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  • @greendrone6255
    @greendrone6255 Рік тому +514

    divorce is better than a bad marriage, that said we need fair and gender neutral laws.

  • @shafi_uz_zaman
    @shafi_uz_zaman Рік тому +272

    Unless and until there's gender neutral laws for disputes, things will escalate day by day... Maintenance and 498A is used to punish gender,not the culprit.

    • @preetiraut7700
      @preetiraut7700 Рік тому +14

      One gender is already punished by society.

    • @preetiraut7700
      @preetiraut7700 Рік тому +4

      @thezoldics7648 what they deserve? Are you crazy.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +14

      ​@@preetiraut7700yes, that gender is male..Men need to unite

    • @preetiraut7700
      @preetiraut7700 Рік тому

      @@thecontrarycontrarian4230 men are already United from decades to oppress other gender.

    • @friendshiprocks8673
      @friendshiprocks8673 Рік тому +2

      ​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230They will never becoz of votebank. Even the womencentric law r made by male only

  • @shraddhasatav2564
    @shraddhasatav2564 Рік тому +102

    This is the main reason behind India's poor rank in happiness index......unhappy marriages can affect children also.👎

  • @commentfromnitya
    @commentfromnitya Рік тому +60

    earlier divorces were not happening because women did not want it being dependent or less educated. Now women want it because now they are educated & independent. So past or present, it’s always depends on their choice.

    • @viksb03
      @viksb03 Рік тому +8

      Bcuz of inequality laws, divorce is increasing wherein dv or 498a is filled by women, which ultimately leads to divorce

    • @nitishkumar-qg8mi
      @nitishkumar-qg8mi Рік тому

      Independent hai to das jagah muh Marne ka mauka bhi leti hai

    • @krutikah1468
      @krutikah1468 Рік тому +1

      ​@@viksb03 because of inequality in laws divorce is invreasing

    • @viksb03
      @viksb03 Рік тому +8

      Women ko sirf alimony (dowry) ka paise dikhta hai

    • @maneshpatil809
      @maneshpatil809 Рік тому +3

      Yes woman only want money and

  • @Lovezoyie_19
    @Lovezoyie_19 10 місяців тому +40

    The best thing to do is ...women should be financialy independent....and even if divorce happen husband won't have to pay any money....and if wife is not earning enough, then he should just pay for child's education and food

  • @mogleesh-22
    @mogleesh-22 Рік тому +334

    *No Marriage, No Divorce.* 😊
    *No wife Happy Life.* ✨

  • @Manas-f5i
    @Manas-f5i Рік тому +288

    Because we are adopting Western culture and everyone wants to be happy all the time and people think their partners should make them happy instead of they taking responsibility for their own happiness.

    • @NishantKumarsinghRajput1
      @NishantKumarsinghRajput1 Рік тому

      👍

    • @axel3895
      @axel3895 Рік тому +20

      What's wrong in being happy

    • @Manas-f5i
      @Manas-f5i Рік тому +40

      @@axel3895 What people call happiness is a part of the brain's reward mechanism. The system has not evolved to make you happy all the time, it has evolved to make you chase for more. More you try pursue happiness more miserable you will be... This is why our ancient Gurus always advice us to pursue meaning and not pleasure.

    • @NishantKumarsinghRajput1
      @NishantKumarsinghRajput1 Рік тому +9

      @@axel3895 It's wrong when you derive happiness through nonsensical things 😊

    • @preetiraut7700
      @preetiraut7700 Рік тому +14

      ​@@Manas-f5iahh yes so u are saying couple should not expect anything from eachother. Keep living in bad marriage without love.

  • @xen5917
    @xen5917 Рік тому +107

    Divorce is better than being in an unhappy marriage.

    • @xen5917
      @xen5917 Рік тому +2

      @BlackpinkIstherevolution-df7nk there should be right not to marry, end to casteist mentality, right to marry person of choice etc.
      But we're struck in fallacy of economic development, it seems like we forgot social development is a thing😓

    • @RajaRamMohanKaay
      @RajaRamMohanKaay 5 місяців тому

      Divorce na de to kya kare 😢

    • @Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv
      @Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv 4 місяці тому

      Sab ladkiya sirf paisa dekhti hai isliy amir admi pe muh marti h

  • @ziyan8862
    @ziyan8862 Рік тому +212

    Am I only one who thinks divorce are good since they have already decided to separate rather than suffering unhappy and toxic marriage... Sure it also have consequences on Children Sadly.

    • @harshverma3548
      @harshverma3548 Рік тому +19

      @thezoldics7648 what about mental violence?

    • @Unofficial_agent
      @Unofficial_agent Рік тому +7

      No alimony as well.... If u can't find happiness WITH him... U have NO right to be happy With his money

    • @mcspraint
      @mcspraint Рік тому +1

      it can get better, my parents always have fought but they never seperated..
      Our previous gen was more decent

    • @vashudharajedwivedi1088
      @vashudharajedwivedi1088 Рік тому +11

      @@Unofficial_agent first learn on what basis alimony is given. Second you will never speak this aggressively about domestic violence, dowry and any crime that happens against women.

    • @pallavigupta2934
      @pallavigupta2934 Рік тому +5

      ​@@Unofficial_agent Housewife को मिलती है alimony working woman को नहीं।

  • @damn7637
    @damn7637 Рік тому +134

    Divorce is better than a bad marriage. Periodt

    • @pallavigupta2934
      @pallavigupta2934 Рік тому +1

      ​@thezoldics7648 Yes because our marriage is based on physical things. देह के लिए देह से जोड़ा गया रिश्ता.

    • @damn7637
      @damn7637 Рік тому +2

      @@pallavigupta2934 marriage is a business deal of body... It's not just ours, this system is made like that

    • @pallavigupta2934
      @pallavigupta2934 Рік тому +3

      @@damn7637 Ha, इसीलिए मुझे Arrange marriage पसंद नहीं है, मैं जिससे प्यार करती हूँ मैं उसकी हर चीज़ से प्यार करती हूँ, उसकी body से नहीं उसके पूरे व्यक्तित्व से प्यार करती हूँ, I hope हमारी family ये बात समझे कि पैसे और शरीर के अलावा प्यार भी मायने रखता है.
      Actually में family को problem नहीं होती, problem चार लोगों को होती हैं, उनके हिसाब से अगर तुम्हारे बच्चों ने अपनी पसंद से शादी की है तो हम तुम्हें इज्जत नहीं देंगे ये बात आ जाती हैं.
      जो मतलबी होते हैं उनको प्यार की बातें बकवास लगती है, और हमारा समाज मतलबी हैं, सच कह रहीं हूँ किसी का बच्चा मर भी जाये तो भी उन्हें फर्क़ नहीं पड़ता फिर भी हम उनकी झूठी इज्जत के लिए अपने ही बच्चों के साथ गलत करते हैं.

    • @urban_hippie7723
      @urban_hippie7723 Рік тому

      Divorce has scar on it.. nobody would like to have

    • @pallavigupta2934
      @pallavigupta2934 Рік тому +5

      @urban_hippie7723 Toxic marriage is a scar and divorce is it's treatment.

  • @jeevanjyoti461
    @jeevanjyoti461 11 місяців тому +13

    That lowest divorce rate is artificially maintained by forcing people especially women into bad, abusive marriages. If gender neutral divorce rights is given to people than India's divorce rate will reach that of West, which is a good thing as 1 mistake shouldn't ruin someone's life. ❤

  • @rajsolanki8459
    @rajsolanki8459 Рік тому +73

    Both genders should understand that marriage is invariably more of responsibilities and less of expectations. Understanding limits and respecting them.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +5

      Laws are the problem

    • @playmobilegamescodm
      @playmobilegamescodm Рік тому +1

      That's why I never wanted marriage.
      I want to be taken cared of but if that doesn't happen then I will not take responsibility of wahmen.

    • @urban_hippie7723
      @urban_hippie7723 Рік тому

      Very true. More responsibilities and less expectations ❤

    • @krutikah1468
      @krutikah1468 Рік тому +1

      ​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230in laws of women are the problem not laws

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +1

      @@krutikah1468 laws are the biggest problem. Any law that treats men as guilty just because they are men and doesn't seek any evidence from women for the allegations they make and allows extortion business to flourish, can never be a good law. Stop blaming in laws for the blunders and greed of law makers who will destroy men, families and society just to stay in power using women's votes

  • @rmedhi4501
    @rmedhi4501 Рік тому +99

    Main reason is women are becoming financially independent, otherwise in older stays people would stay in toxic marriages after getting daily slaps, punches and getting insulted by derogatory terms.

    • @rmedhi4501
      @rmedhi4501 Рік тому +3

      Days

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому

      Main reason is feminist laws. Men are realising that the game is not worth playing. Marriage is outdated. Marriage is a scam

    • @meera1860
      @meera1860 11 місяців тому +9

      Very very true ..divorce is much much better than toxic marriage

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 11 місяців тому +11

      @@meera1860 but then after divorce, the husband is made to pay wife maintenance and alimony. Very often false cases are filed. This is unfair and wrong. We need men's commissions and men's ministries

    • @QWERTYSTORY-eh4xr
      @QWERTYSTORY-eh4xr 7 місяців тому +3

      If women are financially independent then why are they asking for money from husband

  • @AyyappanRandaman
    @AyyappanRandaman Рік тому +34

    As a society becomes more affluent people's aspirations also increase leading to more frustrations. Frustrations lead to fissures in marital relations. All civilizations go thru these phases. Divorce rates will keep on increasing as India becomes more prosperous. This is an inevitable cycle.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому

      It is more due to feminism and its horrible laws against men. Men need to wake up

    • @urban_hippie7723
      @urban_hippie7723 Рік тому +3

      Absolutely. . . Brother. . Very well said. India is going through wat USA already has gone through and reversing. Now, they are adapting bhudism, hinduism ...etc

    • @rajeevjaiswal1955
      @rajeevjaiswal1955 Рік тому

      Materialistic not prosperous only

    • @WhiteMetal_
      @WhiteMetal_ Місяць тому

      Well written sir

  • @unemployed.76
    @unemployed.76 Рік тому +94

    Divorce is much better than living in toxic relationship

    • @induchopra3014
      @induchopra3014 10 місяців тому +9

      No. Relationships need commitment. Dedicated efforts. Divorce is no solution. This is wrong

    • @sa34w
      @sa34w 10 місяців тому +4

      @@induchopra3014these people are the reason most of divorce is normalised and due it the crime rates are also increasing

    • @leokoshy4585
      @leokoshy4585 10 місяців тому +7

      Being single is better than getting married

    • @abhishekraj-bt5bd
      @abhishekraj-bt5bd 7 місяців тому

      Phale ye bta ki unemployment se sadhi kisne kr lii

  • @aashnachawla7073
    @aashnachawla7073 Рік тому +9

    People want happiness and marriage is all about compromise and adjustments. In india, love marriage is also not accepted well. When you love someone else and marry someone else its also a bad thing. Earlier marriage was bad too but divorce was a hard option for them. Now, it is easy to get divorced. So they are getting out. I wouldnt be surprised if after 10 years marriage traditions fade away or start fading away from India.

  • @shubhs625
    @shubhs625 Рік тому +79

    Single,married or getting divorced is an individual's choice so society has nothing to do with it..After all everyone wants to be happy in any way they feel better..

    • @garimatak5478
      @garimatak5478 Рік тому +5

      ​@thezoldics7648I hope you know that your opinion holds no value. What one should do or not will always be an individual choice.

    • @nutanyadav5202
      @nutanyadav5202 Рік тому +1

      Divorce is not our culture
      We r hindu and indian
      We forgot our culture and rituals
      And everyone wants to print money

    • @kubersingh8299
      @kubersingh8299 Рік тому +1

      In all this what role does morality play ...by your statement adultery too is justified if it gives you happiness???

    • @playmobilegamescodm
      @playmobilegamescodm Рік тому +1

      ​@@kubersingh8299morality is invalid.
      This world is battlefield. The strong impose rules on weak. Be strong and make your own rules.
      Buddha clearly mentioned it in Anguttara Nikaya 3.101 about how Aristocrat are not affected by Moral laws.

    • @samagopa3895
      @samagopa3895 Рік тому

      We are happy married.. I have not seen any who divorced and happy.. that will never work!

  • @Aakash31665
    @Aakash31665 Рік тому +22

    Jab tak marriage money ke base pe hogi tab tak aisa hota rahega money ke alawa aur bhi factors important hone chahiye

  • @wp7342
    @wp7342 Рік тому +45

    Girl- earns 0 Rs but expectations 50 lakh package, own house, car, no parents needed, vacation every month, hritik roshan like looks and body, polite, understanding, caring, loving, family oriented, career oriented, no drinks, no cigarettes, must be able to satisfy sexually, property on her name (If divorce happens, she will get it for free)

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +15

      True..women's expectations have no limit. But when man expects even a simple thing, they call it dowry

    • @WhySujatha
      @WhySujatha Рік тому +8

      Because mard uski khubsurti par mar mit'ta hai

    • @wp7342
      @wp7342 Рік тому +8

      @@WhySujatha particularly uski figure

    • @wp7342
      @wp7342 Рік тому +5

      @@Unofficial_agent inner beauty se pahle outer beauty hi dekhi jati hai. Inner beauty 1st meeting me pata nahi chalti

    • @NiveditaKhetwal
      @NiveditaKhetwal 10 місяців тому +1

      I think you have never met an educated women

  • @Hindu.NATIONALIST
    @Hindu.NATIONALIST Рік тому +69

    Government should check the eligibility for marriage by conducting exams ( MET ) i bet the divorce rate will fall down

    • @chhayafarde2587
      @chhayafarde2587 Рік тому +3

      😂😂

    • @UtpalKalita888
      @UtpalKalita888 Рік тому +11

      Western country mein sabse pehle ye xam lena hoga 😂😂😂

    • @dm5665
      @dm5665 Рік тому +3

      Yes many people are not eligible

    • @SoDaPrice1998
      @SoDaPrice1998 Рік тому +2

      And what would be the parameters??? Tool size??? 😂😂😂

    • @Flochforster123
      @Flochforster123 Рік тому

      I would be topper as mine is 10.5 inch ( 26.5 cm )

  • @KW-oc3se
    @KW-oc3se Рік тому +126

    The biggest problem with our laws is that they support females to an unprecedented scale. Innocent males of all age are being targeted because of this privilege. Laws should be gender neutral.

    • @attn2020
      @attn2020 Рік тому +6

      Yes most of the laws designed to help poor, uneducated woman but that has become a weapon against men

    • @swatipriya562
      @swatipriya562 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@KW-oc3se😂😂😂 accha drama hai but last thing I know is women who even dare to take divorce are side line by society

    • @swatipriya562
      @swatipriya562 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@attn2020 so a rich women should not take divorce 😄😁

    • @swatipriya562
      @swatipriya562 11 місяців тому

      ​@@KW-oc3se, basically most of women are unemployed , uneducated due to marriage burden and those who even try to take divorce have to face strong opposition by families and society

    • @Karthicksteve
      @Karthicksteve 11 місяців тому +1

      Not only in India. Laws in most countries support women.

  • @mogambo-ry5qe
    @mogambo-ry5qe Рік тому +7

    3 days back a divireced woman killed her 4 year old son just because court granted her ex husband his son access. From this one can predict the situation of men in india.

    • @Healthyfitdiet
      @Healthyfitdiet 8 місяців тому

      No that's because of postpartum depression

    • @jashanbirsingh
      @jashanbirsingh 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Healthyfitdietput this so called depression in dustbin 🗑️

    • @Healthyfitdiet
      @Healthyfitdiet 7 місяців тому

      @@jashanbirsingh It is true you can search on Google. Many women face this depression after delivery

  • @RohitVerma-hf9ns
    @RohitVerma-hf9ns 11 місяців тому +8

    Who cares, I'm divorced but i never regret it, I'd say have fun with whoever you want without commitments.

  • @niks5817
    @niks5817 Рік тому +53

    Because parents force their children to marry.

    • @niks5817
      @niks5817 Рік тому +10

      @thezoldics7648 it should be individual decision to get married or not.

  • @RK-zo9oz
    @RK-zo9oz 11 місяців тому +5

    And .. in exams you are asked to write essays and articles on "how educating a girl is equal to educating a family"
    😂😂😂

  • @singhhimanshu0022
    @singhhimanshu0022 Рік тому +86

    People are becoming mature and independent.

    • @Geextech
      @Geextech Рік тому +13

      Just by not marrying?? Really 😮

    • @kazuma2060
      @kazuma2060 Рік тому +16

      ​@@Geextech yes why marry when you can enjoy your life your own company I mean yes their are merits of marriages but their are demerits too.

    • @BakaeDmry
      @BakaeDmry Рік тому +5

      ​@@kazuma2060yes same as being married there are cons of being single, So everything is fine in their own way.

    • @awisin871
      @awisin871 Рік тому +8

      ​​@@kazuma2060Marriage stands for responsibility and sacrifices. People are either trying to extort money or just want to enjoy their life without performing their basic function towards their family.

    • @garimatak5478
      @garimatak5478 Рік тому +5

      @@awisin871 yeah marriage stands for sacrifices and responsibility but only by women

  • @sweetyupadhyayapcs2865
    @sweetyupadhyayapcs2865 Рік тому +11

    Beautifully explained
    Respect 🙏🏻

  • @sanjuct3202
    @sanjuct3202 Рік тому +10

    Over modern couples girlfriend/Boyfriend jesa hote hai. Kuch hone main backup karte hai aur better choice karte hai.

  • @sidhartha_21
    @sidhartha_21 Рік тому +12

    not only marriages, youth are breaking up in relationship also becoming too frequent. Youths are not ready to handle the commitment. They are not ready to understand the institute of relationship based on mutual trust, love, emotion, support & respect. With increasing influence of westernisation, this seems a thing to ponder. How will you trust a guy/girl who previously ditched their respective partner in a relationship. Be it in marriage or a relationship, both involves the same constituents. We are breaking up for fun, for further exploration & for whatever the reason is but we are not ready to handle it maturely and seek a solution to it instead of ending it forever. Let it be a divorce or a breakup, it really wounded atleast one person deeply. With restrictions of law, breaking up or a divorce also invites some legal actions or financial debt. so nowadays it really difficult to build a relationship. 😊

  • @anilkumar-es3qi
    @anilkumar-es3qi Рік тому +8

    i am suffering from mental troma because my wife take my baby really its was a bad marriage from i get married but really frustraing now i am killing internally

  • @voraciousthinker1998
    @voraciousthinker1998 Рік тому +14

    Divorce is increasing in India this is good news I think for India and It's growth
    Separation is better than toxic relationships

  • @dibyendusarkar4338
    @dibyendusarkar4338 Рік тому +14

    In present Case scenario if Dv not done, even that's case also files under the ill story of domestic violence (DV) act.
    Reason behind it's grabbing money By hook or by crook and harrasr any one family members for monetory and etc.
    This is the real test of Indian Independence.

  • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
    @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls Рік тому +11

    Marriage is a defunct institution. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.

    • @darshanrajpattanaik2154
      @darshanrajpattanaik2154 7 місяців тому +2

      Until you get old and strive for loved ones... You would look back and you would have none

    • @Himanshu_Sharma__A
      @Himanshu_Sharma__A 2 місяці тому

      ​@@darshanrajpattanaik2154 that's the limitations of this

  • @saurav9641
    @saurav9641 Рік тому +76

    Someone very truly said..
    When Man becomes independent he has to bear responsibility but when woman becomes independent she only earn for herself...
    😖😖

    • @dm5665
      @dm5665 Рік тому +23

      This is not true, we should not generalise.

    • @riyasharma-s7w
      @riyasharma-s7w Рік тому +16

      you are doing for your family thn we forced to do stuff for soemone else ungrateful family thats the diff

    • @saurav9641
      @saurav9641 Рік тому +10

      @@riyasharma-s7w when I said Men works for their family it includes his wife, parents, children not just his parents..
      And by your thinking I am sure you will not consider your own children, In-laws, husband as your family... If God exists then may you never find a partner..

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +10

      Very true. And when man start earning, he thinks about his family. When woman starts earning, she thinks that she doesn't need a man

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +9

      ​@@riyasharma-s7wwomen never think about family. They think about themselves.

  • @mdkhaliqueuddin6783
    @mdkhaliqueuddin6783 Рік тому +70

    Jitna western culture India mai ayega utna ye sab case badhega ..

    • @aiswaryabersan7983
      @aiswaryabersan7983 Рік тому +16

      Why people like you blaming west for everything wrong in india india is not Paradise everything is ok ok

    • @UtpalKalita888
      @UtpalKalita888 Рік тому +2

      Love marriage is the main reason

    • @endisnear306
      @endisnear306 Рік тому +12

      So being in toxic marriages is indian culture by your logic?

    • @tejishtosh1491
      @tejishtosh1491 Рік тому

      Toxic by what point of view ​@@endisnear306

    • @endisnear306
      @endisnear306 Рік тому +5

      @thezoldics7648 it can become toxic if later the boy's family torture her for dowry, or the woman torture the husband for other reasons

  • @debojitrabha2502
    @debojitrabha2502 Рік тому +80

    Whats wrong with divorces? Stop the mentality to be stuck in a toxic relationship.

    • @virtualdhruv3557
      @virtualdhruv3557 Рік тому +34

      Divorce is ok but Alimony?? Why will the Males only be liable for alimony??

    • @Shambhavi7889
      @Shambhavi7889 Рік тому +1

      ​@@virtualdhruv3557ok then give all the money back and all the furniture given in the name of dowry

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Рік тому

      ​@@virtualdhruv3557 1 crore dahez maangne walo ke mooh se yeh sab shobha nhi deta 😁😁😁

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +3

      I ask what is correct about marriages when laws are anti men and marriage is a scam

    • @Unofficial_agent
      @Unofficial_agent Рік тому +1

      Then also stop the mentality of free life long alimony

  • @mercysagar7821
    @mercysagar7821 Рік тому +21

    Marriage was never been happy things in India.. We know very well how our parents been through in marriages.. n most importantly now women are also a vote bank for gov so they are making all the laws in their favour... Gov looking for their benefits

  • @amitkumar-cj8xh
    @amitkumar-cj8xh Рік тому +34

    Aaj k time, ladki ke gharwale nuclear family ko preferred karte hai taaki ladke k wealth pe full control Kiya ja sake.But lots of ladke joint family ko accept karte hai

    • @preetiraut7700
      @preetiraut7700 Рік тому +13

      Ha joint family sirf ladke ko chahiye fir chahenge ladki apna ghar chhodkar aaye.

    • @preetiraut7700
      @preetiraut7700 Рік тому +6

      @@Vedantuvasi-fx2xy mere matlab sirf itna hai ki har time ladki galat nahi hoti esa jesa upar comment vala dikhane ki koshish kar raha hai

    • @anindian6557
      @anindian6557 Рік тому +2

      Shaadi ka base hi love h
      Lekin yaha shaadi nahi business deal hoti h

  • @sumedhavaish532
    @sumedhavaish532 Рік тому +4

    Kindly Make a case study on sufferings of children with divorced parental issues.

  • @swatipriya562
    @swatipriya562 11 місяців тому +6

    Divorces cases was low coz women were oppressed now when govt and women empowerment are increasing women are taking divorce from bad marriages ,

  • @ranachanpa251
    @ranachanpa251 Рік тому +5

    26 Year old!no marriage no divorce happy life 😊💯🙂

    • @S3_glitters
      @S3_glitters Рік тому

      Enjoy.. Life will get a diff track after 30. Plan and pick carefully.

  • @rajendradhurve7710
    @rajendradhurve7710 Рік тому +11

    Also prepare a video on how to be beneficial to be neutral or individual without marriage is it necessary to engage or self in marriage relationship?

  • @fanoftraveling1969
    @fanoftraveling1969 Рік тому +38

    1.Laws neutral gender hone chahiye
    2.Dahej ka case jhutha or galat saabit hone par double jurmana hona chahiye.
    3. Or is case ke wajah se hui mansik pratadna ke liye sakht saja ka pravdhan hona chahiye.
    4. Purush aayog ka gathan hona chahiye jab mahila aayog hai toh purush aayog kyu nhi?

    • @Shambhavi7889
      @Shambhavi7889 Рік тому +5

      Kyuki india 3rd rank par ata hai domestic violence pae
      Kbhi north Bihar ghumo
      Waha par aurat ka nar khana bhut common

    • @Puneetverse677
      @Puneetverse677 Рік тому

      ​@@Shambhavi7889to kya galat hai

    • @arrashsengupta2571
      @arrashsengupta2571 Рік тому +1

      @@Shambhavi7889 haha maximum false hote hai..

    • @pallavigupta2934
      @pallavigupta2934 Рік тому +1

      ​@@arrashsengupta2571 दहेज के case file ही नहीं होते समझे, मेरी Friend की शादी में भी 10 लाख दहेज की demand पूरी की गई थी, it's normal thing in Bihar.

    • @arrashsengupta2571
      @arrashsengupta2571 Рік тому +1

      @@pallavigupta2934 bihar ma nhi hote hoge baki jagah hote hai lol

  • @happyvalleyroses8145
    @happyvalleyroses8145 Рік тому +3

    Because people want to become happy. That’s it. It’s a personal decision and no one can say otherwise. Those talking about western ideas and Indian culture have no idea how toxic and suffocating a bad marriage can get. You have 6 to 7 decades (if you’re lucky) to spend on earth. And to spend 3 to 4 decades with someone you can’t be happy with is something no one should accept. If you have the resources and you know what is right for you, do it.

  • @Vivekdhar2000
    @Vivekdhar2000 Рік тому +5

    Well mujhe bohot kuch knowledge toh nahi hai but ha ek important reason person ka anger and narcissist hona bhi hai...

  • @jitenderdiwan226
    @jitenderdiwan226 3 місяці тому +1

    Marriage is couple entering big responsibility. Together committed to faithful understanding... growing. Difficult but can be achieved.

  • @snehalovhal559
    @snehalovhal559 Рік тому +1

    Treat each other with respect....even if there's no love....There is no need of any section, any law and even divorce.... That's the secret of beautiful relationship... Love just happens.... If you treat each other right and proper... It is that simple...

  • @yugalsoni-x5j
    @yugalsoni-x5j 7 місяців тому +5

    Be single, Be happy
    Read books, feel good👍

  • @geetaarth7142
    @geetaarth7142 Рік тому +6

    Kleshi, bullying aur violent partner ka hona bhi ek bada karan hai. Financially independent hone ke kaaran victim partner alag hone mein hi apana bhalla samjhata hai.

  • @Jasmeet-Singh-Sahib
    @Jasmeet-Singh-Sahib Рік тому +7

    Divorces ke asli reasons ka sach logoan ko pata chal jaaye toh unke hosh udd jaayeinge

    • @ruchashinde9735
      @ruchashinde9735 10 місяців тому

      kya h

    • @Jasmeet-Singh-Sahib
      @Jasmeet-Singh-Sahib 10 місяців тому +1

      @@ruchashinde9735 Its a perfect business model. Not for the husband or wife. But for some people in the Justice System.

  • @Sushant9763
    @Sushant9763 Рік тому +3

    Because of promicious past

  • @chaibapat
    @chaibapat 10 місяців тому +3

    I suggest you to make one about the misuse of hindu marriage act and the suffering of men under these sexist laws.

  • @saraswathiramu6695
    @saraswathiramu6695 Рік тому +4

    Bcs of external affairs

  • @PCSJBYSACHINMISHRASIR
    @PCSJBYSACHINMISHRASIR Рік тому

    Anurag Pandey ji
    Aap इस कोचिंग में सामिल हो गए जी
    ❤🎉 आपकी और केशरी पाण्डेय जी दोनो ही बेहतर आवाज के साथ समझाते है
    धन्यवाद

  • @nkj3985
    @nkj3985 Рік тому +13

    More women be ""literate"" more divorce will happen.
    More women be ""educated"" less divorce will be there in soceity.
    There is big difference between educacy and literacy. Now a days women are highly literate but very less educated.

    • @Natasha25Dec
      @Natasha25Dec Рік тому +8

      Same with guys... guys are 200 years behind. They know nothing other than doing job

    • @ananyanegi9423
      @ananyanegi9423 9 місяців тому +1

      Keep telling that yourself

    • @nkj3985
      @nkj3985 9 місяців тому +2

      @@ananyanegi9423
      Insha allah..just wait and watch... Next 10years only.

    • @RONIT848
      @RONIT848 7 місяців тому +1

      @@Natasha25Dec HOW 200 YEAR BEHIND
      VIRGINITY MATTERS MOST

  • @HornOkay
    @HornOkay 7 місяців тому +2

    Before marrying people should be forced to learn what is marriage all about and why they want to marry someone.

  • @Rainbow_600
    @Rainbow_600 Рік тому +7

    Materialism is the main cause!!!

  • @Ritika_Yadav_Bharti
    @Ritika_Yadav_Bharti 7 місяців тому +6

    इस देश में लड़कियों के लिए डाइवोर्स लेना नया धंधा और फ़ायदेमंद सौदा हो चुका है ।

    • @ShikharYadav-n9z
      @ShikharYadav-n9z 2 місяці тому +1

      Ladko ki galti hai samne dikh raha hai ki acchi ladki nhi hai tabhi pigal ke gir jate hai ishi ladkiyo ke liye

  • @iqubalmansoor823
    @iqubalmansoor823 Рік тому +5

    From the special Verdict of supreme court that after Marriage extra material affairs is permitted to woman and man . In Hindu family .
    The social structure of their family has followed to lowest . And created lack of interest in maintaing family.
    As such the marriage are failing .
    Other than that Mobile and media has also played a vitol roll.
    Most woman prefer single motherhood after divorce .

  • @CASANOVAThomasThomas
    @CASANOVAThomasThomas Рік тому +3

    I am Casanova type of guy Marriage is a fooling business one should have a good acting skills to keep marriage intact wheather it's men or women one has to sacrifice

  • @aptasingh2355
    @aptasingh2355 4 місяці тому +2

    Western colture also provides rights to 50% of spouse property one should see that also

  • @RizwanaKhan-rh3jf
    @RizwanaKhan-rh3jf Рік тому +3

    Main bhi daily allah se pray karti hoon ki meri shadi india main na hone de is se accha mujhe single rahne de😂❤❤

    • @mahhiee
      @mahhiee Рік тому

      ​@@Vedantuvasi-fx2xybruhhh i dunno whether to give you full marks on your creativity or despise your meaning

  • @lakshitalakshita6481
    @lakshitalakshita6481 Рік тому +28

    Main reason is men are not leaving orthodox thinking bt women now know dt this relation is about equality not about men god and women maid.....

    • @rohansingh7858
      @rohansingh7858 7 місяців тому +3

      Madam ldkiyn apn s upar wale ldke s shadi krti h ..isliy orthodox mentality nh Jaa rh h

    • @Pinkisuthar158
      @Pinkisuthar158 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@rohansingh7858aadmi aadmi hi hota h chahe vo job chhoti kre ya bdi uske andr man hone ka alg hi ego hota h

    • @QWERTYSTORY-eh4xr
      @QWERTYSTORY-eh4xr 7 місяців тому +3

      If women want equality then why ask for money from husband

    • @awarashyar4380
      @awarashyar4380 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Pinkisuthar158ha aadmi aadmi hota h isliye sabse jyada suicide wahi karta h sabse jyada heart attack se wahj Marta h

    • @DipanshuGoyal-om7iu
      @DipanshuGoyal-om7iu Місяць тому

      Chup hoja bkl

  • @pauljeevan656
    @pauljeevan656 Рік тому +18

    Amidst the absense of gender neutral laws and increasing misuse of law by women, a day is not far when men walk away from marriage altogether.

    • @minartextileindustrieslimi2471
      @minartextileindustrieslimi2471 8 місяців тому +1

      Stop it men also misuse the laws i saw most of them women also walk away from marriage

    • @ritwikghosh7743
      @ritwikghosh7743 6 місяців тому +4

      Our judiciary and constitution treats women as queens and men as 6th grade citizens.
      The hierarchy is-
      -Women
      -Children
      -Wild animals
      -Domestic animals
      -Trees
      -Men😂
      So yes, that day is not just far, many men have already started walking away from marriages. The new BNS is just gonna escalate it further. Men, stay single stay safe😊

  • @GamerZoneBrand
    @GamerZoneBrand Рік тому +10

    Only because of
    1)Extra marital affairs...
    2)Domestic violence
    3)Physical,Mental and Financial torture by either sides
    Only 3 major reasons and i think no others reasons except some cases

    • @swapnilbose8465
      @swapnilbose8465 8 місяців тому +1

      You missed the narssicistic behaviour

  • @bibekghatak5860
    @bibekghatak5860 10 місяців тому +2

    Divorce rates are much much higher than stated in this video !

  • @sushilkhalkho7850
    @sushilkhalkho7850 Рік тому +14

    Womens side only show kiya hai aur second side show kyu nhi kiya

  • @tabuhafeez9810
    @tabuhafeez9810 Рік тому +14

    No husband .no tension 😂

    • @HimanshuSharma-mh7bz
      @HimanshuSharma-mh7bz 11 місяців тому +2

      No wife no tension 😂😂😂 wasey teri bro Tera hubby to hai hi😂😂😂😂

    • @tabuhafeez9810
      @tabuhafeez9810 11 місяців тому

      @@HimanshuSharma-mh7bz kya matlab. .samjha nahi

    • @HimanshuSharma-mh7bz
      @HimanshuSharma-mh7bz 11 місяців тому +1

      @@tabuhafeez9810 rocket science nahi hai tera bro is your hubby hai na 😆😆😆

    • @tabuhafeez9810
      @tabuhafeez9810 11 місяців тому

      @@HimanshuSharma-mh7bz mera bro mera husband ? .kya matlab

    • @rohitnayak9952
      @rohitnayak9952 26 днів тому

      Follow Zakir Nayak

  • @anurag29000
    @anurag29000 Рік тому +5

    Foreign influence and mobile 📲

  • @alokebanerjee1990
    @alokebanerjee1990 11 місяців тому +3

    India ka divorce rate kam hain, iska matlab ye nahi hain ki log marriage main khus hain .... Social pressure ke wajah se log divorce se darte hain .... Nahi toh divorce main india top rank karta ....

  • @manup6814
    @manup6814 Рік тому +4

    Law is the main reason for divorces.... It is doesn't provide fairness to both parties

  • @SACHIN_DAHIYA_JAAT
    @SACHIN_DAHIYA_JAAT Рік тому +75

    Now a days women want wealth without any effort 😂

    • @aiswaryabersan7983
      @aiswaryabersan7983 Рік тому +16

      Men mind still stuck on 18th century

    • @durgeshnandan7238
      @durgeshnandan7238 Рік тому +12

      Exactly 😂

    • @Shambhavi7889
      @Shambhavi7889 Рік тому +15

      Actually some men are triggered by the fact that in the future they can't beat women

    • @SACHIN_DAHIYA_JAAT
      @SACHIN_DAHIYA_JAAT Рік тому +4

      @@Shambhavi7889 men never want to beat women , actually its women who want to beat men

    • @Shambhavi7889
      @Shambhavi7889 Рік тому +3

      @@SACHIN_DAHIYA_JAAT ofcourse
      Because men exploited women
      Still women's conditions are bad in South Asian and middle eastern countries

  • @archanamaitra2848
    @archanamaitra2848 11 місяців тому +1

    Good discussion,go with the wind

  • @inspiringyou5642
    @inspiringyou5642 8 місяців тому +4

    It is good that divorce rate is increasing..required for womem

  • @Crazymanjusaaa
    @Crazymanjusaaa Рік тому +3

    Pehle hi compatibility dekhkar shadi karni chaiye
    ...divorce se achha

  • @Ritvikaaaa
    @Ritvikaaaa 8 місяців тому

    All that he said is so true
    I’ma cry 😢

  • @sapnanegi2747
    @sapnanegi2747 Рік тому +14

    Anurag sir u r my fav I luv ur voice ❤

  • @innocentstudent-
    @innocentstudent- Рік тому +32

    Simply marriage he nhi krni chahiye 😂😂

  • @saviofrancisfernandes413
    @saviofrancisfernandes413 Рік тому +3

    2 words - 'Materialism' and 'Selfishness' are the primary reasons. Divorce is no longer taboo at least in all the major cities in India and self-happiness is the the final goal. In this high tech world of stiff competition - sucess is measured using the economic scale as the primary measurement tool and all other values are secondary. All of this will only get worse as time goes by and we enter the world of AI / Robotics / smartphone dating apps and will contribute to making a large proportion of the population obsolete and worthless in the years to come. This is happening globally - not in India only.

  • @medic_breakthrough
    @medic_breakthrough Рік тому +3

    Western culture, capitalism,Insta reels,Extra women empowerment

  • @kristinhoper1848
    @kristinhoper1848 Рік тому +9

    Divorce are created bcz we followed from many centuries the old societal norms... Roles of husbnd nd wife... But now the time has changed nd women wants freedom for their carrer nd choices... Today couples not want marry coz of responsibility nd dependency on each but they have to marry by family pressure.

  • @crazy_gyanshorts
    @crazy_gyanshorts Рік тому +6

    And, divorcees become too toxic for second marriage. Personal experience.

    • @monaasmr2936
      @monaasmr2936 Місяць тому

      😢😢😢how

    • @rohitnayak9952
      @rohitnayak9952 26 днів тому

      Because of emotional baggage same with people with multiple relationships in past

  • @nutanyadav5202
    @nutanyadav5202 Рік тому +9

    Divorce 's main reason is to both partners wants to do job
    A government employees boys wants government employees wife
    This is the big reason
    Boys and his family wants money
    People are greedy for money

  • @sunilpatel3728
    @sunilpatel3728 Рік тому +3

    Nothing wrong in divorce, pehle aurat ghut ghut ke jeeti thee, ab usme sehna band Kiya hai,

  • @jackwalls2448
    @jackwalls2448 Рік тому +11

    Better not to merry

  • @roshinitoenlightenment
    @roshinitoenlightenment Рік тому +5

    Multiple partners

  • @sarasharma6147
    @sarasharma6147 Рік тому +2

    Bcz adultry is not a crime now....

  • @afzalabbas_
    @afzalabbas_ 11 місяців тому +1

    Being unfaithful to one’s spouse is one of the main reasons behind unhappy relationships.

  • @shagunmishra879
    @shagunmishra879 Рік тому +4

    These are just upper and nominal reasons

  • @anshumansahu1087
    @anshumansahu1087 Рік тому +24

    As things are moving single mothers and fatherless children will also become common in the future I think. All thanks to adoption of dirt from the western culture.

    • @Shambhavi7889
      @Shambhavi7889 Рік тому +10

      That's why India ranks 3rd in domestic violence cases

    • @aryantyagi12a
      @aryantyagi12a Рік тому

      ​@@Shambhavi7889doesnt matter as long there is stability

    • @asonng1472
      @asonng1472 Рік тому +8

      Being with parents who are not happy with each other, they give mental tortures to children. It's better they get divorce.

    • @Mira-pm3ni
      @Mira-pm3ni 9 місяців тому

      Stop targeting western culture .

  • @KaushalYadav-qg2fw
    @KaushalYadav-qg2fw Рік тому +5

    Those who are saying divorce is better than toxic marriage please visit family court one time then you will see which gender fault is it.

    • @gabrielnadar5985
      @gabrielnadar5985 Рік тому +1

      Problem is each gender will point finger at other gender.
      Each gender is different
      Each gender is not equal
      Each gender has different physical and emotional need
      It's all about understanding human psychology if you fail to understand human psychology then no matter what even after separation u will remain unhappy.

  • @sandeepbhartia5209
    @sandeepbhartia5209 11 місяців тому +2

    Main reason is unequal laws against men. Women get child, maintenance, lot of money. Men can not legally get any of these.

  • @krishnaworld.4232
    @krishnaworld.4232 Рік тому +5

    Sadi ek tarah ka jua hai jeet gye to acha bolenge barna bura..jab logo ke bahan ki baat hoti h to unhe sab sach lgta h or jab baat apni wife ki hoti h to wife or uski family hi buri lgti h.

  • @dibyendusarkar4338
    @dibyendusarkar4338 Рік тому +1

    First present law regarding law, family interface , others.

  • @awadhkishor9629
    @awadhkishor9629 Рік тому +12

    Because she loves your money not you.😂

  • @iqubalmansoor823
    @iqubalmansoor823 Рік тому +2

    Raymond ka case bhi hua hai

  • @zipran
    @zipran Рік тому +1

    Sir Make Videos in English

  • @Mr.xx_
    @Mr.xx_ Рік тому +1

    My Life my Rules wala system jabse aaya hai tabshe yeh divorce jada hi hone laga hai👀

  • @jeeturathore8790
    @jeeturathore8790 Рік тому +4

    biggest problem in marriage nowadays is women Life expectancy from husband without zero contribution

    • @minartextileindustrieslimi2471
      @minartextileindustrieslimi2471 8 місяців тому

      Nowdays husband asked more money from wife parents destroyed the brother in law family

    • @RONIT848
      @RONIT848 7 місяців тому +1

      @@minartextileindustrieslimi2471 COME TO REALITY
      DOWRY IS ILLEGAL AND PEOPLE ARE AVOIDING TAKING DOWRY BUT WOMAN INCRESING FOR ALIMONY