How we fixed our baby's BOTTLE AVERSION (ebook in description)
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- Опубліковано 21 сер 2024
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This is a demonstration of my baby's feeding. My husband came up with this method and after trying different things and going through a lot of stress and anxiety this one worked. And it doesn't require days of anxiety to get to the other side.
The key is to link good feelings to feeding instead of bad ones. In this video you can see how we do it.
No more bottle aversion.
My baby didn't want to eat sometimes for 9-10 hours and was crying like crazy out of hunger and also out of fear of eating. This was the hardest thing to go through as a mom. And such a relief to feed normally again.
This doesn't mean the baby will eat always. She may refuse it because she is not hungry, or maybe she is teething and linked some pain to the feeding, but with this method, it's easy to just relink good feelings again. I feel like I have the necessary help to get my baby to eat happily.
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I am so happy I found this video because there is truly nothing that explained this as well as you guys did. It finally makes sense to me what's happening. It is so frustrating though because I'm so scared for my baby to go long without eating. I'm scared he will lose weight. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to go through but I'm at least hopeful that there is something I can try. Thank you for this I will update you .
I was scared too! Since then she went without eating for 40 hours, 24 hours without any liquid and she was fine. I needed this experience to stop worrying about how much she eats. And that 40 hours wasn't even bottle aversion! She just stopped liking the formula and it took me that much time to figure it out. So try not to worry about him not eating enough. There is also a clarification video I made so I explain it a bit more how to do it exactly. I hope you will find some relief and your baby will start eating better soon! Let me know please, I'm curious!
@@BottleAversion Hey i need serious help.. I can't feed him at all now.. i tried this method for a day but it got even worse. My 4 months old is losing weight. And i am not even able to afford the fee for your consultation. Please help 🙏
@@tajalwaseem2647 how is your baby now? Please reply I have the same problem with me
@@dawateworld he is doing great. I am going to make a video soon on what worked for me. I am sure it will help parents like me.
@@tajalwaseem2647 yes please 🥺
Thank you so much ❤ I’m going to try this today. I’ve been praying for a solution
I tried this today for the first time after my 3 month old has been refusing to eat for 6 hours. It worked like a miracle! How I wish I could learn more but I just don't have the 💰 to buy the ebook or the video.
Same here... Could you please help me.. I have tried almost everything but it doesn't work 😔
I need help. My baby is 4 and a half month old
Thank u so much for this. We're so stuck with our son who just got home from NICU at almost 4 months.
oh my gosh it worked!!! I feel like crying 😭 tears of joy lol!!! Thank you so much
I'm so happy for you and your family!!!
@@BottleAversion please help me😭😭😭
@@BottleAversion my baby has oral
Aversion she is 3 month old doctors put nasal tube she drink 30-40ml after dat start crying
And the rest i have to put through nasal tube
She is a perfect healthy baby no medical condition all the test reports are normal
Doctors just said its a slow process but i am losing hope
Everyday instead of improving she is taking more from tube less from bottle😭😭😭😭
Please help me
@@kaur1057 I've got your message on Instagram, I responded.
@@kaur1057 same is the case with me.. but no nasal tube... Please help me
I hear women talking (on UA-cam, natch) about how they don't want to give up breastfeeding because of the bond they have with their baby. It makes me wonder about the mother's relationship with the father and why she wants to leave him out of the bonding. But you have shown me that you have a deeper bond with your baby than most of those mothers who nurse the same kid for three years.
Lol dads got a sense of humor
Great advice! So simple but so helpful!
Thank you!!
Thank you for this video! Will try this today. After 2 months my baby boy has only been able to eat while sleeping. He would cry right away and would calm him down till he fell asleep but when they get older they won't fall asleep like that anymore
Katerina, we had the same exact issue. Its due to him not wanting to eat due to stress because of force feeding. Please read a book by Rowena Bennett. We followed her guidelines and it worked for us. Just like this video, don’t force feed him. Feed him when he wants too. Our baby doesn’t like to eat, and will cry and fuss because of hunger but would rather have hunger pains than eat. So we could only feed him when he’s asleep. We followed her program, by only offering to feed him when he’s hungry and it worked. The first day was horrible, he only ate 17 oz, I was so worried he might lose weight. The next day he was hungry, crying. We offered to feed him, and after 2-3 rejections we stopped just as instructed by the book. And will offer it again at a later time 30 mins to an hour. Fortunately for us his pacifier keeps him calm. It’s a pacifier by Mam, so I ordered that bottle which has a similar shape nipple as the pacifier. While he was watching his cartons (hungry), I offered him milk on the side making sure he doesn’t see the bottle, once it wet his lips he thought about it, then I insert it in his mouse to see if he’ll take the bottle and he finally did. It was a changing moment for me, that he could feed while awake. Follow the book, it takes time. It took us 2 days for him to feed normal. You can msg me if you have questions.
My daughter currently the same.. sometime even cry going in position to feed.. even tho it's been 7 hours since last feeding.. she so tiny.. doctor said she under weight.. I have also tried this.. doesn't work.. 🤦
@@ycr_14 Hello I need help for my Baby please
@@mattmag2732 Matt can you please give me a detail of what your baby issues are?
@@ycr_14 i want your help... My baby is rejecting the bottle
Thanks for the video, appreciated it.
Hey i need serious help.. I can't feed him at all now.. i tried this method for a day but it got even worse. My 4 months old is losing weight. And i am not even able to afford the fee for your consultation. Please help 🙏
I am having the same issue with my twin girls. I am going to try this during their next feeding. How long did it take you to overcome the aversion?
Shothri Kalikutty it took my hubby 15 minutes the first time and after that we repeated it a few times but after the first one she was eating happily! Good luck with your LOs! Let me know how it goes.
Szilvia Tóth thank you so much for getting back to me so soon. So I started kind of playing with their bottles with them so at least they are smiling and stuff at it. I will continue to play with the bottle with them before their feed so that they are less stressed around feeding. Hopefully this helps, two screaming babies while feeding is not fun at all!
Shothri Kalikutty yeah I know! One screaming baby was too much for me so I feel for you. Keep doing it, once they link good feelings to feeding, it will become just a natural thing to do. Hugs
My baby started behaving this way when she was 3 now we are 5 months and am tired, feel stressed can’t do this anymore. She only eats when she is sleeping or drowsy she takes all my time. Meanwhile I have a toddler too to attend to please I need your help the stress is too much.
Szilvia, thank you and your husband for sharing this! I have been reading a book by Rowena Bennet about aversions but it feels so complex. Our nanny tried this once and it worked on Friday. But it didn’t work after? Do we have to keep at it? Weirdly my baby boy takes the bottle from my husband no problem (a little fuss when getting into feeding position but he takes it). It’s myself that he won’t take a bottle from and my nanny as of this past week. Can he sense my stress and anxiety?! Will this continue to work? I need to try to put him on a boppy pillow on the floor since when he’s in feeding position with me he freaks out. 😫
I've read Rowena's book too and I tried her method. It worked first but I was a mess during the process and the aversion came back and I just didn't have the heart to keep doing the method. And that's when my husband came up with his idea and it worked for us. We did it several times. First time my hubby did it for like 15 minutes then she ate. Then next time we had to do it less, sometimes we didn't have to do it and sometimes we had to. We just paid attention to her and responded accordingly. I had to put my girl on a pillow too because she screamed immediately when I sat down with her in the chair I used to feed her. After like a month on the pillow she was fine again on my lap. I think it's possible to get anchored to different people different ways. My baby used to take the bottle from both of us and also her grandma but since 6 months, she also takes it from me, nobody else. And she doesn't have any aversion. Maybe it's just preference. I made another video to explain this technique a little bit more in details. ua-cam.com/video/VtUCHiPTQs4/v-deo.html Good luck! Let me know if I can help you in any way! I know it's super hard to go through this.
@@BottleAversion how did ur baby respond after receiving the 4th month vaccinations?
@@jennyhang2732 same as after the 2 months one! She screamed when I was trying to feed her. I think it had to do with the oral vaccine, they forced it into her mouth. We had to do this technique again and also had to change her formula to get her to eat again.
@@BottleAversion so happy your baby is aversion free. Thank you so much for your video!
My baby has a hard time taking the breast milk bottle from me. It started first at 2 months after they gave her liquid medicine to prevent diarrhea. My husband can feed her though
Never worked on mine.
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Please someone tell me where to get the ebooks I am in need of help my baby is losing pounds 7 months old prematurely and she is on ng tub 😢I need to help here tack a baby bottle soon
If your baby is on NG tube, I would recommend my pre-recorded video course as it’s a complete program and you will need that. You can get it here: bottleaversion.com/course
Please help me. My baby is 4 months and he only drinks 1 to 2 ounces every 6 to 7 hours and sometimes more than 9 to 10 hours.. he is dehydrated and getting weaker. I need help.. i have tried iron drops and gripe water as well to make him feel hungry but nothing works .. we sing and dance for him to make him feed but no use
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how long did it take you to get her to your breasts again? I'm very much depressed about my child not eating.. He's just 2 months old..
I didn't breastfeed, but our baby took the bottle almost immediately. I help babies with breast aversion. If you'd like help, please send me an email at szilvia@bottleaversion.com
I would have been a bit more than a bit but it was
Oh lord help me. This is ridiculous!!!!!
My baby have severe bottle aversion. We are do feeding tube for her right now. But I really want to feed her from the bottle. I’ve tried your method everyday. She was just on her own term. Is there anything else can do?
Kelly, please send me an email at szilvia@toolboxformamas.com and I will contact you and we can figure out what to do next. Hugs
How’s your baby now? My baby is going through the same thing
how old was your daughter when bottle aversion started and how old was she when you finally corrected it?
It started after the 2 month vaccination and after fixing it, it came back a few times, and we repeated this same process and I think after about 5 months it never came back.
@Beachnut36 95601 She had it too after the 4 month vaccination! I think it was related to the oral vaccines. She screamed too as soon as I layed her down in the feeding position. For a while I fed her on a pillow, so she didn't know it's feeding time. She wasn't responding to the feeding, she was responding to her memories of the feeding. I have an other video where I clarify a bit. Have you watched that one? I suggest that you put her on a pillow and do this with the bottle and see how she reacts. Let me know how it goes! Here is the link to my clarification video: ua-cam.com/video/VtUCHiPTQs4/v-deo.html
Beachnut36 95601 any update on your LO ? I'm going through this with my 3 month old
@@45sylwunia how did you get your baby to resolve the aversion?
Jenny Hang Hi, I found the book called your baby’s bottle aversion by Rowena Bennet. We also had a phone consult with her and she told us what to do. It was the hardest few days because first day he wouldn’t drink anything and you cannot offer over and over agin. No pressure at all but after 4 days he started drinking and after a week he was drinking 28-30oz a day and after two weeks he was screaming for the bottle. I would Recommend it to anyone struggling with this.
My baby never loved bottle. Im trying since birth. Now she is 5 months. Sometimes she take but only 1 or half oz. I have to go to work.plz help me
If you know it’s not due to pain. Check mouth for ulcers (white spots)
, or acid reflux. If it’s not because of pain it could be due to her not wanting to eat due to stress because of force feeding. Please read a book by Rowena Bennett. We followed her guidelines and it worked for us. Just like this video, don’t force feed her. Feed her when she wants too. Our baby doesn’t like to eat, and will cry and fuss because of hunger but would rather have hunger pains than eat. So we could only feed him when he’s asleep. We followed her program, by only offering to feed him when he’s hungry and it worked. The first day was horrible, he only ate 17 oz, I was so worried he might lose weight. The next day he was hungry, crying. We offered to feed him, and after 2-3 rejections we stopped just as instructed by the book. And will offer it again at a later time 30 mins to an hour. Fortunately for us his pacifier keeps him calm. It’s a pacifier by Mam, so I ordered that bottle which has a similar shape nipple as the pacifier. While he was watching his cartons (hungry), I offered him milk on the side making sure he doesn’t see the bottle, once it wet his lips he thought about it, then I insert it in his mouse to see if he’ll take the bottle and he finally did. It was a changing moment for me, that he could feed while awake. Follow the book, it takes time. It took us 2 days for him to feed normal. You can msg me if you have questions.
If she's hungry she'll eat bottom line
This comment comes from somebody who has never experienced feeding struggles with their baby. Babies with medical conditions need to be tube-fed because they are hungry but don't eat. Other babies developed a strong negative response to feedings due to having medical conditions, experiencing trauma, or being forced to eat. They are hungry but can't eat. This video is for those parents. If it doesn't apply to you and your baby, I'm happy for you, but please keep your unhelpful thoughts to yourself.
Yeah, Michelle. You're wrong. I'm only calling you out because your erroneous comment will lead people astray and cause them to hurt their baby. A baby with aversion will not eat and literally starve their bodies. They can die from this.
This is an EXTREMELY dangerous generalisation. I can assure you my baby is hungry and he is NOT feeding to the point he needed a feeding tube. There are many people with this problem.
@@BottleAversion i totally agree