@Faith Get with God he would change your life promise me I had suicide thoughts and I wanted to kill myself really badly I cried every day I felt that I was so unworthy I faked a smile everyday telling my friends and family that I was doing perfectly even though I wasn't the reason I felt so unworthy it's because I felt that nobody loved me until I saw an add on youtube it changed my life it talked about how god can change you life so I decided to give it a try so I did I read my bible and pray to God to remove my depression and it worked and I now I'm happy Christian thanks to God. If you have any questions you can connect my Instagram its april91225.
Asking a depressed person, "Why are you depressed? Life is beautiful" is like asking some one with asthma "Why do you have asthma? There is so much air to breath"
I would argue that a variation of the first question would be good though. The conversation has to start somewhere. I would agree can't start from a "just feel better!" standpoint, but to try and understand and show empathy to that person. I say this as a dad who has a son who struggles mightily with mental health, the best step was letting him know we knew and that we were trying to help and understand. He was resistant to that first conversation but we have seen improvements in his openness with us since then.
Please don’t use the term “cancer person” it’s extremely rude and hurtful especially to me because I have a sibling with leukemia.just say someone with cancer jeez
I hate when you tell them why you are depressed and they say "just don't worrie about it" or "your fine" or even "forget about you passed" like how am I supposed to forget what my step mom did to me when I was 3 up till I was 9 btw I'm 12 ya not very easy to forget
the worst is when they say "but you have a great life!" well, news flash, it doesn't matter how good my life is, besides they know nothing of the sort so why would they assume shit?
@@smellyal8trstinky I feel the same way, I have tried telling one of my friends who I considered a sister, but she said that I had not right to complain because I had more than her. Now I don't tell anyone around me anything besides, "I'm fine". I was placed on this pedestal and am now afraid that is I mess up in the smallest of ways or tell people the truth, that they will see me different and judge me wrong and say that "it is all in my head". It is at the point where I don't know if I want to get out of bed today, it is already almost 2 pm and I still don't have the will to even get out of bed... what's wrong with me?
Person That exists that’s fair though. If you haven’t been diagnosed, only you are saying your depressed. Depression is not something to be wanted or to be messed around with, it’s a genuine condition. You might not be faking it but it might be something else or a symptom or another problem 🤷♀️
Omg same, my friends will just say "hi how are you" and then I would type "I want to die rn" but then delete it and type "I'm good thanks how are you" and send it, sometimes I get scared I might send the last one tho
𝓑𝓮𝓽𝓱 #Sub2TomGW I know how you feel, but sweetheart you’re not a burden. Your feelings matter, your well being matters, your health matters, your heart matters, your brain matters. Your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual pain matters. You as a human being matter! I don’t know what you’re going through or how you’re exactly feeling, or coping with it but please know that you are truly never alone. I’ve been suicidal, depressed, and anxiety driven my whole life...etc... I’ve been hospitalized twice for suicidal tendencies & self harm...etc... I’ve been self harming for 5/6 years, I recently relapsed after being clean for like a year I believe. I know what it feels like to think that no one cares, that you’re only worthless, ugly, fat, not good enough...etc... maybe you think all your worth is nothing but negativity. I know what it feels like to just be completely alone, broken, empty, numb, discontent. Like you’re drowning, trapped and can’t be saved no matter how hard you try! I know what it’s like to not know what exactly you want, you just want to feel alive! & be happy but it’s like the universe has everything against you and you’re being punished. You question what you’ve possibly done to deserve so much hurt but never get an answer for it...maybe you make your own? They’re definitely not true, but you believe so. You want to give up, feel there’s no point. One minute all you want is to be alone and drown everyone out, you may not be fond of people, want lots of friends or company around that much, but the next minute all you want is someone to hold you, hug you, and show they care & acknowledge you’re suffering. Many people love you, but you likely don’t feel that way. All you feel is stuck, paranoid, and possibly overthink constantly. You beat yourself for everything, even small things. I suffer from nightmares, PTSD, OCD thoughts, Bipolar...etc... & so much more like Body Dysmorphia and ADHD. I’ve been through a lot in only 18y of my life. I’ve seen a lot & been exposed to a lot at such a young age. I know what it’s like to feel or be misunderstood all the time, or that no one will truly listen or care even if they say otherwise. To feel like suicide is the only option, only answer to end all the agonizing & exhausting life you no longer want to live, maybe never wanted to live in the first place? To feel nothing but hopeless, I’ve felt it! I’ve dealt with many fake friends, and people who never cared, still don’t care & never genuinely listened to any of my feelings or what I had to say. You’re worth more then what your mind wants you to believe, I’m sure you’re a very smart, bright girl. You’re beautiful. A real friend, and someone who truly cares about you & loves you won’t ever mind hearing about any of your problems, they will stay by your side to support & love you at all times. You’re never a burden, a mistake, a disappointment, let alone a waste of space. I don’t know if you have any dreams, or future careers you want to get into but you can do it! I promise you can. I know it’s not easy but anything is possible. You can’t just snap out of depression, it takes patience, effort but most importantly consistency & time. I myself haven’t got much better I am still struggling. Just know that no one is perfect, we all make mistakes, we’re all human! we all have are own flaws & imperfections. I know what it’s like to be insecure, to constantly compare yourself to others and feel everyone else is much better then you or that everyone is against you, just feels sorry for you, or maybe they don’t even feel sorry but are messing with you for the fuck of it. I’ve been bullied my whole life, and never had much friends. I’ve never been much of a social person growing up, I’m still not. I’m honestly a misanthrope. I’ve been bullied & outcasted by my own family, I don’t have a dad or much of a mom because she’s mentally ill...My family that has raised me has done nothing but put me through hell. No matter how much I tried to get help, it always backfired! I still haven’t been able to achieve the blessings I know I deserve in life, but I try and keep trying to give myself that one more day. If you ever need or want someone to talk to I am always here, no matter the time, day, when, how or why! I will always be down to listen this goes for any person that comes across this and reads it, even if it’s years or months down the line. I love you all and I care! ❤️❤️
i fully understand if it feels embarrasing to let someone know, but please do it. there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed off. letting someone you trust know how you feel is the most right thing in the world
I know that it's been 8 months, but I feel you, I relate to this, and if you need to vent, I will be here. As a random stranger in a youtube comment section
I went through depression when I lost a loved one. During that time I questioned my existence, and couldn't understand the purpose of life. I felt useless and worthless. I couldn't focus because I was so confused that I couldn't comprehend the meaning of those words. It was so... hard. I got over it almost three months later and just imagining a person going through it all the time, I just want to let you know... You are NOT worthless. You are NOT useless. Your existence is very important and someone, someone you might not even know, loves you and if they lose you, they will feel the same way. Live your life to its fullest. You never know how long you got. LOVE YOU!
I hate it when people call me dramatic because they don't know what I'm going through and they don't know how I feel about different things. Is it like that for you to?
"I am the way, the truth, and the life." John 14:6 Jesus is our hope. He died for us in a cross so we can have eternal life because of His sacrifice. In Him we find perfect peace: "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27 Jesus loves you, go to Him! It will be your best decision and i know that because it was mine. When I was anxious, I found peace on Him and in what He said. You can find too!♥️
it's because it is.. believe it or not *SOMETIMES* people get sad because they look "ugly" which there not and they could get jealous of other people online "there prettier". Just like how Charli D'amelio got plastic surgery.. it's sad how people hate the way they look when there gorgeous. Dont be worried about what other people think because if you look around. Everyone's doing there own thing.
Other person:are you ok? Me:ya I'm fine I'm just tired My head:tired of trying,tired of not fitting in and being perfect,tired of myself being ugly and dumb.
this brought me to tears. it’s honestly heartbreaking how relatable this is, i hope everyone else going through this knows that you’re not alone, we can get through this ❤️
Please call 1-800-273-8255 to talk. mental illness is a well known mercury toxicity symptom, and some handle the toxicity better than others, but some get these kind of issues, autism, low immune system, ADHD, gut issues, allergies etc. I would encourage anyone struggling look into the Andrew Cutler Protocol. This is the ONLY safe protocol to this date, eating things like chlorella and cilantro has made people very very sick. Please read the child recovering stories by googling «cutler success stories child» and «cutler success stories adult» . But the best place to learn and get support is trough the Facebook group «Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox». But whatever you do, never take/eat cilantro, chlorella, MSM, glutathione, and ALA/DMPS/DMSA that is not according to the Andrew Cutler Protocol, you can read some peoples horror stories by googling «Andy Cutler what not to do». Wish you all the best!
Yeah I know...... It's the hardest question.... And you know what is even worse? It's that I can't even fake a smile sometimes cause I feel too numb. Because everyone sees right through it
@@sarahemilywhite I can relate . I had faked smiles or laugh many times before . Now , I just feel like it's okay if someone thinks I'm giving an attitude . It's okay if they think I'm being rude .
the only person to ever wonder and ask if i'm okay is my little brother. he's so much more understanding and supportive and caring than my parents. i always get so emotional whenever he's concerned about me.
Yes, exactly! You feel either nothing or you feel horrible. But it is so hard to put it in words... And sometimes, you don't even know how you feel. I hope that I will overcome this time soon. Stay strong, whoever is reading this. ❤
"You never know who" is so true. I am sure that some "happy" people around me may have depression. I'm depressed too. I don't want to open up about it not just because of being afraid of being criticised instead of being understood but also afraid of spreading negativity to people around me.
my friend said she was fat everybody took pity on her, and i said yes you are fat. she just started screaming and everyone attaked me. what am i supposed to do, stand there?
People just say you are faking it WHICH IS VERY ROOD and might make someone even more depressed so plz stop saying that they are faking bc you dont know what they will do to themselves to hide it beleive me I am a persob who hides my depression
10 subs without any vids ! True I have a friend and didn’t know she was depressed until we were going away with our orchestra for one week (I don’t know how to say it in english I’m from germany) and when we were going to eat she always had to take medicaments and then we ask why she had to take them and told us about it
Yep that's exactly that, when someone kills themselves people always say "why they didn't told us ??" But when someone actually does, they're "attention seeker" so that's why we're 70% without help
Melena Davis I had to go through that and when I finally told my friends they started laughing and saying sure 😭 I hope your ok 💔 I am here if you wanna talk
I just realised... I’m the one to ask my friends “How are you?” but they never ask me. Edit: i deleted the vent cause i felt like i was seeking for attention and didnt want people to think im an attention seeker But again, thank you guys. ❤️
What People hear.: I'm fine. I'm just tired. Leave me alone. I miss the old days. What We Really Mean: Help me. I wanna die. Please stay.. I miss the old me.
If I tell my parents I have depression they will tell "it is cause of your phone" I am 100% sure Edit: everyone is going through the same problem as me. It makes me so sad :( hope everything gets fine
@@aestheticyoongi7263 i use my phone way too much, i bet i use it more than you, but its not a problem because (some people, including me) use their devices to escape reality, at least thats what i do.
My friend went through a dark phase , she was depressed most of the time, I wanted to help, by hugging, caring, making her smile or laugh, but unfortunately she doesn’t live in my village. I text her to ask how she’s feeling, I try calling her.. but still not helpful. The depressing thing is that she HATES herself. I try showing her how much we love her, but this won’t change the fact that YOU hate yourself. I think she feels better now, it’s not because of me, it’s because she’s strong, so to every girl who’s reading this, you are so strong, and with time, you can definitely defeat depression. I wish you all a happy and a safe life.💕
depression isn't just crying all night or saying I'm fine when you're really not. It's also all the mornings you can't get out of bed, all the days that go by in fog, and all the nights you wonder why you're even still here.
A day will come when I will hold you in my arms , wipe away your tears I will show you what true love and friend means, I will sath beside you forever.... Wait for me please ,when my time comes I will make sure to take your hand and never let it go ... But when we meet wait for me I wait for you
“It’s a phase” “It’s your hormones” “Stop being dramatic” “Stop doing this for attention” Nobody cares until that person commits suicide. That’s when they wanna say “I never would’ve thought” “I can’t believe she/he did that”
I'm just about to go on 13, and I've been depressed since I was nine. I got help when I was about ten, went to therapy for a few sessions, showed maybe like a sign of improvement, and was pulled out because it's too expensive. I've reached out in small ways, some bigger than others. My mom even got the hint at one point, looked me over, and said I was fine. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm stressed. Crappy friends have given me trust issues. I'm almost hopeless. I find it sad that UA-cam comments are the only place I feel safe to vent (it's the only form of social media I have).. I know I'm depressed. Probably severely. This video touches me because it feels like me. I've researched depression so much. I've typed out so many 'not so fine' messages and replaced them with a meek 'good' or 'okay'. Please take care of yourselves. There ought to be hope somewhere.
Oh...do some research then,did you find this video relatable? If so then you may want to talk about it with someone you trust or seek help if you think it's something more than sadness
I dont even feel like I wanna talk to my family about it. I prefer to talk to someone that has the same problem as me. And that I could be open with them.
People joke about being depressed all the time. And here I am slowly beginning to lose faith in myself.. I go through hell every. single. day. I always tell myself to keep my head up and my heart strong. But I can’t do it anymore. People don’t understand me at all, that’s why I don’t talk about how I feel anymore. I’ve lost to trust people
That was me at one point... I felt sad all the time I felt like I was empty inside it’s just this weird bad feeling ..but one thing don’t ever lose faith my love ..never everything happens for a reason probably to make you stronger or to learn how to fight your battles better next time there are complications when I say everything happens for a reason I say that because I love you you are a human and I may not know you but you’re strong 💘💘 you could of been gone 4 days ago but no you’re still here and if you’ve made it till now you can make it your whole life till you have a family and live happily ever after NEVER loose hope ily❤️💞💘💜❤️💞💘💜
Lulu Nanita The single most difficult part of depression is the inability to get up and do the things that make you feel better. The lack of motivation. I started going to a gym and that is definitely a good thing to do as you will feel better when you finish a workout. Even just the little things like getting up to go for a walk will make a difference. It's all Bout keeping busy. If you have the courage to speak with someone about it, that's wonderful. I never did, with time it will start to disappear. But I had to force myself so hard to get up and do things. Give it a try even when you feel like you just can't do anything. It will make a difference. If you're in school, try your best in all your classes. If you're in a sport, dedicate your time into being the best you can possibly be at it. If you're good at drawing or anything else out there, put your efforts into it. You will start to feel much better about yourself.
Lulu Nanita that's what I told myself too but then I ended up on the dean's list. You have to want to get better! Over time you will grow out of these feelings but you need to make a conscious effort to do so now
Parents say "everything is because of your phone" but seriously for few years my phone is thhe only one that has taught me and helped me get back up more than my parents ever did..
"Stop being dramatic, you aren't depressed, stop being sad, be happy" Why do people say this? It's not like i want to be sad, people aren't sad because they don't want to happy, but they can't help it, sometimes I don't even know the reason behind my sadness, I feel so empty as if I've lost all my emotions...it's hard to be happy.
Ik- it's weird. The other day when the Facebook shit happened my mom started explaining why social media made teens feel like they werent pretty enough and be depressed. But I don't even have social media (YT isnt considered social media to me) and I feel insecure. It's weird, and I'm prolly gtting to personal.
Same, and they always tall about how in their generation this in their generation that, but no matter how many times i tell them its a new generation they say that theirs was the "BEST" one
It is hard because if u say:"no, i am not fine i am actually depressed af." they would say:"oh but life is so good!" or something like:"but you need to see therapist. " or even:"God you are so ungreatfull." bitch don't you see i'm trying so hard? I really am...
i wish there's still the future me that is truly healed and happy. proud of the current me. saying everything is going to be okay, you've handled it well. each breath is a struggle now.
I think teenage is the worst stage , it is full of anxiety ,frustration and, guilt .All the bad things come in my mind all the bad thought , bad memory and some times i cry after going to bed because of all the things happening .
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something,but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you, okay?
I agree i turned 13 a few months ago, and rn i feel like if i was in literal hell oof i feel tired, numb and sad almost all the time, and i miss being a kid so much fuck growing up, but i cant do anything about it since its a part of life
My definition of “fine” depressed, alone, stressed, stupid, tired, hate myself, nobody loves me, nobody understands me, I’m useless, how would people feel if I were dead?
hey. it’ll get better i promise. there are people out there that love you and if you die, you are just passing ur pain onto someone else. you’re not alone 💟 i’m here to speak
This is how it feels for me.. I'm tired but I can't sleep I'm sad but I can't show it I'm stressed but have to hold it I'm angry, but too well at holding it in I'm hungry but can't eat I know I'm depressed, but they don't know it
magical demi I know how you feel, but if you don't tell them they will never know. Don't be like me and not tell them because if you tell tem its, for real, a weight off your chest.💙 you can do even if your mom will be sad, she can help you and you both can help each other💙 Don't Ever Give Up Though💙
Glamour Gamer wolfy burg I feel exactly what I feel when I'm 12 and my father died and I'm 7 years old and feel everything you feel . My life is like fog I feel uneasy about anything I do not care about, not even my place in life. I always regret everything I did or did not do. You should know something, no matter how you have friends or loved ones, or even if you have a best friend You should know that he will not be able to help you. If you talk to him, he interrupts you. If you do the right thing all the time, he will not do anything to you, but when you sin once you remain silent, you will never be silent about that sin.So I no longer believe that I was (my best friend ) And when you say to her I want to get rid of a little of those inside me will say is okay and when you start to mock you and say you are always sad sadness and you exaggerate so that it does not allow you to complete one word and you are interrupted and she laughs at you. And when you say to yourself why waste my time with people, they did not even return to my friends that they do not even care about me and do not feel my presence with them. I always feel that the more you smile the more you cry and when someone is not so close to you, but from the same family your mother or your father try to speak but indirectly and then say that in order to advice this advice continue to stick but after a few moments you feel why The psychological treatment is useless from all this why why.And when your mother sees your sadness and depression blinded by your vision you try to know it at the beginning and when you stand in front of it can not express can not speak can not move and say only I'm fine. You know I tried to commit suicide three times First at the age of ten And the second at the age of eleven And the third at the age of twelve My mother and not even my brothers or my brothers have noticed, but every time I try to commit suicide I try to suffocate But I hold the wire and suffocate myself and then the blood does not reach my hands and my body I do not feel them and then my hands relax more and more because I can not sense and control them and then fall on the ground and keep crying This is the story of my life so far Sorry if there are many words that are not read because I am not English and I have not learned English completely I am an Egyptian girl in the Arab countries I use the translator to write all this
Sara TV that's quite fine, but this, as you said, is the story of your life so far. It doesn't have to be the end. Suicide doesn't work. What I've learned is the Life is harder than Death. But please don't give up. Though death is easier, don't take the easy way out. There So much you can do: Sara, one day instead of saying your fine. Say that you need something. A part of your life is gone and the pieces maybe scattered and tiny and the glue takes long to dry. You may say your fine, and know deep inside you aren't. But that shouldn't stop you. Like I said before this is the beginning of YOUR story. This is the part of your book where the ship hits an physical black hole and its sucking them in. But in every story there can be a way out. But the thing is you have to that way out. You can't give up. Don't give up. Don't hold that deep breath, Let it out and take another one, And keep breathing. 💙Deep breaths Sara💙 Stay alive, Sara. If not for you than do it for me.💙 This world needs you, even if you can't see it now.💙 💙You will I promise💙
Glamour Gamer she is my sister she is gone 😢 she doesn't here any more she just 10 years old I'm the big fault. She read all I write I write Sara TV because . Her' s dream was to be a famous youtuber I'm sorry but did you felt that I always feel it's my fault to make my little sister gone .... I will never see her again The first my dad The second my grand pa The third my sister and my grandma What should I do now I just crying and crying My little brother doesn't know and he still 5 years old my mother I can't see her years any more Because who? Because me ... Because me I want to die but I know my brother will become an only child And my mom I don't know how can she live with that I don't know... I don't know
Sara TV then concluded her dream. It's not your fault, none of it is. I'll be damned if you blame yourself. Don't leave them. Don't leave me. If you need someone to say something other than I'm Fine talk to me. Right here. I'm not going to leave, and I never will. But don't go please💙
@@roddyroddy132 I mean, that girl looks perfect, but then I see myself and I see something very different, something horrible. My friend tells me the same, but then I say that "You look perfect, girl. I am the ugly one". And the same continues on and on again. I hope you understood it. Edit: I think I'm not the only one. Look everyone's replies, they agree with me.
i'm sorry for you feeling this, just remember you are not alone. people around you care about you, we will help you through this! stay safe and be yourself
A day will come when I will hold you in my arms , wipe away your tears I will show you what true love and friend means, I will sath beside you forever.... Wait for me please ,when my time comes I will make sure to take your hand and never let it go ... But when we meet, wait for me I wait for you
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD and the wages of sin is death, but the Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST JESUS our LORD, Who not only gave us life but laid down HIS very own precious Life for us all so that we may be saved by HIS grace through faith in HIM alone. please stop living in sin and live all to the glory of the LORD GOD Almighty alone, that you become a son/daughter of our Heavenly FATHER and be sealed by HIS HOLY SPIRIT! :)
“But you have a great life, you always seem so happy!” and "I know how you feel but don't worry you'll be fine" is never things to say to someone it could make life worse
me: **has depression** everyone else: jUsT tRy tO bE pOsiTiVE aNd hAve A gOoD aTtiTUdE me: OMG WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT :/ edit: *PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU ATTACK ME*i understand that it's hard to help people who are struggling with things like this, and i appreciate the effort. i do. 100%. it's just frustrating when you try to tell us something that's so obvious that we would have already done it if it actually worked. Like um if i'm depressed i can just suddenly decide to happy? Sorry but no that's not how it works. thank you for your time.
I've never actually cut my wrist with a knife before. I've always had some weird fear of knives for some reason, so I've never been really able to do that. But that doesn't mean I don't self-harm. Actually, I just did my first self-harm about a week ago. I scratched and scratched this spot on my wrist until it bled. It's still scabbed up. I have a hard time lying too, but I've figured out a way around that by doing a ‘select truths’ thing. Like when I was asked how I got that, I simply said “oh, I just scratched on something”. It worked. And that WAS the truth. I did scratch it on something; *my fingernail*
As a teen who has been through pretty severe depression (and might again :/), i just want to say, you're not alone. Depression sucks so much and just PLEASE don't feel guilty about wanting to end your life and not having a motivation to stay alive. Say you have the most amazing family but even that doesn't give any motivation, please.dont.feel.guilty! The video said only 30% of teens with depression are being treated for it. Become one of them. You will feel so proud if and when you overcome the depression moster. So i just want to say, you can do this ml
@@blackmamba9309 Thanks. I'm better now, but last year was really hard for me. If anyone need help, conversation or understanding, I've been through this so I'm here if you need me 😉
I want my future self to hug my current self, telling me... everything is going to be ok Edit (1/1/22): thank you all so much for the nice comments💕It makes me feel so loved
everything's going to be okay, i promise :) just keep fighting and dont be scared to show emotions, we all have been there. you are not alone, i love you and stay strong
After losing my mom I have been depressed for now almost a year. She was my everything and best friend who never neglected me. I don't know what to do with my life even though I promised to keep her legacy going
I am a Master in the Arts of hiding my emotions I am an Expert Tailor when weaving lies I am comfortable in the silences that unnerve others And I am an Artist when imagining places to hide Others call me beautiful when I wear my mask called a Smile But when I take it off im called sensitive and a weak child I know this is difficult for others to see But I know for a fact My Trauma Doesn’t Define Me
My family don't believe I have mental health issues but they don't know much about me really...i mean if they took a closer look it would be easy to realize
I couldn’t get chance in a University in first time. & I feel extremely depressed. I wanna try for a second time, but my parents and everyone acting so harsh and cold. I don’t think anyone is beside me anymore, and I am alone in this. My own tears at late night is probably my only friend.
It's so sad because I'm the person who makes everyone happy and laugh in my school. they see me as the happy person but when I come home I'm like the whole new person. Gone is the happy person ... Edit: Thanks for the likes. We're all in this together✨
@Hibah Miah damn. that isn't even a friend, but i feel you. it seems like people just don't get it. people don't get the pain and they make it worse without even knowing. but i get it, i'm with you. don't do anything dangerous, please. you're loved.
@Hibah Miah this is the best thing someone told me, lately. i'll keep you in my prayers too. if you want to talk, here i am. seriously. i wish you the best too 🥺💕
Hibah Miah me too and people are always like you can’t be depressed you smile all the time and know one thinks that I’m sad and my mom won’t take me to get help because she doesn’t think I am depressed
Can't hug but can say u can cry now armyyyyy 💜. U can cry now. Let u r feelings out and get rid of it , Don't think about the society,. " We r not ugly the society's thinking is ugly " . Remember
Depression is like drowning, while everyone else is shouting at u to breathe.
Piney_ Studios This is very true.
True af
My dad keeps telling me not to be a victim. He doesn’t understand that there’s a difference between wanting help and needing help
No one yells for me to breath.
they tell u to learn "how to swim" fr
Its like being tired but sleep doesn’t help
I feel like sometimes sleep is more demanding than being awake
Ikr
Yeah but there’s a little more to it
@Faith Get with God he would change your life promise me I had suicide thoughts and I wanted to kill myself really badly I cried every day I felt that I was so unworthy I faked a smile everyday telling my friends and family that I was doing perfectly even though I wasn't the reason I felt so unworthy it's because I felt that nobody loved me until I saw an add on youtube it changed my life it talked about how god can change you life so I decided to give it a try so I did I read my bible and pray to God to remove my depression and it worked and I now I'm happy Christian thanks to God. If you have any questions you can connect my Instagram its april91225.
yea , like you have no energy but sleeping doesnt help
From crying loudly so that our parents can hear us to crying silently so that no one can hear us.
We grew up.
This hits hard 💕
:((((((
it really hit hard personally.....
relatable..
Relate...
Asking a depressed person, "Why are you depressed? Life is beautiful" is like asking some one with asthma "Why do you have asthma? There is so much air to breath"
True 😑
true
for me life isnt beautiful at all, its cruel as fuck
@@bubblelovessans same
Omggg
I would argue that a variation of the first question would be good though. The conversation has to start somewhere. I would agree can't start from a "just feel better!" standpoint, but to try and understand and show empathy to that person. I say this as a dad who has a son who struggles mightily with mental health, the best step was letting him know we knew and that we were trying to help and understand. He was resistant to that first conversation but we have seen improvements in his openness with us since then.
3 million people clicked on a video called
"I'm fine. Teen depression "
Think about that for a second
Irene PHAN Winchester jeez that just goes to show...
I don't get it
You forgot that it is a Teen Depression PSA
3.3 m now...+1
Just shows that you are not ALONE
telling someone to be happy when they are depressed is like telling a cancer person to heal themselves.
I am stealing this sentence
Watch jaden animations the made a whole vid on this...
Or u stole those words from her
Not liked that because now I feel loved again but not totally feel that
Please don’t use the term “cancer person” it’s extremely rude and hurtful especially to me because I have a sibling with leukemia.just say someone with cancer jeez
Yea someone said that too me today he Just tried to be kind i cant blame him
"Nobody really cares until something dramatic happens."
Imma check who asked
Kaz The Kitsune what?
😂
Kaz The Terrible Commenter I did.
Me looking for who asked:
"Dead people receive more flowers than people who are living because regret is stronger than gratitude."
*'Nobody truly appreciates that person until they die'*
“You don’t know what you got till it’s gone”
I tried suicide once and when I came out alive my parents screamed at me
And yes, “I’m fine...”
They never do. Even sometimes then, they don't.
so true
@Vũ Ngọc Bảo Hân I hope You are okay!!
@@chillgilli3200 they really did that?I'm sorry hope you are ok
Saying “just be happy” to a person with depression is the same as throwing a baby in the sea and yelling “just swim”
true words
iT's NoT tHaT hArD
sadly it is
True
Same with saying "Just don't be stressed" to a person with Anxiety!
I hate when someone says "just be positive", or ," it's just hormones, you'll be fine, it's just a phase".
Or when people gatekeep depression saying you are just faking it it’s not real because a doctor hasn’t diagnosed you yet...
I hate when you tell them why you are depressed and they say "just don't worrie about it" or "your fine" or even "forget about you passed" like how am I supposed to forget what my step mom did to me when I was 3 up till I was 9 btw I'm 12 ya not very easy to forget
the worst is when they say "but you have a great life!" well, news flash, it doesn't matter how good my life is, besides they know nothing of the sort so why would they assume shit?
@@smellyal8trstinky I feel the same way, I have tried telling one of my friends who I considered a sister, but she said that I had not right to complain because I had more than her. Now I don't tell anyone around me anything besides, "I'm fine". I was placed on this pedestal and am now afraid that is I mess up in the smallest of ways or tell people the truth, that they will see me different and judge me wrong and say that "it is all in my head". It is at the point where I don't know if I want to get out of bed today, it is already almost 2 pm and I still don't have the will to even get out of bed... what's wrong with me?
Person That exists that’s fair though. If you haven’t been diagnosed, only you are saying your depressed. Depression is not something to be wanted or to be messed around with, it’s a genuine condition. You might not be faking it but it might be something else or a symptom or another problem 🤷♀️
It's funny how a stranger whom you haven't meet in your entire life or never will understands you more than your own family
True.. Soo true
My bestie min♥️
But now for 5 days she is ignoring me.. And idk why😖😭
Yah damn true missing my dear best friend
@@urbancafe6022 hello.
Please don't be sad .
You'll make new friends 😊
so truee.
I also have a friend but it's been awhile since she called and talked to me.
"When a lonely person says 'Leave me alone' what they really mean is 'Show me you care enough to stay'"
~Unknown
It's kinda like hannah's story
Honesty same...
same
Mmmh no, when I say leave me alone I mean it literally 🙃
With me it's not like that. I just want to be left alone to cry in my room and get mad at my parents for not leaving me alone...
“why don’t you tell anyone”
well, no one asks, no one sees, no one will care.
I told someone... He didn't care, he still treated me like I was garbage. Even more...
No one will understand🙂
Told my frnds but I am first to go through this shit
@@JenellePena-fc6xv then why are you happy
i feel that if i tell someone they will say: why, you have northing to be sad of you are suck a attention seeker
When the girl deleted "I'm depressed" then typed "I'm fine"
Gosh..I can't even remember how many times this has happened to me....
Uchiha Saki me
Omg same, my friends will just say "hi how are you" and then I would type "I want to die rn" but then delete it and type "I'm good thanks how are you" and send it, sometimes I get scared I might send the last one tho
Sameeeeee
I have never connected so much with a stranger before
𝓑𝓮𝓽𝓱 #Sub2TomGW I know how you feel, but sweetheart you’re not a burden. Your feelings matter, your well being matters, your health matters, your heart matters, your brain matters. Your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual pain matters. You as a human being matter! I don’t know what you’re going through or how you’re exactly feeling, or coping with it but please know that you are truly never alone. I’ve been suicidal, depressed, and anxiety driven my whole life...etc... I’ve been hospitalized twice for suicidal tendencies & self harm...etc... I’ve been self harming for 5/6 years, I recently relapsed after being clean for like a year I believe. I know what it feels like to think that no one cares, that you’re only worthless, ugly, fat, not good enough...etc... maybe you think all your worth is nothing but negativity. I know what it feels like to just be completely alone, broken, empty, numb, discontent. Like you’re drowning, trapped and can’t be saved no matter how hard you try! I know what it’s like to not know what exactly you want, you just want to feel alive! & be happy but it’s like the universe has everything against you and you’re being punished. You question what you’ve possibly done to deserve so much hurt but never get an answer for it...maybe you make your own? They’re definitely not true, but you believe so. You want to give up, feel there’s no point. One minute all you want is to be alone and drown everyone out, you may not be fond of people, want lots of friends or company around that much, but the next minute all you want is someone to hold you, hug you, and show they care & acknowledge you’re suffering. Many people love you, but you likely don’t feel that way. All you feel is stuck, paranoid, and possibly overthink constantly. You beat yourself for everything, even small things. I suffer from nightmares, PTSD, OCD thoughts, Bipolar...etc... & so much more like Body Dysmorphia and ADHD. I’ve been through a lot in only 18y of my life. I’ve seen a lot & been exposed to a lot at such a young age. I know what it’s like to feel or be misunderstood all the time, or that no one will truly listen or care even if they say otherwise. To feel like suicide is the only option, only answer to end all the agonizing & exhausting life you no longer want to live, maybe never wanted to live in the first place? To feel nothing but hopeless, I’ve felt it! I’ve dealt with many fake friends, and people who never cared, still don’t care & never genuinely listened to any of my feelings or what I had to say. You’re worth more then what your mind wants you to believe, I’m sure you’re a very smart, bright girl. You’re beautiful. A real friend, and someone who truly cares about you & loves you won’t ever mind hearing about any of your problems, they will stay by your side to support & love you at all times. You’re never a burden, a mistake, a disappointment, let alone a waste of space. I don’t know if you have any dreams, or future careers you want to get into but you can do it! I promise you can. I know it’s not easy but anything is possible. You can’t just snap out of depression, it takes patience, effort but most importantly consistency & time. I myself haven’t got much better I am still struggling. Just know that no one is perfect, we all make mistakes, we’re all human! we all have are own flaws & imperfections. I know what it’s like to be insecure, to constantly compare yourself to others and feel everyone else is much better then you or that everyone is against you, just feels sorry for you, or maybe they don’t even feel sorry but are messing with you for the fuck of it. I’ve been bullied my whole life, and never had much friends. I’ve never been much of a social person growing up, I’m still not. I’m honestly a misanthrope. I’ve been bullied & outcasted by my own family, I don’t have a dad or much of a mom because she’s mentally ill...My family that has raised me has done nothing but put me through hell. No matter how much I tried to get help, it always backfired! I still haven’t been able to achieve the blessings I know I deserve in life, but I try and keep trying to give myself that one more day. If you ever need or want someone to talk to I am always here, no matter the time, day, when, how or why! I will always be down to listen this goes for any person that comes across this and reads it, even if it’s years or months down the line. I love you all and I care! ❤️❤️
As a teenager…I am depressed and I don’t even know why I cry so much, or get to stressed at school…I hide it so well and it hurts 😭
Ya and you want to die because it feels like the only escape right?
Same
I feel you man
im so so so sorry i hope ur okay..
i fully understand if it feels embarrasing to let someone know, but please do it. there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed off. letting someone you trust know how you feel is the most right thing in the world
I know that it's been 8 months, but I feel you, I relate to this, and if you need to vent, I will be here. As a random stranger in a youtube comment section
"you can tell me anything" says my parents.
me: starting to tell them,
them: starts to insult me.
Whenever i try and talk to my mom she gets angry and says i dont appreciate everything she does for me... As if materialistic things are my parent😔
truth
Exactly
I relate. And because of that, I barely speak to my parents any more
Literally same
Girl: depressed
Other kids: stays away from her
Girl: kills herself
Other kids: wow I wish I would of known
I just realized I have 666 likes 😬
The Purple Croissant or saying they were the best friend they could be smh
Zexiffy yep
The place where i live, people even curse those who commit suicide😔
It’s true no one cares
Generation z is gonna be the best parents. We understand mental health, why we use our phones so much , school pressure, fake friends.
Yes. :c
You know it
right?
ha funny thing is a girl texts her saying how are you? Ha nobody texts me 🙃
ɱεl xox how are you ?
The worst part is being so damn tired, but unable to sleep until your body just gives out, and then waking up even more exhausted than before.
Depression is like your dead inside and your body is alive...and I feel that way all day
Soft Girll omg so true you feel like you’re not really there but it’s just your body
I went through depression when I lost a loved one. During that time I questioned my existence, and couldn't understand the purpose of life. I felt useless and worthless. I couldn't focus because I was so confused that I couldn't comprehend the meaning of those words. It was so... hard.
I got over it almost three months later and just imagining a person going through it all the time, I just want to let you know...
You are NOT worthless.
You are NOT useless.
Your existence is very important and someone, someone you might not even know, loves you and if they lose you, they will feel the same way. Live your life to its fullest. You never know how long you got.
LOVE YOU!
@@shahmeenkhan204 Thank you soo much🥰💓
@@najafafzal Stay strong, my heart goes to you and everyone going through depression.
@@shahmeenkhan204 Thanks😔
Parents: It's hard to be an adult
Teens: *am I a joke to you?*
And kids
I'm not an adult myself, but adults do go through a lot.
@@tinadompim2634 so do kids/teens
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Being a teen these days is the worst I personally think it’s harder being a teen
"I'm not hungry anymore''
That hit *harder* then I was expecting.
Yeah
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same
Mhm expect it’s the opposite for me. I struggle with binge eating
fr
As a depressed teenager, can confirm that whenever I exist, orchestral music follows me around.
Woah, this is amazing
My parents said: ,,cmon it’s not that bad.“
my friends said: ,, stop being dramatic.“
My depression said:,, end it.“
And my anxiety said:,,what if..“
Bilel Khasskhousi my insta is @lily.ramming
My name khasskhousibilel on insta
Wow accurate
I hate it when people call me dramatic because they don't know what I'm going through and they don't know how I feel about different things. Is it like that for you to?
Natalie Davis yes
"Depression begins with the thought that no one understands your thoughts"
So true
Frrrrr
Because no one does XD
They really don't, and you feel like you can't tell them bc you are scard of what might happen? Am I right?
@@cuteangels7138 you are so right
Fine.
F: frightened
I: insecure
N:negative
E: emotional
you are strong
The pfp is making me not taking it seriously
@@mynickname11 same
@Shorter than ur dates 😂😂😂
Same with me
2k dislikes are from our parents.They will never understand how hard it is to live in this generation.
"I am the way, the truth, and the life." John 14:6
Jesus is our hope. He died for us in a cross so we can have eternal life because of His sacrifice. In Him we find perfect peace:
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
Jesus loves you, go to Him! It will be your best decision and i know that because it was mine. When I was anxious, I found peace on Him and in what He said. You can find too!♥️
I believe some Parents are compassionate enough to be able to put Themselves into the Shoes of their Kids and I know what You mean.
Just convert to islam.
@@aghrom7675 terrorists? We have nough of them and other dumbshit religions that only control and brainwash people you dumb dingus of a bot.
@@Jinx-z2g Terrorists doesn't represent islam and muslims, because they got it wrong.
“it’s because of that goddam phone”
~ parents of 2020
aubreyy and 2020.
it's because it is.. believe it or not *SOMETIMES* people get sad because they look "ugly" which there not and they could get jealous of other people online "there prettier". Just like how Charli D'amelio got plastic surgery.. it's sad how people hate the way they look when there gorgeous.
Dont be worried about what other people think because if you look around. Everyone's doing there own thing.
Same..
does this mean all parents in 2019 or THE best parent of 2019?
@@Chloe-gy1dt yeah no
Other person:are you ok?
Me:ya I'm fine I'm just tired
My head:tired of trying,tired of not fitting in and being perfect,tired of myself being ugly and dumb.
your so pretty and nice the way you are
I think thoughs all the time when I say I'm finr
U have said my word
And ofc...
Tired of lying about how you rly feel...
Me too
Parents : talk to us about anything
Me: tells them
Parents : compares me to other kids and tells me to be like them
yes-
Im a teenager, but I also get compared a lot
@@Nada-yt4qv im 10- :0
Yups i can relate it very much
So true--
this brought me to tears. it’s honestly heartbreaking how relatable this is, i hope everyone else going through this knows that you’re not alone, we can get through this ❤️
*hug* thats right, you're not alone💜💜
People be like "just be happy, don't be depressed."
Please call 1-800-273-8255 to talk. mental illness is a well known mercury toxicity symptom, and some handle the toxicity better than others, but some get these kind of issues, autism, low immune system, ADHD, gut issues, allergies etc. I would encourage anyone struggling look into the Andrew Cutler Protocol. This is the ONLY safe protocol to this date, eating things like chlorella and cilantro has made people very very sick. Please read the child recovering stories by googling «cutler success stories child» and «cutler success stories adult» . But the best place to learn and get support is trough the Facebook group «Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox». But whatever you do, never take/eat cilantro, chlorella, MSM, glutathione, and ALA/DMPS/DMSA that is not according to the Andrew Cutler Protocol, you can read some peoples horror stories by googling «Andy Cutler what not to do». Wish you all the best!
I hate when someone say this..
leigh• anne• and like, you look sad what’s up
Then we be like "easy for you to say you don't Know what we go through every fucking day"
No one chooses to be depressed..
“Are you okay” and “how are you” are one of the hardest questions to answer...
i am here
please talk to me
Yeah I know......
It's the hardest question....
And you know what is even worse?
It's that I can't even fake a smile sometimes cause I feel too numb.
Because everyone sees right through it
@@sarahemilywhite I can relate . I had faked smiles or laugh many times before . Now , I just feel like it's okay if someone thinks I'm giving an attitude . It's okay if they think I'm being rude .
Luckily I’ve never been asked…
Actually, I don’t think that’s lucky…
the only person to ever wonder and ask if i'm okay is my little brother. he's so much more understanding and supportive and caring than my parents. i always get so emotional whenever he's concerned about me.
Depression makes the question "How are you?" so difficult to answer...
Yes, exactly!
You feel either nothing or you feel horrible. But it is so hard to put it in words...
And sometimes, you don't even know how you feel.
I hope that I will overcome this time soon.
Stay strong, whoever is reading this. ❤
Yes!! I always feel like I shouldn't even exist here...
@@rosiebellamy3018 I am blue today...
And we finally say 'i'm fine',even though we r not.
@@chrissiblumenkohl1348 we feels empty😔
Depression is like screaming with no one there to listen.
I started crying because this is exactly how i feel
When I saw Your Comment I started Crying Without Any reason
Same :)
Same
Same
@I doN.t Need this LiFe you've got this! I'm recovering and I feel so much better now! Please don't give up on yourself❤
All my love!
How i see the word "Fine"
F:Faking
I:Insecure
N:Nothing
E:Enough
That's impressive. It reminds me of F.A.S.T., the acronym for stroke, and C.A.U.T.I.O.N., the acronym for cancer.👍
Fr I'm not depressed but I always hated that word
I once said, "I'm fine"...
But I was
The word fine has nothing to do with it. It's just a typical word that someone can use fine or not.
Faking
Is
Never
Enough
Is that good too?🙂
When she changed the reply to "I'm fine" it hurt
Its relatable😞
It's totally relatable
Yep
I say I'm fine...... when I'm not 😞
When you LITERALY have deep depression and you read this message and then you REALIZE in what have you become...
the fact that yesterday my best friend texted me "how are you" and I just responded with "I'm fine" too
omg these comments :'(
my heart goes out to every single one of you
thanks, life is hard for people who are always in a sinkhole. yknow, people like me.
Life's hard for anyone, you're awesome just how you are! No one's perfect ok?
Awww thanx
Life is hard because my hair is ugly
I’m ugly
Sometimes I feel invisible when im around my "friends"
it’s okay😂 also “around” lol. it’s all
good😂
Nah u good bro( or sis or sibling I don’t wanna assume ur gender
Sameeee 😢
Same :(
Damn Suzy really is mean
"You weren't born ugly, we just live in a judgmental community"
-unknown
Adanely Samayoa that was Kim Namjoon from bts. “Nobody is ugly, we are just born in a judgemental society.”
@@stobit3397 oh ok
Kim namjoon for president:>
Namjoon never really said that, lol. Or at least, I've never found him saying or writing it.
@@stobit3397
I don't think Kim made up that quote. Probably referenced it.
The quite is a few years old.
Who knows?
"You never know who" is so true. I am sure that some "happy" people around me may have depression.
I'm depressed too. I don't want to open up about it not just because of being afraid of being criticised instead of being understood but also afraid of spreading negativity to people around me.
Girl: I'm fat.
Other girl: NOOOOO you aren't!
Guy: I'm fat.
Other guy: lmao yeah
@احمد AT chill dude
@احمد AT fucking chill "aHmED", we all know this is true
Lmao thats so true though boys have a weird friendship
my friend said she was fat everybody took pity on her, and i said yes you are fat. she just started screaming and everyone attaked me. what am i supposed to do, stand there?
Ong 😂
Never show the world what u feel
You'll just be misunderstood
They'll just call you atention-seeker
That's how dark the world is
Then let us be the light my friend! Let's push out there hatred and become our own light
Yes it is
People just say you are faking it WHICH IS VERY ROOD and might make someone even more depressed so plz stop saying that they are faking bc you dont know what they will do to themselves to hide it beleive me I am a persob who hides my depression
the worst part is that you're right
Corinne Irish Angeles ....so true....🖤
The thing is most people with depression don’t wanna say becasue they might feel that people think they are lying or overreacting
10 subs without any vids ! True I have a friend and didn’t know she was depressed until we were going away with our orchestra for one week (I don’t know how to say it in english I’m from germany) and when we were going to eat she always had to take medicaments and then we ask why she had to take them and told us about it
Yep that's exactly that, when someone kills themselves people always say "why they didn't told us ??" But when someone actually does, they're "attention seeker" so that's why we're 70% without help
I’m scared that if I’ll tell someone, they’ll say that I’m doing it for attention.
Melena Davis I had to go through that and when I finally told my friends they started laughing and saying sure 😭 I hope your ok 💔 I am here if you wanna talk
I don't say anything because if no one cares it hurts even worse and i don't know if i can handle that
I’m not depressed, but I feel exactly like that. And I’m so sorry for everyone else who feels that way too.
I just realised... I’m the one to ask my friends “How are you?” but they never ask me.
Edit: i deleted the vent cause i felt like i was seeking for attention and didnt want people to think im an attention seeker
But again, thank you guys. ❤️
same :(
StillAPeiceOf Garbage me too
Same
same ;(
This is too relatable, it freaking hurts 😔 I don’t know how to get through life anymore at this point I keep on messing up ugh
What People hear.:
I'm fine.
I'm just tired.
Leave me alone.
I miss the old days.
What We Really Mean:
Help me.
I wanna die.
Please stay..
I miss the old me.
Galaxy Wolf Girl yea. That’s what i think, and that’s my depression.
I suffer from depression and that is what I always mean when I say thoughs to my friends when they ask whats wrong
me tho
@Polina Huber i have real positive, nice friends and i'm still pessimistic as hell. doesn't make a difference.
Thats true. Im so tired of all this shit that happen in my life
If I tell my parents I have depression they will tell "it is cause of your phone" I am 100% sure
Edit: everyone is going through the same problem as me. It makes me so sad
:( hope everything gets fine
Same, my parents say i am the only kid who uses phone too MUCH in the world
@@aestheticyoongi7263 i use my phone way too much, i bet i use it more than you, but its not a problem because (some people, including me) use their devices to escape reality, at least thats what i do.
@@aestheticyoongi7263 same
@@aestheticyoongi7263 it's a fucking truth ..they always tell me that
So true😭
My friend went through a dark phase , she was depressed most of the time, I wanted to help, by hugging, caring, making her smile or laugh, but unfortunately she doesn’t live in my village. I text her to ask how she’s feeling, I try calling her.. but still not helpful. The depressing thing is that she HATES herself. I try showing her how much we love her, but this won’t change the fact that YOU hate yourself.
I think she feels better now, it’s not because of me, it’s because she’s strong, so to every girl who’s reading this, you are so strong, and with time, you can definitely defeat depression. I wish you all a happy and a safe life.💕
depression isn't just crying all night or saying I'm fine when you're really not. It's also all the mornings you can't get out of bed, all the days that go by in fog, and all the nights you wonder why you're even still here.
It's strange how sometimes a stranger whom you haven't even see in your whole life understands you more than your own family
@@pallabchowdhury5045 yeah !
A day will come when I will hold you in my arms , wipe away your tears I will show you what true love and friend means, I will sath beside you forever....
Wait for me please ,when my time comes I will make sure to take your hand and never let it go ...
But when we meet wait for me I wait for you
I'm sorry for you feeling this ): You're strong, never give up
@@luciaamo7979 it comes and goes, it gets better and worse :)))
"Only 30% of teenagers with depression are being treated for it" welp I gues im in the 70%
Metoo😞😞
Me too
Same here😔😢🥳
@Moonlight_bae well, you can ask for help, yes?
Same :/
“Your fine”
“It’s just a mood swing”
“You’ll get over it”
“It’s hormones”
I can’t sleep at night knowing that nobody bothers to ask me if I’m okay
Are you ok?
Now somebody asked you. Hope you sleep netter now
Are you alright? I care. You really do matter & I’m always here if you want to talk!
Does seeing comments of people you will never meet in real life make you feel better?Stop complaining and do something instead
@@OndrejSlam that's so unnecessarily rude! They can spend their time however they want to
@@Julia-en5ys I'm not rude,sweetheart.I am just being honest.
It's funny when you yourself is depressed but you comfort others
"You never know who" at that moment I put my head down and knew, I was one of those 70% of people who isn't getting help.
same, i hate it so much
Same 😓
Same...
Same
Stay strong!
"I'm fine" is probably the phrase i will you the most in my life
“It’s a phase”
“It’s your hormones”
“Stop being dramatic”
“Stop doing this for attention”
Nobody cares until that person commits suicide. That’s when they wanna say “I never would’ve thought” “I can’t believe she/he did that”
Ikr!
They just pretend they care after you death
Yah true,like my parents, they didn't care to me,they don't love me
Yep all they tell me is jade your growing!!! * tears run down my eyes* "okay"
I get told that second one everyday.
I'm just about to go on 13, and I've been depressed since I was nine. I got help when I was about ten, went to therapy for a few sessions, showed maybe like a sign of improvement, and was pulled out because it's too expensive. I've reached out in small ways, some bigger than others. My mom even got the hint at one point, looked me over, and said I was fine. I don't know what to do anymore.
I'm stressed. Crappy friends have given me trust issues. I'm almost hopeless.
I find it sad that UA-cam comments are the only place I feel safe to vent (it's the only form of social media I have)..
I know I'm depressed. Probably severely.
This video touches me because it feels like me. I've researched depression so much. I've typed out so many 'not so fine' messages and replaced them with a meek 'good' or 'okay'.
Please take care of yourselves. There ought to be hope somewhere.
“30% of teenagers are depressed” me a 12 year old and watched this because I wanna see if mine is just sadness or depression:
Oh...do some research then,did you find this video relatable? If so then you may want to talk about it with someone you trust or seek help if you think it's something more than sadness
please check my acc
Same I’m 11 and I just wanna know ....😔
me too, but I experienced it for more than 2 weeks so Idk if i have sadness or depression
Same im 11 I came back
I dont even feel like I wanna talk to my family about it. I prefer to talk to someone that has the same problem as me. And that I could be open with them.
Metoo. My fam will never understand me.😞
you can talk me ..I have been going it through same
feel free to drop me a message on instagram
ID: bear_aina
Same...
I wish I could talk to you
You can talk to me when ever you want snap : ozgeu8813
People joke about being depressed all the time. And here I am slowly beginning to lose faith in myself.. I go through hell every. single. day. I always tell myself to keep my head up and my heart strong. But I can’t do it anymore. People don’t understand me at all, that’s why I don’t talk about how I feel anymore. I’ve lost to trust people
Girl shut up i dont play about dat shit so bye
That was me at one point... I felt sad all the time I felt like I was empty inside it’s just this weird bad feeling ..but one thing don’t ever lose faith my love ..never everything happens for a reason probably to make you stronger or to learn how to fight your battles better next time there are complications when I say everything happens for a reason I say that because I love you you are a human and I may not know you but you’re strong 💘💘 you could of been gone 4 days ago but no you’re still here and if you’ve made it till now you can make it your whole life till you have a family and live happily ever after NEVER loose hope ily❤️💞💘💜❤️💞💘💜
Lulu Nanita The single most difficult part of depression is the inability to get up and do the things that make you feel better. The lack of motivation. I started going to a gym and that is definitely a good thing to do as you will feel better when you finish a workout. Even just the little things like getting up to go for a walk will make a difference. It's all Bout keeping busy. If you have the courage to speak with someone about it, that's wonderful. I never did, with time it will start to disappear. But I had to force myself so hard to get up and do things. Give it a try even when you feel like you just can't do anything. It will make a difference. If you're in school, try your best in all your classes. If you're in a sport, dedicate your time into being the best you can possibly be at it. If you're good at drawing or anything else out there, put your efforts into it. You will start to feel much better about yourself.
NobleGamingM600 I suck at everything even at school
Lulu Nanita that's what I told myself too but then I ended up on the dean's list. You have to want to get better! Over time you will grow out of these feelings but you need to make a conscious effort to do so now
Parents say "everything is because of your phone" but seriously for few years my phone is thhe only one that has taught me and helped me get back up more than my parents ever did..
"Stop being dramatic, you aren't depressed, stop being sad, be happy"
Why do people say this? It's not like i want to be sad, people aren't sad because they don't want to happy, but they can't help it, sometimes I don't even know the reason behind my sadness, I feel so empty as if I've lost all my emotions...it's hard to be happy.
saaammmeeeee.............
Same😞
i had always thought my sadness was a part of my personality..i just don't know anymore tho
totally feel y
my mom be saying that to me it's like she expects me to be happy and that's the thing I don't know how anymore .
I hide a smile everyday and try to make everyone one around me happy while I feel dead inside.
So do I 😐 nobody can tell how I really feel cuz I dont show my emotions but I always make sure everyone else is happy or having fun
@@nobodysbusiness6796 Same
Felt
Ok…all the parents say “it’s the phone.” But seriously my phone helped me get back up!
❤️
exactly
Fr its my only escape
Ik- it's weird. The other day when the Facebook shit happened my mom started explaining why social media made teens feel like they werent pretty enough and be depressed. But I don't even have social media (YT isnt considered social media to me) and I feel insecure. It's weird, and I'm prolly gtting to personal.
Ya my parents always say I’m addicted to my phone but in reality it keeps me from thinking what’s happening around me and in this world…
I wish I could hug you guys and tell you it gonna be okay 💙
when my parents found out that i had depression,
they blamed it on my phone
The first thing my parents says when i'm upset:
"Hey,is something going on online? Like cyberbullying?"
...now this is ridiculous...
this is why I cant't tell my family when I had depression or a problem :(
me too.
chxrry bun they blame everything on phones. Yes mother my phone called me ugly, discipline it please it deserves it
Same, and they always tall about how in their generation this in their generation that, but no matter how many times i tell them its a new generation they say that theirs was the "BEST" one
People Ask ” are you okay”
And you say ” Yeah Im fine”
Its so hard to answer sometimes
yea and when you just stops to think about the words "i'm fine"
It is hard because if u say:"no, i am not fine i am actually depressed af." they would say:"oh but life is so good!" or something like:"but you need to see therapist. " or even:"God you are so ungreatfull." bitch don't you see i'm trying so hard? I really am...
Why would someone ask me whether I'm ok
They don't care if you want to tell them....they will completely ignore it...
"No one seems to notice when **you're down*, unless...*you're bleeding**
But sometimes, **the worst wounds** are the ones that **you can't see.** "
i wish there's still the future me that is truly healed and happy. proud of the current me. saying everything is going to be okay, you've handled it well. each breath is a struggle now.
ua-cam.com/video/zLjtAzcYa0A/v-deo.html
omggg I know that feeling.... listen to this song🥺 it's too damn relatable.... It made me tear up 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤😭😭😭😭
I think teenage is the worst stage , it is full of anxiety ,frustration and, guilt .All the bad things come in my mind all the bad thought , bad memory and some times i cry after going to bed because of all the things happening .
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something,but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you, okay?
@@supravietuitoriblog547 Thanks for the care ☺️, but I'm okay now . I except my life and things happening .
Best wishes for you 👍
@@_mahjabeen_4236 I'm happy for you!
I agree
i turned 13 a few months ago, and rn i feel like if i was in literal hell oof
i feel tired, numb and sad almost all the time, and i miss being a kid so much
fuck growing up, but i cant do anything about it since its a part of life
My definition of “fine” depressed, alone, stressed, stupid, tired, hate myself, nobody loves me, nobody understands me, I’m useless, how would people feel if I were dead?
hey. it’ll get better i promise. there are people out there that love you and if you die, you are just passing ur pain onto someone else. you’re not alone 💟 i’m here to speak
Same
@@spkothdvll how are we passing the pain? It will be end of the pain. Don't you think?
@@ankitaprasad5713 It's like making them feel regret for what they did to you. Some people still loves you even you didn't know
@@rainehanc240 No I don't want them to regret. Because without me there life would be much better. And I don't think they love me anymore!
This is how it feels for me..
I'm tired but I can't sleep
I'm sad but I can't show it
I'm stressed but have to hold it
I'm angry, but too well at holding it in
I'm hungry but can't eat
I know I'm depressed, but they don't know it
magical demi I know how you feel, but if you don't tell them they will never know. Don't be like me and not tell them because if you tell tem its, for real, a weight off your chest.💙 you can do even if your mom will be sad, she can help you and you both can help each other💙 Don't Ever Give Up Though💙
Glamour Gamer
wolfy burg
I feel exactly what I feel when I'm 12 and my father died and I'm 7 years old and feel everything you feel
. My life is like fog I feel uneasy about anything I do not care about, not even my place in life. I always regret everything I did or did not do. You should know something, no matter how you have friends or loved ones, or even if you have a best friend You should know that he will not be able to help you. If you talk to him, he interrupts you. If you do the right thing all the time, he will not do anything to you, but when you sin once you remain silent, you will never be silent about that sin.So I no longer believe that I was (my best friend )
And when you say to her I want to get rid of a little of those inside me will say is okay and when you start to mock you and say you are always sad sadness and you exaggerate so that it does not allow you to complete one word and you are interrupted and she laughs at you. And when you say to yourself why waste my time with people, they did not even return to my friends that they do not even care about me and do not feel my presence with them. I always feel that the more you smile the more you cry and when someone is not so close to you, but from the same family your mother or your father try to speak but indirectly and then say that in order to advice this advice continue to stick but after a few moments you feel why The psychological treatment is useless from all this why why.And when your mother sees your sadness and depression blinded by your vision you try to know it at the beginning and when you stand in front of it can not express can not speak can not move and say only I'm fine.
You know I tried to commit suicide three times
First at the age of ten
And the second at the age of eleven
And the third at the age of twelve
My mother and not even my brothers or my brothers have noticed, but every time I try to commit suicide I try to suffocate
But I hold the wire and suffocate myself and then the blood does not reach my hands and my body I do not feel them and then my hands relax more and more because I can not sense and control them and then fall on the ground and keep crying
This is the story of my life so far
Sorry if there are many words that are not read because I am not English and I have not learned English completely
I am an Egyptian girl in the Arab countries I use the translator to write all this
Sara TV that's quite fine, but this, as you said, is the story of your life so far. It doesn't have to be the end. Suicide doesn't work. What I've learned is the Life is harder than Death. But please don't give up. Though death is easier, don't take the easy way out. There So much you can do:
Sara, one day instead of saying your fine. Say that you need something. A part of your life is gone and the pieces maybe scattered and tiny and the glue takes long to dry.
You may say your fine, and know deep inside you aren't. But that shouldn't stop you. Like I said before this is the beginning of YOUR story. This is the part of your book where the ship hits an physical black hole and its sucking them in. But in every story there can be a way out. But the thing is you have to that way out.
You can't give up.
Don't give up.
Don't hold that deep breath,
Let it out and take another one,
And keep breathing.
💙Deep breaths Sara💙
Stay alive, Sara. If not for you than do it for me.💙
This world needs you, even if you can't see it now.💙
💙You will I promise💙
Glamour Gamer she is my sister she is gone 😢 she doesn't here any more she just 10 years old I'm the big fault. She read all I write I write Sara TV because . Her' s dream was to be a famous youtuber
I'm sorry but did you felt that
I always feel it's my fault to make my little sister gone .... I will never see her again
The first my dad
The second my grand pa
The third my sister and my grandma
What should I do now
I just crying and crying
My little brother doesn't know and he still 5 years old my mother I can't see her years any more
Because who?
Because me ... Because me
I want to die but I know my brother will become an only child
And my mom I don't know how can she live with that
I don't know... I don't know
Sara TV then concluded her dream. It's not your fault, none of it is. I'll be damned if you blame yourself. Don't leave them. Don't leave me. If you need someone to say something other than I'm Fine talk to me. Right here. I'm not going to leave, and I never will.
But don't go please💙
I want to hug my past self and tell her it wasn’t her fault and she’s worthy of love and everything good and she’s and will always be good enough..
I feel like every other person is perfect and I'm not.
Me 2
Me too
Me too
And that is not true.why do you feel it?
@@roddyroddy132 I mean, that girl looks perfect, but then I see myself and I see something very different, something horrible. My friend tells me the same, but then I say that "You look perfect, girl. I am the ugly one". And the same continues on and on again. I hope you understood it.
Edit: I think I'm not the only one. Look everyone's replies, they agree with me.
I'm not depressed, I'm just tired of everything. 😔
i'm sorry for you feeling this, just remember you are not alone. people around you care about you, we will help you through this! stay safe and be yourself
A day will come when I will hold you in my arms , wipe away your tears I will show you what true love and friend means, I will sath beside you forever....
Wait for me please ,when my time comes I will make sure to take your hand and never let it go ...
But when we meet, wait for me I wait for you
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD and the wages of sin is death, but the Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST JESUS our LORD, Who not only gave us life but laid down HIS very own precious Life for us all so that we may be saved by HIS grace through faith in HIM alone. please stop living in sin and live all to the glory of the LORD GOD Almighty alone, that you become a son/daughter of our Heavenly FATHER and be sealed by HIS HOLY SPIRIT! :)
what's wrong? I'm here for you
Im depressed and tired of everything :)
Depression is, when it feels like everything you do is wrong, but you don’t have the energy to do anything about it.
exactly
its how i feel rn
this.
“But you have a great life, you always seem so happy!” and "I know how you feel but don't worry you'll be fine" is never things to say to someone it could make life worse
me: **has depression**
everyone else: jUsT tRy tO bE pOsiTiVE aNd hAve A gOoD aTtiTUdE
me: OMG WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT :/
edit: *PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU ATTACK ME*i understand that it's hard to help people who are struggling with things like this, and i appreciate the effort. i do. 100%. it's just frustrating when you try to tell us something that's so obvious that we would have already done it if it actually worked. Like um if i'm depressed i can just suddenly decide to happy? Sorry but no that's not how it works.
thank you for your time.
kaylin marie soooo trueeeee
me everyday lol
Oh God do you have really depression?
@@lollullel1338 yes
kaylin marie I’m sorry for your situation good luck to escape from this dark tunnel
"what happened to your wrist?!"
"Oh my cat scratched me"
"But you don't have a cat"
*I know crazy right?*
I can’t believe people actually fall for that but they do
So true
I've never actually cut my wrist with a knife before. I've always had some weird fear of knives for some reason, so I've never been really able to do that.
But that doesn't mean I don't self-harm. Actually, I just did my first self-harm about a week ago. I scratched and scratched this spot on my wrist until it bled. It's still scabbed up. I have a hard time lying too, but I've figured out a way around that by doing a ‘select truths’ thing. Like when I was asked how I got that, I simply said “oh, I just scratched on something”. It worked. And that WAS the truth. I did scratch it on something; *my fingernail*
@@teamawesome5153 Please don't harm yourself, your skin is not paper :) you can talk about it with someone. I hope the best for you
I cut my legs to hide.
I'm not even sad anymore, I just feel numb, the day comes and goes, and I feel absolutely nothing.
I feel that too nowadays :(
Same
Me too
I want to give you a hug 🥺
same. i feel like we all have anhedonia due to depression.
As a teen who has been through pretty severe depression (and might again :/), i just want to say, you're not alone. Depression sucks so much and just PLEASE don't feel guilty about wanting to end your life and not having a motivation to stay alive. Say you have the most amazing family but even that doesn't give any motivation, please.dont.feel.guilty! The video said only 30% of teens with depression are being treated for it. Become one of them. You will feel so proud if and when you overcome the depression moster. So i just want to say, you can do this ml
for people who read this, thank you for staying alive
ايمن ايمن Idk why but it made me laugh 😂
This make me smile 😊. I was depressed and suicidal, but now I'm better. And I'm really happy that I didn't kill myself.
Helena Jerbić you can do it,never giveup,okayy
@@blackmamba9309 Thanks. I'm better now, but last year was really hard for me. If anyone need help, conversation or understanding, I've been through this so I'm here if you need me 😉
Afinansyah Putrifadhila your welcome 😁
That girl is so pretty. Wow.
IKR
Smh
Ikr
harlow alexa IKRRRRR
It not about how pretty she is it about how we love her in all are heart it about how we care for her
I want my future self to hug my current self, telling me... everything is going to be ok
Edit (1/1/22): thank you all so much for the nice comments💕It makes me feel so loved
everything's going to be okay, i promise :) just keep fighting and dont be scared to show emotions, we all have been there. you are not alone, i love you and stay strong
@@noomirenstrom3022 thank you! You're so sweet
@@ashlily2 You're welcome, thank you!
Sometimes things don't seems so right but at the end of every tunnel there's light. Be strong.
@@saarah9460 👍❤❤❤❤❤😔
After losing my mom I have been depressed for now almost a year. She was my everything and best friend who never neglected me. I don't know what to do with my life even though I promised to keep her legacy going
"From Fearing of darkness to finding peace in darkness" ❤️
Soo true😢
That hit hard
@@shay-heh I swear 😔
@@srushtimasdekar8990 don’t be sad🥺We’re all here for each other right?❤️
@@shay-heh yeahh we are 💜
Parents don't want to believe they might be the cause of their child's depression, so they blame it on the things we love to do.
Damn true🥺
So right
True I m really feel like I m gonna to die
This is so true
*When she said I’m so tired all the time, but wasn’t sleeping that hit deep*
I am a Master in the Arts of hiding my emotions
I am an Expert Tailor when weaving lies
I am comfortable in the silences that unnerve others
And I am an Artist when imagining places to hide
Others call me beautiful when I wear my mask called a Smile
But when I take it off im called sensitive and a weak child
I know this is difficult for others to see
But I know for a fact
My Trauma Doesn’t Define Me
Oh man it has a lot of deep meanings.
Dieing isn't the hardest part, trying to live is.
My family don't believe I have mental health issues but they don't know much about me really...i mean if they took a closer look it would be easy to realize
That my life every fucking day 😭
nobody did
Then let them know that they need to take a closer look , please talk to someone about it, I promise it will get better, I know from experience
depressedshadowed yeemo same they still hadent noticed
If you guys need to talk to someone, I’m here , I know how hard it can be but please always seek for help ❤️
*"Tell us you're problem we won't get mad"*
Heyy army, howww areee youuuu
Then they tell you " you're too young to be depressed "
"Why are you mad?!"
"We're not mad, we're disappointed"
@@nora4456 Good(:
“When have we ever got mad at you”
*Proceeds to laugh at me and belittle me and shout at me*
I couldn’t get chance in a University in first time. & I feel extremely depressed. I wanna try for a second time, but my parents and everyone acting so harsh and cold. I don’t think anyone is beside me anymore, and I am alone in this.
My own tears at late night is probably my only friend.
It's so sad because I'm the person who makes everyone happy and laugh in my school. they see me as the happy person but when I come home I'm like the whole new person. Gone is the happy person ...
Edit: Thanks for the likes. We're all in this together✨
@Hibah Miah damn. that isn't even a friend, but i feel you. it seems like people just don't get it. people don't get the pain and they make it worse without even knowing. but i get it, i'm with you. don't do anything dangerous, please. you're loved.
@Hibah Miah this is the best thing someone told me, lately. i'll keep you in my prayers too. if you want to talk, here i am. seriously. i wish you the best too 🥺💕
Same same
I have never related with another human before in my life
Hibah Miah me too and people are always like you can’t be depressed you smile all the time and know one thinks that I’m sad and my mom won’t take me to get help because she doesn’t think I am depressed
"It's because of that damn phone!!"- Literally, every parent nowadays
yeah exacly.. they dont understand
Not the same reason always..some times..this phone helps to distract my mind..!!..from..tensions..and all..!
Hmm they don't understand im still alive cuz of this phone....
they will never understand us
They don't know how phone helped us to heal mentally/physically
I want to cry so hard but I can't...I want to someone so that hug me tightly and say , " You can cry now " 🙂
Here *Hugs* (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃ Hope this helps. Remember to talk about it with someone!
me too...
@@Annika_official_music (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃ *hugs*
Can't hug but can say u can cry now armyyyyy 💜. U can cry now. Let u r feelings out and get rid of it , Don't think about the society,. " We r not ugly the society's thinking is ugly " . Remember
give me a big huge...
This generation will be so understanding! We understand mental health and the pressure school puts on some kids.