Dealing with Social Anxiety in College

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  • Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
  • Hey guys, today's video is about dealing with anxiety in college specifically. I talk about my experience with it and some ways I manage it.
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    How old am I? 20
    How tall am I? 5’2
    What editing software do I use? Final Cut Pro X
    Year of school? Class of 2023
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 39

  • @esmesal6006
    @esmesal6006 3 роки тому +88

    its so nice to know there are other people with social anxiety. Im about to start college and im lowkey scared. especially around presentations, i start to blush.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому +8

      Esme, Doing public speaking courses give quick relief. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, in college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.

    • @zoriamm5064
      @zoriamm5064 Рік тому +1

      I was about to go to college but I never did it was the fear I stay home to do online classes and im still doing till this day but I do go out and expouse myself to place that fears me it tough but I do have a therapist to support me

  • @gavin4056
    @gavin4056 Рік тому +33

    it's really easy to avoid social situations in college and the best advice I can give whenever u hear the voice in your head telling you not to do something, DO IT, trust me you will feel alot better about yourself if you actually tried rather than just running away.

  • @mollymcquitty347
    @mollymcquitty347 2 роки тому +22

    One thing to remember is that even the most confident-appearing people might be feeling anxious inside. You are guaranteed not to be the only one with the fears and doubts that you are having. XX

  • @marinaalonso7315
    @marinaalonso7315 2 роки тому +33

    It's so hard, but we can make it, some people are born with more difficulties than others and it's just the way it is, but little by little, never giving up, we will find peace, we will find love and live an amazing live. It gets easier every day, but we have to try every day

    • @Jasminejpatrick
      @Jasminejpatrick  2 роки тому +1

      🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому +1

      Ma rina, Doing public speaking courses are very effective for social anxiety. . To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.

    • @marinaalonso7315
      @marinaalonso7315 2 роки тому

      @@shyaaammeneen63 wow thank you so much I appreciate the advice, it´s good advice💞

  • @Emily-nz1hr
    @Emily-nz1hr Рік тому +4

    im not in college yet but i have bad social anxiety and am worried about having to have a roommate☹️.

  • @user-fm1hl3rg1e
    @user-fm1hl3rg1e 2 роки тому +11

    I got 65 for the test, tried to act like a socialised person, it’s hard, so I’m being myself now. Give yourself more time and it’s ok, fighting💪🏻 ^ v ^

    • @colbyp8735
      @colbyp8735 2 роки тому +3

      what's the name of the test?

  • @lindseyoconnor1986
    @lindseyoconnor1986 3 роки тому +34

    i’m so proud of you for sharing this 💕💕 im so happy that it’s getting a little better. also this is super important to talk about especially in college when everyone always seem to be doing things!

  • @leahcedula2779
    @leahcedula2779 3 роки тому +11

    thank you so much for sharing your experiences! i'm also a sophomore in college and you've made me feel less alone

  • @RobbiJan
    @RobbiJan 3 роки тому +2

    thank you for sharing your story

  • @Jade-so4cz
    @Jade-so4cz 2 роки тому

    I literally relate to every thing you said 🥺

  • @simplysugar
    @simplysugar 2 роки тому +11

    33 y/o SA sufferer here. Just leaving my mark.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому +2

      Simply sugar, Doing public speaking courses give quick relief. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, in college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.

  • @bellag7725
    @bellag7725 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks so much for sharing Jasmine!💞

  • @chiiix33
    @chiiix33 2 роки тому +3

    I took the same test and I got a 57. I finally went back to college after taking a long break. But my classes are online except for 1. I hope that moving back on campus isn't too stressful for me.

  • @indrakamalyadav2921
    @indrakamalyadav2921 2 роки тому

    You are amazing. I have social anxiety as well

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому

      Kamal, Doing public speaking courses give quick relief. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, in college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.

  • @anushka4802
    @anushka4802 3 роки тому +12

    ahh this is something I struggle with as well... my sophomore year of college is starting soon and I'm terrified to go.

    • @aparachakrabarty6507
      @aparachakrabarty6507 2 роки тому

      Same 😞

    • @cherryblossom1300
      @cherryblossom1300 2 роки тому

      same

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому

      Anushka, Doing public speaking courses give quick relief. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, in college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому +1

      @@aparachakrabarty6507 Doing public speaking courses give quick relief. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, in college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.

    • @aparachakrabarty6507
      @aparachakrabarty6507 2 роки тому

      @@shyaaammeneen63 I'll do that.Thank you.🥰

  • @golden_harp9303
    @golden_harp9303 2 роки тому

    I took that same test and got a 49 so that's great lol. Good video 👍

  • @shyaaammeneen63
    @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому +4

    Useful video. Doing public speaking courses are very effective. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.

  • @fresnonightcrawler4910
    @fresnonightcrawler4910 2 роки тому +9

    I'm starting a college class tomorrow and I scored a 53 on that social anxiety test 🙃

    • @lindstrange
      @lindstrange 2 роки тому

      I got a 54 😵‍💫 and good luck with college !!

    • @jarelmarcelin4985
      @jarelmarcelin4985 2 роки тому

      You are not the only one in that boat! Keep pushing through!

  • @gabriellathomas9839
    @gabriellathomas9839 Рік тому +2

    I have social anxiety too and I’m a freshman in college. I started EFT tapping with a program called the Social Confidence club and there’s nothing that’s helped my anxiety like EFT tapping therapy and this program. I highly recommend looking it up and trying it out as well as the youtube channel called Social Anxiety Solutions.

  • @percyastronautstatus.8780
    @percyastronautstatus.8780 2 роки тому

    You look like an...angel.

  • @certifiedlovergirl6759
    @certifiedlovergirl6759 2 роки тому +3

    What's the name of the test??

  • @visualjottings5626
    @visualjottings5626 2 роки тому

    🙂👍