How a Narcissist Shows Their Insecurities | Stephanie Lyn Coaching 2022

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  • @YouilAushana
    @YouilAushana 2 роки тому +190

    Let me get a show of hands for my INFJ, super empaths who smelled the coffee brewing when they first met the narcissist, saw all the games, played along, tried to to be good and supportive to this person and finally said enough is enough. Sending that narcissist running for the hills and ultimately glad to be discarded but still feel bad for other humans.

    • @hrathweg
      @hrathweg 2 роки тому +4

      Infj!

    • @LegalTyranny
      @LegalTyranny 2 роки тому +5

      INTJ here and saw the weird behaviors in a "friend". It's unlike normal people for sure. I had a good chunk off time as a friend observing this until they became irritable towards me.

    • @MrYilmaz1k
      @MrYilmaz1k 2 роки тому +6

      Word. It was covid and had nothing better to do so played along all the way. She eventually ran to the hills literally, in another state with her dad as she got so frustrated with the fact that I wasnt buying anything she was selling. Love bombimg, playing victim, gaslighting, threats, blames, fights, cops, took two years altogether. Drove her nuts that she couldnt have any control over me yet she never left. She made sure everyone got involved including my family and friends, tried to turn everyone against me. Almost got kicked out my apartment, went to jail twice so did she, and all the craziest drama in between. Wouldnt want it again but it was a crazy experience and i Still get msgs that everything was my fault. In the end its still sad because even though they are being divious they are still in pain and dont know why.

    • @RonnieWisdom
      @RonnieWisdom 2 роки тому +3

      Oh yes !!! & I am glad that I stood my ground!!

    • @paigeann9127
      @paigeann9127 2 роки тому +3

      I see you 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @enlightenthebenighted8735
    @enlightenthebenighted8735 2 роки тому +130

    Projection is another way of displaying insecurities.

    • @chelseapalmer4501
      @chelseapalmer4501 2 роки тому +2

      Totally!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @rictawheels88
      @rictawheels88 2 роки тому +1

      My narc both projected & tried to hold it in only to eventually implode

  • @leapsill1969
    @leapsill1969 2 роки тому +133

    My ex was covert! It’s one of the worst because they can hide it better especially when you first meet them and to the outside world. I was like a frog in a pot of water and didn’t realize what was going on before the water started to boil.

    • @lovearttherapyalways
      @lovearttherapyalways 2 роки тому +4

      same here He played the role of the funny and really nice guy and needed so so so much attention it was sick!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @jacquelinefroehle3583
      @jacquelinefroehle3583 2 роки тому +2

      Same for me. I divorced him 22 years ago. Unfortunately daughter behaves covert like him. I gave up on trying to show her that love matters. She thinks that showing her love is a weakness I have....it feels like she only wants to behave like her dad. I can't spend the rest of my life with their behavior. I am completely distancing from her too.

  • @pamguevara9237
    @pamguevara9237 2 роки тому +60

    I totally agree.. They like to get all attention. Show off ..They feel so great about themselves.. Its sickening..🤪🙄

    • @immunity0792
      @immunity0792 2 роки тому +5

      They are also known to be very manipulative.

    • @pamguevara9237
      @pamguevara9237 2 роки тому +3

      HONESTLY, BEST TO STAY AWAY, IF YOU WANT A PEACEFUL LIFE. I've been there so I know how it's feels like to be in one, what's more difficult if it's a family member. BASE FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @iys6890
      @iys6890 2 роки тому

      They have no inner strength so need it outwardly.

  • @matthewwozniak9138
    @matthewwozniak9138 2 роки тому +9

    Your emotional intelligence enhances your physical Beauty.

  • @clincpb8903
    @clincpb8903 2 роки тому +35

    They need to control the way others will see you !

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @iys6890
    @iys6890 2 роки тому +5

    Exactly! If you ARE watching this video, you have a strong sense of self!

  • @daniellecaron9866
    @daniellecaron9866 Рік тому +4

    This video describes my ‘best friend’s’ behavior 100%. Spot on. After 2 (!) decades I can finally see what is behind the covert manipulative remarks, the passive aggressiveness, projecting her issues on me that I now refuse to take on, the lack of respect for others, the judging and inability to accept that each person owns their own life and their own choices, the disdain, the belittleling, the micro-aggressions, the unspoken expectations, all in a very subtle, covert manner. You can feel it physically, my body told me something is off, but it’s too difficult to grasp in that very moment. O, and the envy, the status-thinking: other people cannot get or experience something good or nice before she does. That smirky grin that o so quickly flashes up whenever you experience some bad things. I thought I imagined it all. Turns out: I didn’t. 😢

  • @jenniferpollock7677
    @jenniferpollock7677 2 роки тому +23

    Stephanie you are so good at explaining this! I have learned so much listening to you, thank you so much!! Another thing that I have experienced with these people is that narcissists think they are the "standard" and everyone should bow down to them. Also if you don't agree with them, they throw their little TEMPER TANTRUMS! They are such SCARED and INSECURE little BULLIES!!!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @RonnieWisdom
    @RonnieWisdom 2 роки тому +29

    Thank you for this powerful and moving video!!! I recently had an experience with a co-worker where they had tried to take ownership of a project I was doing in a team meeting. I confronted them on it in private & they were unable to empathize or see where I was coming from. Essentially their response was “We are on the same team, and I will do what I want to do”. I realized that the conversation was a waste of time. I ended it and stated “Thanks for talking, in the future communicate with me.”
    A few minutes later I saw them at their desk shaking with their head down, like they were having a panic attack. The next morning they scheduled multiple meetings with me, and I knew that this was an attempt to re-assert their control. At that point in time I saw them in their true form, and I realized that it was deeper than me. Additionally, they were highly frustrated that they could not control me. Never let your guard down! Keep your head up!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @slimlittle2827
    @slimlittle2827 Рік тому +2

    When i could finally stand back qnd look at them..... I was like i am SO grateful i am not you😂 yuck.

  • @openmind1335
    @openmind1335 2 роки тому +6

    Holy F!!! Crazy how I just found this. On tik tok and now subscribed. Man I am in tears!! I kept screaming to the universe to help me!!!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???....

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @thesvsam
    @thesvsam 2 роки тому +15

    Every word gold. It took me 20+ years to identify a close friend's narcissism. We're still friends but at least I know what I'm dealing with.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @stevebrown7673
    @stevebrown7673 Рік тому +2

    "Let the show begin"
    So true. Perfectly said

  • @mazermajestic
    @mazermajestic 2 роки тому +31

    They can't be abusive all the time they have to bait you with charms

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @johnlovesbridge
      @johnlovesbridge 2 роки тому +2

      Sickening but true.

    • @elinek5470
      @elinek5470 Рік тому +3

      Or sex..

  • @willsolo1967
    @willsolo1967 2 роки тому +4

    Do I enjoy being informed about narcissists? No. Do I have great value for your videos? Yes. Absolutely 💯

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 2 роки тому +31

    They will blame shifting you and it's a form of gas lighting you and your stuck in the corner just wondering what's going on, listen to your intuition and don't believe them, believe in yourself and just go no contact and block them on everything because if you don't it's going to get really bad 👍 survivors and thrivers 🙏🦋

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @Fionamash
      @Fionamash 2 роки тому +2

      I needed to read this today. My narcissist made me believe I was the one doing everything wrong. Destroyed my self confidence

    • @Standingsole
      @Standingsole 2 роки тому

      This is helping me heal my ex always made it seem like I was the problem and that I was the reason everything was going wrong.

  • @rickjenbijarro9393
    @rickjenbijarro9393 2 роки тому +12

    True I was always told she made me who I was and because of her I'm nobody and will never have nobody.

    • @takemypainaway9517
      @takemypainaway9517 2 роки тому +1

      Don’t say that. You can have somebody.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @alannahj728
    @alannahj728 2 роки тому +7

    Run as fast as you can when you finally see them. They will never change a black hole of darkness.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你......

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @Hafafuk
    @Hafafuk 2 роки тому +6

    Lady is seriously an OG…sincere funny and relatable from the get-go

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你......

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @SassyKitty_
    @SassyKitty_ Рік тому +1

    My third ex wife is a complete narcissist, and ty for your videos because after over three years of crying over her, im learning how to be stronger, more resilient
    My marriage to her, commitment to my kids, meant the world.
    Didnt realize she was using me, and her family was involved.
    Totally used me and i knew she was cheating on me, but i didn't have proof until i used her phone in Xmas Eve 2019.
    And found out she was cheating.
    Your videos inspire me to eliminate her from my feelings, she already left me for dead in her life before i found out in 2019.

  • @colmanlong1032
    @colmanlong1032 2 роки тому +12

    They all know what they are doing.

    • @iys6890
      @iys6890 2 роки тому +4

      Totally agree...but they don't care :(

    • @colmanlong1032
      @colmanlong1032 2 роки тому +1

      @@iys6890 likewise.

  • @jannamartens9806
    @jannamartens9806 Рік тому +1

    Yes they love to judge others and they look down on others . I never knew what boundaries were as a child . So this is something I have become very firm on with my family . Yes no it is not ok to control people . The reason I watched this video my mom is struggling with her weight loss so she always has to attack my weight with insults because I’m not struggling so she needs to make me feel small . I’ve tried to give helpful advice things that have helped me with my weight loss .

  • @debramarshall4293
    @debramarshall4293 2 роки тому +7

    Evilness is what I see in them. Thank you. Your show is alsome.

  • @JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life.
    @JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life. 2 роки тому +19

    This is excellent information. Thank you Stephanie ☺️❤️

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 2 роки тому +3

    When they're weak they compare and triangulate. They need things they will never use. 22 tables in the basement. It's about their feeling of lack.

  • @thequeenofwitches7943
    @thequeenofwitches7943 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you Stephanie for your videos..

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

  • @lovebugforjesus8989
    @lovebugforjesus8989 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for being so insightful and informative. This is a great help.

  • @happygoluckystar8069
    @happygoluckystar8069 2 роки тому +11

    Brilliant 👏👏👏 it just perfectly described my ex-best friend 🙄 she always has been trying so hard to find anything, ANYTHING that she could point out as “I am better then you”.
    When she couldnt find anything, she started to be abusive and argumentative like crazy.
    Lots of projection, lots of manipulation. I wasted so much time and effort on her, as I thought she was just an unloved child and needed only some acceptance and patience to calm down and be a good, caring person… silly me. What a mistake! 😤🙈

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @rictawheels88
      @rictawheels88 2 роки тому

      Same here

  • @willsolo1967
    @willsolo1967 2 роки тому +1

    Unaware of their personality disfunction. Incredible

  • @jbruce1pilot
    @jbruce1pilot 2 роки тому +1

    You are so spot on with all this information..! My former girlfriend fits many of these scenarios.. Wow, what an eye opener you have shown here..! I had reconnected with a former high school classmate that I hadn't seen in nearly 50 years. She claims she had a crush on me in HS. (I didn't know that..!) She love bombed me for nearly 5 months . showering me with gifts, cards and daily personal hello videos ( have great day my love...! stuff) . We had/have a long distance relationship. I was previously married for 38 years and went thru divorce last year (the last three years of my marriage were toxic...!) So when this one came along I took it all ,HOOK LINE and SINKER...! Only to have my heart ripped from my body when the discard phase hit. She Ghosted me and sent an email stating the reasons we couldn't be a couple...! ( the reasons were pretty shallow) We have since been communicating bi-weekly and I would like to be friends. Which she agrees..! what a punch to the gut..! You have shown me the light young lady Thank you..!!! BTW you are beautiful..!!!

  • @suzetteclarke1709
    @suzetteclarke1709 Рік тому +1

    On point. You are absolutely right!!!

  • @billyschultheis6822
    @billyschultheis6822 2 роки тому

    Thanks! U have helped me and still help me daily if needed, try to understand this mess.. everything u have talked about my soon to be exhusband has done to me. I am putting pieces together still ..
    I was with him for 5 years the last 3 years I started catching him up I have a diary for 2 of the years and I'd like to help anyone I can with this lesson I've learned .I was with the king of narcissist to the t....I am greatful I got out when I did.. he actually discarded me and won't talk to me won't look at me if I see him. he's blamed me for tons of stuff that he was probably doing and this makes me sick to my stomach I was faithful to him ...I have filed for divorce he hasn't answered the supenia so I'll just get granted the divorce.i lost my oldest daughter 3 years ago and I haven't even been able to grieve her bcuz all he did for the last 3 years was fight with me daily I was trying to convince him I wasn't cheating and I loved him on a daily basis ...I knew I didn't deserve this I knew I was better than this I just couldn't leave him ..I'm glad it's over I cried for the first month daily...I had to move in with my sister and things are going great ...I'd really like to help anyone if needed .
    Thank u so much again but

  • @superdumbvideo
    @superdumbvideo 2 роки тому +3

    A glorious hold on the truth said with a solid stream of total knowledge of the subject and how to put it in its place. I'm still young to figuring out how to not even think for one second about the person who will stop at nothing to control. I'm getting my muscle memory on how to hold on.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @rosaliaoliver-qv3gr
    @rosaliaoliver-qv3gr Рік тому

    I love to lisent to your advice! You are the best couch!

  • @philippagrimoire5968
    @philippagrimoire5968 2 роки тому +1

    I have a female ‘frenemy’ who I supported a LOT through her abusive relationships only for her to turn around and start abusing me, competing with me so tragically and always in a way that one ups me and trying to make me think and feel I’m not doing good enough or not as good as her at everything!! Clearly she is jealous but it’s gotten so tiresome all the shaming and minimising of my experiences that I’ve had to distance myself from her the last four years and these questions you mentioned are so relevant!
    She is always calling the men in her life narcissists and narcissist this and narcissist that and really she has no real compassion and empathy and thinks sympathy is empathy!
    She used to be a stripper so she’s used to controlling men! Every interaction I’ve had with her has been basically themed around making me feel like I’m not as good as her at whatever I say to her.
    Her retorts are always designed to make me feel shame or
    Like shit that feeds her ego at my expense.
    She’s a shit person basically and yes she always has to try get me to be more like her. Her ego is out of control basically but she doesn’t realise I’m very aware and generally can question and think about what people tell me and choose to not take it on or see through it!
    She’s always partying and thinks she has no emotional baggage, taking drugs and poo poos therapy! She’s very popular and I’m not and don’t care and that just eats her up!
    She wants to be like me but I don’t want to be like her and she want me to be 😅

  • @user-xf2wg5re8j
    @user-xf2wg5re8j 2 роки тому +2

    wow this lowkey triggered me a bit :/. makes me realize how fked up of a relationship i was in. my ex is truly psychopathic and completely unhinged. i feel bad for putting myself through that. but i’m watching stephanie’s videos to help learn how to heal and get over this. 🙏🥺

  • @daniquephotosaugustin1324
    @daniquephotosaugustin1324 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Stephanie thank you for all these videos I have only just realised I am living with narcissist ,
    I have only just started watching (I’m new)
    My story is she is an old childhoods flame and we got back together 10 yrs ago
    It all started about 4-5 yrs ago at you have opened my eyes
    For years I have thought i was a bad person until I found you thank you
    My partner also drinks every evening every day all year and has done for as long as I can remember (I promise you I’m not kidding)and all the behaviour actually worsens with her abusive way.
    I have decided after watch your videos I have to leave her
    Thank you so much for these videos if I didn’t see them I would have never known about narcissistic behaviour 😞I will make you and all your viewers laugh I only found out by looking up the word narcissist
    And the reason I was looking it up is because she called me a narcissist 😞
    Thank you I will be continuing to watch 😀💪💪

    • @daniquephotosaugustin1324
      @daniquephotosaugustin1324 2 роки тому

      For anyone who has or is going through this narcissistic life, big ❤️ it’s hard Stephanie’s videos opened my eyes 🫶

  • @Noelhogan333
    @Noelhogan333 2 роки тому +4

    Love your work, it’s like a breath of fresh air. Thank you 🥰

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @maelenapalustre1459
    @maelenapalustre1459 2 роки тому +11

    I’ve been 2 years of this kind of person the only I know is he had PTSD but the first he is fine and so romantic and he tells some story to me about him, being abused when he was young but still, I’d thought it’s really not serious effect to him, one I observe to him he wants me to always around him everything is ok then when I said I have to see my family he doesn’t like it and start I see his bad behavior towards to other people how he speaks very judgmental and entitled I still ignore it because of love and turn to me the horrible shit, insult, monk, physically abused he trying to control me but I always refused that’s why we end up fighting! It was so traumatic and painful when I told him please leave I can’t deal with you anymore I love him but I can't deal with all the bad behavior and abuse, I m still working on my healing path

    • @RedDragonProtection
      @RedDragonProtection 2 роки тому +4

      True, same here.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @annanicolaou3180
    @annanicolaou3180 2 роки тому +1

    Learning somuch here ❤

  • @writer1986
    @writer1986 2 роки тому

    This video has been an eye-opener for me. I'm not saying this video has helped diagnosed someone, but I'm seeing more and more of these traits in family members and colleagues. As someone who's spent years discovering myself and knowing who I am, being around someone who has NPD traits is actually quite disgusting and not pitiful, and they're never worth my breath and mind.

  • @danielschneider9880
    @danielschneider9880 Рік тому +1

    I have a request. Could you do a review of dismissive avoidant attachment and how it mimics some narcissistic traits?

  • @debramilewski8149
    @debramilewski8149 2 роки тому +5

    You really spoke to me... THANK YOU!!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @The_eh_list
    @The_eh_list Рік тому

    Wow this is such a good explanation. So many puzzle pieces coming together! Thank you for this video it has helped so much!! I'm having so many aha moments rn and it's such a relief thank you ❤️🙏. It gives me so much hope 💛. I really appreciate all your videos please keep them coming 💕

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 Рік тому +1

    At first I thought my ex was a DA, but the more I see your videos, he seems more like a narc.

  • @robertpinckney535
    @robertpinckney535 2 роки тому

    Stephanie is right about the narcissist being like a spoiled child. Maybe they have been neglected, when they were a child. Or it could have been the other way around.

  • @pinkaquira
    @pinkaquira 2 роки тому +8

    One of my ex-friend is covert, unlike the typical type, she did it in a calming nice way. She always appears to be serious and sober(showing people how professional and intelligent she is) and always put herself above others so you can see she likes to give advice to others ( being a mentor).
    When i offered her that i could be a good listener when her husband cheated on her, she refused and said she could feel better by reading a book… Lol.
    In other words, she likes to see others’ weakness but won’t let others to see hers. And finally she could turn very nasty if she thinks she get control on you and you don’t keep up with her expectations. Since she is the mentor if anything goes wrong it’s your fault.
    Btw, her husband is one of the most cowardly man I’ve ever met which is very rare in this culture.
    Sadly, the narcissists are always attached to nice patient people who will take their shit.
    I would feel empathetic if they don’t hurt others. It’s a shame on them.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

  • @supreme5580
    @supreme5580 Рік тому

    Wow! I'm watching this and I'm thinking of every character of the show Welcome to Eden. It would be cool if you reviewed that on your channel and analyze the different types of narcissistic traits in every character

  • @nocreativename
    @nocreativename 2 роки тому

    You have such beautiful glowing skin ✨

  • @bp4912
    @bp4912 2 роки тому +2

    Bingo! Bingo! Bingo!..Soooo On Target..

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

  • @davetorchia9985
    @davetorchia9985 2 роки тому +1

    very good Stephanie love your talks

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???....

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @daanielhan
    @daanielhan 2 роки тому +1

    thank you for this video coach Stephanie, I love learning more about my mom's culture

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 9 місяців тому

    I didn't know any of this! I was only 25 when i got married

  • @zabraarms3865
    @zabraarms3865 Рік тому

    Hi Stephanie 👋 Watching your videos. Help me a lot!! Thanks 💯😊

  • @Cod12Osc
    @Cod12Osc Рік тому

    True Play the character well

  • @mariankeller5852
    @mariankeller5852 2 роки тому +2

    We need to be careful not to paint everyone we meet with the same brush..we are all narrcistic to a point..its a form of self-preservation..we look out for our own welfare.. just because a person protects them self or doesn't tell you everything about their life doesn't necessarily mean they're a covert narrcistist..

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for a very informative video!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你......

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆 ..

  • @usanr8718
    @usanr8718 2 роки тому

    I honestly don't care what other thinks of my life or me or my family.I am happy with what I have in life and don't need anyone to validate me or my family in any way.Life will never be perfect and you have to work hard every day to make things better even though you know that things can't be perfect.I love my family for what it is and I am happy with that.Married for 23 years,have 2 kids twins, a wife I can lean or count on in any situations. Aquarius and Capricorn in marriage both driven to succeed no matter what life throws in front of us.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @yichispiritual
    @yichispiritual Рік тому

    I used to have a female “friend” who chose not to talk to me much chased me down on social media, chat group, etc insisting I should attend or watch her wedding video/photos 😂

  • @mm7846
    @mm7846 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you 🙏💗

  • @birgitte.j.1434
    @birgitte.j.1434 2 роки тому +1

    I'm 55 and my partner (was 15 years younger than me) told me that the reason why we never goes out together (even food shopping) was because "people will wonder what a young man like me is doing with an old woman like you" .... Devastating, hurtful and full stop the end. Why would anyone say this except that it was his truth 😔

  • @vinguyen143
    @vinguyen143 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Stephanie. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
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  • @aceventurapetdetective2356
    @aceventurapetdetective2356 2 роки тому +5

    Hi Steph. Any advice for people that have found most their family and friends to be narcissists ?

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆

    • @Gyle.3559
      @Gyle.3559 2 роки тому

      Occupy yourself with something.
      Hope you got it

    • @janicemartin4819
      @janicemartin4819 2 роки тому +1

      She did say , evaluate the people in your life , and distance yourself from people that make you feel like crap!! There is a whole wide world out there, pursue new friendships and create a beautiful life for yourself!! I can relate, I have been coming to the same realization!!

    • @Gyle.3559
      @Gyle.3559 2 роки тому

      @@janicemartin4819 right on dear

  • @jamestrouten987
    @jamestrouten987 2 роки тому

    Very helpful thank you for your time

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 9 місяців тому

    They always look down on others! Screw them

  • @vr3216
    @vr3216 2 роки тому

    Hi thanks for your videos i am someone who has extremely poor boundaries and know nothing about control and manipulation and have been so badly bruised its now tgat i am beginning to realise what has been going on in life.thanks for your videos. Pl could you make videos on control? I hqve a highly controlling mother i just am afraid of going it out alonr and coming on my own

  • @maryam6857
    @maryam6857 2 роки тому +2

    I remember a time that I couldn't work out, dress, or even eat the things I wanted to with my ex-husband. While my lifestyle has changed, at least I get a say in these things.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???....

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
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  • @lucianas4919
    @lucianas4919 2 роки тому

    Thanks for the video

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???....

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
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  • @seasonalliving2881
    @seasonalliving2881 2 роки тому +1

    This really sounded like me as a codependent. :( The thing that gives me hope is that I am aware. This I think is the key difference between a narcissist and a codependent.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
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  • @theophilus46
    @theophilus46 2 роки тому +2

    too late I discovered the effects of the narcissistic )^*%^&^ that was once married to my now ex wife. He victimized her just like Stockholm Syndrome to the point she was no longer the great wonderful woman I thought I married. She bailed out to be with her adulterous ex, who also left her childless. Oddly, she died of a brain aneurysm a year later. No one won anything.. It took me years to let go of the hate I had for him. ........I finally did as I listened to Charles Stanley explain how to let it go and surrender to the Love of Christ. Still..........the days have been often times so loudly silent . Forgiving is a ongoing daily renewal. Blessings to you who lost what you thought was love.

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 роки тому

      the deafening silence. My heart to you

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
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  • @jenniferjones2929
    @jenniferjones2929 2 роки тому +1

    Hello Steph- love U.
    I've not seen this topic YET but here's wut I'm dealing w...
    Narcissist admits cheating and " apologizes " only to TAKE IT BACK! w in hrs
    Saying he "just said that bc he didn't want to fight" which makes NO FUCKING SENSE ANYWAY!!
    WTF?!?!

    • @erikakarlsson5703
      @erikakarlsson5703 Рік тому

      I have experienced the same thing 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

  • @adepojuyewandebetty1643
    @adepojuyewandebetty1643 2 роки тому

    My ex husband left me n said he wants to get a girl he can control,I stopped allowing him to control me n dis irked him,I stopped being d supply he needed..dude got married to a much younger girl just a month after our separation..I feel so happy.. sometimes u have to let Dem be d headache of another woman .

  • @theperfectautumn8781
    @theperfectautumn8781 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???.....

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
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  • @picklandam
    @picklandam 2 роки тому

    I can not tell if I’m narcissistic or my partner is so I do not know how to tell in
    our relationship and where we go from here. We love each other but there are toxic traits that have to be addressed and both think the other isn’t being accountable.

  • @phyllistouchstone7136
    @phyllistouchstone7136 2 роки тому +1

    I’m a truth teller. I found out how fake they really are

  • @briancastaneda3010
    @briancastaneda3010 2 роки тому

    I don't need my wife and I know she is a narcissist. She makes me feel bad leaving her since she is unable to pay the house or live off without me. It's so hard to turn my back.

  • @dameech6697
    @dameech6697 2 роки тому +1

    I was watching Star Wars. I think Anakin was really a grim jedi but nobody realized it. The regular Jedis messed with him too long so he had to turn into a Sith Lord.

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ??? ..

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

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    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
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  • @annpippin6388
    @annpippin6388 Рік тому

    What about a man who always blames the other person ,and never admits having blame, I wonder .

  • @dannysims5914
    @dannysims5914 2 роки тому +4

    This battle is spiritual.. Its not a disorder when the individual has a demon that's controlling them🤷🤦

  • @voulapetrakos7508
    @voulapetrakos7508 Рік тому +1

    No not my soon to be ex his a covert narc he was having an emotional affair with our sons mother n law I caught him couldn’t believe it she’s also married and older then me I’m sick to my stomach 👿☠️💖🖤💔🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥💵💵💵💵🏦🏦🏦🏦🏦💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @melissahernandez8806
    @melissahernandez8806 2 роки тому

    This was ex, he loves attention and validation. Social media is his biggest plant form, his new supply is supporting that right now, allowing all the attention. Only in time that’s where I found all the cheating and inappropriate videos and sex texting. His new supply is in for a great adventure 🤣. Thank God he Desecrated me, his new supply can have all his abandonment issues, PTSD issues, cheating issues, addicted to porn issues, physical abuse , and mental issues. The sad part he has 3 little kids that live with him and have seen and witness all he did to me. I hope she is also ready for the yelling and become a good stepmom.

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 9 місяців тому

    Do they really not know that they are doing this?

  • @laminage
    @laminage 2 роки тому

    They can''t in any form shape or way take responsibility for their lives. They mismanage their Money and even when they know they have to "Pay" Bills ie Credit Card, Bank Service Charges etc they "forget", and get upset when Money is taken out of their Account. They can't live in the "Real" World because it's too hard.

  • @stephenkarla7113
    @stephenkarla7113 2 роки тому +2

    Once narcissist mothers become elderly and are no longer able to be the center of attention they will use their daughters to carry out her narcissist behavior.

  • @firatbaran8634
    @firatbaran8634 2 роки тому

    you're the best Stephanie

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你.......

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @TravelatorH8r
    @TravelatorH8r 2 роки тому

    I wonder if LSD can help therapize these people and give them a self-image I tried with my love and she just wouldn't talk you can open up to me even though she majored in Psychology and I read all her books I told her I was willing to help her with anything that bothered her but the second that I had any feelings of something like my dad dying she stabbed me in the back and I was weak and now she's going to die alone and that's what she told me and now she's dead to me

  • @DonMatson
    @DonMatson 2 роки тому

    Are all outwardly confident people narcissists?

  • @bad_egg000
    @bad_egg000 2 роки тому +4

    it's so funny that they're so petty and shallow

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???....

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你......

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆.....

  • @user-dj4fd5vc6c
    @user-dj4fd5vc6c 2 роки тому +1

    Huge 👍🏼

  • @darlamckinnon4546
    @darlamckinnon4546 2 роки тому +2

    I think a common misconception about those who get into narcissistic relationships is that they have had abusive childhoods.

  • @SucessulSaima
    @SucessulSaima 2 роки тому +3

    ❤️

  • @user-ex6uk6ye3o
    @user-ex6uk6ye3o 2 роки тому

    🙏🏻❤️

  • @willsolo1967
    @willsolo1967 2 роки тому

    No need or reason to invest in a narcissist

  • @MERLIN13
    @MERLIN13 2 роки тому

    ❤️😍😍

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???...

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      十2349066058910♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,很高兴认识你.......

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp her now....
      👆👆👆👇👆...

  • @untitled_0109
    @untitled_0109 2 роки тому

    ✨✨✨✨😊😊

  • @merlinwizard1000
    @merlinwizard1000 2 роки тому +1

    4th

  • @jasonroman3639
    @jasonroman3639 2 роки тому

    Love the content but you should never say"of my God".

  • @memocardenas9535
    @memocardenas9535 Рік тому

    I wish you can meet my ex. Definitely a NARCISSIST. But nobody believes me! I know you would..I have soooooooo many stories of our fd up relationship. I seriously want to write a book. Let's write a book together! 📖

  • @lenaleong4894
    @lenaleong4894 2 роки тому

    Thank you