I love how honest my filipina is. I was well aware she had a kid already. Not a deal breaker for me really. You'll be hard pressed find a woman over 20 without a kid these days
Don't give up bro, there are some really wonderful Filipina gals. You just have to do your DD. Find a free Filipina pen pal site and take your time. You correspond with one for 6 months or more, and you get a very good picture of whether she is the real deal or not. I went through 4-5 before finding one that checked all the boxes. I did not do it intentionally, but in hindsight, I was looking for absolute consistency over those months. Ones that failed that, I cut them loose. What was funny though, was that I thought my to be wife had failed when she said that her mother had to be admitted to the hospital. I was darn, I really liked that gal and now she comes out with some story about her mother being on deaths door. I was very wrong about that, he mother had become very ill and suffered kidney failure. That was the only time I questioned anything she said because she always had been totally consistent in her statements. I never caught her misleading me in any way. Wonderful gal. Married her, helped her through nursing school here and we have two beautiful daughters. Best decision of my life. I was too old to start a family here, but with a Filipina wife half my age, no problem.
then it's not love at all. Media has hacked our value system long time ago. the role of men and actions that used to be of importance are being replaced with modern society's so called commodities and ''protection''. I guess good times really do create weak people..
Another lie is when they say they have no bf but they do,they have multiple guys from the US,australia,germany etc all sending her peso,she has multiple phones,many facebook accounts one may even be with her name spelt backwards! Yes many fillos do that trick.
All women who travel (or their partner does) do that. The ones who are poor and have to support their family do it even more. NO different from a single mom in the hood playing men out.
The only "love" women experience is for their children. If you're a man, you're not getting love --you're getting reciprocity. Money or no doesn't matter. When a woman says she "loves you" what that means in Womanese is that she's "happy with you at the moment."
If she tells me it's okay, then I'm going to assume it's OK.I'm not gonna play games and try to figure out what's wrong. I'm married to a Filipina and I told her up front.If something's bothering you than talk to me about. If I'm not important enough to be honest too.Then your problems aren't important enough for me to care about. I also told her that silent treatment crap to get rid of it to be an adult and talk. I know this sounds harsh, but I'm also very open.When she does sit me down and tells me what's bothering her and what's upset in her.I make it a point not to do it again.
Mrs. Rick told me she was a St. Louis Cardinals fan because I am from St. Louis. Turns out she really liked the Chicago Cubs all this time. Heartbreaking. May never get over it.
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
@@Shadowmanchronicles There will always be an exception to the rule. The most important thing to remember is the exception is a very small percentage of women. Maybe she just felt guilty she got caught in a lie.
Thanks for confirming my suspicions. People are people no matter where. I was planning on going there in the future but you saved me a lot of time and money.. I'll be single rest of my life and I'm fine with that:)
This makes me rethink about going to the Philippines. I don't need to go there to have women playing games, I get enough of that from the woman in the US
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
It’s best to look for a wife in the Philippines in the provinces or country side.And if you are really looking for a Filipina to stick with you long term without investing so much of your own money into her look into southern region of the Philippines 🇵🇭.Mindanao and far south than that avoid the metro areas and areas that have fast rapid development and you will be fine.
It's not that all women are like that, if you're not ready to take a step, you will find yourself in the same place 10 years later. I go there in october to visit my date.What happens there, i will have to find out.
@@jozef8054 A generalization is speaking about a majority of women not 100%. There will always be a small percentage that don't follow the norm of a generalization. Only problem is100% of expats think he's the one who's getting the women that's the exception to the norm. Bottomline, 90% of them are wrong and will find out sooner or later.
@@danielhackney7806so you don’t lie or deny truths Daniel? Tell me, is a transwoman a male? How many genders are there? What is a woman? Can’t wait to hear your 100% factual, non lie, reply. Genuinely can’t wait 😂🏳️🌈❤️😉
been in PI and Thailand for 23 years. Married and have 3 kids. I loved your videos. Very refreshing and honest. You are great. Guys, listen to her she's right on the money and honest about it. Don't be dumb, use your head, take your time, be observant and enjoy the Filipina's. I hope you find your girl.
Thank you Reine for your thoughts. I personally appreciate these warnings as they apply to people in general. We have all learned these the hard way. Listen to their "words" but notice their "actions." Truth usually rises to the top. A tip for you to consider Reine. It's # 13 on my whiteboard😂..." There are lots of critics in life, no matter what we do. I always listen and learn and am kind. Many thoughts are helpful but some I just put in the trash. I've learned to have a tender heart but be tough. In America we call that "leadership!" Keep doing what you're doing. You have many fans and are respected and appreciated!!
So ive been bing watching your channel along with another channel called regular guy dont really like his channel but he does travel around on trike motorbike or bus so you see alot of different places so what i have learned basically is that if a foreigner comes there to find a wife and stay permanently then smart to find a matchmaker or someone who can help you find someone who is genuine😊😊👍👍
I met a filipina long time ago on cupid and it was the first and only time anyone ever said this to me. She was coming on way too strong too soon and was asking for money after about 3-4 days. I refused and she said "You not pay me you no REAL man!" I thought it was quite funny and it always stayed with me as a reminder that women can be very charming when they want to be but the one's who aren't genuine eventually reveal themselves to you. Much sooner when they realize you're not going to give them money in exchange for an "online fantasy, girlfriend experience". And that's exactly what a lot of foreign men are doing right now and telling people they have a girlfriend. I don't feel sorry for those men though, somewhere buried deeply into their sub-conscious I think they know. But they'd still rather have the fantasy and pay for it then to be completely alone without it. At the end of the day both parties are getting something out of it. He gets to "feel" like he has a girlfriend and she caters to his ego and gets paid for it. I am not saying it's okay but I understand why there's a market for it and you just have to know what you're signing up for or lean into the fantasy and be prepared to get hurt.
I met a woman on the dating site there to find Christian partners who told me that cash and gifts were how a real man shows his love. And she was raised in a small village in the Leyte province.
Yep. Passport is cope for trad-cels. A few surgically placed question will have them scattering like roaches. The only ones that seem to be in relationships with expats have families that are financially subsidized (like a sugar baby) or kids from an F-boy that left them barefoot and pregnant.
Men need to be aware of the Black Widow spider. The name “black widow” comes from the female's habit of eating the male after mating. There are woman like the Black Widow spider. It's part of nature. The trouble is most brainwashed men, hypnotised and lured by the the most irresistible young beautiful woan in the world have no clue they are caught in the trap. She will leave you for dead and have no remorse.
The female Homo Sapien is driven to finding a mate (or mates) that can provide healthy offspring and resources to protect and provide for it. Her role in the coupling is to gather whatever resources she can from others and her environment to insure it's survival and developmental success.
thanks for whiteboard.... When she txts....I can't see you bcuz I'm washing clothes. OR....When I ask "Who is the Pinoy guy?.....OH....He is my brother. My best proposition is " I'm going to AIRPORT in 90 mins, deal or no deal". NEVER chase a professional.
She is giving good advice here. She is right, observing is key because the body language will tell or reveal certain things. My girlfriend and I are together for about 3 years now and she is very much like this girl, my girlfriend told me almost all these points like this girl so spot on. Genuine love is the best when it develops naturally and you don't have to figure out things and enigmas.
1. Does she show you off to momma and papa? 2. Does she want you to participate in family gatherings over social media? 2.5 Does she had you off to family so you can get to know each other? 3. Did she ask for money in first three months? 4. Did you offer money and she took it in the first 6 months. 5. Did you ask her to be just yours and request commitment before God? A lot of foreigners don't know they need to ask and make it clear so we know what kind of relationship we are in. At some point you realize money dropping her 60 bucks a month is needed once you're committed so she can eat...if you're deep into the provinces, but the good ones don't ask or go for it right away. Sis up there is young. She's going over what we do with local boys in high school/college.. We grow out of that childishness quickly when faced with the real world.
Thank you sweetheart for making me smarter than I am when it comes to people lying to me because I'm very honest and people can take advantage of my kind heart😅
True, but the men know that because they are wise and ask questions and look in the mirror at their age, height and SMV. For some reason, we evolved to be delusional and believe that somewhere else, in the sky, under the sea, or on top of the mountain is a magical place of paradise. Seems passport is one such delusion. I tried it, 100% fake love in PH. The ones who say they succeeded are just beta-bux$ on steroids without wanting to realize it.
I meet a guy in Cebu and his one-word description of girls there as "flaky". I've lived there for a few years over the last 15 years and I recon 9 out of 10 girls only want your money, and that's being generous.
Yeah these are all games that wise men don't get fooled by them. Plus there is no patience for games in my book. Either they play by my rules or they can kick rocks.
I had dreams before about finding a Filipina to marry and have a family with. Then I tried moving there in late 2022. Between the women lying about everything and getting hit by a condo rental scam, I lasted about 6 weeks before I came back to the states. Now I’m getting a brand new condo in Cebu, and I’ll just go live the Charlie Harper lifestyle.
I met a married couple. Went on a few bike rides with them and then the wife started messaging me and sending pictures. I am married also and really liked both of them so never acted on it. Was really surprised and flattered
You should have named this the 12 traits in a woman to avoid. And yes, love is very expensive however it’s cheap if you are spending the money on yourself which is also someone you love and care for when the two become one.
I have a Thai wife and many of them are the same way. My wife isn't that's why we've been together for 15 years. My advice to western guys coming to ASEAN countries is to take everything with 'a grain of salt'. If you meet a girl in a bar or online on a dating app be very skeptical of her words. Take you time and observe her actions and verify everything before you do anything significant.
If I ever came to the Phillippines, I would seek out someone close to my age. I'm 70 and the thought of being with someone less than half my age would really make me uncomfotable. I feel it's not fair to a young woman and not healthy for me. I like you're channel. Your format is fun.
Your crazy, they lose their looks, and no one pays attention to old Filipinas , they lose that ass and boobs , it’s a flat board , if that’s what you want , there is millions of them here , you can be King Tut 😂
I never had this problem before in any country. You have to be smart and not a yes man. Tell them no 98 percent of the time they'll respect you in any country.
Yep. But, the timeline also impacts men. Look up the statistics on that. Only $ugar daddies are in large age gap relationships and some refuse to marry or stay in the relationships long term.
If you are just looking for a chippy or arm candy then yes Filipinas past 25 are old, just look at the job market and hiring practices of PH, and you can agree on the fact that most Filipinas are thought of as past their prime if they are in their 30's. For a lot of foreign men (not saying all), you are just becoming interesting in your 30's. With life experiences that you can share and stories that can they relate to a relationship, instead of "Mahal can we go shopping.", or "I want ...".
You are wrong little girl about the age, my Filipina wife is 24 years old and I will be 80 in December. We have been together for four years and we are both madly in love with each other.
Thank you for the vid. It was informative. I was there in the Phil's backnin October and am going to return soon, permanently. Would be open to running onto someone while I'm there. Already aware of most of the scams and lies.
To be honest with you I subscribe and always click like even I don't agree with the material you presented But I like your enthusiastic keep it up You're good
I was the marine killed in the Olongapo Philippines Dec 1988. Went back to Angeles city 2019,2020 got stuck during lockdown and again 2023. Wished I saw your videos sooner.
I recently, (since 10 days) found a caring and lovely lady on cupid. Since then she never asked for money, didnt even asked how much i earn etc etc. We mail everyday, up to 1/2 times since she is still in class (becoming nurse) and have to help her parents in the weekend but we bond good so far. She sent me pictures of herself in almost every mail, she shared her family photos, her moms business and her fathers farm. I think its going pretty good and i will visit her in october, i have the whole month holidays, to get to know her better and her family. She even calls me her future husband wich i am totally not used to as a dutch guy lol. So that is so far the only thing that stands out. Nonetheless i have a great feeling about it and looking forward meeting her. Thanks for the video.
Thank you Miss. I enjoy your content a lot. Please consider doing a video about the five M's. Idk the exact words, but it translates to something like "a rich old guy who will easily die". 🙂
@@vgshwk i had an american gf who was always late so I made a new policy. we always meet at a bar and if she's not there when I arrive, I'll order a beer and every 10 minutes I'll have a shot of tequela. the first time, she was 55 minutes late and I didn't care, lol. but after that she was never late again.
1:00 I noticed also that "Let's go" doesn't mean we're going now - it's more of a statement of intention, and we may not be going for another 15 minutes.
Accurate! I bought things on Lazada or shoppee. The delivery company/person sometimes say on the way. In USA on the way is on the way lol. Not tomorrow or in a few days lol
Better for most on here to speed date...would give them the freedom to be a butterfly. The Filipino whammy is you end up an ATM machine for her and her family and friends. Who wants that lousy deal?
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You forgot the two most important and common lies: Lie #1, I'm not married. Lie #2, I don't have children.
I love how honest my filipina is. I was well aware she had a kid already. Not a deal breaker for me really. You'll be hard pressed find a woman over 20 without a kid these days
My was virgin but had one baby😂😂😂and boy friends 😂😂🎉🎉SiGe bahala😂
Word up!
@@BeeFarmersPH a Miracle!
Ha ha ha right 👍😂😂😂
If a girl says she has a BF either she has a BF or she isn't interested in you. Either way, it's time to move along.
Depends if the price is right with her. She can maybe fit you in her stable of men. 🤣
If she has BF, tell her 'Great he can entertain you when I am not around'
Smartguy says does your bf have a great job and a fat bank account?
How about she doesnt tell you, when she is married but you know via her ex.
@@Shadowmanchronicles Deception should be a deal-breaker. RUN, RUN, RUN
These are lies from all women, not just Filipinas.
Filipinas take it to an entire new level. Many are compulsive liars.
She talking about filipinas
"Love is expensive."
You don't have to tell a Western man that. That's the reason why we gave up on love a decade or two ago.
Don't give up bro, there are some really wonderful Filipina gals. You just have to do your DD. Find a free Filipina pen pal site and take your time. You correspond with one for 6 months or more, and you get a very good picture of whether she is the real deal or not. I went through 4-5 before finding one that checked all the boxes. I did not do it intentionally, but in hindsight, I was looking for absolute consistency over those months. Ones that failed that, I cut them loose. What was funny though, was that I thought my to be wife had failed when she said that her mother had to be admitted to the hospital. I was darn, I really liked that gal and now she comes out with some story about her mother being on deaths door. I was very wrong about that, he mother had become very ill and suffered kidney failure. That was the only time I questioned anything she said because she always had been totally consistent in her statements. I never caught her misleading me in any way. Wonderful gal. Married her, helped her through nursing school here and we have two beautiful daughters. Best decision of my life. I was too old to start a family here, but with a Filipina wife half my age, no problem.
Amen to that ...
then it's not love at all. Media has hacked our value system long time ago. the role of men and actions that used to be of importance are being replaced with modern society's so called commodities and ''protection''. I guess good times really do create weak people..
Another lie is when they say they have no bf but they do,they have multiple guys from the US,australia,germany etc all sending her peso,she has multiple phones,many facebook accounts one may even be with her name spelt backwards! Yes many fillos do that trick.
Exactly some even have Facebook or social media accounts in their kid's name..uncanny
That's why it s called Ms. Universe 😂
100%, LBFM, that's what they've been called for decades
All women who travel (or their partner does) do that. The ones who are poor and have to support their family do it even more. NO different from a single mom in the hood playing men out.
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This is just women in general not only phillipina
Fake love comes with money real love comes with respect.
That's what I didn't like when I tried passport. No mutual trust, mutual respect or mutual affection. Only my wallet was loved.
The only "love" women experience is for their children. If you're a man, you're not getting love --you're getting reciprocity. Money or no doesn't matter.
When a woman says she "loves you" what that means in Womanese is that she's "happy with you at the moment."
So cute & honest revealing the lies & deceptions of these dishonest women. She's so right about these stuff that I myself have heard many times 😮😂.
from what you are telling us, some people will never trust a filipina again
If she tells me it's okay, then I'm going to assume it's OK.I'm not gonna play games and try to figure out what's wrong.
I'm married to a Filipina and I told her up front.If something's bothering you than talk to me about.
If I'm not important enough to be honest too.Then your problems aren't important enough for me to care about.
I also told her that silent treatment crap to get rid of it to be an adult and talk.
I know this sounds harsh, but I'm also very open.When she does sit me down and tells me what's bothering her and what's upset in her.I make it a point not to do it again.
Facts 💯
Mrs. Rick told me she was a St. Louis Cardinals fan because I am from St. Louis. Turns out she really liked the Chicago Cubs all this time. Heartbreaking. May never get over it.
The betrayal. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm an avalanche fan if I found out she was a redwings fan I would be devestated
LOL no, no, she's a keeper! ;-)
@@groofoot 50 + years so far. I guess it is too late to worry about it.
Thanks, I think I will stay single 😢 but have a great time doing it 😂
Lots of money to spend on hobbies too, there's no wrong choice but financially it will be amazing.
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
That's actually a part of all Asian Cultures. It's called the concept of "Face."
I dont know about that. My ex felt guilty when she lied to me
@@Shadowmanchronicles There will always be an exception to the rule. The most important thing to remember is the exception is a very small percentage of women. Maybe she just felt guilty she got caught in a lie.
@@danielhackney7806 I think I was one step ahead of her. Playing the games like a filipina is like playing the games of Miami fuckboi
a large part of the culture is to be non-confrontational so if telling you what you want to hear and it happens to be a lie so be it...
Thanks for confirming my suspicions. People are people no matter where. I was planning on going there in the future but you saved me a lot of time and money.. I'll be single rest of my life and I'm fine with that:)
31 times word guy , not so much. Good Video . Every time Filipina open mouth she is lying if not eating:) Or what you think guys.
This makes me rethink about going to the Philippines. I don't need to go there to have women playing games, I get enough of that from the woman in the US
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
It’s best to look for a wife in the Philippines in the provinces or country side.And if you are really looking for a Filipina to stick with you long term without investing so much of your own money into her look into southern region of the Philippines 🇵🇭.Mindanao and far south than that avoid the metro areas and areas that have fast rapid development and you will be fine.
It's not that all women are like that, if you're not ready to take a step, you will find yourself in the same place 10 years later. I go there in october to visit my date.What happens there, i will have to find out.
@@jozef8054 A generalization is speaking about a majority of women not 100%. There will always be a small percentage that don't follow the norm of a generalization. Only problem is100% of expats think he's the one who's getting the women that's the exception to the norm. Bottomline, 90% of them are wrong and will find out sooner or later.
@@danielhackney7806so you don’t lie or deny truths Daniel? Tell me, is a transwoman a male? How many genders are there? What is a woman?
Can’t wait to hear your 100% factual, non lie, reply.
Genuinely can’t wait 😂🏳️🌈❤️😉
been in PI and Thailand for 23 years. Married and have 3 kids. I loved your videos. Very refreshing and honest. You are great. Guys, listen to her she's right on the money and honest about it. Don't be dumb, use your head, take your time, be observant and enjoy the Filipina's. I hope you find your girl.
the answer to 75% of questions you ask will be "YES" even if the answer should be no..
YES=non-confrontational
Thank you Reine for your thoughts. I personally appreciate these warnings as they apply to people in general. We have all learned these the hard way. Listen to their "words" but notice their "actions." Truth usually rises to the top.
A tip for you to consider Reine. It's # 13 on my whiteboard😂..." There are lots of critics in life, no matter what we do. I always listen and learn and am kind. Many thoughts are helpful but some I just put in the trash. I've learned to have a tender heart but be tough. In America we call that "leadership!" Keep doing what you're doing. You have many fans and are respected and appreciated!!
Thank you for telling the truth about the ladies.
Thanks for these videos, they really help if you want to date someone from the Philippines
So ive been bing watching your channel along with another channel called regular guy dont really like his channel but he does travel around on trike motorbike or bus so you see alot of different places so what i have learned basically is that if a foreigner comes there to find a wife and stay permanently then smart to find a matchmaker or someone who can help you find someone who is genuine😊😊👍👍
She's beautiful and honest
Interesting, who would be interested in dealing with all this deceptive, immature, nonsensical behavior. I'll pass on the Filipina girlfriend.
Smart move. Best luck..
Very cute! These are all very good tips! Thank you 😊
I will stay away from there!
A prudent thought..
So why is it that I should go to the Philippines. I will just stay here and avoid the lies. I don't like liars.
Women lie. It's in their nature. Nature is driven by biology.
To embark on a adventure without any expectations.Just go there and enjoy your time. There are still good people with good hearts and intentions.
They make money from tourists , just like anywhere else your a damm tourist , if you got game , you’ll find a broad , that’s how it works
Don't go. You'll be better off. Trust me..
It all comes down to trust sure?
Trust but verify.
Actions speak louder than words! 😉😉
Watching this video makes me laugh since I just saw the previous one that said don't lie to your Filipina 😮
Wow, this is great information. I have heard all of these. Thank you!
If a girl is happy to keep you waiting while you're sitting in a cafe somewhere? Game over as far as I'm concerned. Disrespectful!
I met a filipina long time ago on cupid and it was the first and only time anyone ever said this to me. She was coming on way too strong too soon and was asking for money after about 3-4 days. I refused and she said "You not pay me you no REAL man!" I thought it was quite funny and it always stayed with me as a reminder that women can be very charming when they want to be but the one's who aren't genuine eventually reveal themselves to you. Much sooner when they realize you're not going to give them money in exchange for an "online fantasy, girlfriend experience". And that's exactly what a lot of foreign men are doing right now and telling people they have a girlfriend.
I don't feel sorry for those men though, somewhere buried deeply into their sub-conscious I think they know. But they'd still rather have the fantasy and pay for it then to be completely alone without it. At the end of the day both parties are getting something out of it. He gets to "feel" like he has a girlfriend and she caters to his ego and gets paid for it. I am not saying it's okay but I understand why there's a market for it and you just have to know what you're signing up for or lean into the fantasy and be prepared to get hurt.
I met a woman on the dating site there to find Christian partners who told me that cash and gifts were how a real man shows his love. And she was raised in a small village in the Leyte province.
Yep. Passport is cope for trad-cels. A few surgically placed question will have them scattering like roaches. The only ones that seem to be in relationships with expats have families that are financially subsidized (like a sugar baby) or kids from an F-boy that left them barefoot and pregnant.
Men need to be aware of the Black Widow spider.
The name “black widow” comes from the female's habit of eating the male after mating.
There are woman like the Black Widow spider. It's part of nature. The trouble is most brainwashed men, hypnotised and lured by the the most irresistible young beautiful woan in the world have no clue they are caught in the trap.
She will leave you for dead and have no remorse.
The female Homo Sapien is driven to finding a mate (or mates) that can provide healthy offspring and resources to protect and provide for it. Her role in the coupling is to gather whatever resources she can from others and her environment to insure it's survival and developmental success.
These were dudes your sending your money 💰 morons!!!!
thanks for whiteboard.... When she txts....I can't see you bcuz I'm washing clothes. OR....When I ask
"Who is the Pinoy guy?.....OH....He is my brother. My best proposition is " I'm going to AIRPORT in 90 mins, deal or no deal". NEVER chase a professional.
They make many promises keep none. At your own peril.
Word..
Here is a Filipina telling us the lies Filipinas tell. "But I don't do that" I have to be a little skeptical here
Sometimes Reine crosses her fingers behind her back. 🤣
She is giving good advice here. She is right, observing is key because the body language will tell or reveal certain things.
My girlfriend and I are together for about 3 years now and she is very much like this girl, my girlfriend told me almost all these points like this girl so spot on.
Genuine love is the best when it develops naturally and you don't have to figure out things and enigmas.
😂😂😂
You mean ... they only tell you what you want to hear? Funny that ...
Can you please do a video on Long Distance Relationship? To figure out real love or scam (LDR)
1. Does she show you off to momma and papa?
2. Does she want you to participate in family gatherings over social media?
2.5 Does she had you off to family so you can get to know each other?
3. Did she ask for money in first three months?
4. Did you offer money and she took it in the first 6 months.
5. Did you ask her to be just yours and request commitment before God? A lot of foreigners don't know they need to ask and make it clear so we know what kind of relationship we are in.
At some point you realize money dropping her 60 bucks a month is needed once you're committed so she can eat...if you're deep into the provinces, but the good ones don't ask or go for it right away. Sis up there is young. She's going over what we do with local boys in high school/college.. We grow out of that childishness quickly when faced with the real world.
It’s a dude scamming your ass 😂 think about it
Thank you sweetheart for making me smarter than I am when it comes to people lying to me because I'm very honest and people can take advantage of my kind heart😅
Reine, a lot of Western women do the exact same things, to only use a man as a backup date or for their money
True, but the men know that because they are wise and ask questions and look in the mirror at their age, height and SMV. For some reason, we evolved to be delusional and believe that somewhere else, in the sky, under the sea, or on top of the mountain is a magical place of paradise. Seems passport is one such delusion. I tried it, 100% fake love in PH. The ones who say they succeeded are just beta-bux$ on steroids without wanting to realize it.
Thanks ! You are great 🎉
I meet a guy in Cebu and his one-word description of girls there as "flaky".
I've lived there for a few years over the last 15 years and I recon 9 out of 10 girls only want your money, and that's being generous.
You got a lost list.. There is one-word summary : OBSERVE ... Everybody lies... LOL.. That's the sad truth...Finito....
Yeah these are all games that wise men don't get fooled by them. Plus there is no patience for games in my book. Either they play by my rules or they can kick rocks.
I had dreams before about finding a Filipina to marry and have a family with. Then I tried moving there in late 2022. Between the women lying about everything and getting hit by a condo rental scam, I lasted about 6 weeks before I came back to the states. Now I’m getting a brand new condo in Cebu, and I’ll just go live the Charlie Harper lifestyle.
I have the “WINNING” T-shirt I proudly wear 😂
You serious?@constructionworker-bc6ki
@constructionworker-bc6ki it was Charlie Sheen’s character on the show Two and a Half Men.
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I'm thinking about getting a condo in Cebu. Any advice do's and don't about that?
I met a married couple. Went on a few bike rides with them and then the wife started messaging me and sending pictures. I am married also and really liked both of them so never acted on it. Was really surprised and flattered
You should have named this the 12 traits in a woman to avoid.
And yes, love is very expensive however it’s cheap if you are spending the money on yourself which is also someone you love and care for when the two become one.
Actions speak louder than words, walking the walk is how the trust grows
Never trust a woman except to act like one.
Clever girl😊 nice
kindest regards dear Lady
You forgot 2 big lies they tell.. 1. I don't have any kids and 2. I never been married. This happened to me twice and a friend of mine too.
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Those are the 2 most important lies, other than saying she 18 when she's really 17. It's no accident she left those off her list.
You're just sooooooo adorable!
I have a Thai wife and many of them are the same way. My wife isn't that's why we've been together for 15 years. My advice to western guys coming to ASEAN countries is to take everything with 'a grain of salt'. If you meet a girl in a bar or online on a dating app be very skeptical of her words. Take you time and observe her actions and verify everything before you do anything significant.
If I ever came to the Phillippines, I would seek out someone close to my age. I'm 70 and the thought of being with someone less than half my age would really make me uncomfotable. I feel it's not fair to a young woman and not healthy for me. I like you're channel. Your format is fun.
I understand your view.
Your crazy, they lose their looks, and no one pays attention to old Filipinas , they lose that ass and boobs , it’s a flat board , if that’s what you want , there is millions of them here , you can be King Tut 😂
You nailed it❤👍🏽
You're one smart girl, I like smart ones.
I like this girl.
She’s confirming a lot of things I already suspected…
Or she's just being sarcastic
I never had this problem before in any country. You have to be smart and not a yes man. Tell them no 98 percent of the time they'll respect you in any country.
Age isn't just a number. Girls around 26+ are past their prime.
What?
@markcollins730, you read what he wrote...it's quite simple
Yep. But, the timeline also impacts men. Look up the statistics on that. Only $ugar daddies are in large age gap relationships and some refuse to marry or stay in the relationships long term.
@@bobbruce4135 Not true . We ugly old worn out 50 / 60 year olds for you mate ,, you should appreciate our kindness
If you are just looking for a chippy or arm candy then yes Filipinas past 25 are old, just look at the job market and hiring practices of PH, and you can agree on the fact that most Filipinas are thought of as past their prime if they are in their 30's. For a lot of foreign men (not saying all), you are just becoming interesting in your 30's. With life experiences that you can share and stories that can they relate to a relationship, instead of "Mahal can we go shopping.", or "I want ...".
You are wrong little girl about the age, my Filipina wife is 24 years old and I will be 80 in December. We have been together for four years and we are both madly in love with each other.
Good job 😊
Thank you for the vid. It was informative. I was there in the Phil's backnin October and am going to return soon, permanently. Would be open to running onto someone while I'm there. Already aware of most of the scams and lies.
To be honest with you I subscribe and always click like even I don't agree with the material you presented
But I like your enthusiastic keep it up You're good
If a girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I walk away, there is no good reason.
Keep the content rolling guys! Great work!
I was the marine killed in the Olongapo Philippines Dec 1988. Went back to Angeles city 2019,2020 got stuck during lockdown and again 2023. Wished I saw your videos sooner.
If you were killed, how are u still alive ?you Lazarus?😂
Haha , I recognise so many !
It’s even not bad sometimes
These videos you all do are so much fun! I am glad to see your subscriber count growing! Great job ladies!
Thank you so much!!
Brilliant! 👍👍
I recently, (since 10 days) found a caring and lovely lady on cupid. Since then she never asked for money, didnt even asked how much i earn etc etc. We mail everyday, up to 1/2 times since she is still in class (becoming nurse) and have to help her parents in the weekend but we bond good so far. She sent me pictures of herself in almost every mail, she shared her family photos, her moms business and her fathers farm. I think its going pretty good and i will visit her in october, i have the whole month holidays, to get to know her better and her family. She even calls me her future husband wich i am totally not used to as a dutch guy lol. So that is so far the only thing that stands out. Nonetheless i have a great feeling about it and looking forward meeting her. Thanks for the video.
Don't fall in love before meeting her. See how she is in person 1st. Online love is just an illusion. Face to face is reality..
Thank you Miss. I enjoy your content a lot. Please consider doing a video about the five M's. Idk the exact words, but it translates to something like "a rich old guy who will easily die". 🙂
I got told the “on the way” lie yesterday. 😂
Just say I will wait 15 minutes and stick to it.
Told mine that if she wasn't out there when I got there on my bike, I would leave...that fixed her not showing up on time.
@@vgshwk i had an american gf who was always late so I made a new policy. we always meet at a bar and if she's not there when I arrive, I'll order a beer and every 10 minutes I'll have a shot of tequela. the first time, she was 55 minutes late and I didn't care, lol. but after that she was never late again.
hey Reine, what's your FB? LOL No BS found in this video. Good going
Girl, you've been missing the 's' in 'Sub/s/cribe' for a while. Thanks for your content!!!
Good work
Love you and your videos
Very good video.
I love you Channel just saw it and just subscribe
#13..."You are the best 3 and a half minute lover in the entire solar system!!"....."I need 20000 pesos"...
Hi Rae.. is that how to say youre name ?
She's soooooooo cute
You really did well with these 12.😊
She needed to add about 5 more to that list, not least of which is the lie about kids and lie about being married.
Hey Rain, do you want to come to california?
Great info... Great delivery....
1:00 I noticed also that "Let's go" doesn't mean we're going now - it's more of a statement of intention, and we may not be going for another 15 minutes.
15 minutes? My friend who has been married to a Filipina over 15 years told me more like 1 HOUR, 15 minutes would be fantastic in his opinion.
@@danielhackney7806 I stand by the 15 minutes (in my experience), and it's not a complaint really. I'm pretty relaxed about such things.
Coming up on 49k !!😊🎉❤
Accurate!
I bought things on Lazada or shoppee. The delivery company/person sometimes say on the way. In USA on the way is on the way lol. Not tomorrow or in a few days lol
😂😂😂True. Big bunch of liers.
When I come back next year would love to have coffee with you but all the guys say to you. Great video
Great video reine
This is all women , but it really depends on the person, you cant brand everyone the same .
True❤
Thanks!
when she wants to give you a nickname like "babe" or "hubby" . Then she calls all of her men that. so it is copy and paste time
So funny. So true!
Hahahaha you are adorable 😃❤
You forgot the famous line; I’m not chatying any other boys hon “😂
you have to be thinking with the wrong head to want this stress and deceit.
Better for most on here to speed date...would give them the freedom to be a butterfly. The Filipino whammy is you end up an ATM machine for her and her family and friends. Who wants that lousy deal?
If you want children, get a woman. If you want loyal companionship --get a dog.
Word up..😮
This is a bunch of crap that immature girls would do. Mature, good moral Filipinas don’t act like this
They are gentle lies hihihi