I love how honest my filipina is. I was well aware she had a kid already. Not a deal breaker for me really. You'll be hard pressed find a woman over 20 without a kid these days
Don't give up bro, there are some really wonderful Filipina gals. You just have to do your DD. Find a free Filipina pen pal site and take your time. You correspond with one for 6 months or more, and you get a very good picture of whether she is the real deal or not. I went through 4-5 before finding one that checked all the boxes. I did not do it intentionally, but in hindsight, I was looking for absolute consistency over those months. Ones that failed that, I cut them loose. What was funny though, was that I thought my to be wife had failed when she said that her mother had to be admitted to the hospital. I was darn, I really liked that gal and now she comes out with some story about her mother being on deaths door. I was very wrong about that, he mother had become very ill and suffered kidney failure. That was the only time I questioned anything she said because she always had been totally consistent in her statements. I never caught her misleading me in any way. Wonderful gal. Married her, helped her through nursing school here and we have two beautiful daughters. Best decision of my life. I was too old to start a family here, but with a Filipina wife half my age, no problem.
then it's not love at all. Media has hacked our value system long time ago. the role of men and actions that used to be of importance are being replaced with modern society's so called commodities and ''protection''. I guess good times really do create weak people..
This makes me rethink about going to the Philippines. I don't need to go there to have women playing games, I get enough of that from the woman in the US
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
It’s best to look for a wife in the Philippines in the provinces or country side.And if you are really looking for a Filipina to stick with you long term without investing so much of your own money into her look into southern region of the Philippines 🇵🇭.Mindanao and far south than that avoid the metro areas and areas that have fast rapid development and you will be fine.
It's not that all women are like that, if you're not ready to take a step, you will find yourself in the same place 10 years later. I go there in october to visit my date.What happens there, i will have to find out.
@@jozef8054 A generalization is speaking about a majority of women not 100%. There will always be a small percentage that don't follow the norm of a generalization. Only problem is100% of expats think he's the one who's getting the women that's the exception to the norm. Bottomline, 90% of them are wrong and will find out sooner or later.
@@danielhackney7806so you don’t lie or deny truths Daniel? Tell me, is a transwoman a male? How many genders are there? What is a woman? Can’t wait to hear your 100% factual, non lie, reply. Genuinely can’t wait 😂🏳️🌈❤️😉
The only "love" women experience is for their children. If you're a man, you're not getting love --you're getting reciprocity. Money or no doesn't matter. When a woman says she "loves you" what that means in Womanese is that she's "happy with you at the moment."
Another lie is when they say they have no bf but they do,they have multiple guys from the US,australia,germany etc all sending her peso,she has multiple phones,many facebook accounts one may even be with her name spelt backwards! Yes many fillos do that trick.
All women who travel (or their partner does) do that. The ones who are poor and have to support their family do it even more. NO different from a single mom in the hood playing men out.
Thanks for confirming my suspicions. People are people no matter where. I was planning on going there in the future but you saved me a lot of time and money.. I'll be single rest of my life and I'm fine with that:)
If she tells me it's okay, then I'm going to assume it's OK.I'm not gonna play games and try to figure out what's wrong. I'm married to a Filipina and I told her up front.If something's bothering you than talk to me about. If I'm not important enough to be honest too.Then your problems aren't important enough for me to care about. I also told her that silent treatment crap to get rid of it to be an adult and talk. I know this sounds harsh, but I'm also very open.When she does sit me down and tells me what's bothering her and what's upset in her.I make it a point not to do it again.
been in PI and Thailand for 23 years. Married and have 3 kids. I loved your videos. Very refreshing and honest. You are great. Guys, listen to her she's right on the money and honest about it. Don't be dumb, use your head, take your time, be observant and enjoy the Filipina's. I hope you find your girl.
So ive been bing watching your channel along with another channel called regular guy dont really like his channel but he does travel around on trike motorbike or bus so you see alot of different places so what i have learned basically is that if a foreigner comes there to find a wife and stay permanently then smart to find a matchmaker or someone who can help you find someone who is genuine😊😊👍👍
Mrs. Rick told me she was a St. Louis Cardinals fan because I am from St. Louis. Turns out she really liked the Chicago Cubs all this time. Heartbreaking. May never get over it.
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
@@Shadowmanchronicles There will always be an exception to the rule. The most important thing to remember is the exception is a very small percentage of women. Maybe she just felt guilty she got caught in a lie.
Thank you Reine for your thoughts. I personally appreciate these warnings as they apply to people in general. We have all learned these the hard way. Listen to their "words" but notice their "actions." Truth usually rises to the top. A tip for you to consider Reine. It's # 13 on my whiteboard😂..." There are lots of critics in life, no matter what we do. I always listen and learn and am kind. Many thoughts are helpful but some I just put in the trash. I've learned to have a tender heart but be tough. In America we call that "leadership!" Keep doing what you're doing. You have many fans and are respected and appreciated!!
I met a filipina long time ago on cupid and it was the first and only time anyone ever said this to me. She was coming on way too strong too soon and was asking for money after about 3-4 days. I refused and she said "You not pay me you no REAL man!" I thought it was quite funny and it always stayed with me as a reminder that women can be very charming when they want to be but the one's who aren't genuine eventually reveal themselves to you. Much sooner when they realize you're not going to give them money in exchange for an "online fantasy, girlfriend experience". And that's exactly what a lot of foreign men are doing right now and telling people they have a girlfriend. I don't feel sorry for those men though, somewhere buried deeply into their sub-conscious I think they know. But they'd still rather have the fantasy and pay for it then to be completely alone without it. At the end of the day both parties are getting something out of it. He gets to "feel" like he has a girlfriend and she caters to his ego and gets paid for it. I am not saying it's okay but I understand why there's a market for it and you just have to know what you're signing up for or lean into the fantasy and be prepared to get hurt.
I met a woman on the dating site there to find Christian partners who told me that cash and gifts were how a real man shows his love. And she was raised in a small village in the Leyte province.
Yep. Passport is cope for trad-cels. A few surgically placed question will have them scattering like roaches. The only ones that seem to be in relationships with expats have families that are financially subsidized (like a sugar baby) or kids from an F-boy that left them barefoot and pregnant.
Men need to be aware of the Black Widow spider. The name “black widow” comes from the female's habit of eating the male after mating. There are woman like the Black Widow spider. It's part of nature. The trouble is most brainwashed men, hypnotised and lured by the the most irresistible young beautiful woan in the world have no clue they are caught in the trap. She will leave you for dead and have no remorse.
The female Homo Sapien is driven to finding a mate (or mates) that can provide healthy offspring and resources to protect and provide for it. Her role in the coupling is to gather whatever resources she can from others and her environment to insure it's survival and developmental success.
Thank you sweetheart for making me smarter than I am when it comes to people lying to me because I'm very honest and people can take advantage of my kind heart😅
*......#13, I don't want you to support my parents. #14, My mother, father, brother, sister or buffalo is sick and needs (expensive) medical treatment. #15, I don't have a child back in the Province. #16, It's not about the money. #17......*
1. Does she show you off to momma and papa? 2. Does she want you to participate in family gatherings over social media? 2.5 Does she had you off to family so you can get to know each other? 3. Did she ask for money in first three months? 4. Did you offer money and she took it in the first 6 months. 5. Did you ask her to be just yours and request commitment before God? A lot of foreigners don't know they need to ask and make it clear so we know what kind of relationship we are in. At some point you realize money dropping her 60 bucks a month is needed once you're committed so she can eat...if you're deep into the provinces, but the good ones don't ask or go for it right away. Sis up there is young. She's going over what we do with local boys in high school/college.. We grow out of that childishness quickly when faced with the real world.
She is giving good advice here. She is right, observing is key because the body language will tell or reveal certain things. My girlfriend and I are together for about 3 years now and she is very much like this girl, my girlfriend told me almost all these points like this girl so spot on. Genuine love is the best when it develops naturally and you don't have to figure out things and enigmas.
True, but the men know that because they are wise and ask questions and look in the mirror at their age, height and SMV. For some reason, we evolved to be delusional and believe that somewhere else, in the sky, under the sea, or on top of the mountain is a magical place of paradise. Seems passport is one such delusion. I tried it, 100% fake love in PH. The ones who say they succeeded are just beta-bux$ on steroids without wanting to realize it.
You should have named this the 12 traits in a woman to avoid. And yes, love is very expensive however it’s cheap if you are spending the money on yourself which is also someone you love and care for when the two become one.
Yeah these are all games that wise men don't get fooled by them. Plus there is no patience for games in my book. Either they play by my rules or they can kick rocks.
I recently, (since 10 days) found a caring and lovely lady on cupid. Since then she never asked for money, didnt even asked how much i earn etc etc. We mail everyday, up to 1/2 times since she is still in class (becoming nurse) and have to help her parents in the weekend but we bond good so far. She sent me pictures of herself in almost every mail, she shared her family photos, her moms business and her fathers farm. I think its going pretty good and i will visit her in october, i have the whole month holidays, to get to know her better and her family. She even calls me her future husband wich i am totally not used to as a dutch guy lol. So that is so far the only thing that stands out. Nonetheless i have a great feeling about it and looking forward meeting her. Thanks for the video.
You are wrong little girl about the age, my Filipina wife is 24 years old and I will be 80 in December. We have been together for four years and we are both madly in love with each other.
I meet a guy in Cebu and his one-word description of girls there as "flaky". I've lived there for a few years over the last 15 years and I recon 9 out of 10 girls only want your money, and that's being generous.
thanks for whiteboard.... When she txts....I can't see you bcuz I'm washing clothes. OR....When I ask "Who is the Pinoy guy?.....OH....He is my brother. My best proposition is " I'm going to AIRPORT in 90 mins, deal or no deal". NEVER chase a professional.
I had dreams before about finding a Filipina to marry and have a family with. Then I tried moving there in late 2022. Between the women lying about everything and getting hit by a condo rental scam, I lasted about 6 weeks before I came back to the states. Now I’m getting a brand new condo in Cebu, and I’ll just go live the Charlie Harper lifestyle.
I met a married couple. Went on a few bike rides with them and then the wife started messaging me and sending pictures. I am married also and really liked both of them so never acted on it. Was really surprised and flattered
I have a Thai wife and many of them are the same way. My wife isn't that's why we've been together for 15 years. My advice to western guys coming to ASEAN countries is to take everything with 'a grain of salt'. If you meet a girl in a bar or online on a dating app be very skeptical of her words. Take you time and observe her actions and verify everything before you do anything significant.
If I ever came to the Phillippines, I would seek out someone close to my age. I'm 70 and the thought of being with someone less than half my age would really make me uncomfotable. I feel it's not fair to a young woman and not healthy for me. I like you're channel. Your format is fun.
Your crazy, they lose their looks, and no one pays attention to old Filipinas , they lose that ass and boobs , it’s a flat board , if that’s what you want , there is millions of them here , you can be King Tut 😂
Thank you for the vid. It was informative. I was there in the Phil's backnin October and am going to return soon, permanently. Would be open to running onto someone while I'm there. Already aware of most of the scams and lies.
Yep. But, the timeline also impacts men. Look up the statistics on that. Only $ugar daddies are in large age gap relationships and some refuse to marry or stay in the relationships long term.
If you are just looking for a chippy or arm candy then yes Filipinas past 25 are old, just look at the job market and hiring practices of PH, and you can agree on the fact that most Filipinas are thought of as past their prime if they are in their 30's. For a lot of foreign men (not saying all), you are just becoming interesting in your 30's. With life experiences that you can share and stories that can they relate to a relationship, instead of "Mahal can we go shopping.", or "I want ...".
"Age is just a number" My pilipina cracks me up everything she used to say, "You look so young." Finally I laughed out loud and said, " Young for what? An old fart?" I guess she thought I was laughing at her cuz she has not said it since.
I was the marine killed in the Olongapo Philippines Dec 1988. Went back to Angeles city 2019,2020 got stuck during lockdown and again 2023. Wished I saw your videos sooner.
To you " Smart Girl Phili" ... Are married?single? how the hell you know so much? about relationships? I'm one of your subscribers and liking you because of your knowledge of boys and girls and all the gimmicks ...... now, I want a long standing relationship with you. I live in the US.
Better for most on here to speed date...would give them the freedom to be a butterfly. The Filipino whammy is you end up an ATM machine for her and her family and friends. Who wants that lousy deal?
3 and 4 are definitely American Flip girls. You aren't the only one, you will never lose her but she will have other lovers. Get over it if you wanna keep her. She will never be faithful, don't try to make her an honest woman. Just enjoy her company and don't let her start to control your life. Be the boss, stay the Boss. She respects that, even if she complains about it, she will comply. She is still an Asian woman at the end of the day and making their man happy is a priority for them. Afford her the improprieties she will undoubtedly commit.
True. Age doesn't matter...everything matters. Everyone is looking for the best deal they can get. You, me, everyone. Women with gwapo men are never busy. #5 & 6 and many other questions are dumb to ask. You can never know the truth. Weak men ask. Strong men find out. You're so handsome. You're so beautiful. You're a 10 Baby. This lie goes both ways. No matter how beautiful a woman is or handsome a man there is always someone else more beautiful or handsome. What people are really saying is "You're handsome enough for me." "You're beautiful enough for me." "I don't have a budget" isn't a lie imo. The lie is the White Knight telling himself sending money will make her fall in love. I love you is unlikely ever a lie. She also loves her phone, chocolate, etc... The lie happens in the person who wants to hear it. They hear "I'll love you forever" "I love only you", etc... Love is a very temporary thing. At the very least it changes over time. Better would be "I loved being with you today".
To be honest with you I subscribe and always click like even I don't agree with the material you presented But I like your enthusiastic keep it up You're good
@@vgshwk i had an american gf who was always late so I made a new policy. we always meet at a bar and if she's not there when I arrive, I'll order a beer and every 10 minutes I'll have a shot of tequela. the first time, she was 55 minutes late and I didn't care, lol. but after that she was never late again.
Let me get this straight. If I ask "Do you have a boyfriend?" and she says yes, it's a lie. But if she says no it's also a lie? I thought there are only 2 options, either she has a boyfriend or she doesn't 🤔
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If a girl says she has a BF either she has a BF or she isn't interested in you. Either way, it's time to move along.
Depends if the price is right with her. She can maybe fit you in her stable of men. 🤣
If she has BF, tell her 'Great he can entertain you when I am not around'
Smartguy says does your bf have a great job and a fat bank account?
How about she doesnt tell you, when she is married but you know via her ex.
@@Shadowmanchronicles Deception should be a deal-breaker. RUN, RUN, RUN
You forgot the two most important and common lies: Lie #1, I'm not married. Lie #2, I don't have children.
I love how honest my filipina is. I was well aware she had a kid already. Not a deal breaker for me really. You'll be hard pressed find a woman over 20 without a kid these days
My was virgin but had one baby😂😂😂and boy friends 😂😂🎉🎉SiGe bahala😂
Word up!
@@Goez-e7j a Miracle!
Ha ha ha right 👍😂😂😂
These are lies from all women, not just Filipinas.
Filipinas take it to an entire new level. Many are compulsive liars.
She talking about filipinas
"Love is expensive."
You don't have to tell a Western man that. That's the reason why we gave up on love a decade or two ago.
Don't give up bro, there are some really wonderful Filipina gals. You just have to do your DD. Find a free Filipina pen pal site and take your time. You correspond with one for 6 months or more, and you get a very good picture of whether she is the real deal or not. I went through 4-5 before finding one that checked all the boxes. I did not do it intentionally, but in hindsight, I was looking for absolute consistency over those months. Ones that failed that, I cut them loose. What was funny though, was that I thought my to be wife had failed when she said that her mother had to be admitted to the hospital. I was darn, I really liked that gal and now she comes out with some story about her mother being on deaths door. I was very wrong about that, he mother had become very ill and suffered kidney failure. That was the only time I questioned anything she said because she always had been totally consistent in her statements. I never caught her misleading me in any way. Wonderful gal. Married her, helped her through nursing school here and we have two beautiful daughters. Best decision of my life. I was too old to start a family here, but with a Filipina wife half my age, no problem.
Amen to that ...
then it's not love at all. Media has hacked our value system long time ago. the role of men and actions that used to be of importance are being replaced with modern society's so called commodities and ''protection''. I guess good times really do create weak people..
This makes me rethink about going to the Philippines. I don't need to go there to have women playing games, I get enough of that from the woman in the US
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
It’s best to look for a wife in the Philippines in the provinces or country side.And if you are really looking for a Filipina to stick with you long term without investing so much of your own money into her look into southern region of the Philippines 🇵🇭.Mindanao and far south than that avoid the metro areas and areas that have fast rapid development and you will be fine.
It's not that all women are like that, if you're not ready to take a step, you will find yourself in the same place 10 years later. I go there in october to visit my date.What happens there, i will have to find out.
@@jozef8054 A generalization is speaking about a majority of women not 100%. There will always be a small percentage that don't follow the norm of a generalization. Only problem is100% of expats think he's the one who's getting the women that's the exception to the norm. Bottomline, 90% of them are wrong and will find out sooner or later.
@@danielhackney7806so you don’t lie or deny truths Daniel? Tell me, is a transwoman a male? How many genders are there? What is a woman?
Can’t wait to hear your 100% factual, non lie, reply.
Genuinely can’t wait 😂🏳️🌈❤️😉
Fake love comes with money real love comes with respect.
That's what I didn't like when I tried passport. No mutual trust, mutual respect or mutual affection. Only my wallet was loved.
The only "love" women experience is for their children. If you're a man, you're not getting love --you're getting reciprocity. Money or no doesn't matter.
When a woman says she "loves you" what that means in Womanese is that she's "happy with you at the moment."
This is just women in general not only phillipina
Another lie is when they say they have no bf but they do,they have multiple guys from the US,australia,germany etc all sending her peso,she has multiple phones,many facebook accounts one may even be with her name spelt backwards! Yes many fillos do that trick.
Exactly some even have Facebook or social media accounts in their kid's name..uncanny
That's why it s called Ms. Universe 😂
100%, LBFM, that's what they've been called for decades
All women who travel (or their partner does) do that. The ones who are poor and have to support their family do it even more. NO different from a single mom in the hood playing men out.
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Thanks for these videos, they really help if you want to date someone from the Philippines
Thanks for confirming my suspicions. People are people no matter where. I was planning on going there in the future but you saved me a lot of time and money.. I'll be single rest of my life and I'm fine with that:)
Interesting, who would be interested in dealing with all this deceptive, immature, nonsensical behavior. I'll pass on the Filipina girlfriend.
Smart move. Best luck..
So cute & honest revealing the lies & deceptions of these dishonest women. She's so right about these stuff that I myself have heard many times 😮😂.
Thank you for telling the truth about the ladies.
If she tells me it's okay, then I'm going to assume it's OK.I'm not gonna play games and try to figure out what's wrong.
I'm married to a Filipina and I told her up front.If something's bothering you than talk to me about.
If I'm not important enough to be honest too.Then your problems aren't important enough for me to care about.
I also told her that silent treatment crap to get rid of it to be an adult and talk.
I know this sounds harsh, but I'm also very open.When she does sit me down and tells me what's bothering her and what's upset in her.I make it a point not to do it again.
Facts 💯
Thanks, I think I will stay single 😢 but have a great time doing it 😂
Lots of money to spend on hobbies too, there's no wrong choice but financially it will be amazing.
the answer to 75% of questions you ask will be "YES" even if the answer should be no..
YES=non-confrontational
been in PI and Thailand for 23 years. Married and have 3 kids. I loved your videos. Very refreshing and honest. You are great. Guys, listen to her she's right on the money and honest about it. Don't be dumb, use your head, take your time, be observant and enjoy the Filipina's. I hope you find your girl.
from what you are telling us, some people will never trust a filipina again
So ive been bing watching your channel along with another channel called regular guy dont really like his channel but he does travel around on trike motorbike or bus so you see alot of different places so what i have learned basically is that if a foreigner comes there to find a wife and stay permanently then smart to find a matchmaker or someone who can help you find someone who is genuine😊😊👍👍
Mrs. Rick told me she was a St. Louis Cardinals fan because I am from St. Louis. Turns out she really liked the Chicago Cubs all this time. Heartbreaking. May never get over it.
The betrayal. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm an avalanche fan if I found out she was a redwings fan I would be devestated
LOL no, no, she's a keeper! ;-)
@@groofoot 50 + years so far. I guess it is too late to worry about it.
Very cute! These are all very good tips! Thank you 😊
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
That's actually a part of all Asian Cultures. It's called the concept of "Face."
I dont know about that. My ex felt guilty when she lied to me
@@Shadowmanchronicles There will always be an exception to the rule. The most important thing to remember is the exception is a very small percentage of women. Maybe she just felt guilty she got caught in a lie.
@@danielhackney7806 I think I was one step ahead of her. Playing the games like a filipina is like playing the games of Miami fuckboi
a large part of the culture is to be non-confrontational so if telling you what you want to hear and it happens to be a lie so be it...
So why is it that I should go to the Philippines. I will just stay here and avoid the lies. I don't like liars.
Women lie. It's in their nature. Nature is driven by biology.
To embark on a adventure without any expectations.Just go there and enjoy your time. There are still good people with good hearts and intentions.
They make money from tourists , just like anywhere else your a damm tourist , if you got game , you’ll find a broad , that’s how it works
Don't go. You'll be better off. Trust me..
Thank you Reine for your thoughts. I personally appreciate these warnings as they apply to people in general. We have all learned these the hard way. Listen to their "words" but notice their "actions." Truth usually rises to the top.
A tip for you to consider Reine. It's # 13 on my whiteboard😂..." There are lots of critics in life, no matter what we do. I always listen and learn and am kind. Many thoughts are helpful but some I just put in the trash. I've learned to have a tender heart but be tough. In America we call that "leadership!" Keep doing what you're doing. You have many fans and are respected and appreciated!!
If a girl is happy to keep you waiting while you're sitting in a cafe somewhere? Game over as far as I'm concerned. Disrespectful!
I met a filipina long time ago on cupid and it was the first and only time anyone ever said this to me. She was coming on way too strong too soon and was asking for money after about 3-4 days. I refused and she said "You not pay me you no REAL man!" I thought it was quite funny and it always stayed with me as a reminder that women can be very charming when they want to be but the one's who aren't genuine eventually reveal themselves to you. Much sooner when they realize you're not going to give them money in exchange for an "online fantasy, girlfriend experience". And that's exactly what a lot of foreign men are doing right now and telling people they have a girlfriend.
I don't feel sorry for those men though, somewhere buried deeply into their sub-conscious I think they know. But they'd still rather have the fantasy and pay for it then to be completely alone without it. At the end of the day both parties are getting something out of it. He gets to "feel" like he has a girlfriend and she caters to his ego and gets paid for it. I am not saying it's okay but I understand why there's a market for it and you just have to know what you're signing up for or lean into the fantasy and be prepared to get hurt.
I met a woman on the dating site there to find Christian partners who told me that cash and gifts were how a real man shows his love. And she was raised in a small village in the Leyte province.
Yep. Passport is cope for trad-cels. A few surgically placed question will have them scattering like roaches. The only ones that seem to be in relationships with expats have families that are financially subsidized (like a sugar baby) or kids from an F-boy that left them barefoot and pregnant.
Men need to be aware of the Black Widow spider.
The name “black widow” comes from the female's habit of eating the male after mating.
There are woman like the Black Widow spider. It's part of nature. The trouble is most brainwashed men, hypnotised and lured by the the most irresistible young beautiful woan in the world have no clue they are caught in the trap.
She will leave you for dead and have no remorse.
The female Homo Sapien is driven to finding a mate (or mates) that can provide healthy offspring and resources to protect and provide for it. Her role in the coupling is to gather whatever resources she can from others and her environment to insure it's survival and developmental success.
These were dudes your sending your money 💰 morons!!!!
It all comes down to trust sure?
Trust but verify.
31 times word guy , not so much. Good Video . Every time Filipina open mouth she is lying if not eating:) Or what you think guys.
Actions speak louder than words! 😉😉
Thanks ! You are great 🎉
I will stay away from there!
A prudent thought..
Actions speak louder than words, walking the walk is how the trust grows
Never trust a woman except to act like one.
Thank you sweetheart for making me smarter than I am when it comes to people lying to me because I'm very honest and people can take advantage of my kind heart😅
*......#13, I don't want you to support my parents. #14, My mother, father, brother, sister or buffalo is sick and needs (expensive) medical treatment. #15, I don't have a child back in the Province. #16, It's not about the money. #17......*
You got a lost list.. There is one-word summary : OBSERVE ... Everybody lies... LOL.. That's the sad truth...Finito....
They make many promises keep none. At your own peril.
Word..
Can you please do a video on Long Distance Relationship? To figure out real love or scam (LDR)
1. Does she show you off to momma and papa?
2. Does she want you to participate in family gatherings over social media?
2.5 Does she had you off to family so you can get to know each other?
3. Did she ask for money in first three months?
4. Did you offer money and she took it in the first 6 months.
5. Did you ask her to be just yours and request commitment before God? A lot of foreigners don't know they need to ask and make it clear so we know what kind of relationship we are in.
At some point you realize money dropping her 60 bucks a month is needed once you're committed so she can eat...if you're deep into the provinces, but the good ones don't ask or go for it right away. Sis up there is young. She's going over what we do with local boys in high school/college.. We grow out of that childishness quickly when faced with the real world.
It’s a dude scamming your ass 😂 think about it
Here is a Filipina telling us the lies Filipinas tell. "But I don't do that" I have to be a little skeptical here
Sometimes Reine crosses her fingers behind her back. 🤣
She is giving good advice here. She is right, observing is key because the body language will tell or reveal certain things.
My girlfriend and I are together for about 3 years now and she is very much like this girl, my girlfriend told me almost all these points like this girl so spot on.
Genuine love is the best when it develops naturally and you don't have to figure out things and enigmas.
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Reine, a lot of Western women do the exact same things, to only use a man as a backup date or for their money
True, but the men know that because they are wise and ask questions and look in the mirror at their age, height and SMV. For some reason, we evolved to be delusional and believe that somewhere else, in the sky, under the sea, or on top of the mountain is a magical place of paradise. Seems passport is one such delusion. I tried it, 100% fake love in PH. The ones who say they succeeded are just beta-bux$ on steroids without wanting to realize it.
You should have named this the 12 traits in a woman to avoid.
And yes, love is very expensive however it’s cheap if you are spending the money on yourself which is also someone you love and care for when the two become one.
Yeah these are all games that wise men don't get fooled by them. Plus there is no patience for games in my book. Either they play by my rules or they can kick rocks.
I recently, (since 10 days) found a caring and lovely lady on cupid. Since then she never asked for money, didnt even asked how much i earn etc etc. We mail everyday, up to 1/2 times since she is still in class (becoming nurse) and have to help her parents in the weekend but we bond good so far. She sent me pictures of herself in almost every mail, she shared her family photos, her moms business and her fathers farm. I think its going pretty good and i will visit her in october, i have the whole month holidays, to get to know her better and her family. She even calls me her future husband wich i am totally not used to as a dutch guy lol. So that is so far the only thing that stands out. Nonetheless i have a great feeling about it and looking forward meeting her. Thanks for the video.
Don't fall in love before meeting her. See how she is in person 1st. Online love is just an illusion. Face to face is reality..
You are wrong little girl about the age, my Filipina wife is 24 years old and I will be 80 in December. We have been together for four years and we are both madly in love with each other.
I meet a guy in Cebu and his one-word description of girls there as "flaky".
I've lived there for a few years over the last 15 years and I recon 9 out of 10 girls only want your money, and that's being generous.
You forgot 2 big lies they tell.. 1. I don't have any kids and 2. I never been married. This happened to me twice and a friend of mine too.
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Those are the 2 most important lies, other than saying she 18 when she's really 17. It's no accident she left those off her list.
You're one smart girl, I like smart ones.
thanks for whiteboard.... When she txts....I can't see you bcuz I'm washing clothes. OR....When I ask
"Who is the Pinoy guy?.....OH....He is my brother. My best proposition is " I'm going to AIRPORT in 90 mins, deal or no deal". NEVER chase a professional.
I had dreams before about finding a Filipina to marry and have a family with. Then I tried moving there in late 2022. Between the women lying about everything and getting hit by a condo rental scam, I lasted about 6 weeks before I came back to the states. Now I’m getting a brand new condo in Cebu, and I’ll just go live the Charlie Harper lifestyle.
I have the “WINNING” T-shirt I proudly wear 😂
You serious?@constructionworker-bc6ki
@constructionworker-bc6ki it was Charlie Sheen’s character on the show Two and a Half Men.
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I'm thinking about getting a condo in Cebu. Any advice do's and don't about that?
I met a married couple. Went on a few bike rides with them and then the wife started messaging me and sending pictures. I am married also and really liked both of them so never acted on it. Was really surprised and flattered
I have a Thai wife and many of them are the same way. My wife isn't that's why we've been together for 15 years. My advice to western guys coming to ASEAN countries is to take everything with 'a grain of salt'. If you meet a girl in a bar or online on a dating app be very skeptical of her words. Take you time and observe her actions and verify everything before you do anything significant.
You mean ... they only tell you what you want to hear? Funny that ...
This is all women , but it really depends on the person, you cant brand everyone the same .
I like this girl.
She’s confirming a lot of things I already suspected…
Or she's just being sarcastic
If I ever came to the Phillippines, I would seek out someone close to my age. I'm 70 and the thought of being with someone less than half my age would really make me uncomfotable. I feel it's not fair to a young woman and not healthy for me. I like you're channel. Your format is fun.
I understand your view.
Your crazy, they lose their looks, and no one pays attention to old Filipinas , they lose that ass and boobs , it’s a flat board , if that’s what you want , there is millions of them here , you can be King Tut 😂
#13..."You are the best 3 and a half minute lover in the entire solar system!!"....."I need 20000 pesos"...
If a girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I walk away, there is no good reason.
Wow, this is great information. I have heard all of these. Thank you!
kindest regards dear Lady
Thank you for the vid. It was informative. I was there in the Phil's backnin October and am going to return soon, permanently. Would be open to running onto someone while I'm there. Already aware of most of the scams and lies.
when she wants to give you a nickname like "babe" or "hubby" . Then she calls all of her men that. so it is copy and paste time
Haha , I recognise so many !
It’s even not bad sometimes
Age isn't just a number. Girls around 26+ are past their prime.
What?
@markcollins730, you read what he wrote...it's quite simple
Yep. But, the timeline also impacts men. Look up the statistics on that. Only $ugar daddies are in large age gap relationships and some refuse to marry or stay in the relationships long term.
@@bobbruce4135 Not true . We ugly old worn out 50 / 60 year olds for you mate ,, you should appreciate our kindness
If you are just looking for a chippy or arm candy then yes Filipinas past 25 are old, just look at the job market and hiring practices of PH, and you can agree on the fact that most Filipinas are thought of as past their prime if they are in their 30's. For a lot of foreign men (not saying all), you are just becoming interesting in your 30's. With life experiences that you can share and stories that can they relate to a relationship, instead of "Mahal can we go shopping.", or "I want ...".
Clever girl😊 nice
Sounds like we can't believe a Filipino woman.
You're just sooooooo adorable!
She's soooooooo cute
Ok so it’s ok not to be ok and sometimes that’s ok
"Age is just a number"
My pilipina cracks me up everything she used to say, "You look so young." Finally I laughed out loud and said, " Young for what? An old fart?" I guess she thought I was laughing at her cuz she has not said it since.
I was the marine killed in the Olongapo Philippines Dec 1988. Went back to Angeles city 2019,2020 got stuck during lockdown and again 2023. Wished I saw your videos sooner.
If you were killed, how are u still alive ?you Lazarus?😂
True❤
You nailed it❤👍🏽
Brilliant! 👍👍
Love you and your videos
This is a bunch of crap that immature girls would do. Mature, good moral Filipinas don’t act like this
Lies or no lies. If I'm stacked with cash, I'll set the conditions. If she needs it she as to tow the lines. That's PNG style.
That’s it , cash talks , bs walks. Always was , and is😂
Just discovered your channel. Excellent presentation. Liked, subscribed, and rang that bell.
So funny. So true!
Thanks!
Watching this video makes me laugh since I just saw the previous one that said don't lie to your Filipina 😮
Love is expensive ??? If its expensive, then its no Love...
Good job 😊
I dont have eny problem like this with my ph wife,,its how you are to her
These videos you all do are so much fun! I am glad to see your subscriber count growing! Great job ladies!
Thank you so much!!
To you " Smart Girl Phili" ... Are married?single? how the hell you know so much? about relationships? I'm one of your subscribers and liking you because of your knowledge of boys and girls and all the gimmicks ...... now, I want a long standing relationship with you. I live in the US.
you have to be thinking with the wrong head to want this stress and deceit.
Better for most on here to speed date...would give them the freedom to be a butterfly. The Filipino whammy is you end up an ATM machine for her and her family and friends. Who wants that lousy deal?
If you want children, get a woman. If you want loyal companionship --get a dog.
Word up..😮
How many times did a girl tell me she was 22 or 24 yrs. then when we meet up she is just a teenager... even a young teenager!
3 and 4 are definitely American Flip girls. You aren't the only one, you will never lose her but she will have other lovers. Get over it if you wanna keep her. She will never be faithful, don't try to make her an honest woman. Just enjoy her company and don't let her start to control your life. Be the boss, stay the Boss. She respects that, even if she complains about it, she will comply. She is still an Asian woman at the end of the day and making their man happy is a priority for them.
Afford her the improprieties she will undoubtedly commit.
Good work
"You're the only guy I'm talking to" it sounds like big redflag.
Sounds like she's speaking from her personal experience.
True. Age doesn't matter...everything matters. Everyone is looking for the best deal they can get. You, me, everyone.
Women with gwapo men are never busy.
#5 & 6 and many other questions are dumb to ask. You can never know the truth. Weak men ask. Strong men find out.
You're so handsome. You're so beautiful. You're a 10 Baby. This lie goes both ways. No matter how beautiful a woman is or handsome a man there is always someone else more beautiful or handsome. What people are really saying is "You're handsome enough for me." "You're beautiful enough for me."
"I don't have a budget" isn't a lie imo. The lie is the White Knight telling himself sending money will make her fall in love.
I love you is unlikely ever a lie. She also loves her phone, chocolate, etc... The lie happens in the person who wants to hear it. They hear "I'll love you forever" "I love only you", etc... Love is a very temporary thing. At the very least it changes over time. Better would be "I loved being with you today".
Great insights! Age does matter!
To be honest with you I subscribe and always click like even I don't agree with the material you presented
But I like your enthusiastic keep it up You're good
I got told the “on the way” lie yesterday. 😂
Just say I will wait 15 minutes and stick to it.
Told mine that if she wasn't out there when I got there on my bike, I would leave...that fixed her not showing up on time.
@@vgshwk i had an american gf who was always late so I made a new policy. we always meet at a bar and if she's not there when I arrive, I'll order a beer and every 10 minutes I'll have a shot of tequela. the first time, she was 55 minutes late and I didn't care, lol. but after that she was never late again.
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Girl, you've been missing the 's' in 'Sub/s/cribe' for a while. Thanks for your content!!!
Coming out of this, you might as well say it's all lies. Really though, you get a feel for sincerity.
Keep the content rolling guys! Great work!
Let me get this straight. If I ask "Do you have a boyfriend?" and she says yes, it's a lie. But if she says no it's also a lie? I thought there are only 2 options, either she has a boyfriend or she doesn't 🤔
Reine is lying about lying 😂
Just speed date a bunch and you won't have to worry about such things.
Basically, you can't trust anything a Filipina says.
They are gentle lies hihihi