Eight years ago when I first arrived in the Philippines I met another expat on the ferry from Cebu to Negros. We spoke at length as he was preparing to depart the Philippines for good. He listed many of the same reasons discussed here. I remember him saying 8 years is the number when most leave, he had seen it time and time again. It's 8 years for me and yes the honeymoon is long over, I fully grasp the culture and the difficulties of living here. Yes, I've thought about leaving but the good here still far outweighs the bad as long as you keep your expectations in check. But realize this country is not for everyone. You need to be very patient and adaptable to make it here. You must be able to find solutions for every obstacle and always have plan A, B and C ready to execute. I will close that like everywhere, location is the big key to your peace of mind here. Never stop looking until you find the place that ticks the boxes you desire. Don't settle because in the long run it won't work. Good luck and safe travels.
I'll leave in 3-4 years probably live back in Az for 6 months then check somewhere with better quality of life this place is so low on the quality of life scale
Just reinforces the many reasons I already have for NOT moving there. I was married to a Filipina for 12 years and it was a nightmare. I know all about tampo and the in-laws constantly demanding money from me. Never again. Not to mention the heat, humidity, pollution, noise, crime, dirt, ignorance and poverty. I would not move to a ghetto in the US. Why do it overseas? And then have to constantly renew your visa for the "privilege?"
Dated a Filipino and moved into her house. The worst decision I ever made in my adult life honestly. Truly an evil group of women . No all but over 50% IMHO
@@wildbill562 Exactly. I learned all this in the Navy. There is a reason why western men marry asian women and bring them to live in their own country. It's because then you don't have to live in a third world slum. Also no inlaws to deal with. Visiting is fine but why live like that?
😂 Don't live in the shanty towns or a kubo up in the mountains brah. There are plenty of nice areas in every part of the Philippines. You're downright exaggerating.
100x better than the west. Many 60s oldies taking teen ager girlslike dumbos and crying in the internet. Take a Woman close to your age and you're good.
keep it in focus that relationships are transactional, meaning you have resources and a woman wants it You want beauty and a mate its that simple to believe anything else is going to leave you either out of pocket, or broken hearted. even both y0u chose
@@QuicknStraight Ah, right, no where in the vid does it say you can't live happily in PH. 99% of Mark's vids are positive on the Philippines. He does one showing the other side and the crybabies come out.
You covered the ups and downs pretty well. I want to leave California badly but I have a house and Medicare and all my doctors and medicines lined up. I could not take the hassles about visa's, power, rent, roosters, and family issues. I will take the devil I know before I flee to the devil I do not know. Thanks Mark
@@garyzies3486 exactly if you have medical issues, the Philippines is the last place you want to come to. The humidity, the heat and the air pollution is bad for the respiratory system. If your ashmatic forget about it. You'll get pneumonia or at worst Tuberculosis.
Do you really need all this quacks and drugs ? Unless you are managing a life threatening condition find a dad that is willing to sit down and unprescribe . If I'm out of line and talking out my backside I apologise in advance .
I like the Philippines and was married to a filipina for 20 plus years, but Thailand has so much better medical, rental housing,food, cleaner cities, etc. But even Thailand has a nightmare visa system.
@@satysunk Yes my wife divorced me in the U.S. after many years living in the U.S. This is the bad thing about getting married in the Philippines. We are still married in the Philippines but divorce in the states only, and we were married to long to get a anallment. That means if I go back to the Philippines and get into a relationship another lady I could be in big trouble. Same thing with my ex-wife. My ex-wife got the house in the Philippines because Americans can not own land in the Philippines.
@@Rory235-- you are misunderstanding the law. As an American, your martial status in the US is recognized in the Philippines. The only caveat is if you're married to someone of your own sex. They do not recognize same sex marriage. As far a your property goes, that's gone.
@@mymaria888 I have been divorced 10 years and unless they have changed the law recently. I was told 10 years ago by my a legal adviser that in the Philippines would not recognize my divorce and warned me not to go back to the Philippines because of that!
I just got back to Texas after spending a month in Pampanga. Been going there for well over a decade (always a month at a time) to see my wife's family. I'm done with that country and have abandoned all ideas of retiring there. I'll keep my family and my money here where it's beautiful, clean and livable. These old dudes going there for a young beautiful bride live in fantasy land that the lady actually loves them. I married my wife from there many years ago and brought her here. I don't regret my choices and we have a beautiful life here in Texas and my Fil-Am relationship is great but i think many things have changed. The PI is a mess, things are difficult and the thought process of people is enough to drive any westerner completely mad. There's a HUGE reason those people want OUT of their own country. Food for thought for any guy thinking about going over there to retire.
I’m interested in the apiculture in the Philippines. There are 5 species of bees there that produce honey. They even have a stingless variety. I’d like to visit and study the bees there when I retire.
People in the Philippines want to move to other countries for financial reasons. The same reason why most foreigners move to the Philippines. The Filipinos want to work to help support their family and themselves. The vast majority would gladly stay home and live near their family and friends in the country they they know and love. Many end up going back home to retire and speak their native tongue. I'm sure most foreigners would also choose to retire in their home country if they could afford to live there comfortably. Sadly, even after 40 years of working, that's no longer achievable. 😢😢😢
@@Zeldasmojo-- from what I understand there aren't many bees in the Philippines. They need more people who can help bring back the bees population. Maybe you can be the one to do it.
@@TacticalGhost007what are your challenges there for beekeeping? Pests? Weather? Regulations? It seems like there’s a lot of flora there for them to acquire nectar. This is very interesting to me. Thanks for commenting.
I lived with my filipina in Dumaguete last year. I was going to retire in the Philippines. I was there 9 months total but it only took me 3 months or so to realize I didn't want to retire there. Reasons are noise, chickens, sick dogs in the streets, substandard and expensive food, people who don't care about making their lives better, slow moving apathetic people living in terrible conditions, horrible ridiculous traffic and insane drivers. I went back to my beautiful quiet home in Texas and my filipina will be joining me soon.
My wife and I married in late 1996. And we never had the need to buy a house, because she inherited the house of her mother when she died. We only renovated it, because it was really in bad condition. Her oldest sister and the younger of her two older brothers have houses on the same compound, and another older sister has her big house just five yards from ours with a (not high one) wall in between. My wife was not a "girl" either when we married. She was 34, I was 33.
Lol Why tf are yall buying houses FOR a woman in the first place? Its like some men are just programmed to be suckers. Demand that she buys YOU a house and watch how ridiculous she thinks it sounds. Enough said. 😂😂😂😂
Can't you use the term scammed, rather than 'relationship didnt work out', what does that mean? In Thailand a guy accepted the 'relationship didn't work out', hired a buldozer for 5am, and levelled the house, with mother-in-law jumping up and down screaming at cops who told her 'Your land, his bricks' (roof, kichen, bathrooms, included of course). He 'cut' his losses.
I am 77 years old Canadian living in Philippines. I have a gorgeous 47-year-old Filipina. I could have my pick of Canadian women my age but got depressed just thinking about them. No way could I get a woman like I have in Canada. I did not come here for the Philippines, only for my girlfriend because I saw the importance of keeping her near her large family. She comes from a middle-class family who never ask me for anything. I love Canada and would never leave if not for my Filipina. I enjoy the culture here as it reminds me of Canada 70 years ago. I raise roosters here as I did in Canada and have a Filipino Dog. I am very happy here but would tell any foreigner to stay in their home country unless they want to be with a woman like I have. Also, make sure your Filipina has excellent English and exceptional communication skills. Know exactly what you want and make it clear to her at the very beginning. Do not tolerate any control nonsense, tampo or jealousy. If she does not accept you fully on your terms, man up, dump her and find a better one.
Imagine "dating" a young girl for a year online, sending money, and paying for a house and then flying over there to find out that the girl of your dreams is not Maria but Mario.
When i arrived in the Philippines 30 years ago, I was in a group with 43 foreigners in it, after 20 years me and another guy were the only two left in the country, all the others went back to their countries. Joined another group with 18 foreigners and after 10 years there was only 3 left. Its not easy at all here, you have to graft.
It’s the same in all Southeast Asian countries as much as there are positives the negatives out number the positives, for every positive of living in Southeast Asia there is 3 or more negatives this is my personal assessment after 1 year in SEA
I’ve been here several times now and have currently been here for four months. I’m trying to live here with my wife. It’s tough. If I can help you answer some questions please don’t hesitate to ask me.
The Best is 6 months there and 6 months back home for spring/summer. That's my plan because once end of march hits in PH it's too hot. Like November to March and then I'm out. Can always travel to other places. Japan or maybe Portugal is a good option for cooler weather...
I am from the UK and my filipina wife and I plan to do exactly the same. The easiest way for us is to get her a 10 year tourist visa that gives her up to 6 months every year.
You didn't mention, the Philippines can be a very noisy place. I Have lived in 4 different parts of this country from Dumagete to Cebu to Panglao, Bohol, all very noisy. Dogs, construction, loud people, music late hours, motorbikes, barangay Hall, generators, roosters. Even in the middle of Cebu. Have to wear ear plugs. So if you don't mind that it's OK... sometimes.
The dogs will drive you insane. Its retarded. I stayed In a barangay where neighbors had 5 dogs that sit at the front gate and bark at every single person that walks by as well as cats or whatever at night. Literally no logic. When confronted they said it's for safety and It's a gated community!
Never build or buy real estate in the filipines unless the land is in your name legally- in short your a citizen and have legal rights to own the land. If you buy land in her name it’s not yours your at her mercy or her friends or/and her family mercy. Anytime the police along with her can remove you and you don’t have any recourse. In fact you be lucky to leave unharmed or even worse dead. It’s the sad truth their government ( the filipine government) is aiding them to exploit foreigners don’t be a victim for love. I can’t stress enough don’t do it (buying or building land it’s not yours it hers ) 24:38 unless your prepare to walk away
There are golddiggers in any country; the only difference is Filipino girls help their family: sisters, brothers, parents etc at the man's expense but women in other countries, women use the money for themselves! Don't marry a Filipino woman because of the family dynamics that can't be changed. On the other hand, they are the best partners if you found an honest and caring person. I would suggest not to marry anyone who already have children unless they are adults and independent; otherwise, you would be their ATM machine! Just my opinion from another Filipino woman leaving in the USA. Thank you!
Texas expat living in Thailand when Covid started I was obese called doctor friend in states asked him what to do he told me to get healthy and lose weight a lot of the older obese people were dying went to UA-cam first started Keto and now carnivore last year 70 lbs down now o statins or BP meds needed or wanted big Pharmaceutical companies and the highly processed food companies lost me as a customer oh I am pureblooded no issues here in Thailand
i am 59 and backpacking Asia and currently in Malaysia. I too started carnivore sept 1st 2023 & iam over 72lbs down 5 clothing sizes etc. Basically i wouldnt backpacking if i were 72 lbs plus heavier. Carnivore has been LIFE CHANGING!!! challenging travelling - iam not perfect just doing my best!!
How many guys learned the language. How many guys read migration narratives, how many guy understand the process of honeymoon, culture shock, recovery and adaptation.
I’ve only been in the Philippines for over four months now and I love every minute of it. I do not miss Florida US at all. But I will keep one of my cars and my home in Florida just rent it out and I will travel back-and-forth, but I live primarily in the Philippines 🇵🇭 The white sand beaches with turquoise water, mountains, waterfalls, caves, cliff diving, surfing. Kind, warm, welcoming people, the abundant local fruits, beautiful weather and a lower cost of living. The Phillipines is awesome 🇵🇭
Well it has only been four months, you need more time. You are still in the honeymoon stage. I love all the things you mentioned also. I have been here 14 years but at least 3/4 of the time I am working in some other country like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Dubai, etc. Now here full time 2 years and as much as i love the Filipino culture I am sick of the crappy infrastructure, filthy streets, undrinkable water, corruption everywhere and poor quality medical. We will soon move to the USA, where there are modern convenience’s we can count on. US may have their own problems but those problems are 95% related to the big cities. The majority do not live in houses piled together. There is plenty of areas where you can live in peace with all modern amenities and conveniences. Okay that sounds pretty negative but it is truthful. There are a lot of positives here in the Philippines also. People being the best part and there are many beautiful locations to see. But you will eventually have to deal with all the above and it does wear on you. For me I prefer not to deal with it much longer and my wife would also like to move to the states. Eventually get her citizenship there. So some positives there also.
This is the "smart mans move" if you can afford it. I have property back in the UK as well as over here in Greece but I've no desire to move back . However it's the psychological feeling of confidence and stability that you are independent. This can also apply if you have a big fat monthly income .
Wherever you go there you are. Visit, go slow with relationships, limit financial outlay, then decide if the place is for you or not. Whatever you do, do not place your savings on a relationship bet.
Hi Mark. Congratulations on your new family. Thank you for your hospitality when I visited last year. I also enjoyed spending time with Kevin and Jenalyn.
This is great information. To guys planning to come over here. No matter who the woman is that you choose, she is going to have very close ties to her family. She will likely want to spend time with them even if you two are married. Think about how you would respond to that. I am lucky that I really like my Filipina wife's family. ALL of them. And there are a lot of them. They are from the province, and live together to make ends meet. I think this is the biggest deal breaker (second to infidelity) in terms of what I hear from expats. And Mark is right. Most relationships do not work out back home, either. Keep that in perspective.
I come from New Zealand and am currently living with a Filipina family in a smaller city in the Philippines abd its a real lesson in family relationships...very close and supportive of each other. I have been here 7 months now and its a real lesson in beautiful family relationships.
Just back from 2 months all over the 3 regions. It is way too hot to grow old there. 20 years of coming there and never seen it so hot and all the prices are up. One accident on the bike and its very hard to come back from. Better think hard. You cannot use aircon 24 hrs a day even if you can afford it. 60 days and out.
You seem like a really balanced guy - and well in tune with your location and your life. I am a retired Englishman, living in Thailand for the last 8 years - and appreciating every single day!! But every downside you mentioned about the Philippines could equally apply to Thailand. If you come expecting ALL the trimmings of your home country, but with one-third the cost of living and much better weather, you will NEVER adjust. People need to take SE Asia as it is - tradition is a huge thing here, and will not change for you or anybody else. Once they’ve weighed up the pro’s and con’s of that - and truly accepted it - life will be great!! BUT THEY NEED TO COME WITH THEIR EYES WIDE OPEN !
every two month tourist visa's are a moneymaker for the government here. It's OK for short term, but long term have a plan for either a 13A or SRRV visa
I am married to a Filipina, and live 8 months out of the year in the US. You don't need some big American style house in the Philippines. I built a very small, block house in the PHP in the province with a big porch and back deck all covered with concrete under feet and a small a/c unit for less than $10,000 USD. Stop thinking like an American where you are going to show your wealth in impress people in the PHP. No one cares here, and in fact they will look at you as a sucker and try to get something from you. My wife and I live a great life, but we don't live above our means, and don't have a big house. Stop trying to buy your way into a Filipina's heart, be stingy with your money, don't give it away, if a girl likes you great, if she doesn't, there's 50 million single Filipina's, so you will find one that lives your life, and your rules.
@@edwardkearle7196 ha ve a work don't think what you gain for tommoroW enjoy everyday of your life don't tired your brain thinking tommoroW just work and enjoy life that's christian life in the philipines bro
Good thinking bill i have a smallish house in greece,fixed mostly by myself,more than enough.i have a second to rent,for friends or if i dont want someone with me 24 hours a day.my life my choices,my rules
That's the same kind of guy who would marry a Western woman he hardly knew and she would divorce him and take the house. Same kind of foolishness, just different country.
So well said Mark, thanks. Ps how about when we go to a restaurant and find something on the the menu only to be told the famous words "NOT AVAILABLE" then they stand there waiting while you continue to ponder the menu only to tell you again "NOT AVAILABLE over annd over.
I have been in the Philippines for 7 years. I have a startup business, I work from home, married with a 3 year old son. I am happy and love living here. I have had no issues. I live in a good subdivision in Laguna, my friends and business associates are great people, some are Pilipino Americans that relocated here to do business. A lot of things are about who you are connected with, who you associate yourself with and where you stay. I have a hospital in 5 min walking distance. When I moved here, I was in Cavite and relocated to Laguna to start my first business. If you come here with no plan and retirement money you will have a hard time. The cost of living here is cheaper, life is good, my city is amazing in the province, my wife family is cool. I have a great experience.
As a younger guy living in the Philippines simply isn't viable due to the ridiculously low salaries. As much as I really dislike how expensive everything is getting here in the US the wages in the Philippines are so horrendous even for the very highly educated that the lower prices don't adequately compensate for it.
There is a reason why millions of people are coming to the US for a better life, not the Philippines. I have a blue-collar business; I install water heaters. On a typical day my earnings are as much as a doctor in the Philippines earn in a month.
@@everymanhasastory Not really. Most of the online work jobs are low paid, require a lot of upfront capital, and/or are graveyard shift. US companies have aggressively cracked down on working remotely abroad or using a VPN. The online work option was somewhat decent 5-10 years ago. Not anymore.
I’ve heard great things! If you are older man just realize that you are retiring into celibacy and they don’t have (as far as I know) anything like the SRRV smile visa like the Philippines
I live on Guimaras island. We have a massive wind farm generators here on the coast and power goes out at least once a week sometimes more. They sell the power to Iloilo across the bay and leave the rest for little ole Guimaras.
There's Nigeria, way cheaper, there's, Pakistan, there's Lebanon, there's actually so many way way better places to try. We cannot waste our short lives in a place we're not happy about. Let's have a happy life, not miserable. We cannot say we don't like a place or something, but we hang on to it, or staying there for many years anyway.
You have to be right for that life. I grew up in Indiana, lived for a few years in the Keys and everything was great for me. Now it's too expensive for an option but the Philippines will be like stepping back to that time. And with well planned funds & smart budgeting, passive income I'm sure it will work;. I don't plan to be alone but I'm not desperate for everything that comes my way either.
@@everymanhasastory Have you experienced the Philippines and after 15yrs of drama good and bad and the ungly, until you set foot you have no idea. Good Luck Mate.
Coming up on 1 month here with my 2 dogs and I'm all in on living the rest of my life here. I sold most of my things and have 10 balakbayan boxes coming. i just found a house in Bacong with backup generator that I will move into in August. I just bought a scooter and feel that I have made the best decision of my life. I don't have a Filipino, and not looking.
Finally , a nice positive comment!!lol I love the pi Province is nice and quiet, if you're 15 20 minutes from a coffee shop and market, perfect, a Giazanos or SM, Bonus. You need a solid support indeed. I've known my spouse , family for over 10 years, you need a plan and to find what You want. A Filipina partner is amazing and wonderful. Not a 5 minute internet relationship guys, or Instagram video... Live your life and enjoy yourselves! Planning on either 50/50 USA / PI Or eventually cashing out and full time PI. Need a plan and not just some UA-cam video to decide. Great channel and insight Always nice to see the honesty, positives and not just how much the pi sucks. Too many of those. Again Thanks for posting FL USA
…” it didn’t work out”…. But, things worked out beautifully for the Filipina. As, the expat watches flabbergastedly as the Filipina’s extremely grateful parents move in to the freshly built home that he paid for.
You may know this scene, a couple of days ago I came out of the beautiful mountains of Utah, and there was a Shakespeare festival in Cedar City, and it only took 90 minutes to go to Mesquite NV. 3 months here and 3 months in the Philippines work for me.
This was one of the BEST videos I've seen about leaving one's home country and moving to and living in the the Philippines. It was realistic and comprehensive in its sober warnings, and should be required viewing for anyone considering such a move. There is a lot of propaganda out there about how great life can be in a foreign country outside the "West" such as the USA, Canada, UK, or Australia. But the grass is not always greener on the other side, as this video makes clear.
My Wife is Indonesian and I met her in Las Vegas. I've been with her since 2003 and we currently live in Indonesia. Women here are great; but, you have to take your time with them.
You nailed it! I have worked overseas most of my adult life. These issues exist for most living in a foreign land. Different language makes it harder. Not working I think makes it harder.
I am 70. I owned a house on Mexico for 7 years. I adapted easy. The cartel issue sunk that for me. I moved to Thailand and own a house here with my now thai wife of 8 years. A person who moves for a woman has made a mistake. Nowhere is perfect, and you need to adapt.selling everything and bailing without "Tasting and testing" is an outright mistake. I see guys moving to Thailand and experiencing the "night life" and going broke over not knowing who they are or what they are dealing with. Mexico, the Phillipines, Thailand, or wherever. Know yourself before you make a big move.
I've been living in Mexico for almost 7 yrs also. I love this country...that said...headed to Thailand (Hua Hin) in Nov. for 4 months just to get a good looksee. It's good to have options.
@steveburke7675 I loved mexico until most of my new neighbors showed up. Other than the cartels, the Canadians and the Americans ruined it for me. I about lost it when a tourist asked me where Starbucks was... yeah, about 1200 miles north, if you leave now, you will make it in 22 hours..
In my case , 12 years before retirement, I took all my holidays in Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines and Cambodia. I decided to retire in Thailand and I was ready when it was time to make the move.
Yes. Thailand has the most positive aspects that older retirees can appreciate or need. Houdung, medical. Infrastructure, food options, and all those aspects are of a higher quality or value for what you are paying for. 😊
The more positive comments I read, the more it makes me want to check out Thailand. I had avoided because of the language barrier versus Philippines but maybe that's a mistake.
Humm🤔 Fantastic information!!👍👍 I'm having second thoughts about moving to the phillipines. Yes, the women are pretty, but there's alot more to consider, that's for sure.
The biggest thing for be is the long long wait time for medical sometimes all day even with appointments it can be long. Appointment time doesn't mean you get seen at appointment time.
Oh, you look younger than when you initially started your blog here, Sir. You must be having the right lifestyle with family. 73 years old here from Mindanao.
it's pretty easy to line up 4-5 Filipinas online. Then when you get to the Phills, you can just go down the list until one suits you. Do NOT have any of them living in the same city as any of the others!
Also, Mark, for your health -- you can take care of your blood pressure without any medication from the pharmacy that is made to treat blood pressure. 1) Avoid adding salt to your food 2) eliminate alcohol 3) exercise , walk or run , at a pace that is comfortably challenging 4) Eat plenty of vegetables, especially include green, leafy ones 5) Eat plenty of fruits 5) Do not consume processed foods nor junk or fast food, even worse for you is processed sugars 6) eliminate as much as possible meats, dairy, trans fats That is it. Easy prescription to healthy blood pressure Time tested and irrefutable 5)
@@pedrotinaco1 I lived in the PH. I still go back there. What others do and what you do does not have to be the same. You don't need to have the same habits as other people Worldwide, the vast majority of people do a horrible job of taking care of their own health. You don't have to be ordinary. You can do different. I lived in PH and I was and I am still a vegan or plant base eater. I got rid of all my medications when I was living in PH. No more meds to deal with my blood pressure I don't even use a CPAP anymore to sleep to deal with snoring. I am good to go now.
Sea salt is okay to use and eat an animal based or a carnivore diet. All plant foods are toxic and don't eat carbohydrates. Do some dry fasting. This is only for those who want the best of health. You can survive by eating plant fillers and carbohydrates, but if you want to thrive eat a carnivore diet. Meats, organ meats, fish, seafood, butter, eggs, milk and cheese.
Re your comment about riding a motorbike. I've been riding a motorbike as my main means of transport for the past 30 years. Here are some tips if you're not familiiar with motorbikes and basic rules and sensible practices: * no more than 2 people on the bike, * no kids under 12 years, * always wear an approved motorcycle helmet and proper shoes and gloves, * I'm in Laguna province, about 3 hours out of Manila. Must say I've never seen or heard about plastic screens between rider and pillion/passenger.
It’s probably best to just make a couple of real close ( trusted ) Philippine friends that can and will guide you to all the do’s and don’t’s over there. , that way you will be more aware of what’s going on ( before ) you do something that you may regret later. So that’s the real key to survive and thrive and enjoy the best of everything and not lose out.
I live in the Philippines with a beautiful girl 24 years younger than me. We couldn't be happier together. After knowing each other for 2 years and living together for a year and a half, were planning on getting married later this fall. I visit my kids and grandchildren and family in the United States staying around 2 months every year. I'm always ready to go back home to the Philippines.
@@mikejones5364 I personally don't want to live in the USA. But we have applied for a Visa for her, unfortunately we were turned down. We'll get married probably later this fall and apply for a spousal visa at that time. It may take a year or two, but eventually we'll get her a Visa.
Never bring a girl from a developing nation to the United States. It does not matter how bad life was there. The instant they get here, their expectations become western. All of a sudden, nothing is enough, and greed becomes a lifestyle.
I think the majority of people leaving here are 2 basic main factors. 1- They listened to idiots on youtube who said they could live here like a king on $1000 and woke up to reality. 2- They did not really research all of the things they will need to compromise on, thinking they could somehow go against reality and be smater than the Filipinas here. How many actually came here for a few months to have actual experience living here with the culture, weather, utilities, foods, transportation and how to get your money here from your country. How many big ego ones come here just to have a 20 year old hanging off their arm and then somehow surprised when she leaves for another more handsome with more money? Trying to live a western lifestyle here will cost you highly and youll still have to compromise on many things you cant buy. You cant control the weather, you cant control the utility companies, you cant control the laws, and most certainly, you can't change anything here except your attitude. The only thing you can control is how you want to live and accept the things you can't control.
You brought up a great point, only Filipino citizens can only land in the Philippines, at least that is what I heard when I worked at Intel, their location in the Philippines is actually owned by a Filipino Citizen.
Relationship issues... yeah who doesn't have that. However, what do you do when that happens to you? It depends. Get back on the horse? Up to you. My reason is adventure and exploration. I'm not dating anymore. Straight waste of my time and I don't have much time left. I walked away. Not starting relationship again. Much happier now. Please find your happiness. It doesn't have to be with someone else. All these people with relationships that work out... it is a dream. It won't happen for everyone. Do what makes you happy. There are many many places to explore. I haven't scratched the surface myself. I'm not leaving until every stone is unturned. I have a long way to go.
I guess im one of the lucky ones. My girl is simply amazing. As far as living there, it's been tough, but unlike a lot of guys my age, im pretty flexible. That and i have a rather sizable retirement package. My fiance has told me on numerous occasions that she would go or move anywhere i want. My short-term plans are to buy a nice but modest home in Davao city, and a possible second home in Argentina, where it even cheaper to live and purchase a home. Not to mention they have edible beef there in abundance. But to your point of picking the right woman, its simple, stop choosing the same kind of girl and expecting someone different. Women are women no matter the geographical boundaries. Find a happy Filipina, one that appreciates and loves her simple life, one who is close to God. She's there, praying for a good man to give her all to.
I have been in the Philippines for 7 months I am married. I met my wife online however we spoke for 3-4 days before I came to the Philippines. I hung out with her and her cousin. She stayed with me for 2-3 day's in the hotel. We went to her family I stayed for 1 week with her and her family. Several months later we got married now she's pregnant (honeymoon baby.) I am a ex vet 100% disabled. I lived in Germany as a kid. Stationed in Korea and Fort Bliss. I find the Philippines is a beautiful place I don't plan on leaving. I love it. Sure paperwork sucks but who cares. You can find people who can do it for you. I have the VA in Manila and medical is like $65 a month. And being 34 it's easy for me to get around. It's not for everyone but it's really laid back. I won't go back home.
Bro you met her for 4 days, then got her pregnant and then married her? If your a Filipino, your speak the language, you might be already. If your a white middle age america man, you fall right into the statistics of divorce and moving to the US. Definitely don't marry the first chick you meet lol
Interesting perspective. I've lived in the Philippines for 13 years and met hundreds of ex-pats some of whom did return to their old stomping grounds in the states. However, everyone I was familiar with returned for medical reasons not because of a relationship issue.
I keep a house in Clearwater Florida and homes in the Philippines. We travel home once a year for 2 months to visit family and friends. Been with my wife five years now. Know what your talking about have had four previous relationships with Filipinas. Your right got to move on. Did do the house thing with 2 of them because we have children together. My wife and i own 3 houses together and just bought land to build a fourth. When we die each of our kids will get one to do what they want to with them. For now were just enjoying life. Good video 😊
if you live in a van, ride a bicycle, eat free at the SA mission, churches, via food stamps and the food Bank, you can live CHEAPER in the US than anywhere in the world. The food is better/safer, no hassle to cook it, and you can sell your plasma for $50 an hour, one hour per week. You can also get Pell grants to cover your tuition and fees at college and stretch out half time college loans for 8 years. before you need to repay them. the interest rate is 7% per year and NO interest is accruing while you are in college at least half time. 2 years of college makes you a sonogram tech, able to clear 50k per year.. You dont HAVE to pay utilities, rent, food, or commuting expenses. If you also work part time, you can be banking plenty of money to cover private health-insurance. Here, you can ccw a pistol and have a silencer rifle in your van. You're much better off living like that and just ignoring the US women,
Thanks for putting in a good word for the USA! I've lived my life in Seattle frugally and free of marriage and children, and as a result I have a net worth of several million $$. FRUGALITY! That's the key for those of average incomes.
I was there 2 months last year. Not a long time, but I had trouble with the day to day life. In the USA I mountain bike, road bike, sometimes play pickle-ball, and am a bit of a foodie. Lots of restaurants in the US. While I was there I went to the mall, the hotel, and the gym. Daily. And meeting women online was very chaotic. Got monotonous.
That is understandable. I love it in the Philippines. My best friend is single and retired living in Texas. He loves driving to baseball and football (American) games around the country. He tours stadiums, and keeps a log book of all that stuff. He also loves Mexican food (he's Mexican-American, and grew up on his mom's cooking) He also loves steak dinners. He cannot do that here. He came for a visit, but would never want to live here.
I was there for 8.5 months in 2021. Mountain biking was the best part for me. We came back to US because of the quality of health care and pharmacy. We're not sick, family member was . Going through that was all I needed to experience
I married a Filipina 36 years ago in Dumaguete. Brought her to the U.S. still live here, still married. She is a super great person. We went to Dumaguete in January and stayed there one month. It’s a completely different city than when we got married there.
I have to look into if there is possibility of setting up an irrevocable trust for purchase of land that passes to my filam daughter post emancipation with me as the Usufructuary.
Great video. How true, is all that you say. I travelled to the Philippines over two years ago to be with a woman (Filipina) that friended me on Facebook 2 years prior. It didn't work so I returned to the U.S. She later informed me that she wanted to try again. 1.5 years later I returned and again the situation did not work as planned. I had to compromise my expectations and although we don't currently live together our relationship is strong. Being mentally and emotionally flexible is the key to making it here. If a foreigner is set in his ways and things have to go his way or it's the highway, he is wasting his time and resources relocating to the Philippines. As of this month one needs a valid reason to extend their tourist Visa. Acceptance of this reason is up to immigration. "Engagement" works but be sure the Filipina is with you when you turn in the form.
Pretty decent summary of many of the issues. I think the health issue is worth emphasising. My guesstimate is that realistically living in Phils reduces your life expectancy by 3 to 5 years. Main factors would be high rates of alcoholism and obesity among ex pats, poor medical facilities, motorbikes/traffic, murder. One has to set that against the fun of having way more choice in terms of relationships. For many the risks are worth taking, but I would recommend anyone coming here to be sure to start eating healthily and ideally do a little exercise.
Lets cut through the pc for a moment. Your explanation was very well articulated. Men sometimes try get frustrated and run from their problems and rashly seek out a new love on the rebound. Then they seek quick comfort using the wrong head. Now we have a issue.Great video.
The biggest thing is that at 40 you're most likely stuck in your ways. It's important to align yourself with people of shared values that includes the wmn you invite into your life.
As a senior level federal employee I expect to have a little over $6000 in passive income when I retire. Not something I planned, just the way it works out for people in my position and pay grade. With that level of income I think I could retire in comfort with few financial worries...especially in the Philippines...and have enough for emergencies.
When I moved to Thailand, it was one of my top three countries I wanted to move to after retirement. Then during my last holiday in january 2012 I met my to be wife and now 12 years later I live in Thailand, a country I visited the first time over 40 years ago and have spent many many days during my work and holidays...I'm home here.
America is imperfect but it's the best country you've got. Love your country like no other. Defend it; like we do. Find work that you love. Your work dignifies you.
@@Daneiladams555 I was an expat and had to return to America for a variety of reasons. It's got what I need now, but I was happier abroad. You're absolutely right. Those who think it's "the best" are provincials. Other countries have their strengths and weaknesses, but I think America was very good at one time. It was a time when we lead the world to Christ and a higher standard of living through work and innovation. All of that is implicitly Christian. We've lost that.
It takes a certain mindset to be willing to sell everything you own and move to a foreign country. You have to be adaptable, you have to have an open mind, you have to have some resources.
great video
Just stay single and don't commit to just one lady. Keep your finances for yourself.
Good advice.As we get older the big head must rule the small head.
Refreshing to see another man thinking clearly rather than like a love struck lonely teenager
Greetings from new jersey
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Exactly!
Stop meeting people online and in bars. Its that simple. Try a bunch of hobbies and meet people organically doing things you both are interested in.
Most are already past 60, have to move quick.
Its simple for those of us who have the past experience.
Hmm! So, spend all my time in the bras.
Eight years ago when I first arrived in the Philippines I met another expat on the ferry from Cebu to Negros. We spoke at length as he was preparing to depart the Philippines for good. He listed many of the same reasons discussed here. I remember him saying 8 years is the number when most leave, he had seen it time and time again. It's 8 years for me and yes the honeymoon is long over, I fully grasp the culture and the difficulties of living here. Yes, I've thought about leaving but the good here still far outweighs the bad as long as you keep your expectations in check. But realize this country is not for everyone. You need to be very patient and adaptable to make it here. You must be able to find solutions for every obstacle and always have plan A, B and C ready to execute. I will close that like everywhere, location is the big key to your peace of mind here. Never stop looking until you find the place that ticks the boxes you desire. Don't settle because in the long run it won't work. Good luck and safe travels.
Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊 I agree with you 💯
Wise words! 👍👍
Very very good response
Well thought out,like living in greece it seems
I'll leave in 3-4 years probably live back in Az for 6 months then check somewhere with better quality of life this place is so low on the quality of life scale
Just reinforces the many reasons I already have for NOT moving there. I was married to a Filipina for 12 years and it was a nightmare. I know all about tampo and the in-laws constantly demanding money from me. Never again. Not to mention the heat, humidity, pollution, noise, crime, dirt, ignorance and poverty. I would not move to a ghetto in the US. Why do it overseas? And then have to constantly renew your visa for the "privilege?"
Dated a Filipino and moved into her house. The worst decision I ever made in my adult life honestly. Truly an evil group of women . No all but over 50% IMHO
@@wildbill562 Exactly. I learned all this in the Navy. There is a reason why western men marry asian women and bring them to live in their own country. It's because then you don't have to live in a third world slum. Also no inlaws to deal with. Visiting is fine but why live like that?
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Don't live in the shanty towns or a kubo up in the mountains brah. There are plenty of nice areas in every part of the Philippines. You're downright exaggerating.
Good for you now marry a white lady lol so you can keep your wealth
People are much friendlier and the ladies are much prettier in a Philippine ghetto
there is no perfect relationship anywhere, no perfect partners out there either
100x better than the west. Many 60s oldies taking teen ager girlslike dumbos and crying in the internet. Take a Woman close to your age and you're good.
The truth.
Men lead, women follow!
NOTHING IS PERFECT SO TAKE YOUR TIME AND DON'T BUY A HOUSE FOR ANYONE! RENT ONLY!
keep it in focus that relationships are transactional, meaning you have resources and a woman wants it You want beauty and a mate its that simple to believe anything else is going to leave you either out of pocket, or broken hearted. even both y0u chose
Friends, don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
Gonna steal this. 💯🙏💪
A must see video for every guy thinking about coming to the PH. Great Job!
Thank you 😊
Ah, right, because there are not many more guys who move here and live very happily.
@@QuicknStraight Ah, right, no where in the vid does it say you can't live happily in PH. 99% of Mark's vids are positive on the Philippines. He does one showing the other side and the crybabies come out.
@@Cool_Breeze_Rockies Well done for completely missing the point, which is surprising considering how basic the English I used was.
@QuicknStra
no, even I had difficulty understanding what you meant. That's not basic English; that's broken English.
Nailed it, PH has many positives, primarily cost of living, but it's no paradise
Lol it's a third world country.cash is king so then you are use the power but be polite.
I found the Philippines expensive when it came to food
There's no paradise anywhere on the planet.
@@davewright9313 Veggies & Fruits is expensive, Meat is cheap, especially Pork and Chicken
@davewright9313 Thailand is better value for what you get.
You covered the ups and downs pretty well. I want to leave California badly but I have a house and Medicare and all my doctors and medicines lined up. I could not take the hassles about visa's, power, rent, roosters, and family issues. I will take the devil I know before I flee to the devil I do not know. Thanks Mark
You're making the right decision
If you are not familiar with the Philippines and if you have any medical issues, then it's better to stay where you are.
@@garyzies3486 exactly if you have medical issues, the Philippines is the last place you want to come to. The humidity, the heat and the air pollution is bad for the respiratory system. If your ashmatic forget about it. You'll get pneumonia or at worst Tuberculosis.
You have it figured exactly right. Better to stay where you are instead of chasing rainbows.
Do you really need all this quacks and drugs ? Unless you are managing a life threatening condition find a dad that is willing to sit down and unprescribe . If I'm out of line and talking out my backside I apologise in advance .
I like the Philippines and was married to a filipina for 20 plus years, but Thailand has so much better medical, rental housing,food, cleaner cities, etc. But even Thailand has a nightmare visa system.
My uncle says the same thing. He lived in Philippines for 8 yrs but moved to Thailand and been there almost 20 yrs and has never looked back
@@Rory235 what happened after 20 years. Did you divorce, because divorce is not permitted in the Philippines.
@@satysunk Yes my wife divorced me in the U.S. after many years living in the U.S. This is the bad thing about getting married in the Philippines. We are still married in the Philippines but divorce in the states only, and we were married to long to get a anallment. That means if I go back to the Philippines and get into a relationship another lady I could be in big trouble. Same thing with my ex-wife. My ex-wife got the house in the Philippines because Americans can not own land in the Philippines.
@@Rory235-- you are misunderstanding the law. As an American, your martial status in the US is recognized in the Philippines. The only caveat is if you're married to someone of your own sex. They do not recognize same sex marriage. As far a your property goes, that's gone.
@@mymaria888 I have been divorced 10 years and unless they have changed the law recently. I was told 10 years ago by my a legal adviser that in the Philippines would not recognize my divorce and warned me not to go back to the Philippines because of that!
Grim realities. Good stuff Mark!
I just got back to Texas after spending a month in Pampanga. Been going there for well over a decade (always a month at a time) to see my wife's family. I'm done with that country and have abandoned all ideas of retiring there. I'll keep my family and my money here where it's beautiful, clean and livable. These old dudes going there for a young beautiful bride live in fantasy land that the lady actually loves them. I married my wife from there many years ago and brought her here. I don't regret my choices and we have a beautiful life here in Texas and my Fil-Am relationship is great but i think many things have changed. The PI is a mess, things are difficult and the thought process of people is enough to drive any westerner completely mad. There's a HUGE reason those people want OUT of their own country. Food for thought for any guy thinking about going over there to retire.
I’m interested in the apiculture in the Philippines. There are 5 species of bees there that produce honey. They even have a stingless variety. I’d like to visit and study the bees there when I retire.
People in the Philippines want to move to other countries for financial reasons. The same reason why most foreigners move to the Philippines. The Filipinos want to work to help support their family and themselves. The vast majority would gladly stay home and live near their family and friends in the country they they know and love. Many end up going back home to retire and speak their native tongue. I'm sure most foreigners would also choose to retire in their home country if they could afford to live there comfortably. Sadly, even after 40 years of working, that's no longer achievable. 😢😢😢
@@Zeldasmojo-- from what I understand there aren't many bees in the Philippines. They need more people who can help bring back the bees population. Maybe you can be the one to do it.
@@Zeldasmojo I am a beekeeper. Conditions for beekeeping here are difficult to put it mildly.
@@TacticalGhost007what are your challenges there for beekeeping? Pests? Weather? Regulations? It seems like there’s a lot of flora there for them to acquire nectar. This is very interesting to me. Thanks for commenting.
I lived with my filipina in Dumaguete last year. I was going to retire in the Philippines. I was there 9 months total but it only took me 3 months or so to realize I didn't want to retire there. Reasons are noise, chickens, sick dogs in the streets, substandard and expensive food, people who don't care about making their lives better, slow moving apathetic people living in terrible conditions, horrible ridiculous traffic and insane drivers. I went back to my beautiful quiet home in Texas and my filipina will be joining me soon.
we are all praying for you Ken😀
You shouldn’t even think about buying a house for a girl until you’ve been together in person for five years.
My wife and I married in late 1996. And we never had the need to buy a house, because she inherited the house of her mother when she died. We only renovated it, because it was really in bad condition. Her oldest sister and the younger of her two older brothers have houses on the same compound, and another older sister has her big house just five yards from ours with a (not high one) wall in between. My wife was not a "girl" either when we married. She was 34, I was 33.
I bought my wife a house after 5 years… 3 months later shes divorcing me… NEVER AGAIN… American women.
Lol Why tf are yall buying houses FOR a woman in the first place? Its like some men are just programmed to be suckers. Demand that she buys YOU a house and watch how ridiculous she thinks it sounds. Enough said. 😂😂😂😂
Ok, I was moving to the PI but now you’ve talked me out of it! 😂
I agree with you 💯
Can't you use the term scammed, rather than 'relationship didnt work out', what does that mean?
In Thailand a guy accepted the 'relationship didn't work out', hired a buldozer for 5am, and levelled the house, with mother-in-law jumping up and down screaming at cops who told her 'Your land, his bricks' (roof, kichen, bathrooms, included of course). He 'cut' his losses.
I am 77 years old Canadian living in Philippines. I have a gorgeous 47-year-old Filipina. I could have my pick of Canadian women my age but got depressed just thinking about them. No way could I get a woman like I have in Canada. I did not come here for the Philippines, only for my girlfriend because I saw the importance of keeping her near her large family. She comes from a middle-class family who never ask me for anything. I love Canada and would never leave if not for my Filipina. I enjoy the culture here as it reminds me of Canada 70 years ago. I raise roosters here as I did in Canada and have a Filipino Dog. I am very happy here but would tell any foreigner to stay in their home country unless they want to be with a woman like I have. Also, make sure your Filipina has excellent English and exceptional communication skills. Know exactly what you want and make it clear to her at the very beginning. Do not tolerate any control nonsense, tampo or jealousy. If she does not accept you fully on your terms, man up, dump her and find a better one.
EXACTLY 😊😊😊
Sure yah do ?
Wise advice 😊pinay here
I have a hard enough time trying to figure out what my American dog is saying, much less a Filipino dog.
It sounds like you made a good choice for yourself in terms of a lady. Many guys can't do this. Perhaps most guys are too desperate.
Imagine "dating" a young girl for a year online, sending money, and paying for a house and then flying over there to find out that the girl of your dreams is not Maria but Mario.
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Hahaha
Dating online ? Are people that much of an id!ot ?
A ladyboy
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When i arrived in the Philippines 30 years ago, I was in a group with 43 foreigners in it, after 20 years me and another guy were the only two left in the country, all the others went back to their countries. Joined another group with 18 foreigners and after 10 years there was only 3 left. Its not easy at all here, you have to graft.
It’s the same in all Southeast Asian countries as much as there are positives the negatives out number the positives, for every positive of living in Southeast Asia there is 3 or more negatives this is my personal assessment after 1 year in SEA
This has been my experience as well. Most expats I've known have left the country with their tail between their legs.
Wherever you go there you are.
MrBatt....who the bleep uses the word graft in that context?
@frequentiis What way is Indonesia better than the Philippines?
This video is great. I'm currently doing loads of research on the pros and cons of retiring in the Philippines.
Glad you enjoyed it 😊 The Philippines isn't perfect but with a little money and a good attitude you can build a nice life here
I’ve been here several times now and have currently been here for four months. I’m trying to live here with my wife. It’s tough.
If I can help you answer some questions please don’t hesitate to ask me.
The Best is 6 months there and 6 months back home for spring/summer. That's my plan because once end of march hits in PH it's too hot. Like November to March and then I'm out. Can always travel to other places. Japan or maybe Portugal is a good option for cooler weather...
I am from the UK and my filipina wife and I plan to do exactly the same. The easiest way for us is to get her a 10 year tourist visa that gives her up to 6 months every year.
But November to March it rains, just as bad
@@satysunk it's June to November the rainy season
Good, useful content today. Well thought, complete, detailed! Thanks!
Glad it was helpful!
You didn't mention, the Philippines can be a very noisy place. I Have lived in 4 different parts of this country from Dumagete to Cebu to Panglao, Bohol, all very noisy. Dogs, construction, loud people, music late hours, motorbikes, barangay Hall, generators, roosters. Even in the middle of Cebu. Have to wear ear plugs. So if you don't mind that it's OK... sometimes.
You're right. I have experienced that too. Not too bad here in Bacong but dogs and loud music late at night mostly on weekends
The dogs will drive you insane. Its retarded. I stayed In a barangay where neighbors had 5 dogs that sit at the front gate and bark at every single person that walks by as well as cats or whatever at night. Literally no logic. When confronted they said it's for safety and It's a gated community!
why come to PH if you cant adapt the environment other than coastal beaches and provincial scenes?
Make your own noise.
Sounds like Dubrovnik, Athens and Naples all 3 beautiful cities but very noisy I can atest also for Sophia , Bulgaria also.
Never build or buy real estate in the filipines unless the land is in your name legally- in short your a citizen and have legal rights to own the land. If you buy land in her name it’s not yours your at her mercy or her friends or/and her family mercy. Anytime the police along with her can remove you and you don’t have any recourse. In fact you be lucky to leave unharmed or even worse dead. It’s the sad truth their government ( the filipine government) is aiding them to exploit foreigners don’t be a victim for love. I can’t stress enough don’t do it (buying or building land it’s not yours it hers ) 24:38 unless your prepare to walk away
Mark, outstanding video. Great info.
So glad you liked it 😊
I have seen Plenty of falung's in Thailand living on the streets , Penniless , and there Ex Thai Wife , is living in the Mansion he Built for her !
some dudes never learn, or just see pussy and nothing else welcome to women and hypergamy
If you build a house in a foreign country know you built it for someone else to live in
Drunks
In Ecuador you can own your own land deeded.
Free medical for tourists and 90 day visa free and can extend not 29 days like Philippines
There are golddiggers in any country; the only difference is Filipino girls help their family: sisters, brothers, parents etc at the man's expense but women in other countries, women use the money for themselves! Don't marry a Filipino woman because of the family dynamics that can't be changed. On the other hand, they are the best partners if you found an honest and caring person. I would suggest not to marry anyone who already have children unless they are adults and independent; otherwise, you would be their ATM machine! Just my opinion from another Filipino woman leaving in the USA. Thank you!
Texas expat living in Thailand when Covid started I was obese called doctor friend in states asked him what to do he told me to get healthy and lose weight a lot of the older obese people were dying went to UA-cam first started Keto and now carnivore last year 70 lbs down now o statins or BP meds needed or wanted big Pharmaceutical companies and the highly processed food companies lost me as a customer oh I am pureblooded no issues here in Thailand
Congratulations! Stay healthy
Well done 👍
Good man! So awesome to hear that!
Yes number one thing is health. Gotta take care of yourself to many guys don't give a damn about their personal health but focus on a woman.
i am 59 and backpacking Asia and currently in Malaysia. I too started carnivore sept 1st 2023 & iam over 72lbs down 5 clothing sizes etc. Basically i wouldnt backpacking if i were 72 lbs plus heavier. Carnivore has been LIFE CHANGING!!! challenging travelling - iam not perfect just doing my best!!
This is great advice for any country. I'm in Lagos Nigeria, the New York City of Africa. It's an amazing place but with all the same challenges.
How many guys learned the language. How many guys read migration narratives, how many guy understand the process of honeymoon, culture shock, recovery and adaptation.
NAW! that's a lot of work LOL
Not many. If you don't like camping, don't go to the Philippines.
I’ve only been in the Philippines for over four months now and I love every minute of it.
I do not miss Florida US at all. But I will keep one of my cars and my home in Florida just rent it out and I will travel back-and-forth, but I live primarily in the Philippines 🇵🇭
The white sand beaches with turquoise water, mountains, waterfalls, caves, cliff diving, surfing. Kind, warm, welcoming people, the abundant local fruits, beautiful weather and a lower cost of living. The Phillipines is awesome 🇵🇭
Well it has only been four months, you need more time. You are still in the honeymoon stage. I love all the things you mentioned also. I have been here 14 years but at least 3/4 of the time I am working in some other country like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Dubai, etc. Now here full time 2 years and as much as i love the Filipino culture I am sick of the crappy infrastructure, filthy streets, undrinkable water, corruption everywhere and poor quality medical. We will soon move to the USA, where there are modern convenience’s we can count on. US may have their own problems but those problems are 95% related to the big cities. The majority do not live in houses piled together. There is plenty of areas where you can live in peace with all modern amenities and conveniences.
Okay that sounds pretty negative but it is truthful. There are a lot of positives here in the Philippines also. People being the best part and there are many beautiful locations to see. But you will eventually have to deal with all the above and it does wear on you. For me I prefer not to deal with it much longer and my wife would also like to move to the states. Eventually get her citizenship there. So some positives there also.
This is the "smart mans move" if you can afford it. I have property back in the UK as well as over here in Greece but I've no desire to move back . However it's the psychological feeling of confidence and stability that you are independent.
This can also apply if you have a big fat monthly income .
SO....
Is it hotter in the PI or Florida?
JUST ENJOY THE FRUIT
DONT MARRY IT OR DISCLOSE YOUR INCOMES OR BUY OR BUILD A HOUSE YOU WILL GET CLEANED OUT
Wherever you go there you are. Visit, go slow with relationships, limit financial outlay, then decide if the place is for you or not. Whatever you do, do not place your savings on a relationship bet.
Excellent advice! Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
Well said.. Short and sweet
Extraordinarily clear, fair, cogent, to the point, detailed, pithy, comprehensive, deep. Also, most of the video can be understood at 2X speed.
Thank you 😊
Seems like good advice! Great video.
Hi Mark. Congratulations on your new family. Thank you for your hospitality when I visited last year. I also enjoyed spending time with Kevin and Jenalyn.
This is great information. To guys planning to come over here. No matter who the woman is that you choose, she is going to have very close ties to her family. She will likely want to spend time with them even if you two are married. Think about how you would respond to that. I am lucky that I really like my Filipina wife's family. ALL of them. And there are a lot of them. They are from the province, and live together to make ends meet. I think this is the biggest deal breaker (second to infidelity) in terms of what I hear from expats. And Mark is right. Most relationships do not work out back home, either. Keep that in perspective.
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊
That's how it usually goes. Most new expats are not prepared to deal with the culture and the financial burden involved.
@@garyzies3486 if you can learn the language it is a huge plus and an advantage. Problem I had was many were shocked when they got told off in Visaya.
I come from New Zealand and am currently living with a Filipina family in a smaller city in the Philippines abd its a real lesson in family relationships...very close and supportive of each other. I have been here 7 months now and its a real lesson in beautiful family relationships.
Congratulations. I hope I can meet you some day. Thank you for watching ☺️
Just back from 2 months all over the 3 regions. It is way too hot to grow old there. 20 years of coming there and never seen it so hot and all the prices are up. One accident on the bike and its very hard to come back from. Better think hard. You cannot use aircon 24 hrs a day even if you can afford it. 60 days and out.
Very informative and I have been living here (the Philippines) since 2018.
You seem like a really balanced guy - and well in tune with your location and your life.
I am a retired Englishman, living in Thailand for the last 8 years - and appreciating every single day!!
But every downside you mentioned about the Philippines could equally apply to Thailand. If you come expecting ALL the trimmings of your home country, but with one-third the cost of living and much better weather, you will NEVER adjust.
People need to take SE Asia as it is - tradition is a huge thing here, and will not change for you or anybody else. Once they’ve weighed up the pro’s and con’s of that - and truly accepted it - life will be great!!
BUT THEY NEED TO COME WITH THEIR EYES WIDE OPEN !
Good for you. Thank you for watching Mike
I am still trying to find where Valpo Indiana is on the map!
every two month tourist visa's are a moneymaker for the government here. It's OK for short term, but long term have a plan for either a 13A or SRRV visa
@@eddieBoxer If someone's going to PAY why not just get the SRRV and don't have to get married here...which is a several month hassle
I am married to a Filipina, and live 8 months out of the year in the US. You don't need some big American style house in the Philippines. I built a very small, block house in the PHP in the province with a big porch and back deck all covered with concrete under feet and a small a/c unit for less than $10,000 USD. Stop thinking like an American where you are going to show your wealth in impress people in the PHP. No one cares here, and in fact they will look at you as a sucker and try to get something from you. My wife and I live a great life, but we don't live above our means, and don't have a big house. Stop trying to buy your way into a Filipina's heart, be stingy with your money, don't give it away, if a girl likes you great, if she doesn't, there's 50 million single Filipina's, so you will find one that lives your life, and your rules.
American always think tommmorow problem you can't live in philipine if your that kind of person
@@ElmerSolis-wn7js U cant live like that successfully anywhere, u should be guarded, and prepared..but not worried.
@@edwardkearle7196 ha ve a work don't think what you gain for tommoroW enjoy everyday of your life don't tired your brain thinking tommoroW just work and enjoy life that's christian life in the philipines bro
Good thinking bill i have a smallish house in greece,fixed mostly by myself,more than enough.i have a second to rent,for friends or if i dont want someone with me 24 hours a day.my life my choices,my rules
Yeah don't build a house for a Pinay you hardly really know and haven't been with for years.
That's the same kind of guy who would marry a Western woman he hardly knew and she would divorce him and take the house. Same kind of foolishness, just different country.
So well said Mark, thanks.
Ps how about when we go to a restaurant and find something on the the menu only to be told the famous words "NOT AVAILABLE" then they stand there waiting while you continue to ponder the menu only to tell you again "NOT AVAILABLE over annd over.
Been there many times.
You are so right, also there are these 3 words " Out of stock"!
I have been in the Philippines for 7 years. I have a startup business, I work from home, married with a 3 year old son. I am happy and love living here. I have had no issues. I live in a good subdivision in Laguna, my friends and business associates are great people, some are Pilipino Americans that relocated here to do business. A lot of things are about who you are connected with, who you associate yourself with and where you stay. I have a hospital in 5 min walking distance. When I moved here, I was in Cavite and relocated to Laguna to start my first business. If you come here with no plan and retirement money you will have a hard time. The cost of living here is cheaper, life is good, my city is amazing in the province, my wife family is cool. I have a great experience.
Yep well said.
Many before you have said the same thing, and it does us well to renew these thoughts, for those of us who haven't made the move yet.
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
As a younger guy living in the Philippines simply isn't viable due to the ridiculously low salaries. As much as I really dislike how expensive everything is getting here in the US the wages in the Philippines are so horrendous even for the very highly educated that the lower prices don't adequately compensate for it.
There is a reason why millions of people are coming to the US for a better life, not the Philippines. I have a blue-collar business; I install water heaters. On a typical day my earnings are as much as a doctor in the Philippines earn in a month.
Work online. Lots of opportunities
@@everymanhasastory Not really. Most of the online work jobs are low paid, require a lot of upfront capital, and/or are graveyard shift. US companies have aggressively cracked down on working remotely abroad or using a VPN. The online work option was somewhat decent 5-10 years ago. Not anymore.
Thailand 🇹🇭 is way better, in many ways. But I love both.
I’ve heard great things! If you are older man just realize that you are retiring into celibacy and they don’t have (as far as I know) anything like the SRRV smile visa like the Philippines
I live on Guimaras island. We have a massive wind farm generators here on the coast and power goes out at least once a week sometimes more. They sell the power to Iloilo across the bay and leave the rest for little ole Guimaras.
I've been here 16 years. Don't like it at all but alternative destinations disappeared as I got older. I would call it slumming.
Haha
Blunt honesty. I like it, thanks.
Try Thailand.
Why you don't like it
There's Nigeria, way cheaper, there's, Pakistan, there's Lebanon, there's actually so many way way better places to try. We cannot waste our short lives in a place we're not happy about. Let's have a happy life, not miserable. We cannot say we don't like a place or something, but we hang on to it, or staying there for many years anyway.
You have to be right for that life. I grew up in Indiana, lived for a few years in the Keys and everything was great for me. Now it's too expensive for an option but the Philippines will be like stepping back to that time. And with well planned funds & smart budgeting, passive income I'm sure it will work;. I don't plan to be alone but I'm not desperate for everything that comes my way either.
Good luck 👍 Thank you for watching ☺️
@@everymanhasastory Have you experienced the Philippines and after 15yrs of drama good and bad and the ungly, until you set foot you have no idea. Good Luck Mate.
Coming up on 1 month here with my 2 dogs and I'm all in on living the rest of my life here. I sold most of my things and have 10 balakbayan boxes coming. i just found a house in Bacong with backup generator that I will move into in August. I just bought a scooter and feel that I have made the best decision of my life. I don't have a Filipino, and not looking.
Let's meet. I live in Bacong
markfthornton@yahoo.com
Finally , a nice positive comment!!lol
I love the pi
Province is nice and quiet, if you're 15 20 minutes from a coffee shop and market, perfect, a Giazanos or SM, Bonus.
You need a solid support indeed. I've known my spouse , family for over 10 years, you need a plan and to find what
You want. A Filipina partner is amazing and wonderful.
Not a 5 minute internet relationship guys, or Instagram video...
Live your life and enjoy yourselves!
Planning on either 50/50 USA / PI
Or eventually cashing out and full time PI. Need a plan and not just some UA-cam video to decide.
Great channel and insight
Always nice to see the honesty, positives and not just how much the pi sucks. Too many of those.
Again
Thanks for posting
FL USA
…” it didn’t work out”…. But, things worked out beautifully for the Filipina. As, the expat watches flabbergastedly as the Filipina’s extremely grateful parents move in to the freshly built home that he paid for.
You may know this scene, a couple of days ago I came out of the beautiful mountains of Utah, and there was a Shakespeare festival in Cedar City, and it only took 90 minutes to go to Mesquite NV. 3 months here and 3 months in the Philippines work for me.
You're so lucky
I miss Utah
KIds today don't know who Shakeseare is. He's a dead white poet and therefore not worth studying anymore.
Can get 6 momth tourist extension at BI in Intramurous,Manila
That's good news! Thank you for sharing it
Been there. You can hire a filipino outside to do all the work for you.
Small fee. They are worth it.
This was one of the BEST videos I've seen about leaving one's home country and moving to and living in the the Philippines. It was realistic and comprehensive in its sober warnings, and should be required viewing for anyone considering such a move. There is a lot of propaganda out there about how great life can be in a foreign country outside the "West" such as the USA, Canada, UK, or Australia. But the grass is not always greener on the other side, as this video makes clear.
My Wife is Indonesian and I met her in Las Vegas. I've been with her since 2003 and we currently live in Indonesia. Women here are great; but, you have to take your time with them.
I agree with you 💯
Thank you for watching ☺️
Yes❤
You nailed it! I have worked overseas most of my adult life. These issues exist for most living in a foreign land. Different language makes it harder. Not working I think makes it harder.
I am 70. I owned a house on Mexico for 7 years. I adapted easy. The cartel issue sunk that for me. I moved to Thailand and own a house here with my now thai wife of 8 years. A person who moves for a woman has made a mistake. Nowhere is perfect, and you need to adapt.selling everything and bailing without "Tasting and testing" is an outright mistake. I see guys moving to Thailand and experiencing the "night life" and going broke over not knowing who they are or what they are dealing with. Mexico, the Phillipines, Thailand, or wherever. Know yourself before you make a big move.
Great advice. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
I've been living in Mexico for almost 7 yrs also. I love this country...that said...headed to Thailand (Hua Hin) in Nov. for 4 months just to get a good looksee. It's good to have options.
@steveburke7675 I loved mexico until most of my new neighbors showed up. Other than the cartels, the Canadians and the Americans ruined it for me. I about lost it when a tourist asked me where Starbucks was... yeah, about 1200 miles north, if you leave now, you will make it in 22 hours..
@steveburke7675 hua hin is a good option if you want a quite experience than Pattaya or Phuket
@@chinesecrested9528 Looking for a quiet and peaceful life. Thanks.
Well said Mark!
In my case , 12 years before retirement, I took all my holidays in Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines and Cambodia. I decided to retire in Thailand and I was ready when it was time to make the move.
Yes. Thailand has the most positive aspects that older retirees can appreciate or need. Houdung, medical. Infrastructure, food options, and all those aspects are of a higher quality or value for what you are paying for. 😊
The more positive comments I read, the more it makes me want to check out Thailand. I had avoided because of the language barrier versus Philippines but maybe that's a mistake.
@@franciscoaguilar123 you can get by and many in the cities speak/understand it.
@@franciscoaguilar123I just retired to Thailand this year. It has been a complete joy so far. Google translate works well.
I'm hearing a boat load of rich Russians going there and being rude and obnoxious to everyone around and buying up condos left and right.
Humm🤔
Fantastic information!!👍👍
I'm having second thoughts about moving to the phillipines. Yes, the women are pretty, but there's alot more to consider, that's for sure.
Don't over think it. You can always go home
The biggest thing for be is the long long wait time for medical sometimes all day even with appointments it can be long. Appointment time doesn't mean you get seen at appointment time.
Oh, you look younger than when you initially started your blog here, Sir. You must be having the right lifestyle with family. 73 years old here from Mindanao.
You hit the nail on the Head.
it's pretty easy to line up 4-5 Filipinas online. Then when you get to the Phills, you can just go down the list until one suits you. Do NOT have any of them living in the same city as any of the others!
When you leave the 1st one to go visit the 2nd, what do you tell the 1st one about not leaving Philippines, but not taking her with you?
Also, Mark, for your health -- you can take care of your blood pressure without any medication from the pharmacy that is made to treat blood pressure.
1) Avoid adding salt to your food
2) eliminate alcohol
3) exercise , walk or run , at a pace that is comfortably challenging
4) Eat plenty of vegetables, especially include green, leafy ones
5) Eat plenty of fruits
5) Do not consume processed foods nor junk or fast food, even worse for you is processed sugars
6) eliminate as much as possible meats, dairy, trans fats
That is it. Easy prescription to healthy blood pressure
Time tested and irrefutable
5)
Where did you get the info? Sounds good
Thank you for this excellent advice!
That's hard to do in Philippines. Most Filipinos not heeding that advice. We're persuaded to eat rice and meat, drink sodas, and drink alcohol
@@pedrotinaco1 I lived in the PH. I still go back there.
What others do and what you do does not have to be the same.
You don't need to have the same habits as other people
Worldwide, the vast majority of people do a horrible job of taking care of their own health.
You don't have to be ordinary.
You can do different.
I lived in PH and I was and I am still a vegan or plant base eater.
I got rid of all my medications when I was living in PH.
No more meds to deal with my blood pressure
I don't even use a CPAP anymore to sleep to deal with snoring.
I am good to go now.
Sea salt is okay to use and eat an animal based or a carnivore diet. All plant foods are toxic and don't eat carbohydrates. Do some dry fasting. This is only for those who want the best of health. You can survive by eating plant fillers and carbohydrates, but if you want to thrive eat a carnivore diet. Meats, organ meats, fish, seafood, butter, eggs, milk and cheese.
Re your comment about riding a motorbike. I've been riding a motorbike as my main means of transport for the past 30 years. Here are some tips if you're not familiiar with motorbikes and basic rules and sensible practices:
* no more than 2 people on the bike,
* no kids under 12 years,
* always wear an approved motorcycle helmet and proper shoes and gloves,
* I'm in Laguna province, about 3 hours out of Manila. Must say I've never seen or heard about plastic screens between rider and pillion/passenger.
It’s probably best to just make a couple of real close ( trusted ) Philippine friends that can and will guide you to all the do’s and don’t’s over there. , that way you will be more aware of what’s going on ( before ) you do something that you may regret later. So that’s the real key to survive and thrive and enjoy the best of everything and not lose out.
I live in the Philippines with a beautiful girl 24 years younger than me. We couldn't be happier together. After knowing each other for 2 years and living together for a year and a half, were planning on getting married later this fall. I visit my kids and grandchildren and family in the United States staying around 2 months every year. I'm always ready to go back home to the Philippines.
Why not take her back to USA? At least long enough to get her a passport? Me and my pinay are 20 years age gap but we get to live in the USA.
@@mikejones5364 I personally don't want to live in the USA. But we have applied for a Visa for her, unfortunately we were turned down. We'll get married probably later this fall and apply for a spousal visa at that time. It may take a year or two, but eventually we'll get her a Visa.
Never bring a girl from a developing nation to the United States.
It does not matter how bad life was there. The instant they get here, their expectations become western. All of a sudden, nothing is enough, and greed becomes a lifestyle.
Fantastic
@@CroAglo I have seen the same in (at least Central) Europe. Unfortunately... Maybe it's - for some at least - human nature?
Thanks for sharing. It so good to know.
I think the majority of people leaving here are 2 basic main factors. 1- They listened to idiots on youtube who said they could live here like a king on $1000 and woke up to reality. 2- They did not really research all of the things they will need to compromise on, thinking they could somehow go against reality and be smater than the Filipinas here.
How many actually came here for a few months to have actual experience living here with the culture, weather, utilities, foods, transportation and how to get your money here from your country. How many big ego ones come here just to have a 20 year old hanging off their arm and then somehow surprised when she leaves for another more handsome with more money?
Trying to live a western lifestyle here will cost you highly and youll still have to compromise on many things you cant buy. You cant control the weather, you cant control the utility companies, you cant control the laws, and most certainly, you can't change anything here except your attitude. The only thing you can control is how you want to live and accept the things you can't control.
Balanced and intuitive. Worth watching.
You brought up a great point, only Filipino citizens can only land in the Philippines, at least that is what I heard when I worked at Intel, their location in the Philippines is actually owned by a Filipino Citizen.
Never rely on anyone else. Just do what you need to satisfy yourself, don't plan on pleasing anyone else. 🏖️
Relationship issues... yeah who doesn't have that. However, what do you do when that happens to you? It depends. Get back on the horse? Up to you. My reason is adventure and exploration. I'm not dating anymore. Straight waste of my time and I don't have much time left. I walked away. Not starting relationship again. Much happier now. Please find your happiness. It doesn't have to be with someone else. All these people with relationships that work out... it is a dream. It won't happen for everyone. Do what makes you happy. There are many many places to explore. I haven't scratched the surface myself. I'm not leaving until every stone is unturned. I have a long way to go.
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your experiences
Been here 2 years. See more and more foreigners all the time in Ormoc.
I guess im one of the lucky ones. My girl is simply amazing. As far as living there, it's been tough, but unlike a lot of guys my age, im pretty flexible. That and i have a rather sizable retirement package. My fiance has told me on numerous occasions that she would go or move anywhere i want. My short-term plans are to buy a nice but modest home in Davao city, and a possible second home in Argentina, where it even cheaper to live and purchase a home. Not to mention they have edible beef there in abundance. But to your point of picking the right woman, its simple, stop choosing the same kind of girl and expecting someone different. Women are women no matter the geographical boundaries. Find a happy Filipina, one that appreciates and loves her simple life, one who is close to God. She's there, praying for a good man to give her all to.
Yes. Philipinne beef isn't tasty. I was fortunate to find imported U.S. and Canadian beef at a grocery store recently.
I moved to the Philippines long before you got there. I've seen the transitions
Would you like to be a guest on my show?
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Great video Mark! Can you summarize what certificate is required to become an online English teacher there? Thanks!
If you Tutor on Cambly you don't need anything. Not even a college degree To teach you need TFFL
@@everymanhasastory Thanks Man! I'll look into that. 👍
I have been in the Philippines for 7 months I am married. I met my wife online however we spoke for 3-4 days before I came to the Philippines. I hung out with her and her cousin. She stayed with me for 2-3 day's in the hotel. We went to her family I stayed for 1 week with her and her family. Several months later we got married now she's pregnant (honeymoon baby.) I am a ex vet 100% disabled. I lived in Germany as a kid. Stationed in Korea and Fort Bliss. I find the Philippines is a beautiful place I don't plan on leaving. I love it. Sure paperwork sucks but who cares. You can find people who can do it for you.
I have the VA in Manila and medical is like $65 a month. And being 34 it's easy for me to get around. It's not for everyone but it's really laid back. I won't go back home.
Bro you met her for 4 days, then got her pregnant and then married her? If your a Filipino, your speak the language, you might be already. If your a white middle age america man, you fall right into the statistics of divorce and moving to the US. Definitely don't marry the first chick you meet lol
Me if its winter in NY im in the Philippines from October - March then back here in NY for 6 months
Interesting perspective. I've lived in the Philippines for 13 years and met hundreds of ex-pats some of whom did return to their old stomping grounds in the states. However, everyone I was familiar with returned for medical reasons not because of a relationship issue.
I keep a house in Clearwater Florida and homes in the Philippines.
We travel home once a year for 2 months to visit family and friends.
Been with my wife five years now.
Know what your talking about have had four previous relationships with Filipinas.
Your right got to move on.
Did do the house thing with 2 of them because we have children together.
My wife and i own 3 houses together and just bought land to build a fourth.
When we die each of our kids will get one to do what they want to with them.
For now were just enjoying life.
Good video 😊
Great video my friend. 👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Thanks for sharing your time with us. Cheers from 2 Canadians 🇨🇦 living in Mexico.🇲🇽🥰✌🏼
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
if you live in a van, ride a bicycle, eat free at the SA mission, churches, via food stamps and the food Bank, you can live CHEAPER in the US than anywhere in the world. The food is better/safer, no hassle to cook it, and you can sell your plasma for $50 an hour, one hour per week. You can also get Pell grants to cover your tuition and fees at college and stretch out half time college loans for 8 years. before you need to repay them. the interest rate is 7% per year and NO interest is accruing while you are in college at least half time. 2 years of college makes you a sonogram tech, able to clear 50k per year.. You dont HAVE to pay utilities, rent, food, or commuting expenses. If you also work part time, you can be banking plenty of money to cover private health-insurance. Here, you can ccw a pistol and have a silencer rifle in your van. You're much better off living like that and just ignoring the US women,
Thanks for putting in a good word for the USA!
I've lived my life in Seattle frugally and free of marriage and children, and as a result I have a net worth of several million $$.
FRUGALITY! That's the key for those of average incomes.
I was there 2 months last year. Not a long time, but I had trouble with the day to day life. In the USA I mountain bike, road bike, sometimes play pickle-ball, and am a bit of a foodie. Lots of restaurants in the US. While I was there I went to the mall, the hotel, and the gym. Daily. And meeting women online was very chaotic. Got monotonous.
That is understandable. I love it in the Philippines. My best friend is single and retired living in Texas. He loves driving to baseball and football (American) games around the country. He tours stadiums, and keeps a log book of all that stuff. He also loves Mexican food (he's Mexican-American, and grew up on his mom's cooking) He also loves steak dinners. He cannot do that here. He came for a visit, but would never want to live here.
I was there for 8.5 months in 2021. Mountain biking was the best part for me.
We came back to US because of the quality of health care and pharmacy. We're not sick, family member was . Going through that was all I needed to experience
@@mikeh5034 where did you go? Obviously there's plenty of mountains but I never saw a mountain bike when I was there.
Looks like road biking would be pretty treacherous
The food is horrendous in the Philippines 😢
Good video. You explain things just like they are.
Glad you liked it 😊
I married a Filipina 36 years ago in Dumaguete. Brought her to the U.S. still live here, still married. She is a super great person. We went to Dumaguete in January and stayed there one month. It’s a completely different city than when we got married there.
I have to look into if there is possibility of setting up an irrevocable trust for purchase of land that passes to my filam daughter post emancipation with me as the Usufructuary.
All you should do is sign a lease. Get a 25 year lease with a 20 year option. That keeps them from getting control of the property.
good idea!
That DONT work
Great video. How true, is all that you say. I travelled to the Philippines over two years ago to be with a woman (Filipina) that friended me on Facebook 2 years prior. It didn't work so I returned to the U.S. She later informed me that she wanted to try again. 1.5 years later I returned and again the situation did not work as planned. I had to compromise my expectations and although we don't currently live together our relationship is strong. Being mentally and emotionally flexible is the key to making it here. If a foreigner is set in his ways and things have to go his way or it's the highway, he is wasting his time and resources relocating to the Philippines. As of this month one needs a valid reason to extend their tourist Visa. Acceptance of this reason is up to immigration. "Engagement" works but be sure the Filipina is with you when you turn in the form.
Pretty decent summary of many of the issues. I think the health issue is worth emphasising. My guesstimate is that realistically living in Phils reduces your life expectancy by 3 to 5 years. Main factors would be high rates of alcoholism and obesity among ex pats, poor medical facilities, motorbikes/traffic, murder. One has to set that against the fun of having way more choice in terms of relationships. For many the risks are worth taking, but I would recommend anyone coming here to be sure to start eating healthily and ideally do a little exercise.
Good advice. Thank you for watching
Lets cut through the pc for a moment. Your explanation was very well articulated. Men sometimes try get frustrated and run from their problems and rashly seek out a new love on the rebound. Then they seek quick comfort using the wrong head. Now we have a issue.Great video.
The biggest thing is that at 40 you're most likely stuck in your ways. It's important to align yourself with people of shared values that includes the wmn you invite into your life.
I agree with you 💯
ohhh yeah!
Gr8 info!
Thank you
😇🙏👍
Don’t even consider moving to another country unless you have at least $3000 in passive income. It’s just not worth the risk to try with less.
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Which dollar?
1000% true.2-3k minimum.
AND HOW MANY DUDES YOU KNOW HAS THAT FORM OF INCOME, BUT STILL WANT THE GOOD LIFE
As a senior level federal employee I expect to have a little over $6000 in passive income when I retire. Not something I planned, just the way it works out for people in my position and pay grade. With that level of income I think I could retire in comfort with few financial worries...especially in the Philippines...and have enough for emergencies.
When I moved to Thailand, it was one of my top three countries I wanted to move to after retirement. Then during my last holiday in january 2012 I met my to be wife and now 12 years later I live in Thailand, a country I visited the first time over 40 years ago and have spent many many days during my work and holidays...I'm home here.
Sjaak, pls contact me, I live in the Philippines but want to change.
I am a nature lover and animal lover.
I hate big cities
America is imperfect but it's the best country you've got. Love your country like no other. Defend it; like we do. Find work that you love. Your work dignifies you.
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It’s not the best country anymore. That is a load of crap. Im American and I have no problem leaving for good…
@@Daneiladams555 I was an expat and had to return to America for a variety of reasons. It's got what I need now, but I was happier abroad. You're absolutely right. Those who think it's "the best" are provincials. Other countries have their strengths and weaknesses, but I think America was very good at one time. It was a time when we lead the world to Christ and a higher standard of living through work and innovation. All of that is implicitly Christian. We've lost that.
@@bardwheelo it’s not about religion for me
@@Daneiladams555 What's it about?
It takes a certain mindset to be willing to sell everything you own and move to a foreign country. You have to be adaptable, you have to have an open mind, you have to have some resources.
You're 💯 correct