Asking a depressed person, "Why are you depressed? Life is beautiful" is like asking some one with asthma "Why do you have asthma? There is so much air to breath"
I would argue that a variation of the first question would be good though. The conversation has to start somewhere. I would agree can't start from a "just feel better!" standpoint, but to try and understand and show empathy to that person. I say this as a dad who has a son who struggles mightily with mental health, the best step was letting him know we knew and that we were trying to help and understand. He was resistant to that first conversation but we have seen improvements in his openness with us since then.
@Faith Get with God he would change your life promise me I had suicide thoughts and I wanted to kill myself really badly I cried every day I felt that I was so unworthy I faked a smile everyday telling my friends and family that I was doing perfectly even though I wasn't the reason I felt so unworthy it's because I felt that nobody loved me until I saw an add on youtube it changed my life it talked about how god can change you life so I decided to give it a try so I did I read my bible and pray to God to remove my depression and it worked and I now I'm happy Christian thanks to God. If you have any questions you can connect my Instagram its april91225.
Ik- it's weird. The other day when the Facebook shit happened my mom started explaining why social media made teens feel like they werent pretty enough and be depressed. But I don't even have social media (YT isnt considered social media to me) and I feel insecure. It's weird, and I'm prolly gtting to personal.
I hate when you tell them why you are depressed and they say "just don't worrie about it" or "your fine" or even "forget about you passed" like how am I supposed to forget what my step mom did to me when I was 3 up till I was 9 btw I'm 12 ya not very easy to forget
the worst is when they say "but you have a great life!" well, news flash, it doesn't matter how good my life is, besides they know nothing of the sort so why would they assume shit?
@@smellyal8trstinky I feel the same way, I have tried telling one of my friends who I considered a sister, but she said that I had not right to complain because I had more than her. Now I don't tell anyone around me anything besides, "I'm fine". I was placed on this pedestal and am now afraid that is I mess up in the smallest of ways or tell people the truth, that they will see me different and judge me wrong and say that "it is all in my head". It is at the point where I don't know if I want to get out of bed today, it is already almost 2 pm and I still don't have the will to even get out of bed... what's wrong with me?
Person That exists that’s fair though. If you haven’t been diagnosed, only you are saying your depressed. Depression is not something to be wanted or to be messed around with, it’s a genuine condition. You might not be faking it but it might be something else or a symptom or another problem 🤷♀️
i fully understand if it feels embarrasing to let someone know, but please do it. there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed off. letting someone you trust know how you feel is the most right thing in the world
I know that it's been 8 months, but I feel you, I relate to this, and if you need to vent, I will be here. As a random stranger in a youtube comment section
"I am the way, the truth, and the life." John 14:6 Jesus is our hope. He died for us in a cross so we can have eternal life because of His sacrifice. In Him we find perfect peace: "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27 Jesus loves you, go to Him! It will be your best decision and i know that because it was mine. When I was anxious, I found peace on Him and in what He said. You can find too!♥️
Please don’t use the term “cancer person” it’s extremely rude and hurtful especially to me because I have a sibling with leukemia.just say someone with cancer jeez
I hate it when people call me dramatic because they don't know what I'm going through and they don't know how I feel about different things. Is it like that for you to?
this brought me to tears. it’s honestly heartbreaking how relatable this is, i hope everyone else going through this knows that you’re not alone, we can get through this ❤️
it's because it is.. believe it or not *SOMETIMES* people get sad because they look "ugly" which there not and they could get jealous of other people online "there prettier". Just like how Charli D'amelio got plastic surgery.. it's sad how people hate the way they look when there gorgeous. Dont be worried about what other people think because if you look around. Everyone's doing there own thing.
Omg same, my friends will just say "hi how are you" and then I would type "I want to die rn" but then delete it and type "I'm good thanks how are you" and send it, sometimes I get scared I might send the last one tho
𝓑𝓮𝓽𝓱 #Sub2TomGW I know how you feel, but sweetheart you’re not a burden. Your feelings matter, your well being matters, your health matters, your heart matters, your brain matters. Your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual pain matters. You as a human being matter! I don’t know what you’re going through or how you’re exactly feeling, or coping with it but please know that you are truly never alone. I’ve been suicidal, depressed, and anxiety driven my whole life...etc... I’ve been hospitalized twice for suicidal tendencies & self harm...etc... I’ve been self harming for 5/6 years, I recently relapsed after being clean for like a year I believe. I know what it feels like to think that no one cares, that you’re only worthless, ugly, fat, not good enough...etc... maybe you think all your worth is nothing but negativity. I know what it feels like to just be completely alone, broken, empty, numb, discontent. Like you’re drowning, trapped and can’t be saved no matter how hard you try! I know what it’s like to not know what exactly you want, you just want to feel alive! & be happy but it’s like the universe has everything against you and you’re being punished. You question what you’ve possibly done to deserve so much hurt but never get an answer for it...maybe you make your own? They’re definitely not true, but you believe so. You want to give up, feel there’s no point. One minute all you want is to be alone and drown everyone out, you may not be fond of people, want lots of friends or company around that much, but the next minute all you want is someone to hold you, hug you, and show they care & acknowledge you’re suffering. Many people love you, but you likely don’t feel that way. All you feel is stuck, paranoid, and possibly overthink constantly. You beat yourself for everything, even small things. I suffer from nightmares, PTSD, OCD thoughts, Bipolar...etc... & so much more like Body Dysmorphia and ADHD. I’ve been through a lot in only 18y of my life. I’ve seen a lot & been exposed to a lot at such a young age. I know what it’s like to feel or be misunderstood all the time, or that no one will truly listen or care even if they say otherwise. To feel like suicide is the only option, only answer to end all the agonizing & exhausting life you no longer want to live, maybe never wanted to live in the first place? To feel nothing but hopeless, I’ve felt it! I’ve dealt with many fake friends, and people who never cared, still don’t care & never genuinely listened to any of my feelings or what I had to say. You’re worth more then what your mind wants you to believe, I’m sure you’re a very smart, bright girl. You’re beautiful. A real friend, and someone who truly cares about you & loves you won’t ever mind hearing about any of your problems, they will stay by your side to support & love you at all times. You’re never a burden, a mistake, a disappointment, let alone a waste of space. I don’t know if you have any dreams, or future careers you want to get into but you can do it! I promise you can. I know it’s not easy but anything is possible. You can’t just snap out of depression, it takes patience, effort but most importantly consistency & time. I myself haven’t got much better I am still struggling. Just know that no one is perfect, we all make mistakes, we’re all human! we all have are own flaws & imperfections. I know what it’s like to be insecure, to constantly compare yourself to others and feel everyone else is much better then you or that everyone is against you, just feels sorry for you, or maybe they don’t even feel sorry but are messing with you for the fuck of it. I’ve been bullied my whole life, and never had much friends. I’ve never been much of a social person growing up, I’m still not. I’m honestly a misanthrope. I’ve been bullied & outcasted by my own family, I don’t have a dad or much of a mom because she’s mentally ill...My family that has raised me has done nothing but put me through hell. No matter how much I tried to get help, it always backfired! I still haven’t been able to achieve the blessings I know I deserve in life, but I try and keep trying to give myself that one more day. If you ever need or want someone to talk to I am always here, no matter the time, day, when, how or why! I will always be down to listen this goes for any person that comes across this and reads it, even if it’s years or months down the line. I love you all and I care! ❤️❤️
The most pathetic feeling is when you get in a fight while trying to explain your feelings to your parents and they find a way to make you feel bad about it 😄🤣. And u r left regretting!!!! 😶
my friend said she was fat everybody took pity on her, and i said yes you are fat. she just started screaming and everyone attaked me. what am i supposed to do, stand there?
"You never know who" is so true. I am sure that some "happy" people around me may have depression. I'm depressed too. I don't want to open up about it not just because of being afraid of being criticised instead of being understood but also afraid of spreading negativity to people around me.
My friend went through a dark phase , she was depressed most of the time, I wanted to help, by hugging, caring, making her smile or laugh, but unfortunately she doesn’t live in my village. I text her to ask how she’s feeling, I try calling her.. but still not helpful. The depressing thing is that she HATES herself. I try showing her how much we love her, but this won’t change the fact that YOU hate yourself. I think she feels better now, it’s not because of me, it’s because she’s strong, so to every girl who’s reading this, you are so strong, and with time, you can definitely defeat depression. I wish you all a happy and a safe life.💕
Yes, exactly! You feel either nothing or you feel horrible. But it is so hard to put it in words... And sometimes, you don't even know how you feel. I hope that I will overcome this time soon. Stay strong, whoever is reading this. ❤
Same, and they always tall about how in their generation this in their generation that, but no matter how many times i tell them its a new generation they say that theirs was the "BEST" one
I went through depression when I lost a loved one. During that time I questioned my existence, and couldn't understand the purpose of life. I felt useless and worthless. I couldn't focus because I was so confused that I couldn't comprehend the meaning of those words. It was so... hard. I got over it almost three months later and just imagining a person going through it all the time, I just want to let you know... You are NOT worthless. You are NOT useless. Your existence is very important and someone, someone you might not even know, loves you and if they lose you, they will feel the same way. Live your life to its fullest. You never know how long you got. LOVE YOU!
i wish there's still the future me that is truly healed and happy. proud of the current me. saying everything is going to be okay, you've handled it well. each breath is a struggle now.
i remember watching this video like 5 years ago when i was just a child and didn't understand anything in it, now im a teenager in highschool and i feel like i relate to this video SO MUCH
“But you have a great life, you always seem so happy!” and "I know how you feel but don't worry you'll be fine" is never things to say to someone it could make life worse
I am a Master in the Arts of hiding my emotions I am an Expert Tailor when weaving lies I am comfortable in the silences that unnerve others And I am an Artist when imagining places to hide Others call me beautiful when I wear my mask called a Smile But when I take it off im called sensitive and a weak child I know this is difficult for others to see But I know for a fact My Trauma Doesn’t Define Me
Parents say "everything is because of your phone" but seriously for few years my phone is thhe only one that has taught me and helped me get back up more than my parents ever did..
Please call 1-800-273-8255 to talk. mental illness is a well known mercury toxicity symptom, and some handle the toxicity better than others, but some get these kind of issues, autism, low immune system, ADHD, gut issues, allergies etc. I would encourage anyone struggling look into the Andrew Cutler Protocol. This is the ONLY safe protocol to this date, eating things like chlorella and cilantro has made people very very sick. Please read the child recovering stories by googling «cutler success stories child» and «cutler success stories adult» . But the best place to learn and get support is trough the Facebook group «Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox». But whatever you do, never take/eat cilantro, chlorella, MSM, glutathione, and ALA/DMPS/DMSA that is not according to the Andrew Cutler Protocol, you can read some peoples horror stories by googling «Andy Cutler what not to do». Wish you all the best!
“It’s a phase” “It’s your hormones” “Stop being dramatic” “Stop doing this for attention” Nobody cares until that person commits suicide. That’s when they wanna say “I never would’ve thought” “I can’t believe she/he did that”
When I cry it's mostly because I feel so bad for myself for being so pitiful, rude ,pathetic ,insensitive, immature and stuff and I can't find comfort in anything other than music and y'all but now the worst thing now is I can't even cry at all . And this video perfectly describes how I feel
@@blackmamba9309 Thanks. I'm better now, but last year was really hard for me. If anyone need help, conversation or understanding, I've been through this so I'm here if you need me 😉
I hate it when parents say "you're to young to be depressed" because it really doesn't matter what your age is invalidating someone's feelings isn't helping them it's just making it worse
What People hear.: I'm fine. I'm just tired. Leave me alone. I miss the old days. What We Really Mean: Help me. I wanna die. Please stay.. I miss the old me.
Hey Dear,Yes you reading this Comment.May be you gotta meet a new Sister here! You're not here by accident may be God is trying to help you 🥹💞 Let me share this to you,I live alone have no friends not close family at the town i live.Door closed, Window closed the whole day no calls this is all about my life besides classes. Also felt anxiety, depression, confusion, doubt and lonely. All these led me to thoughts of Suicide!!! but one day as usual I cried the whole day on bed, slept that night and JESUS came to and comforted me, He told me about my future and I've got a long way to go. I told Him "I'm sorry"for thinking to kill myself but you know what He said to me, He said with a Big Beautiful smile,"I love you" and touched my Face with his Holy Hands.He is Beautiful and Caring so much more than Trillion Words, nothing can express his Love for me!!!!🥹 I'm fine now, spending time with him and sharing my Faith with others who are on the path that I was. You not alone,He is Here all you got is to believe in him. I'd love to hear more from you and talk alot about Jesus ♥️.I have alot to tell ya and love to be Friends!!! You can text me on my Instagram page @Sheismadlyinlovewith_jesus /my Email @ruhamafikru4gmail.com. I'll be waiting eagerly with Joy and Jesus loves you more. Thank you & God loves you 🫂✨
Yeah I know...... It's the hardest question.... And you know what is even worse? It's that I can't even fake a smile sometimes cause I feel too numb. Because everyone sees right through it
@@sarahemilywhite I can relate . I had faked smiles or laugh many times before . Now , I just feel like it's okay if someone thinks I'm giving an attitude . It's okay if they think I'm being rude .
the only person to ever wonder and ask if i'm okay is my little brother. he's so much more understanding and supportive and caring than my parents. i always get so emotional whenever he's concerned about me.
Other person:are you ok? Me:ya I'm fine I'm just tired My head:tired of trying,tired of not fitting in and being perfect,tired of myself being ugly and dumb.
I’m 33 and this is how I feel all the time. I’ve tried anti-depressants and counseling as an adult but nothing has worked. Sometimes I wonder why bother? and now I know why. Because my parents never got me the treatment I needed as a kid. I think you are right about Gen z being the best generation of parents to deal with this because they went through it. Their kids aren’t teenagers yet. I’m a little older than that. Maybe that’s why no one my age understood. I think they understand now though. The pandemic has made us all depressed. But ironically, we are still all alone together. It’s really sad actually. Maybe some good can come from this. Maybe some understanding and love. It’s what the world needs right now.
I just realised... I’m the one to ask my friends “How are you?” but they never ask me. Edit: i deleted the vent cause i felt like i was seeking for attention and didnt want people to think im an attention seeker But again, thank you guys. ❤️
Felt like crap last year. I did a lot of stuff that I regret. It took someone who committed to make me realise that it wasn't something that I actually wanted to do. The effects on everyone in my community were so big. Everytime I feel like I'm not good enough or I'm ugly or something else, I remind myself that it isn't true. I am good enough. I am beautiful. You are good enough. You are beautiful.
@@roddyroddy132 I mean, that girl looks perfect, but then I see myself and I see something very different, something horrible. My friend tells me the same, but then I say that "You look perfect, girl. I am the ugly one". And the same continues on and on again. I hope you understood it. Edit: I think I'm not the only one. Look everyone's replies, they agree with me.
I watched this a few years back just to feel that I am not alone and that there are strangers who actually understand how it feels... I can't believe I'm back because my mind had been starting to go loud again lately.
Hey Dear,Yes you reading this Comment.May be you gotta meet a new Sister here! You're not here by accident may be God is trying to help you 🥹💞 Let me share this to you,I live alone have no friends not close family at the town i live.Door closed, Window closed the whole day no calls this is all about my life besides classes. Also felt anxiety, depression, confusion, doubt and lonely. All these led me to thoughts of Suicide!!! but one day as usual I cried the whole day on bed, slept that night and JESUS came to and comforted me, He told me about my future and I've got a long way to go. I told Him "I'm sorry"for thinking to kill myself but you know what He said to me, He said with a Big Beautiful smile,"I love you" and touched my Face with his Holy Hands.He is Beautiful and Caring so much more than Trillion Words, nothing can express his Love for me!!!!🥹 I'm fine now, spending time with him and sharing my Faith with others who are on the path that I was. You not alone,He is Here all you got is to believe in him. I'd love to hear more from you and talk alot about Jesus ♥️.I have alot to tell ya and love to be Friends!!! You can text me on my Instagram page @Sheismadlyinlovewith_jesus /my Email @ruhamafikru4gmail.com.
me: **has depression** everyone else: jUsT tRy tO bE pOsiTiVE aNd hAve A gOoD aTtiTUdE me: OMG WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT :/ edit: *PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU ATTACK ME*i understand that it's hard to help people who are struggling with things like this, and i appreciate the effort. i do. 100%. it's just frustrating when you try to tell us something that's so obvious that we would have already done it if it actually worked. Like um if i'm depressed i can just suddenly decide to happy? Sorry but no that's not how it works. thank you for your time.
Guys don't say that you're "lonely" cuz as you can see here, in the comments section, THERE'S MORE THAN A THOUSAND PEOPLE WHO ARE WRITING AND TELLING US ABOUT THEIR STORIES OF DEPRESSION, infact there's more than it. so there's no need to be lonely, I'm and, we are here for you, we also know the pain you're suffering from💜
Lonely is to have no friends IRL and to try to get alone cause you wish someone cares, not to have people you don't know at all to say they care. It's nice, except its kinda fake.
If I tell my parents I have depression they will tell "it is cause of your phone" I am 100% sure Edit: everyone is going through the same problem as me. It makes me so sad :( hope everything gets fine
@@aestheticyoongi7263 i use my phone way too much, i bet i use it more than you, but its not a problem because (some people, including me) use their devices to escape reality, at least thats what i do.
When I was diagnosed with depression and OCD no one from my family didn't think that I was sick and this is very important to normalize being mentally ill and we have to raise awareness about mental illness and make the people not to stigmatized mental illness, PLEASE TELL THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU THAT IT IS OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY.
Imagine going through teenage depression and at the same time, things like fake friends, parents that fight, a broken family etc makes you feel worse abt yourself.
10 subs without any vids ! True I have a friend and didn’t know she was depressed until we were going away with our orchestra for one week (I don’t know how to say it in english I’m from germany) and when we were going to eat she always had to take medicaments and then we ask why she had to take them and told us about it
Yep that's exactly that, when someone kills themselves people always say "why they didn't told us ??" But when someone actually does, they're "attention seeker" so that's why we're 70% without help
Melena Davis I had to go through that and when I finally told my friends they started laughing and saying sure 😭 I hope your ok 💔 I am here if you wanna talk
People just say you are faking it WHICH IS VERY ROOD and might make someone even more depressed so plz stop saying that they are faking bc you dont know what they will do to themselves to hide it beleive me I am a persob who hides my depression
To every person going through this, just know that you are an extraordinary person. It doesn’t matter what the world tells you or what the world thinks of you. It doesn’t matter what social media or a mirror says about you. You are STRONG. You are BEAUTIFUL. You are SPECIAL. You are UNIQUE. You are YOU, and that’s something to be proud of. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. God made you exactly the way He wanted you. If you don’t know who you’re meant to be, He did, and He does. He’ll help you, even when nobody else will. Sending love and prayers to everyone going through this. You CAN make it through this. You WILL make it through this. May God bless every single on of y’all.❤
For anyone suffering right now, please know you're not alone. If you left, the people in your life would be devastated. And if you need proof, tell them what you've been going through, and they will help you through it. If they're not the people you want to talk to, talk to me. I'm a very good listener, and I would love to help in any way I can. Please keep fighting, I know you have it in you💛💛
I want my future self to hug my current self, telling me... everything is going to be ok Edit (1/1/22): thank you all so much for the nice comments💕It makes me feel so loved
everything's going to be okay, i promise :) just keep fighting and dont be scared to show emotions, we all have been there. you are not alone, i love you and stay strong
My definition of “fine” depressed, alone, stressed, stupid, tired, hate myself, nobody loves me, nobody understands me, I’m useless, how would people feel if I were dead?
hey. it’ll get better i promise. there are people out there that love you and if you die, you are just passing ur pain onto someone else. you’re not alone 💟 i’m here to speak
After losing my mom I have been depressed for now almost a year. She was my everything and best friend who never neglected me. I don't know what to do with my life even though I promised to keep her legacy going
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Depression is like drowning, while everyone else is shouting at u to breathe.
Piney_ Studios This is very true.
True af
My dad keeps telling me not to be a victim. He doesn’t understand that there’s a difference between wanting help and needing help
No one yells for me to breath.
they tell u to learn "how to swim" fr
"you can tell me anything" says my parents.
me: starting to tell them,
them: starts to insult me.
Whenever i try and talk to my mom she gets angry and says i dont appreciate everything she does for me... As if materialistic things are my parent😔
truth
Exactly
I relate. And because of that, I barely speak to my parents any more
Literally same
From crying loudly so that our parents can hear us to crying silently so that no one can hear us.
We grew up.
This hits hard 💕
:((((((
it really hit hard personally.....
relatable..
Relate...
Asking a depressed person, "Why are you depressed? Life is beautiful" is like asking some one with asthma "Why do you have asthma? There is so much air to breath"
True 😑
true
for me life isnt beautiful at all, its cruel as fuck
@@bubblelovesans same
Omggg
I would argue that a variation of the first question would be good though. The conversation has to start somewhere. I would agree can't start from a "just feel better!" standpoint, but to try and understand and show empathy to that person. I say this as a dad who has a son who struggles mightily with mental health, the best step was letting him know we knew and that we were trying to help and understand. He was resistant to that first conversation but we have seen improvements in his openness with us since then.
3 million people clicked on a video called
"I'm fine. Teen depression "
Think about that for a second
Irene PHAN Winchester jeez that just goes to show...
I don't get it
You forgot that it is a Teen Depression PSA
3.3 m now...+1
Just shows that you are not ALONE
Its like being tired but sleep doesn’t help
I feel like sometimes sleep is more demanding than being awake
Ikr
Yeah but there’s a little more to it
@Faith Get with God he would change your life promise me I had suicide thoughts and I wanted to kill myself really badly I cried every day I felt that I was so unworthy I faked a smile everyday telling my friends and family that I was doing perfectly even though I wasn't the reason I felt so unworthy it's because I felt that nobody loved me until I saw an add on youtube it changed my life it talked about how god can change you life so I decided to give it a try so I did I read my bible and pray to God to remove my depression and it worked and I now I'm happy Christian thanks to God. If you have any questions you can connect my Instagram its april91225.
yea , like you have no energy but sleeping doesnt help
Ok…all the parents say “it’s the phone.” But seriously my phone helped me get back up!
❤️
exactly
Fr its my only escape
Ik- it's weird. The other day when the Facebook shit happened my mom started explaining why social media made teens feel like they werent pretty enough and be depressed. But I don't even have social media (YT isnt considered social media to me) and I feel insecure. It's weird, and I'm prolly gtting to personal.
Ya my parents always say I’m addicted to my phone but in reality it keeps me from thinking what’s happening around me and in this world…
It's funny how a stranger whom you haven't meet in your entire life or never will understands you more than your own family
True.. Soo true
My bestie min♥️
But now for 5 days she is ignoring me.. And idk why😖😭
Yah damn true missing my dear best friend
@@urbancafe6022 hello.
Please don't be sad .
You'll make new friends 😊
so truee.
I also have a friend but it's been awhile since she called and talked to me.
Parents: It's hard to be an adult
Teens: *am I a joke to you?*
And kids
I'm not an adult myself, but adults do go through a lot.
@@tinadompim2634 so do kids/teens
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Being a teen these days is the worst I personally think it’s harder being a teen
Girl: depressed
Other kids: stays away from her
Girl: kills herself
Other kids: wow I wish I would of known
I just realized I have 666 likes 😬
The Purple Croissant or saying they were the best friend they could be smh
Zexiffy yep
The place where i live, people even curse those who commit suicide😔
It’s true no one cares
"Dead people receive more flowers than people who are living because regret is stronger than gratitude."
Depression is, when it feels like everything you do is wrong, but you don’t have the energy to do anything about it.
exactly
its how i feel rn
this.
"Nobody really cares until something dramatic happens."
Imma check who asked
Kaz The Kitsune what?
😂
Kaz The Terrible Commenter I did.
Me looking for who asked:
I hate when someone says "just be positive", or ," it's just hormones, you'll be fine, it's just a phase".
Or when people gatekeep depression saying you are just faking it it’s not real because a doctor hasn’t diagnosed you yet...
I hate when you tell them why you are depressed and they say "just don't worrie about it" or "your fine" or even "forget about you passed" like how am I supposed to forget what my step mom did to me when I was 3 up till I was 9 btw I'm 12 ya not very easy to forget
the worst is when they say "but you have a great life!" well, news flash, it doesn't matter how good my life is, besides they know nothing of the sort so why would they assume shit?
@@smellyal8trstinky I feel the same way, I have tried telling one of my friends who I considered a sister, but she said that I had not right to complain because I had more than her. Now I don't tell anyone around me anything besides, "I'm fine". I was placed on this pedestal and am now afraid that is I mess up in the smallest of ways or tell people the truth, that they will see me different and judge me wrong and say that "it is all in my head". It is at the point where I don't know if I want to get out of bed today, it is already almost 2 pm and I still don't have the will to even get out of bed... what's wrong with me?
Person That exists that’s fair though. If you haven’t been diagnosed, only you are saying your depressed. Depression is not something to be wanted or to be messed around with, it’s a genuine condition. You might not be faking it but it might be something else or a symptom or another problem 🤷♀️
As a teenager…I am depressed and I don’t even know why I cry so much, or get to stressed at school…I hide it so well and it hurts 😭
Ya and you want to die because it feels like the only escape right?
Same
I feel you man
im so so so sorry i hope ur okay..
i fully understand if it feels embarrasing to let someone know, but please do it. there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed off. letting someone you trust know how you feel is the most right thing in the world
I know that it's been 8 months, but I feel you, I relate to this, and if you need to vent, I will be here. As a random stranger in a youtube comment section
2k dislikes are from our parents.They will never understand how hard it is to live in this generation.
"I am the way, the truth, and the life." John 14:6
Jesus is our hope. He died for us in a cross so we can have eternal life because of His sacrifice. In Him we find perfect peace:
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
Jesus loves you, go to Him! It will be your best decision and i know that because it was mine. When I was anxious, I found peace on Him and in what He said. You can find too!♥️
I believe some Parents are compassionate enough to be able to put Themselves into the Shoes of their Kids and I know what You mean.
Just convert to islam.
@@aghrom7675 terrorists? We have nough of them and other dumbshit religions that only control and brainwash people you dumb dingus of a bot.
@@JustAnObody812 Terrorists doesn't represent islam and muslims, because they got it wrong.
telling someone to be happy when they are depressed is like telling a cancer person to heal themselves.
I am stealing this sentence
Watch jaden animations the made a whole vid on this...
Or u stole those words from her
Not liked that because now I feel loved again but not totally feel that
Please don’t use the term “cancer person” it’s extremely rude and hurtful especially to me because I have a sibling with leukemia.just say someone with cancer jeez
Yea someone said that too me today he Just tried to be kind i cant blame him
My parents said: ,,cmon it’s not that bad.“
my friends said: ,, stop being dramatic.“
My depression said:,, end it.“
And my anxiety said:,,what if..“
Bilel Khasskhousi my insta is @lily.ramming
My name khasskhousibilel on insta
Wow accurate
I hate it when people call me dramatic because they don't know what I'm going through and they don't know how I feel about different things. Is it like that for you to?
Natalie Davis yes
As a depressed teenager, can confirm that whenever I exist, orchestral music follows me around.
Woah, this is amazing
this brought me to tears. it’s honestly heartbreaking how relatable this is, i hope everyone else going through this knows that you’re not alone, we can get through this ❤️
*hug* thats right, you're not alone💜💜
“it’s because of that goddam phone”
~ parents of 2020
aubreyy and 2020.
it's because it is.. believe it or not *SOMETIMES* people get sad because they look "ugly" which there not and they could get jealous of other people online "there prettier". Just like how Charli D'amelio got plastic surgery.. it's sad how people hate the way they look when there gorgeous.
Dont be worried about what other people think because if you look around. Everyone's doing there own thing.
Same..
does this mean all parents in 2019 or THE best parent of 2019?
@@Chloe-gy1dt yeah no
“why don’t you tell anyone”
well, no one asks, no one sees, no one will care.
I told someone... He didn't care, he still treated me like I was garbage. Even more...
No one will understand🙂
Told my frnds but I am first to go through this shit
@@JenellePena-fc6xv then why are you happy
i feel that if i tell someone they will say: why, you have northing to be sad of you are suck a attention seeker
The worst part is being so damn tired, but unable to sleep until your body just gives out, and then waking up even more exhausted than before.
the fact that yesterday my best friend texted me "how are you" and I just responded with "I'm fine" too
"When a lonely person says 'Leave me alone' what they really mean is 'Show me you care enough to stay'"
~Unknown
It's kinda like hannah's story
Honesty same...
same
Mmmh no, when I say leave me alone I mean it literally 🙃
With me it's not like that. I just want to be left alone to cry in my room and get mad at my parents for not leaving me alone...
When the girl deleted "I'm depressed" then typed "I'm fine"
Gosh..I can't even remember how many times this has happened to me....
Uchiha Saki me
Omg same, my friends will just say "hi how are you" and then I would type "I want to die rn" but then delete it and type "I'm good thanks how are you" and send it, sometimes I get scared I might send the last one tho
Sameeeeee
I have never connected so much with a stranger before
𝓑𝓮𝓽𝓱 #Sub2TomGW I know how you feel, but sweetheart you’re not a burden. Your feelings matter, your well being matters, your health matters, your heart matters, your brain matters. Your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual pain matters. You as a human being matter! I don’t know what you’re going through or how you’re exactly feeling, or coping with it but please know that you are truly never alone. I’ve been suicidal, depressed, and anxiety driven my whole life...etc... I’ve been hospitalized twice for suicidal tendencies & self harm...etc... I’ve been self harming for 5/6 years, I recently relapsed after being clean for like a year I believe. I know what it feels like to think that no one cares, that you’re only worthless, ugly, fat, not good enough...etc... maybe you think all your worth is nothing but negativity. I know what it feels like to just be completely alone, broken, empty, numb, discontent. Like you’re drowning, trapped and can’t be saved no matter how hard you try! I know what it’s like to not know what exactly you want, you just want to feel alive! & be happy but it’s like the universe has everything against you and you’re being punished. You question what you’ve possibly done to deserve so much hurt but never get an answer for it...maybe you make your own? They’re definitely not true, but you believe so. You want to give up, feel there’s no point. One minute all you want is to be alone and drown everyone out, you may not be fond of people, want lots of friends or company around that much, but the next minute all you want is someone to hold you, hug you, and show they care & acknowledge you’re suffering. Many people love you, but you likely don’t feel that way. All you feel is stuck, paranoid, and possibly overthink constantly. You beat yourself for everything, even small things. I suffer from nightmares, PTSD, OCD thoughts, Bipolar...etc... & so much more like Body Dysmorphia and ADHD. I’ve been through a lot in only 18y of my life. I’ve seen a lot & been exposed to a lot at such a young age. I know what it’s like to feel or be misunderstood all the time, or that no one will truly listen or care even if they say otherwise. To feel like suicide is the only option, only answer to end all the agonizing & exhausting life you no longer want to live, maybe never wanted to live in the first place? To feel nothing but hopeless, I’ve felt it! I’ve dealt with many fake friends, and people who never cared, still don’t care & never genuinely listened to any of my feelings or what I had to say. You’re worth more then what your mind wants you to believe, I’m sure you’re a very smart, bright girl. You’re beautiful. A real friend, and someone who truly cares about you & loves you won’t ever mind hearing about any of your problems, they will stay by your side to support & love you at all times. You’re never a burden, a mistake, a disappointment, let alone a waste of space. I don’t know if you have any dreams, or future careers you want to get into but you can do it! I promise you can. I know it’s not easy but anything is possible. You can’t just snap out of depression, it takes patience, effort but most importantly consistency & time. I myself haven’t got much better I am still struggling. Just know that no one is perfect, we all make mistakes, we’re all human! we all have are own flaws & imperfections. I know what it’s like to be insecure, to constantly compare yourself to others and feel everyone else is much better then you or that everyone is against you, just feels sorry for you, or maybe they don’t even feel sorry but are messing with you for the fuck of it. I’ve been bullied my whole life, and never had much friends. I’ve never been much of a social person growing up, I’m still not. I’m honestly a misanthrope. I’ve been bullied & outcasted by my own family, I don’t have a dad or much of a mom because she’s mentally ill...My family that has raised me has done nothing but put me through hell. No matter how much I tried to get help, it always backfired! I still haven’t been able to achieve the blessings I know I deserve in life, but I try and keep trying to give myself that one more day. If you ever need or want someone to talk to I am always here, no matter the time, day, when, how or why! I will always be down to listen this goes for any person that comes across this and reads it, even if it’s years or months down the line. I love you all and I care! ❤️❤️
I’m not depressed, but I feel exactly like that. And I’m so sorry for everyone else who feels that way too.
The most pathetic feeling is when you get in a fight while trying to explain your feelings to your parents and they find a way to make you feel bad about it 😄🤣.
And u r left regretting!!!! 😶
Yeah and you wish you hadn't said anything at all
@@flxralclouds3536 yeahh
YUP
Fine.
F: frightened
I: insecure
N:negative
E: emotional
you are strong
The pfp is making me not taking it seriously
@@mynickname11 same
@Shorter than ur dates 😂😂😂
Same with me
Girl: I'm fat.
Other girl: NOOOOO you aren't!
Guy: I'm fat.
Other guy: lmao yeah
@احمد AT chill dude
@احمد AT fucking chill "aHmED", we all know this is true
Lmao thats so true though boys have a weird friendship
my friend said she was fat everybody took pity on her, and i said yes you are fat. she just started screaming and everyone attaked me. what am i supposed to do, stand there?
Ong 😂
"You never know who" is so true. I am sure that some "happy" people around me may have depression.
I'm depressed too. I don't want to open up about it not just because of being afraid of being criticised instead of being understood but also afraid of spreading negativity to people around me.
I wish I could hug you guys and tell you it gonna be okay 💙
*'Nobody truly appreciates that person until they die'*
“You don’t know what you got till it’s gone”
I tried suicide once and when I came out alive my parents screamed at me
And yes, “I’m fine...”
They never do. Even sometimes then, they don't.
so true
@Vũ Ngọc Bảo Hân I hope You are okay!!
@@chillgilli3200 they really did that?I'm sorry hope you are ok
Parents : talk to us about anything
Me: tells them
Parents : compares me to other kids and tells me to be like them
yes-
Im a teenager, but I also get compared a lot
@@Nada-yt4qv im 10- :0
Yups i can relate it very much
So true--
My friend went through a dark phase , she was depressed most of the time, I wanted to help, by hugging, caring, making her smile or laugh, but unfortunately she doesn’t live in my village. I text her to ask how she’s feeling, I try calling her.. but still not helpful. The depressing thing is that she HATES herself. I try showing her how much we love her, but this won’t change the fact that YOU hate yourself.
I think she feels better now, it’s not because of me, it’s because she’s strong, so to every girl who’s reading this, you are so strong, and with time, you can definitely defeat depression. I wish you all a happy and a safe life.💕
It's funny when you yourself is depressed but you comfort others
Depression makes the question "How are you?" so difficult to answer...
Yes, exactly!
You feel either nothing or you feel horrible. But it is so hard to put it in words...
And sometimes, you don't even know how you feel.
I hope that I will overcome this time soon.
Stay strong, whoever is reading this. ❤
Yes!! I always feel like I shouldn't even exist here...
@@rosiebellamy3018 I am blue today...
And we finally say 'i'm fine',even though we r not.
@@chrissiblumenkohl1348 we feels empty😔
when my parents found out that i had depression,
they blamed it on my phone
The first thing my parents says when i'm upset:
"Hey,is something going on online? Like cyberbullying?"
...now this is ridiculous...
this is why I cant't tell my family when I had depression or a problem :(
me too.
chxrry bun they blame everything on phones. Yes mother my phone called me ugly, discipline it please it deserves it
Same, and they always tall about how in their generation this in their generation that, but no matter how many times i tell them its a new generation they say that theirs was the "BEST" one
Depression is like screaming with no one there to listen.
I want to hug my past self and tell her it wasn’t her fault and she’s worthy of love and everything good and she’s and will always be good enough..
Depression is like your dead inside and your body is alive...and I feel that way all day
Soft Girll omg so true you feel like you’re not really there but it’s just your body
I went through depression when I lost a loved one. During that time I questioned my existence, and couldn't understand the purpose of life. I felt useless and worthless. I couldn't focus because I was so confused that I couldn't comprehend the meaning of those words. It was so... hard.
I got over it almost three months later and just imagining a person going through it all the time, I just want to let you know...
You are NOT worthless.
You are NOT useless.
Your existence is very important and someone, someone you might not even know, loves you and if they lose you, they will feel the same way. Live your life to its fullest. You never know how long you got.
LOVE YOU!
@@shahmeenkhan204 Thank you soo much🥰💓
@@najafafzal1189 Stay strong, my heart goes to you and everyone going through depression.
@@shahmeenkhan204 Thanks😔
Saying “just be happy” to a person with depression is the same as throwing a baby in the sea and yelling “just swim”
true words
iT's NoT tHaT hArD
sadly it is
True
Same with saying "Just don't be stressed" to a person with Anxiety!
i wish there's still the future me that is truly healed and happy. proud of the current me. saying everything is going to be okay, you've handled it well. each breath is a struggle now.
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omggg I know that feeling.... listen to this song🥺 it's too damn relatable.... It made me tear up 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤😭😭😭😭
i remember watching this video like 5 years ago when i was just a child and didn't understand anything in it, now im a teenager in highschool and i feel like i relate to this video SO MUCH
"Depression begins with the thought that no one understands your thoughts"
So true
Frrrrr
Because no one does XD
They really don't, and you feel like you can't tell them bc you are scard of what might happen? Am I right?
@@cuteangels7138 you are so right
"I'm not hungry anymore''
That hit *harder* then I was expecting.
Yeah
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Same
same
Mhm expect it’s the opposite for me. I struggle with binge eating
At 0:13. At least she has people checking up on her.
Most people don’t have anyone.
you'r right
But if you say the reality, they can left you and you have no one.
“But you have a great life, you always seem so happy!” and "I know how you feel but don't worry you'll be fine" is never things to say to someone it could make life worse
Sometimes I feel invisible when im around my "friends"
it’s okay😂 also “around” lol. it’s all
good😂
Nah u good bro( or sis or sibling I don’t wanna assume ur gender
Sameeee 😢
Same :(
Damn Suzy really is mean
How i see the word "Fine"
F:Faking
I:Insecure
N:Nothing
E:Enough
That's impressive. It reminds me of F.A.S.T., the acronym for stroke, and C.A.U.T.I.O.N., the acronym for cancer.👍
Fr I'm not depressed but I always hated that word
I once said, "I'm fine"...
But I was
The word fine has nothing to do with it. It's just a typical word that someone can use fine or not.
Faking
Is
Never
Enough
Is that good too?🙂
I am a Master in the Arts of hiding my emotions
I am an Expert Tailor when weaving lies
I am comfortable in the silences that unnerve others
And I am an Artist when imagining places to hide
Others call me beautiful when I wear my mask called a Smile
But when I take it off im called sensitive and a weak child
I know this is difficult for others to see
But I know for a fact
My Trauma Doesn’t Define Me
Oh man it has a lot of deep meanings.
Parents say "everything is because of your phone" but seriously for few years my phone is thhe only one that has taught me and helped me get back up more than my parents ever did..
People be like "just be happy, don't be depressed."
Please call 1-800-273-8255 to talk. mental illness is a well known mercury toxicity symptom, and some handle the toxicity better than others, but some get these kind of issues, autism, low immune system, ADHD, gut issues, allergies etc. I would encourage anyone struggling look into the Andrew Cutler Protocol. This is the ONLY safe protocol to this date, eating things like chlorella and cilantro has made people very very sick. Please read the child recovering stories by googling «cutler success stories child» and «cutler success stories adult» . But the best place to learn and get support is trough the Facebook group «Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox». But whatever you do, never take/eat cilantro, chlorella, MSM, glutathione, and ALA/DMPS/DMSA that is not according to the Andrew Cutler Protocol, you can read some peoples horror stories by googling «Andy Cutler what not to do». Wish you all the best!
I hate when someone say this..
leigh• anne• and like, you look sad what’s up
Then we be like "easy for you to say you don't Know what we go through every fucking day"
No one chooses to be depressed..
“It’s a phase”
“It’s your hormones”
“Stop being dramatic”
“Stop doing this for attention”
Nobody cares until that person commits suicide. That’s when they wanna say “I never would’ve thought” “I can’t believe she/he did that”
Ikr!
They just pretend they care after you death
Yah true,like my parents, they didn't care to me,they don't love me
Yep all they tell me is jade your growing!!! * tears run down my eyes* "okay"
I get told that second one everyday.
The moment you send back "I'm fine" then you break down in tears because you know you are not fine!
When I cry it's mostly because I feel so bad for myself for being so pitiful, rude ,pathetic ,insensitive, immature and stuff and I can't find comfort in anything other than music and y'all but now the worst thing now is I can't even cry at all .
And this video perfectly describes how I feel
"Only 30% of teenagers with depression are being treated for it" welp I gues im in the 70%
Metoo😞😞
Me too
Same here😔😢🥳
@Moonlight_bae well, you can ask for help, yes?
Same :/
for people who read this, thank you for staying alive
ايمن ايمن Idk why but it made me laugh 😂
This make me smile 😊. I was depressed and suicidal, but now I'm better. And I'm really happy that I didn't kill myself.
Helena Jerbić you can do it,never giveup,okayy
@@blackmamba9309 Thanks. I'm better now, but last year was really hard for me. If anyone need help, conversation or understanding, I've been through this so I'm here if you need me 😉
Afinansyah Putrifadhila your welcome 😁
I hate it when parents say "you're to young to be depressed" because it really doesn't matter what your age is invalidating someone's feelings isn't helping them it's just making it worse
You know its getting bad again when you start watching these videos.
omg these comments :'(
my heart goes out to every single one of you
thanks, life is hard for people who are always in a sinkhole. yknow, people like me.
Life's hard for anyone, you're awesome just how you are! No one's perfect ok?
Awww thanx
Life is hard because my hair is ugly
I’m ugly
Generation z is gonna be the best parents. We understand mental health, why we use our phones so much , school pressure, fake friends.
Yes. :c
You know it
right?
ha funny thing is a girl texts her saying how are you? Ha nobody texts me 🙃
ɱεl xox how are you ?
when your parents saying
“Your not depressed your too young.”
is the same as saying
“your not going outside. your too young.”
it really hurts💔
This generation will be so understanding! We understand mental health and the pressure school puts on some kids.
What People hear.:
I'm fine.
I'm just tired.
Leave me alone.
I miss the old days.
What We Really Mean:
Help me.
I wanna die.
Please stay..
I miss the old me.
Galaxy Wolf Girl yea. That’s what i think, and that’s my depression.
I suffer from depression and that is what I always mean when I say thoughs to my friends when they ask whats wrong
me tho
@Polina Huber i have real positive, nice friends and i'm still pessimistic as hell. doesn't make a difference.
Thats true. Im so tired of all this shit that happen in my life
"You weren't born ugly, we just live in a judgmental community"
-unknown
Adanely Samayoa that was Kim Namjoon from bts. “Nobody is ugly, we are just born in a judgemental society.”
@@stobit3397 oh ok
Kim namjoon for president:>
Namjoon never really said that, lol. Or at least, I've never found him saying or writing it.
@@stobit3397
I don't think Kim made up that quote. Probably referenced it.
The quite is a few years old.
Who knows?
I watched this video 5 years ago, and here i am again, still depressed, reading comments make me feel I'm not alone..
Hey Dear,Yes you reading this Comment.May be you gotta meet a new Sister here! You're not here by accident may be God is trying to help you 🥹💞
Let me share this to you,I live alone have no friends not close family at the town i live.Door closed, Window closed the whole day no calls this is all about my life besides classes.
Also felt anxiety, depression, confusion, doubt and lonely.
All these led me to thoughts of Suicide!!! but one day as usual I cried the whole day on bed,
slept that night and JESUS came to and comforted me,
He told me about my future and I've got a long way to go.
I told Him "I'm sorry"for thinking to kill myself but you know what He said to me,
He said with a Big Beautiful smile,"I love you" and touched my Face with his Holy Hands.He is Beautiful and Caring so much more than Trillion Words, nothing can express his Love for me!!!!🥹
I'm fine now, spending time with him and sharing my Faith with others who are on the path that I was.
You not alone,He is Here all you got is to believe in him.
I'd love to hear more from you and talk alot about Jesus ♥️.I have alot to tell ya and love to be Friends!!!
You can text me on my Instagram page @Sheismadlyinlovewith_jesus /my Email @ruhamafikru4gmail.com.
I'll be waiting eagerly with Joy and Jesus loves you more.
Thank you & God loves you
🫂✨
at this point i don't even wanna die
just never existed
“Are you okay” and “how are you” are one of the hardest questions to answer...
i am here
please talk to me
Yeah I know......
It's the hardest question....
And you know what is even worse?
It's that I can't even fake a smile sometimes cause I feel too numb.
Because everyone sees right through it
@@sarahemilywhite I can relate . I had faked smiles or laugh many times before . Now , I just feel like it's okay if someone thinks I'm giving an attitude . It's okay if they think I'm being rude .
Luckily I’ve never been asked…
Actually, I don’t think that’s lucky…
the only person to ever wonder and ask if i'm okay is my little brother. he's so much more understanding and supportive and caring than my parents. i always get so emotional whenever he's concerned about me.
Other person:are you ok?
Me:ya I'm fine I'm just tired
My head:tired of trying,tired of not fitting in and being perfect,tired of myself being ugly and dumb.
your so pretty and nice the way you are
I think thoughs all the time when I say I'm finr
U have said my word
And ofc...
Tired of lying about how you rly feel...
Me too
I’m 33 and this is how I feel all the time. I’ve tried anti-depressants and counseling as an adult but nothing has worked. Sometimes I wonder why bother? and now I know why. Because my parents never got me the treatment I needed as a kid. I think you are right about Gen z being the best generation of parents to deal with this because they went through it. Their kids aren’t teenagers yet. I’m a little older than that. Maybe that’s why no one my age understood. I think they understand now though. The pandemic has made us all depressed. But ironically, we are still all alone together. It’s really sad actually. Maybe some good can come from this. Maybe some understanding and love. It’s what the world needs right now.
Man, the stuff listed in this are so relatable and it hurts.
I started crying because this is exactly how i feel
When I saw Your Comment I started Crying Without Any reason
Same :)
Same
Same
@I doN.t Need this LiFe you've got this! I'm recovering and I feel so much better now! Please don't give up on yourself❤
All my love!
I just realised... I’m the one to ask my friends “How are you?” but they never ask me.
Edit: i deleted the vent cause i felt like i was seeking for attention and didnt want people to think im an attention seeker
But again, thank you guys. ❤️
same :(
StillAPeiceOf Garbage me too
Same
same ;(
This is too relatable, it freaking hurts 😔 I don’t know how to get through life anymore at this point I keep on messing up ugh
Felt like crap last year. I did a lot of stuff that I regret. It took someone who committed to make me realise that it wasn't something that I actually wanted to do. The effects on everyone in my community were so big. Everytime I feel like I'm not good enough or I'm ugly or something else, I remind myself that it isn't true. I am good enough. I am beautiful. You are good enough. You are beautiful.
It's sad to know that many people are depressed.I wish I could hug you guys🥺. Sending prayers 🥰❤️
Depression is like... A hole... And it's really hard to get out of it
Almost like a. Black hole and its closing slowly day by day
ikr I can't get out of it :(
Or it's a boat that you know will fall apart when you get into it, drowning you, and your walking towards it and can't stop.
Im still reaching out.
I had depression at 8 years old it’s a long long story
I feel like every other person is perfect and I'm not.
Me 2
Me too
Me too
And that is not true.why do you feel it?
@@roddyroddy132 I mean, that girl looks perfect, but then I see myself and I see something very different, something horrible. My friend tells me the same, but then I say that "You look perfect, girl. I am the ugly one". And the same continues on and on again. I hope you understood it.
Edit: I think I'm not the only one. Look everyone's replies, they agree with me.
This is exactly how I used to feel. You are strong. Time will pass. It will get better eventually. Nothing lasts forever. You aren’t alone. 💜
I watched this a few years back just to feel that I am not alone and that there are strangers who actually understand how it feels... I can't believe I'm back because my mind had been starting to go loud again lately.
Hey Dear,Yes you reading this Comment.May be you gotta meet a new Sister here! You're not here by accident may be God is trying to help you 🥹💞
Let me share this to you,I live alone have no friends not close family at the town i live.Door closed, Window closed the whole day no calls this is all about my life besides classes.
Also felt anxiety, depression, confusion, doubt and lonely.
All these led me to thoughts of Suicide!!! but one day as usual I cried the whole day on bed,
slept that night and JESUS came to and comforted me,
He told me about my future and I've got a long way to go.
I told Him "I'm sorry"for thinking to kill myself but you know what He said to me,
He said with a Big Beautiful smile,"I love you" and touched my Face with his Holy Hands.He is Beautiful and Caring so much more than Trillion Words, nothing can express his Love for me!!!!🥹
I'm fine now, spending time with him and sharing my Faith with others who are on the path that I was.
You not alone,He is Here all you got is to believe in him.
I'd love to hear more from you and talk alot about Jesus ♥️.I have alot to tell ya and love to be Friends!!!
You can text me on my Instagram page @Sheismadlyinlovewith_jesus /my Email @ruhamafikru4gmail.com.
That girl is so pretty. Wow.
IKR
Smh
Ikr
harlow alexa IKRRRRR
It not about how pretty she is it about how we love her in all are heart it about how we care for her
me: **has depression**
everyone else: jUsT tRy tO bE pOsiTiVE aNd hAve A gOoD aTtiTUdE
me: OMG WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT :/
edit: *PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU ATTACK ME*i understand that it's hard to help people who are struggling with things like this, and i appreciate the effort. i do. 100%. it's just frustrating when you try to tell us something that's so obvious that we would have already done it if it actually worked. Like um if i'm depressed i can just suddenly decide to happy? Sorry but no that's not how it works.
thank you for your time.
kaylin marie soooo trueeeee
me everyday lol
Oh God do you have really depression?
@@lollullel1338 yes
kaylin marie I’m sorry for your situation good luck to escape from this dark tunnel
Guys don't say that you're "lonely" cuz as you can see here, in the comments section, THERE'S MORE THAN A THOUSAND PEOPLE WHO ARE WRITING AND TELLING US ABOUT THEIR STORIES OF DEPRESSION, infact there's more than it. so there's no need to be lonely, I'm and, we are here for you, we also know the pain you're suffering from💜
Thanks❤
No. I'm pretty sure you're not
Wut
Lonely is to have no friends IRL and to try to get alone cause you wish someone cares, not to have people you don't know at all to say they care. It's nice, except its kinda fake.
Parents always blame phone but they didn't know that damn phone give us hope to live
i wish someone would text me "how are you?". but it never happens
What's your number expect to be spammed with happiness 😄😄😃
Tell me about it
How are you?
Shelley Ice How are you?
Shelley Ice samee
If I tell my parents I have depression they will tell "it is cause of your phone" I am 100% sure
Edit: everyone is going through the same problem as me. It makes me so sad
:( hope everything gets fine
Same, my parents say i am the only kid who uses phone too MUCH in the world
@@aestheticyoongi7263 i use my phone way too much, i bet i use it more than you, but its not a problem because (some people, including me) use their devices to escape reality, at least thats what i do.
@@aestheticyoongi7263 same
@@aestheticyoongi7263 it's a fucking truth ..they always tell me that
So true😭
When I was diagnosed with depression and OCD no one from my family didn't think that I was sick and this is very important to normalize being mentally ill and we have to raise awareness about mental illness and make the people not to stigmatized mental illness, PLEASE TELL THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU THAT IT IS OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY.
Imagine going through teenage depression and at the same time, things like fake friends, parents that fight, a broken family etc makes you feel worse abt yourself.
The thing is most people with depression don’t wanna say becasue they might feel that people think they are lying or overreacting
10 subs without any vids ! True I have a friend and didn’t know she was depressed until we were going away with our orchestra for one week (I don’t know how to say it in english I’m from germany) and when we were going to eat she always had to take medicaments and then we ask why she had to take them and told us about it
Yep that's exactly that, when someone kills themselves people always say "why they didn't told us ??" But when someone actually does, they're "attention seeker" so that's why we're 70% without help
I’m scared that if I’ll tell someone, they’ll say that I’m doing it for attention.
Melena Davis I had to go through that and when I finally told my friends they started laughing and saying sure 😭 I hope your ok 💔 I am here if you wanna talk
I don't say anything because if no one cares it hurts even worse and i don't know if i can handle that
Never show the world what u feel
You'll just be misunderstood
They'll just call you atention-seeker
That's how dark the world is
Then let us be the light my friend! Let's push out there hatred and become our own light
Yes it is
People just say you are faking it WHICH IS VERY ROOD and might make someone even more depressed so plz stop saying that they are faking bc you dont know what they will do to themselves to hide it beleive me I am a persob who hides my depression
the worst part is that you're right
Corinne Irish Angeles ....so true....🖤
Hey! You are doing this wonderfully! If you are thinking on being in the film industry, do not stop. This content is excellent
To every person going through this, just know that you are an extraordinary person. It doesn’t matter what the world tells you or what the world thinks of you. It doesn’t matter what social media or a mirror says about you. You are STRONG. You are BEAUTIFUL. You are SPECIAL. You are UNIQUE. You are YOU, and that’s something to be proud of. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. God made you exactly the way He wanted you. If you don’t know who you’re meant to be, He did, and He does. He’ll help you, even when nobody else will.
Sending love and prayers to everyone going through this. You CAN make it through this. You WILL make it through this.
May God bless every single on of y’all.❤
“Your fine”
“It’s just a mood swing”
“You’ll get over it”
“It’s hormones”
I can’t sleep at night knowing that nobody bothers to ask me if I’m okay
Are you ok?
Now somebody asked you. Hope you sleep netter now
Are you alright? I care. You really do matter & I’m always here if you want to talk!
Does seeing comments of people you will never meet in real life make you feel better?Stop complaining and do something instead
@@OndrejSlam that's so unnecessarily rude! They can spend their time however they want to
@@Julia-en5ys I'm not rude,sweetheart.I am just being honest.
When she changed the reply to "I'm fine" it hurt
Its relatable😞
It's totally relatable
Yep
I say I'm fine...... when I'm not 😞
When you LITERALY have deep depression and you read this message and then you REALIZE in what have you become...
Nobody is ugly, everyone is beautiful in their own way. You should never feel ugly because you’re not.
For anyone suffering right now, please know you're not alone. If you left, the people in your life would be devastated. And if you need proof, tell them what you've been going through, and they will help you through it. If they're not the people you want to talk to, talk to me. I'm a very good listener, and I would love to help in any way I can. Please keep fighting, I know you have it in you💛💛
I want my future self to hug my current self, telling me... everything is going to be ok
Edit (1/1/22): thank you all so much for the nice comments💕It makes me feel so loved
everything's going to be okay, i promise :) just keep fighting and dont be scared to show emotions, we all have been there. you are not alone, i love you and stay strong
@@noomirenstrom3022 thank you! You're so sweet
@@ashhxlyly You're welcome, thank you!
Sometimes things don't seems so right but at the end of every tunnel there's light. Be strong.
@@saarah9460 👍❤❤❤❤❤😔
My definition of “fine” depressed, alone, stressed, stupid, tired, hate myself, nobody loves me, nobody understands me, I’m useless, how would people feel if I were dead?
hey. it’ll get better i promise. there are people out there that love you and if you die, you are just passing ur pain onto someone else. you’re not alone 💟 i’m here to speak
Same
@@j4ycals how are we passing the pain? It will be end of the pain. Don't you think?
@@ankitaprasad5713 It's like making them feel regret for what they did to you. Some people still loves you even you didn't know
@@rainehanc240 No I don't want them to regret. Because without me there life would be much better. And I don't think they love me anymore!
These are the kids who once had happy days
After losing my mom I have been depressed for now almost a year. She was my everything and best friend who never neglected me. I don't know what to do with my life even though I promised to keep her legacy going