimes looks don't count you could pass up a real good person because of what you think you're idea is of a mate.
Why all the suspicion? Many indoor spaces are cold, and many women stand that way when cold. It’s a reason not an excuse, unless a woman is saying there’s no solution and they have to keep doing it.
It’s not because we don’t want to appear promiscuous, but we don’t want to appear desperate or ridiculous. Also, we women are just as afraid of being rejected, although maybe the gorgeous ones aren’t.
He’s absolutely right. It’s not bad behavior. I have spent many a cold night out in the bars with my husband and I was frozen. I was wearing skimpy dresses and no jacket because I was out and didn’t want to cover up my outfit. I used tequila to warm up, seriously. 😂
Micro expression= Olivia Newton John as Sandy in Grease looks up down , up again with eyes and bites her lip....it drove John Travolta " Danny" crazy nuts for her!
I have a physical disability and I feel I am smiley, friendly and give eye contact. However I feel my disability is the first thing a person sees and after that it seems people don't approach me or continue the eye contact
What do I do when I walk into a room is as soon as I get through the doorway I pause I hold my head up high wiggle my hips a little bit scope around the room as if I'm looking for a friend of mine look in the far back corner add proceeds slowly over to the bar to get a drink in the far back corner
This is such a good video!!! So helpful!! I would love to know what makes women flirt with other women's boyfriend? I keep seeing this alot and women seem to have no care what they are doing. As if this is normal behavior!! It cracks me up. Lol
What about those women with neurodivergent behavior? I have a friend who gives too much time and attention to men at work then wonders why all the guys are asking her out and giving her shoulder massages! Any tips?
My rbf is my death knell. lol...I did great with dating apps and set up meetings, but NO ONE approaches me cold turkey. Maybe a few bravest of the brave. 🤣🤣
Men always approach me after karaoke 😂 it helps I have a sultry voice but that’s how I got my boyfriend 🙂 he loves when I sing for him and do a little shimmy 🥰
You two guys may want to explore human Design..Minifastor types have closed off repelling aura, Generators and Manifestor Generators have an open inviting aura. Projectors can access auras of others and have to wait for invitation energetically. ..there is more to it but HD helps! ..Your strategy must be in sync with your type of Human design
I had a note left on my car, one time…on a bank strap…AND I worked for a bank,So I thought I had a stalker!! 😳So NO No…Don’t leave 📝 notes🤦🏻♀️…I was going to go to the police 👮🏼!!
Men don't want you be rejected... Well, some women don't want to be rejected either. It shouldn't matter if I'm not interesting enough to them, there's no excuse for being rude and ghosting, and that's what happens to me 99% of the time these days (since Covid).
4:58 Can we write a note if we don’t meet this colleague every day at work ? I mean, like we don’t see him again for years because we don’t have the same schedule ? I did send a note to a colleague last year, to tell him he totally turned all my senses upside down. I didn’t invite him to go out though. It was just to get rid of my own emotions. He never answered. It’s been over a year and I didn’t see him again yet. 🤷
@@starcatcher3691 Thank you. 🙂🙏 I think so too. I thought for a while that it was a mistake, maybe because my girl friends told me I shouldn’t have, but at the end I’m proud I did it, I went beyond my fears, and it was a beautiful message, written very sincerely, and I don’t think men often receive such things from a woman they barely know. So I may hope that he will remember that it happened to him when he turns 90 years old. ☺ I still don’t know the consequences, I never saw him again. Thanks for your support.
Latin women are more direct when it comes to letting a man they are interested, they will flirt....I did it with my husband, I met him at a bar in Bermuda, I flirted with him that's all it took....Latin women and men don't need to learn to flirt, it comes naturally.
I have a challenge right now in terms of friendships. U mention in your video that it looks better when u go out with friends. I agree however I have increased my standards and I am not able to find friends who align with me. I am in transition and working hard on myself. Any suggestions? Can it really look very bad?
I’m a woman but I’d really like to know what the male flirty face is…btw…. Great wig….. you are a pro …it was hot…. I do that all the time when I’m with my man… without thinking… great move when it’s natural…
I have guys of all ages and attractiveness levels approaching me at the dog park, at work and at the grocery and hardware stores.. I am 53, chubby and on the pleasant side of average looking..my oldest daughter says I look approachable and friendly..
Great tips except for the touching part. I would never touch someone I hardly know. I also do not want someone to touch me that I hardly know. For my own situation, I locked eyes with someone around Christmas time, in a workplace setting, and it took him to the end of March to speak to me and have a conversation with me. Since then, there is smiling and small talk between us, but he has not asked me out on a date. I feel like he is interested because his face lights up when he sees me. Maybe he just thinks I'm cute and that's as far as it goes. It's so hard to read people. Oh well. 😮💨 Also, do not send notes. He will think you are childish, or a stalker or desperate.
Great. I just gave the guy a note with my phone number yesterday after a year of him giving me signals he likes me. I just am not physically able to talk to him as I get completely paralysed when he's near. I guess I messed it up 😂😂
Keep posted on how that went. I thought to do that once but also didn't want to in case I was wrong. Also same scenario, looks from him, looks from me (trying to be discrete) it was getting awkward and obvious when we locked eyes once. It became like he'd keep an eye out for me passing in a obvious way but he never tried coming up to me or spoke to me. . I didn't want to feel like a stalker or creep him out so I'd avoid where he was after a while. Hard when he works by a coffee place I used to go to.. Recently I was walking towards another store and him and a female were walking out before I got to the entrance, him carrying the grocery bags walking close to her, he didn't see me. I just guessed that must be his girlfriend So lucky I didn't approach him. If I'm wrong I'll leave it to him. I am the same, could barely breath when he looked my way. Reminded me of Henry Caville, smile and eyes.
@@kitkat0768 don't do it. I've made a total wally of myself, haven't seen him since as I've been hiding so nope. It didn't go well - he is married!!! 🤣
@@chrupka52 well i think that was an incredibly brave thing to do! I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but huge kudos for having the front to do that. I wish I was that confident!
The tilt of head, a slight smile, a glance…that’s what I do naturally since I was a teenager…explains why I was always approached. Hmmm…now it’s science 😄
This conversation is really making me laugh....in the best way. I'm 64 and ready to find my husband! Many years of healing my trauma...thanks for this!
This explains why guys I’m not interested in are always interested in me. The men I truly like, I shut down and become super self conscious. And I’m more myself and open to men I don’t feel a risk with
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Sooo relatable
Feminity is feeling of safety, and also offering safe space for other partner.
Masculinity is about pursuing and action.
Feminity is about accepting love and action from men.
Feminity isnt about action, but acceptance.
But the thing is women also take a lot of action...
because being still may too often cause an anxiety or depression
action creates a motivation in women as well...because it is oposition of anxiety.
But women like to pursue also feminine hobbies, or sports.
People think women are so active and taking action, because they want to be masculine.
Actually they take action, because they feel discomfort of anxiety, therefore they love sports and hobbies.
She feels like she builds her own confidence, health etc, it has nothing to do with men but her own confidence.
The skills she learns help her to abe also feminine.
Ditto!! Same here but actively trying to change it!
Zoloft! 😊 50 mg, bam huge difference! 😊
Listened to this podcast before a meet up and was intentional to use most of them as the conversation flowed. It was so much fun and helped me feel flirty and playful 😊. That little meet up for coffee ended up lasting 3 1/2 hours and the conversation never lagged
I can talk to anybody and everybody- I'm a social butterfly. But there is a guy who I'm crushin on, and I'm almost certain he likes me too, but I can't say a word to him because the one time I spoke to him, I froze in an eye lock for like 10 seconds and I couldn't even remember what I had to say. I was like a teenager, and I'm 46! Why can't he be the one to talk to me? I've caught him staring at me, and peacocking in front of me.
Good grief that dang eye lock....did yours forget to breathe? Mine did.
same here. I can talk to anyone, unless I really have a crush on him LOL
Same! Then I for some reason ignore the one I REALLY want to talk to because I don’t want to come across as needy.
Ugh. The old tapes in my head are strong!
So the eye lock thing isn't just me? 😂 I experienced that once, and felt horrified.
OK guys. Here’s the deal. In public spaces, the men in the “engineering” department control the temperature settings. Men run warmer due to two things: generally more physical, less sedentary jobs in the workplaces, and greater muscle mass. So they make the temp too cold for the ladies. At work, women will take sweaters, knowing this. At social gatherings, they will wear their festive, social clothes trying to look cute and sexy. Meanwhile, the guy will have the temp set to frigid yet again. We would rather look cute than be warm, in a social setting. We suffer for you men. Well, not me. I’m older and I am bringing the damn sweater.
💯 This!
In MN, no one sensible dresses for attraction. You dress for survival. I'm not wearing spaghetti strap dresses and stilettos if it's 25 below and ice and snow. A smart guy will applaud your common sense and be assured he won't have to take you into A and E because you've fallen and broke your ankle. If you physically and emotionally take care of yourself, you will attract the right type of person.
That look with a downward tilt and it kind of a light smile is like she's assessing the gentleman, because she finds him attractive in some way
I work at a local store as a cashier, I have met my boyfriend because he came through my line, he said I was so kind and nice and when he left he couldn't stop smiling, he decided he had to came back a bit later and asked me if I was single and if I was if he could take me out.
Just showing genuine kindness and attention to him made that big of a difference to him, and has made a huge difference in my life! ❤❤
Us women absolutely love a real, full smile and a genuine laugh from a guy!!
Yes, definitely!
Woman is here 🙋🏻♀️. If I am talking to you it doesn’t mean that I like you, it means that I don’t think you are some weird guy; therefore I am engaging in conversation with you.
Also 3 glances mean nothing, but if woman looks at you at smiles that might be a welcoming gesture.
I smile at everyone. 😂
@@pamestesduggin3488Me too -- which explains why a woman's smile is ambiguous to men who are trying to interpret whether a woman is flirting. (It also explains why I -- a 7.5 on my best day -- get hit on regularly at events, supermarkets and the like.)
The wig says it all and the need to “find one” by Gary was hysterical. As an older single lady you are both spot on about your suggestions. One can never be too guarded for their safety with someone they are just meeting, but a smile never hurt anyone. It is all in how you practice. Now to find that mirror!? Lol Thank you for all your research and experience.
I think you have to smile, catch his eye, make a comment , have the makeup on, dress properly = FRIENDLY.
YES!
You had me till the makeup, no man will make me cake stuff on my face thats bad for my skin.
I'm doomed then....I've never worn makeup. I've tried but it makes my face feel dirty.
@@lesliemaki888 just personal hygiene being on point then. Good oral healthcare, clean skin that's not greasy looking, Chapstick, using a eyelash curler doesn't require putting in makeup but can make your eyes more open/feminine looking
@@lesliemaki888Just try doing your lips 💋 or eyes - the French way. It can make you look like you have a full face of make-up.
Great advice. My sister is more attractive than me but I was always approachable and comfortable with men, so I typically had no issues attracting them. Unfortunately, it’s always the ones that I’m not typically interested in. With the great looking men I get very shy and too self aware, which looks less confident. Women fear rejection too. Will work on the three glances. Thanks!
I'm exactly the same around attractive men. Hopelessly shy because there is so much more at stake.
I'm right there with you! I'm more relaxed around men I'm not attracted to, so they're the ones who pursue me.
Practicing my flirt face! Love u guys--- so glad my sister discovered you! ❤️🙏💋
Great tips!! Thank you. For the bonus tip: for me it's not that I'm afraid of being promiscuous, I'm afraid about my safety and making sure he not some kind of psycho killer. LOL
Ya 🥺😬. I’ve had a psycho in my life before and it took me years to actually get out in public and not be terrified. Every time a man glanced my way. I’m doing way better now.
Exactly - been “ taken ( in plain sight of a busy street - gotta be aware
I totally love the bonus comment/point. It’s really true about how women feel and it’s a hurdle to get over!
I am always cold. I carry a jacket and coat in my vehicle. There have been times I wasn’t planning to stay inside the ac, I ran into a couple I hadn’t seen in 26 years. I stayed there talking with them at least 40 minutes. As soon as we said our goodbyes I was out the door to warm up. Being cold is Not an excuse. Actual Fact. I do enjoy listening to your channel. Thank you.
*Once we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.*
This is the best truth.
I haven’t been out in years… like years. I think I’m washed up getting ready for this dance thing. I do put on mascara, blush and lipstick only bc who the heck is going to be interested in me I thought. I wasn’t looking for anyone since I’d given up. I was dancing with friends and talking away with friends. I was shocked to find men giving me the eye throughout the night. Shocked. Who knew? So the only thing I didn’t do was flirt/ touch back. I could see that I inadvertently did all the other things you talked about. So you men are definitely onto something there 👍
I see a male coach in a wig and I subscribe. Going the extra mile. 🏆
The wig 🤣 👏🏻 soooo flirty! 💋
Love the sharing of the meaning of touch. As a massage therapist & Reiki energy master this is of foundational importance. 🙏
Human psychology is fascinating ❤
Thank you for your insightful offering.
Confidence-YES! I’ve been in a funk/ slump for a couple months. Tuesday I got up the courage again to sing at the open jam at the local jazz club. I did my home work & was prepared musically. Decided to get a little more dressed up than usual. My musician buddy said, “sell the hell out of it” (songs are stories).
I sang well, with confidence & had fun. 4 guys asked me for my business card after the show. 😂
The game changer for me was walking in the door with confidence & letting my confidence grow throughout the night.
The song, “You Don’t Know Me” made famous by Ray Charles & more recently Michael Bublé. (I changed the reference as singing from a woman about a man. )
I love the insight ! Oh and keep the wig i laughed and you did a great flirting reenactment 😂
OK, wig is back by popular demand.
Adam's flirty face before putting on the wig works for me.😊
Oh my gosh, I love the wig and the flirty face. You did a fantastic job.
So I am finding a huge connection in what you are saying are signals and someone with high anxiety. As someone who has this, I find people I wouldn’t want to be interested being just that. Hearing you explain these green lights, I now see not a lot of different between my flirt and my shy anxious look. It’s a huge eye opener!
Subscribed after I saw the wig at 7:40 😂
Start with good eye contact and a friendly smile and a good “ hello”… be warm and open ….
You all crack me up!!! Great content!🤣😊🙌
I feel it's all about the energy you keep and what you're emitting...if your intentions are all about this, someone will be on the same energy vibe...
So interesting hearing men discuss men & women this way. Ran into someone who was working, thought wow I'm feeling something, didnt know what to do with that. Regret i didn't show i noticed him. Assumed he was married anyway. But will always want to replay that time.
I’m going to respectfully disagree with your opinions about the being cold as an excuse comments. Women often dress provocatively, or think that they ought to in order to attract a man- putting on a parka to keep our temp regulated does not create sexiness. Cold hands and feet can accompany auto immune conditions, which are super common in women these days. The body language of being cold v. closed off can be distinguished if subtle attention is paid
Hello, Adam and Gary. I’m a first time listener. Not sure why it appeared on my feed. I found your podcast hilarious but equally practical. Will try to remember and implement. Thanks for the tips. Incidentally, women have it just as hard. Remember the book / movie, “He’s Just Not That Into You”? Women do put themselves out there only to discover that the guy isn’t interested. Basically, rejection is a two way street.
Adam and Gary really committed here on play-acting the research-backed tactics. You gotta few chuckles out of me as well! You continue to embody your brand: STRATEGIES. Listeners can adopt what you espouse or not; you are simply presenting ideas and strategies, mapping out why you find them particularly worthy of consideration. Nice job, Gents!
The guy in black is wrong when he says just because a woman is talking to you or just because shes engaging with you means shes interested in you. Not true. It honestly means shes just talking to you as she would any other human being. It does not mean just because shes talking to you shes interested in you romantically or sexually.
Body language says more. the guy in the wig actually looked like John Ritter with the wig on
Women have typically had so many negative experiences out in the world by the age of 40, that the Ice Queen body language and RBF are all that gets us home alive.
This video is giving me the best confirmation & confidence, thank you both so so much. ❤️🙏❤️💯✨️
I’m 5’10 with blonde hair and green eyes. I definitely don’t have any issues getting “noticed”. It’s always the men that I don’t want the attention from that approach. Though I do appreciate their willingness! Lol
Same thing here. 🙋
And the men I’m attracted to find me totally paralyzed. 🥴
Love this but totally disagree about women being cold - it’s hard to know how cold a venue will be and we usually run colder than men (and are usually in lighter clothes like a dress vs a guy will have on a blazer). I am cold all the time and will cross my arms to stay warm. Please don’t be offended by this! Offer your jacket if you have one and if she says no, then you know 😂
Here is the thing. I give flirty face to everybody. I'm not looking to date everyone but I have been told that I am flirting when I think I'm just being friendly. Can someone just be naturally flirty in the world?
The number one thing be friendly and honest
And don't be so picky on both sides because sometimes looks don't count you could pass up a real good person because of what you think you're idea is of a mate.
Hey guys thank you a lot for both of you. You’re awesome ❤ and I love the last one bcs it’s really talk to me ❤
I'm watching and LOL! Just maybe the girls are cold and their headlights turned on and they are embarrassed? 😳 🤦♀️
Ive been so shy that i cdnt even look at a man if i liked him..eg across the room,...if he was someone i knew n didnt know if he was interested in me.
Yeees the sexy confidence wig is back 🥳
iiiiiiit's baaaaaaaaack!!!! lol
Yes, some of us are that cold. I wear 2 pairs of pants and 2 long sleeves to be warm. Haha
Why all the suspicion? Many indoor spaces are cold, and many women stand that way when cold. It’s a reason not an excuse, unless a woman is saying there’s no solution and they have to keep doing it.
Absolutely I get cold very easy so I wear a heavy jacket 😢
It’s not because we don’t want to appear promiscuous, but we don’t want to appear desperate or ridiculous. Also, we women are just as afraid of being rejected, although maybe the gorgeous ones aren’t.
He’s absolutely right. It’s not bad behavior. I have spent many a cold night out in the bars with my husband and I was frozen. I was wearing skimpy dresses and no jacket because I was out and didn’t want to cover up my outfit. I used tequila to warm up, seriously. 😂
Big smile and a little wave at him. That’s how I got married ❤
Micro expression= Olivia Newton John as Sandy in Grease looks up down , up again with eyes and bites her lip....it drove John Travolta " Danny" crazy nuts for her!
I have a physical disability and I feel I am smiley, friendly and give eye contact. However I feel my disability is the first thing a person sees and after that it seems people don't approach me or continue the eye contact
Always helpful ❤❤❤❤ thank u so much 💓 Watching from Georgia 🎉
LOVE GEORGIA!
Actual body language tips start at 5:59
Like watching you two crazies 😂 informative and entertaining at the same time.
This is a good video. Thank you
This was very informative thanks for sharing ❤❤
What do I do when I walk into a room is as soon as I get through the doorway I pause I hold my head up high wiggle my hips a little bit scope around the room as if I'm looking for a friend of mine look in the far back corner add proceeds slowly over to the bar to get a drink in the far back corner
Accurate I am always freezing cold and find myself crossing my arms . Thank you for the reminder!
I’m came to find out what messages I’m sending to the wrong men… I must have a resting ‘flirt’ face.
😂 😂 cracking up at Gary’s micro-expressions. Most fun research ever 👍🏼
You guys are hilarious!!!
You guys are Fantastic! So helpful, thank you. Xo
This is such a good video!!! So helpful!! I would love to know what makes women flirt with other women's boyfriend? I keep seeing this alot and women seem to have no care what they are doing. As if this is normal behavior!! It cracks me up. Lol
Hahahahaha dying at 7:40! Hilarious ❤❤ Adam looks so much like the handsome John Ritter. Rip John. You guys are so funny. Well done ❤❤❤❤❤
You guys are hilarious 😂
Great advice!
What about those women with neurodivergent behavior? I have a friend who gives too much time and attention to men at work then wonders why all the guys are asking her out and giving her shoulder massages! Any tips?
Great work. And that wig😅
My rbf is my death knell. lol...I did great with dating apps and set up meetings, but NO ONE approaches me cold turkey. Maybe a few bravest of the brave. 🤣🤣
Very informative and helpful
You look like OJ's friend, Kato, with that wig on.. 😂
I think you look very pretty with the wig and it is funny and you did a good job demonstrating the flirty face.
You guys are so funny 😂
It’s the male, ‘bating 100 theory.’ The sadder thing is that they are making money off idiotic assumptions. 😂😂😂😂😂
Men always approach me after karaoke 😂 it helps I have a sultry voice but that’s how I got my boyfriend 🙂 he loves when I sing for him and do a little shimmy 🥰
I swear for the whole part of that segment I thought they were saying belly roll and I'm like well I don't belly dance and I'm not doing that LOLz😂😂😂
This was funny… loved it !!!
I will follow your advice. Let's see 😊
😅same
I love this!!!
Breaking the touch barrier in Italy is not a good idea
You two guys may want to explore human Design..Minifastor types have closed off repelling aura, Generators and Manifestor Generators have an open inviting aura. Projectors can access auras of others and have to wait for invitation energetically. ..there is more to it but HD helps! ..Your strategy must be in sync with your type of Human design
I would like to hear more about that!
@@isismob7379 Google Human design types and theur auras. Fantastic system
I had a note left on my car, one time…on a bank strap…AND I worked for a bank,So I thought I had a stalker!! 😳So NO No…Don’t leave 📝 notes🤦🏻♀️…I was going to go to the police 👮🏼!!
Men don't want you be rejected... Well, some women don't want to be rejected either. It shouldn't matter if I'm not interesting enough to them, there's no excuse for being rude and ghosting, and that's what happens to me 99% of the time these days (since Covid).
Adam’s flirty face lol
Now it looks like a guy going surfing
I needed this 😅
Glad it was helpful for yah!
Love this!
4:58 Can we write a note if we don’t meet this colleague every day at work ? I mean, like we don’t see him again for years because we don’t have the same schedule ?
I did send a note to a colleague last year, to tell him he totally turned all my senses upside down. I didn’t invite him to go out though. It was just to get rid of my own emotions. He never answered. It’s been over a year and I didn’t see him again yet. 🤷
I think it's good you took the risk
@@starcatcher3691 Thank you. 🙂🙏 I think so too. I thought for a while that it was a mistake, maybe because my girl friends told me I shouldn’t have, but at the end I’m proud I did it, I went beyond my fears, and it was a beautiful message, written very sincerely, and I don’t think men often receive such things from a woman they barely know. So I may hope that he will remember that it happened to him when he turns 90 years old. ☺
I still don’t know the consequences, I never saw him again.
Thanks for your support.
Latin women are more direct when it comes to letting a man they are interested, they will flirt....I did it with my husband, I met him at a bar in Bermuda, I flirted with him that's all it took....Latin women and men don't need to learn to flirt, it comes naturally.
And because it's a micro expression it's subtle
I have a challenge right now in terms of friendships. U mention in your video that it looks better when u go out with friends. I agree however I have increased my standards and I am not able to find friends who align with me. I am in transition and working hard on myself. Any suggestions? Can it really look very bad?
It's not middle school to give guy your number on piece of paper your letting that guy know your interested nothing wrong with that.
I’m a woman but I’d really like to know what the male flirty face is…btw…. Great wig….. you are a pro …it was hot…. I do that all the time when I’m with my man… without thinking… great move when it’s natural…
I would never flirt with everyone, Im not interested in everyone. I think it leads a guy on, isnt their job hard enough. !
Wow, Adam is a very attractive man. And funny. Women fall for that ❤
I have guys of all ages and attractiveness levels approaching me at the dog park, at work and at the grocery and hardware stores.. I am 53, chubby and on the pleasant side of average looking..my oldest daughter says I look approachable and friendly..
Great tips except for the touching part. I would never touch someone I hardly know. I also do not want someone to touch me that I hardly know. For my own situation, I locked eyes with someone around Christmas time, in a workplace setting, and it took him to the end of March to speak to me and have a conversation with me. Since then, there is smiling and small talk between us, but he has not asked me out on a date. I feel like he is interested because his face lights up when he sees me. Maybe he just thinks I'm cute and that's as far as it goes. It's so hard to read people. Oh well. 😮💨
Also, do not send notes. He will think you are childish, or a stalker or desperate.
Love you guys
Great Gas 🎉😂 and informative.
Great. I just gave the guy a note with my phone number yesterday after a year of him giving me signals he likes me. I just am not physically able to talk to him as I get completely paralysed when he's near. I guess I messed it up 😂😂
Keep posted on how that went. I thought to do that once but also didn't want to in case I was wrong. Also same scenario, looks from him, looks from me (trying to be discrete) it was getting awkward and obvious when we locked eyes once. It became like he'd keep an eye out for me passing in a obvious way but he never tried coming up to me or spoke to me. . I didn't want to feel like a stalker or creep him out so I'd avoid where he was after a while. Hard when he works by a coffee place I used to go to.. Recently I was walking towards another store and him and a female were walking out before I got to the entrance, him carrying the grocery bags walking close to her, he didn't see me. I just guessed that must be his girlfriend So lucky I didn't approach him. If I'm wrong I'll leave it to him. I am the same, could barely breath when he looked my way. Reminded me of Henry Caville, smile and eyes.
@@kitkat0768 don't do it. I've made a total wally of myself, haven't seen him since as I've been hiding so nope. It didn't go well - he is married!!! 🤣
@@chrupka52 well i think that was an incredibly brave thing to do! I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but huge kudos for having the front to do that. I wish I was that confident!